Reject the Regular

BONUS- Alex talks about his experience at Orlando Universal Studios. Warning If you listen you will want to go.

Back in AZ some of my habits were wild! As we moved, we stopped having excuses not to do things that would be the best version of our lives. Let us be honest, habits are hard to change! We recommend listening so you know how we were able to do one change at a time.

At 30 years old we found out we had no idea who we were. We thought what we were good at was who we were. Well, it didn't add up to me so we decided to take some time and learn who we are. We still are learning our identity, but this helps us show up in our business and life a lot better.

Maybe this was clickbait? Look, most of the time I would never clickbait you. Hear me out. I needed you to listen to this episode, so you would understand why values are important! Go follow Reject The Regular at Facebook, Instagram, and YouTube

When Angel suggested that we do a value exercise, I thought, mmm, I'll pass. Well, I'm glad he convinced me to do it. It brought a ton of clarity to my life, and why I felt the emotions I did to others. Listen to find out what our values are. Go Follow Reject The Regular at Facebook, Instagram, and YouTube!

When we first heard of meditation we rolled our eyes. How is sitting down in silence or relaxing music going to help me? Well, I have a saying if it won't hurt you then try it once. As much as I would love to say meditation will hurt me, it wasn't going to. Listen to see what we think of meditation. Go follow Reject The Regular at Facebook, Instagram, and YouTube

Our son keeps it real and tells you the good, the bad, and the ugly. Nothing is ever off limit with this kid. He keeps us humble

By now you guys know we're BIG into dreams. We love hearing and supporting other's dreams. The thing is we can get caught in the bigger picture and miss the now. I'm guilty of this! When looking for a place to rent, focusing on the small list then the dream list helped. I believe in getting everything you want, it won't happen overnight though. Listen to what we decided to compromise on in the podcast. Go follow Reject the Regular at Instagram, Facebook, and YouTube.

I used to wonder why all my dreams felt so far away from me. I knew the dream and yet it was hard for me to get moving on the dream. I wanted everything to look perfect. It had to look or sound a certain way before I would post anything. Then BAM it hit me I'm the reason my dreams aren't happening. Well that was an eye opener and now I knew how I was able to make the impossible possible. Go Follow Reject The Regular at Instagram, Facebook, and Youtube!

Are you like me and your thoughts run wild?? Sometimes I would create a whole conversation that hadn't even happen. I started thinking "what a waste of headspace". For us recognizing and understanding our thoughts helped us tremendously! Listen to find out what's inside our crazy head lol. Go follow us Reject The Regular on Instagram, Facebook, and YouTube

We're being honest on what kept us at Jen's mom's home for so longggg! We have a ton of excuses on why we should have stayed there for so long. Thankfully we rejected that and now live in Puerto Rico! Go Follow Us over on Facebook or Instagram or both at Reject The Regular!

At the beginning of 2019 moving out of Jenn's mom's home only felt like a dream. Listen to see how we went from there to Puerto Rico in 1 year! Go follow us on Facebook or Instagram at Reject The Regular.

There's a quote "If your dreams don't scare you there not big enough!" It's true and we had to realize we kept limiting our dreams to match the life we had Let us know on Facebook or Instagram how you're not going to settle anymore.

Welcome to a new year of Reject The Regular! We have been in a middle of a move, if you want to see all the excitement go to our Facebook or Instagram page at Reject The Regular. Thank you for joining us today! Leave a comment on one of our posts saying whats your dream!

Here's what a wrap up on what we experienced in 2020. Look this year was a hell lot of growth for us. We stepped out of our comfort zone and made some big changes. This is not the end though! We now jump into 2021 in to a new scene. Thankful for 2020 and the lessons I've learned and the opportunities we're grabbing! Go Follow Us At Instagram and Facebook at Reject The Regular

Alex continues to join us and talk about comedians. His dream is to meet Fluffy one day. Might as well start putting some action into his dreams!

I understand why everyone keeps asking us why. We decided to once again get UNCOMFORTABLE and take a risk. I have now come to a point that I know if I don't risk anything, I won't gain anything. Go Follow Us On Instagram and Facebook at Reject The Regular

Being transparent I didn't always work or prioritize my marriage. Angel and I have been married for 7 years now. I've learned that I don't want to wait till my marriage is going bad to work on it, I want to work on it when it's good as well. Now this doesn't mean that we don't run into problems or have disagreements. It means that we're in a healthy space to deal with them since we've been working on our marriage already. Don't forget to follow us on Instagram and Facebook at Reject The Regular!

