Podcasts about Perfectionism

Most overwhelmed moms keep looking for the perfect planner, the right app, or a better routine. But deep down, you already know that no external system is going to fix overwhelm.The problem isn't your tools. The problem is in your thinking.In this final episode of the series Why Perfectionism Makes Homemaking Feel Overwhelming, we get straight to the real solution: support, community, and mindset change. Perfectionism grows in isolation. It loosens its grip when you stop trying to manage everything alone.In this video, you'll learn• why perfectionism thrives when you're isolated with your thoughts• how community resets unrealistic expectations• why sharing small wins matters more than waiting for big results• how accountability builds follow-through without pressure• three practical ways to practice repent, rejoice, repeatHomemaking is real work. It takes attention, effort, and wisdom. It's not something to be embarrassed about or hidden. It's worth talking about, sharing strategies for, and growing in together.That's why I created Convivial Circle—a community for women who want to practice cheerful, faithful stewardship at home without chasing perfection or pretending the work is effortless.Inside Convivial Circle, we• confront perfectionism together• practice baby-step progress• build routines that fit real families• develop accountability through small standup groups• grow in skill, confidence, and joyful responsibilityIf you're tired of trying to fix overwhelm on your own, this is your invitation to stop isolating and start building momentum with support.

In this special end-of-year episode, I'm getting personal and reflective about 2025 - the wins, the struggles, and what I'm cooking up for next year. If you've been following along this year (or if this is your first episode), grab a coffee and join me for an honest look at what it means to build a sustainable creative business while staying true to yourself. What You'll Learn Why I almost walked away from my production business this year (and what changed my mind) The power of collaboration over traditional client work (including my successful revenue-share partnerships) How being intentional about relationships transformed my business and life What's coming in 2026: new book, app launch, and a non-filmmaker mastermind Key Takeaways On Gratitude and Relationships Your personal relationships are your business foundation - the mastermind retreat in Austin was a career highlight The power of connecting people in your network (it brings more fulfillment than any film project) Why surrounding yourself with people who've gone before you is non-negotiable On Business Evolution 2025 was the best year financially since COVID for Tell Studios Some relationships cook for a decade before they turn into six-figure projects Revenue-share partnerships (like the one with Susan generating $2M+ in sales) can be more profitable than traditional client work On Content and Platform Building Nearly 500 episodes over 10 years - consistency compounds The podcast has opened more doors than any marketing campaign ever could Sometimes you need fresh audience to revitalize your offers On Taking Action Took multiple swings this year - plenty missed, but the ones that connected were worth it Pitching creative collaboration ideas (like YouTube creator partnerships) creates new revenue streams Perfectionism will kill your momentum - share the journey, not just the destination What's Coming in 2026 A Book (Finally!) About the power of your story as a business owner and how to use it as your differentiator. Plus a kids book with an artist! New Collaboration Partnerships Following the success of revenue-share models, exploring 2-3 new strategic partnerships An App Launch Built in collaboration with former mastermind member Andrew - designed to benefit video business owners Non-Filmmaker Mastermind Expanding beyond the filmmaker space to work with entrepreneurs across industries Updated Budget Maximizer Brand new spreadsheet, templates, and training to ensure project profitability In This Episode   [00:00] Welcome to the show! [04:38] Before the GYVB Podcast [11:44] When The Podcast Started [17:45] Big Milestones In Life [21:03] Financial Highlight Since Covid [23:04] 2026 Hopes and Goals [26:59] Collaboration [30:35] Mastermind [36:27] Newsletter [39:05] Outro Quotes "I've made a lot more mistakes than I have had successes, but I'm still here learning and growing." - Ryan Koral "People pay me money to facilitate relationships and conversations. It's mind-blowing." - Ryan Koral "Your word matters. Being a person of integrity means sometimes not announcing things until you're sure - but also learning it's okay to dream out loud." - Ryan Koral Links Find out more about the Studio Sherpas Mastermind Join the Grow Your Video Business Facebook Group  Follow Ryan Koral on Instagram Follow Grow Your Video Business on Instagram Join the Studio Sherpas newsletter

‣ Book Your COMPLEMENTARY CONSULATION and CALORIE CALCULATION call:- how much & what to eat

Procrastination gets a bad reputation. However, in this episode of the I Hate Numbers podcast, we take a different view. We explore why procrastination happens, when it holds us back, and how it can sometimes support better thinking, creativity, and decision-making. Rethinking Procrastination We have all delayed important tasks, even when we know better. Procrastination is usually framed as a weakness or a lack of discipline. However, we challenge that assumption. Instead of guilt, we look at understanding what procrastination is really telling us and how it can sometimes work in our favour. What Procrastination Really Is Procrastination is not laziness. It is a self-regulation issue where we delay action despite knowing there may be consequences. For many creative business owners, it shows up as distraction, avoidance, or over-preparing instead of starting. We explain how procrastination often reflects emotional responses rather than poor work ethic. Once we recognise that, it becomes easier to manage rather than fight it. Why We Procrastinate Procrastination usually has clear causes. Fear of failure can make starting feel overwhelming. Perfectionism can stop progress before it begins. Feeling overloaded with ideas or lacking motivation can also keep us stuck. By identifying which of these applies, we gain control. Awareness is the first step towards changing behaviour. When Procrastination Can Be Useful Not all delay is bad. Sometimes stepping away allows our subconscious to process information. This can lead to better decisions and stronger ideas when we return to the task. Procrastination can also act as a filter. If we keep avoiding something, it may be a signal that the task is not as urgent or important as we think. How We Manage Unhelpful Procrastination When procrastination becomes a barrier, simple strategies help. Breaking work into small steps reduces overwhelm. Starting with just five minutes often builds momentum. Time-blocking work and rest helps maintain focus. Reducing distractions is equally important. Fewer interruptions make it easier to move from intention to action. Keeping Finances from Becoming a Distraction When financial admin adds stress, it fuels procrastination. Using the right tools can remove friction and free up mental space, allowing us to focus on creative and strategic work rather than avoiding it. Key Takeaways Procrastination is not always the enemy. Used wisely, it can support creativity and better decisions. The key is understanding why we delay and responding with practical strategies rather than guilt. Next time procrastination shows up, we encourage you to pause and ask whether it is avoidance or incubation. The answer can change how you move forward. Listen & Take the Next Step If this episode resonated, explore more...

Mostly Growth on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@MostlyGrowthMostly Growth on Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/mostly-growth/id1842238102Mostly Growth on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/3KDtaLaXx1obFp5PUhZ6V3In this year-end episode of Mostly Growth, CJ Gustafson, Kyle Poyar, and Ben Hillman reflect on what it actually takes to build a modern media business around newsletters and podcasts. They unpack CJ's first year going full-time, comparing creative intuition versus metric-driven operating styles, and discuss what content truly drives growth. The conversation also covers distribution dynamics, the emotional reality of unsubscribes and burnout, and closes with a candid look at monetization, team building, and the tradeoffs between simplicity and scale.—SPONSORS:Pulley is the cap table management platform built for CFOs and finance leaders who need reliable, audit-ready data and intuitive workflows, without the hidden fees or unreliable support. Switch in as little as 5 days and get 25% off your first year: https://pulley.com/mostlymetricsMetronome is real-time billing built for modern software companies. Metronome turns raw usage events into accurate invoices, gives customers bills they actually understand, and keeps finance, product, and engineering perfectly in sync. That's why category-defining companies like OpenAI and Anthropic trust Metronome to power usage-based pricing and enterprise contracts at scale. Focus on your product — not your billing. Learn more and get started at https://www.metronome.com—LINKS:Mostly Metrics: https://www.mostlymetrics.comCJ on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/cj-gustafson-13140948/Growth Unhinged: https://www.growthunhinged.com/Kyle on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kyle-poyar/Slacker Stuff: https://www.slackerstuff.com/Ben on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/slackerstuff/https://www.growthunhinged.com/p/deep-research-for-gtmhttps://www.growthunhinged.com/p/2025-state-of-b2b-gtm-reporthttps://www.mostlymetrics.com/p/presenting-the-state-of-the-agentic-financial-stackhttps://www.mostlymetrics.com/p/the-great-ai-arr-illusionhttps://www.mostlymetrics.com/p/presenting-the-2025-tech-stack-reporthttps://www.mostlymetrics.com/p/download-the-annual-planning-biblehttps://www.growthunhinged.com/p/how-to-sell-annual-planshttps://www.growthunhinged.com/p/get-recommended-by-chatgpthttps://www.growthunhinged.com/p/gtm-vibecoding-ideashttps://www.growthunhinged.com/p/how-to-use-ai-agents-for-marketing—RELATED EPISODES:We get roasted for swag and drop some GTM goldhttps://youtu.be/uubf_8al95wDo vanity plates bring serious business?https://youtu.be/Cm1rubFb-kgPricing in the Real World: Babies, Bots, and Billinghttps://youtu.be/T1cjFSZR0k0—TIMESTAMPS:00:00:00 Preview and Intro00:01:52 Sponsors — Pulley | Metronome00:04:12 Action Figure Swag and Year-in-Review Setup00:05:47 Going Full-Time and the First-Year Reality Check00:07:24 Writing Schedules, Creative Work, and Time Optimization00:09:16 Writing Speed, Craft, and the Myth That Time Equals Quality00:10:51 Perfectionism vs. Throughput in Newsletter Writing00:13:03 Creator Burnout, Motivation, and Engagement Anxiety00:14:08 Playing the Long Game vs. Obsessing Over Metrics00:15:42 Best Work of the Year and High-Leverage Content Bets00:17:55 Big Research Reports as Career-Defining Projects00:19:19 When Memes Outperform Deep Work00:19:52 LinkedIn Algorithms vs. Content Quality00:20:51 Writing for the Feed vs. Writing to Think00:22:03 Optimizing LinkedIn Profiles for Credibility00:23:47 Subscriber Growth, Audience Quality, and Churn Reality00:27:20 Reports and Research as Growth Engines00:28:37 Tactical “How-To” Content That Actually Converts00:30:21 Tactical Value Beats Sounding Smart00:30:40 Building a Team and Scaling Beyond a Solopreneur00:32:05 Simplicity vs. Scale in Early Business Decisions00:35:37 Avoiding Boredom and Shiny Object Syndrome00:37:12 Balancing Writing, Consulting, and Energy00:37:54 Making the Leap Financially as a Creator00:39:01 Subscriptions vs. Advertising as the Real Business Model#MostlyGrowthPodcast #CreatorEconomy #IndependentCreator #NewsletterBusiness #YearInReview This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit cjgustafson.substack.com

