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#334: Have you ever looked at your life - your career, relationships, achievements - and wondered why success doesn't feel as fulfilling as you thought it would? You're not alone. Through the relentless pursuit of more, many of us have unknowingly built ourselves beautiful cages instead of the freedom we were seeking.In this week's powerful episode, I sit down with certified executive coach, speaker, and author Keren Eldad to discuss her new book Gilded: Breaking Free from the Cage of Ambition, Perfectionism, and the Relentless Pursuit of More and explore how overachievement can become a trap rather than a path to fulfillment.Join us today to hear how to recognize if you're living in a gilded cage of your own making and how to break free. Get full show notes, transcript, and more information here: https://beatrizalbina.com/334
Feeling overwhelmed, disconnected, or like you're running on fumes? Vic sits down with Harvard physician and stress expert Dr. Aditi Nerurkar for a powerful and practical conversation on burnout, bandwidth, and why we're all so mentally maxed out. Dr. Aditi, author of The 5 Resets and regular on The Today Show, explains how toxic resilience and hustle culture are silently fueling our exhaustion, and shares why multitasking is actually sabotaging your brain. You'll learn how to create digital boundaries, quiet “popcorn brain,” and embrace brain resetting tools like “stop, breathe, be” to reclaim groundedness and presence. This is a must-listen for anyone feeling stuck, spread thin, or like they're spending a little too much time online. Without judgment, Vic and Dr. Aditi are here to help you reset your brain and body for less stress and more resilience!Instagram: @draditinerurkarWebsite: draditi.com// SPONSORS // Function: Function is offering 160+ Lab Tests for $365 to anyone who signs up between July 7th and July 11th. To learn more and get started, visit www.functionhealth.com/REALPODQuince: Go to quince.com/realpod for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns. Please note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode. Produced by Dear Media. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
I'm so excited to share today's episode with you because it's packed with so many actionable tips to help you cultivate more happiness in your everyday life—and understand what might be getting in the way of it. I'm joined by nine incredible leading happiness experts. We're diving deep into the truth about dopamine and serotonin—what they really are, and why dopamine might actually not want you to be happy. We explore why we often feel less satisfied even after getting exactly what we thought we wanted, and how the “when I get this, I'll be happy” mindset is secretly keeping us stuck. In this episode, we get into: Dopamine & serotonin on happiness How our society prevents happiness Having purpose in life Happiness within our career Happiness with social media & news consumption Perfectionism on happiness & so much more! Check out the full episodes of The Liz Moody Podcast discussed today: Neuroscience Hacks For Optimizing Dopamine, Serotonin, Oxytocin, BDNF, And More with Nicole Vignola The REAL Reason You're Burnt Out (And Exactly How To Fix It) with Israa Nasir My Top Micro Habits: Proven Ways To Get Happier & Healthier In 5 Minutes Or Less with Liz Moody Anyone Can Become More Optimistic—Here's How with Dr. Sue Varma Why We Have No Work/Life Balance + How To Fix It with Simone Stolzoff The Hidden Elements of Happiness That No One Is Talking About with Gretchen Rubin 3 Things To STOP Doing In Your 20s & 30s To Be Happier, Healthier & Wealthier with Liz Moody The Seven-Minute Secret To Happiness That No One Is Talking About with Dr. Dacher Keltner Science-Backed Hacks to MAJORLY Reduce Stress When The World Gets Overwhelming with Dr. Jenny Taitz Ready to uplevel every part of your life? Order Liz's book 100 Ways to Change Your Life: The Science of Leveling Up Health, Happiness, Relationships & Success now! Connect with Liz on Instagram @lizmoody or online at www.lizmoody.com. Subscribe to the substack by visiting https://lizmoody.substack.com/welcome. To join The Liz Moody Podcast Club Facebook group, go to www.facebook.com/groups/thelizmoodypodcast. This episode is brought to you completely free thanks to the following podcast sponsors: AG1: visit DrinkAG1.com/LizMoody and get your FREE year supply of Vitamin D and 5 free travel packs today. LMNT: go to DrinkLMNT.com/LizMoody to get a free LMNT sample pack with any order. IQ Bar: Text LIZ to 64000 for 20% off all IQBAR products plus FREE shipping. OSEA: get 10% off your first order at oseamalibu.com with code LIZMOODY or LIZMOODY10. The Liz Moody Podcast cover art by Zack. The Liz Moody Podcast music by Alex Ruimy. Formerly the Healthier Together Podcast. This podcast and website represents the opinions of Liz Moody and her guests to the show. The content here should not be taken as medical advice. The content here is for information purposes only, and because each person is so unique, please consult your healthcare professional for any medical questions. The Liz Moody Podcast Episode 345. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
We tend to think of cycles in a negative light, like the cycles of abuse or the cycles of complacency. But there are also good cycles that can lead to even better outcomes than the ones you have now. Once you make a positive change in your life and stick with it, you create a new cycle that's in alignment with what you want. The more you bet on yourself, the more results you'll see and the more motivation you'll have to show up for yourself. This is exactly what happened to this week's guest, and we're going to share her story with you on the Chingona Revolution Podcast. Jazmin's name is pronounced "Yahsz-meen,” and she goes by Yaz. She was born & raised to Mexican immigrant parents, in Chicago's Gage Park neighborhood, and has a deep commitment to social, economic, & racial justice for BIPOC communities. She works in data & evaluations at a nonprofit that prioritizes the organizational health and sustainability of small Black and Latinx-led organizations. She values mobilizing others to embrace their holistic selves & take action towards more aligned and empowering changes. She loves all things health & wellness, and inspiring others to explore their version of that for themselves. She creates social media content about her health and wellness journey, which currently includes yoga, caretaking of her 75+ plants, strength training, salsa dancing, getting out of her comfort zone, meeting new people, testing out simple and healthy food recipes, and connecting with other community-centered content creators in the city. In this week's episode, we're talking to Jazmin Campo about how she went from perfectionism to purpose-driven. Through the Courage Driven Latina program, Jazmin was able to use the “Ghetto First Draft” to take messy action and launch her dream business. She knew she had to break the cycle of perfectionism to achieve her dreams. But she couldn't do it if her perfectionism was going to keep getting in her way. With some coaching and commitment, Jaz has accomplished her goals and is on her way to setting new ones. Listen to Jaz's episode to hear how she broke the cycle and started a brand new one. Follow Jazmin on: Instagram: @yazzy_yayy TikTok: @yazzy.yayy LinkedIn: Jazmin Ocampo Follow Erika on: Instagram @theerikacruzTikTok @theerikacruzLinkedIn Website: http://www.theerikacruz.com How to work with Erika: Sign up for the free webinar “ The 90-Day Manifestation Path” here! Join the waitlist for the Courage Driven Latina program here. Join the waitlist for the Magnetic Mastermind here. Podcast production for this episode was provided by CCST.
Send us a textOkay, real talk…have you ever had that "screw it, I messed up so I might as well quit" moment with your fitness goals? Yeah, me too. And so has Jordan Syatt, my guest on today's episode of Goals, Grit & Some Woo Woo Shit. Jordan's one of the realest, no-BS voices in the fitness world—he's trained Gary Vee, competed as a powerlifter, and is currently parenting two toddlers while running his business and still finding time to deadlift and draw penises on whiteboards (for educational purposes, obviously).In this episode, we dive headfirst into the real reason people don't stick with their fitness goals. Spoiler alert: it's not seed oils. It's not the government. It's not even your metabolism. It's your mindset…and Jordan calls us out in the best possible way.We also unpack how fear can actually be a super underrated motivator. I even pushed back on this at first… until I realized I've literally written an exercise in my book that's all about visualizing your worst-case scenario to spark change. Touché, Jordan.We also talk aboutWhy you don't need to love exercise (or be perfect at it!) to do it anywayHow the menopause “wellness” industry is profiting off your confusionThe real difference between training for health vs. training for a six-packThe bullshit of “your body is your business card” and how we can be honest about body fluctuations, even in the spotlightAnd honestly? This convo made me want to throw my kid in the air (safely), get some fresh air, and re-evaluate the fitness fear-based stories I still carry.What's Inside:The single biggest mindset block that sabotages most people's health goalsHow fear can kickstart motivation (and why that's not a bad thing!)Why the menopause fitness industry is full of expensive nonsenseThe difference between training for health and chasing an Instagram bodySo tell me—what's been keeping you stuck lately?Is it that all-or-nothing mindset? Perfectionism in disguise? Waiting to “want to” move your body? You're not alone…and this episode might be the kick you need. Come tell me what resonated most over on Instagram. I'm always down to talk brain rewiring and half-assed action.Mentioned In This Episode:The Jordan Syatt PodcastJordan Syatt FitnessJordan Syatt on YouTubeOonagh Duncan on InstagramLeave me a voice note on Speak Pipe!
Come with me and revisit one of my highest ranked solo episodes first aired in October 2023—while I spend much needed time with family on vacation.
