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We're diving back into the madhouse that is Reddit advice, where strangers ask wild kink questions and we do our best not to spit out our drinks while answering them. Expect giggles, good-hearted roast sessions, and the occasional “bless their heart” as we break down what's actually good advice…and what belongs in the digital dumpster.Visit https://linktr.ee/pinkkinkpodcast for links to our Patreon, Pink Kink Boutique, Pink Kink Institute, social media accounts and more!Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order)Obedienceapp.com/pinkkink for a 20% discounthttps://love-blanket.com/?ref=PINKKINKPODCAST and use code PINKKINK10 for 10% off
In this layered, vulnerable, and intellectually powerful episode of the Kink Series, we go far beyond basic BDSM concepts and drop directly into the psychology, ritual, and emotional architecture of kink with Mistress Audry Lu Black — a professional dominatrix, lifestyle FemDomme, educator, and respected kink community leader. Together we explore how bondage, ritual, humiliation, sexual sadism, and power exchange can serve not only erotic expression but also nervous system regulation, trauma processing, and emotional liberation. What begins as a conversation about rope quickly expands into a rich discussion about worship, devotion, fear release, identity, surrender, and the transformative role of a Dominant who leads with intention and precision. This episode opens the door to understanding kink as both art and psychology, and how deep D/s can create safety, stillness, and meaning for those who crave structure, containment, or catharsis. • Why 20% of the body's energy feeds the brain and how cognitive load, overthinking, and perfectionism show up in bondage scenes • Bondage as nervous system regulation — creating stillness, presence, and relief for anxious or neurodivergent minds who struggle with meditation • Somatic containment through rope and restraint for anxiety, trauma, and hypermobility conditions (including Ehlers-Danlos and other connective tissue differences) • The paradox of safety through restriction — how removing choice, movement, and anticipated pressure can reduce anxiety and soothe a dysregulated nervous system • Femme Domme philosophy and energetic leadership — what it means to embody dominance, hold power, and create psychological structures for surrender • Sexual sadism and humiliation — how intention, emotional tone, and negotiated meaning differentiate harm from healing, and cruelty from catharsis • The psychology of worship and groveling — why submission, devotion, and being at Her feet can be grounding, erotic, or spiritually significant • Ritual in kink — how structure, ceremony, and symbolic actions frame scenes, build trust, and regulate the body's response to intensity • Lifestyle vs. professional domination — the differences in purpose, boundaries, emotional bandwidth, and the Dominant's role in each dynamic • Deep-dive negotiation practices — understanding limits, desires, tone, chemistry, and psychological triggers before entering a scene • A full, realistic BDSM pre-scene negotiation role play so listeners can hear how safe, ethical, consent-based kink is structured before any play begins • The Dominant's internal process — emotional labor, reading the submissive's physiology, and creating a safe container for intensity • How humiliation can be affirming, transformative, or erotic depending on the submissive's psychology and agreed roles • Bondage as an anchor for embodiment — helping the mind exit constant vigilance and enter stillness, surrender, or erotic presence Touch Me There: Vaginal Reflexology, Squirting Secrets & Orgasmic Magic — available here: https://open.spotify.com/episode/0AsOZmGPvMiR3pQfVZKfxR?si=fFDg8SQqS7OCQQn5ptYGoA Connect with the Guest Mistress Audry Lu Black Podcast: Placemaker for Perversion Substack: https://audrylublack.substack.com/ Official Website: https://mistresslublack.com/ Mentioned Resources Hani Cheng – Talk to the Peach: Sensual healing, feminine pleasure, and reconnecting with your body (Listen here) Hani Cheng – Reflexology: Mapping female genitals with reflexology for pleasure and body awareness (Listen here) Shameless Care — Use code PLEASME for $15 off at-home sexual health testing: shamelesscare.com Eve's Substack — Q&A, workshops, & exclusive content: https://pleasemewitheve.substack.com/ Please Me Podcast Patreon — Extended episodes & bonus content: patreon.com/PleaseMePodcast SDC.com — Use code 37340 for a free trial membership World Vision Support survivors of typhoon & earthquake: worldvision.org Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
J&J start off this episode on which TV shows you should binge and the answer is The Sopranos! They get into listener questions quick and debate whether it's a dealbreaker when a guy sends too many selfies or if someone can come back from an ick. They talk about first-date boundaries and what's too much to ask before meeting someone: handshake or hug. Then, they discuss whether it's petty or prudent to call an ex's job after he cheated. Finally, they close with a wild Red Flag or Dealbreaker about a match who reveals a kink before the first date even happens! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
HEYYY to my fellow left out people!! On this episode of On the Bright Side, we're getting real about that feeling of being purposely left out. You know that moment where you realize you weren't invited and it hits way harder than it should? Yeah… I know that feeling a little too well. But here's the truth: it was never actually about you. It was about the inviter: the jealousy, the insecurity, the weird little power trip they were feeding off of aka THE KINK.This episode is all about building longer tables, not higher fences. Because longer tables let all of us thrive. They give more room for opportunities, growth, friendship, and support. It's time to stop being threatened by other people's success and start realizing the universe is not on a budget. There's space for everyone, and your life only expands when you make space for others. SocialsOTBS Instagram @onthebrightsidepoddOTBS TikTok: @onthebrightsidepodcastCaroline's Instagram: @carolinesuskoCaroline's Tiktok: @carolinesuskoSocial media inquiries: carolinesusko20@gmail.comPodcast Inquiries: onthebrightsidepod20@gmail.comMore about me (Amazon Storefront, LTK, Podcast Course etc): HEREWANT TO SEE A GUEST GET ON THE MIC? Fill out this google form and keep an eye out on both IG'sMusic: Sundown Drive by Ghostrifter http://bit.ly/ghostrifter-ytCreative Commons — Attribution-NoDerivs 3.0 Unported — CC BY-ND 3.0Free Download: https://hypeddit.com/track/o4ir62
Remember the Indiana school teacher who got fired for having an OnlyFans and then blew up the internet? She's back. Sarah Juree returns to Sex Party to talk about what really happened after the “after-school scandal” that took her from the classroom to Dr. Phil, viral headlines, and a nonstop media circus.Sarah just released her new book, Diary of an OnlyFans Model, and she's opening the vault. She and Dustin dive into the fallout no one saw, the money, the shame, the DMs, and the moment she decided to own the story instead of running from it. They get into cross-dressing, virtual threesomes, blackmail and the wild ways her sex life and public persona have evolved since the world tried to cancel her.This episode is about scandal, reinvention, and refusing to go back to “normal” once you've tasted freedom. If you loved her the first time, you're in for a ride. If you've never met Sarah Juree, buckle up.Sharpen your pencils, open up your books to page 2 and enjoy EP 202: "After-School Scandal" with Sarah Juree.Watch the video version of the show on YouTube YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIuCkOl_XummXVdu1t3XOuQFollow Sarah JureeInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/sarahjuree (@sarahjuree)Get 'Diary Of An OnlyFans Model'Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/Diary-OnlyFans-Model-Happens-Paywall/dp/B0FDB43MLRFollow the showInstagram: https://instagram.com/sexparty.fm (@sexparty.fm)Twitter: https://twitter.com/sexpartyfm (@sexpartyfm)Follow Dustin Instagram: https://instagram.com/dustin.rybka (@dustin.rybka)Twitter: https://twitter.com/dustinrybka (@dustinrybka)Sex Party with Dustin Rybka
