Podcasts about Perfectionism

In this timeless, we explore the “ladder” - the system of hierarchies that tells us which bodies are worthy and which are not. From racism, ableism and capitalism to beauty standards and perfectionism, the ladder keeps us climbing for external validation and always leaves us feeling not enough. Radical self-love offers another way. It asks us to step off the ladder, to revisit the stories that placed us on it and to begin divesting from the messages that keep us trapped. It calls us back to our inherent worth, our divinity and our wholeness. Sonya Renee Taylor Sonya lays out her radical self-love vision. She is a New York Times best-selling author, world-renowned activist and thought leader on racial justice, body liberation and transformational change, international award winning artist, and founder of The Body Is Not an Apology (TBINAA), a global digital media and education company exploring the intersections of identity, healing, and social justice through the framework of radical self-love.  This is not easy work, but it is possible through honesty, community, grace and a willingness to embrace our own complexity. And as we do it, we create the conditions not only to free ourselves, but to dismantle the ladder for everyone. We hope this short piece roots softly in your body.   For links and more, visit www.allthatweare.org

“Everything we do is a habit.” Connect With Our SponsorsGreyFinch - https://greyfinch.com/jillallen/SmileSuite - http://getsmilesuite.com/ Summary In this engaging conversation, Lesley Logan shares her transformative journey from a corporate job to becoming a Pilates instructor and coach. She discusses the importance of prioritizing oneself, overcoming perfectionism, and creating space for personal and professional growth. Lesley emphasizes the need for effective goal setting and building habits that lead to success, while also addressing the challenges faced by business owners, particularly in high-pressure environments. The discussion is filled with practical strategies and insights that resonate across various industries, making it a valuable resource for anyone looking to enhance their personal and professional lives. Connect With Our Guest Lesley Logan - https://lesleylogan.cohttps://onlinepilatesclasses.com/ Takeaways Lesley's journey began with a corporate job that didn't fulfill her.Pilates helped Lesley connect with herself and discover her true desires.Helping others prioritize themselves leads to better relationships and work environments.Perfectionism can hinder progress and should be managed with kindness.Creating space in your schedule is essential for personal growth.Goals should be broken down into actionable steps that fit into your schedule.Outsourcing tasks can free up time for more important activities.Building habits requires starting small and being consistent.Motivation is not always reliable; focus on creating systems instead.Your unique perspective and passion are what set you apart in your field.Chapters 00:00 Lesley's Journey to Pilates and Self-Discovery06:11 The Impact of Perfectionism on Business Owners12:01 Navigating the Challenges of Entrepreneurship17:53 Creating Space for Self-Care and Growth24:20 Outsourcing for Efficiency27:51 Evaluating and Prioritizing Tasks30:16 The Importance of Delegation34:21 Setting and Achieving Goals39:50 Building Effective Habits Are you ready to start a practice of your own? Do you need a fresh set of eyes or some advice in your existing practice?Reach out to me- www.practiceresults.com.     If you like what we are doing here on Hey Docs! and want to hear more of this awesome content, give us a 5-star Rating on your preferred listening platform and subscribe to our show so you never miss an episode.    New episodes drop every Thursday!    Episode Credits:  Hosted by Jill AllenProduced by Jordann KillionAudio Engineering by Garrett Lucero

Seasonal shifts are the perfect chance to reset, and in this solo episode, Victoria shares what she's doing to reset this fall, and how you can too. From choosing three guiding words for the season to upgrading her workout routine, organizing her home, and planning intentional gatherings, Vic walks through the small shifts that can make the last stretch of the year feel purposeful and aligned. She also dives into curating a cozy fall reading list, creating a calming space, and why planning ahead for the holidays can be so helpful for your mental health. Tune in to feel inspired, organized, and ready to embrace the new season with intention.Links!The Slight Edge By Jeff OlsonThe Hidden Habits of a Genius by Craig Wright The Women by Kristen HannahAmazon Kindle Paperwhite// SPONSORS // BetterHelp: Visit betterhelp.com/realpod today to get 10% off your first month. CozyEarth: Get 40% off at cozyearth.com when you use REALPOD. Asics: Visit asics.com and use code REALPOD at checkout for10% off your first purchase. Exclusions may apply.Function: Learn more and join using my link. The first 1000 get a $100 credit toward their membership.Visit www.functionhealth.com/REALPOD or use gift code REALPOD100 at sign-up to own your health.Please note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode. Produced by Dear Media. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Clear Channels, our newsletter course and creativity challenge begins on September 7th! Sign up here.What if your day job wasn't the thing that defined your creativity—but the fuel for it?In this solo episode, Sarah Faith Gottesdiener explores what it means to live as a creative when your 9–5, side hustle, or paycheck doesn't match your artistry. From reframing the shame of “non-creative” work to building daily practices that keep your imagination alive, Sarah shares hard-earned wisdom from her own path before her creative and spiritual life became her livelihood.You'll hear:Why all work is inherently creative, and how to start seeing your life through an artistic lensThe three most common mindset traps that keep people stuck and how to move past themWhy consistency and micro-movements matter more than waiting for the “perfect” momentHow nervous system safety and capacity play a crucial role in showing up creativelyStories of artists like Octavia Butler, William Carlos Williams, and Toni Morrison, who balanced day jobs with world-changing creative workThis is a motivating episode about reclaiming your identity as an artist or creative, no matter where your paycheck comes from, and finding joy in the small daily commitments that keep your creative life alive.Upcoming Events:September 6, 2025 + September 7, 2025: Clear Channels Online Workshop – https://moon-studio.co/products/clear-channels-fall-2025?variant=50100396327207Join Our Community:Join the Moon Studio Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/themoonstudioBuy the 2025 Many Moons Lunar Planner: https://moon-studio.co/collections/all-products-excluding-route/products/many-moons-2025Subscribe to our newsletter: https://moon-studio.co/pages/newsletterFind Sarah on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gottesss/

Do you ever feel like you're stuck in autopilot mode, running through the motions without really asking if you're living the life you truly want? Most of us have at least one habit that feels out of alignment, whether it's scrolling at night, overindulging, or staying in a draining job. We judge ourselves harshly, wondering why we can't break free. But what if these habits are not the problem? What if, instead, they're signals that point to something deeper?   In this episode, I offer a new perspective on habits, especially those we label as "bad." Instead of seeing them as flaws to be fixed, I invite you to understand the deeper, often protective reasons behind them. When we approach our habits with curiosity and compassion, we start to recognize that everything we do makes sense when viewed in the context of our life experiences and what we've been taught to value.   Get full show notes, transcript, and more information here: https://habitsonpurpose.com/186

Why do we think things have to be perfect? What are we trying to avoid in our attempts to make things perfect? Co-founder of Sister I'm With You Jess Johnston is on the AllMomDoes podcast with Julie Lyles Carr to talk about why we are afraid to show up as our true selves, what role boundaries play in authenticity, and why letting go of perfectionism can be the best thing you can do to find community.Show Notes: https://bit.ly/4kwu6au 

Consistency builds trust. Perfectionism kills progress. In this episode, Jeremy Miner sits down with Matt Gottesman, 3x founder, top-ranked podcaster, and creator of The Niche Is You®, to unpack the real psychology of building a brand that actually lasts. Matt shares how to resist chasing trends, why devotion beats discipline, and the simple shifts that will keep your audience loyal for years. Whether you're a creator, entrepreneur, or sales professional, this conversation will help you align your work with who you really are and build something people can trust. Chapters (00:00) Introduction (05:24) Why Consistency Builds Trust and Authority (09:42) Stop Trying to Be the Next Someone Else (15:09) Evolving Without Losing Your Core Identity (17:29) Devotion vs Discipline in Mastery (26:05) Authenticity, Trust, and Building in Public (39:28) Clarity, Decisions, and Trusting Yourself

