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Nicole Aria is back and still built for chaos. Our last collab got yanked from YouTube in under an hour—now she's here with bigger receipts: her Double Anal, Double Vaginal three-guy gonzo scene is nominated for an AVN award, and she's up for an award from XBIZ too. We get into why raw, unscripted gonzo is her home field—real heat, no script, total loss of control.She also made a life move—tubes removed—to play worry-free at sex parties and live exactly how she wants. Plus her take on the “male loneliness” moment, a Sapphire NYC chapter, and what 2026 looks like when she refuses to slow down. Fast, filthy, very Nicole.Welcome to EP 204: "Gonzo Gal" with Nicole Aria. Hang onto something.Watch the video version of the show on YouTube YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIuCkOl_XummXVdu1t3XOuQFollow Nicole AriaInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/thenicolearia (@thenicolearia)Follow the showInstagram: https://instagram.com/sexparty.fm (@sexparty.fm)Twitter: https://twitter.com/sexpartyfm (@sexpartyfm)Follow Dustin Instagram: https://instagram.com/dustin.rybka (@dustin.rybka)Twitter: https://twitter.com/dustinrybka (@dustinrybka)Sex Party with Dustin Rybka

Lex Rofeberg is joined again by Lexi Kohanski, and Liana Wertman (our friends at The Torah Studio) for the 3nd conversation in our 2025 edition of ApocryFest: Hanukkah Unbound and Un-Canonized. In this episode, they explore a text called 4 Ezra. You can sign up for ApocryFest 2025 by heading to www.JudaismUnbound.com/apocryfest. Do so, and we'll send you all sorts of cool Apocryphal stuff, during Hanukkah, to help enrich your experience of this holiday! And you can register for The Hanukkah Apocrypha Extravaganza on December 21st, via this link!For all of our episodes from past years' ApocryFests, click here.Head to JudaismUnbound.com/classes to check out our up upcoming 3-week mini-courses in the UnYeshiva! This time around we are offering The Torah of Kink, Hasidism and Neo-Hasidism, Queering Kedusha (Holiness), and Brit Milah Unbound: Exploring Circumcision!

Episode 193 - Labels why is mine better LOL - In this Episode, Don and Syn talk about their recent lives. Syn talks about a wedding trip to Dallas and Don talks about a trip to Dallas. this weeks topics is labels and we talk about why labels can keep us from being the best us we can. We also talk about embracing new labels and how sometimes old words hit us in the face when needed. Instagram  @kinkyframeofmind • Instagram photos and videos Twitter  (1) kinkyframeofmind (@kinkyfom) / TwitterFullswap Radio Full Swap Radio – Its Not a Mood Its a LifestyleEmail  kinkyfom@gmail.com   

The Ghosts of Christmas Eve is a 1999 made-for-television film showcasing a Christmas music performance by Trans-Siberian Orchestra, starring Ossie Davis and Allie Sheridan. Guest performers included Michael Crawford and Jewel. Other performers include Bob Kinkel, Al Pitrelli, Chris Caffery, Johnny Lee Middleton, Jeff Plate, Tony Gaynor, Daryl Pediford and Tommy Farese. The film premiered on Fox Family Channel on December 14, 1999.Disclaimer: The following may contain offensive language, adult humor, and/or content that some viewers may find offensive – The views and opinions expressed by any one speaker does not explicitly or necessarily reflect or represent those of Mark Radulich or W2M Network.Mark Radulich and his wacky podcast on all the things:https://linktr.ee/markkind76alsohttps://www.teepublic.com/user/radulich-in-broadcasting-networkFB Messenger: Mark Radulich LCSWTiktok: @markradulichtwitter: @MarkRadulichInstagram: markkind76RIBN Album Playlist: https://suno.com/playlist/91d704c9-d1ea-45a0-9ffe-5069497bad59 

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In de laatste Festivalpodcast van het jaar staat Pinkpop centraal. We bellen met de organisatie en leren van hen dat het festival meer wilt inzetten op weekend bezoekers, het comfort nog meer centraal wil stellen én hoe blij ze wel niet waren met de bevestiging van Foo Fighters. Ook zelf duiken we nog even de line-up in en analyseren de huidige koers van Pinkpop. Door je te abonneren op de show via Spotify, Apple Podcasts, KINK.nl of waar jij het liefst naar je podcast luistert weet je precies wanneer we weer terug zijn. Anders kun je ook op de hoogte blijven van ons via het whatsapp-kanaal van Festileaks! Zoals altijd staande ovaties, oneindige karmapunten en spontane confettidouches voor: Mick Hummel voor een schitterend podcastlogo.Wietze Wempe & Malou Gouders voor ons intro-anthem.Nora de Haas, Joris Timmerman en Jos Willemsen als de immer stralende podcastredactie en de montageEn jou, als lieve luisteraar!   Het Festivalpodcast-anthem uit je hoofd leren? Hieronder de lyrics: Werelden vol avontuurvan Main Stage tot aan Dixieland. Muntjes op en vrienden kwijt,maar nog is hier niks irritant.Te vroeg gepiekt, maar geen paniek. Je slaapritme toch al verziekt. Hé een laser, confettiregen, yoga overwegen.Met een grote klodder mayo, op je broodje knakworst. Lauwe halve liter, maakt niet uit heb toch dorst.Luchtbed leeggelopen, Tent weer afgebroken.Al m’n geld verbrast, ‘t is de Festivalpodcast!

Lex Rofeberg, Lexi Kohanski, and Liana Wertman (the latter two our friends at The Torah Studio) bring the 2nd conversation in a 4-episode mini-series entitled ApocryFest: Hanukkah Unbound and Un-Canonized. In this episode, they explore a text called Genesis Apocryphon. They explore the power of texts written in the 1st-person (unlike most of the Bible), ask whether it may be spiritually productive to engage with texts that are fragments (allowing us to fill in the blanks ourselves), and wonder aloud what changes when allow stories from our tradition to have multiple versions that can all simultaneously be "authentic."You can sign up for ApocryFest 2025 by heading to www.JudaismUnbound.com/apocryfest. Do so, and we'll send you all sorts of cool Apocryphal stuff, during Hanukkah, to help enrich your experience of this holiday! And you can register for The Hanukkah Apocrypha Extravaganza on December 21st, via this link!For all of our episodes from past years' ApocryFests, click here.Head to JudaismUnbound.com/classes to check out our up upcoming 3-week mini-courses in the UnYeshiva! This time around we are offering The Torah of Kink, Hasidism and Neo-Hasidism, Queering Kedusha (Holiness), and Brit Milah Unbound: Exploring Circumcision!

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Hanukkah is here! Lex Rofeberg, Lexi Kohanski, and Liana Wertman (the latter two from our friends at The Torah Studio) kick off the 2025 edition of ApocryFest: Hanukkah Unbound and Un-Canonized -- a 4-part mini-series of Judaism Unbound. They ask why texts of the apocrypha are worth exploring, why it's worth doing so on Hanukkah in particular, explore some beloved apocryphal faves (Judith and Maccabees) along with introducing a few texts (Genesis Apocryphon and 4 Ezra) which will get bonus episodes of their own once Hanukkah begins.You can sign up for ApocryFest 2025 by heading to www.JudaismUnbound.com/apocryfest. Do so, and we'll send you all sorts of cool Apocryphal stuff, during Hanukkah, to help enrich your experience of this holiday! And you can register for The Hanukkah Apocrypha Extravaganza on December 21st, via this link!For all of our episodes from past years' ApocryFests, click here.Head to JudaismUnbound.com/classes to check out our up upcoming 3-week mini-courses in the UnYeshiva! This time around we are offering The Torah of Kink, Hasidism and Neo-Hasidism, Queering Kedusha (Holiness), and Brit Milah Unbound: Exploring Circumcision!