Send us a textTalking about kink doesn't have to be awkward — in fact, when you do it right, the conversation itself becomes part of the turn-on.In today's episode of Talk Sex with Annette, we're breaking down how to explore kink with a partner in a way that feels safe, connected, and genuinely exciting… long before anything physical happens.I'm joined by Lisa Opel, pleasure coach at Joy Club, author, educator, and speaker who teaches people around the world how to navigate desire, boundaries, and curiosity with confidence. Together, we're diving into why negotiation is one of the most misunderstood parts of kink, and how it can actually build trust, intimacy, and erotic tension.You'll learn: • How to talk about new desires without making things uncomfortable • What to say when you're nervous to bring something up • How to explore fantasies in a judgment-free way • Why negotiation can become its own form of foreplay • Tools for building trust, safety, and connection before you try something new • How to start small, communicate clearly, and create a deeper, more playful dynamicWhether you're a beginner exploring kink for the first time or you've been curious for years, this episode gives you the exact language, mindset, and steps to talk about your desires in a way that brings you closer — not farther apart.Find out more about Lisa at: Use code EXPLORES15 for 15% off all Womanizer Products at Womanizer.com. Experience the Pheromone Advantage at 15% off with my code LRT15Use code LRT15 at Eyeoflove.com And you'll get 15% off pheromone powered perfumes, colognes, and more. Check out my Diaries on OF. Enjoy exclusive access to intimacy video how-tos, guided self-pleasure meditations, and more!https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/ Get 15% Off The Life Saving, Erection Enhancing Tech Cockring By Firmtech with my code ANNETTE15 at: https://myfirmtech.com/annettebenedetti Get your intimacy questions answered, enjoy erotic audio readings and more.https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/Support the show Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@annettebenedetti Connect with usWe are on all the socials: TikTok: @ LockerRoomTalkPodcast LRT's Insta: @Lockerroomtalkandshots Annette's Insta: @BeingBenedetti SEL Inst: @SheExplores_Life LRT's FB: @LockerRoomTalkandShots SEL FB: @ SheExploresLife Annette's YouTube: Annette Benedetti Check Out More Sexy Content:She Explores Life Website: sheexploreslife.comCheers!
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om att vara musa och om sex i en ask med Kristoffer Lindh aka Sexpedagogen.Kristoffer Lindh kallar sig sexpedagogen och arbetar bland annat med att coacha män i sin sexualitet och identitet. Tillsammans med sin partner Marika Smith har han skapat och gett ut boxen ”Sex i en ask” (2024) som är ett relationsverktyg i form av tre kortlekar i en box.I Kinkypodden berättar Kristoffer öppet och ärligt om sin resa in till kinky communityt, om att hitta sin egen lust via självkärlek samt om på vilka sätt han coachar andra män idag. Såklart berättar han också om sex i en ask, men det här är också ett fint avsnitt som vänder sig till alla er nyfikna men osäkra män därute som längtar till ett liv där lust och kinks kan bejakas mer. Följ Kristoffer på @sexpedagogenProgramledare samt inspelning, ljudmix och klippning: Aurora BrännströmJingel: Andreas Hedberg med voice over av Carola Alfredsson HedbergStötta Kinkypodden via www.patreon.com/kinkypoddenwww.kinkypodden.se @kinkypodden Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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Episode Overview In this episode of Please Me! Podcast, Dr. Eve continues her Kink Education Series, inspired by DomCon New Orleans. Dive into BIPOC kink history, subspace and domspace neurochemistry, neurodiverse pleasure, somatic practices, pet play, foot play, anal play, and trauma-informed, consent-based kink education. Learn practical tools, cultural insights, and safety guidance for exploring kink in a mindful, therapeutic way. Topics Covered
In dieser neuen Folge von Aurora's Mistress Talk tauche ich ein in den eher ungewöhnlichen Nasenfetisch (Nasophilia). Ich erkläre, warum manche Menschen beim Anblick oder der Berührung einer Nase erregt sind und wie solche Vorlieben oft schon in der Kindheit entstehen. Von sanften Küssen über das klassische Hochdrücken zur „Schweinenase“ bis hin zu Nasenhaken und selbstgebauten Plexiglas-Pressvorrichtungen – ich zeige die gesamte Bandbreite des Nasenspiels. Mit einer heißen, anonymisierten Session-Geschichte aus meiner Praxis beweise ich, wie intensiv und demütigend-schön Nasenquälen in der Realität aussehen kann. Sicherheit, Konsens und Nachsorge kommen natürlich nicht zu kurz. Ob du selbst neugierig bist oder einfach nur staunst: Diese Folge macht klar, dass wirklich kein Körperteil zu verrückt ist, um zur Quelle großer Lust zu werden. Hör rein – und schau deine eigene Nase danach vielleicht mit ganz neuen Augen an.ShownotesMISTRESS ACADEMY: www.mistressacademy.deDOMINA MASTERCLASS: https://www.domina-ausbildung.net/Kurs "Perfect Slave - der Sklaven-Guide": https://www.mistressacademy.de/perfect-slave/ Kurs "How to be a FemDom": https://www.mistressacademy.de/how-to-be-a-femdom/Kurs "Let´s talk dirty": https://www.mistressacademy.de/dirty-talk/ Die Coachings meiner MISTRESS ACADEMY: https://www.mistressacademy.de/coaching/Die Online-Kurse meiner MISTRESS ACADEMY: https://www.mistressacademy.de/online-kurs/ Meine Workshops:FemDom-Workshop: https://www.mistressacademy.de/femdom-workshop/Dom-Sub-Workshop: https://www.mistressacademy.de/dom-sub-paar-workshop/Alles zu meinem MISTRESS EMPIRE:Private Mietung: https://www.mistressempire.de/booking/privateWebsite: https://www.mistressempire.de/Telefon: 040 41125057Mail: info@mistressempire.deAuroras kostenloser Telegram-Kanal: https://t.me/auroranianoxxchannelAurora auf BestFans: https://www.bestfans.com/auroranianoxxMein Buch "Abends heiße ich Aurora": https://amzn.to/2UmZr6dKontakt Aurora: aurora@mistressacademy.deInstagram: @auroranianoxxofficialKultkieztouren: https://www.kult-kieztouren.de/
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Octavia Red is a shapeshifter with receipts — 300+ scenes, 130M views — and range that swings from tentacle monster/vampire fantasy and shoplifter porn chaos to the boudoir glamour of The Red Door. She's fresh off XBIZ and AVN nominations for The Red Door: An Octavia Red Showcase Film and Escape From Camp Conversion, not to mention nominations for Female Performer Of The Year from BOTH AVN & XBIZ. We get into her process and her turn-ons at the same time: building a character while having real sex; two- and three-guy scenes; where she prefers the cumshot; whether anal is on the table; and some wild stories — including people drinking her piss from a cup. Her origin story, what REALLY drives her, and where she's most likely headed next.Octavia has racked up an incredible body of work, and she's just getting warmed up. Enjoy EP 201: "Body Of Work" with Octavia Red. Watch the video version of the show on YouTube YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIuCkOl_XummXVdu1t3XOuQFollow Octavia RedInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/x.redclouds (@x.redclouds)Follow the showInstagram: https://instagram.com/sexparty.fm (@sexparty.fm)Twitter: https://twitter.com/sexpartyfm (@sexpartyfm)Follow Dustin Instagram: https://instagram.com/dustin.rybka (@dustin.rybka)Twitter: https://twitter.com/dustinrybka (@dustinrybka)Sex Party with Dustin Rybka
Send us a textIn this episode, we're breaking down exhibitionism — why being watched can feel exciting, how to tell if it's your kink, and simple ways to explore it without making things awkward.I'm joined by Laura Desiree, creative director of Sanctum and a powerful voice in performance and desire. We cover:✨ What exhibitionism really is ✨ Why being seen can amplify pleasure ✨ Signs it might be your kink ✨ How to try it safely (solo or partnered) ✨ Tips for beginners, from mirror work to first-time eventsIf you've ever been curious about being watched—or just want to understand the psychology behind it—this is your Exhibitionism 101.