Are you constantly asking yourself things like: am I doing enough? Am I showing up? Am I delivering on what I said I wanted to deliver? Are people happy with my work? Like many other high-achieving women, you're facing the anxiety that comes from striving for perfection. It can be easy to get stuck in that place, but there are things you can do to recenter yourself and squash those feelings that are holding you back. In this episode of the Leading Lady podcast, I'm getting real and sharing what works for me when I get caught up in striving for perfection. Topics covered in this episode include: Why perfectionism causes unnecessary anxiety How to recenter yourself when perfectionism throws you off-course Grounding questions to ask yourself If you're struggling with anxiety and the need for perfection, you're not alone. Tune in to find out what you can do to overcome them. Show notes available at www.leadinglady-coaching.com/podcast Resources Mentioned: Book a Coaching Call: https://leadinglady-coaching.com/private-coaching/ Have you joined the Leading Ladies Facebook Group yet?! I would love to see you in there! Head to https://www.facebook.com/groups/LeadingLadiesAAL to join! Let's connect on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/aalcoaching Let's connect on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/leading.lady.coach/
For most of her life, Jiyoung An believed her struggles came down to laziness or lack of effort. Even after her ADHD diagnosis less than a year ago, she questioned whether she was just making excuses and using ADHD “as a crutch.”In this week's episode, Jiyoung shares how her perspective has changed. She's unlearning internalized shame and now sees her brain for what it truly is: different, not broken. Related resourcesWhat is growth mindset?What does thriving with ADHD actually look like?Timestamps(00:00) Intro(00:46) What was happening before Jiyoung sought out an ADHD evaluation this year?(03:00) Jiyoung's 3 different psychiatrists' opinions(04:24) Falling into hustle culture before diagnosis, and being hard on herself(07:24) Jiyoung's journey to accepting her ADHD label(11:07) How frustrating it can be to not have solutions to all of her ADHD challenges(13:08) Perfectionism and comparing yourself to others(16:50) Jiyoung's experience growing up with undiagnosed ADHD(19:25) Noticing ADHD in her little sister(21:22) What ADHD traits Jiyoung struggles with the most(25:08) CreditsWe love hearing from our listeners! Email us at adhdaha@understood.org or record a message for us here. Understood.org is a nonprofit organization dedicated to empowering people with learning and thinking differences, like ADHD and dyslexia. If you want to help us continue this work, donate at understood.org/give
Today, poet and author Cleo Childs shares the layered, emotional story of losing her mother Candace to early-onset Alzheimer's. Cleo was only 21 when her mom was diagnosed — a time when most people are still figuring out their own path. Instead, she became a caregiver. What followed was a years-long journey through denial, frustration, grace, and grief, as Cleo learned to navigate her mother's decline while grappling with her own identity.Through poetry, humor, and reflection, Cleo brings a refreshing honesty to what it means to love and lose someone slowly. She talks about her mom's quiet strength, her own early misunderstanding of that gentleness, and the eventual clarity that came too late. Cleo also opens up about the perfectionism she inherited, the patience she had to learn, and the guilt that lingers after a loss like this.This conversation is full of heart — and levity. From anthropomorphic sticker planners to s'mores preferences, Cleo and Nick find space for joy even in the heavy moments. Whether you're a caregiver, a grieving adult child, or someone who just appreciates a story told with depth and wit, this episode will stay with you long after it ends. GIVE THE SHOW A 5-STAR RATING ON APPLE PODCASTS! FOLLOW US ON APPLE OR YOUR FAVORITE PODCAST PLATFORM! BOOKMARK OUR WEBSITE: www.ourdeaddads.com FOLLOW OUR DEAD DADS ON SOCIAL MEDIA: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ourdeaddadspod/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ourdeaddadspod TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ourdeaddadspod Twitter / X: https://x.com/ourdeaddadspod YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCmmv6sdmMIys3GDBjiui3kw LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/ourdeaddadspod/
Welcome to the The Achievers Podcast. I'm your host Amber Deibert, Performance Coach. I help enterprise sellers unlock their full potential by aligning their work with how they workout and cleaning up mindset trash, so they can sell more, stress less, and take back control of their time and success. Let's be honest: perfectionism used to work. It helped you over-deliver, hide your self-doubt, and push through the pressure. But now? It's burning you out. In this episode, I'm pulling back the curtain on how perfectionism really shows up, especially for high-achievers who've been hustling their whole careers. I share how I used it to mask my ADHD, imposter syndrome, and fear of being “found out”… and why it stopped working. You'll learn 3 practical, slightly uncomfortable, totally liberating tactics I've used myself (and with clients) to shift out of perfectionist mode and get more done, with less mental drama. In this episode, I riff on: ↠ The real reason you're procrastinating (hint: it's not laziness) ↠ Why “done is better than perfect” is more than just a quote ↠ How to let go of gold-plating your work without lowering your standards ↠ What happens when you try B-minus work, and no one notices
Learn how to manage stress and avoid burnout by uncovering five hidden psychological traps that silently drain leaders' energy, clarity, and performance. In this episode, Julian breaks down the mental habits that even elite founders and CEOs can fall into—ones that sabotage health, leadership, and longevity without warning signs. Whether you're scaling a company or steering a team, this episode will help you reclaim your energy and operate at your highest level. Managing health as a high performer entails various types of stress.— Episode Chapter Big Ideas (timing may not be exact) —00:00 – Intro: The silent epidemic of high-achiever burnout02:00 – What real CEO burnout looks like today (not just exhaustion)03:00 – Overview of the 5 temptations that erode energy and leadership04:00 – Temptation #1: Performance over authenticity07:00 – Action steps to reconnect with your authentic self09:30 – Temptation #2: Pleasing over boundaries12:00 – Setting strategic boundaries to protect your time and health13:00 – Temptation #3: Certainty over progress16:30 – Perfectionism as a form of procrastination18:30 – Temptation #4: Comfort over growth20:45 – Why “coasting” is actually reverse gear in disguise22:00 – Temptation #5: Independence over connection24:00 – How isolation sabotages performance and emotional health26:00 – Recap: The 5 hidden burnout traps27:00 – Closing thoughts + invitation to connect— Key Quotes — "The second you stop pretending, you start leading.”"Burnout doesn't always scream—it whispers. And by the time you hear it, the damage is done.”"Comfort is a velvet coffin. If you're not growing, you're silently declining."— Connect with Julian and Executive Health —LinkedIn — https://www.linkedin.com/in/julianhayesii/Ready to take your health, leadership, and performance to the next level? Book a complimentary private executive health diagnostic call with Julian Hayes II. Link below. https://calendly.com/julian-exechealth/chemistryWebsite — https://www.executivehealth.io/***DISCLAIMER: The information shared is not meant to treat or diagnose any condition. This is for educational, informational, and entertainment purposes. The content here is not intended to replace your relationship with your doctor and/or medical practitioner.
Dr. Emma Jones is a hospice and palliative care physician, also worked as a pediatric oncologist and pediatrician. She's been in the field for over 10 years and is active in helping healthcare professionals with burnout in the modern medical system. She is the author of The Phoenix Blueprint, Emerging Stronger from the Blaze of Healthcarehttps://www.emmajonesmd.comBoundaries are important to set up in your work. Proper emotional boundaries with your patients are important to maintain your separation from another personYou can see another person's emotions, recognize them and understand that they are not your emotions True empathy does not improve your ability to provide patient careRecognize when you do take on another person's burden so you can do the work to set it downWe have to always remember to be patient centered. When you express empathy or share a personal experience with someone it should be serving a clinical purpose. It should never be done to help you process somethingIs the patient benefiting from you relating to their experience?Would you be better off to discuss your experience with a therapist or family member?Spending more time to reassure and answer patient questions will save time in the long run and allows you to fully address the chief concern over the chief complaintRapport is developed not with time but can be done instantly by simply being a human beingUnconditional positive regard is viewing the patient or coworker or whoever you are interacting with in a positive lightThis allows you to interact better with the patients you see, viewing the problem as the enemy and not each otherPositive attitudes, smiling and friendly behavior can be culturally discouraged in medicine and this needs to change, of course some situations call for a reserved attitude, but many do notGiving away happiness and positivity does not take something away from you, it actually gives you more joyWe talk about mentoring and teaching the next generation of medical professionalsAdvocacy for policy change is one of the last chapters of the book because you really have to overcome burnout in order to have the energy and motivation to take those stepsYou must restore yourself to help make changes to the systemWe talk about the pit fall of perfectionism. Perfectionism is different than excellence Perfectionism is a habit that does not servePerfectionism is when you try to bring things from the circle of concern into your circle of control - it doesn't workSupport the showFull show notes can be found here: Episodes - Practical EMS - Content for EMTs, PAs, ParamedicsMost efficient online EKG course here: Practical EKG Interpretation - Practical EMS earn 4 CME and learn the fundamentals through advanced EKG interpretation in under 4 hours. If you want to work on your nutrition, increase your energy, improve your physical and mental health, I highly recommend 1st Phorm. Check them out here so they know I sent you. 1st Phorm | The Foundation of High Performance Nutrition Everything you hear today from myself and my guests is opinion only and doesn't represent any organizations or companies that any of us are affiliated with. The stories you hear have been modified to protect patient privacy and any resemblance to real individuals is coincidental. This is for educational and entertainment purposes only and should not be taken as medical advice nor used to diagnose any medical or healthcare conditions.