In this episode, we explore the foundations of BDSM—including bondage, impact play, electroplay, wax play, and sensation play—with Ben, a kink educator and experienced representative of The Kink Shop. With years of hands-on experience at nationwide kink events, Ben offers practical guidance on choosing the right BDSM tools, playing safely, and understanding the sensory differences between thud, sting, electricity, and temperature play. Listeners will discover the essentials of safe toy use, negotiation, consent, and hygiene—plus insights into The Kink Shop's handcrafted designs, leather quality, beginner-friendly tools, and ergonomic impact toys. Whether you're new to BDSM or looking to deepen your skills, this episode delivers approachable, accurate, and sex-positive kink education. BDSM Foundations What BDSM stands for: Bondage, Dominance, Submission, Sadism, Masochism Psychological and emotional dynamics within power exchange Negotiation, communication, and informed consent Impact Play Essentials Thud vs sting: how sensations differ and who they suit How leather type changes feel: suede, chap, bison, moose, mule deer Beginner-friendly toys: bunny floggers, boa floggers Finger-loop floggers & why they reduce joint strain for tops Sensation Play Tools Leather & conductive claw gloves Scratch mitts Mop-in-a-Pocket toy Vegan impact tool options Electroplay & the Violet Wand How a violet wand works Sensation range: light tingles to intense stimulation Combining electroplay with other kink tools Essential violet-wand safety practices Wax Play Safety Skin-safe wax types vs dangerous household candles Heat management techniques Distance & layering for sensation control Toy Hygiene & Care Cleaning leather, rubber, and electroplay tools Avoiding cross-contamination in shared scenes Long-term storage tips for handcrafted toys Connect with Ben (The Kink Shop) Website: www.thekinkshop.comFetLife: @thekinkshop_Ben Mentioned Resources Shameless Care — Use code PLEASME for $15 off at-home sexual health testing→ shamelesscare.com Please Me Podcast Patreon — Extended episodes & bonus content→ patreon.com/PleaseMePodcast Connect With Eve Hall Website: pleaseme.onlineSocial Media Links: pleaseme.online/contactsSubstack: pleaseme.substack.comPatreon: patreon.com/PleaseMePodcast Be a Guest on Please Me! Podcast Want to be a guest on Please Me! Podcast with Eve?Send Eve Hall a message on PodMatch:→ podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/beaguestonpleasemepodcast World Vision Donate to Philippines ReliefSupport survivors of typhoons and earthquakes:→ worldvision.org Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In dieser neuen Folge von Aurora's Mistress Talk begrüße ich meine bayrische Domina-Auszubildende Lady Lomina Lexx aus Ingolstadt – eine imposante Erscheinung mit 1,78 m, langen blonden Haaren, strahlend blauen Augen.Lomina bietet Sessions in Ingolstadt und München an und spricht offen über ihre vielseitigen Leidenschaften: Latex, Wrestling, herausfordernde Sport- und Kraftübungen sowie spielerische Kraftvergleiche wie Armdrücken. Ebenso erzählt sie über ihre Spezialisierung auf Kaviar, den sie sogar mit Kaffee oder Schokolade verfeinert, um den Genuss für ihren Gegenüber angenehmer zu gestalten. Heute ist sie bekannt für ihre einfühlsame Art, ihren Humor und ihre Fähigkeit, Gäste mit Leidenschaft, Leichtigkeit, Präsenz und spielerischer Dominanz durch intensive Begegnungen zu führen.ShownotesKontakt Lady Lomina LexxTelefon: 015170593624Ingolstadt: https://www.galeriedesade.com/Ingolstadt/Lady-Lomina-Lexx-a20798.html München: https://www.galeriedesade.com/Muenchen/Lady-Lomina-Lexx-a22653.htmlMISTRESS ACADEMY: www.mistressacademy.deDOMINA MASTERCLASS: https://www.domina-ausbildung.net/Kurs "Perfect Slave - der Sklaven-Guide": https://www.mistressacademy.de/perfect-slave/ Kurs "How to be a FemDom": https://www.mistressacademy.de/how-to-be-a-femdom/Kurs "Let´s talk dirty": https://www.mistressacademy.de/dirty-talk/ Die Coachings meiner MISTRESS ACADEMY: https://www.mistressacademy.de/coaching/Die Online-Kurse meiner MISTRESS ACADEMY: https://www.mistressacademy.de/online-kurs/ Meine Workshops:FemDom-Workshop: https://www.mistressacademy.de/femdom-workshop/Dom-Sub-Workshop: https://www.mistressacademy.de/dom-sub-paar-workshop/Alles zu meinem MISTRESS EMPIRE:Private Mietung: https://www.mistressempire.de/booking/privateWebsite: https://www.mistressempire.de/Telefon: 040 41125057Mail: info@mistressempire.deAuroras kostenloser Telegram-Kanal: https://t.me/auroranianoxxchannelAurora auf BestFans: https://www.bestfans.com/auroranianoxxMein Buch "Abends heiße ich Aurora": https://amzn.to/2UmZr6dKontakt Aurora: aurora@mistressacademy.deInstagram: @auroranianoxxofficialKultkieztouren: https://www.kult-kieztouren.de/

Gay culture is constantly sending us messages that big dicks are the most desirable thing a person could have, but activist Phil Miner says there are lots of people who are turned on by small or average-sized penises, and even more people who could develop confidence about their own size with Phil’s new six-week “Package Acceptance Program”. In this episode Gabe, Chris and Phil talk about average and smaller sized dicks, rejection, and embracing the concept of body neutrality. Then, the hosts and a competitor in NYC’s first “Mx. Small Penis Contest” reflect on the positive and, yes, uplifting nature of a pageant where contestants were teased and then given prizes for having the smallest dicks in the Big Apple. Follow Sniffies' Cruising Confessions: cruisingconfessions.com Try Sniffies: sniffies.com Follow Sniffies on Social: Instagram: instagram.com/sniffiesapp X: x.com/sniffiesapp TikTik: tiktok.com/@sniffiesapp Follow the hosts: Gabe Gonzalez: instagram.com/gaybonez Chris Patterson-Rosso: instagram.com/cprgivesyoulife Guests featured in this episode: Phil Miner: instagram.com/phil.miner/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Send us a textEver parked outside a munch, heart racing, and turned the car around? We've been there, and we built a roadmap for getting past that moment—from the first hello to feeling like you truly belong. With Shannon Elliott joining in person, we trade stories and hard-won lessons on lowering barriers to entry in kink and swinger spaces using playful design, clear consent culture, and smart hosting.We start with the real obstacles: cliques, jargon, and the fear of speaking first. Then we get tactical. Think wristbands to signal openness, craft nights that make small talk optional, and meta-games that run quietly in the background so strangers have a reason to interact. We outline the “cruise director” role—someone who seeds quick icebreakers, pairs people with shared interests, and keeps the vibe warm without being pushy. You'll hear how a simple offer like “text us from the parking lot and we'll walk you in” can flip anxiety into momentum.We also compare cultures across communities. Kink spaces often have heavier vetting and visible consent enforcement because the activities carry physical risk; swinger spaces lean on personal responsibility and rapid negotiation. We explore how to blend the best of both: posted policies, real-time consent education, and clear accountability that doesn't depend on personality cults. From punitive versus restorative responses to harm, to who should be doing the vetting, we press for transparency, fair process, and a path that actually protects newcomers.If you've wanted a friendlier entry point—or you're a host who wants better turnout and safer dynamics—this conversation is a toolkit. Steal the ideas, remix the games, and try the scripts. And if you loved the spark here, help us spread it: subscribe, share with a friend who's kink-curious, and leave a quick review so more folks can find the fire.Follow Shannon - https://www.instagram.com/authorshannonelliot?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw==https://smutsource.com/ Got a burning question about kink, BDSM, relationships, and/or navigating the wild world of alternative lifestyles? Send in your questions. No topic is too taboo, no curiosity too small! We're all making mistakes, growing, and exploring together!Submit your questions anonymously at aroundthekinkykampfire@yahoo.com or slide into our DMs at Twitter-KinkyKampfire, YT-AroundtheKinkyKampfire, IG-KampfireKinksters. Let's keep the fire going! Support the showCome let us know what you think! - IG -https://www.instagram.com/kampfirekinksters/ Yahoo - aroundthekinkykampfire@yahoo.com