We're happy to be joined by Jonathan Higgins and Jordan “JoHo” Daniels of BFF: Black, Fat, Femme. We talk origin story, the love + lessons in their friendship, the success of their show, Jonathan's book Black. Fat. Femme: Revealing the Power of Visibly Queer Voices in Media and Learning to Love Yourself, a surprise Loretta Devine stud reveal, their Bad Queer Opinions, and the nastiness online they brush off.Shoutouts:Kris: Moodeaux - Founded by Brianna Arps, Moodeaux is a Black, woman, and queer-owned fragrance brand redefining perfumery with clean, unisex scents and its “Flaunt How You Feel” ethos. Follow on IG @moodeauxofficialShana: Queer Nightlife Community Center (QNCC pronounced Kink) run for and by queer nightlife workers to empower queer, trans and low-income communities through access, support and celebration. During the day the space will provide healthcare services and work-based training before transitioning to music programming in the evening. Follow @qncc.bk on IG Jordan: Edwin Sotos and Luis Cornejo - for what they're doing with Apaga El Odio, which is helping lead the work to hold Univision and Telemundo accountable for showing ICE propaganda during their shows. Follow on IG: @edwinsotos and @luis_thee_lmftSondra Morris - of my friends who runs Tagg Magazine for queer women. They are currently in a rebrand so check out their stories and advertise with them. Follow on IG: @sondrawritesstuff @taggmagazineNathan Serrato - Queer coaching and relationships under Queer Conscious. Follow on IG: @queerconsciousJon: Ericka Hart - Love their content, how they hold everyone accountable and the way she continues to uplift accountability and her family is adorable Follow on IG: @iharterickaPennywise- I believe they are queer and doing her thing in IT: Welcome To Derry and reminds the girls what they can do when you put your mind to it Episode Notes: 1:00 - Queer Urban Dictionary2:04 - Guest Intro: Jon & JoHoShare your Am I A Bad Queer? hereSupport the showPATREON: patreon.com/BadQueersPodcast Subscribe to our Youtubehttps://www.youtube.com/@BadQueersPodcast The opinions expressed during this podcast are conversational in nature and expressed only for comedic purposes. Not all of the facts will be correct but we attempt to be as accurate as possible. BQ Media LLC, the hosts, nor any guest host(s) hold no liability over the conversations on this podcast and by using this podcast you understand that it is solely for entertainment purposes. Copyright Disclaimer: Under Section 107 of the Copyright Act 1976, allowance is made for "fair use" for purposes such as criticism, comment, news reporting, teaching, parody, scholarship and research.
Have you ever had (or maybe still have) this fear: What if they find out? What will they think about me? You're not alone. Today we take a dive deep into one of the most common — yet rarely spoken about — fears in the kink and sissy communities: the terror of being discovered. Whether it's a partner stumbling on your secret drawer, a family member finding your messages, or simply the crushing weight of “what if someone knows?” — this conversation is for every person who's ever hidden a part of themselves out of fear. We explore the emotional roots behind this fear:The dread of loss — relationships, respect, livelihoodThe sting of judgment — from family, society, or the toxic myth of “real masculinity”The existential spiral of self-identity collapse — “Who am I if this comes out?”But we don't stop at the problem - we're all about solutions.This episode is packed with practical, real-world strategies to protect your privacy and reclaim your power: Secure storage for clothes, toys, and keepsakes Safe shopping tips — from PO boxes to gift cards and clean digital trails Digital hygiene — encrypted emails, burner phones, private browsers, and why never to use Gmail or your real name online Compartmentalization rituals — transitioning in and out of your sissy self with grace and control Low-risk disclosure — how and when (or if) to share your truth — and why it's your choice, not an obligation.We also talk about building your inner foundation — transforming shame into sacredness, secrecy into self-care, and fear into freedom.Because here's the truth:Your femininity doesn't need permission to exist.Your submission doesn't need validation to be powerful.And you don't need to come out to everyone to live authentically.Whether you're deep into sissy training, exploring femdom, or simply navigating the quiet tension between your inner world and outer life — this episode will leave you feeling seen, safer, and stronger.Tune in. Breathe deeper. And remember — you are not broken. You are becoming.DISCORD: LdwOlivia. and. LdwErikaMistress Olivia's blog: Experienced Mistressolivia@EnchantrixEmpire.comMistress Erika's blog: Intelligent Phone FantasyErika@EnchantrixEmpire.com
Kink can do more than turn you on. It can help you calm your mind, process emotions, and feel grounded again. In this episode, we talk about how kink becomes a coping tool, why it works, and the difference between healing and avoiding.We cover both pain and non-pain ways kink helps with stress, connection, and emotional release, plus a few signs to watch for if play starts replacing real support.Visit https://linktr.ee/pinkkinkpodcast for links to our Patreon, Pink Kink Boutique, Pink Kink Institute, social media accounts and more!Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order)Obedienceapp.com/pinkkink for a 20% discounthttps://love-blanket.com/?ref=PINKKINKPODCAST and use code PINKKINK10 for 10% off
Welcome to the Please Me! Podcast Kink Series, where host Eve leads bold, trauma-informed conversations about sexuality, kink, empowerment, and embodied pleasure. As the number-one ranked sexuality podcast in the USA and worldwide, Please Me! brings listeners into real, raw, and educational discussions designed to close the orgasm gap and dismantle shame. In this episode, Eve sits down with Maeve McBride — a BDSM educator, intuitive top, sexological herbalist, and Executive Director of KinkFest 2025/2026 — to explore the foundations of Intuitive Topping, BDSM roles, and how to develop real-time awareness in kink. Drawing from insights at DomCon and Maeve's influential “Intuitive Topping” class, this episode dives into: The difference between Dom, Sub, Top, Bottom, Switch, and Vers How power exchange works through negotiation, communication, and consent Why intuitive topping is not psychic ability, but pattern recognition and data collection How to read breath, movement, vocalizations, body language, and individualized responses How neurodivergence influences sensation expression and communication Understanding hurt vs. harm and why negotiated pain can be safe What defines a scene — negotiation, safewords, boundaries, aftercare, and follow-up Why kink isn't always sexual, and how sensation play can offer catharsis, emotional release, and embodiment How Eve and Maeve negotiated a real pre-scene demonstration together Why aftercare is essential for both tops and bottoms This conversation brings clarity, depth, and compassion to kink education — offering both beginners and seasoned players a richer understanding of how intuition, safety, and connection shape BDSM. Patreon Bonus Listen to the full-length, uncensored episode on Patreon — including extended kink education, behind-the-scenes insight, and intimate conversations that don't fit into the free version. Access the entire Kink Series for just $10/month Additional Resources Mentioned: • Shameless Care — Use code PLEASME for $15 off at-home sexual health testing • SDC.com — Use code 37340 for a free trial membership • Donation links for survivors of the recent typhoon and earthquake in the Philippines https://www.worldvision.org/ • Eve's Substack and Patreon communities for Q&A submissions and exclusive content https://pleasemewitheve.substack.com/ http://patreon.com/PleaseMePodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Love comes in many forms - sometimes confrontational. Today's episode is a paean to a couple of dominating dames that lit up the punk scene in the late 70s. Johnny Rotten once stated that the only person that actually frightened him was the gone too soon, Poly Styrene of X-Ray Spex. That product of a Somali father and a British mother railed against consumerist culture, and her band's career might have been short lived, but their single, Oh Bondage, Up