We've got perfectionism all wrong. The real problem isn't high standards—it's the illusion of perfectibility and harsh judgment that have been grafted onto it. Perfectionism began as a guide toward purpose, but centuries of distortion turned it into an enforcer of impossible ideals. Instead of banishing perfectionism, we can reclaim its adaptive side—commitment, persistence, and pursuit of excellence—while stripping away conceit and control. By befriending perfectionism, acknowledging its shadow, and clarifying our purpose, we transform it from a tyrant into a trusted partner. This episode brings together science and Jungian psychology for an unconventional approach to dealing with perfectionism. 

Perfectionism can sharpen your playing or steal your joy. The Cello Sherpa Podcast Host, Joel Dallow, sits down with clinical psychologist Dr. Ellen Hendriksen to unpack where that line lives for working musicians and how to keep your standards high without letting self-worth rise and fall with every take. Ellen breaks down seven core patterns behind perfectionism—over-evaluation, self-criticism, rigid rules, mistake avoidance, procrastination, social comparison, and perfectionistic self-presentation—and shows how they quietly fuel audition anxiety, practice paralysis, and post-concert spirals.Together, we reframe procrastination as an emotion management habit rather than a calendar problem, then trade approval-seeking for intention-setting you can control. Ellen offers practical ways to normalize a non-zero failure rate in auditions, interpret criticism without outsourcing your identity, and use both acceptance tools and cognitive restructuring to soften the inner critic. You'll learn how to treat harsh thoughts like background noise, play with them to drain their power, and coach yourself with firm, kind language that actually leads to better performances.We also explore the “perfectionistic climate” many musicians train in, the difference between healthy and maladaptive perfectionism, and small daily choices that reduce shoulds and increase motivation. If you've ever walked offstage to applause while frowning inside, this conversation gives you a path back to meaning, agency, and sustainable growth. Subscribe, share with a colleague who needs it, and leave a quick review—what intention will you set for your next performance?For more information on Ellen Hendriksen: https://www.ellenhendriksen.com/aboutIf you are looking for in person/virtual cello lessons, or orchestral repertoire audition coachings, check out www.theCelloSherpa.comFollow us on Facebook, Instagram, Threads & YouTube: @theCelloSherpaFor more information on our sponsor: www.CLEAResources.com 

Barbara Cludius ist Professorin für Klinische Psychologie und Psychotherapie des Erwachsenenalters an der Uni Bremen. Aufgenommen wurde ihr Vortrag "Perfektionismus – Wenn das Streben nach dem Optimum zur Belastung wird" am 4. November 2025 im Rahmen der Vortragsreihe "Selbstoptimierung. Zwischen Fürsorge und Zwang" des Studium Generale der Uni Mainz. **********+++ Deutschlandfunk Nova +++ Hörsaal +++ Vortrag +++ Wissenschaft +++ Psychologie +++ Klinische Psychologie +++ Selbstoptimierung +++ Leistung +++ Perfektionismus +++ Gesundheit +++ Wohlbefinden +++ Psyche +++ Depression +++ Essstörungen +++ Anorexie +++ Magersucht +++ Zwangsstörungen +++ Angststörungen +++ Prokrastination +++ Therapie +++ Psychotherapie +++ Verhaltenstherapie +++ Exzellenzismus +++**********In dieser Folge mit: Moderation: Katrin Ohlendorf Vortragende: Barbara Cludius, Professorin für Klinische Psychologie und Psychotherapie des Erwachsenenalters, Uni Bremen**********Hörtipp und HilfeHörtipp: Deutschlandfunk-Podcast "Tatort Kunst"Dieses Thema belastet dich? Hier findest du eine Übersicht mit Hilfsangeboten**********Ihr hört in diesem Hörsaal:2:02 - Start des Vortrags2:38 - Was ist Perfektionismus?9:27 - Wie hängt Perfektionismus mit klinischen Störungen zusammen?24:18 - Was hilft gegen Perfektionismus?29:31 - Erste Verhaltensübung gegen Perfektionismus32:40 - Evidenz zur Wirkung Kognitiver Verhaltenstherapie bei Perfektionismus33:39 - Zweite Verhaltensübung37:46 - Ist ein bisschen Perfektion nicht doch gut?42:58 - Fazit**********Quellen aus der Folge:Claus, Nathalie; Cludius, Barbara; Egan, Sarah J.; Shafran, Roz; Ehring, Thomas; Takano, Keisuke und Limburg, Karina (2025): Perfectionism as a risk factor for psychopathology in a community sample of young women: disorder-specific pathways to disordered eating or obsessive-compulsive symptoms. In: Cognitive Behaviour Therapy, Bd. 54, Nr. 5: S. 664-684.Claus, Nathalie; Miegel, Franziska; Jelinek, Lena; Landmann, Sarah; Moritz, Steffen; Külz, Anne Katrin; Rubel, Julian und Cludius, Barbara (2023): Perfectionism as Possible Predictor for Treatment Success in Mindfulness-Based Cognitive Therapy and Metacognitive Training as Third-Wave Treatments for Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder. In: Cognitive Therapy and Research, Bd. 47, Nr. 3: S. 439-453.Cludius, Barbara; Landmann, Sarah; Külz, Anne-Katrin; Takano, Keisuke; Moritz, Steffen; Jelinek, Lena (2022): Direct and indirect assessment of perfectionism in patients with depression and obsessive-compulsive disorder. PLoS ONE 17(10): e0270184.Roth, Isabel; Cludius, Barbara; Egan, Sarah J.; Limburg, Karina (2021). Evaluation of the Factor Structure and Psychometric Properties of the German Version of the Clinical Perfectionism Questionnaire: The CPQ-D. Clinical Psychology in Europe, 3(2), Article e3623.Neff, Kristin; Germer, Christopher K. (2018): The Mindful Self-compassion Workbook: A Proven Way to Accept Yourself, Build Inner Strength, and Thrive. Guilford Press. – In Deutsch: Neff, Kristin; Germer, Christopher K. (2019): Selbstmitgefühl – Das Übungsbuch: Ein bewährter Weg zu Selbstakzeptanz, innerer Stärke und Freundschaft mit sich selbst. Arbor Verlag.**********Mehr zum Thema bei Deutschlandfunk Nova:Psychologie: Wie wir unsere Persönlichkeit verändern könnenMental Health und Social Media: Das Geschäft mit unserer PsycheResilienz: Wie wir uns selber krisenfest machen**********Den Artikel zum Stück findet ihr hier.**********Ihr könnt uns auch auf diesen Kanälen folgen: TikTok und Instagram .

Welcome to a special holiday installment of the Do Good to Lead Well podcast, where I explore how to embrace the festive spirit without feeling overwhelmed by stress. This episode compiles scientific and anecdotal evidence, providing actionable advice for achieving genuine disconnection from work as well as authentic connection with our friends and family. Understand the necessity of truly stepping away from work to allow for restoration, enabling you to start the new year with renewed vigor.The episode also delves into the importance of being mindful of conversational topics during holiday gatherings. Learn strategies for navigating discussions to maintain a positive and constructive environment, safeguarding your relationships from unnecessary tension. We will also highlight the perils of pursuing perfection, highlighting that the true essence of the holidays lies in connection and shared moments. Explore the concept of giving experiences as gifts, which create lasting psychological and emotional benefits. I close by sharing perhaps the most meaningful gift we can give those we care about. It is simpler and more powerful than you may think.What You'll Learn- How can we maintain the season's magic without losing our peace?- The importance of disconnection for reconnection- Why we need to set boundaries to show up at our best- The perils of chasing perfection- Give the gift of experience- The power of being intentional about our attention KEYWORDSPositive Leadership, Holiday Stress, Relaxation and Recovery, Recharging, Self-Care, Setting Boundaries, The Power of a Positive No, Perfectionism, Nurturing Relationships, Digital Detox, Happiness, Meaningful Life, Well-Being, Interpersonal Connection, Positive Conversations, Positive Communication, Attention Economy, Family Dynamics, Mental Health, Managing Stress, Success Principles