I recorded this last month, it was when I was feeling blah. I wanted to share our human side of not always feeling motivated. Hearing this reminds me of how I was feeling overwhelmed and frustrated. Not everything is rainbows and sunshine, yet allowing me to be honest and just work through the emotions helps me move on faster. Go follow us at Facebook and Instagram at Reject The Regular

I will say I don't like a challenge. I love being good at things, so when something come hard to me I want to give up. That's the perfection side of me that I have to push aside. The task may not be the result I want but I believe in progress over perfection! Go Follow us at Instagram and Facebook at Reject The Regular

We raised our kids on racing Mario Kart. As parent we were ruthless and would beat them. Now the tables have turned and they love beating us now.

I understand that feeling safe is something we all love. I was a safety junky, I never wanted to risk or be uncomfortable. Once I started this journey I realized I was the reason why we have been in the same place for years. It cost me years of feeling as if I was on a hamster wheel.

I know we've been putting a lot of money content out there. I could imagine hearing you guys say "give it a break". Listen, I thought the same way. Why is it only people that are successful talk about money? They found out the secret about it.

Are you missing opportunities? Don't know where to start? Well we've got you! Lets stop over complicating things. The way to start is saying yes to the opportunities in front of you!

Angel talks about how on his days off what he thought of others when we would run errands. Many times we have thoughts that are actually showing how we feel about ourselves. What funny is now I think people think of this about him. Go follow us on Instagram and Facebook at Reject The Regular!

Enjoy this episode, it's hilarious!

Here's an update on where we are on our debt. Having debt is never easy and adds unnecessary stress in life. Our goal is to get rid of all our debt which looks possible now. In beginning of 2020 we started with $40,000 of debt! We're now at $25,000! The lower we go in debt the easier it is to see light at the end of the tunnel! Go follow us at Facebook and Instagram at Reject The Regular

Here's a sneak peak of how Angel and I talk things out when we're not sure the answer. We process and see things differently, this is something that helps us both get clarity on items.

Now this easier said then done right!?! All my life I've cared what other had to say about me. I'm too loud, opinionated, and my biggest not educated enough. Let me say at one point in my life this hurt a hell a lot! It took a long time to get to the place of "what people think of me is none of my business". I hope this episode inspires you and helps you start not caring what people think of you. Go Follow us on Instagram and Facebook at Reject The Regular

Have you ever felt you don't have enough time to get everything done, and you also don't have the money to hire some of the tasks out? Well we thought the same, honestly I didn't even know where to begin on handing out tasks, although once we did it there's no going back.

Welcome to a new series with our son coming in and sharing his thoughts. He will be talking on how Angel coached him on how to negotiate. If you have kids have them listen to this series Alex will not disappoint you.

Have you ever asked your self how do I start a becoming my own boss? We wanted to share our experience to help you, plus if we are able to do it then we KNOW you're able to do this as well.

So Angel has been a full time CEO now for 3 weeks. Man this is tough. We're learning each other all over again!

Do you ever see someone and think "Wow I wish I had their confidence." Us too! To be honest I always pretended to be confident, I mean let's be honest I didn't want anyone to know that I felt like I had NO IDEA WHAT I WAS DOING! Well starting my cookie business actually helped me build my confidence, actually getting into business helped. How? Well listen to the podcast to find out. Go Follow Us at Facebook and Instagram at Reject The Regular

Your car breaks down, you're fighting with a family member, you lost your job, or your bank account is negative. When we see the negative it's easy to think that life is crappy. Ever heard of the expression When it rains it pours. It's easy to get caught up in seeing all the hard times, that when something positive or opportunity happens you miss it. Now look all the examples I put has happened in our life, we understand that it's not hard to dwell on the crappiness. Challenge yourself for every hard situation that happens or you think of, that you will think of do or think something positive in your life. Go follow us at Facebook and Instagram at Reject The Regular

Yes, you read that right! We were teenage parents. By the age of 18 we had 2 boys and decided to stop. If we could do this after having kids at a young age, you can do anything. Enjoy our story! Follow us on Instagram and Facebook at Reject The Regular

Isn't funny how easy negative thoughts are able to creep in our minds??? This one belief in not needing the DREAM house was there for a couple of months. We kept justifying on why we shouldn't purchase this home in a few years. Now think for second and what negative belief is stopping you from going after your DREAMS? Go Follow us at Instagram and Facebook: Reject The Regular

Let me be real, working with your spouse is in the top 5 of this ish is HARD! Now don't get me wrong this has taken a long time to get these roles and communication is big part of this. We're still working on this and have to be patient with on another. If you're finding it hard to work with your spouse: Don't Give Up - This takes time so be patient with each other Ask Questions - This helps eliminate assumptions and possible fights Dream Together - Remember why you started the business together and where you plan to go. Don't forget the dream Don't forget to Follow us at Instagram and Facebook at Reject The Regular