A scream-queen (and Dan's old friend) talks control, insecurity, friendship, and parenthood. Allison Williams is an actress, producer, and singer best known for her breakout role on HBO's award winning TV series GIRLS, the blockbuster film GET OUT, the science fiction horror film M3GAN, and now its sequel, M3GAN 2.0. In this episode we talk about: Self-improvement versus self-acceptance The “friendship recession” among men Aging authentically and “caring less” Catastrophizing in parenthood How to avoid passing your anxieties onto your children The making of her latest flick, M3GAN 2.0 And much more Related Episodes: Alexander Dreymon (Star of Netflix's “The Last Kingdom”) on: Therapy, Marriage, Anger, Masculinity, Meditation, and Being Nice (Even If You're a Viking) Join Dan's online community here Follow Dan on social: Instagram, TikTok Subscribe to our YouTube Channel Additional Resources: Listen to Allison's new podcast, Landlines. New episodes drop every Monday. To advertise on the show, contact sales@advertisecast.com or visit https://advertising.libsyn.com/10HappierwithDanHarris
Joe and Brett investigate a man's persistent pattern of procrastinating on the work that's personally important to him. We learn the key differences between the work he completes easily and the work he avoids, what causes him to feel so much pressure when working on his projects, and see him unravel the hidden belief systems that have made his life's work feel too scary even to begin.Video of this session is available on our YouTube channel: https://youtu.be/n24xPZP1dmQWhat We Cover:How to identify the root causes of procrastination on a psychological and emotional levelWhat causes people to procrastinate on the work they care about the mostThe role of obligation and perfectionism in patterns of procrastinationHow to reduce the pressure and find deeper enjoyment in work that feels important and vulnerableSend us your questions on Twitter, through our website, or in our Circle community! Joe on X: @FU_JoeHudson Brett on X: @airkistler AOA on X: @artofaccomp Visit Us: www.artofaccomplishment.com We invite you to experience our work. Reserve your spot at www.view.life/explore
Ambitious-ish: Success Without Burnout for Smart, Driven Women
A snack-sized episode about how your perfectionism can be your superpower. For more information, go to: https://www.kelleandnina.com/
SummaryIn this episode, Michele Magner explores the concept of self-identity through the lens of how she wants to show up day to day and the kind of woman she wants to become. She emphasizes the importance of intentionality in defining who we are and who we want to become, particularly as women navigating societal expectations and personal aspirations. The discussion highlights the beauty of aging, the need to let go of perfectionism, and the significance of living in the present while striving for future goals.TakeawaysWe often operate on autopilot, following outdated rules.Aging allows us to care less about unimportant things.Perfectionism and control can be exhausting for caregivers.It's essential to question our intentions behind actions.Defining who we want to be is a crucial step in self-discovery.Life is fleeting; we must be intentional about our choices.Optimism and hope are vital for our future selves.Recognizing our achievements is important for self-acceptance.Life is a journey of becoming, not just being.Looking back helps us appreciate our growth.Chapters00:00 Embracing the 'I Am' Concept03:48 The Journey of Self-Discovery and Aging06:47 Intentional Living and Future Aspirations Inspired Caring is THE family support & education program that helps families feel calm and confident to make better decisions faster. Inspired Caring is offered as an annual membership tobusinesses to provide for the families they work with.Connect with Michele Magner:Website: www.InspiredCaring.comE-mail: hello@inspiredcaring.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/inspiredcaring/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/michele.magner.90LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/michele-magner-60a99089/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@inspiredcaringwithmichelem3138Custom podcast music written and produced by Colin Roberts. He does custom songs for any occasion.
Psychiatrist Carolyn Rodriguez studies hoarding disorder and says that all of us have attachments to our possessions. But for many, these attachments can disrupt daily life and even pose health risks. For those with loved ones who struggle with hoarding disorder, she says treatments exist, including cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT). Lately, she's been studying how virtual reality can augment CBT through virtual discarding practice and ways brain stimulation may improve symptoms. But, Rodriguez says, never underestimate the value of empathy for those in need of help, as she tells host Russ Altman on this episode of Stanford Engineering's The Future of Everything podcast.Have a question for Russ? Send it our way in writing or via voice memo, and it might be featured on an upcoming episode. Please introduce yourself, let us know where you're listening from, and share your question. You can send questions to thefutureofeverything@stanford.edu.Episode Reference Links:Stanford Profile: Carolyn RodriguezConnect With Us:Episode Transcripts >>> The Future of Everything WebsiteConnect with Russ >>> Threads / Bluesky / MastodonConnect with School of Engineering >>> Twitter/X / Instagram / LinkedIn / FacebookChapters:(00:00:00) IntroductionRuss Altman introduces Carolyn Rodriguez, a professor of psychiatry and behavioral science at Stanford University.(00:02:47) Motivation to Study Hoarding DisorderWhy Carolyn chose to focus her research on hoarding disorder.(00:03:44) Collecting Versus HoardingDistinguishing between normal behavior and clinically significant hoarding.(00:05:47) Prevalence of Hoarding DisorderThe universality and pervasiveness of hoarding disorder.(00:07:11) The Brain Science Behind HoardingEarly neuroscience findings on attachment and discarding behavior.(00:08:47) Dopamine and Excessive AcquisitionThe connection between hoarding and potential dopamine reward pathways.(00:09:55) Risk Factors and Cognitive ChallengesPersonality traits, genetics, and processing difficulties involved in hoarding.(00:11:14) Gender Differences and Insight IssuesGender prevalence in treatment-seeking and the concept of anosognosia.(00:12:35) The “Why” Behind HoardingHow motivations and emotional attachments influence behavior.(00:13:50) Onset and Progression of DisorderTypical onset age, aging effects, and early warning signs.(00:15:05) Historical References to HoardingAccounts from ancient literature of hoarding-like behavior(00:17:16) Attachment to ObjectsThe emotional, aesthetic, and identity-based reasons people retain objects.(00:20:45) Current Treatment OptionsThe treatment landscape, including lack of medications and focus on CBT.(00:22:30) Chronic Nature of Hoarding DisorderFraming hoarding as a long-term condition with hopeful outcomes.(00:23:08) Virtual Reality for TreatmentA study on using VR to safely practice letting go of personal items.(00:25:58) Neuromodulation ResearchUsing non-invasive brain stimulation to reduce acquisition urges.(00:27:00) Advice for Individuals and FamiliesThe importance of empathy and self-care for individuals and caregivers.(00:28:47) Conclusion Connect With Us:Episode Transcripts >>> The Future of Everything WebsiteConnect with Russ >>> Threads / Bluesky / MastodonConnect with School of Engineering >>>Twitter/X / Instagram / LinkedIn / Facebook
Welcome back to this new season & evolution of The Whole Soul podcast
In this episode of the Female Athlete Nutrition Podcast, host Lindsey Elizabeth Cortes speaks with Dr. Samantha Harte, a distinguished physical therapist, author, and advocate for holistic wellness. Dr. Harte shares her journey through addiction, perfectionism, and trauma, highlighting how these personal struggles influenced her professional path.She discusses the importance of addressing root issues such as childhood trauma and the need for control, and offers insight into her framework based on the 12 Steps to help others find healing and resilience. The conversation delves into the parallels between addiction and over-exercise or obsessive dieting, urging listeners to confront underlying emotional pain and make transformative changes in their lives.Episode Highlights:01:48 Meet Dr. Samantha Harte03:27 Dr. Harte's Journey and Struggles04:40 Perfectionism and Addiction08:36 The Path to Physical Therapy16:11 The High-Functioning Addict25:27 Parallels with Athletes29:25 Addressing RED-S in Female Athletes34:16 The Haunting of Unresolved Relationships34:56 Postpartum Struggles and Body Image35:29 The Descent into Obsessive Control38:26 A Miraculous Turning Point40:19 Facing Grief and Finding Forgiveness45:08 The Path to Recovery and Self-Compassion53:36 Embracing Intuition and Personal Growth57:23 Conclusion and Final ThoughtsDr. Samantha Harte is a physical therapist, best-selling author, performing artist, podcast host, and sober mom of two. She has been featured on CBS and abc7 and in People magazine, US Weekly, In Touch, Time magazine and The New York Post for her expertise on the intersection of mind-body health and wellness.Her self help memoir, Breaking The Circuit: How to Rewire Your Mind for Hope, Resilience and Joy in the Face of Trauma, is a modern, trauma-informed take on the 12 steps of recovery so that anyone, addict or not, can turn their pain into power.Find all about Dr. Samantha Harte at https://access.drsamanthaharte.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drsamanthaharte/?hl=enFor more information about the show, head to work with Lindsey on improving your nutrition, head to:http://www.lindseycortes.com/Join REDS Recovery Membership: http://www.lindseycortes.com/redsSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