Brené Brown said, "Perfectionism is a twenty-ton shield that we lug around thinking it will protect us when, in fact, it's the thing that's really preventing us from taking flight." And in this week's episode, John Maxwell is showing how that's true — and how acknowledging your flaws frees you to become a high road leader.  After his lesson, Mark Cole and Traci Morrow explore practical ways to develop self-compassion, laugh at yourself, and believe in your unique potential, so you can apply John's insights to your life and leadership.   Key takeaways:  Confident humility allows you to believe in yourself while still questioning your strategies. If you don't show yourself kindness, you won't be able to extend it to anyone else. The world needs you to embrace your humanness and step fully into your unique leadership greatness.  Our BONUS resource for this episode is the Acknowledge Your Humanness Worksheet, which includes fill-in-the-blank notes from John's teaching. You can download the worksheet by visiting MaxwellPodcast.com/Acknowledge and clicking "Download the Bonus Resource."  Take the next step in your growth journey and become a Maxwell Leadership Certified Team Member. Click here to speak with a Program Advisor today!  References:  Watch this episode on YouTube!  Accelerate your growth with the Maxwell Leadership App (start your 7-day free trial today with code PODCAST7!)  Listen to John Maxwell's song, "Get Over Myself"  How to Be a Relatable Leader Podcast Episode  Join the Maxwell Leadership Certified Team 

So we left you on a cliffhanger at the end of our last live counseling sesh — & we know, that's the WOAT. The gold you've been waiting for from counselor Lee Long is here. In the last one you watched as Laura live processed her life with a counselor, forgetting the cameras were on. And now it's time to turn the tables & have Nicoletta do the same.  Raw, honest, teary, & powerful—enjoy this episode & share it if you found it helpful. To join our monthly partnership team & help make episodes like this possible, go to CallHerHoly.com/donate. We love you holy babes.  Merry Christmas!! -Laura & Nico Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

It's Christmas Eve, and maybe you're already thinking about January 1st. Already making plans to finally fix yourself—to eat better, exercise more, have more control. But what if the greatest gift you could give yourself this holiday has nothing to do with fixing yourself at all?In this episode, we explore why the constant search for the next fix keeps you stuck, and what actually creates lasting change. What You'll Discover:• Why trying to fix yourself is actually keeping you stuck• What your body really needs instead of more control• How to rebuild self-trust from the inside out• The gift that actually changes everythingWhether the holidays are joyful or difficult for you, whether you're surrounded by loved ones or navigating loss, there's insight here that can help you break free from the fixing cycle.Want to know why you struggle with food and what to do next? Start watching The Binge Breakthrough Mini Series today.

Are you a Highly Sensitive Person under stress? Find out—take the free test at https://trueinnerfreedom.com/joy-pressure/ Is Your Passion Fueling You — or Silently Draining You? What if the joy you once felt for your creative work has been quietly replaced by pressure and perfectionism? In this episode of Stress Management for Highly Sensitive People, we explore how passion can subtly morph into performance anxiety—and how to reconnect with the reason you started in the first place. If you're a highly sensitive person (HSP), you know what it's like to care deeply about your work. But when your worth gets tangled up in the outcome, your creativity starts to feel like a burden rather than a gift. This episode is a gentle yet powerful reminder that your value is not defined by how perfect your work appears—but by the joy it brings you. Listen in to discover: The invisible moment when healthy passion turns into toxic perfectionism—and how to spot it. Why tying your worth to results silently kills your motivation. A simple mindset shift that can bring back the lightness, freedom, and fun in your creative life. Hit play now and rediscover how to create from joy—not pressure.   Todd Smith, founder of True Inner Freedom Dreaming of a stress-free, balanced life? Visit trueinnerfreedom.com and complete the HSP Stress Survey. Gain clarity on your stress triggers and enjoy a free 15-minute Inner Freedom Call designed to guide you toward lasting inner peace and fulfillment. Are you a highly sensitive person (HSP) or someone who identifies as hypersensitive or neurodivergent? This podcast is dedicated to helping highly sensitive people (HSPs) navigate overwhelm and stress by using The Work of Byron Katie—a powerful method for questioning stressful thoughts and finding true inner freedom. We dive deep into stress management strategies, coping with stress, and stress relief methods specifically tailored for HSPs. Learn how to manage emotions, especially negative ones, and explore effective stress reduction techniques that go beyond the surface to address the root causes of anxiety and pressure. Whether you're interested in learning how to lower stress, handle stress and pressure, or reduce stress through practical techniques, we provide insights and support based on The Work of Byron Katie. Discover how this transformative approach can help you decrease stress, find inner peace, and create balance in your life. Join us to learn about various coping strategies for stress, all designed to support HSPs in their journey toward emotional well-being.

On today's episode, I am so excited for you to hear this conversation with my sweet friend Lisa Vee! Lisa is a former corporate sales leader turned women's confidence coach, and she shares the details on how she completely shook up her life to become the person she is today.   We talk about: -eating disorder recovery, -divorce, -motherhood and how it reshaped her, -and the work she does to help other mompreneurs and birth workers completely shift their lives.   Lisa's experience required letting go of control and stepping into confidence, even when the world was telling her the opposite. We talk practically about how this looks in her day-to-day and the constant mindset work that comes with it. The pain and growth through Lisa's transformation is what has allowed her to build a business and live a life that reflects complete authenticity today.   If you need a dose of encouragement or relatability, I highly recommend tuning into this inspiring episode!

This episode is a behind-the-scenes look at what really happens when success comes faster than your nervous system knows how to hold.I'm sharing the full story of what unfolded after a wildly intuitive, expansive year in business and how unworthiness, perfectionism, and fear quietly took over once things felt “too easy.” What followed was burnout, over-efforting, identity collapse, and ultimately a five-month sabbatical that changed everything.We're talking about the nervous system science behind becoming the woman you desire to be… not through force or mindset hacks, but through safety, practice, and embodiment. Why “acting as if” actually works, how success can feel threatening to the body, and why breaking was the doorway to everything I was trying to create.This is about becoming her from the inside out.TOPICS & TANGENTS: • What happens when success outpaces nervous system capacity • The hidden unworthiness that follows “too easy” wins • Perfectionism as protection, not discipline • Why success can feel unsafe to the body • The be–do–have model vs. chasing outcomes • Acting as if through nervous system rehearsal, not pretending • Identity, safety, and practicing your future before it arrives • Why abundance requires regulation, not effort • Micro decisions that rewire who you're becomingPOINT OF THE STORY: You don't become her by achieving more. You become her by teaching your body it's safe to be who you already are.MENTIONED: • Microdosing as a nervous-system support for neuroplasticity and regulation • Golden Rule — including Superflow and Soul Gummies • Code ASH10 for 10% offIf you're setting goals for the next season of your life and wondering why they feel heavy instead of exciting, this episode is your reminder: becoming her starts with safety, not pressure.Are you loving it? Send Ash a text! MORE ABOUT ASHI am the definition of duality — I swear like a sailor and break rules like it's my job, but I also hold incredible space for my clients and work my ass off to help them achieve the success they're after. But I'm also here for the non-preneur woman, too. My background in counseling gives me a unique perspective on what it means to show up, serve, & create connection for those who feel like they've never belonged before. LINKS: Become the Regulated Woman Get emails that feel like your best friend (if your best friend was a therapist and actually told you the truth). Use code BB20 to get The Burnout Breakthrough for only $7 Follow me on IG (dropping in once a quarter for updates & gossip) Website: ashmcdonaldmentoring.com Work with me 1:1 Therapeutic Mentorship Business Therapy (therapy + strategic mentorship) ...

SummaryIn this episode of the Planet Talk Podcast, Vienna Ortiz discusses the feelings of disorientation and overwhelm that often accompany the week between Christmas and New Year. She emphasizes the importance of giving oneself grace during this time, recognizing the pressures of preparing for the new year, and the impact of perfectionism on goal setting. Vienna encourages listeners to embrace fresh starts throughout the year, not just on January 1st, and shares practical tips for maintaining routines and managing holiday stress.Chapters00:00 Welcome and Reflections on Time01:19 The Lost Week: Navigating Post-Christmas Disorientation04:14 Preparing for the New Year: The Pressure to Change07:06 Perfectionism and the New Year: Breaking the Cycle09:53 Fresh Starts: Opportunities Beyond January 1st12:44 Practical Tips for the Transition to the New Year16:34 Closing Thoughts and Future PlansInstagram: @viennaortizplansTikTok: @viennaortizplansPlanner Talk Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/planner-talk-podcast/id1545295618Paper World Stationery Expo: www.paperworldstationeryexpo.comPaper World Stationery Expo Instagram: @paperworldexpoCONTACT ME:planwithvienna@gmail.com

Let's talk about the patterns we know aren't helping… but keep falling back into anyway. People-pleasing. Perfectionism. Overfunctioning. Ever wondered why you keep doing the things you don't want to do?This week, I'm joined by the incredible Kati Morton — licensed therapist, bestselling author, and one of the very first mental health professionals to step onto YouTube.Together, we dive deep into:✨ Why we cling to control (and what's underneath it)✨ How childhood blueprints shape adult behaviour✨ The emotional red flags we often ignore✨ Managing anxiety, anger + emotional load at midlife✨ Why asking for help feels so hard — and how to shift it ✨ Breaking old patterns, gently and compassionatelyKati's latest book Why Do I Keep Doing This? is a must-read — and this episode is packed with wisdom that'll help you understand yourself more deeply.If you've been feeling overwhelmed, stretched thin, or stuck in old patterns…This one's for you