This week on By the Bi, Bradford spills the tea on a recent Grindr hookup that turned into something way more than just a quick fling. What started as a bit of fun quickly unlocked a whole new kink he didn't see coming—and now he can't stop thinking about it.Angela digs into the juicy details as the two unpack what it's like to unexpectedly discover a new layer of your sexuality, how it feels to lean into the unknown, and why staying curious is one of the sexiest things you can do.Tune in for a spicy, surprising episode that proves the right hookup can do more than just hit the spot—it can change the game.Want to help us out? Sure you do!!!Help us out on Patreon and join our Discord chat hereFind us on social media!!!On Twitter @BytheBiPodcastOn Facebook BytheBiPodcastOn Instagram @BytheBiPodcastOr email us herePlease donate to Bi+ Visibility by clicking the link here!Leave some feedback for us on whatever medium you listen to your podcasts on! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Addison Grey runs the room. Jerkmate star, camgirl extraordinaire, and OnlyFans creator, she pulls back the curtain on cam life—free shows, VIP rooms, gold shows, tipping loops—and the live-wire choreography that keeps a chat bonkers and paying. The playbook: pace the show, build whales, stay filthy and fun.We map her content—how far she goes on stream vs. paywall, is partnered or girl/girl content happening, and what requests go from wild to workable. The craziest Jerkmate asks, the most common OnlyFans cravings, what one fan did with a jar of grape jelly, and the psychology of being watched when a hundred eyes want more. Is mainstream porn in her future? We ask. She answers. This is a horny crash course in cam culture. Buckle up. Press play. Welcome to EP 203: "Stream Girl" with Addison Grey.Watch the video version of the show on YouTube YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIuCkOl_XummXVdu1t3XOuQFollow Addison GreyInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/addisongreyxo (@addisongreyxo)Follow the showInstagram: https://instagram.com/sexparty.fm (@sexparty.fm)Twitter: https://twitter.com/sexpartyfm (@sexpartyfm)Follow Dustin Instagram: https://instagram.com/dustin.rybka (@dustin.rybka)Twitter: https://twitter.com/dustinrybka (@dustinrybka)Sex Party with Dustin Rybka

Send us a textAre politics turning people on more than we realize?Today on Talk Sex with Annette, we're diving into a surprising and fast-growing fantasy showing up in bedrooms, dating apps, and long-term relationships: the political humiliation kink — when opposing beliefs become part of a consensual power-play dynamic.In this episode, I sit down with acclaimed psychosexual therapist and sex educator Gigi Engle to unpack why this trend is rising right now, how emotional tension becomes erotic tension, and how couples can explore fantasy safely without crossing real-life boundaries.We break down:✨ Why political tension can create unexpected attraction✨ The psychology behind power-play role dynamics✨ How to talk about fantasies with a partner (without chaos!)✨ What to avoid if you and your partner truly disagree politically✨ Signs this fantasy is playful — and signs it's NOTYou can find Gigi here: https://www.missgigiengle.com/

We've all heard them—the recycled lines, the oversimplified tropes, the porn-ified fantasy of what submission “should” look like. On this episode of The Weekly Hot Spot, Mistresses Olivia and Erika tear down the most persistent clichés about being submissive. No ball-busting today. Just myth-busting. From the fantasy of total surrender to the myth that all subs crave pain, humiliation or degredation, we talk about our top 5 myths about being a submissive man—and exposr the misconceptions that keep men from truly understanding their power, their boundaries, and their joy in kink.This isn't about performance. It's about truth.BDSM Myth: Submissives Have No PowerSpoiler: That's not just wrong—it's dangerously misleading. We'll tell you why.Kink Myth: “Being Submissive Means Blind Obedience”Ah, the classic “do anything you want” fantasy. It sounds hot in theory but in practice saying that is often a red flag for an experienced Mistress. You'll hear why.Myth of Total Power Exchange: “The Power Dynamic is 24/7”Let's be real: Total Power Exchange (TPE) is rare. And even when it exists, it rarely looks like the movies. In real-world dynamics, power shifts with context. BDSM Myth: “Submissives Are Weak or Broken”Submission is not a lack. It's a choice. It takes strength to say: “Here are my limits.” or “This is what I crave.”and “Help me explore who I am.” That's not a weakness. That's emotional intelligence. That's courage to speak your truth in a world that tells men to stay silent.D/s Myth: “Submission Is the Same for Everyone”And one of the biggest clichés of all? That there's one “right” way to be submissive. There isn't. Some thrive on verbal degradation. Others need praise and affection. Some crave strict cock control. Others long for sensual guidance. There are many ways to express submission: feminization, primal service, humiliation, and/or worship.Remember, your submission is yours.As listener and collared sub Slut Pie puts it: “At first, I thought it was all or nothing. Total loss of control. But now I see—it's not about losing myself. It's about finding myself, one session at a time.”Final Thoughts: Submission Is a Conversation. Kink isn't static. It's dynamic. It evolves. So question the clichés. Don't let porn, stereotypes, or shame dictate your path. You have power. You have limits. You have a voice. Use them.We want to hear from you: Which cliché hit home the most? Share your thoughts.Mistress Olivia's blog: Experienced MistressOlivia@EnchantrixEmpire.comMistress Erika's blog: Intelligent Phone FantasyErika@EnchantrixEmpire.comDISCORD:  LDWOlivia and LDWErika

In this intimate, grounded conversation, Lauren and Trey explore the truth about women dating shorter men, what culture tells us, what we internalize, and how couples can rewrite the scripts they've inherited. Lauren is about an inch taller than Trey without heels, and she often wears heels at his request. Their dynamic opens the door to a deeper look at how lived experiences, early messages, ego, and desire shape the attractions we feel in adulthood.They talk about how every one of us is a sexuality educator, whether we mean to be or not. The ways we speak about bodies, preferences, and turn-ons either extend permission or reinforce shame. This leads into a meaningful discussion on the difference between sexual preferences and kinks, and why labeling something a “kink” often reflects cultural discomfort more than personal truth.To ground the conversation, they offer this clear definition:“Kink or kinky is seen as an umbrella term for sexual counter-culture, meaning that it goes against the mainstream, vanilla society. Whereas a fetish refers to a specific object, behavior, body part, or fantasy that is necessary for a person to achieve sexual enjoyment or arousal, but it's not always required to be physically present. There is often overlap between kinks and fetishes and sometimes the two terms are used interchangeably to describe a unique turn-on. But, unlike a fetish, a kink is not required for arousal, only preferred or enjoyed.”Lauren and Trey also explore the inner work required to go against cultural expectations while gently naming that it is absolutely OK to have preferences.If this conversation resonates, please like, comment, and share the episode.And if you're wanting support around embodied attraction, sexual preferences, or relational dynamics, you're invited to request a free consult with Lauren at www.sexedforyou.com/freeconsultIdeal for couples in long-term partnerships who want deeper intimacy, more desire, and better sex.About Us: Lauren and Trey are partners living in Central Virginia where Lauren owns and operates, SEX ED FOR YOU. She provides comprehensive sexuality education and embodied coaching to individuals, partners, and parents.Through a biopsychosocial approach, Sex Ed for You works to restore positive and respectful approaches to sexuality and sexual relationships, as well as increase the possibility of having pleasurable and safe sexual experiences, free of coercion, discrimination and violence. (WHO)Sexual health is fundamental to the overall health and well-being of individuals, couples and families, and to the social and economic development of communities and countries. (WHO) When individuals are blocked from sexual health they are stunted from developing a sense of sensual play and enjoyment. • Learn more about Sex Ed for You at ⁠⁠https://www.sexedforyou.com⁠⁠• Schedule a FREE CONSULT with Lauren today: ⁠⁠https://www.sexedforyou.com/freeconsult⁠⁠• Learn more about partnered communication best practices on Sex Ed For You's Instagram Page: ⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/sex_ed_for_you/⁠⁠• Subscribe to our YouTube channel for more videos about sex, partnership, communication, and love: ⁠⁠https://youtube.com/@thepartnershippodcast⁠⁠Reminders: This is not a "how to" podcast, but rather a "how they" podcast. Please listen to our opinions and then come to your own! Learn from our mistakes or give our techniques a try! It's all up to you. Lauren is NOT a therapist. She is a Certified Holistic Sexuality Educator and Embodied Intimacy and Relationship Coach.