Yours! with it's bleating saxophone cavalry charge, blown by band mate Lora Logic, was a battle cry to aspiring Riot Grrls everywhere.The other indomitable mistress we wish to spotlight, Chrissie Hynde of the Pretenders, is still rocking 50 years later. This survivor from America's Midwest by way of England, - this vegetarian restauranteur/punk legend, who fronted one of the most thrilling acts of the era, scored multiple hits across the pop spectrum, including this classic, Middle of the Road.X-RAY SPEXMarianne Joan Elliot-Said died prematurely at age 53, but she lived abundantly, migrating through several personae. Early on, she was a hippie, sleeping in crash pads and nearly dying from sepsis, which she contracted from stepping on a rusty nail while bathing in a stream. Later, inspired by seeing the Sex Pistols, she had found her calling. Choosing her moniker from the Yellow Pages, wearing braces on her teeth and Day-Glo outfits, she became a sensation. Like a comet, she streaked across the pop firmament and burnt out quickly, being diagnosed with bipolar disorder in 1978. She pursued a gentler and jazzier sound for her subsequent solo recordings, and in '83 became a Hare Krishna and a vegetarian. In February 2011 she revealed that she had been treated for breast cancer that had spread to her spine and lungs. She died later that year, yet in her short life she accomplished the nearly impossible: cultural immortality. THE PRETENDERSThe guitar signature, driven by Robbie McIntosh on 1983's Middle of the Road by The Pretenders creates an irresistible force, defining a clear road map for singer, Chrissie Hynde. It feels like she's behind the wheel, with the high beams on, going 120, roaring through the Ohio night, around the bend of a Rust Belt highway. She was already 33, and a single mother, as she tells us in the song. With one fist held high, she assures us that she'll be a survivor, and there's no shame in that. She's listed by Rolling Stone as 114 on its list of the 200 Greatest Singers of all time, and at 74, she's still going strong - still driving that muscle car of rock. This woman has ageless style and charisma. She is also a citizen of Great Britain, having moved there initially in '73, and almost marrying Johnny Rotten, Sid vicious, and Ray Davies (she has a daughter by the Kink). After several misfires trying to start a band, her solo demo tape made it's way to Dave Hill, the owner of Real Records who helped her put the original Pretenders line up together, and the rest, as they say is “Herstory”.
Send us a textEpisode 692: People pleasers and all people listen up!Surprisingly, boundaries don't push people away, they actually strengthen connection. Dr. Alison Ash returns to unpack sexual boundaries, especially for those who struggle to say no.Boundaries aren't just about your values; they're about your capacity, the fluctuating energy and resources available to you based on sleep, stress, and nervous system regulation. When you're dysregulated and operating outside your window of tolerance, you become reactive and frustrated. (Most of us consistently overestimate what we can handle.)Dr. Aly shares a practical three-part formula for setting boundaries that helps others feel heard rather than rejected.Key Takeaways:• Boundaries aren't selfish, they're based on your actual capacity, which fluctuates daily based on sleep, stress, and nervous system regulation, making them a realistic necessity rather than a character flaw.• The "window of tolerance" explains why you get reactive. When dysregulated, you become irritable and struggle to enforce boundaries, so managing your nervous system is as important as stating your limits.• Healthy boundaries actually filter out unhealthy relationships, meaning people who respect your "no" strengthen the relationship, while those who don't reveal incompatibility, not rejection of them as people.Discussion topics;Sexuality, sexual health, sexual wellness, relationships, mental healthUnderstanding Your Capacity and Setting/maintaining Healthy Boundaries without guilt and while maintaining connection Feeling Safe Saying No Builds TrustUnderstanding Trauma and Nervous System DysregulationManaging Trauma Response Through Nervous System CareCommunication and Pacing in Exploring KinkSubstance Use and Consent in Sexual ExplorationLearning From Past Experiences and Building Intimacy SkillsSex Gets Better With Age and ConfidenceConnect with Dr. Aly:Sexual and Emotional Intimacy Skills online course on Tues, Jan 27th-Mar 17thWe all receive messages about who we are supposed to be, how we ought to feel, and how we should express ourselves, often enforced through shame and disconnection. Featuring 8 classes with a woven balance of science-based data, embodied exploration, and skills development designed to support you in creating, deepening, and sustaining sexual and emotional intimacy in your relationship(s). Recordings available for those who can't attend live or want extra review. Super early bird tickets available now for $200-$400 off!Last but not least, reach out to Dr. Aly for individual, couples, and ENM coaching support!http://www.turnon.love/ Support the showExclusives https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/subscribeNewsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillowhttps://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliates Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow BeeDee dating app https://beedee.app/?r=ohfuckyeahThe Fantasy Box DATE30 for $30 OFF 1st box https://thefantasybox.sjv.io/c/6250602/2141126/26423
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“Your birthright is pleasure.”What if everything you've been taught about aging, sexuality, and womanhood is not only outdated, but completely wrong? Joining us to challenge all of it is Melissa Louise, a pleasure advocate and erotic blueprint coach whose perspective on midlife, menopause (or as she calls it, “regenopause”), patriarchy, and sex magic will have you rethinking every cultural script you've inherited.In this conversation, Erin and Melissa unpack the rules women internalize about their bodies, pleasure, and relationships and explore what becomes possible when we step outside those boxes. From raising her son barefoot in the jungles of Costa Rica to guiding clients toward sexual mastery, Melissa invites us to reclaim our agency and embrace our inherent power in the second half of life. We discuss:Why “menopause” is a social construct designed to weaken women and how “regenopause” can become a regenerative upgrade to wisdom and powerHow pleasure operates as a life force that fuels creativity, manifestation, and even financial abundanceHow society's 24-hour sun cycle depletes women, and what it means to reconnect with the lunar rhythms of the female bodyThe difference between love and monogamy, and why relationship structures are due for a radical rethinkWhy older women have historically been the wisdom keepers, and how we can reclaim our place as guides, leaders, and culture-shapersPractical ways to bring more pleasure, freedom, and play into everyday life no matter your age, relationship status, or beliefs about midlifeOUR GUEST: Melissa Louise is a leading Pleasure Advocate, Erotic Blueprint, Sex, Intimacy & Relationship Expert. She supports women to reclaim their divine birthright to feel alive, orgasmic and turned on no matter their age or relationship status. And men to be more attractive, powerful, trustworthy, make more money and find freedom by lasting longer in bed. It's the perfect erotic cocktail that nourishes health, wealth and well being. With certifications also in Kink 101, Accelerated Evolution and Access Consciousness, Melissa Louise truly embodies the principle that how we do life is how we do sex.Want more Melissa? Learn more about her work at https://melissalouise.substack.com/subscribe and www.melissalouise.world. Follow her on Instagram at https://www.instagram.com/melissa_louise_intimacy/ Find episode transcripts at www.hotterthaneverpod.com Follow us on:Instagram: @hotterthaneverpod TikTok: @hotterthaneverpod Youtube: @hotterthaneverpod Facebook: @hotterthaneverpod Follow Hotter Than Ever wherever you listen to podcasts - we're on Apple Podcasts, Spotify and more! That way you'll never miss an episode. We'd love to hear what you think about the show - it helps us know what stories are resonating with you. DM us on Instagram and write us a review!