Keren Eldad (“Coach Keren”) is a top executive coach helping high achievers—from Olympic athletes to Fortune 500 leaders—reach extraordinary success. As the bestselling author of GILDED: Break Free From the Cage of Ambition, Perfectionism, and the Relentless Pursuit of More, she challenges ambitious individuals to redefine success on their own terms. As the founder of THE CLUB, Keren empowers high performers to unlock their full potential. Recognized as a Top Ten Executive Coach by the ICF, Real Leaders Magazine, and Goop, she holds advanced degrees from The London School of Economics and the University of Jerusalem. A former C-suite executive with experience in 17 countries, she coaches in English, Spanish, Hebrew, and French. With over 500,000 TEDx views and a global speaking presence, Keren's insights inspire leaders worldwide. She lives in Austin, Texas, with her husband, Ryan, and their beloved pets. To know more about Keren visit her website and socials: Website - https://kereneldad.com/ Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/coachkeren Tiktok - https://www.tiktok.com/coachkeren Podcast - https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/coached-with-coach-keren/id1467079024

Perfectionism and people pleasing sneak into our homes, schedules, and even our self-worth. Certified life coach Kamini Wood joins Deanna to share how limiting beliefs create clutter, how to set healthy boundaries, and simple mindset shifts that bring balance, joy, and a clutter-free life filled with intention. **************** Resources Mentioned: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Get my children's book: Lenora and Her Super Duper Messy Room⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Get all the links and resources at wannabeclutterfree.com/272⁠⁠⁠ Connect with Kamini Wood ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Kamini's Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠RiseUp: Live Joy Your Way Podcast Follow Deanna Yates, the host of Wannabe Clutter Free on: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Facebook⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ **************** High achievers often pride themselves on getting things done—but at what cost? When perfectionism, people pleasing, and limiting beliefs drive our choices, the result is often burnout, resentment, and clutter (both in our homes and in our minds). In this powerful conversation, I sit down with certified life coach Kamini Wood, who helps high achievers release old patterns, overcome self-sabotage, and create balanced, purpose-driven lives. Together, we explore how perfectionist pressure sneaks into our organizing habits, why people pleasing keeps us holding on to stuff we don't love, and the tools we can use to finally feel free. We Cover: How perfectionism and people pleasing show up in your home, routines, and mindset The JADE method to stop over-explaining and reclaim your voice Why boundaries are a process, not a one-time fix How to recognize limiting beliefs and shift toward values-based goals Practical ways to declutter both your space and your mind for more balance and joy If you've ever felt like you “should” be able to handle it all on your own, this episode is the reminder that you don't have to—and that freedom comes when you let go of the clutter, inside and out. Time Stamps: 00:00 Welcome & Deanna's high achiever confession 00:42 Meet Kamini Wood 03:59 Common limiting beliefs holding women back 06:43 Balancing productivity with rest and self-care 08:12 Emotional awareness: feelings as data points 14:34 The “Next Thing” trap for high achievers 17:06 Creating calm vs. chasing Pinterest-perfect homes 23:08 Energy management and shifting values 26:17 Boundaries & the messy process of delegation 27:08 The lasagna story: letting go of perfection 28:45 Radical acceptance in everyday life 31:04 Parenting, modeling, and breaking old patterns 33:03 Repairing relationships with self-awareness 36:23 People pleasing through clutter & gift guilt 42:25 One simple mental decluttering exercise 43:36 Rapid fire questions & closing thoughts **************** Music: Fresh Lift by Shane Ivers - ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.silvermansound.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ **************** We'd love to hear how you're applying the strategies discussed in this episode. Share your stories and tips with us on social media (@wannabeclutterfree). Don't forget to subscribe for more insightful episodes designed to make your busy life a bit easier. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

If you are a parent or coach of young athletes, you need to learn all you can about the common mental health challenges and issues experienced by many young athletes. On this episode, Dr Riley Nickols, counselor, sports psychologist, author, and founder of Mind, Body, Endurance shares his expertise and experience gained by working with many elite, young athletes. Dr Nickols discusses the the topic of performance anxiety in youth sports, providing perspective on the difference between normal nervousness vs true anxiety that can become crippling for a young athlete. the discussion includes the signs that parents and coaches can identify, and the reality that the physical discomfort of play that many athletes are used to ignoring often leads to trying to press through mental health issues that shouldn't be ignored. Dr Nickols also discusses the area of perfectionism that many athletes wrestle with, including how to have a healthy approach. In addition, Dr Nickols has deep expertise in the areas of disordered eating, eating disorders, and overtraining, which many young athletes wrestle with, both girls and boys. Finally, Dr Nickols discusses the mental health challenges that often accompany physical injuries that athletes experience, providing guidance on how to address these challenges and provide adequate attention to the overall mental health of your young athlete.

Perfectionism can be a super-skill… until it quietly becomes the very thing holding you back. In this episode, I'm sharing the results of a not-so-secret experiment I've been running to break free from overthinking, reclaim my time, and find more presence in my life. What started as a simple shift in how I approached this podcast turned into a powerful lesson about pressure, productivity, and freedom. If you've ever felt weighed down by your own high standards or found yourself second-guessing decisions to the point of exhaustion, this episode will give you a fresh perspective and a few practical strategies you can use right away.   Resources: Get full show notes and more information here: https://www.burnstressloseweight.com/177 Get my Hormones Training: http://burnstressloseweight.com/hormones Check out my private podcast for lasting weight loss here: https://www.theunstoppablemombrain.com/bodyreset

Wendy Grijalva: How Victim Shaming Changed Everything | The Hopeaholics PodcastWendy Grijalva delivers a raw and inspiring exploration of her journey through addiction, trauma, and recovery. Wendy, celebrated for her impactful presence at a "Recover Out Loud" event, shares her story with vulnerability, detailing a childhood marked by feeling like the "black sheep" in a stable middle-class family, early physical development at age 9 that led to harassment, and a traumatic incident at 11 where she witnessed a fatal accident, sparking deep guilt. Her adolescence spiraled into rebellion, with her first heavy drinking and pregnancy in ninth grade, followed by a loss of her musical talents due to substance use. Wendy candidly discusses her struggles with perfectionism, fear of failure, and self-harm, which fueled her addiction, and the profound loss of her partner George to suicide, which left her grappling with blame and unresolved amends. In recovery, she embraces a spiritual practice centered on six pillars—breathing, gratitude, intentions, meditation, mindful movement, and eating—while emphasizing "progress not perfection" and the power of affirmations to rewire her mindset. Now transitioning to teaching meditation in recovery centers, Wendy sees her calling in helping others find peace through self-care, turning her pain into purpose. The episode weaves humor, raw emotion, and spiritual insights, highlighting the importance of humility, trust in a higher power, and service in overcoming addiction, making it a powerful testament to resilience and healing.#thehopeaholics  #redemption #recovery #AlcoholAddiction #AddictionRecovery #wedorecover #SobrietyJourney #MyStory #Hope #wedorecover #treatmentcenter #natalieevamarieJoin our patreon to get access to an EXTRA EPISODE every week of ‘Off the Record', exclusive content, a thriving recovery community, and opportunities to be featured on the podcast. https://patreon.com/TheHopeaholics Go to www.Wolfpak.com today and support our sponsors. Don't forget to use code: HOPEAHOLICSPODCAST for 10% off!Follow the Hopeaholics on our Socials:https://www.instagram.com/thehopeaholics https://linktr.ee/thehopeaholicsBuy Merch: https://thehopeaholics.myshopify.comVisit our Treatment Centers: https://www.hopebythesea.comIf you or a loved one needs help, please call or text 949-615-8588. We have the resources to treat mental health and addiction. Sponsored by the Infiniti Group LLC:https://www.infinitigroupllc.com Timestamps:00:02:18 - Overall Philosophy: Progress, Humility, and Service00:03:49 - Struggles with Perfectionism, Fear of Failure, and Self-Harm00:05:05 - Learning Humility in Recovery00:05:54 - Daily Spiritual Practices: The "Six Pillars"00:07:35 - Power of Words and Affirmations in Recovery00:09:33 - "Act As If" in Recovery and Character Defects00:12:06 - Loss of Musical Passion Due to Substance Use00:13:12 - Impact of Mother's Alcoholic Upbringing on Family Dynamics00:13:33 - Early Childhood and Feeling Like the "Black Sheep"00:15:37 - Developing Early and Facing Teasing/Harassment00:16:47 - Traumatic Witness to a Fatal Accident at Age 1100:18:07 - Ditching School and Early Negative Experiences01:32:42 - Transition to Teaching Meditation in Recovery Centers01:43:40 - Loss of Partner George to Suicide01:50:31 - Turning Pain into Purpose for Others