In this episode, Dr. Uejin Kim and Brissa Ytuarte explore the complexities of mental health, focusing on themes of shame, guilt, expectations, and the importance of self-awareness. They discuss how past experiences shape our present behaviors and relationships, emphasizing the need for inner child healing and self-compassion. The conversation highlights the significance of letting go of control and embracing imperfection in our lives and relationships.The conversation leans into: ✅ Shame and guilt and how they are distinct from mistakes.✅ Separating our identity from our actions.✅ High expectations and how they can lead to feelings of shame and guilt.✅ How healing our inner child is crucial for personal growth.Chapters00:00 Navigating Personal Struggles and Vulnerabilities02:23 Understanding Shame vs. Guilt05:00 Expectations and Regrets in Life07:57 The Impact of High Expectations10:27 Projection and Its Effects13:06 Inner Child and Self-Compassion15:52 Seeking Validation and Acknowledgment18:06 Embracing Self-Security and Confidence19:54 The Need for Protection and Gender Roles21:49 Leading Ourselves in Relationships23:44 Setting Realistic Expectations27:21 Letting Go of Control31:42 Finding Sustainability WithinWant to know more about Dr. Kim? -- www.uejinkim.comWant to join a FREE webinar to learn more about healing your inner child? --https://www.uejinkim.com/bestilltogether
In this episode of the I Love Coaching Podcast, Adam Roach and Jess Webber discuss the often overlooked challenges of reinventing oneself. They explore the emotional turmoil of transitioning between identities, the importance of starting before feeling ready, and the necessity of surrounding oneself with inspiring individuals. The conversation emphasizes building an authentic life that resonates internally rather than conforming to external expectations. Through personal anecdotes and practical advice, they provide listeners with actionable steps to navigate their own journeys of self-reinvention.TakeawaysReinventing yourself can be a confusing and lonely process.The in-between seasons of identity transformation are often overlooked.Starting before you're ready is crucial for progress.Perfectionism can be a stall tactic that hinders growth.Surrounding yourself with bigger thinkers can elevate your mindset.Borrowing beliefs from others can help you transition into your new identity.Authenticity is key to building a fulfilling life.Chasing what feels right is more important than what looks good.Action breeds clarity and helps define your path.It's okay to feel off even when your life looks successful.Chapters00:00 Introduction and Partnership Dynamics01:40 The Challenge of Reinventing Yourself04:19 Starting Before You're Ready10:09 Surrounding Yourself with Bigger Thinkers17:02 Building an Authentic Life
Maximizing Fitness, Fat Loss & Running Through Perimenopause
What if a refined, focused, and lower stress approach is the key to finally feeling, looking, and performing your best with lifelong sustainable success? In this heartfelt solo episode, Louise, one of the world's leading health, fitness, and performance experts, invites high-achieving active women to pause, reflect, and embrace a new kind of summer challenge, one rooted in calm, confidence, and letting go of perfectionism. If you're someone who constantly pushes for more: more results, more control, more effort, but still feels something's missing, this episode is for you!Louise shares personal insights, lessons from coaching hundreds of women through hormone challenges and perimenopause changes, and how simplifying her own approach led to unexpected breakthroughs. From her simple science-backed methods to summer vacation vibes, this conversation is a powerful reminder: You don't need to do more to be enough. Sometimes, less really is more.Link to check out our free nutrition guide and join other fierce active ladies taking charge of their holistic health and fitness in our award-winning Badass Breakthrough Academy to thrive through perimenopause with less stress: https://www.breakingthroughwellness.com/ Take advantage of our podcast listener discount and save 20% off all of Kion's science-backed clean products: https://www.getkion.com/pages/maximizing Link to our FullScript where you can see our curated best supplement picks & save 20%: https://us.fullscript.com/welcome/breakingthroughwellness/store-startEpisode Highlights:(0:00) Intro(4:22) Type A women and the pressure to “do it all”(6:08) Health gains but still not feeling satisfied(7:55) Craving progress at the cost of peace(9:13) The science behind simple nutrition swaps(12:47) Mental overload and the myth of more(14:00) When “everything is working”, stop overcomplicating(16:50) How to create a summer vacation vibe daily(20:04) A wellness retreat weekend at home(22:03) Rewriting goals with community and joy(24:55) New retreats focused on connection, not performance(27:21) Simplicity over complexity in healing programs(29:30) Rethinking happiness and slowing down(31:21) A book recommendation: Maybe It's You: Cut the Crap. Face Your Fears. Love Your Life. by Lauren Handel Zander(36:31) The invisible pressure to constantly optimize(39:07) Owning your glow and dialing back the grind(44:22) Daily joy: the new wellness must-have(46:24) OutroTune in weekly to "Maximizing Fitness, Physique, and Running Through Perimenopause" for a simple female-specific science-based revolution. Let's unlock our best with less stress!I'd love to connect!Instagram
Max Browne is back on Real Pod for a much-needed men's mental health convo. Vic and her husband, Max, unpack why so many men feel pressure to be stoic, the generational messages they've absorbed (like “man up”), and why anger is often the only emotion society allows them to show. Max shares his experiences with anxiety, therapy, and performance pressure from his football career, and how learning to express his emotions has made him a better partner, friend, and man. They also dive into how couples can create emotional safety, shift unhealthy gender roles, and hold space for each other's needs. If you've ever felt frustrated by a partner who won't open up or you're a guy trying to navigate your own mental health, this episode will leave you seen, validated, and better equipped. Send it to the men in your life so that you can keep fostering these open conversations and keep growing in your mental health journeys together!Follow Max on Instagram @maxbrowne & TikTok @brownemaxMore episodes with Max:Max Got a New Job!! Why He's Changing Careers & What's NextThe Max Browne Interview - What Really Happened to the Nation's #1 RecruitVic & Max: How We Navigate Disagreements, Strengthen Our Bond, & Support Each OtherRelationship Q+A with Vic & Max! How to Shoot Your Shot, Find Your Teammate for Life, & Communicate Effectively7 Tips For Building A Healthy Relationship (Ft. My Husband, Max!)// SPONSORS // CozyEarth: Get 40% off at cozyearth.com when you use REALPOD. AG1: AG1 is offering new subscribers a FREE $76 gift when you sign up. You'll get a Welcome Kit, a bottle of D3K2 and 5 free travel packs in your first box! So make sure to check out drinkag1.com/realpod to get this offer! Please note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode. Produced by Dear Media. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
Have you ever noticed a behavior or pattern that you know you should change, but you just can't seem to? Whether it's scrolling aimlessly on your phone or saying yes to commitments you don't want, that moment of recognition is where change begins. But what if that moment of awareness, even without immediate change, is more powerful than you think? In this episode, I revisit one of the foundational concepts in behavior change: awareness precedes change. While this idea was introduced in an early episode, my understanding has evolved significantly. You'll learn practical ways to expand your awareness beyond just cognitive observation, including a simple practice you can use anytime. Get full show notes, transcript, and more information here: https://habitsonpurpose.com/178
What if perfectionism is the very thing stopping you from making progress? Perfectionism is one of the biggest things that can keep you from moving forward, even when you're doing your best. It's that nagging feeling that you need to do more, do it better, or get everything just right before you can take action. But what if trying to be perfect is actually holding you back? In this episode, I'll explore how perfectionism can keep you stuck and prevent you from moving forward. We'll dive into how to recognise perfectionist tendencies and the impact they have, while also showing you how embracing a “good enough” mindset can free you up to make real progress. Get full show notes, transcript, and more information here: https://maisiehill.com/234
People pleasing is one of the most adaptively constrained behaviors we engage in as human beings. It is a highly developed skill, yet most people do it to excess and much disappointment. Stop Being a People Pleaser is a look at one of the most common expression of our subpersonalities, and one of what many people consider next to perfectionism a dysfunctional behavior. Perfectionism is a version of people pleasing. Seeking external validation and affirmation.The goal is to become inner directed. To disengage from the manipulative and dishonest practice of people pleasing.ANNOUNCING: THE LIMITLESS EXPERIENCEDaniel D'Neuville is a peak performance coach, spiritual teacher, and master life and business coach. A Master Practitioner/Trainer in Neuro-linguistic Programming and a Consulting Hypnotist he has worked with over 10,000 people over the past 30 plus years. LINKS http://yesdaniel.comDaniel's YouTube CHANNELFACEBOOK GROUPSPODCAST LISTENER'S FBCOMMUNITY EXTREME GRATITUDE PROJECT Bass Slap Intro written and performed by bass player & producer: Miki SantamariaMiki'sYouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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Initiating sex can feel vulnerable, awkward, or even downright scary—especially if you were socialized to anticipate everyone else's needs before your own. This week, DB is joined by the one and only Whitni Miller (aka BDE Moves), queer couples intimacy coach, to break down what gets in the way, how to build confidence, and why getting turned down doesn't have to be a bad thing. We're talking perfectionism, eroticism, pleasure, and how to get out of your head and into your body. Let's get into it! GUEST DETAILSWhitni Miller is a queer couples intimacy coach helping people build deeper connection, playful