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1000 SCENES & STILL HUNGRY FOR MORE. 200 Episodes. 2 shots of Tito's. One legend. Adult Superstar Jennifer White shows up 16 years deep, 1000+ scenes in, & still hungry because she loves sex and always has. She talks about the firsts that rewired her: first DP, first gangbang, and the moment it all clicked and never let go.We go inside the 50-Guy Creampie Scene featuring a live band, her wildest OnlyFans custom requests, and why her showcase Hollywood Whore: Jennifer White, elevates her to a whole other level. She also talks about her role in Once Upon A Time In The Valley, and with such big projects under her belt this year, how is she feeling about nomination season? At the end of the episode Jennifer goes through THE BURNER and doesn't even flinch.Raise your glass and help us celebrate 200 EPISODES of Sex Party with a true legend in the Adult Industry, the one and only Jennifer White.A HUGE THANK YOU to everyone for 200 episodes of this podcast. Your support means everything. What an insane ride. Here's to 200 more. Welcome to EP 200: "The Legend Of Jennifer White" with Jennifer White. Watch the video version of the show on YouTubeYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIuCkOl_XummXVdu1t3XOuQFollow Jennifer White Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jenwhite2.0 (@jenwhite2.0)Follow the showInstagram: https://instagram.com/sexparty.fm (@sexparty.fm)Twitter: https://twitter.com/sexpartyfm (@sexpartyfm)Follow Dustin Instagram: https://instagram.com/dustin.rybka (dustin.rybka)Twitter: https://twitter.com/dustinrybka (dustinrybka)Sex Party with Dustin Rybka
Meg dives into The Killing Fields of East New York by Stacy Horn and uncovers the roots of the downfall of a Brooklyn neighborhood. Jessica tells of the time the moral majority and radical feminists got in bed together to legislate against porn.Please check out our website, follow us on Instagram, on Facebook, and...WRITE US A REVIEW HEREWe'd LOVE to hear from you! Let us know if you have any ideas for stories HEREThank you for listening!Love,Meg and Jessica
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What does great sex really mean? And why is the simplest question – “What do you really want?” – often the hardest one to answer?In this episode of The Weekly Hot Spot, Mistress Olivia and Mistress Erika sit down with the brilliant Dr. Jaime Grant – researcher, LGBTQ+ advocate, and author of Great Sex: Mapping Your Desire – for a conversation that dismantles shame, celebrates pleasure, and redefines intimacy from the inside out.This isn't just a talk about kink or technique. It's a deep dive into the emotional archaeology of desire – how shame, silence, and societal scripts keep us from claiming our deepest pleasures, especially when those desires feel taboo. Dr. Grant opens with a powerful admission: she got into this work because she was a “liar” – performing a version of herself to survive a repressive Irish Catholic upbringing. “We all develop a liar,” she explains, “and that liar shows up in our sexuality.” Whether you're a submissive wrestling with guilt, a sissy navigating feminization, or someone whose fantasies clash with their identity, this episode meets you where you are – without judgment.The conversation turns to the “purge cycle” – that all-too-familiar pattern where submissives and sissies throw away their toys and clothes in shame, only to rebuild their collections once again. Dr. Grant reframes this not as failure, but as desire breaking through. Then comes the practical magic. Dr. Grant introduces her “Name Tag Exercise” – a fun exercise tool where you introduce yourself not by your job or role, but by three words that describe your core desires. Words like slut, rope enthusiast, curious, neuro spicy, bootlicker, orgasm controller. Mistress Erika shares hers: “Fun. Curious. Obey.” Mistress Olivia, ever the wordsmith, lands on “Control as Connection,” “Intellectual Eroticism,” and “Transformation.” She reveals how power exchange, for her, is a form of artistic expression – a “ballet” of sensual influence – and how she's turned on more by minds than bodies, drawn to “the space between words.”But the mapping goes deeper. Dr. Grant applies desire mapping to orgasm control, chastity, and tease/denial – not as games of endurance, but as rituals of presence. “If you're just going through the motions,” she says, “it's choreography, not connection.” True power play begins when you're grounded in what actually moves you – the raw, vulnerable parts of yourself that turn you on because they feel dangerous.Fantasy, she insists, is not disloyalty – it's breadcrumbs. Your roleplay scenarios, dark power exchanges, and gender-bending dreams aren't distractions from real desire – they are the map. And if someone tries to police your inner world? “You're with the wrong person."The episode closes with a radical truth: You already have everything you need. The voice of shame – that internal critic whispering, "You shouldn't want this" – that voice is not yours. It's the echo of a priest, a parent, a culture.Desire mapping helps you trace that voice back to its source, so you stop obeying it and start honoring your sacred material: your body, your history, your truth.If you've ever felt like an imposter in your own pleasure… If you've silenced a fantasy because it didn't fit your identity… If you've wondered why surrender feels so terrifying – and so freeing……this episode is your invitation to map your desire – not apologize for it.Tune in. Listen closely. And start asking yourself the question that changes everything:What do you really want?Books by Dr. Jaime Grant on AmazonReach out to Dr. Grant for readings or coaching at jaimemgrant@gmail.com and catch her podcast at www.justsexpodcast.comContact us:Mistress Olivia:Email: Olivia@EnchantrixEmpire.com. Twitter X: @MistressOlivia1. Blue Sky: @MsOliviaBlog: Experienced MistressMistress Erika: Email: Erika@EnchantrixEmpire.comTwitter X and Blue Sky: @ErikaEnchantrixBlog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy MEET DR. JAIME GRANT Friday, November 21 at Red Emma's Bookstore in BaltimoreDr. Grant and her co-author Jack Harrison-Quintana do exercises from the book and share bits of their kink highlight reels.Wednesday evening, January 21, 8pm at the Washington Hilton Hotel, as part of the Creating Change Conference. Dr. Grant and her co-author Jack Harrison-Quintana read from Kink for Dummies and share tips.From late January through mid-March, Dr. Grant will be at the SketchPad Artist's residency in Hyannis Mass, offering Desire Mapping open studios every Saturday. Book readings on the Cape in this period TBD.Friday April 24th @ 7:30pm, at Charis Books in Atlanta, Dr. Grant will talk about Kink for Dummies with Ignacio Rivera, technical editor on the book, and two kink story contributors, Asha Leong and tia marie.