This Q&A is overflowing with bold, vulnerable, and relatable questions from my FREE GROUP COACHING gathering. It's playful, honest, and deeply empowering. Zero shame, zero filter — only truth, guidance, and pussy wisdom. In this episode, I answer: How to rebuild intimacy and desire after heartbreak in a long-term relationship Keeping the sexual spark alive in long-term relationships How to communicate likes and dislikes in bed without offending my husband How to express wanting a highly sexual partner while dating, without attracting men only seeking casual sex Are any sexual fantasies “unhealthy”? Struggling with arousal after having a child and feeling unsatisfied with quick, non-nourishing orgasms How to tell my partner I want deeper sexual growth and fulfillment when I feel too shy Overcoming shame around quick masturbation after trauma and learning to enjoy “quickies” with myself Why did my body shut down sexually after breakthrough orgasmic experiences at age 57? You can still join the FREE GROUP COACHING with me - it's free!! You the recording from the first session and are invited to the final session on Wednesday, August 27th. https://www.erika-alsborn.com/free-group-coaching Join my mastermind SHAMELESS https://www.erika-alsborn.com/shameless Related episodes: 91: The language of touch and using sensual massage as a path to deeper relationship intimacy 98: Unleash and embody the Slut Archetype for the best sex and pleasure! → 90: Perfectionism is blocking you from intimacy, pleasure and partnered sex → Let's connect! Come join me and like-minded women in my FREE women-only, sex-positive community – Pleasure Rebels Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/plsrebels Follow and reach out on IG: https://www.instagram.com/erikaalsborn

What if perfectionism, hyper-independence, and mom rage aren't character flaws but survival strategies that once served you? In this powerful conversation, trauma therapist Tisheila Justice joins Emily to explore how unhealed wounds resurface in motherhood, why these coping mechanisms feel so hard to let go of, and how we can begin breaking cycles for ourselves and future generations.The conversation gets into:The hidden link between trauma and perfectionism in motherhoodWhy hyper-independence feels safer than asking for helpNervous system regulation tools you can actually use in the momentHow shifting focus from tasks to connection transforms parentingWhy community is one of the most important starting points for healingIf you've ever felt like you should be able to do it all or battled shame around not being the “perfect mom,” this episode will help you reframe, release, and reconnect.

Delanie Fischer is joined by Sam Laura Brown, host of The Perfectionism Project and Founder of Perfectionists Getting Shit Done, to discuss how to approach your personal and professional goals in a way that works with your brain, not against it. Sam shares insights on Power Planning, the importance of clean rest, and an astounding reason why we procrastinate and consistently burnout—it'll change your world forever.Plus:+ The 1 Thing To Screenshot Today To Decode Your Schedule+ Optimal vs. Sufficient (What Perfectionists Must Remember)+ Screw 100% Follow-Through—Why 80% Is Your New Best FriendSelf-Helpless on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/selfhelplessYour Host, Delanie Fischer: https://www.delaniefischer.comEPISODES RELATED TO THIS TOPIC:Cracking The Code To Behavior Change: Troubleshooting Tiny Barriers That Destroy Big Goals with Molly Maxwell: https://www.delaniefischer.com/selfhelplesspodcast/episode/24e651e8/cracking-the-code-to-behavior-change-troubleshooting-tiny-barriers-that-destroy-big-goals-with-molly-maxwell12 ADHD Life Hacks with Em Schulz: https://www.delaniefischer.com/selfhelplesspodcast/episode/252910dc/12-adhd-life-hacks-with-em-schulzHurry Sickness And The Busy Brain Cure with Dr. Romie Mushtaq: https://www.delaniefischer.com/selfhelplesspodcast/episode/243d15fa/hurry-sickness-and-the-busy-brain-cure-with-dr-romie-mushtaqWe Need Your F*cking Art! For Health, Community, and More with Amie McNee: https://www.delaniefischer.com/selfhelplesspodcast/episode/25b6ee3e/we-need-your-fcking-art-for-health-community-and-more-with-amie-mcneeCreating A Life Brief And Getting "Fuzzy Clear" with Bonnie Wan: https://www.delaniefischer.com/selfhelplesspodcast/episode/251bf5df/creating-a-life-brief-and-getting-fuzzy-clear-with-bonnie-wanSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

In this summer bonus episode of The Wellness Scoop, we're asking if perfectionism could be quietly holding back your health goals and revealing the truth about supplements: which are worth your money, which aren't, and how to know the difference. We'll also look at why healthy eating is still a privilege for so many, pets vs partners when it comes to happiness, and the latest wellness trends, from the rise of sobriety to the morning routine obsession and the buzz around “OAT-Zempic.” Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Defeat Perfectionism  and Discover the Art of Self-Acceptance Part 2 of 2 Last week, we published Part 1 of the two-hour webinar on techniques to defeat perfectionism. This week, in Part 2 you'll learn many powerful methods to crush the distorted thoughts that trigger perfectionism, including Identify the Distortions Explain the Distortions The Externalization of Voices The Acceptance Paradox The Counter-Attack Technique The Feared Fantasy Technique Self-Disclosure Relapse Prevention Training And more! You can take a look at the workshop handout if you CLICK HERE! This live, practical training will equip you with powerful, research-backed techniques to help yourself and your clients transform perfectionism into peace, power, self-acceptance, and emotional freedom, all illustrated with dramatic video clips from an actual TEAM CBT session with a woman struggling mightily from brutal self-criticisms, self-doubt, and sleepless nights, due to the very perfectionism that has catapulted her into an incredible career. Thanks for listening today! And please let us know if you like (or do not care for) these two part-podcasts based on one of my two hour webinars with Dr. Jill Levitt!  Jill, David and Rhonda

Hey team! My guest this week is Dr. Ute Liersch, a Chartered Counselling and Coaching Psychologist with over a decade of clinical experience and author of A Minimalist's Guide to Becoming Resilient. Dr. Ute specializes in helping adults navigate anxiety, ADHD, and burnout. Her therapeutic approach is integrative, drawing from modalities such as Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT), Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR), and mindfulness-based therapies. Beyond her clinical practice, Dr. Ute is an associate lecturer at Birkbeck, University of London, and holds a Fellowship in Higher Education. In our conversation, we explore the nervous system beyond the textbook fight-flight-freeze model, including how our nervous system shapes our mood, motivation, and even the way we see the world. Dr. Ute explains why so many of us with ADHD find that our sympathetic nervous system is permanently on edge and how we can work on rewiring that response. We also talk about perfectionism, attention types, and what resilience looks like in real life, breaking it down into actionable steps that fit into our schedules and ADHD brains. If you'd life to follow along on the show notes page you can find that at http://hackingyouradhd.com/240 YouTube: https://tinyurl.com/y835cnrk Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/HackingYourADHD This Episode's Top Tips 1. Our parasympathetic nervous system can get stuck in a permanent state of “go time.” To help move our PNS back to a relaxed state, Dr. Ute suggests progressive muscle relaxation, where you are tensing and then releasing muscle groups one at a time so you can physically feel the shift from tension to ease. 2. Many of us have internalized the idea that there's something fundamentally wrong with the way we work, think, or exist. Dr. Ute suggests replacing this assumption of personal defect with curiosity: “If I weren't wrong, what would I need to feel safe?” This slight shift can open up room to problem-solve and tailor strategies to your actual needs. 3. We often talk about resilience like it's a fixed trait—you either “have it” or you don't. But Dr. Ute points out that resilience is about what you do, not what you are. It's built in small, repeatable actions that teach your nervous system and your mind how to recover from stressors. Resilience isn't about holding it together forever; it's about giving yourself enough space and recovery so you can keep going when you need it the most.

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What happens when perfectionism, academic pressure, and athletics collide with body image struggles? In this powerful episode of Dr. Marianne-Land, I sit down with Dr. Amanda Marie, a psychologist, educator, and mental health advocate who shares her story of battling bulimia throughout her teen years, college, and into her PhD program. Amanda opens up about how her eating disorder began at 15, fueled by a drive for perfect grades, external validation, and the pressure to perform. She talks about how restriction, bingeing, and purging shaped her daily life and how she balanced secrecy, martial arts training, and academic achievement while silently struggling. We explore: How perfectionism and self-worth tied to grades, sports, and appearance can feed into disordered eating The hidden toll bulimia took on Amanda's body, mind, and relationships How academia and high-achieving environments can intensify eating disorders The turning point that inspired Amanda to pursue recovery after years of secrecy and shame The importance of support systems, therapy, and using determination as a strength in healing What Amanda would say to her 15-year-old self and to anyone listening who feels stuck in their eating disorder Amanda's story is one of survival and transformation. She explains how she reclaimed her grit and perseverance, once tied to her eating disorder, and redirected them toward recovery, authenticity, and compassion.