pleasure, and authentic desire. Follow @bde.moves on Instagram for tips, real talk, and tools to transform your intimate life. ABOUT SEASON 12 Season 12 of Sex Ed with DB is ALL ABOUT PLEASURE! Solo pleasure. Partnered pleasure. Orgasms. Porn. Queer joy. Kinks, sex toys, fantasies—you name it. We're here to help you feel more informed, more empowered, and a whole lot more turned on to help YOU have the best sex. CONNECT WITH US Instagram: @sexedwithdbpodcast TikTok: @sexedwithdbTwitter: @sexedwithdb Threads: @sexedwithdbpodcast YouTube: Sex Ed with DB SEX ED WITH DB SEASON 12 SPONSORS Lion's Den, Uberlube, & Magic Wand Get discounts on all of DB's favorite things here! GET IN TOUCH Email: sexedwithdb@gmail.comSubscribe to our BRAND NEW newsletter for hot goss, expert advice, and *the* most salacious stories. FOR SEXUAL HEALTH PROFESSIONALS Check out DB's workshop: "Building A Profitable Online Sexual Health Brand" ABOUT THE SHOW Sex Ed with DB is your go-to podcast for smart, science-backed sex education—delivering trusted insights from top experts on sex, sexuality, and pleasure. Empowering, inclusive, and grounded in real science, it's the sex ed you've always wanted. ASK AN ANONYMOUS SEX ED QUESTION Fill out our anonymous form to ask your sex ed question. SEASON 12 TEAM Creator, Host & Executive Producer: Danielle Bezalel (DB) (she/her) Producer: Sadie Lidji (she/her) Communications Lead: Cathren Cohen (she/her) Growth Marketing Manager: Wil Williams (they/them) MUSIC Intro theme music: Hook Sounds Background music: Bright State by Ketsa Ad music: Soul Sync by Ketsa and Soul Trap by Ketsa
What happens when you confront your darkest moments and choose to heal, instead of staying stuck in the pain?In this raw and inspiring episode of The Big Silence, Karena Dawn is joined by Dr. Samantha Harte, author of Breaking the Circuit. She's a physical therapist, author, and sobriety advocate. Harte opens up about rebuilding her life after addiction and navigating a traumatic childhood. Through it all, she discovered the healing power of vulnerability and forgiveness, ultimately learning to rewire her brain and change her story.Her picture-perfect high school existence masked unbearable pain, leading to a soul-shaking drug overdose. While navigating the challenges of sobriety in the midst of a crumbling marriage and painful loss, Samantha found herself at rock bottom. What came next was a radical reworking of her inner life and the birth of a new identity — one grounded in compassionate curiosity, revolutionary responsibility, and finally, self-forgiveness.This conversation is a masterclass in what it means to confront your truths, rewire your mind, and write a new story — no matter how broken the past may seem.How Do We Take Pain and Turn It Into Something Positive, Even Transformative?Dr. Harte explains why healing begins with self-forgiveness — and how shame, silence, and perfectionism keep us stuck in destructive loops. Learning to forgive, starting with yourself, is key to breaking free from toxic cycles.(00:058) When Everything Looks Fine — But You're Falling Apart InsideThe internal divide between outward success and private suffering: “Straddling myself between these two worlds, these two identities, like everything is fine and nothing is ok.”A very ill-timed overdose that became a wake-up callThe unbearable weight of feeling stuck with yourself when your inner voice becomes your fiercest critic(00:10:04) Five Years Sober, Still Miserable: The Trap of White-Knuckling RecoveryPerfectionism can doom sobriety: “It works until it doesn't. Perfectionism collapses in matters of the heart.” Her marriage collapses under the weight of unspoken resentment, infidelity, and untreated trauma.“All of those mechanisms that kept me safe as a girl were killing me as an adult.”(00:18:30) Spiritual Rock Bottom: The Breakthrough Moment That Changed EverythingHow addiction takes hold, even when you're convinced you have it under controlKnowing when you've hit "spiritual rock bottom" and turning it into a catalyst for changeTurning your deepest fears and pain into life-altering breakthroughs(00:22:40) Compassionate Curiosity: The Self-Talk That Can Save Your LifeIntercepting your inner critic with the triangle of compassionate curiosity and radical responsibility: “Why did I just do that?” and “What am I gonna do about it now?” The parenting advice we all need: how apology clears shame and models emotional intelligence for your kids.(00:31:30) Betrayal, Infidelity, and the Truth That Finally Came OutThe loss of her sister and her declaration to write a bookBecoming the “girl who 12-stepped the world.” Applying AA's 12-step program to other aspects of life“The fear of any type of judgment absolutely collapsed.” Rising to the level of our goals and creating habits (00:31:30) Healing and Forgiveness: Can You Ever Forgive the Unforgivable?The struggle and importance of forgiving others (and yourself) in the healing processWhy forgiving betrayal doesn't mean condoning hurtful actionsThe spiritual and emotional liberation that comes with true forgiveness(00:53:00) Rewiring the Mind:...
You care about the quality of your books, but where's the line between a commitment to excellence and the kind of perfectionism that holds you back? And how do you keep perfectionism from stealing your creative joy? On today's episode, I dive into the nuances of perfectionism – including the sneaky ways it can show up in your writing process. *** The publishing industry is hard. That's why I created The Confident Author Academy. My 6-month coaching program (+ online course) helps you build the mindset & emotional resilience you need to thrive as an author. To learn more and schedule your free enrollment call, go to http://www.isabelsterling.com/academy Looking for even more author advice and notifications about upcoming workshops? Sign up for my weekly Real Talk for Writers newsletter by clicking here. DM me on Instagram & let me know what you thought of this episode!
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Perfectionism: the socially acceptable way to ruin your own life. This week, we're joined by Dr. Thomas Curran, professor of psychology and author of The Perfection Trap, to explain why perfectionism isn't a flex—it's a full-time mental drain. We dig into the difference between high standards and high stress, how perfectionism feeds imposter syndrome, and why social media keeps making it worse. We also break down how to work with perfectionists (or at least survive them), and how to reframe failure before you burn out trying to “fix” something no one even noticed. We want to hear from you! Send in your Corporate Confessions, Dear Demoted questions, and Shout-outs right here: https://forms.gle/nJc667dUL65Xh63C6
Lessons From the Past and Moving Forward In this episode, Patricia reconnects after a long break to discuss personal growth through relationships, dealing with OCD, and navigating self-disclosure. Patricia shares experiences with past friendships, lessons learned, and the journey of forming new connections while managing neurodivergence. Tips for content creation and future podcast plans are also highlighted. HIGHLIGHTS · Patricia's return to podcasting after a long hiatus. · Struggles with OCD and its impact on relationships. · The emotional journey of navigating challenges in a significant friendship. · The importance of respecting privacy and boundaries in self-disclosure. · Learning from past relationships and embracing outcomes. · Reconnecting with old friends and forming new connections at 61. · The impact of neurodivergence on forming and maintaining relationships. · The significance of reciprocal relationships and understanding others' limitations. · Realizing the need for balanced expectations in friendships. · Reflections on societal pressures for lifelong friendships. · The role of stress and personal triggers in relationship dynamics. · Exploring new creative projects and podcast collaborations. · The challenges and rewards of working with a co-host on a new podcast. · Differences in preferences and vision while designing a new podcast logo. · Plans for shorter, more manageable podcast episodes moving forward. · The importance of embracing vulnerability and authenticity in content creation. · Steps taken to ensure the sustainability of the podcast. · Emphasizing self-acceptance and the value of personal growth. · Encouragement to reach out for personal coaching and share feedback on the podcast. SENSITIVITY IS NOTHING TO APOLOGIZE FOR; IT'S HOW YOU'RE WIRED It's okay to have hard times. It's okay to feel lonely. It's okay to feel lonely when you're with a bunch of people. It's okay to not be okay. It's okay to be happy, joyful, and stimmy. It's okay to be quiet and reserved. It's okay to want to be out and doing things. It's okay to want to be in your bed, in your home where it's cozy and comfy. There is no way that you can screw up being who you are because who you are is really okay. It's even when it feels like you're not okay. You are enough. You are perfect as you are. You're wired differently and finding people that are wired like you can really make a difference. If you have that great and if you don't have it PODCAST HOST Patricia was a Licensed Clinical Social Worker for over 17 years, but she is now exclusively providing coaching. She knows what it's like to feel like an outcast, misfit, and truthteller. Learning about the trait of being a Highly Sensitive Person (HSP), then learning she is AuDHD with a PDA profile, OCD and RSD, helped Patricia rewrite her history with a deeper understanding, appreciation, and a sense of self-compassion. She created the podcast Unapologetically Sensitive to help other neurodivergent folks know that they aren't alone, and that having a brain that is wired differently comes with amazing gifts, and some challenges. Patricia works online globally working individually with people, and she teaches Online Courses for neurodivergent folks that focus on understanding what it means to be a sensitive neurodivergent. Topics covered include: self-care, self-compassion, boundaries, perfectionism, mindfulness, communication, and creating a lifestyle that honors you LINKS Neurodivergent Online Course-- https://unapologeticallysensitive.com/neurodivergent-online-courses/ Receive the top 10 most downloaded episodes of the podcast-- https://www.subscribepage.com/e6z6e6 Sign up for the Newsletter-- https://www.subscribepage.com/y0l7d4 To write a review in itunes: click on this link https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/unapologetically-sensitive/id1440433481?mt=2 select “listen on Apple Podcasts” chose “open in itunes” choose “ratings and reviews” click to rate the number of starts click “write a review” Website--www.unapologeticallysensitive.com Facebook-- https://www.facebook.com/Unapologetically-Sensitive-2296688923985657/ Closed/Private Facebook group Unapologetically Sensitive-- https://www.facebook.com/groups/2099705880047619/ Instagram-- https://www.instagram.com/unapologeticallysensitive/ Youtube-- https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOE6fodj7RBdO3Iw0NrAllg/videos?view_as=subscriber Tik Tok--https://www.tiktok.com/@unapologeticallysensitiv e-mail-- unapologeticallysensitive@gmail.com Show hashtag--#unapologeticallysensitive Music-- Gravel Dance by Andy Robinson www.andyrobinson.com