You Don't Earn Being A Good Man (Part 2) We're talking about what actually happens in a man's life when he believes one story versus the other, how seeing yourself as good or broken shapes your reactions, your relationships, and the way you show up in the world." SECTION 1 — Identity Split (Good Man vs. Bad Man) When a man sees himself as GOOD: More present and grounded. Slower reactions. Empathy increases. Honest about emotions. Healthy boundaries. Accountability without collapse. Less numbing, more connection. Confidence without performing. When a man sees himself as BAD: Overreactions or shutdowns. Withdrawal, isolation. Harsh self-talk. Perfectionism or procrastination. More porn, alcohol, scrolling, workaholism. People-pleasing or controlling. Difficulty receiving love. Self-sabotage.     SECTION 2 — Personal Stories "My deeper story was…" "My statue was buried under…" A simple memory or scene that shaped your identity wound. A moment when you realized your goodness wasn't gone. Something another man in AMG said that hit you. A time you behaved badly because you believed you were bad.     SECTION 3 — Tools & Practices That Helped "My mistakes are moments, not my identity." Naming shame out loud so it loses power. Shifting from performance to presence. "I'm already good. Start from there." Getting affirmation from other grounded men. Telling the truth in a circle instead of hiding. Practicing receiving encouragement even when it feels uncomfortable. Simple grounding practices: breath, voice, slowing down.     SECTION 4 — Why This Matters for Family & Community Your kids mirror your identity more than your actions. Partners feel your groundedness. Men show up differently when they know they're good. Presence replaces defensiveness. Courage replaces avoidance. Integrity replaces performance. Leadership becomes relational, not controlling.     CLOSING — The AMG Identity Use these lines as talking points: Goodness is original, not earned. Mistakes are dirt, not identity. The statue has never gone anywhere. You don't "become" a good man — you remember you already were one. This is why AMG exists: men remember their identity together. Identity grows in circles, not isolation. And remember,  "You are a good man." We are not saying this as a reward that you have earned or trying to make you feel better, but as a reminder of your identity and how you want to show up for yourself, others, and our community.  

Are you chasing perfection? Are you trying to be your ‘ideal self'? In this episode, Danny and Randy discuss the ‘ideal self' trap and how to deal with it. Subscribe to ESP's YouTube Channel! Thanks for listening!  Do you have a question you want answered in a future episode? If so, send your question to: existentialstoic@protonmail.com

Are you tired of never feeling good enough? In this insightful Best of conversation, psychologist Ellen Hendriksen, author of How to Be Enough: Self-Acceptance for Self-Critics and Perfectionists, shares strategies to escape the perfectionism trap. Learn how to pursue excellence without harsh self-criticism, shift from rigid rules to living by your core values, and make room for imperfection - allowing you to live the life you truly want.You can find Ellen at: Website | Instagram | How to Be Good to Yourself When You're Hard on Yourself Substack | Episode TranscriptIf you LOVED this episode, you'll also love the conversations we had with Ellen about overcoming social anxiety.Check out our offerings & partners: Join My New Writing Project: Awake at the WheelVisit Our Sponsor Page For Great Resources & Discount Codes Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode of the Tactical Living Podcast, hosts Coach Ashlie Walton and Sergeant Clint Walton unpack a silent but powerful burnout driver in law enforcement — perfectionism (Amazon Affiliate). From writing flawless reports… to never missing a detail… to making split-second decisions under pressure… to constantly being evaluated by body cams, supervisors, and public opinion… Police work breeds a mindset where mistakes feel unacceptable — even when they're human. And that relentless pursuit of "never good enough" slowly erodes confidence, mental health, and home life. This episode explores how perfectionism shows up in police work, why it's so damaging, and how officers can pursue excellence without destroying themselves in the process.

Send us a textHave you ever wondered why food cravings feel impossible to control—even when you “know better”? What if the issue was never willpower at all?In this episode of I sit down with Sandy Zeldes, a subconscious healing expert, certified nutrition consultant, and former celebrity chef, to unpack the real reason so many high-achieving women struggle with food, cravings, and self-criticism.Sandy shares why emotional eating, perfectionism, and anxiety are often rooted in subconscious patterns—and how healing those patterns can transform not just your relationship with food, but your confidence, business, and family life.This is a powerful conversation for moms who are exhausted from dieting, beating themselves up, and feeling stuck in cycles they don't understand.In this episode, we discuss:Why food cravings aren't a willpower problemHow anxiety and subconscious stress drive emotional eatingThe role perfectionism plays in body image and self-worthWhy diets and quick fixes fail long-termHow EFT (Emotional Freedom Technique) helps release subconscious blocksThe surprising link between food struggles, business stress, and relationshipsWhy your body is not broken—and never wasHow healing the root creates food freedom, peace, and clarityIf you're a mom entrepreneur who's tried everything and still feels stuck, this episode will give you permission, insight, and hope.Connect with Sandy Zeldes: 

Run your agency with clarity, confidence, and control. Many creative and marketing agency owners are closer to real growth than they realize.In this episode, Jesse Gilmore, CEO and founder of Niche in Control, breaks down the mindset and structure shifts that agency owners must make to achieve freedom, scalability, and financial success. He shares how to move from being the doer to being the leader, why perfectionism is holding you back, and how to build a business that thrives without you working 80-hour weeks. Key takeaways:The 80/20 rule for creativity. Learn how to systemize 80% of your operations so you can focus your creativity on the 20%.How to overcome perfectionism. Perfectionism keeps agency owners trapped. Power of time audits. Discover how tracking your time for just seven days can expose hidden inefficiencies.  Value-based pricing beats hourly billing. Learn how value-based pricing helps agencies earn more while working less.How to go upmarket strategically. Agencies must move toward strategy-based offers and premium clients to stay competitive.Tune into the episode of ▶️Stop Thinking Like a Freelancer—Start Earning Like a Founder.Find more podcast episodes on our website: anderscpa.com/learn/podcasts/  Episode resources:●       Anders Virtual CFO by Anders website: anderscpa.com  ●       Love our content? Sign up for our newsletter:  https://anderscpa.com/learn/    ●       Check out the Virtual CFO Playbook Course:  https://anderscpa.com/virtual-cfo-services/vcfo-playbook/     Quotes-Jesse Gilmore: "Tracking time reveals hidden inefficiencies. Once you see where time really goes, you can start eliminating, automating, and delegating effectively."-Jamie Nau: "An outside perspective helps agencies see what truly sets them apart, what you think is your strength might not be what clients value most."Jesse Gilmore is the CEO and founder of Niche in Control, where he helps full-service creative and marketing agency owners scale their businesses while reclaiming their time and freedom. Through his Leverage for Growth program, Jesse guides agency leaders from being hands-on hustlers to confident CEOs who build scalable systems, attract high-value clients, and lead empowered teams. His proven methods have helped countless agency owners double revenue, increase profit margins, and reduce work hours all without sacrificing quality or balance.  Website: https://www.nicheincontrol.com/     FB: https://www.facebook.com/NicheInControl    LI: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jessepgilmore/https://www.linkedin.com/company/niche-in-control/     IG: https://www.instagram.com/niche.in.control/    X: https://x.com/ControlNiche  TitTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@nicheincontrol  &nb

In this episode, our Teacher of the Month Jeff Warren guides you through a meditation practice inspired by Zen and the Diamond Sutra: "Don't Know Mind." Sometimes the need to know—certainty about what's true, what's coming next, or how things "should" be—can create tension, anxiety, and overthinking. The antidote? Letting go of that need, resting in curiosity and openness, and cultivating a mind that dwells nowhere. To get more meditations from Jeff and our other teachers — plus join our weekly live sessions (every Tuesday at 4pm ET) — you can sign up at DanHarris.com. Related episodes: Working With a Brain That Doesn't Behave | Jeff Warren   Join Dan's online community here Follow Dan on social: Instagram, TikTok Subscribe to our YouTube Channel   To advertise on the show, contact sales@advertisecast.com or visit https://advertising.libsyn.com/10HappierwithDanHarris  

Brett and Joe have nailed the PERFECT episode, which means they can finally get this podcast launched! Now they just need to get the perfect album art, title, set…and the perfect list of everything they need to do before they can launch the perfect podcast!In this episode, our hosts tackle everyone's favourite Achilles heel: perfectionism. It shows up in individuals, teams, organizations, and entire societies. They explore where it comes from, why it has increased dramatically over the past decades, and how it narrows perception, creates internal chaos, and—paradoxically—produces worse results.They discuss:Perfectionism is fundamentally fear-based, not excellence-basedHow perfectionism predicts the same negative health outcomes as chronic stressThe rise of perfectionism over the past 30 years and why things haven't gotten betterBinary thinking and the illusion of a perfect end stateThe childhood roots of perfectionism and chaotic environmentsWhy perfectionism actually creates the chaos it's trying to preventHow organizations unintentionally reward fear and stagnationPractical ways to work with fear, the inner critic, and the nervous systemRelated Research: How Perfectionist Leaders Stifle Creativity (Forbes)Perfectionism Is Increasing (HBR)Why Being A Perfectionist Is Bad For Your Health (Self)Send us your questions on Twitter, through our website, or in our Circle community! Joe on X: @FU_JoeHudson|Brett on X: @airkistler AOA on X: @artofaccompVisit Us: www.artofaccomplishment.comWe invite you to experience our work. Reserve your spot at www.view.life/explore Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

What if the burnout you're feeling isn't just about your workload, but about the stories running on repeat in your mind?Psychotherapist Judith Belmont joins me to talk about cognitive behavioral therapy for healers, empaths, and sensitive practitioners who find themselves trapped in patterns of perfectionism, self-doubt, and exhaustion. With over 40 years of experience, Judith explains how automatic negative thoughts drain our energy, why self-compassion matters more than achievement, and how to use simple thought logs to rewrite the inner dialogue that's been holding you back.We discuss the "$20 bill" metaphor that reminds us we're worthy no matter how crumpled we feel, why comparing yourself to others steals your joy, and how healers can protect their energy by learning to catch and change destructive thinking patterns before burnout takes hold.If you've been working twice as hard for half the results, this conversation offers practical tools to help you stop giving your power away to thoughts that aren't even true.Find her book here: https://amzn.to/4s88JkZ. and her website here https://belmontwellness.com/Show notes at https://www.breakfreefromtheburnout.comGet your breakthrough quantum call: https://www.scientifichealer.com/quantum Liked this episode? Pay it forward and share it with a friend.Love the show? Write a 5-star review — even one sentence helps us keep bringing you the content you want to hear. More from Dr. Anastasia: Websites: https://www.healersu.com and https://www.scientifichealer.com LinkedIn: https://linkedin.com/in/drachopelas Facebook: https://facebook.com/dranastasiachopelas YouTube: https://youtube.com/c/dranastasiachopelas Some product links on this site are affiliate links, which means we'll earn a small commission for any affiliate purchases you make (at no additional cost to you). We only recommend products that we use and/or personally trust, so you can browse with confidence.

