The Fearless Submissive

Why dominants don't chase you!!   Sorry for my horrible voice, I have a cold.  

Answering a listeners question about being clingy and needy.  

Are you a "save me" submissive?  

What are we communicating when we are not talking??   (and a little bit on how I talk politics with Sir Redemption)

Featuring Dawn from The Erotic Awakening Podcast gives her thoughts on what it means to be a Fearless Submissive. Catch Dan and Dawn on the Erotic Awakening Podcast!!  

Knowing your anger.  What makes you angry and how do you handle it?  (AKA when Julie got really angry but didn't completely lose her shit.)  Sorry about the loud background, I must have been driving next to a big truck!!!   

julieR's thoughts on balancing your life and self care.

                      Musings from the Los Angeles GrUE V.   Photo taken at the Pancake Breakfast.  

Priorities.  Realizing that I was so busy taking of care of things that I stopped making time for Him.    

How to deal when you don't like your Dominant's other partner.  

Welcoming back Star to the show to talk about her upcoming Submissive Bootcamp as well as her upcoming podcast DarkStar Kink!!! Submissive Bootcamp, Class 1 Dark Star Kink Podcast

julie_R talks about adapting to the changes in her life.    

                      julie and Star talking about your limits and your Dominants limits.  Also, what is a no-limit slave?      

                      Sitting down to talk to Starkraving.  The long path to slavehood. House Ravynblood  

                      JulieR talks about role play.  Her Daddy/little girl play with Sir Redemption and how that has grown over the years.  Ways to introduce role play into your relationship and things to watch out for.  

What happens when things stop being kinky?  

Just catching up.

                      Random and fun!! Sir Redemption and I just celebrated our 4 year anniversary.  This show hits topics like M/s and BDSM, porn, new relationship energy, loopholes, intent and whether or not Sir Redemption is an "angry guy."  

                      Serviceslut joins me to talk about negotiations.   This podcast contains portions of the book SM 101 from Jay Wiseman.  Published by Greenery Press. Copyright 1998.

                      Part 2 of Episode 55, Consentual nonconsent, power exchange and obedience

                      julie_R, SirRedemption and serviceslut talk about consentual nonconsent, power exchange and obedience. This is the first part 1 of 2 part episode.

                      This week I talk to Graydancer- kink performer, educator, writer and "rope guy extraordinaire" as well as the facilitator for the GrUE which can be found just about anywhere these days. I talk to Graydancer this week about something a little unexpected- long distance relationships!!   Graydancer Ropecast Love.Life.Practice  

                      This week the show was hijacked by Service Slut.  She decided to interview julie_R this week and ask her questions about relationships, 2015 and the Los Angeles GrUE.  

A last minute episode since my other recorders got jacked up!!!  GrUE, Holidays and Needs and Wants for the New Year!     Los Angeles GrUE coming up January 16-18. Orchid and Serpent Saint Leather Toys Violet Wand Store    

                      S-types like to complain, but what happens when we bad mouth our Dominant?  What message are we putting out there?  

                      Lee Harrington joins me for my 50th episode!!  We talk about submission, safewords, and the things we carry with us through our journey.   Check out the Passion and Soul Podcast Lee Harrington's Website Check out more awesome shows on the Erotic Awakenings Podcast Network.  

                    Brats and Manipulation. SirRedemption and SarahMary join julie_R for a talk about bratting and manipulation.  What is bratting good for?  When has it gone too far?    

                       All about sex toys!!! This week I talk to Dangerous Lilly, sex toy expert!!  This is a great episode about vibes, dildos and the materials that are safe for your body.  Check out the links for the companies and items we talk about. Lilly's Website SheVibe Tantus Jopen Lelo Smart Wand We-Vibe Tango    

Unplanned drivetime post about affirmations.  Why I think it's important to be able to find love and confidence from yourself!!  Be sure to check out the new IOS App.  Android app is forthcoming.      

Catching up with Sparkle.  She and julie_R talk about our online persona, talking to Dominants and why is it that when our Dominant isn't looking we are tempted to run amuck??  Also, how many dicks is too many?    

  Humiliation and degradation.  Talking with ServiceSlut from the Intellectual Kink Podcast.    Be sure to check out ServiceSlut and Insidious Muse bi-weekly at SkidRow Studios.

Welcome back!!!  This Episode with Sarah_Mary with SirRedemption acting silly and adding commentary.  Masochism, Humiliation and the good ways to meet new people. YMMV.   Check out the Erotic Awakenings Podcast Network for great kinky and sex positive podcasts!!      

I was asked what makes a good Dominant.  In this episode I discuss my past Dominants and what made them good for me, and why. 

julie_R shares her thoughts about accountability in a power exchange relationship.

Sparkle joins julie_R and they talk about some of the common myths about submissives.

SirRedemption and julie_R sit and talk about ending a D/s relationship.  How to know when it's time to go.  

Sparkle and julie_R have a fun show.  Talking about having fun with your Dominant.  It's not all just sex and beatings, although we talk about that a lot too!!!     tags: BDSM, kink, Dominant, submissive, Master, slave

Sir Redemption and julie_R talk about love.  How it relates to thier M/s relationship and why it's important to keep love and other emotions in the proper perspectve. tags: Master, slave, Dominant, submissive, kink, BDSM

A whole lotta stuff... communication, sports, shoes.  Just SirRedemption and julie_R talking and having a good time.

just a quick burst of brain from me

SirRedemption and julie_R talk about the Los Angeles GrUE 3.  

What a Dominant looks for in a submissive.  Sir Redemption gives his thoughts on what he feels makes a good submissive.  

Happy New Year!   Dominants and weight loss.  Is it acceptable for a Dominant to tell thier submissive to lose weight?  

SirRedemption joins julie_R to talk (for a long time) about the past year.  Some changes, some challenges, and new things to come.  Enjoy it!!

Dealing with disappointment.  

Straight talk on poly.  The things I struggle with.  

julie_R talks about dealing with drama in the community and how not to let it effect your experience in the BDSM lifestyle.  

Pet comes back with some questions for julile_R and SirRedemption.  

Part 2 of julie_R talking with Miss Pet about her experience with 24/7.

Part 1 of a 2 part episode with Miss Julie (EriksPet) about her experience with 24/7.  

julie_R talks about obediance, transparency and consistency and making the decision to stop making excuses and actually DO what we've agreed to do.