Sydney Max Lee, known worldwide as Astrodomina, is a Filipina dominatrix, fetish creator, and digital powerhouse with a fanbase of over 200,000 followers and millions of views across platforms. Based in Washington, she's known for her bold, funny, and fearless approach to BDSM culture. Sydney mixes latex fashion, cosplay, psychology, and comedy to create a style that's completely her own. She's a ball-busting specialist, an educator in the kink community, and a performer who has turned fetish artistry into a full multimedia brand — from viral skits to livestreams, interviews, conventions, custom content, and merch. What makes her stand out is her energy: approachable, playful, charismatic, and still entirely in control. She represents a new wave of dommes who use creativity and humor to break down the stigma around kink while celebrating identity, power, and self-expression. She's sharp, she's stylish, and she's redefining what domination can look like in the digital age.Sydney Max Lee, known worldwide as Astrodomina, is a Filipina dominatrix, fetish creator, and digital powerhouse with a fanbase of over 200,000 followers and millions of views across platforms. Based in Washington, she's known for her bold, funny, and fearless approach to BDSM culture. Sydney mixes latex fashion, cosplay, psychology, and comedy to create a style that's completely her own. She's a ball-busting specialist, an educator in the kink community, and a performer who has turned fetish artistry into a full multimedia brand — from viral skits to livestreams, interviews, conventions, custom content, and merch. What makes her stand out is her energy: approachable, playful, charismatic, and still entirely in control. She represents a new wave of dommes who use creativity and humor to break down the stigma around kink while celebrating identity, power, and self-expression. She's sharp, she's stylish, and she's redefining what domination can look like in the digital age. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
On today's show, I discuss how rising hostility is reshaping kink spaces, why people are jumping to extremes, and how emotional overload, identity signaling, and silence are changing the culture. This episode takes a close look at behavior, not politics, and explores what gets lost when anger becomes the default tone in a community built on trust, curiosity, and communication.Continue the discussion on Fetlife: @Enhanced-MindDon't forget to hit the follow button and rate my show 5 stars so others may find it. What to be on the show or have an idea for an upcoming episode? Email me at TheKinkPerspective@gmail.comFind me on Substack - Enhanced-Mind's Substack | Chris C. | SubstackIf you are looking for a therapist that is knowledgeable about the lifestyle, or just a therapist in general, please feel free to reach out through my website at https://enhanced-mind.com/I have a book out, Tangled Desires: Exploring the Intersection of BDSM and Psychology. Can find it where you purchase most of your ebooks. Print version out now!#BDSM #Psychology #Hostility #Community
Berlin war schon immer mehr als nur Hauptstadt – es war ein Körper. Ein vibrierendes Organ aus Lust, Rebellion und queerer Geschichte. Jeff Mannes, Sozialwissenschaftler, Sex Educator und sexpositiver Tour Guide, führt uns durch die dunklen und glänzenden Adern dieser Stadt: von den goldenen Zwanzigern über die Nazizeit bis zum Berghain. Wir sprechen über Fetische, Freiheit, Sichtbarkeit und die Frage, warum Sex in Berlin nie nur privat war – sondern immer auch politisch.
For this week's Naughty November drop on the Love Is Coming podcast, I'm sitting down with Emma Sayle - the powerhouse founder & CEO of Killing Kittens.Together we explore:
What Holly Randall REALLY Thinks About Porn, Kink, and Penis Size Today we did the thing: Keely interviews... Holly. Sex & relationship coach Keely Rankin takes over the host chair and grills me (lovingly) on everything—growing up with porn-producer parents, why I still prefer being behind the camera, and how a leak accidentally nudged me into posting my own nudes. We get into industry stigma, awards (yes, AVN Hall of Fame), and why landing in the Podcast Pantheon alongside This American Life and Serial felt surreal. We talk fantasy vs. reality on set, how “opening to camera” actually works, and why most women prefer “boyfriend-size” for everyday life. We unpack foreplay (mental and physical), consent checklists, and the difference between power and exploitation. I share a personal story about my dad that still makes me cry, the joy/terror of motherhood, and my wish for the adult industry: that choosing this career doesn't brand you for life.Plus: directing on micro-budgets, the OnlyFans pivot, boundaries with performers, and why I still geek out over great photographs.Finish like a pro. Load Boost is doctor-formulated to improve taste, volume, and semen health — no gimmicks, just science. Use code HOLLY or click this link for 10% off your order! https://vb.health/supplements-for-sex/?utm_source=holly&coupon-code=holly New players, download the DraftKings Casino app and use code HRU.Play five bucks and get five hundred spins on Cash Eruption slots over ten days. That's code HRU, at DraftKings Casino—home of the largest jackpot win in online casino history. In partnership with DraftKings Casino. The Crown is Yours. Gambling problem? Call one eight hundred GAMBLER. In Connecticut, help is available for problem gambling call eight eight eight seven eight nine seven seven seven seven or visit C C P G dot org. Please play responsibly. Twenty-one plus. Physically present in Connecticut, Michigan, New Jersey, Pennsylvania, West Virginia only. Void in Ontario. Eligibility restrictions apply. Non-withdrawable Casino Spins issued as fifty Spins per day for ten days, valid for featured game only and expire each day after twenty four hours.Find me on all social media platforms - HollyLinks.comHit up linktr.ee/HollyAds for exclusive deals, spicy discounts, and perks so good your wallet might blush.Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/holly-randall-unfiltered--6630320/support.
In this episode of YAS Podcast, host Princess Marx, along with producer AM Davies, delve into the multifaceted life of their guest, Vampiress, a featured performer, dominatrix, and former ballet dancer turned circus artist. Vampiress shares her journey from ballet training in Russia to becoming a touring performance artist known for her fiery shows. She discusses the emotional toll of her work, the critical importance of aftercare in domme sessions, and the misconceptions about the adult industry. The conversation also touches on the differences between lifestyle and professional dommes, the evolution of financial domination (findom), and the need for better representation and support for sex workers. The episode concludes with Vampiress sharing her future aspirations and a heartfelt message on the importance of community support and empathy in the industry.00:00 The Emotional Weight of Sex Work00:44 Welcome to YAS Podcast01:14 Meet Our Hosts and Guest01:48 Vampiress: A Multifaceted Performer03:16 From Ballet to Fire Performances04:38 A Journey Through Ballet Training05:49 Overcoming Adversity Through Dance08:13 Exploring the Adult Industry08:40 The Role of Kink in Healing11:34 Understanding the Domme-Sub Dynamic13:09 The Importance of Aftercare14:45 Professional vs. Lifestyle Dommes16:49 Misconceptions About Dominatrixes22:26 The Ethics of Findomming25:49 Acknowledging Support and Advocacy26:17 Power Exchange Beyond the Playroom26:40 Everyday Life and Helping Others27:51 Misconceptions About the Adult Industry28:05 The Reality of Featuring and Domme Work32:26 Explaining Featuring and Its Dynamics39:42 Touring and Future Plans40:12 Circus Background and Skills45:01 Supporting the Industry and Final ThoughtsFollow Vampiress on InstagramFollow Princess Marx on InstagramFollow Princess Marx on XDonate to our work YAS Work InstagramYAS Work BlueSkyYAS Work TwitterYAS Work YoutubeYASStore.Shop
SHE'S GOING BIIIIIIIIG. Two years in and Suki Sin's resume already reads like a decade. We get into how she landed an early collab with Adult Superstar Violet Myers — the DM, the setup, the slippery shoot — and why that moment changed her trajectory. Then it's kinks and chaos: strap-ons, free-use dynamics, girl-girl, boy-girl, and the way she builds chemistry fast without faking it.“Drive-Thru” isn't just a title — McDonald's breakfast becomes a running bit (you'll find out why), right alongside her wildest strip-club story and a couple of completely unhinged OnlyFans custom requests. She closes with the unexpected origin story that pulled her into adult and the mindset that keeps it fun, hot, and fully on her terms.Welcome to EP 199: "Drive-Thru" with Suki Sin. Better hold on tight chief.Watch the video version of the show on YouTube YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIuCkOl_XummXVdu1t3XOuQFollow Suki Sin Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sukixsinn (@sukixsinn)Follow the showInstagram: https://instagram.com/sexparty.fm (@sexparty.fm)Twitter: https://twitter.com/sexpartyfm (@sexpartyfm)Follow Dustin Instagram: https://instagram.com/dustin.rybka (@dustin.rybka)Twitter: https://twitter.com/dustinrybka (@dustinrybka)Sex Party with Dustin Rybka
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In this episode of Kinky Frame of Mind, Don and Syn catch us up on life. They talk about opening the new dungeon and the wild adventures of dealing with Don's dad.