Perfectionism says mindfulness must be done “right.” We flip that script. In this conversation, we share an everyday approach to mindfulness designed for overwhelmed and neurodivergent brains—one that starts with safety, honors choice, and turns presence into something you can actually enjoy.We begin by grounding in self-compassion and a simple reframe: rather than labeling thoughts and feelings as right or wrong, notice whether they feel pleasant, unpleasant, or neutral. That shift softens inner criticism and reveals the body-level signatures of judgment—tightness, holding, disconnection—so you can meet them with care. From there, we build a practical toolkit: mindful walking to anchor attention in the feet, mindful standing to steady posture and breath, and short breath check-ins you can use while moving, working, or speaking.Because novelty and play boost engagement, we add choice-based micro-practices: spot five colors, listen for five sounds, or savor a quick tasting of chocolate or different waters, paying attention to texture, aroma, and aftertaste. These pleasant, low-stakes exercises train present-moment awareness without triggering the pressure to “meditate perfectly.” For days that can hold more intensity, we fold in compassionate phrases and gentle touch, always letting you opt out, scale down, or switch anchors.Throughout, we emphasize trauma-sensitive mindfulness: consent, titration, and external anchoring before deep internal focus when needed. We highlight resources from leaders like David Treleaven, Christopher Germer, and Willoughby Britton to help coaches and practitioners stay attuned to safety. By the end, you'll have a flexible menu to reduce overwhelm, loosen perfectionism, and make mindfulness a supportive part of daily life—no incense, cushions, or hour-long sits required.If this resonates, follow the show, share it with someone who could use gentler tools, and leave a review with the micro-practice you'll try this week.Support the showAdd your 5‑star review — this really helps others find us. Free Mindfulness Exercises: MindfulnessExercises.com 200 Guided Meditation Scripts: Scripts.MindfulnessExercises.com Certify To Teach Mindfulness: Certify.MindfulnessExercises.com Work with Sean Fargo: Sean.MindfulnessExercises.com/ Reduce Chronic Pain: Pain.MindfulnessExercises.com Email: Sean@MindfulnessExercises.com

In this episode of the Creator Method Podcast, Gary sits down with Jessica Weiss, renowned happiness expert, executive coach, TEDx speaker, and author of Happiness Works. With over 15 years of experience coaching leaders at organizations such as American Express, Johnson & Johnson, and Coca-Cola, Jessica brings neuroscience, positive psychology, and real-world performance insights into the creator economy. Together, they break down why creators feel burned out, overwhelmed, and inconsistent even when things appear to be working. Jessica explains the brain science behind negativity bias, perfectionism, imposter syndrome, and the fear of being seen, revealing why our brains are wired for survival, not happiness, and how that wiring quietly sabotages creativity and confidence. They also explore the emotional cost of constant output, why creators slip into autopilot mode, and how ignoring replenishment shows up in performance, engagement, and data. Jessica shares practical tools for managing pressure, building sustainable creative rhythms, and separating self-worth from metrics so creators can grow without burning out. This conversation is a masterclass in sustainable creativity, mindset, and long-term success. If you are a creator, entrepreneur, or high performer who feels stuck, exhausted, or trapped in a cycle of pressure and self-doubt, this episode will change how you think about your brain, your habits, and your creative potential. Apply for Creator Method https://creatormethod.com/ Follow Creator Method on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/creator.method/ Spotify https://open.spotify.com/show/4Bjs61g10V8MEBjg2pfJFi?si=1a8b57227c8b41d7 Timestamps 00:00 Introduction and Jessica's Background 02:10 Why Creators Feel Overwhelmed 05:00 The Science Behind Burnout 08:20 Your Brain and Survival Mode 11:00 Perfectionism and Inconsistency 14:30 Energy Depletion and Autopilot 18:00 Replenishment and Sustainable Creativity 25:00 Imposter Syndrome and Fear of Being Seen 33:00 Metrics, Mindset, and Self-Worth 40:00 Building a Creator Career That Lasts 48:00 Final Takeaways Follow Jessica Weiss on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/thejessicaweiss/ Follow Gary on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/garylipovetsky TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@garylipovetsky

Support the showI help women lose weight & become a badass while doing it !

In this episode, Cindy Esliger addresses perfectionism and why the drive to be perfect quietly sabotages us, fuelling procrastination and self-doubt. The pursuit of flawlessness seems like a noble quest, but it proves to be a cleverly disguised trap that delays progress and increases our stress. What is the alternative to perfectionism? Cindy explains that sustainable excellence is what we should strive for over perfection. It's a balance of ambition with self-compassion that protects our mental health and rebuilds confidence.   Perfectionism becomes a loop that urges us to set impossibly high standards, feel anxious about meeting those standards, avoid the task due to the pressure we created, finally get the task done in a panic, and then, exhausted, still believe we could have done better. Flawlessness is damaging and drives us to constantly outdo ourselves. Cindy points out five ways in which perfectionism messes with our performance, well-being, and career growth: 1. Expectation, escalation, and burnout, 2. Mental health fallout, 3. Inconsistent performance, 4. Refusal to delegate, and 5. Plateaued growth.  Cindy advises that we shift our energy from being perfect to being more strategic. She explains intentional imperfection and how it involves choosing where to be excellent and where to be average on purpose. She offers five strategies for moving away from the perfectionism trap: 1. Use time, not outcome, to set boundaries, 2. Get honest about the trade-offs, 3. Practice planned procrastination, 4. Recalibrate what enough means, and 5. Intentionally choose where to excel. It's okay to want to be great, but greatness doesn't come from being perfect. It comes from showing up consistently and learning through missteps.Resources discussed in this episode:Guide to Letting GoAstronomic AudioConfidence Collective—Contact Cindy Esliger Career Confidence Coaching: website | instagram | facebook | linkedin | email Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Vic and Max are ushering in the holidays with a Christmas Spectacular episode filled with nostalgia, tradition, and plenty of laughs. They swap childhood memories, debate the most iconic modern Christmas songs, reflect on the traditions they want to keep or create for their family, and share the sweet (and chaotic) moments that shaped their holidays growing up. From heartfelt gift stories to surprising hot takes on Christmas cards and a rapid-fire Christmas edition of “this or that,” this episode will instantly put you in the holiday mood. Tune in to celebrate the season with Vic and Max and feel all the festive joy!// SPONSORS // Quince: Go to quince.com/realpod to get free. Shipping and 365-day returns.Crunchmaster: Find Crunchmaster at a store near you!Storyworth: Save $10 or more during their Holiday sale when you go to storyworth.com/realpod! Please note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode.Produced by Dear Media.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Join us - https://simplyconvivial.com/coaching | Perfectionism blinds us to the beauty already in front of us. In this episode, I talk with Rachel Wendel, a wife and mom of four who discovered how small touches of beauty—and a massive mindset shift—changed her homemaking from burdensome to joyful.Rachel shares:Why perfectionism kept her from starting anythingHow tiny, inexpensive beauty touches lifted the whole mood of her homeWhat happened when she let her kids participate in creating beautyHow conversations with her husband shifted her entire vision for their homeWhy she had to repent of wanting a “picture-perfect” house instead of a family homeThe heart-level issue behind why adding beauty felt overwhelmingHer story is a powerful reminder: you don't need a perfect house to make it beautiful. You need attention, iteration, and a willingness to let real life—not Pinterest—shape your home.