This week, we're looking forward to 2026 to how to achieve some of the kink goals a lot of kinksters have (including us!). As always, you don't have to wait for an arbitrary date... The post How to Achieve Your Kink Goals for 2026 appeared first on Loving BDSM.

We're diving back into the madhouse that is Reddit advice, where strangers ask wild kink questions and we do our best not to spit out our drinks while answering them. Expect giggles, good-hearted roast sessions, and the occasional “bless their heart” as we break down what's actually good advice…and what belongs in the digital dumpster.Visit https://linktr.ee/pinkkinkpodcast for links to our Patreon, Pink Kink Boutique, Pink Kink Institute, social media accounts and more!Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order)Obedienceapp.com/pinkkink for a 20% discounthttps://love-blanket.com/?ref=PINKKINKPODCAST and use code PINKKINK10 for 10% off

In this layered, vulnerable, and intellectually powerful episode of the Kink Series, we go far beyond basic BDSM concepts and drop directly into the psychology, ritual, and emotional architecture of kink with Mistress Audry Lu Black — a professional dominatrix, lifestyle FemDomme, educator, and respected kink community leader. Together we explore how bondage, ritual, humiliation, sexual sadism, and power exchange can serve not only erotic expression but also nervous system regulation, trauma processing, and emotional liberation. What begins as a conversation about rope quickly expands into a rich discussion about worship, devotion, fear release, identity, surrender, and the transformative role of a Dominant who leads with intention and precision. This episode opens the door to understanding kink as both art and psychology, and how deep D/s can create safety, stillness, and meaning for those who crave structure, containment, or catharsis. • Why 20% of the body's energy feeds the brain and how cognitive load, overthinking, and perfectionism show up in bondage scenes • Bondage as nervous system regulation — creating stillness, presence, and relief for anxious or neurodivergent minds who struggle with meditation • Somatic containment through rope and restraint for anxiety, trauma, and hypermobility conditions (including Ehlers-Danlos and other connective tissue differences) • The paradox of safety through restriction — how removing choice, movement, and anticipated pressure can reduce anxiety and soothe a dysregulated nervous system • Femme Domme philosophy and energetic leadership — what it means to embody dominance, hold power, and create psychological structures for surrender • Sexual sadism and humiliation — how intention, emotional tone, and negotiated meaning differentiate harm from healing, and cruelty from catharsis • The psychology of worship and groveling — why submission, devotion, and being at Her feet can be grounding, erotic, or spiritually significant • Ritual in kink — how structure, ceremony, and symbolic actions frame scenes, build trust, and regulate the body's response to intensity • Lifestyle vs. professional domination — the differences in purpose, boundaries, emotional bandwidth, and the Dominant's role in each dynamic • Deep-dive negotiation practices — understanding limits, desires, tone, chemistry, and psychological triggers before entering a scene • A full, realistic BDSM pre-scene negotiation role play so listeners can hear how safe, ethical, consent-based kink is structured before any play begins • The Dominant's internal process — emotional labor, reading the submissive's physiology, and creating a safe container for intensity • How humiliation can be affirming, transformative, or erotic depending on the submissive's psychology and agreed roles • Bondage as an anchor for embodiment — helping the mind exit constant vigilance and enter stillness, surrender, or erotic presence  Touch Me There: Vaginal Reflexology, Squirting Secrets & Orgasmic Magic — available here: https://open.spotify.com/episode/0AsOZmGPvMiR3pQfVZKfxR?si=fFDg8SQqS7OCQQn5ptYGoA Connect with the Guest Mistress Audry Lu Black Podcast: Placemaker for Perversion Substack: https://audrylublack.substack.com/ Official Website: https://mistresslublack.com/ Mentioned Resources Hani Cheng – Talk to the Peach: Sensual healing, feminine pleasure, and reconnecting with your body (Listen here) Hani Cheng – Reflexology: Mapping female genitals with reflexology for pleasure and body awareness (Listen here) Shameless Care — Use code PLEASME for $15 off at-home sexual health testing: shamelesscare.com Eve's Substack — Q&A, workshops, & exclusive content: https://pleasemewitheve.substack.com/ Please Me Podcast Patreon — Extended episodes & bonus content: patreon.com/PleaseMePodcast SDC.com — Use code 37340 for a free trial membership World Vision Support survivors of typhoon & earthquake: worldvision.org Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week we get in the holiday mood with a conversation about having the Christmas party with Vanilla Friends and Swinger friends.  We bring up some excellent and damn funny and true points!   Give it a listen and let us know how your party went!!https://discreetdirtyco.com/http://www.motorbunny.comhttp://www.asnlifestylemagazine.comhttp://www.fullswapshop.comhttps://www.onlyfans.com/msamandakasbh: http://www.krazykasbh.com:  http:// www.youtube.com/kasbhTwitter:  @TruthKrazyPrison Pen Pal PodcastHear real stories from prison inmates, their free-world pen pals, family, and friends.Listen on: Apple Podcasts SpotifySupport the show

Vandaag zit Fokko Mellema bij mij in de Gitaarmannen studio. Je kent hem misschien nog van The Jeremy's, de band waarmee hij landelijk doorbrak. Later zette hij zijn eerste stappen als solo-artiest met WANT WANT, en inmiddels gaat hij al jaren als FOKKO door het leven. De vaste luisteraars van radiozender KINK kennen FOKKO allemaal van items en jingles bij Michiel Veenstra. Die laatste opent dan ook deze aflevering met een mooi bericht aan FOKKO!Fokko praat met een ontwapenende eerlijkheid over songwriting, identiteit en trouw blijven aan je eigen sound. Zijn SG voelt als een huwelijk en dat zegt eigenlijk alles. Het gesprek vliegt alle kanten op. Van poppunk tot gear tot pure ambacht. Precies zoals ik dat graag heb :). Word lid van de Gitaarmannen Whatsapp communityhttps://chat.whatsapp.com/HJBvOduZdwtGyGb1MG92yIWord member van dit YouTube kanaalhttps://www.youtube.com/channel/UCHZY3hQcBY3WUsZY3crW9aw/joinSUPPORT GITAARMANNEN, DE PODCASTGeef een SUPER THANKS en steun dit kanaal!Petje afhttp://petjeaf.nl/edstruijlaartEn dan nu een woord van onze sponsors, dank voor jullie support!GITAAR VAN DE MAANDThe Fellowship of AcousticsDeze maand laten we een 1956 Gibson Les Paul zien uit de Custom Shop. Een Goldtop met P90's en British Racing Green stripes die volledig door Coen is samengesteld.Op alle gitaren en gear krijg je vijf procent korting met de code GITAARMANNEN.Bekijk 'm hier: https://www.tfoa.eu/shop/gibson-custom-56-les-paul-all-gold-w-british-racing-green-stripes-murphy-lab-heavy-aged-65240-106377SNARENSHOP.NL GIVE AWAYhttps://snarenshop.nl/caline-cp-207-power-supply-multi-voeding-10-outputs.htmlSnarenshop geeft deze week een Caline CP-207 multi-voeding weg.Meedoen is simpel. Reageer onder de video, word YouTube member en stuur daarna een mail naarinfo@gitaarmannen.nlDESERT ISLAND PEDALTRAINIn dit laatste segment geeft Pedaltrain een Pedaltrain Nano weg.Meedoen doe je op dezelfde manier. Reageer onder de video, word member en stuur je bericht naarinfo@gitaarmannen.nlTIJDCODES:00:00:00 Intro00:00:45 Een vraag aan Fokko van... Michiel Veenstra!00:04:04 Hoe ziet Fokko zichzelf, gitaarman of toch songwriter?00:05:10 De wall of sound die Fokko inspireerde00:15:00 Terug naar Want Want00:19:01 Fokko en de glamour van de muziekindustrie00:22:25 De nieuwe lichting Nederlandse rockhelden00:25:03 De favoriete gitaar van Fokko00:34:22 Getrouwd met zijn gitaar00:35:10 Hoe Fokko klinkt op een Strat00:42:31 Onafgemaakte Liedjes Maandag00:51:20 Niet wachten op inspiratie00:55:02 Gear Talk: oud en vertrouwd, net als avondeten om half 6.00:59:45 Een crash course in de Weezer gitaarsound01:01:37 De beste plectra01:02:40 De favoriete amp van Fokko01:04:29 Desert Island Pedal Train01:09:46 Wat staat er op het programma voor Fokko in 2026?01:11:59 Fokko's grappige filmpjes#gitaarmannen #edstruijlaart #fokko