#111 What if everything you've heard about BDSM and kink is wrong? In this episode, we're busting the biggest Dom/sub myths holding people back—from feeling too inexperienced to thinking BDSM is immoral. Learn the truth about who really belongs in kink. Listen now and start unlearning the lies about BDSM.➡️ Access the free Resource Library: https://domsubliving.com/free➡️ Show notes and more: https://domsubliving.com/005
Ever found yourself whispering a desire into the phone, prefacing it with, “You're probably going to think I'm weird for this…”? If so, you're far from alone. On this episode of The Weekly Hot Spot, Mistresses Olivia and Erika sit down with a true leader in the world of sexuality and relationships, Dr. Jaime Grant, to dismantle that very notion and explore the empowering landscape of kink.Dr. Grant, a renowned research activist, relationship coach, and author of pivotal works like Great Sex: Mapping Your Desire and Polyamory for Dummies, joins us to discuss her latest essential guide, Kink for Dummies. The conversation immediately delves into one of the most common hurdles for newcomers: the fear of being "weird." Dr. Grant brilliantly reframes kink not as an anomaly but as a deeply rooted part of human history and desire, sharing fascinating insights about "ancient kinksters" that will change how you view your own longings.We focus on a question we hear constantly from listeners and callers alike: How do I talk to my partner about kink? This is where Dr. Grant's expertise truly shines. She offers compassionate, practical advice for navigating these vulnerable conversations, whether you're in a long-term partnership or a new situationship. She emphasizes the importance of building "faith in yourself" first, suggesting that sometimes the safest initial step is to find community and gather information outside the primary relationship to fortify your own understanding. As Mistress Olivia reflects, this often aligns with why individuals turn to Dommes like us for distance domination – it provides a structured, judgment-free space to explore without the complications of daily life.Other topics include:The ‘desire discordant' couple and finding a ‘third way' that honors the needs of both partners.How to realistically create compromise in relationships.The transformative power of kink and how exploring kink can become a radical act of self-reclamation. Dr. Grant says: “We're dealt a hard hand around sexuality, but we get to play it however we want—for our own gratification.” That's the promise of kink: not escape, but reclamation.Using safe words in BDSM scenes, including the point that using a safe word isn't a sign of weakness; it's an act of profound communication and self-care that strengthens the entire dynamic. This episode is a masterclass in normalizing kinky desire and providing the tools to integrate it into your life with confidence and safety. Dr. Grant's wisdom, combined with our own experiences from the front lines of phone sex and distance domination, creates a dialogue that is both intellectually stimulating and deeply practical.Ready to explore your desires with more clarity and courage? What's the one kinky desire you've been most nervous to voice? We'd love to hear from you.Books by Dr. Jaime Grant on AmazonKink for DummiesPolyamory for DummiesGreat Sex: Mapping your DesireContact us:Mistress Olivia: olivia@EnchantrixEmpire.comTwitterX: @MistressOlivia1. Blue Sky: @MsOliviaBlog: Experienced MistressMistress Erika: erika@EnchantrixEmpire.comTwitterX and Blue Sky: @ErikaEnchantrixBlog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy MEET DR. JAIME GRANT Friday, November 21 at Red Emma's Bookstore in BaltimoreDr. Grant and her co-author Jack Harrison-Quintana do exercises from the book and share bits of their kink highlight reels.Wednesday evening, January 21, 8pm at the Washington Hilton Hotel, as part of the Creating Change Conference. Dr. Grant and her co-author Jack Harrison-Quintana read from Kink for Dummies and share tips.From late January through mid-March, Dr. Grant will be at the SketchPad Artist's residency in Hyannis Mass, offering Desire Mapping open studios every Saturday. Book readings on the Cape in this period TBD.Friday April 24th @ 7:30pm, at Charis Books in Atlanta, Dr. Grant will talk about Kink for Dummies with Ignacio Rivera, technical editor on the book, and two kink story contributors, Asha Leong and tia marie.Reach out to Dr. Grant for readings or coaching at jaimemgrant@gmail.com and catch her podcast at www.justsexpodcast.com
Send us a textThis week, we're honored to sit down with the brilliant Rawiyah Tariq; a Black, fat, disabled, and neurodivergent artist, writer, and healer whose work reclaims space for marginalized bodies and spirits through ritual, storytelling, and embodiment.In this conversation, Rawiyah shares the wisdom behind their practice, A Sovereign Embodiment, and speaks candidly about navigating medical trauma, reclaiming pleasure through kink, and redefining beauty and power on their own terms.Their story is one of survival, sovereignty, and softness, a reminder that liberation begins in the body.We talk about:✨ The spiritual and emotional layers of embodiment✨ How medical trauma and fatphobia intersect✨ Kink as a space of reclamation and healing✨ The balance between ritual, magic, and practical self-care✨ What it means to hold yourself, and others, through pain and pleasureThis episode is a tender, powerful reminder that healing isn't linear; it's embodied, sacred, and deeply human.Connect with Rawiyah:
Fisting used to be a niche fetish practiced by kinksters in dungeons, but today “Fisting is the It Girl” according to writer and expert fister Alexander Cheves. In this deep dive, Alex explains how the availability of fisting content on Twitter has led to a surge of interest from younger queer folks in recent years. But there’s a lot that first time fist fuckers need to know about how to prepare and train for play, in order to avoid serious injuries. Luckily, Alex has plenty of smart tips (and sweet stories) to share for both beginners and pros. Get the x-lube and puppy pads ready. It’s time to go Fisting For Compliments. Follow Sniffies' Cruising Confessions: cruisingconfessions.com Try Sniffies: sniffies.com Follow Sniffies on Social: Instagram: instagram.com/sniffiesapp X: x.com/sniffiesapp TikTik: tiktok.com/@sniffiesapp Follow the hosts: Gabe Gonzalez: instagram.com/gaybonez Chris Patterson-Rosso: instagram.com/cprgivesyoulife Guests featured in this episode: Alex Cheves: instagram.com/badalexcheves/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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Saige Kiljoy is building a cult — a goon cult — and she's not shy about it. The OnlyFans powerhouse and self-proclaimed gooner leader breaks down what gooning really is (edging? trance? total submission to the spiral?) and why she's recruiting the largest “zombie-gooner horde” on earth. Cucks of every flavor show up for her, and she explains exactly why.This is femdom with teeth: control, humiliation, and genuine pleasure in the same breath. Saige talks power exchange, male and female cuck psychology, and how she stays dominant and turned on. She even gets specific about her preferred finish — from a dominant frame — and why it matters.There's a very famous name she calls out, plus the wildest requests she's fielded online. Smart, filthy, hypnotic. Welcome to EP 198: "Goon World" with Saige Kiljoy. Enjoy your stay.