Want to boost your sales confidence while juggling business, family, and faith? In this episode of the Sales Maven Show, host Nikki Rausch chats with Shana Cooper—CPA, entrepreneur, and mom of five—about the power of sales confidence in both personal and professional life. With over 30 years of experience, Shana shares how she blends biblical principles with practical financial strategies to help women lead with clarity and confidence. She opens up about her journey from employee to entrepreneur, the lessons she's learned raising five kids while running a business, and how improved communication and sales skills can transform marriages, families, and careers. Shana also introduces her brand Happy Homes and Families and her upcoming framework, Coming Home by Design, which empowers women to create lives rooted in purpose, connection, and confidence—starting at home. Whether you're building a business or a better family dynamic, this episode will inspire you to own your voice and grow your sales confidence. Timestamps: 00:43 Welcome to the Sales Maven Show 01:34 Meet Shana Cooper: CPA and Mom of Five 02:13 Blending Finances, Family, and Faith 02:58 Homeschooling and the Entrepreneurial Mindset 04:18 Facing Financial Challenges in Marriage 07:40 The Life CFO Framework 10:41 From Corporate Job to Entrepreneurship 12:13 Building Sales Confidence Through Communication 16:56 How to Adjust Messaging for Better Engagement 17:15 Boosting Productivity and Purpose 17:43 Navigating Multiple Roles with Grace 19:04 Gaining Confidence and Letting Go of Perfectionism 20:12 Effective Outreach and Relationship-Building 21:24 Why Sales Skills Are Essential for Growth 23:01 Creating a Positive Ripple Effect 27:59 Final Takeaways and What's Ahead Connect with Shana Cooper:
Perfectionism doesn't mean high standards; it means procrastination. Summer shares why those who succeed aren't smarter but faster and why, if we want to achieve, we have to be prepared to fail and just get started. KEY TAKEAWAYS • There is never a perfect time to get started on anything; procrastination is actually just a mask for fear. • We need to use the time we have effectively. We don't need more time, we need more action and momentum. • Your perfectionism is sabotaging your success. Start ugly and start scared, but start now or someone else will. BEST MOMENTS “By never actually starting and doing the thing, we can never improve” “Beyond what we call perfection is procrastination” “Growth does not come from stalling” HOST BIO I am Summer. A spiritual being having human experiences. From the age of 11 I have been obsessed with all things self- development; looking at it from every angle, in pursuit of finding answers for my life. Like all other humans I am figuring out. Along the way I have discovered knowledge and concepts that have changed my existence and helped navigate my youth. The process of learning and undoing, growing and evolving has lead me right here. The host of Inner wealth, where I bring together the most profound teachings I've learnt during my time here on earth; in hopes of making it a little easier for others to get to the same wisdom. Sharing the line of truth to living a prosperous life. The core of my purpose is to be of service to humanity. CONTACT ME Follow Summer on Instagram for more insights and to stay up to date with the pod @innerwealth.podcast This Podcast has been brought to you by Disruptive Media. https://disruptivemedia.co.uk/
We know loads of you will identify as perfectionists - it's one of the most common things our clients tell us about themselves, usually with a mix of pride and frustration. Most perfectionists know they probably need to ease up a bit, but knowing you should dial it back and actually feeling ready to let go are completely different things. The reality is that perfectionism has got you where you are, so the thought of lowering your standards feels risky. But what if the very thing that helped you climb the ladder is now holding you back from the impact you really want? We explore how perfectionism shows up in leadership roles, why it stops serving you at senior levels, and most importantly - practical strategies to shift from perfectionism to progress without dropping your standards.Key points from this episodeWhy perfectionism feels useful early in your career but becomes a barrier in leadership rolesHow perfectionist habits create overwork, slow decision-making, and micromanagement tendenciesThe hidden costs of perfectionism - missing strategic work, limiting career progression, and demotivating your teamPractical strategies including time limits, delegating outcomes not processes, and creating early feedback loopsWhy the "one-touch rule" matters when reviewing delegated work00:00 Introduction - How perfectionism holds back leadership01:00 Why perfectionism feels useful and gets rewarded early in careers03:00 The frustration when "perfect" work doesn't hit the mark for others06:00 How perfectionism shows up in leadership - overwork and exhaustion08:00 The impact on pace, agility, and team delegation10:00 Why perfectionist leaders struggle with delegation and become bottlenecks13:00 How perfectionism limits capacity for strategic work and career progression16:00 Strategies for loosening the perfectionist grip18:00 The mindset shift: risk of imperfection vs risk of perfectionism20:00 Practical tip 1: Set time limits and stick to them religiously22:00 Practical tip 2: Delegate the outcome, not the process24:00 Practical tip 3: Create early feedback loops instead of waiting for the "ta-da" moment26:00 The one-touch rule for reviewing delegated work28:00 Closing thoughts and coaching support optionsUseful LinksJoin The Catalyst Career Club for 50k+ LeadersConnect with Pam on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/pamelalangan/ Connect with Jacqui on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jacqui-jagger/ Access the download with 20 strategies to overcome perfectionism as a leader (without lowering your standards) Interested in working with us? Get in touch about career or leadership development, outplacement workshops or recruitment support via the Catalyst Careers website Enjoyed this Episode? If you enjoyed this episode, please take the time to rate and review it on Apple Podcasts or SpotifyMentioned in this episode:Catalyst Career Club for £50k+ Leaders & Managers Moving up the career ladder needs an inside edge - strategies that allow you to unlock your full potential and position yourself as a true leadership talent. And that's exactly...
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If perfectionism has ever kept you stuck or made you question whether you're cut out for this whole writing thing, this episode is for you.Gloria Huang, author of the stunning middle grade fantasy Kaya and the Ocean, joins me to talk about:Letting go of perfectionismWriting through self-doubtRevisiting your work with compassionWe dive into how she approached themes like childhood anxiety, identity, and the immigrant experience with honesty and heart.Gloria also shares her path to publication—including the emotional stamina it takes to navigate rejection, impostor syndrome, and everything in between.This conversation is a powerful reminder that writing is brave, messy, and deeply human.In this episode, we cover: 00:29 Welcome back to Write It Scared 01:39 Meet our guest: Gloria Huang 02:57 Gloria's debut novel Kaya and the Ocean 04:38 Exploring themes of anxiety and identity 06:15 The inspiration behind Kaya and the Ocean 08:06 Cultural influences and mental health in storytelling 15:13 The power of stories to heal and connect 17:21 Gloria's path to publication 19:57 Writer's block, burnout, and the creative process 21:43 What happens after the book deal 24:22 Writing process + giving yourself grace 27:10 Reframing rejection as part of the journey 29:03 Gloria's hopes for fellow writers 30:32 What she's working on next 31:17 Final thoughts and where to find GloriaTo connect with Gloria and find her books, please visit her at:https://www.glorialaihuang.com/InstagramThreadsOrder Kaya of the Ocean hereHave a comment or idea about the show? Send me a direct text! Love to hear from you.Support the show To become a supporter of the show, click here!To get in touch with Stacy: Email: Stacy@writeitscared.co https://www.writeitscared.co/wis https://www.instagram.com/writeitscared/ Take advantage of these Free Resources From Write It Scared: Download Your Free Novel Planning and Drafting Quick Start Guide Download Your Free Guide to Remove Creative Blocks and Work Through Fears
Send us a textThis week we're tackling the chaos cocktail that is ADHD + perfectionism. You know, that magical combo where you obsess over every detail, waste loads of time and then suddenly decide “It's dead to me” at 75% and never either finish it, or rush your way through the last 20% with no f**ks given?!!!We're talking all-or-nothing thinking, the fear of not doing it perfectly, and how we somehow manage to procrastinate AND care way too much. It's messy and it's frustrating, but what's new with ADHD??!!!PLUS: In What Did You ADHD this week, Shell reveals her latest hyperfixation—let's just say it came out of the blue. Like… ocean blue.