J&J start off this episode on which TV shows you should binge and the answer is The Sopranos! They get into listener questions quick and debate whether it's a dealbreaker when a guy sends too many selfies or if someone can come back from an ick. They talk about first-date boundaries and what's too much to ask before meeting someone: handshake or hug. Then, they discuss whether it's petty or prudent to call an ex's job after he cheated. Finally, they close with a wild Red Flag or Dealbreaker about a match who reveals a kink before the first date even happens! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

HEYYY to my fellow left out people!! On this episode of On the Bright Side, we're getting real about that feeling of being purposely left out. You know that moment where you realize you weren't invited and it hits way harder than it should? Yeah… I know that feeling a little too well. But here's the truth: it was never actually about you. It was about the inviter: the jealousy, the insecurity, the weird little power trip they were feeding off of aka THE KINK.This episode is all about building longer tables, not higher fences. Because longer tables let all of us thrive. They give more room for opportunities, growth, friendship, and support. It's time to stop being threatened by other people's success and start realizing the universe is not on a budget. There's space for everyone,  and your life only expands when you make space for others. SocialsOTBS Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@onthebrightsidepodd⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠OTBS TikTok: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@onthebrightsidepodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Caroline's Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@carolinesusko⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Caroline's Tiktok: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@carolinesusko⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Social media inquiries: carolinesusko20@gmail.comPodcast Inquiries: onthebrightsidepod20@gmail.comMore about me (Amazon Storefront, LTK, Podcast Course etc): ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠WANT TO SEE A GUEST GET ON THE MIC? Fill out this ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠google form ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠and keep an eye out on both IG'sMusic: Sundown Drive by Ghostrifter http://bit.ly/ghostrifter-ytCreative Commons — Attribution-NoDerivs 3.0 Unported — CC BY-ND 3.0Free Download: https://hypeddit.com/track/o4ir62

Remember the Indiana school teacher who got fired for having an OnlyFans and then blew up the internet? She's back. Sarah Juree returns to Sex Party to talk about what really happened after the “after-school scandal” that took her from the classroom to Dr. Phil, viral headlines, and a nonstop media circus.Sarah just released her new book, Diary of an OnlyFans Model, and she's opening the vault. She and Dustin dive into the fallout no one saw, the money, the shame, the DMs, and the moment she decided to own the story instead of running from it. They get into cross-dressing, virtual threesomes, blackmail and the wild ways her sex life and public persona have evolved since the world tried to cancel her.This episode is about scandal, reinvention, and refusing to go back to “normal” once you've tasted freedom. If you loved her the first time, you're in for a ride. If you've never met Sarah Juree, buckle up.Sharpen your pencils, open up your books to page 2 and enjoy EP 202: "After-School Scandal" with Sarah Juree.Watch the video version of the show on YouTube YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIuCkOl_XummXVdu1t3XOuQFollow Sarah JureeInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/sarahjuree (@sarahjuree)Get 'Diary Of An OnlyFans Model'Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/Diary-OnlyFans-Model-Happens-Paywall/dp/B0FDB43MLRFollow the showInstagram: https://instagram.com/sexparty.fm (@sexparty.fm)Twitter: https://twitter.com/sexpartyfm (@sexpartyfm)Follow Dustin Instagram: https://instagram.com/dustin.rybka (@dustin.rybka)Twitter: https://twitter.com/dustinrybka (@dustinrybka)Sex Party with Dustin Rybka

Send us a textTalking about kink doesn't have to be awkward — in fact, when you do it right, the conversation itself becomes part of the turn-on.In today's episode of Talk Sex with Annette, we're breaking down how to explore kink with a partner in a way that feels safe, connected, and genuinely exciting… long before anything physical happens.I'm joined by Lisa Opel, pleasure coach at Joy Club, author, educator, and speaker who teaches people around the world how to navigate desire, boundaries, and curiosity with confidence. Together, we're diving into why negotiation is one of the most misunderstood parts of kink, and how it can actually build trust, intimacy, and erotic tension.You'll learn: • How to talk about new desires without making things uncomfortable • What to say when you're nervous to bring something up • How to explore fantasies in a judgment-free way • Why negotiation can become its own form of foreplay • Tools for building trust, safety, and connection before you try something new • How to start small, communicate clearly, and create a deeper, more playful dynamicWhether you're a beginner exploring kink for the first time or you've been curious for years, this episode gives you the exact language, mindset, and steps to talk about your desires in a way that brings you closer — not farther apart.Find out more about Lisa at: Use code EXPLORES15 for 15% off all Womanizer Products at Womanizer.com. Experience the Pheromone Advantage at 15% off  with my code LRT15Use code LRT15  at Eyeoflove.com And you'll get 15% off pheromone powered perfumes, colognes, and more. Check out my Diaries on OF. Enjoy exclusive access to intimacy video how-tos, guided self-pleasure meditations, and more!https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/ Get 15% Off The Life Saving, Erection Enhancing Tech Cockring By Firmtech with my code ANNETTE15 at: https://myfirmtech.com/annettebenedetti Get your intimacy questions answered, enjoy erotic audio readings and more.https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/Support the show Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@annettebenedetti Connect with usWe are on all the socials: TikTok: @ LockerRoomTalkPodcast LRT's Insta: @Lockerroomtalkandshots Annette's Insta: @BeingBenedetti SEL Inst: @SheExplores_Life LRT's FB: @LockerRoomTalkandShots SEL FB: @ SheExploresLife Annette's YouTube: Annette Benedetti Check Out More Sexy Content:She Explores Life Website: sheexploreslife.comCheers!

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Episode Overview In this episode of Please Me! Podcast, Dr. Eve continues her Kink Education Series, inspired by DomCon New Orleans. Dive into BIPOC kink history, subspace and domspace neurochemistry, neurodiverse pleasure, somatic practices, pet play, foot play, anal play, and trauma-informed, consent-based kink education. Learn practical tools, cultural insights, and safety guidance for exploring kink in a mindful, therapeutic way. Topics Covered

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Octavia Red is a shapeshifter with receipts — 300+ scenes, 130M views — and range that swings from tentacle monster/vampire fantasy and shoplifter porn chaos to the boudoir glamour of The Red Door. She's fresh off XBIZ and AVN nominations for The Red Door: An Octavia Red Showcase Film and Escape From Camp Conversion, not to mention nominations for Female Performer Of The Year from BOTH AVN & XBIZ. We get into her process and her turn-ons at the same time: building a character while having real sex; two- and three-guy scenes; where she prefers the cumshot; whether anal is on the table; and some wild stories — including people drinking her piss from a cup. Her origin story, what REALLY drives her, and where she's most likely headed next.Octavia has racked up an incredible body of work, and she's just getting warmed up. Enjoy EP 201: "Body Of Work" with Octavia Red. Watch the video version of the show on YouTube YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIuCkOl_XummXVdu1t3XOuQFollow Octavia RedInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/x.redclouds (@x.redclouds)Follow the showInstagram: https://instagram.com/sexparty.fm (@sexparty.fm)Twitter: https://twitter.com/sexpartyfm (@sexpartyfm)Follow Dustin Instagram: https://instagram.com/dustin.rybka (@dustin.rybka)Twitter: https://twitter.com/dustinrybka (@dustinrybka)Sex Party with Dustin Rybka

Send us a textIn this episode, we're breaking down exhibitionism — why being watched can feel exciting, how to tell if it's your kink, and simple ways to explore it without making things awkward.I'm joined by Laura Desiree, creative director of Sanctum and a powerful voice in performance and desire. We cover:✨ What exhibitionism really is ✨ Why being seen can amplify pleasure ✨ Signs it might be your kink ✨ How to try it safely (solo or partnered) ✨ Tips for beginners, from mirror work to first-time eventsIf you've ever been curious about being watched—or just want to understand the psychology behind it—this is your Exhibitionism 101.