Are you pushing through exhaustion just to "get everything done"—even when your soul is screaming for rest? If you're a highly sensitive person constantly caught between doing what needs to be done and honoring your own energy, this episode is your wake-up call. You'll hear the real-life story of a client swept into literal and emotional chaos—and how questioning just one “positive-sounding” thought gave her the clarity to reclaim balance. In this episode, you'll discover: Why seemingly harmless thoughts like “I shouldn't complain” can sabotage your well-being. How questioning perfectionist patterns can instantly shift your inner state. A powerful mindset turnaround that reminds you: you deserve care just as much as everything else around you. Tune in now to learn how inner work can help you finally rest, reset, and return to yourself.   Todd Smith, founder of True Inner Freedom Dreaming of a stress-free, balanced life? Visit trueinnerfreedom.com and complete the HSP Stress Survey. Gain clarity on your stress triggers and enjoy a free 15-minute Inner Freedom Call designed to guide you toward lasting inner peace and fulfillment. Are you a highly sensitive person (HSP) or someone who identifies as hypersensitive or neurodivergent? This podcast is dedicated to helping highly sensitive people (HSPs) navigate overwhelm and stress by using The Work of Byron Katie—a powerful method for questioning stressful thoughts and finding true inner freedom. We dive deep into stress management strategies, coping with stress, and stress relief methods specifically tailored for HSPs. Learn how to manage emotions, especially negative ones, and explore effective stress reduction techniques that go beyond the surface to address the root causes of anxiety and pressure. Whether you're interested in learning how to lower stress, handle stress and pressure, or reduce stress through practical techniques, we provide insights and support based on The Work of Byron Katie. Discover how this transformative approach can help you decrease stress, find inner peace, and create balance in your life. Join us to learn about various coping strategies for stress, all designed to support HSPs in their journey toward emotional well-being.

IntroductionI discovered another AI app that you can use to create slide show presentations (and videos like the one above). The app, Microsoft Copilot, allows you to create slide shows using PowerPoint. Both Copilot and PowerPoint are part of a Microsoft 365 subscription ($99 per year, personal edition).I started with three lines of information, as shown below. I entered these lines into the Create with Copilot option that comes up when you start up PowerPoint. Within a few minutes, Copilot and PowerPoint generated a sixteen-slide presentation that became the basis for the above video.Writer's Block: In Case of an Emergency, Break the GlassThere really is no such thing as writer's block or any other block to getting things done. Blocks only exist if you let them. If you move on, they melt away.As the blue collar comedians, say, “Get ‘er done!” Move on!The text for the video is showcased below. Note how Copilot took three lines and made sixteen slides with the following extensive content.Microsoft Copilot and PowerPointToday I'm showcasing another presentation program you can use, Microsoft PowerPoint combined with Copilot, to create another version of my writer's block information.So we're going to talk about understanding the concept of writer's block, debunking the myth, the reality of writer's block, practical strategies to overcome perceived blocks, and cultivating long-term productivity and creativity.Writer's block is commonly defined as an inability to generate new ideas or work, causing creative paralysis.These beliefs influence how writers view their creative struggles and shape their response to overcoming challenges.The creative blocks such as this are often portrayed in literature, where creative blocks are often depicted as a mysterious curse impacting writers, especially novelists, symbolizing an insurmountable barrier to creativity.Film and media portray creative blocks as unavoidable challenges that dramatically affect artists and writers' work.Anxiety can cause mental blocks by creating fear and stress that hinder creative thinking and writing flow.Perfectionism leads to unrealistic standards that prevent progress and increase fear of failure in writing tasks.Also, unrealistic expectations create pressure that can block creativity and cause frustration during the writing process.Writer's block is basically a myth.Many experts believe blocks are not a real condition but misconceptions about creativity. Creative pauses are often temporary challenges, not permanent stoppages in writing or creative ability. Also, lack of motivation can cause writing delays mistaken for writer's block.Prolific writers maintain consistent work habits, regardless of obstacles, highlighting consistency over inspiration.Discipline is crucial in overcoming challenges and driving steady creative output among successful creators.Persistence outweighs mysterious creative blocks, enabling writers to produce work consistent with their story.Viewing creative struggles as normal helps writers maintain motivation and reduces frustration during the process.Believing challenges are solvable fosters resilience and encourages persistent effort towards progress.A positive mindset helps sustain continuous progress despite encountering creative blocks.Practical strategies to overcome perceived blocks.Embrace imperfection. By accepting imperfection allows progress by reducing the pressure of perfectionism in creative work.Avoid overthinking. Moving on without over analyzing every detail prevents stagnation and fosters creativity.Set goals. Some of the techniques for maintaining momentum is to set goals.Break tasks into small goals to sustain momentum and make progress manageable and rewarding.Use timed writing sessions to reduce pressure and encourage focused, consistent work intervals.Employ free writing techniques that promote creativity and flow by removing constraints and allowing spontaneous ideas to emerge.Use humor. Humor eases stress and makes creative work more enjoyable, helping to overcome mental blocks.Simplify tasks, reducing overwhelm and making creative work easier and more approachable.Cultivate long-term productivity and creativity.Build resilient writing habits, first by establishing consistent writing routines to help you maintain discipline and overcome creative challenges effectively.Develop writing habits that anchor productivity by creating dependable pathways to sustain creativity and output.Embrace imperfection and continuous progress. Recognize that first drafts are not perfect and that helps reduce pressure and fosters creativity. Be ready to do ongoing revisions to help refine your ideas and improve the quality of work over time.Embrace imperfection enables sustained effort and growth in creative projects.Learn the lessons from blue-collar comedians. Get her done. Blue-collar comedians embody a straightforward practical mindset focused on action rather than excessive planning. The key lesson is to begin tasks promptly to overcome procrastination and build momentum.ConclusionEmphasize completion without overthinking to ensure productivity and success in any endeavor.Recognize that writer's blocks is often a mental barrier rather than an actual inability to write.Dispel common misconceptions about writer's block to foster a healthier writing mindset.And then implement actionable techniques—practical strategies to unlock your productivity and sustain creativity in writing.Gamma Vs. Microsoft Copilot and PowerPointBoth programs produced informative slide show presentations and videos. Personally I preferred the output from Gamma because it included actual examples and stories that enlivened the presentation.Book Marketing Success is a reader-supported publication. 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Episode 81 of The Mental Game brings aboard World Champion mountain biker and mental performance coach Sonya Looney.As one of the top mountain bikers on Earth, Looney won four USA National Championships and a world title in 2015. In ultra-endurance events, she raced for up to 24 hours at a time in locations ranging from the Himalayan Mountains to the Sahara Desert, where she not only pushed her own limits, but gathered insights she now uses as a coach.In her coaching role, Looney focuses on helping high performers deal with perfectionism in their craft. Looney also hosts the Grow the Good podcast, which serves as a guide to continual personal growth and positive world impact for her many listeners. The teachings of Positive Psychology color many of Looney's philosophies — she holds a Master's in Applied Positive Psychology from the University of Pennsylvania and a Master's in Electrical Engineering with a focus on Neuroscience.On The Mental Game, Looney…Dives deep on perfectionism in athletics, how to identify and navigate it. Explains the misconceptions of Positive Psychology — and how to apply it to your life.Reflects on her elite mountain biking career, including what goes into a 24-hour race.And much, much more…The Mental Game podcast is produced by Sam Brief and music is courtesy of David Brief and Channel J. You can subscribe on ⁠Apple Podcasts⁠, ⁠Spotify⁠, ⁠Google Podcasts⁠, ⁠TuneIn⁠ and ⁠Stitcher⁠.