Email marketing still converts better than most digital channels, yet many businesses overlook this powerful tool because of misconceptions about its effectiveness or complexity. • Email is definitely not dead – it's been generating millions in revenue for over a decade• Design doesn't matter in email – focus on consistency and authenticity instead• The sweet spot for email frequency is 2-4 times per month• DNS records (SPF, DKIM, DMARC) are now essential for good deliverability• Different platforms serve different needs – MailChimp for beginners, Active Campaign for automation, GoHighLevel for all-in-one• Lead magnets should provide genuine value worth at least a couple hundred dollars• Perfectionism kills results – "good enough to get it out there" is a winning philosophy• Structure emails with curiosity in subject lines, a hook at the beginning, storytelling in the middle, and a clear CTA• The 7-11-4 principle: prospects need 7 hours of content, seeing your message 11 times, across 4 channels• Being "unapologetically authentic" builds stronger connections than polished marketing-----Guest Information: https://www.linkedin.com/in/schwedelson/https://subjectline.com/https://guruconference.com/https://outcomemedia.com/------More from EWR and Matt:Leave a Review if it was content you enjoyed: https://g.page/r/CccGEk37CLosEB0/reviewFree SEO Consultation: https://www.ewrdigital.com/discovery-callOne-on-One Consulting: https://www.ewrdigital.com/digital-strategy-consulting/private-consulting-session—The Unknown Secrets of Internet Marketing podcast is a podcast hosted by Internet marketing expert Matthew Bertram. The show provides insights and advice on digital marketing, SEO, and online business. Topics covered include keyword research, content optimization, link building, local SEO, and more. The show also features interviews with industry leaders and experts who share their experiences and tips. Additionally, Matt shares his own experiences and strategies, as well as his own successes and failures, to help listeners learn from his experiences and apply the same principles to their businesses. The show is designed to help entrepreneurs and business owners become successful online and get the most out of their digital marketing efforts.Find more great episodes here: https://www.internetmarketingsecretspodcast.com/ https://seo-podcast-the-unknown-secrets-of-internet-marketing.buzzsprout.comFollow us on:Facebook: @bestseopodcastInstagram: @thebestseopodcastTiktok: @bestseopodcastLinkedIn: @bestseopodcastPowered by: ewrdigital.comHosts: Matt Bertram Disclaimer: For Educational and Entertainment purposes only.Support the show
You're ready for summer ... right?You've been wearing your BIRKENSTOCKS since the May long weekend, but have you really fully engaged in the energy of summer yet?Today, on Episode #158 of the Habit Thrive Podcast, we're going to bring our foundational habits from the spring into the summer.Step 1: Think about your non-negotiables. What are you going to stick with over the summer, no questions asked?It might be a skincare routine or a morning movement.Or, perhaps you just can't give up your daily walk (you just might move it from the afternoon to the evening).Step 2: What are you going to let go of?What habits just don't fit in this season?It could be your famous chili recipe that gets tucked away until October.Or you could ditch your indoor exercise class and opt for something outside instead.Step 3: Take it a step further - What else can you let go of?Overscheduling.Perfectionism.Meditations that don't match your rhythm.Free yourself from anything that feels like something you "should" do instead of something you "want" to do (even if it's exercise!).These are our Me Now years, ladies!The years when we can be more courageous and unapologetic.Remember: We're not building habits to impress anyone else. We're building them to reclaim our time, our power, our energy, and our awesomeness.Love,Lorrie xoxoxLoving the show? Let's connect! Find me:Facebook: Women's Wellness Community: For women wanting to rock their “Me Now” YearsInstagram: @Habitguru365Website: lorriemickelson.comMemberVault: lorriemickelson.vipmembervault.comHabits, Mindfulness Routines & Self Care For Women 50 & BeyondLoving the show? Let's connect! Find me:Facebook: Women's Wellness Community: For women wanting to rock their “Me Now” YearsInstagram: @Habitguru365Website: lorriemickelson.comMemberVault: lorriemickelson.vipmembervault.comHabits, Mindfulness Routines & Self Care For Women 50 & Beyond
Where does the scarcity mindset, imposter syndrome, and loss aversion come from? Welcome to a mindset masterclass from history. Learn if the very instincts that kept humanity alive are now keeping you from truly living. For 290,000 years, we survived by playing it safe, following the tribe, and hoarding resources. These weren't character flaws—they were survival strategies in a world where innovation could mean death. The scarcity mindset that once threatened our ancestors' survival now threatens our potential. The tribal conformity that once protected us now prevents breakthrough thinking. The focused attention that once saved lives now creates cognitive tunnels. This episode goes beyond history to recognise the invisible forces shaping your choices and breaking out of survival mode. ------- NEW SHOW - How to Change the World Sam's new show can be found on major podcast players: Spotify - https://open.spotify.com/show/1Fj3eFjEoAEKF5lWQxPJyT Apple - https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/how-to-change-the-world-the-history-of-innovation/id1815282649 YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@HowToChangeTheWorldPodcast Can't find it on your player? RSS feed - https://feeds.acast.com/public/shows/682b3b86696b5d1232d698a8 ------- UPGRADE to Premium:
This guided meditation will help you quieten your inner critic, so you can enjoy a life of contentment and gratitude - with Taoist monk and teacher, David James Lees.⚠️ PLEASE DO NOT LISTEN TO THIS MEDITATION WHILST DRIVING OR OPERATING MACHINERYThis meditation can be practised daily or whenever you need it. Learn more about our online consultations, events and shop: https://www.wuweiwisdom.comSubscribe to David's FREE Journal: https://davidjameslees.substack.com/Other teachings and guided meditations you may enjoy:Beat Your Inner Critic: Stop Comparing Yourself With Others https://youtu.be/EKSpFG_MR3MAchieve Inner-Peace: Stop Comparing, Criticising or Being Judgmental https://youtu.be/Lu_6Rq0Cqmc?si=lT3BhQSoq8UZqJyQHow to Overcome Self-Criticism & Perfectionism https://youtu.be/BLxD10xgqmE?si=8C0UeeXthDCng7fOGUIDED MEDITATION PLAYLIST https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PL9NQ_PWX4zIA12P7BftG6a18lIWFDjL35&si=bWWub6YyoZpXhFubIs there a question you'd like answered on the show? Submit it at: https://bit.ly/askusyourquestion Join our free Wu Wei Wisdom Community Facebook support group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity If you love our work, you can now make a small donation to help fund the continued production of our weekly teachings by buying us a 'virtual coffee'! https://www.buymeacoffee.com/wuweiwisdom Book an online Golden Thread Process & Inner Child Consultation with David: https://www.wuweiwisdom.com/therapies-for-body-mind/ Follow us on Instagram: @wuweiwisdomSign up to receive a relaxing guided meditation gift, plus our weekly newsletter + offers via email: https://www.wuweiwisdom.com/signup -Disclaimer: This podcast and any associated teaching and comments shared are not a substitute for professional therapy, mental health care, crisis support, medical advice, doctor diagnosis, or professional healthcare treatment. Our show episodes provide general information for educational purposes only and are offered as suggestions for you and your professional therapist or healthcare advisor to consider and research.Music by Earth Tree Healing
Come to a Dehoarding Accountability Zoom Session: http://www.overcomecompulsivehoarding.co.uk/ticket Subscribe to the podcast: https://www.overcomecompulsivehoarding.co.uk/subscribe Podcast show notes, links and transcript: http://www.overcomecompulsivehoarding.co.uk/ Today I'm talking about why letting yourself make mistakes - like running out of everyday items or doing things imperfectly - can actually help if you're struggling with hoarding. From challenging perfectionism to rethinking the fear of scarcity, I'll share how embracing messiness can move us forward. Plus, I'll offer practical ideas for easing those fears and making progress, one small, imperfect step at a time. Announcement of new dates for Dehoarding Accountability Zoom Sessions. Aimed at connecting people who hoard for conversation and simultaneous decluttering. Details on how to get tickets and availability through several upcoming months. The Value of Making Mistakes Challenging the idea of perfection and fear of making mistakes. Proposing the benefits of allowing oneself to: Make more mistakes. Run out of things occasionally. Do things imperfectly or “half-arsed.” Identifying how fear of mistakes and perfectionism can keep people stuck in hoarding behaviours. Perfectionism and Fear of Scarcity Perfectionism: Fear of making the “wrong” decision leads to inaction or keeping everything. Uncertainty about the future and anxiety about discarding items. All-or-nothing thinking: If it can't be done perfectly, it's not worth starting. Personal reflection on the struggle with perfectionist tendencies. Fear of Scarcity: “Keep it just in case” mentality. Stemming from past experiences of poverty or deprivation. How personal history and upbringing foster scarcity-based behaviours. Recognition that such fears can be irrational and still hold significant power. How this fear leads to over-acquisition and reluctance to discard. Addressing Perfectionism and Scarcity (Mindset Shifts) Techniques to gently challenge perfectionism and scarcity fears. Reframing mistakes as learning opportunities rather than failures. Allowing for experimentation as a method of progress. Embracing Mistakes as a Path Forward Learning from mistakes as a source of growth and behaviour change. Normalising occasional regrets over discarding or not acquiring something. Comparing the cost of keeping everything versus the occasional “mistake.” Observing emotional responses to mistakes as a way to learn and build decision-making confidence. Encouragement to start with low-risk decisions and build up “dehoarding muscle” gradually. Allowing Things to be Done Imperfectly