"Change is inevitable, Growth is Optional" - John Maxwell I feel like it was 3 months ago we were talking about change and here we are again. I love the quote from John Maxwell, in 2020 there has been nothing but change from month to month. This was an easy decision for us to move forward with our life. The hard part is accepting that life is working for us not against us. Don't forget to Follow us on Instagram and Facebook at Reject The Regular

Who remembers blowing out their candles and wishing for something BIG?? I know I do! The truth is wishing doesn't help make dreams come true. What does you ask? Well take a listen and you find out! Don't forget to follow us on Facebook and Instagram at Reject The Regular Until Then, Dream Big Take Action! A&J

You're probably thinking Jenn did a typo, she meant to type Failure not Success. Well friends it's not a typo. Reality is I still have huge fear of success. Instead of leaning away from the fear, I lean towards it now. We know what failure looks like, what does success look to you though? Follow us on Instagram and Facebook at Reject The Regular

Do you ever wish there was a magic wand and poof you are were you would like to be in business? Well we don't have a magic wand but we have 3 ways that's helped us go faster in business and building a 6 figure business. Don't forget to follow us on Facebook and Instagram at Reject The Regular

Learning is the key in Life... and have we learned what we will never do again. In order to be successful you need to change some things. It could be the way you speak, think, or actions. We wanted to share what and why we choose to no longer do these items that hold us back from our Dreams. Follow us on Facebook and Instagram at Reject The Regular

Look, we know you saw the title and thought these people are crazy! Well, maybe we are! Just take 20 minutes of your time and listen on why we don't believe saving every dollar is going to get you that dream life! If this episode provokes any emotion towards money, understand it did for us too. Go to Facebook or Instagram and let us know your thoughts on this at: Reject The Regular.

Here's the truth, staying 100% motivated 24/7 is impossible! You're able to re-motivate yourself though when you realize you're losing steam. Go follow us on Facebook and Instagram at Reject The Regular!

Let me be 100% honest here. Anger was my go to reaction and ended up costing me a lot of words I'm unable to take back. In 2018 I was done and wanted a change. I had to learn knew ways of dealing with things and most of all, allowing myself to feel emotions. We all have emotions. That's okay. I don't know how this trend of "don't be emotional" started but I will tell you..... IT'S BS! Look, you might think this doesn't relate to you. Listen first then go to one of our social media pages and tell me what you think. Promise I won't react. Don't forget to follow us on Instagram and Facebook at Reject The Regular

When I hear the word investment I right away used to think 401K, Roth IRA, and stock market. Now I think of it differently, for example clothing (which I talk about in the podcast as well) do I want this blouse to last me a couple of months or a few years. Now that I'm aware of investing in myself, business, and family. I'm more intentional on how I want to use time, money, and effort. Don't get me wrong though I still spend. You have to keep life fun as well. A&J Don't forget to follow us on Facebook and Instagram at Reject The Regular

Perfectionism is a real thing! We've all wanted to have everything look, sound, and be a certain way. Let me ask you a question has that stopped you from moving forward on your goals? I'm going to take a huge guess and say, YES! Look if you want to not be in the same place as yesterday you need to listen to this! Don't forget to follow us on Instagram and Facebook at Reject The Regular Also we're on YouTube! We just uploaded our second video and we're only telling you guys.

Bonus Episode!! I don't know about you but cruises are the shit! Here's why: Unlimited Food Casino's Movie Theater Shows Bingo Free Child Care that your kids love Ocean Tropical Drinks Beautiful Beaches Did I say unlimited food The list goes on for us and our boys. Don't forget to follow us on Facebook and Instagram at Reject The Regular Also we started a YouTube channel and only people who read the description know about it shhhh

Confidence is something that EVERYONE deals with. It's easy to keep saying all those negative thoughts to yourself and never push forward. We realized that if we acknowledge the self doubt and do the hard things anyway, it helps build confidence. Don't believe us? Listen to the podcast! Want to know more? Follow us at Facebook and Instagram at Reject The Regular We also have a YouTube channel call Reject The Regular go check it out!

We've gone on plenty of road trips before, although this one was different. Sometimes we don't even realize that our lives need a change until BAM we hear someone talking and feels like they've been reading your diary. Making you realize you're stuck and need a change. In ONE year we changed our lives! Now we even have a YouTube channel. What!?! Look I don't know about you, but I'm going to keep taking road trip to change my life! Follow us on Facebook and Instagram at Reject The Regular Also you can find our YouTube Channel: Reject The Regular