A talk by Thanissaro Bhikkhu entitled "Perfection Without Perfectionism"

I discovered a great AI app that you can start using for free and then pay $5.00 per month for an upgrade. This app, Gamma (https://www.aippt.com), allows you to quickly create slide show presentations. And then use the presentation to create a video like the one above.I started with three lines of information, as shown below. I entered these lines into the Gamma app and within a few minutes, Gamma generated a ten-slide presentations that became the basis for the above video.Writer's Block: In Case of an Emergency, Break the GlassThere really is no such thing as writer's block or any other block to getting things done. Blocks only exist if you let them. If you move on, they melt away.As the blue collar comedians, say, “Get ‘er done!” Move on!The text for the video is showcased below. Note how Gamma took three lines and made ten slides with the following extensive content.In case of an emergency, break glass. The truth about writer's block.Writer's block isn't about what you think it is. It's not an immovable barrier, but rather a temporary obstacle that only exists if you allow it to.This presentation explores the reality behind the myth and provides practical solutions to get your creativity flowing again.The Myth of Writer's BlockJerry Jenkins puts it bluntly, writer's block is a myth. No other profession accepts a block as a legitimate reason to stop working. If you wait for motivation or inspiration to strike before writing, you'll be waiting forever.Creativity doesn't appear on demand. What we call writer's block is actually a combination of fear, procrastination, and perfectionism, masquerading as creative stoppage.Rather than accepting blocks, successful writers develop strategies to push through the resistance.Famous writers who struggled and won.Samuel Taylor Coleridge experienced what he called an indefinite, indescribable terror that prevented him from writing for an entire year in 1804.Paul Sylvia, a psychology professor and author on motivation, went nine months without making progress on his own book about motivation.Despite these profound struggles, both men eventually overcame their creative paralysis by fundamentally changing their mindset and establishing new writing habits.What really causes writer's block?This pie chart showcases from Research Insights, a 2024 University of North Florida study.Psychological factors including stress and anxiety. That's the big dark purple pie slice on the right.Next, fear of criticism, the lower, more lavender pie slice.And then perfectionism, which is the next as we rotate around.Procrastination.And then other factors.Two main types of blocks.There are two main types of blocks, plot block and life block.Plot block occurs when story logic stalls. Character or plot feel stuck.This is a craft problem fixable with patience, restructuring, and narrative technique.Life block results from personal issues that can drain creative energy. It can require addressing deeper needs, self-care, mental health support, or lifestyle adjustments.Recognizing your specific block type is a crucial first step to implementing the right solution.Practical hacks to break the block.You can schedule writing. Treat writing like a job. Paul Sylvia committed to two hours daily. No excuses. Consistency builds momentum and trains your brain for creativity.Step two, you can do free writing. Set a timer for 10 to 15 minutes of unfiltered, unedited writing. This bypasses perfectionism and often produces unexpected insights.And you can change the environment. So if one place isn't working, work at a cafe or park or library. Environmental novelty stimulates new neural connections and fresh perspectives.These practical approaches work because they shift focus from outcomes to process, making writing a habitual action rather than a high stakes performance.Embrace fear and imperfection. The best writing is born of humility. That's from mystery writer and thriller writer Dean Kuntz.Fear is natural and justified. Embrace it as a motivation.Perfectionism kills progress. Done is better than perfect.Writing imperfectly today creates a foundation for better writing.The most prolific writers aren't fearless. They've simply learned to write despite their fears.The power of mindset.Move on and melt the block. Blocks only exist if you let them. Writer's block is a construct we create and maintain.Recognize it as a temporary state, not a permanent condition. As the blue-collar comedians say, get 'er done. Simple forward motion is often the best solution. Action creates its own momentum.An act of faith: Writing requires belief in your ability to figure it out as you go. Trust the process and keep moving forward.Your mindset determines whether obstacles become barriers or stepping stones. Choose to see blocks as temporary challenges rather than immovable obstacles.Motivation is not a gift, it's a choice. Waiting for motivation is like waiting for a bus that may never come. You have to start walking.Here's the motivation equation.Traditional belief: motivation inspires action, which inspires results.The reality: action inspires results, which increases motivation.Motivation is generated by the act of writing itself. The more you write, the more you want to write. Start small, but start today.Your emergency glass, smash it and write.The world needs your story, so get ‘er done.Writer's block is a temporary illusion. It dissolves the moment you decide to move forward despite uncertainty, fear, or imperfection.Your words matter. Break the glass, pick up your pen, and start writing right now.Book Marketing Success is a reader-supported publication. To receive new posts and support my work, consider becoming a paid subscriber.Resources: https://www.bookauthorauthority.comBookstore: https://www.bookmarket.com/bookstore This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit bookmarketing.substack.com/subscribe

I don't know what to say anymore, but I want to say something about the mindset we are taking into this fall of the United States into tyranny. There's a problem with the lens we are looking through that we have to clean up if we want to build a better future out of this mess. We have to let go of perfectionism and let people be out of pocket while they are changing.Give what you can to this GoFundMe to provide hot meals to Palestinian children in north Gaza: https://www.gofundme.com/f/Hot-meals-in-gaza-daily Donate to www.anera.org and if you are in the US go to www.uscpr.org and www.jvp.org for education and prompts for taking action to support Palestine. MECA is on the ground to provide Gaza with medical aid, clean water, food, psychological support, and more. Give what you can at www.mecaforpeace.org  BlueSky: https://bsky.app/profile/blackgirl4rmeugene.bsky.social Substack: https://substack.com/@blackgirlfromeugene YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@blackgirlfromeugene Patreon: www.patreon.com/blackgirlfromeugene_1  Eugene Weekly column: https://eugeneweekly.com/2025/01/16/the-legacy/ KPEW radio: https://kepw.org Supporters Club: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/black-girl-from-eugene--6035717/support Website: https://blackgirlfromeugene.org Nurturely perinatal wellness: https://nurturely.orgMusic: The Sermon - Blue Dot SessionsProduced by: Fox And Raven Media

Virgo Season part 1: Virgo Season begins with a dynamic New Moon (on August 22nd) which forms a square to rebellious Uranus. The transits have us tumbling into eclipse season, accessing the Virgo-Pisces polarity highlighting acts of service, perfectionism, and collective care. There's so much to unpack this Virgo season. With Virgo's analytic super powers we're invited to restructure our mundane lives to more clearly express and embody our values. Virgo season is bookended by New Moons, offering a special window for refining our spells and intentions, and practicing better energetic awareness of our capacity. Enjoy the back-to-school vibes when you can, witches! 

439. Get Free from Perfectionism | Live on Tour  For anyone ready to break free from perfectionism and finally choose themselves – join us today, live from our We Can Do Hard Thing tour. Glennon, Abby, and Amanda talk about why we cling to perfectionism, how growth can strain relationships, and what it means to stay true to yourself. Plus, in an unforgettable moment, Abby surprises Glennon on their anniversary in front of thousands. To learn more about listener data and our privacy practices visit: https://www.audacyinc.com/privacy-policy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit https://podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Do you ever feel like you shouldn't be giving advice, leading a project, or stepping into your own expertise because you're not perfect—or not perfect enough? That's expertise perfectionism—the constant self-doubt that tells you your knowledge isn't enough and that every mistake means you're failing.In this episode, I break down how to spot and release expertise perfectionism, why perfection isn't the baseline for impact, and how to measure your effectiveness by the help you provide rather than the mistakes you fear. I show you how even beginners in any field can act with authority, grow their expertise, and make a meaningful difference—without waiting to feel “ready” or perfect.Get full show notes, transcript, and more information here: https://schoolofnewfeministthought.com/416Mentioned in this episode:Have you been secretly dreaming of becoming a coach?I've got something for you. It's absolutely free and it's called The 3 Things I Wish I'd Known Before Becoming a Life Coach. This is the exact resource I wish I'd had a decade ago when I got my start. To download it, go to: https://the-school-of-new-feminist-thought.captivate.fm/threeClick here to download: 3 Things I Wish I'd Known Before Becoming a Life Coach

“I radiate the hope of the Holy Spirit, instead of the fear of condemnation.” Rose Folsom, a Lay Dominican, received God's transformative healing. After growing up in a home affected by alcoholism, Rose dated a young man who struggled with drug and alcohol addiction. In her journal, Rose compared herself to a “shattered mirror.” She experienced intense anxiety and looked for others' approval to build her sense of identity.  When Rose started attending Al-Anon, she began to experience the healing and transformation she longed for. “Al-Anon is a mutual support program for people whose lives have been affected by someone else's drinking.” Rose was gifted with the blessings of conversion and new life. Listen and develop greater trust and surrender to God. Discover, through God's grace, how to radiate love! Learn how to regain your peace when you're tempted to feel overwhelmed with anxiety at www.rosefolsom.com.