We're happy to be joined by Jonathan Higgins and Jordan “JoHo” Daniels of BFF: Black, Fat, Femme. We talk origin story, the love + lessons in their friendship, the success of their show, Jonathan's book Black. Fat. Femme: Revealing the Power of Visibly Queer Voices in Media and Learning to Love Yourself, a surprise Loretta Devine stud reveal, their Bad Queer Opinions, and the nastiness online they brush off.Shoutouts:Kris: Moodeaux - Founded by Brianna Arps, Moodeaux is a Black, woman, and queer-owned fragrance brand redefining perfumery with clean, unisex scents and its “Flaunt How You Feel” ethos. Follow on IG @moodeauxofficialShana:  Queer Nightlife Community Center (QNCC pronounced Kink) run for and by queer nightlife workers to empower queer, trans and low-income communities through access, support and celebration. During the day the space will provide healthcare services and work-based training before transitioning to music programming in the evening. Follow @qncc.bk on IG Jordan: Edwin Sotos and Luis Cornejo - for what they're doing with Apaga El Odio, which is helping lead the work to hold Univision and Telemundo accountable for showing ICE propaganda during their shows. Follow on IG: @edwinsotos and @luis_thee_lmftSondra Morris -  of my friends who runs Tagg Magazine for queer women. They are currently in a rebrand so check out their stories and advertise with them. Follow on IG: @sondrawritesstuff @taggmagazineNathan Serrato - Queer coaching and relationships under Queer Conscious. Follow on IG: @queerconsciousJon:  Ericka Hart - Love their content, how they hold everyone accountable and the way she continues to uplift accountability and her family is adorable Follow on IG: @iharterickaPennywise- I believe they are queer and doing her thing in IT: Welcome To Derry and reminds the girls what they can do when you put your mind to it Episode Notes: 1:00 - Queer Urban Dictionary2:04 - Guest Intro: Jon & JoHoShare your Am I A Bad Queer? hereSupport the showPATREON: patreon.com/BadQueersPodcast Subscribe to our Youtubehttps://www.youtube.com/@BadQueersPodcast The opinions expressed during this podcast are conversational in nature and expressed only for comedic purposes. Not all of the facts will be correct but we attempt to be as accurate as possible. BQ Media LLC, the hosts, nor any guest host(s) hold no liability over the conversations on this podcast and by using this podcast you understand that it is solely for entertainment purposes. Copyright Disclaimer: Under Section 107 of the Copyright Act 1976, allowance is made for "fair use" for purposes such as criticism, comment, news reporting, teaching, parody, scholarship and research.

Have you ever had (or maybe still have) this fear: What if they find out? What will they think about me? You're not alone. Today we take a dive deep into one of the most common — yet rarely spoken about — fears in the kink and sissy communities: the terror of being discovered. Whether it's a partner stumbling on your secret drawer, a family member finding your messages, or simply the crushing weight of “what if someone knows?” — this conversation is for every person who's ever hidden a part of themselves out of fear. We explore the emotional roots behind this fear:The dread of loss — relationships, respect, livelihoodThe sting of judgment — from family, society, or the toxic myth of “real masculinity”The existential spiral of self-identity collapse — “Who am I if this comes out?”But we don't stop at the problem - we're all about solutions.This episode is packed with practical, real-world strategies to protect your privacy and reclaim your power: Secure storage for clothes, toys, and keepsakes  Safe shopping tips — from PO boxes to gift cards and clean digital trails  Digital hygiene — encrypted emails, burner phones, private browsers, and why never to use Gmail or your real name online Compartmentalization rituals — transitioning in and out of your sissy self with grace and control Low-risk disclosure — how and when (or if) to share your truth — and why it's your choice, not an obligation.We also talk about building your inner foundation — transforming shame into sacredness, secrecy into self-care, and fear into freedom.Because here's the truth:Your femininity doesn't need permission to exist.Your submission doesn't need validation to be powerful.And you don't need to come out to everyone to live authentically.Whether you're deep into sissy training, exploring femdom, or simply navigating the quiet tension between your inner world and outer life — this episode will leave you feeling seen, safer, and stronger.Tune in. Breathe deeper. And remember — you are not broken. You are becoming.DISCORD:  LdwOlivia.   and.  LdwErikaMistress Olivia's blog:  Experienced Mistressolivia@EnchantrixEmpire.comMistress Erika's blog:  Intelligent Phone FantasyErika@EnchantrixEmpire.com

Kink can do more than turn you on. It can help you calm your mind, process emotions, and feel grounded again. In this episode, we talk about how kink becomes a coping tool, why it works, and the difference between healing and avoiding.We cover both pain and non-pain ways kink helps with stress, connection, and emotional release, plus a few signs to watch for if play starts replacing real support.Visit https://linktr.ee/pinkkinkpodcast for links to our Patreon, Pink Kink Boutique, Pink Kink Institute, social media accounts and more!Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order)Obedienceapp.com/pinkkink for a 20% discounthttps://love-blanket.com/?ref=PINKKINKPODCAST and use code PINKKINK10 for 10% off