Feeling stuck in ND corporate grind or creative chaos? In this episode of Adulting with Autism, host April chats getting unstuck for neurodivergent entrepreneurs with Murielle Ungricht, autistic business coach (25 years experience, founded/sold businesses, certified master career coach). Late-diagnosed autistic, TEDx speaker/author of "Get Unstuck!" (self-help for procrastination/overthinking), and founder/CEO of Nuumani.com (AI-human coaching platform for accessible support), Murielle mentors "unconventional" creatives/ND folks to trade fear for joy—focusing on entrepreneurship/productivity/mental health/trauma/leadership/feminism. Key insights: Late diagnosis journey: From feeling "wrong" to embracing gifts (detail-oriented/resilient routines); measure personal wins, not NT standards. Unstuck formula: Recognize autistic strengths (structure/habits) for success; trial/error to build sustainable systems (e.g., batching content to avoid overwhelm). Perfectionism/self-sabotage: Rewire negative voice (mindfulness: "Is it true? What if opposite?"); drop bars gradually—produce "good enough" without procrastination. AI coaching (Nuumani): Democratizes access (free sessions/human network); combines her tech/coaching background for ND-friendly tools. Young autistics: Find formula for world not built for you—expose to new safely, forgive meltdowns, seek support; "so what?" mindset for fearless living. Advice: Don't worry—start now; connect dots with strengths (big picture + detail); consistency over blueprints (AI helps, but human touch essential). For autistic/ADHD young adults/entrepreneurs, Murielle's vibe: "Be unreasonable for amazing life—autism isn't barrier, it's superpower." Free session at muriellemarie.com; TEDx: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BxligD1idto; Nuumani: nuumani.com. Subscribe for ND career hacks! Rate/review on Podbean/Apple/Spotify. Linktree:(socials/shop/Podbean). Holiday merch sale: 30% off tees/hoodies with code BLACK25 at https://adulting-with-autism-shop.fourthwall.com—unstuck your style fierce! #AutisticEntrepreneurCoach #GetUnstuckND #AICoachingNeurodivergent #CreativeCareersAutism #PerfectionismADHDSabotage #TEDxAutisticMentor #AdultingWithAutism #MentalHealthYoungAdults #PodMatch #Podcasts #BTSArmy #BTSNeurodivergent #Autism #AuDHD #ADHD #OT #OTTips

In this deeply honest episode, we sit down with Nora Neiterman, creative director, brand strategist, and founder of Unsweetened New York, to talk about what happens when success comes at the cost of yourself. Nora shares how building a powerful, authentic brand while juggling motherhood, caregiving, and perfectionism eventually pushed her into full-blown burnout, and why ignoring the warning signs is so common for women in midlife.Together, we explore the hidden toll of living in constant overdrive and why healing doesn't start by doing more, but by slowing down. Nora opens up about perimenopause, grief, nervous system work, psychedelic therapy, and the surprising ways her creativity returned once she finally listened to her body. If you're feeling exhausted, disconnected, or quietly wondering how long you can keep going like this, this conversation will land.Episode Highlights: [2:01] – From fashion school to building Unsweetened New York [4:00] – The moment that sparked the brand and why authenticity resonated so deeply [7:35] – Why women connected so powerfully to unapologetic messaging [9:31] – Advice for women with an idea who feel “too busy” or “too late” [12:28] – Why midlife is actually the prime time to pivot and build something new [14:24] – When passion turns into pressure and the freight train won't slow down [17:56] – Early warning signs of burnout that are easy to ignore [19:52] – Sleep deprivation, stimulants, and living in constant overdrive [22:08] – Perfectionism, resentment, and struggling to ask for help [25:46] – Perimenopause, grief, and the slow approach of the wall [31:21] – Starting over with micro-steps instead of more “stacking” [33:15] – Psychedelic therapy, intention setting, and unexpected healing [35:52] – Letting go of alcohol, stimulants, and old coping mechanisms [38:56] – Reconnecting with creativity by learning how to feel again [39:58] – Final reflections on authenticity, healing, and choosing yourselfLinks & Resources:Unsweetened New York Website: www.unsweetenednewyork.com Unsweetened NY on Instagram: @unsweetenednewyork Nora on Instagram: @noraneitermanIf today's conversation resonated with you or sparked curiosity, please rate, follow, and share Insights from the Couch with others. Your support helps us reach more women and continue having these honest, meaningful conversations.Pre-order The Cost of Quiet now! Colette's new book, The Cost of Quiet: How to Have the Hard Conversations that Create Secure, Lasting Love, launches February 3rd. Secure your copy today and get VIP bonuses available only before launch day. https://www.colettejanefehr.com/new-book

Many people hold themselves to extremely high standards, but when the scales tip to the pursuit of perfection, it can result in anxiety, depression, and other serious mental health issues. In this episode, host Samantha Laine Perfas talks with journalist Jennifer Breheny Wallace, psychologist Ellen Hendriksen, and public health expert Michaela Kerrissey about when we've gone too far in trying to achieve our best.

What do you do when your whole identity revolves around academic performance? Well, for Ava Ward, it wasn't good. The stress to perform at top level caused anxiety, even panic attacks. After a particularly dark freshman year of high school, Ava came to the realization that her obsession with good grades had become an idol. At Bear Lake Camp, she realized she had a divided heart and her idolatry was supplanting faith in Christ. She did an about face, changed schools, changed her mindset, even changed her career path to studying the Bible and art, things a smart person just doesn't do! It all comes to a head when Ava forgoes her graduation speech as valedictorian, fruit of a new heart.See what happens when Ava gives her burden of perfection to the Lord, gets an undivided heart, and pursues Jesus full on as a biblical studies major at Wheaton College  This episode would be encouraging for those battling anxiety or perfectionist tendencies, showing them steps to freedom in Christ.  Helpful Links:The Bible ProjectBear Lake CampWheaton CollegeWheaton College Biblical and Theological Studies majorThe Humble Skeptic PodcastEcclesiastes 1:14Psalm 861 Peter 4:11OneWayOneWay Internship Program (it's awesome)Let us know what you thought of the show!Follow One80 on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or our website.Never miss a One80. Join our email list. Follow us on Instagram.Share One80, here's how!OneWay Ministries

Have you ever felt your routine fall apart during the holidays and immediately assumed your progress was slipping? The mix of travel, heavier meals and unpredictable schedules can make your body feel different fast, but those shifts are not the setback your mind tells you they are.In this episode we talk about how your strength responds during chaotic seasons, why momentum matters more than perfect structure and how small anchors like movement snacks, protein and hydration keep you connected to yourself when everything else feels messy.We also break down the body image triggers that tend to show up this time of year. Lighting, angles, outfits and family comments can activate old beliefs quickly, and learning how to pause and reframe those moments helps you stay grounded instead of spiraling.If you want a clearer way to move through holiday chaos with confidence, calm and a lot less fear of starting over, this conversation will meet you right where you are and give you tools you can use immediately. Tune in.What's Discussed:(00:00) Why holiday chaos makes your progress feel fragile(01:37) What your body is truly responding to during this season(05:36) How slowing down can support strength instead of hurting it(06:46) Ways to stay consistent when your schedule falls apart(13:07) How mini lifts and movement snacks protect your momentum(17:11) What holiday food actually does for strength and recovery(18:28) Where holiday body image triggers come from and how to handle them(22:23) How to stay strong without your full routineThank You to Our Sponsors:Timeline: Get you free 3-day trial of Mitopure gummies. Head over to timeline.com/taragummies to claim yours.Check out more from Broads:Website: www.broads.appInstagram: @broads.podcast @broads.app

1. Opening & Setup (Intro)· J.R. introduces the topic: a frustrating moment at home that sparked the conversation· Brief context:o Blended family dynamicso Three kids in the house: ages 13, 11, and almost 2· Set the tone: honest, relatable, and open to listener advice2. The Incident That Sparked It All· J.R. explains what happened the night before:o J.R. was sick and out of commissiono Dinner dishes left in the kitcheno Normally he does the dishes· Asking the older girls for help:o Simple task: wash dishes and load the dishwashero Reaction from the kids felt extreme and resistant· J.R.'s emotional reaction:o Frustrationo Feeling like something has to change3. The Bigger Question: Why No Chores?· Reflection on responsibilities in the household:o Mom does everything: cooking, cleaning, driving, shoppingo Kids are given what they want and taken everywhere· J.R. questions:o Is it unreasonable to expect kids this age to help?o Is this a parenting issue, a generational issue, or both?· Comparison to host's childhood:o Chores were non-negotiableo If someone cooked, someone else cleanedo Responsibility was just part of life4. Shared Experiences & Self-Reflection· Launa shares:o Their own kids don't do chores eithero Admits it's partly the parents' fault· Reasons chores don't happen:o Busy schedules (sports, homework, showers)o Parents wanting things done quickly and correctlyo Perfectionism and lack of trust in kids doing it “right”· Acknowledgment:o Teaching and training takes timeo Avoidance creates long-term problems5. The Core Parenting Dilemma· Kids enjoy all the benefits of the household without contributing· J.R. asks the audience:o How do you actually get kids to help?o What works beyond “just tell them to do it”?· Discussion of discipline:o Taking away iPadso Why traditional punishments don't feel as effective today· Question of consistency and follow-through6. Listener Call-In AdviceCaller 1: Allowance & Consequences· Chores tied to allowance· Miss a chore → lose money· Lesson: responsibility equals reward· Counterpoint:o Kids don't need money if parents buy everythingCaller 2: Chore Charts & Electronics· Whiteboard chore system· Clear expectations· Rewards for completion, electronics taken away if not doneCaller 3: Teaching Life Skills Early· Kids need to learn how to function in life· Chores taught early and consistently· Emphasis on follow-through:o Empty threats don't worko Parents must stand firm7. Key Takeaways & Reflections· Chores are about:o Responsibilityo Life skillso Respect for the household· Common themes from callers:o Allowances worko Consequences must be realo Parents must be consistent· Acknowledgment that blended families add complexitySee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Tycoons are devoted to relentless optimization. If they are founders of a hotel chain, they just might delay the opening of a new property for two months if the marble they ordered for the restaurant is not the precise color. If they are a tech company founder, they'll insist on getting the product to Mona-Lisa-level exquisiteness before it's released (Steve Jobs wanted the icons on the iPhone to be so magical users would want to lick them). If they are entertainment titans they'll be relentless in making sure that their film or album is astonishingly well made, no matter how much they have to suffer to get the job done at rare-air standards.My latest book “The Wealth Money Can't Buy” is full of fresh ideas and original tools that I'm absolutely certain will cause quantum leaps in your positivity, productivity, wellness, and happiness. You can order it now by clicking here.FOLLOW ROBIN SHARMA:InstagramFacebookXYouTube