In this episode of the Everyday VOpreneur Podcast, voice actor Robert Starling asks a crucial voiceover business strategy question: How do you prioritize when everything feels urgent? Marc Scott shares real-world advice on time blocking, focusing on what moves the needle, and identifying high-ROI tasks like direct marketing and strategic social media. Whether you're juggling auditions, fixing your website, or battling perfectionism, this conversation delivers clarity. Learn how to reduce overwhelm, leverage LinkedIn more efficiently, and build a VO business that doesn't consume your life. Don't miss these powerful insights to help you streamline your voice acting hustle and actually make progress! CONNECT WITH ROBERT STARLING

Alli Webb made a name for herself as the visionary behind the blow-dry empire Drybar, and now, she's stepping back into the world of haircare—this time with an entirely different approach. Her new haircare brand, Messy, which launched in Sephora and online earlier this summer, focuses on embracing your natural hair rather than trying to achieve the “perfect” blowout. The brand's ethos is directly tied to Webb's personal journey of leaving perfectionism behind after exiting Drybar in 2020. In this episode, she discusses how she developed the mantra-based product names, why the only thing she's “anti” is the idea of perfection, and the relationship between Messy and the “clean girl” aesthetic. Plus, we get into who gets permission to be messy in our current culture.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Welcome to the Power & Purpose Podcast Connect with Vanessa Soul: https://vanessasoul.com/SacredsoulenergeticsPower & Power Podcast All Apps: https://pod.link/1713095352 Youtube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@VanessaSoulWorkEpisode Highlights: From hiding to sharing giftsBreaking free from perfectionismPower of the Akashic RecordsTrusting your unique pathPractical steps to authenticityABOUT SUBINA SPIRITSubina Spirit is an Akashic Records reader, fusion bellydancer, mother, traveler, nature lover, and yogi based out of Austin, TX. Holding an engineering degree and multiple years of experience in biological research and medical product manufacturing, she is passionate about bridging the realms of soul and science. She weaves her spiritual discipline and intelligence with heart-centered presence to channel divine readings that are deeply grounded in higher truth, bringing forth untold wisdom, clarity, healing, and guidance towards spiritual mastery.CONNECT WITH SUBINA SPIRIT Linktree: linktr.ee/subinaspiritInstagram: instagram.com/infinisoul.insightsFacebook: facebook.com/share/1Hd8WpZgKEBooking Link: calendly.com/subinaspirit/akashicrecordsCONNECT W/ VANESSA SOUL https://sacredsoulenergetics.com/IG: https://www.instagram.com/sacred__soul____/ Facebook link https://www.facebook.com/vanessa.spiva.9/Threads https://www.threads.net/@sacred__soul____Power & Power Podcast All Apps: https://pod.link/1713095352

Beauty creator Monica Ravichandran joins Real Pod for her first-ever podcast appearance to talk about her upcoming wedding, finding a compatible partner, and debunking makeup myths. Known for her viral “perfect red lip” series and advocacy for inclusivity, Monica shares how struggling to find shades that suited her skin tone inspired her hunt for the perfect wedding day lipstick. She opens up about the challenges of planning a three-day multicultural wedding, making controversial guest list decisions, and the intentional conversations that built her healthy relationship. Monica also reflects on healing from a toxic breakup through narrative therapy, learning to trust herself after years of people-pleasing, and breaking the cycle of anxiety. Tune in for an empowering conversation on confidence, compatibility, and creating a life that feels true to you!Follow Monica for more beauty content!Instagram: @monica.raviiiTikTok: @monica.raviii// SPONSORS // Function: Learn more and join using my link. The first 1000 get a $100 credit toward their membership.Visit www.functionhealth.com/REALPOD or use gift code REALPOD100 at sign-up to own your health.LMNT: LMNT is offering a free sample pack with any purchase, that's 8 single serving packets FREE with any LMNT order. This is a great way to try all 8 flavors or share LMNT with a friend. Get yours at DrinkLMNT.com/realpod.Please note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode. Produced by Dear Media. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3709: Emma McLaren reminds us that real self-care isn't about indulgence or perfection, it's about consistency, self-respect, and meeting your actual needs, even when it's uncomfortable. From debunking common myths about self-care to embracing imperfection in meditation, her message offers a compassionate reframe: taking care of yourself isn't selfish or extravagant, it's essential and deeply human. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.getmyrth.com/myrthblog/self-care-myth-busting & https://www.getmyrth.com/myrthblog/imperfect-meditation-stick-to-your-own-schedule Quotes to ponder: "You can't pour water from an empty cup." "Just because you don't feel like doing it doesn't mean you shouldn't do it if, in the long run, you'll feel better once it's done." "Perfectionism is often a sign that you're judging yourself too harshly and have an exaggerated sense of your own shortcomings." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Life is going sideways. You're snapping at your people, overthinking, doom scrolling, or eating all the snacks. You know things aren't going well, but it feels like you just can't stop, and you can't get out of the pattern. The momentum of these moments can feel impossible to interrupt, even when you're fully aware that what you're doing isn't working.   In this episode, I'm sharing the neuroscience behind why we get stuck in these reactive patterns and how our brain's survival mode takes over when we're stressed. Through a simple three-step process, you can interrupt the stress spiral and access more choice. The key isn't waiting for the perfect moment or overhauling everything; it's about creating what I call "one-degree shifts."   Get full show notes, transcript, and more information here: https://habitsonpurpose.com/185

Catriona Boffard, a Clinical Sexologist, Psychotherapist, Sexuality Researcher, Podcaster and Author joins me to share her personal experience, and clinical expertise in a discussion about women and ADHD - how it can affect your brain, sex, and life. You'll hear all about orgasms, medications, sexual cues and solutions to common communication challenges.Catriona Boffard is an expert in the field of sexual behavior, well-being, and mental health, and is particularly passionate about working with people who face difficulties in their sexual experience. She hosts the podcast Asking for a Friend and is an internationally recognized authority in the field of sexuality and relationships.Mentioned in this episodeAnxiety, Perfectionism and SexMindfulness with Dr. Lori Brotto on the podcastBetter Sex Through Mindfulness book reviewADHD and Tips for Sex ORDER my Book Permission for Pleasure: Tending Your Sexual GardenJOIN my Newsletter: Good Education for Good SexFOLLOW on Instagram @cindyscharkeyVISIT my website and blog