Encouragement to “do things badly” rather than waiting for perfect execution. “Done is better than perfect” as a motivating principle. The danger of all-or-nothing thinking leading to perpetual inaction. Practical examples of doing small tasks imperfectly: Tackling a small part of a larger problem (e.g., half a shelf). Donating a partial bag of items. Taking any step forward, even imperfect ones, counts as progress. Allowing Yourself to Run Out of Things Creative and resourceful solutions arise when supplies run low. Examples from daily life (cooking, art journalling) where scarcity breeds creativity. Differentiates between essential items and those where running out is an acceptable risk. Suggestions for consciously assessing what's truly necessary to keep in stock. Experimental Mindset: Treating Dehoarding as Data Collection Each decision - successful or not - provides valuable data for future choices. Building confidence and capability for bigger, more challenging decluttering decisions over time. Summary and Reinforcement of Key Points Allow for imperfection, mistakes, and occasional scarcity. Importance of starting with manageable steps and celebrating imperfect progress. “Done is better than perfect”—taking action, however small, is crucial. Buy your copy of Everything You Need to Know About Hoarding by Dr Lynne Drummond at cambridge.org/EverythingHoarding, and get 20% off with the discount code HOARDING20. #ad Links Come to a Dehoarding Accountability Zoom session: Accountability Booking Form Website: Overcome Compulsive Hoarding Become a Dehoarding Darling Submit a topic for the podcast to cover Questions to ask when dehoarding: https://www.overcomecompulsivehoarding.co.uk/podquestions Instagram: @thathoarderpodcast Twitter: @ThatHoarder Mastodon: @ThatHoarder@mastodon.online TikTok: @thathoarderpodcast Facebook: Overcome Compulsive Hoarding with That Hoarder Pinterest: That Hoarder YouTube: Overcome Compulsive Hoarding with That Hoarder Reddit: Overcome Compulsive Hoarding with That Hoarder subreddit Help out: Support this project Sponsor the podcast Subscribe to the podcast Subscribe to the podcast here
We all do it. That task you've been avoiding? Still there. That thing you told yourself you'd start tomorrow? Welcome to tomorrow. We like to think procrastination is just laziness, but it's usually something deeper. A hidden fear, a mental block, or maybe just a really well-organized form of avoidance. In this episode, I unpack five surprising reasons you keep putting things off and why willpower isn't the solution.For more go to: www.scottmlynch.comLevel up your life by joining my Patreon where you'll get exclusive content every week and more badass offerings (rips t-shirt in half, Hulk Hogan style, and runs around the room). And/or…Unlock practical and tactical insights on how to master your mindset and optimize your happiness directly to your inbox.If you're a glutton for punishment and want more swift kicks in the mind follow me on social:InstagramYouTubeLeave a review and tell me how I suck so I can stop doing that or you can also tell me about things you like. I'd be okay with that, too.Produced by ya boi.Past guests on The Motivated Mind include Chris Voss, Captain Sandy, Dr. Chris Palmer, Joey Thurman, Jason Harris, Koshin Paley Ellison, Rudy Mawer, Molly Fletcher, Kristen Butler, Hasard Lee, Natasha Graziano, David Hauser, Cheryl Hunter, Michael Brandt, Heather Moyse, Tim Shriver, and Alan Stein, Jr.
THE SHOW In this episode of Behind the Brilliance, Dr. Ellen Hendriksen, clinical psychologist and author of How to Be Enough, joins the show to explore the nuances of perfectionism—from its seductive productivity perks to its hidden emotional costs. She shares her own journey from high-achieving student to recovering perfectionist, breaks down the psychology of procrastination and emotional suppression, and offers practical strategies for redefining self-worth, navigating achievement hangovers, and aligning with intrinsic values. The conversation also touches on the loneliness epidemic, community building, and how shifting from "have to" to "choose to" can transform how we show up in our lives. Behind her Brilliance: Investing in what connects us to others instead of what sets us apart TOPICS COVERED Why pivoting early (or late) is worth it A new definition of perfectionism—and why it's a trap The two pillars of maladaptive perfectionism: overvaluation and rigid standards The myth of emotional perfectionism Rules vs. values (and how rules often masquerade as values) Demand sensitivity and the burden of internal expectations The achievement hangover: chasing the next milestone without fulfillment The difference between goals and values Procrastination as anxiety in disguise Visualizing your future self to beat avoidance Practical tools to embrace imperfection and act anyway Community, connection, and healing the loneliness epidemic The value of empathy in creative and professional work
Send Dr. Li a text here. Please leave your email address if you would like a reply, thanks.Ready to stop getting distracted and feel more accomplished every day? In this episode, Dr. Christine Li shares eight surprisingly simple habits that might be keeping you from your goals—and how you can break free from them quickly. With relatable stories and actionable advice, she reveals how letting go of comparison, clutter, perfectionism, and more can transform your focus and boost your productivity. Tune in for a practical, uplifting guide to reclaiming your time and enjoying a calmer, more intentional life!Timestamps:[00:03:07] – Distraction #1: Comparison—Why comparing yourself to others is a major focus drain.[00:04:49] – Distraction #2: Counting Time—How obsessing over lost or remaining time doesn't help productivity.[00:06:50] – Distraction #3: Physical Clutter—The benefits of decluttering for mental clarity and focus.[00:08:12] – Distraction #4: Focusing on What You Don't Want—How negative daydreaming stalls action.[00:09:45] – Distraction #5: Catastrophizing Tasks—Why making tasks seem scary or enormous feeds procrastination.[00:11:49] – Distraction #6: Lack of Planning—The power of setting a daily plan and intentions.[00:14:09] – Distraction #7: Perfectionism—How striving for perfect can keep you stuck and distracted.[00:16:12] – Distraction #8: Letting Time Slip By—The danger of not “pushing the go button” and acting on your intentions.To get the free download that accompanies this episode, go to https://maketimeforsuccesspodcast.com/distractionTo sign up for the Waitlist for the Simply Productive Program, go to https://maketimeforsuccesspodcast.com/SPFor more information on the Make Time for Success podcast, visit: https://www.maketimeforsuccesspodcast.comGain Access to Dr. Christine Li's Free Resource Library -- 12 downloadable tools and templates to help you bypass the impulse to procrastinate: https://procrastinationcoach.mykajabi.com/freelibraryTo work with Dr. Li on a weekly basis in her coaching and accountability program, register for The Success Lab here: https://www.procrastinationcoach.com/labConnect with Us!Dr. Christine LiWebsite: https://www.procrastinationcoach.comFacebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/procrastinationcoachInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/procrastinationcoach/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@procrastinationcoachThe Success Lab: https://maketimeforsuccesspodcast.com/lab Simply Productive: https://maketimeforsuccesspodcast.com/SP
Debrief with Vic and her BFF Natalie (aka @corporatenatalie) on her engagement and wedding plans! From the subtle ways her friends and fiancé tried to keep it a secret to the surprise proposal to the whirlwind celebration with friends and family, Natalie shares every behind-the-scenes detail. She opens up about how she met her now-fiancé through a romcom-worthy setup, the moment she knew he was her forever teammate, and what it's like being in a relationship with someone completely off social media. Plus, Vic and Natalie get real about navigating privacy boundaries with their partners and future kids, the pressure to get perfect wedding content, and why you shouldn't overcomplicate your proposal pics. Natalie's bridal era is just getting started, so tune in to learn what's next and get a reminder of what really matters when you find your person and say yes to forever.Follow Natalie on Instagram: @corporatenatalie// SPONSORS //Quince: Go to quince.com/realpod for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns. Beam: Go to shopbeam.com/realpod and use REALPOD at checkout for up to 40% off! Please note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode.Produced by Dear Media.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
When your emotions feel overwhelming, pushing them away seems like the only option. That familiar tightness in your chest, the urge to fix everything immediately, the exhaustion that comes from constantly suppressing what you feel - these experiences shape how you move through each day. Through this episode, you'll discover how to relate to your emotions as messengers carrying vital information rather than inconveniences to manage. You'll learn practical ways to shift from reflexively fixing or avoiding difficult feelings to approaching them with curiosity and compassion. By the end, you'll have concrete tools for turning toward your emotions instead of away from them, creating a richer understanding of yourself in the process. Get full show notes, transcript, and more information here: https://habitsonpurpose.com/177
Megan won't be the only one taking notes throughout this episode… Lisa Brenninkmeyer, from @walkingwithpurpose_official (www.walkingwithpurpose.com), shares some arrows that hit the heart of women, that will leave you pondering for days. You know what to do; press play and grab that notebook! Ring our HOTLINE at 312-775-2615 and tell us your What In The Dang Heck moment, Heck Yes, Heck No, or ask for some advice! If you've been blessed by our podcast, we ask you to prayerfully consider supporting us on Patreon https://www.patreon.com/whatinthedangheck Heart of Vines Guided Masterclass with Cecilia - Get on the Waitlist: https://ceciliajean.myflodesk.com/heartofvines A Little Eden - Use Code: HECK10 for 10% off https://www.etsy.com/shop/ALittleEden @thelittlecatholic_ Use Code: Heck20 for 20% off https://www.thelittlecatholic.com/ @holyconfidentbirth Use Code: DANGHECK for $50 off your Holy Confident Birth Course https://holyconfidentbirth.com/course