SummaryIn this episode of the Gird Up podcast, host Charlie Ungemach engages with Pastor Johnny Lehmann to discuss the challenges young men face in finding their identity through a Christian lens. They explore the concept of Christian masculinity, the influence of the Manosphere, and the importance of community and accountability in the journey of faith. The conversation emphasizes the need for young men to seek their identity in Christ rather than in societal expectations or checklists, highlighting the significance of the theology of the cross and the role of confession and support from fellow believers.Chapters00:00 Introduction to Girt Up Podcast and Mission02:46 Exploring Christian Masculinity: The Journey Begins08:17 The Struggles of Young Men: Identity and Purpose15:17 Perfectionism and the Quest for Masculinity18:34 The Manosphere and Its Influence on Men25:03 Ancient Rome and Modern Masculinity30:47 The Checklist Mentality: A False Sense of Security38:05 Dying to Self: The True Path to Masculinity44:50 The Doctrine of Vocation and Relationships47:51 Understanding Identity in Christ52:05 The Tension of Masculinity and Vulnerability54:18 The Theology of the Cross01:02:00 Practical Steps for Christian Men01:20:43 charlieungemach-outro (1).mp4Jonny's Links:Book link: https://www.amazon.com/Free-At-Heart-Christian-Masculinity/dp/B0FT6W4RJLPodcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/1rH13sya3yI7DqGgEIjHv5Gird Up Links:https://youtube.com/@girdupministries4911?si=tbCa0SOiluVl8UFxhttps://www.instagram.com/girdup_be_a_man/https://www.girdupministries.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

I'm a woman trapped in a man's body analysing dating advice for women given by a man. In #505 of 'Meanderings', Juan and I discuss: three dating and relationships books (The New Rules, Get the Guy by Matthew Hussey and Attached), how prescriptive “rules” aimed at women can backfire, why some advice feels outdated (Facebook walls and BBM), how scarcity games tend to attract the very players you might want to avoid, why attachment styles are useful as a lens but less so as a to‑do list, a focus on authenticity over mere effectiveness, watch the influence of your friend circle, understand how strong male sexual drive can shape dating dynamics, apply Pareto principles to health and appearance first, build an interesting life (travel, skills, community) and learning to read yourself so you don't try to fill loneliness with just anyone.No boostagrams this week, very sad puppy.Stan Link: https://stan.store/meremortalsTimeline:(00:00:00) Intro(00:00:47) The books: The New Rules, Get the Guy & Attached(00:04:21) Lot's of Don'ts(00:07:12) Perfectionism and the hunt for Mr Right(00:11:09) Who this attracts: playing games gets game players(00:16:21) What men reportedly dislike(00:20:25) Quick verdict on The New Rules & Switch To Matt Hussey(00:25:48) Practical prompts: compliments, conversations, and friendly vibes(00:30:15) Brief detour to Attached: anxious, avoidant, secure(00:39:24) Boostagram Lounge(00:41:15) Effectiveness vs authenticity: advice for daughters(00:45:00) Masks, faking confidence and why acts won't last(00:48:00) Be interesting: travel, stories and easy conversation openers(00:55:14) Broad advice: the male mind, sex drive, and expectations(01:02:26) Pareto squared: health and appearance(01:07:09) A raw moment: walking through Brisbane and feeling loneliness(01:11:24) Closing reflections Connect with Mere Mortals:Website: https://www.meremortalspodcasts.com/Discord: https://discord.gg/jjfq9eGReUTwitter/X: https://twitter.com/meremortalspodsInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/meremortalspodcasts/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@meremortalspodcastsValue 4 Value Support:Boostagram: https://www.meremortalspodcasts.com/supportPaypal: https://www.paypal.com/paypalme/meremortalspodcast

A soothing guided meditation to help you let go of perfectionism, embrace your true self, and finally know that who you are is enough - with Taoist monk and teacher, David James Lees.Experience a calming guided meditation designed to help you release perfectionism, silence the inner critic, and reconnect with your authentic self. Through gentle visualisation and Taoist-inspired wisdom, this practice helps you let go of old survival patterns, honour your inherent worth, and embrace the freedom of being perfectly imperfect. Ideal for healing self-judgement, reducing anxiety, and cultivating deep self-acceptance.⚠️ PLEASE DO NOT LISTEN TO THIS MEDITATION WHILE DRIVING OR OPERATING MACHINERYThis meditation can be practised daily or whenever you need it. Learn more about our online consultations, events and shop: https://www.wuweiwisdom.comSubscribe to David's FREE Journal: https://davidjameslees.substack.com/Other teachings and guided meditations you may enjoy: You Are Perfectly Imperfect: How to Stop Chasing Perfection  https://youtu.be/pX3MdUogo_g?si=jGIy8ZJ06a2K-R50INNER CHILD PLAYLIST https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PL9NQ_PWX4zICGLRS1b7q1HSJhZRash5qq&si=7TkslLfvthRWePOIGUIDED MEDITATION PLAYLIST https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PL9NQ_PWX4zIA12P7BftG6a18lIWFDjL35&si=bWWub6YyoZpXhFubIs there a question you'd like answered on the show? Submit it at: https://bit.ly/askusyourquestion Join our free Wu Wei Wisdom Community Facebook support group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity  If you love our work, you can now make a small donation to help fund the continued production of our weekly teachings by buying us a 'virtual coffee'! https://www.buymeacoffee.com/wuweiwisdom Book an online Golden Thread Process & Inner Child Consultation with David: https://www.wuweiwisdom.com/therapies-for-body-mind/ Follow us on Instagram: @wuweiwisdomSign up to receive a relaxing guided meditation gift, plus our weekly newsletter + offers via email: https://www.wuweiwisdom.com/signup -Disclaimer: This podcast and any associated teaching and comments shared are not a substitute for professional therapy, mental health care, crisis support, medical advice, doctor diagnosis, or professional healthcare treatment. Our show episodes provide general information for educational purposes only and are offered as suggestions for you and your professional therapist or healthcare advisor to consider and research.Music by Earth Tree Healing

I'm one of millions of women specifically trying to parent themselves while parenting children… and it can be seriously exhausting. And when childhood trauma still comes back to haunt us in midlife and beyond, life can feel impossible.  That's why I've invited trauma expert Anna Runkle on for this powerful episode to help unpack why so many midlife women are still impacted by old trauma, and how that buried stress shows up in our bodies.  We dive into the hidden ways trauma can lead us to isolate, dysregulate our nervous system, and disrupt key hormones like cortisol, dopamine, and serotonin.  Anna and I break down how this cascade of stress and deregulation can spark inflammation, oxidative stress, blood-sugar swings, and even contribute to autoimmune issues that so many women face.  But most importantly, Anna shares simple, compassionate tools to help regulate your nervous system and finally begin healing the deeper patterns driving overwhelm in midlife.  Ready to feel more grounded in this season of life? Hit play and listen now! Anna Runkle Anna Runkle is the creator of the popular YouTube channel, blog, courses, and coaching programs that provide tools for adults to heal dysregulation and other common trauma symptoms, helping them feel better and change their lives. Anna's methods were developed through research, her mentoring of hundreds of individuals over the years, and her direct experience healing her own symptoms of early trauma. She's the author of Re-Regulated: Set Your Life Free from Childhood PTSD and the Trauma-Driven Behaviors That Keep You Stuck and Connectability: Heal the Hidden Ways You Isolate, Find Your People, and Feel (At Last) Like You Belong.  IN THIS EPISODE Understanding nervous system deregulation  How Anna learned to adapt after childhood trauma  Symptoms that can manifest from over-functioning  How to manage stressors and stay regulated day to day  Top ways we can start to regulate, especially when deregulated  How connection can be a huge tool for healing  Free resources and where you can find more from Anna!  QUOTES“All these weird symptoms that I had… It's neurological dysregulation. It's really normal. Everybody gets dysregulated sometimes, but those of us who are traumatized as kids are often more prone to it. It happens more easily. It's more intense. It's harder to get out of.” “Early trauma is very strongly correlated later in life with high rates of cancer, diabetes, heart disease, autoimmune disorders, reproductive disorders, just about everything bad.” “Those three things– dysregulation, disconnection, and self-defeating behavior– those are the things that can just take you out and keep you stuck in trauma forever. So the good news is you can learn to reregulate.” RESOURCES MENTIONED Order Anna's Book: CONNECTABILITY: Heal the Hidden Ways You Isolate, Find Your People, And Feel (At Last) Like You Belong HERE Order Anna's other book: Re-Regulated: Set Your Life Free from Childhood PTSD and the Trauma-Driven Behaviors That Keep You Stuck HERE Anna's Website Anna Runkle on YouTube Anna Runkle on Instagram RELATED EPISODES  681: The Biology of Trauma: How Stress Gets Stored in Your Body (and Passed On to Your Kids) and How You Can Start To Heal with Dr. Aimie Apigian #629: Unlocking Emotional Resilience with Awareness, Lifestyle and Tools to Regulate Your Stress Triggers with Dr. Drew Ramsey 685: End Emotional Outsourcing: Break Free from Codependency, Perfectionism & People-Pleasing with Beatriz Albina #308: What Is Trauma and How Does It Make Us Sick? with Dr. Elena Villanueva