Join The Struggle's Patreon community to get 100+ hours of Bonus Episodes, Pro Clinics, Uncut Videos, and Submit Questions for Future Guests. FREE TRIAL available!  https://www.patreon.com/thestruggleclimbingshow - Mindset coach Neely Quinn explores: Pros and cons of being a perfectionist as a climber  How to embrace perfectionism (and keep it from ruining our climbing experience) How to quantify the amount of "suffering" we are willing to go through to improve as climbers Examining my "failed" spring season  Why it's important to celebrate the little things The three questions to ask oneself after every climbing session Is too much humility doing us a disservice? Why we fixate on the one thing that went wrong  Determining whether climbing is a fun outlet or a source of stress Process over progress and what that really looks like Why we often send when we least expect to A practical drill for overcoming fear of falling  - BIG THANKS TO THE AMAZING SPONSORS OF THE STRUGGLE WHO LOVE ROCK CLIMBING AS MUCH AS YOU DO: Rhino Skin Solutions: Perform, Cleanse, Repair… repeat! Amazing skin care products crafted specifically for climbers, whether you're pulling hard indoors or out. Use code STRUGGLE to score a whopping 20% off your purchase!  Arc'teryx: Inspired by and tested in the Coast Mountains of BC, Arc'teryx makes gear to go the distance! If you're out adventuring in the elements, Arc'teryx has got you covered. Shop their full collection at Arcteryx.com  5-Year Training and Performance Journal: The most important climbing tool I use! Takes just a few minutes each day, and yields amazing insights year after year. If you're psyched on training and performance, this is the journal for you. Log, reflect, send.    And check out ALL the show's awesome sponsors and exclusive deals at thestruggleclimbingshow.com/deals   - Shoutout to Matt Waltereese for being a Victory Whip supporter on Patreon! So mega. -   Here are some AI generated show notes (hopefully the robots got it right): 00:41 Guest Introduction: Neely Quinn from Training Beta 01:13 The Perfectionism Email and Personal Struggles 02:17 Community Questions and Performance Hacks 05:01 Host's Climbing Journey and Reflections 05:59 Diving into Perfectionism with Neely Quinn 21:37 Exploring the Roots of Perfectionism 29:00 Tools and Strategies for Overcoming Perfectionism 39:47 Validating Emotions and Positive Reflection 43:40 Balancing Pride and Shame in Climbing 44:54 The Evolutionary Basis of Negative Bias 45:41 Reflecting on Gratitude and Success 47:06 The Inner Coach: Self-Talk and Motivation 48:54 Therapy and Climbing: A Surprising Connection 49:40 Dealing with Regression in Climbing Performance 52:58 Setting Realistic Expectations and Goals 57:04 Embracing Process Over Outcome 59:27 Practical Process Goals for Climbers 01:04:46 Overcoming Fear and Building Confidence 01:13:10 Final Thoughts and Listener Questions 01:18:37 Conclusion and Bonus Content - Follow along on Instagram @thestruggleclimbingshow and YouTube /@thestruggleclimbingshow   Book a session with Neely: https://www.neelyquinncoaching.com/climbing - The Struggle is carbon-neutral in partnership with The Honnold Foundation, whose mission is to promote solar energy for a more equitable world. - This show is produced and hosted by Ryan Devlin, and edited by Glen Walker. The Struggle is a proud member of the Plug Tone Audio Collective, a diverse group of the best, most impactful podcasts in the outdoor industry. - The struggle makes us stronger! I hope your training and climbing are going great.  - And now here are some buzzwords to help the almighty algorithm get this show in front of people who love to climb: rock climbing, rock climber, climbing, climber, bouldering, sport climbing, gym climbing, how to rock climb, donuts are amazing. Okay, whew, that's done. But hey, if you're a human that's actually reading this, and if you love this show (and love to climb) would you think about sharing this episode with a climber friend of yours? And shout it out on your socials? I'll send you a sticker for doing it. Just shoot me a message on IG – thanks so much!   

Ready for a fall getaway? Come experience the magic of New England foliage with a farm stay at the Phineas Wright House. Reserve your spot here.Welcome to the Say YES to Yourself! Podcast—the show for midlife women, empty nesters, and those navigating major life transitions like divorce, reinvention, and rediscovery. If you're ready to shed old roles and finally put yourself first, you're in the right place.In this episode, Wendy sits down with serial entrepreneur Italia Tornabene, a powerhouse who's currently building three businesses simultaneously while protecting her energy and choosing peace, clarity, and legacy building. From her early days as a 21-year-old paralegal business owner to becoming a self-made millionaire through unconventional investing, Italia shares her incredible journey of resilience, reinvention, and relentless growth.They explore:Building and scaling multiple seven-figure businesses from scratchUnconventional investing strategies that turned pennies into thousands in ROIWhy perfectionism paralyzes progress and how to launch before you're "ready"This conversation is a masterclass in saying yes to expansion, trusting the journey, and understanding that perfectionism is just procrastination in disguise. Italia's story proves that every challenge is data, every pivot is progress, and when you're building an empire, the only person standing in your way is you.Ready to stop waiting for perfect and start building your legacy? Listen now and get inspired to take that next bold step.Connect with Italia:Instagram @italiatornabeneItaliaTornabene.comHer BooksReferenced in this Episode: @couture.to.the.max________________________________________________________________________________________ Say YES to joining Wendy for her: Say YES Sisterhood PWH Farm StaysPWH Curated France TripsInstagram: @phineaswrighthouseFacebook: Phineas Wright HouseWebsite: Phineas Wright HousePodcast Production By Shannon Warner of Resonant Collective Want to start your own podcast? Let's chat! If this episode resonated, follow Say YES to Yourself! and leave a 5-star review—it helps more women in midlife discover the tools, stories, and community that make saying YES not only possible, but powerful.

High standards fuel performance. Expecting perfection paralyzes it. In this episode, John Eades shares a story from his trip to Scotland and what playing Muirfield Golf Course taught him about leadership. You'll learn why leaders fall into the trap of perfectionism, how it impacts teams, and why progress is a better path than flawlessness. John unpacks the difference between high standards and perfectionism and gives three practical ways to lead with standards that inspire growth without creating fear or burnout. If you're ready to set the bar high without suffocating your team, this episode is for you.

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3709: Emma McLaren reminds us that real self-care isn't about indulgence or perfection, it's about consistency, self-respect, and meeting your actual needs, even when it's uncomfortable. From debunking common myths about self-care to embracing imperfection in meditation, her message offers a compassionate reframe: taking care of yourself isn't selfish or extravagant, it's essential and deeply human. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.getmyrth.com/myrthblog/self-care-myth-busting & https://www.getmyrth.com/myrthblog/imperfect-meditation-stick-to-your-own-schedule Quotes to ponder: "You can't pour water from an empty cup." "Just because you don't feel like doing it doesn't mean you shouldn't do it if, in the long run, you'll feel better once it's done." "Perfectionism is often a sign that you're judging yourself too harshly and have an exaggerated sense of your own shortcomings." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3709: Emma McLaren reminds us that real self-care isn't about indulgence or perfection, it's about consistency, self-respect, and meeting your actual needs, even when it's uncomfortable. From debunking common myths about self-care to embracing imperfection in meditation, her message offers a compassionate reframe: taking care of yourself isn't selfish or extravagant, it's essential and deeply human. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.getmyrth.com/myrthblog/self-care-myth-busting & https://www.getmyrth.com/myrthblog/imperfect-meditation-stick-to-your-own-schedule Quotes to ponder: "You can't pour water from an empty cup." "Just because you don't feel like doing it doesn't mean you shouldn't do it if, in the long run, you'll feel better once it's done." "Perfectionism is often a sign that you're judging yourself too harshly and have an exaggerated sense of your own shortcomings." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Unlock your team's true potential and blast through roadblocks in Episode 165 of the DYL Podcast: “Get Focused on Goals.” Join host and legacy coach Adam Gragg as he gets real about what's holding you (and your team) back from big achievements—and how to smash through resistance like a pro.With the witty and insightful Kelsey Torkelson by his side, Adam pulls back the curtain on the hidden reasons we fear setting goals, why distractions always try to steal our thunder, and the secret sauce to turning great ideas into measurable results. From family inspirations to timer tricks and the five-goal rule, this episode is a crash course in clarity, commitment, and progress you can see.Ready to trade ambiguity for action and stress for celebration? Tune in as Adam dishes out practical steps to find laser focus, build momentum in just 24 hours, and lead with courage—whether you're at home, at work, or shaping your legacy. Don't let fear call the shots—step up, set your sights, and make every minute count.Hit play and start creating progress you can feel and a legacy you'll love!3 Foolproof Ways To Motivate Your Team: 3 Areas to Focus on as a Leaderhttps://decideyourlegacy.com/how-to-create-positive-productive-workplace/7 Benefits of Being Courageoushttps://decideyourlegacy.com/7-unexpected-benefits-to-facing-your-fears/4 Ways You're Demotivating Your Team: And What You Can Do About Each Onehttps://decideyourlegacy.com/5-things-that-make-work-suck/10 Ways to Encourage People: How to Break The Invalidation Tendencyhttps://decideyourlegacy.com/one-big-relationship-mistake-most-people-make/How to Make Good Decisions: 14 Tools for Making Tough Life Choiceshttps://decideyourlegacy.com/make-good-decisions-part-1/00:00 Overcoming Team Goal Resistance05:11 Navigating Success and Struggles08:57 Quarterly Sales and Goal Focus09:51 Dad's Achievements at 8616:12 Recognizing and Overcoming Goal Dread18:57 Clarity Overcomes Ambiguity20:51 Clarifying Vision and Addressing Fear24:44 Quarterly Goal Setting Strategy28:16 "Importance of Measuring Progress"30:08 Tracking Progress with MetricsCOURSES:Shatterproof Yourself  Be sure to check out Escape Artists Travel and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!