Welcome to the Please Me! Podcast Kink Series, where host Eve leads bold, trauma-informed conversations about sexuality, kink, empowerment, and embodied pleasure. As the number-one ranked sexuality podcast in the USA and worldwide, Please Me! brings listeners into real, raw, and educational discussions designed to close the orgasm gap and dismantle shame. In this episode, Eve sits down with Maeve McBride — a BDSM educator, intuitive top, sexological herbalist, and Executive Director of KinkFest 2025/2026 — to explore the foundations of Intuitive Topping, BDSM roles, and how to develop real-time awareness in kink. Drawing from insights at DomCon and Maeve's influential “Intuitive Topping” class, this episode dives into: The difference between Dom, Sub, Top, Bottom, Switch, and Vers How power exchange works through negotiation, communication, and consent Why intuitive topping is not psychic ability, but pattern recognition and data collection How to read breath, movement, vocalizations, body language, and individualized responses How neurodivergence influences sensation expression and communication Understanding hurt vs. harm and why negotiated pain can be safe What defines a scene — negotiation, safewords, boundaries, aftercare, and follow-up Why kink isn't always sexual, and how sensation play can offer catharsis, emotional release, and embodiment How Eve and Maeve negotiated a real pre-scene demonstration together Why aftercare is essential for both tops and bottoms This conversation brings clarity, depth, and compassion to kink education — offering both beginners and seasoned players a richer understanding of how intuition, safety, and connection shape BDSM. Patreon Bonus Listen to the full-length, uncensored episode on Patreon — including extended kink education, behind-the-scenes insight, and intimate conversations that don't fit into the free version. Access the entire Kink Series for just $10/month  Additional Resources Mentioned: • Shameless Care — Use code PLEASME for $15 off at-home sexual health testing • SDC.com — Use code 37340 for a free trial membership • Donation links for survivors of the recent typhoon and earthquake in the Philippines https://www.worldvision.org/ • Eve's Substack and Patreon communities for Q&A submissions and exclusive content https://pleasemewitheve.substack.com/ http://patreon.com/PleaseMePodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Love comes in many forms - sometimes confrontational. Today's episode is a paean to a couple of dominating dames that lit up the punk scene in the late 70s. Johnny Rotten once stated that the only person that actually frightened him was the gone too soon, Poly Styrene of X-Ray Spex. That product of a Somali father and a British mother railed against consumerist culture, and her band's career might have been short lived, but their single, Oh Bondage, Up Yours! with it's bleating saxophone cavalry charge, blown by band mate Lora Logic, was a battle cry to aspiring Riot Grrls everywhere.The other indomitable mistress we wish to spotlight, Chrissie Hynde of the Pretenders, is still rocking 50 years later. This survivor from America's Midwest by way of England, -  this vegetarian restauranteur/punk legend, who fronted one of the most thrilling acts of the era, scored multiple hits across the pop spectrum, including this classic, Middle of the Road.X-RAY SPEXMarianne Joan Elliot-Said died prematurely at age 53, but she lived abundantly, migrating through several personae. Early on, she was a hippie, sleeping in crash pads and nearly dying from sepsis, which she contracted from stepping on a rusty nail while bathing in a stream. Later, inspired by seeing the Sex Pistols, she had found her calling. Choosing her moniker from the Yellow Pages, wearing braces on her teeth and Day-Glo outfits, she became a sensation. Like a comet, she streaked across the pop firmament and burnt out quickly, being diagnosed with bipolar disorder in 1978. She pursued a gentler and jazzier sound for her subsequent solo recordings, and in '83 became a Hare Krishna and a vegetarian. In February 2011 she revealed that she had been treated for breast cancer that had spread to her spine and lungs. She died later that year, yet in her short life she accomplished the nearly impossible: cultural immortality. THE PRETENDERSThe guitar signature, driven by Robbie McIntosh on 1983's Middle of the Road by The Pretenders creates an irresistible force, defining a clear road map for singer, Chrissie Hynde. It feels like she's behind the wheel, with the high beams on, going 120, roaring through the Ohio night, around the bend of a Rust Belt highway. She was already 33, and a single mother, as she tells us in the song. With one fist held high, she assures us that she'll be a survivor, and there's no shame in that. She's listed by Rolling Stone as 114 on its list of the 200 Greatest Singers of all time, and at 74, she's still going strong - still driving that muscle car of rock. This woman has ageless style and charisma. She is also a citizen of Great Britain, having moved there initially in '73, and almost marrying Johnny Rotten, Sid vicious, and Ray Davies (she has a daughter by the Kink).  After several misfires trying to start a band, her solo demo tape made it's way to Dave Hill, the owner of Real Records who helped her put the original Pretenders line up together, and the rest, as they say is “Herstory”.

Send us a textEpisode 692: People pleasers and all people listen up!Surprisingly, boundaries don't push people away, they actually strengthen connection. Dr. Alison Ash returns to unpack sexual boundaries, especially for those who struggle to say no.Boundaries aren't just about your values; they're about your capacity, the fluctuating energy and resources available to you based on sleep, stress, and nervous system regulation. When you're dysregulated and operating outside your window of tolerance, you become reactive and frustrated. (Most of us consistently overestimate what we can handle.)Dr. Aly shares a practical three-part formula for setting boundaries that helps others feel heard rather than rejected.Key Takeaways:• Boundaries aren't selfish, they're based on your actual capacity, which fluctuates daily based on sleep, stress, and nervous system regulation, making them a realistic necessity rather than a character flaw.• The "window of tolerance" explains why you get reactive. When dysregulated, you become irritable and struggle to enforce boundaries, so managing your nervous system is as important as stating your limits.• Healthy boundaries actually filter out unhealthy relationships, meaning people who respect your "no" strengthen the relationship, while those who don't reveal incompatibility, not rejection of them as people.Discussion topics;Sexuality, sexual health, sexual wellness, relationships, mental healthUnderstanding Your Capacity and Setting/maintaining Healthy Boundaries without guilt and while maintaining connection Feeling Safe Saying No Builds TrustUnderstanding Trauma and Nervous System DysregulationManaging Trauma Response Through Nervous System CareCommunication and Pacing in Exploring KinkSubstance Use and Consent in Sexual ExplorationLearning From Past Experiences and Building Intimacy SkillsSex Gets Better With Age and ConfidenceConnect with Dr. Aly:Sexual and Emotional Intimacy Skills online course on Tues, Jan 27th-Mar 17thWe all receive messages about who we are supposed to be, how we ought to feel, and how we should express ourselves, often enforced through shame and disconnection. Featuring 8 classes with a woven balance of science-based data, embodied exploration, and skills development designed to support you in creating, deepening, and sustaining sexual and emotional intimacy in your relationship(s). Recordings available for those who can't attend live or want extra review. Super early bird tickets available now for $200-$400 off!Last but not least, reach out to Dr. Aly for individual, couples, and ENM coaching support!http://www.turnon.love/ Support the showExclusives https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/subscribeNewsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillowhttps://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliates Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow BeeDee dating app https://beedee.app/?r=ohfuckyeahThe Fantasy Box DATE30 for $30 OFF 1st box https://thefantasybox.sjv.io/c/6250602/2141126/26423

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“Your birthright is pleasure.”What if everything you've been taught about aging, sexuality, and womanhood is not only outdated, but completely wrong? Joining us to challenge all of it is Melissa Louise, a pleasure advocate and erotic blueprint coach whose perspective on midlife, menopause (or as she calls it, “regenopause”), patriarchy, and sex magic will have you rethinking every cultural script you've inherited.In this conversation, Erin and Melissa unpack the rules women internalize about their bodies, pleasure, and relationships and explore what becomes possible when we step outside those boxes. From raising her son barefoot in the jungles of Costa Rica to guiding clients toward sexual mastery, Melissa invites us to reclaim our agency and embrace our inherent power in the second half of life. We discuss:Why “menopause” is a social construct designed to weaken women and how “regenopause” can become a regenerative upgrade to wisdom and powerHow pleasure operates as a life force that fuels creativity, manifestation, and even financial abundanceHow society's 24-hour sun cycle depletes women, and what it means to reconnect with the lunar rhythms of the female bodyThe difference between love and monogamy, and why relationship structures are due for a radical rethinkWhy older women have historically been the wisdom keepers, and how we can reclaim our place as guides, leaders, and culture-shapersPractical ways to bring more pleasure, freedom, and play into everyday life no matter your age, relationship status, or beliefs about midlifeOUR GUEST: Melissa Louise is a leading Pleasure Advocate, Erotic Blueprint, Sex, Intimacy & Relationship Expert. She supports women to reclaim their divine birthright to feel alive, orgasmic and turned on no matter their age or relationship status. And men to be more attractive, powerful, trustworthy, make more money and find freedom by lasting longer in bed. It's the perfect erotic cocktail that nourishes health, wealth and well being. With certifications also in Kink 101, Accelerated Evolution and Access Consciousness, Melissa Louise truly embodies the principle that how we do life is how we do sex.Want more Melissa? Learn more about her work at https://melissalouise.substack.com/subscribe and www.melissalouise.world. Follow her on Instagram at https://www.instagram.com/melissa_louise_intimacy/ Find episode transcripts at www.hotterthaneverpod.com Follow us on:Instagram: @hotterthaneverpod TikTok: @hotterthaneverpod Youtube: @hotterthaneverpod Facebook: @hotterthaneverpod Follow Hotter Than Ever wherever you listen to podcasts - we're on Apple Podcasts, Spotify and more! That way you'll never miss an episode. We'd love to hear what you think about the show - it helps us know what stories are resonating with you. DM us on Instagram and write us a review!