In this episode of Passion for Dance, Dr. Chelsea speaks with Ashley Mowrey, a mindset coach, former dance teacher, and part of the Embody Dance Conference team. They discuss the mental and emotional challenges dancers face, such as perfectionism, body image issues, and performance anxiety. Ashley shares her journey from being a competitive dancer to becoming a mindset coach, and how her experiences fuel her passion for helping dancers thrive. She explains the unique approaches of the Embody Dance Conference, emphasizing mental health and whole-person training. Listeners will learn about practical strategies to improve self-awareness, emotional regulation, and self-compassion in dance.   Embody Dance Conference: https://www.embodydanceconference.com/   Connect with Ashley Mowrey:  https://www.ashleymowrey.com/   Other Episode Resources: https://passionfordancepodcast.com/232   Episode Breakdown: 00:22 Meet Ashley Mowrey: Mindset Coach and Dance Advocate 00:56 Diving into Perfectionism and Mental Health in Dance 02:20 Ashley Mowrey's Dance Journey and Mental Health Struggles 06:07 Addressing Perfectionism and Negative Self-Talk 12:06 Building Self-Awareness and Emotional Regulation 18:57 Supporting Younger Dancers and Body Image Issues 21:38 Embody Dance Conference: A New Approach to Conventions 36:16 Final Thoughts and Life Lessons from Dance 37:22 Conclusion and Contact Information  

Victoria sits down for the kind of life update you'd give your best friend when everything feels like… a lot. She opens up about the burnout she's been pushing through, a major (and expensive) business mistake, team changes, and what it's been like to juggle a nonprofit, a podcast, and a full creator career without losing herself in the process. She talks about the fear of stepping back, the pressure to constantly show up online, and the nagging feeling that something in her life needs to shift. Vic also shares the mindset breakthroughs she had at a recent Peter Crone event, why she's craving more freedom and adventure, and how she's trying to slow down enough to hear her own voice again. If you've ever felt stretched thin, stuck in a season of “figuring it out,” or unsure how to reset, this episode will feel like a deep breath. Tune in for a candid, comforting catch-up that just might make you feel understood.Related episode:My Live Therapy Session with Gabby Bernstein!// SPONSORS //Quince: Go to quince.com/realpod to get free. Shipping and 365-day returns.Function: Visit www.functionhealth.com/REALPOD or use gift code REALPOD100 at sign-up to own your health. The first 1000 get a $100 credit toward their membership.AG1: Head to DRINKAG1.com/REALPOD you'll get the welcome kit, a Morning Person hat, a bottle ofVitamin D3+K2, a AG1 Flavor Sampler and you'll get to try their new sleep supplement AGZ for free. Crunchmaster: Find Crunchmaster at a store near you!Please note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode.Produced by Dear Media.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

This episode  brings a focus to the problem of perfectionism and how it can silence our natural spontaneity, turn our innate passions into stone and cancel the imagination and creativity that are natural to our souls. Perfectionism can be paradoxical in the sense that it can foster an egotistical sense that we are better than others or plunge us into feelings of inferiority and inadequacy.     Michael Meade uses an old tale to show how the quest for perfection is a hopeless endeavor that operates as a kind of spell that continuously leads us away from our deeper sense of self and soul and prevents us from finding a genuine sense of self-worth. Rather than trying to be perfect, the true aim of life is to become a whole person. Becoming whole involves making mistakes and having faults, but also finding forgiveness and healing.     No one is perfect, yet each soul is unique, having true self-worth within and a genuine aim in life that waits to be discovered. In the end, it is not perfection, but the uniqueness of the individual soul that makes each person meaningful, purposeful and innately valuable.     Thank you for listening to and supporting Living Myth. You can hear Michael Meade live by joining his free online Solstice ritual "In This Darkness Singing" on Saturday, December 20.   Register and learn more at mosaicvoices.org/events.      You can further support this podcast by becoming a member of Living Myth Premium. Members receive bonus episodes each month, access to the full archives of over 725 episodes and a 30% discount on all events, courses and book and audio titles.   Learn more and join this community of listeners at patreon.com/livingmyth     If you enjoy this podcast, we appreciate you leaving a review wherever you listen and sharing it with your friends. On behalf of Michael Meade and the whole Mosaic staff, we wish you well and thank you for your support of our work.

This week, Andy Mineo joins us for a hilarious and surprisingly vulnerable conversation about reinvention, perfectionism, leaving Reach Records, making his first album in four years and why he almost drove himself crazy trying to get it right. Plus, the cast dives into:– Brandon Lake dominating Billboard's year-end charts– The ER vs The Pitt IP controversy– Ticketmaster's takedown– TreVeyon Henderson spotlighting persecuted Christians on the field– A chaotic game of “One Has to Go” that reveals way too much (about Andy)CHAPTERS:1:20 – '90s nostalgia, ER and the IP drama behind The Pitt10:25 – RELEVANT Buzz: Brandon Lake ruled 202515:45 – Olivia Dean takes on Ticketmaster19:50 – TreVeyon Henderson highlights persecuted Christians in Nigeria21:50 – Andy Mineo joins the show22:20 – Why his new album took four years23:40 – Perfectionism, analysis paralysis and moving faster27:10 – More new music is already loading28:35 – Andy & Marty's 15-year friendship origin story32:05 – “One Has to Go” with Andy41:55 – Parenting, nostalgia and movies that don't hit the same44:15 – 80s/90s PG movies were NOT PGRemember, you can watch the episode video on YouTube!Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Get homemaking coaching in 2026: https://simplyconvivial.com/coaching || Perfectionism keeps moms stuck in a boom-and-bust cycle. Lauren, a NICU nurse working night shifts while raising three young girls and beginning her homeschool journey, shares how this year inside Convivial Circle changed the way she approaches home, work, and rest.This is her first year in Simplified Organization Community Coaching, and her story is a clear picture of what iterative, grace-filled growth looks like in real life. She talks about letting go of perfect plans, learning to review her week honestly, coordinating with her husband, adjusting expectations, and taking her homemaking one small step at a time.Do coaching in 2026: https://simplyconvivial.com/coachingHer experience shows that overwhelm doesn't have to lead to giving up. When you learn how to iterate, evaluate, and make simple changes, progress becomes possible even in busy seasons.If you want to stop cycling through fresh starts and burnout, this conversation will help you see a sustainable path forward.Mystie Winckler encourages moms to organize their attitudes and get traction at home so we are no longer overwhelmed or frustrated with homemaking. We are a community of Christian women striving to be competent, cheerful homemakers so we are fruitful, faithful, and hospitable. Subscribe for regular encouragement!

A thought leader in the coaching world, Keren Eldad (“Coach Keren”) specializes in taking high achievers out of the futility of constant pursuit and into the greatest levels of success and fulfillment. Her coaching clients include Olympic athletes, politicians, Hollywood stars, supermodels, Special Forces operatives, entrepreneurs, as well as renowned global organizations such as Estée Lauder, J.P. Morgan, and Nike. Coach Keren's new book is out January 21st: Gilded: Breaking Free from the Cage of Ambition, Perfectionism, and the Relentless Pursuit of More. This book is the go-to guide for overachievers and high performers who feel trapped in the endless cycle of chasing success. If you're ready to break free from perfectionism anxiety and discover true fulfillment, this book will guide you toward a life of authenticity and freedom. Heather and Keren talk about Actionable strategies to overcome perfectionism anxiety and embrace self-reflection for lasting personal growth, Practical insights for high performers and leaders who seek purpose beyond external success and Tools to help you redefine your ambitions and live authentically. Keren's Website: www.kereneldad.com Order Keren's book: https://www.amazon.com/Gilded-Breaking-Ambition-Perfectionism-Relentless/dp/1684817579 Heather's Website: www.heatherthomson.com Social Media: IG: https://www.instagram.com/iamheathert/ You Tube: https://youtube.com/@iamheathert?si=ZvI9l0bhLfTR-qdo SPONSOR: LifeMD. Right now, LifeMD is offering a Holiday and New Year's Sale with 50% off their Weight Management Program plus free shipping, which makes getting started easier and more affordable. Just visit https://lifemd.com and use code INMYHEART to activate the offer. Disclosure: Read all warnings before using GLP-1s. Side-effects may include a risk of thyroid c-cell tumors. Do not use GLP-1s if you or your family have a history of thyroid cancer. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

What if the future version of you you've been chasing is actually someone you can be right now? In this motivational episode, Victoria sits down with Mimi Bouchard, CEO and founder of the wildly popular Activations app, to talk about how to step into your best self today without overcomplicating the process. Mimi breaks down the science and mindset behind her activations, a powerful new wave of motivational audio designed to help you reset your mind, feel grounded in confidence, and stay clearheaded and inspired. She shares the simple steps to visualize and embody your future self, plus the three-word mantra she repeats every day. Tune in for the spark plug of energy you need heading into the new year. It's time to be her now.Want to try Activations? Go to activations.com/realpod for a discount! Don't forget to check out Mimi's book,  Activate Your Future Self.// SPONSORS // Function: Learn more and join using my link. The first 1000 get a $100 credit toward their membership.Visit www.functionhealth.com/REALPOD or use gift code REALPOD100 at sign-up to own your health.LMNT: LMNT is offering a free sample pack with any purchase, that's 8 single serving packets FREE with any LMNT order. This is a great way to try all 8 flavors or share LMNT with a friend. Get yours at DrinkLMNT.com/realpod.BetterHelp: Visit betterhelp.com/realpod today to get 10% off your first month.CozyEarth: Head to cozyearth.com and use my code REALPOD for up to 40% off — just be sure to place your order by December 12th for guaranteed Christmas delivery. After the 12th, the code still works for 20%.Please note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode.Produced by Dear Media.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.