What if the biggest obstacle to your healing isn't your diagnosis but the beliefs hiding in your subconscious mind?Watch the Video Version Here: https://youtu.be/_Fmkj45mke8Revisit Dr. Katie Deming and Peter Crone, known as "The Mind Architect," conversation from last year. They explored how our deeply embedded beliefs and thought patterns shape our reality in ways we often don't recognize.Peter shared compelling insights into how childhood experiences and societal conditioning create subconscious "prisons" that limit our growth and well-being. You'll discover why positive thinking alone often falls short, and how to access the deeper layers of your mind to create lasting transformation. Learn how our subconscious beliefs can directly impact our physical health. You'll gain valuable insights into why some people seem to heal more readily than others, and how you can harness your mind's power to support your own healing journey.Peter shares practical approaches and strategies you can implement immediately to become more aware of your subconscious patterns and begin reshaping them.Listen and discover the practical approaches and strategies you can implement right away to become more aware of your subconscious patterns and begin reshaping them.Connected with Peter Crone: https://www.petercrone.com/Access the FREE Water Fasting Masterclass Now: https://www.katiedeming.com/the-healing-power-of-fasting/Access the FREE Water Fasting Masterclass Now: https://www.katiedeming.com/the-healing-power-of-fasting/ Transform your hydration with the system that delivers filtered, mineralized, and structured water all in one. Spring Aqua System: https://springaqua.info/drkatieMORE FROM KATIE DEMING M.D. Save your spot for the next LIVE fasting call here: https://www.katiedeming.com/the-healing-power-of-fasting/ Work with Dr. Katie: www.katiedeming.comEmail: INFO@KATIEDEMING.COM 6 Pillars of Healing Cancer Workshop Series - Click Here to Enroll Follow Dr. Katie Deming on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/katiedemingmd/ Please Support the Show Share this episode with a friend or family member Give a Review on Spotify Give a Review on Apple Podcast DISCLAIMER: The Born to Heal Podcast is intended for informational purposes only and is not a substitute for seeking professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Individual medical histories are unique; therefore, this episode should not be used to diagnose, treat, cure, or prevent any disease without consulting your healthcare provider.

Defeat Perfectionism  and Discover the Art of Self-Acceptance Part 1 of 2 This Is for Everyone--Shrinks AND the General Public! On Wednesday, July 9, 2025, Dr. Jill Levitt and I did a FREE, two-hour webinar on one of the most common causes of stress and feelings of inadequacy--perfectionism. More than 2200 individuals registered, reflecting the widespread interest in this topic. Although perfectionism causes lots of suffering, it's not easy to get rid of this mindset because it can promise and sometimes deliver tremendous benefits, too! Rhonda and I will be presenting this webinar on the podcast in two parts. This week, in Part 1 you'll learn About the many emotional consequences of perfectionism How to identify the perfectionistic beliefs that fuel anxiety, procrastination, and shame How and why these beliefs can trigger immense emotional pain How to use Positive Reframing and the Cost-Benefit Analysis to melt away your resistance to change. You can take a look at the workshop handout if you CLICK HERE! Next week, in Part 2, you'll learn many powerful methods to crush the distorted thoughts that trigger perfectionism, including Identify the Distortions Explain the Distortions The Externalization of Voices The Acceptance Paradox The Counter-Attack Technique The Feared Fantasy Technique Self-Disclosure Relapse Prevention Training And more! This live, practical training will equip you with powerful, research-backed techniques to help yourself and your clients transform perfectionism into peace, power, self-acceptance, and emotional freedom, all illustrated with dramatic video clips from an actual TEAM CBT session with a woman struggling mightily from brutal self-criticisms, self-doubt, and sleepless nights, due to the very perfectionism that has catapulted her into an incredible career. Thanks for listening today! Jill, David and Rhonda

High-capacity humans often confuse preparation with perfection. This episode shows how to break the loop, move with presence, and lead from alignment — even when it feels awkward or incomplete.Perfectionism doesn't protect your credibility — it prevents your momentum. In this episode of Identity-Level Recalibration, Julie Holly shares how perfectionism becomes a form of emotional self-protection and how you can gently recalibrate through presence, not pressure. You'll learn how your nervous system, self-talk, and brain wiring all contribute to the loop — and how to shift with identity-aligned movement.In this episode, we cover:Why perfectionism feels protective — but keeps you stuckHow to move forward without “feeling ready”The science of neural efficiency and how habits are formedThe connection between your nervous system and the fear of exposureHow perfectionism masks procrastinationWhat self-leadership actually looks likeA powerful story of Brené Brown's recalibrationA Micro-Recalibration for progress over polish — including a tip for leadersToday's Micro-Recalibration:Ask yourself:What have I been perfecting instead of releasing?Where have I confused excellence with safety?What would a 70% version of this look like today — and would that be enough?Then take the step — publish the post, make the offer, show up raw.If you lead others:Where might your pursuit of perfection be creating pressure instead of permission?Give your team the gift of your humanity. Let them see progress — not just polish.Mentioned in this episode:Episode 31: The Power of Pattern InterruptsEpisode 35: How Your Self-Talk Shapes Who You're BecomingIf this episode gave you language you've been missing, please rate and review the show so more high-capacity humans can find it. Explore Identity-Level Recalibration→ Follow Julie Holly on LinkedIn for more recalibration insights → Schedule a conversation with Julie to see if The Recalibration is a fit for you → Download the Misalignment Audit → Subscribe to the weekly newsletter → Join the waitlist for the next Recalibration cohort This isn't therapy. This isn't coaching. This is identity recalibration — and it changes everything.

Welcome to Rich Little Reads — a our series for readers and wannabe readers.Have you read Flip the Tables? This week, Kim sits down with author and political powerhouse Alencia Johnson to explore what it really means to reclaim your power in a world designed to keep you small.She's flipping the script on hustle culture, perfectionism, and the habit of asking for permission. If you've ever tied your identity to achievement, stayed too long in a job or relationship out of fear, or mistaken perfection for purpose — this episode is for you.Alencia shares hard-won lessons about choosing courage over fear and why control isn't safety — it's self-sabotage. She also unpacks how the “girlboss” movement is crippling you — and why it's time for women, especially Black women, to stop waiting and start taking.So… think you'll read it?**LET'S BE FRIENDS**1. Give us a 5-STAR review—with a compliment2. Follow Rich Little Brokegirls on Instagram3. Join the RLBG Community for access to exclusive events & LIVE girl talks4. Follow Kimberly Bizu on TikTok & Instagram**SUBMIT A CONFESSION**

Let's talk about the unspoken epidemic hitting high achievers: perfectionism, scarcity thinking, and the belief that our worth is tied to hustle.In this episode of the Jasmine Star Show, I sit down with powerhouse coach and recovering perfectionist Keren Eldad—and y'all, it's the permission slip we didn't know we needed.Keren has coached world leaders, Olympians, and 8-figure entrepreneurs, and guess what they all battle? The fear of not being enough.We unpack the adversarial mindset that equates pressure with performance—and explore how ease can be your edge.If you've ever felt guilty for resting, obsessed over “getting it right,” or mistaken anxiety for ambition… this one's for you.Keren doesn't just drop gems—she drops frameworks. Tune in to rewire your patterns and lead with clarity, not chaos.Click play to hear all of this and:[00:02] Why most high achievers operate from scarcity (even if they don't know it)[00:55] “Do you view the world as abundant or adversarial?” – the question that changes everything[04:11] Why letting go of perfectionism doesn't mean losing your edge[06:02] The dark side of hustle culture and how it nearly made Keren quit her own business[07:35] Why most perfectionists don't think they are (and how to spot it in yourself)[09:57] The real reason we resist rest (and what to do about it)Listen to Related Episodes:Why High Achievers Burn Out (and How to Fix It)How to Build Your Self Trust to Make Better Business DecisionsConnect With Keren Eldad:Keren Eldad is an executive coach, speaker, and author specializing in high achievers who look great on paper but feel like something's missing. Her work has impacted world leaders, elite athletes, entrepreneurs, and C-suite executives. Known for her clarity and compassion, Keren helps overachievers drop the hustle and reclaim joy, success, and personal alignment. Her coaching program and upcoming book, Gilded, explore what happens when performance masks pain—and how to break free.