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1000 SCENES & STILL HUNGRY FOR MORE. 200 Episodes. 2 shots of Tito's. One legend. Adult Superstar Jennifer White shows up 16 years deep, 1000+ scenes in, & still hungry because she loves sex and always has. She talks about the firsts that rewired her: first DP, first gangbang, and the moment it all clicked and never let go.We go inside the 50-Guy Creampie Scene featuring a live band, her wildest OnlyFans custom requests, and why her showcase Hollywood Whore: Jennifer White, elevates her to a whole other level. She also talks about her role in Once Upon A Time In The Valley, and with such big projects under her belt this year, how is she feeling about nomination season? At the end of the episode Jennifer goes through THE BURNER and doesn't even flinch.Raise your glass and help us celebrate 200 EPISODES of Sex Party with a true legend in the Adult Industry, the one and only Jennifer White.A HUGE THANK YOU to everyone for 200 episodes of this podcast. Your support means everything. What an insane ride. Here's to 200 more. Welcome to EP 200: "The Legend Of Jennifer White" with Jennifer White. Watch the video version of the show on YouTubeYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIuCkOl_XummXVdu1t3XOuQFollow Jennifer White Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jenwhite2.0 (@jenwhite2.0)Follow the showInstagram: https://instagram.com/sexparty.fm (@sexparty.fm)Twitter: https://twitter.com/sexpartyfm (@sexpartyfm)Follow Dustin Instagram: https://instagram.com/dustin.rybka (dustin.rybka)Twitter: https://twitter.com/dustinrybka (dustinrybka)Sex Party with Dustin Rybka

Meg dives into The Killing Fields of East New York by Stacy Horn and uncovers the roots of the downfall of a Brooklyn neighborhood. Jessica tells of the time the moral majority and radical feminists got in bed together to legislate against porn.Please check out our website, follow us on Instagram, on Facebook, and...WRITE US A REVIEW HEREWe'd LOVE to hear from you! Let us know if you have any ideas for stories HEREThank you for listening!Love,Meg and Jessica

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What does great sex really mean? And why is the simplest question – “What do you really want?” – often the hardest one to answer?In this episode of The Weekly Hot Spot, Mistress Olivia and Mistress Erika sit down with the brilliant Dr. Jaime Grant – researcher, LGBTQ+ advocate, and author of Great Sex: Mapping Your Desire – for a conversation that dismantles shame, celebrates pleasure, and redefines intimacy from the inside out.This isn't just a talk about kink or technique. It's a deep dive into the emotional archaeology of desire – how shame, silence, and societal scripts keep us from claiming our deepest pleasures, especially when those desires feel taboo. Dr. Grant opens with a powerful admission: she got into this work because she was a “liar” – performing a version of herself to survive a repressive Irish Catholic upbringing. “We all develop a liar,” she explains, “and that liar shows up in our sexuality.” Whether you're a submissive wrestling with guilt, a sissy navigating feminization, or someone whose fantasies clash with their identity, this episode meets you where you are – without judgment.The conversation turns to the “purge cycle” – that all-too-familiar pattern where submissives and sissies throw away their toys and clothes in shame, only to rebuild their collections once again. Dr. Grant reframes this not as failure, but as desire breaking through. Then comes the practical magic. Dr. Grant introduces her “Name Tag Exercise” – a fun exercise tool where you introduce yourself not by your job or role, but by three words that describe your core desires. Words like slut, rope enthusiast, curious, neuro spicy, bootlicker, orgasm controller. Mistress Erika shares hers: “Fun. Curious. Obey.” Mistress Olivia, ever the wordsmith, lands on “Control as Connection,” “Intellectual Eroticism,” and “Transformation.” She reveals how power exchange, for her, is a form of artistic expression – a “ballet” of sensual influence – and how she's turned on more by minds than bodies, drawn to “the space between words.”But the mapping goes deeper. Dr. Grant applies desire mapping to orgasm control, chastity, and tease/denial – not as games of endurance, but as rituals of presence. “If you're just going through the motions,” she says, “it's choreography, not connection.” True power play begins when you're grounded in what actually moves you – the raw, vulnerable parts of yourself that turn you on because they feel dangerous.Fantasy, she insists, is not disloyalty – it's breadcrumbs. Your roleplay scenarios, dark power exchanges, and gender-bending dreams aren't distractions from real desire – they are the map. And if someone tries to police your inner world? “You're with the wrong person."The episode closes with a radical truth: You already have everything you need. The voice of shame – that internal critic whispering, "You shouldn't want this" – that voice is not yours. It's the echo of a priest, a parent, a culture.Desire mapping helps you trace that voice back to its source, so you stop obeying it and start honoring your sacred material: your body, your history, your truth.If you've ever felt like an imposter in your own pleasure… If you've silenced a fantasy because it didn't fit your identity… If you've wondered why surrender feels so terrifying – and so freeing……this episode is your invitation to map your desire – not apologize for it.Tune in. Listen closely. And start asking yourself the question that changes everything:What do you really want?Books by Dr. Jaime Grant on AmazonReach out to Dr. Grant for readings or coaching at jaimemgrant@gmail.com and catch her podcast at www.justsexpodcast.comContact us:Mistress Olivia:Email: Olivia@EnchantrixEmpire.com.   Twitter X: @MistressOlivia1.     Blue Sky: @MsOliviaBlog: Experienced MistressMistress Erika: Email:  Erika@EnchantrixEmpire.comTwitter X and Blue Sky: @ErikaEnchantrixBlog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy MEET DR. JAIME GRANT Friday, November 21 at Red Emma's Bookstore in BaltimoreDr. Grant and her co-author Jack Harrison-Quintana do exercises from the book and share bits of their kink highlight reels.Wednesday evening, January 21, 8pm at the Washington Hilton Hotel, as part of the Creating Change Conference.  Dr. Grant and her co-author Jack Harrison-Quintana read from Kink for Dummies and share tips.From late January through mid-March, Dr. Grant will be at the SketchPad Artist's residency in Hyannis Mass, offering Desire Mapping open studios every Saturday.  Book readings on the Cape in this period TBD.Friday April 24th @ 7:30pm, at Charis Books in Atlanta, Dr. Grant will talk about Kink for Dummies with Ignacio Rivera, technical editor on the book, and two kink story contributors, Asha Leong and tia marie.

What Holly Randall REALLY Thinks About Porn, Kink, and Penis Size Today we did the thing: Keely interviews... Holly. Sex & relationship coach Keely Rankin takes over the host chair and grills me (lovingly) on everything—growing up with porn-producer parents, why I still prefer being behind the camera, and how a leak accidentally nudged me into posting my own nudes. We get into industry stigma, awards (yes, AVN Hall of Fame), and why landing in the Podcast Pantheon alongside This American Life and Serial felt surreal. We talk fantasy vs. reality on set, how “opening to camera” actually works, and why most women prefer “boyfriend-size” for everyday life. We unpack foreplay (mental and physical), consent checklists, and the difference between power and exploitation. I share a personal story about my dad that still makes me cry, the joy/terror of motherhood, and my wish for the adult industry: that choosing this career doesn't brand you for life.Plus: directing on micro-budgets, the OnlyFans pivot, boundaries with performers, and why I still geek out over great photographs.Finish like a pro. Load Boost is doctor-formulated to improve taste, volume, and semen health — no gimmicks, just science. Use code HOLLY or click this link for 10% off your order! https://vb.health/supplements-for-sex/?utm_source=holly&coupon-code=holly New players, download the DraftKings Casino app and use code HRU.Play five bucks and get five hundred spins on Cash Eruption slots over ten days. That's code HRU, at DraftKings Casino—home of the largest jackpot win in online casino history. In partnership with DraftKings Casino. The Crown is Yours. Gambling problem? Call one eight hundred GAMBLER. In Connecticut, help is available for problem gambling call eight eight eight seven eight nine seven seven seven seven or visit C C P G dot org. Please play responsibly. Twenty-one plus. Physically present in Connecticut, Michigan, New Jersey, Pennsylvania, West Virginia only. Void in Ontario. Eligibility restrictions apply. Non-withdrawable Casino Spins issued as fifty Spins per day for ten days, valid for featured game only and expire each day after twenty four hours.Find me on all social media platforms - HollyLinks.comHit up linktr.ee/HollyAds for exclusive deals, spicy discounts, and perks so good your wallet might blush.Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/holly-randall-unfiltered--6630320/support.

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