Today's episode isn't just a podcast about kink or BDSM – it's a masterclass in emotional courage, vulnerability and redefining power in loving relationships. Author / kink educator, Janet Hardy helps to bridge the chasm between “normalcy” and kink. Listener questions drive this episode and you're likely to hear your own worries in their questions. You don't have to be kinky to benefit from these insights - many of these issues are universal challenges in life: how do you be vulnerable enough to speak what you want and is it always a good idea to be blunt?We begin with this question: “What if a woman struggles to own her power because of cultural beliefs?” As Footstool so poignantly puts it, many men fantasize about their vanilla partner becoming their Mistress — but how does she step into dominance when a lifetime of conditioning whispers, “Be nice. Be passive. Don't lead.”? Janet offers a compassionate, no-nonsense response: Dominance isn't about dominance — it's about responsibility, clarity, and self-awareness. You don't need to be born a Domme. You become one — through practice, reflection, and permission to shed old scripts.Then came Wellspanked's dilemma: “When negotiating spanking, should we talk technique and intensity beforehand — clinically — or let it unfold in the heat of the moment?” The tension here is real: too much planning kills the spark; too little, and safety frays. Janet reminds us that true eroticism thrives in the space between trust and structure. Yes — talk logistics outside the scene. But leave room for improvisation within it. A safe word isn't a buzzkill — it's the foundation of freedom.One of our listeners, Ben, shared a fear so common it aches: “If my partner rejects my kinks, is the relationship irrevocably broken?” Janet's answer? No — but it might need to evolve. Rejection isn't always final. Sometimes, it's the first step toward honest dialogue. What matters isn't immediate acceptance — it's willingness to listen, to be curious,and to try. What do you do if you get bad news? Janet has an honest answer - the relationship may need to change form — or end — with dignity.Then came the knife-edge question: “Can a partner ever see you as equal after extreme degradation?” This cuts to the heart of humiliation play — one of the most misunderstood, feared, and exciting dynamics in kink. Janet doesn't flinch. She explains that the power of degradation lies not in the words, but in the aftercare. It's not about erasing dignity — it's about temporarily suspending it, with consent, for shared catharsis. And yes — equality returns, if both partners honor the reintegration. The scene ends. The love remains.Erika then turned to Janet's latest work — Notes on an Aging Pervert — a book that's “funny, sad, mind-bending.” She asked: Which essay was a lightbulb moment — for you or someone you love? Janet shared a story about aging, desire, and the myth of the “perfect scene.” The real magic, Janet said, isn't in the play — it's in what happens after:How do you come back to each other? How do you integrate the intensity? That's where connection deepens — not in the whip, but in the whisper that follows.We closed with a truth that resonates through every episode of The Weekly Hot Spot podcast: Kink isn't an escape from love — it's a path into it. Deeper. Messier. More honest.If you've ever feared being “too much,” or worried you're “not enough,” this conversation is for you.Tune in. Listen closely. And ask yourself: What would it feel like to be truly seen — kinks and all?Janet Hardy's websiteWhen Someone You Love is KinkyThe Ethical SlutRadical Ecstasy Mistress Olivia's blog: Experienced MistressOlivia@EnchantrixEmpire.comMistress Erika's blog: Intelligent Phone FantasyErika@EnchantrixEmpire.comDISCORD: LDWOlivia and LDWErika
Send us a textKink 101: From Spanking to Water Sports with Dr. Stoehr | Episode 216In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy are joined once again by the always insightful Dr. Stoehr — and this time, things get a little kinky.Together, they explore a wide range of popular kinks, from sensation play and impact play to even the more taboo territory of water sports. Dr. Stoehr helps break down what these kinks are, why they turn people on, and how to explore them safely — both physically and medically.Whether you're curious about diving deeper into your desires or just love learning more about the many shades of pleasure, this episode is packed with education, open-minded conversation, and just the right amount of spice.Connect with Dr. Stoehrhttps://thestoehrcenter.com/https://www.swingingsafe.com/- The Swing Nation - Main Website Quick Navigation Website: -- (Find all our social media links & more!)- Swinger Society - Our Website to meet, connect & events Swinger Society Discord Our Facebook Group- Swinger Websites -Kasadie 90 day free trialUsername: TheSwingNation SDC 14 day free trial Username: TheSwingNation** Use code 36313 for 14 days free! **- Merch & More -Order Your Merch Here!- Lacy's Fun Links -VIP OnlyFansPREMIUM OnlyFans-- THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS --IKNOWMYSTATUS: Test Like a Porn StarUse Code LifeStyle and get 15% OFFShameless Care: ED MedicationUse Code TSN at checkout for $30 off your order!Promescent® Make Love Longer, It's Time for Great SexUse Code SwingNation for 5% off!Sing it Bikinis: adjustable one-size styles, thoughtfully crafted to flatter every body type.Support the show- Thank you for the support! -
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When was the last time you asked yourself what truly turns you on, emotionally, creatively, and sexually?That is exactly what Mary Phillips does in the documentary The Flamingo. After ending a 23-year marriage, Mary begins to explore her sensuality and confidence through the world of kink and BDSM. What started as curiosity became a journey of freedom, healing, and self-acceptance.Filmmaker Adam Sekuler spent six years capturing Mary's story with humor, tenderness, and courage. In this conversation, we talk about what it means to start over, how desire can become a path to self-discovery, and why community and trust are essential for healing after divorce.You will hear about how Mary's journey changed her relationship with her body, how Adam used art and symbolism to tell her story, and why embracing your edges can bring you back to life in ways you never expected.Support The FlamingoIf The Flamingo sparked your curiosity or moved something in you, here are a few ways to support this beautiful and courageous film:Visit the film's websiteLearn more about The Flamingo, watch the trailer, and explore filmmaker notes and behind-the-scenes insights at mspfilm.org/show/the-flamingo.Connect with filmmaker Adam SekulerReach out to Adam directly at adam@adamsekuler.com to learn how you can host a screening or bring The Flamingo to your city.See it on the big screenThe Flamingo is the opening-night selection at SECS Fest in Seattle, running November 7–9, 2025 at The Beacon Cinema. SECS Fest celebrates sex-positive, artistic, and community-driven films from around the world. Details and tickets are available at strangertickets.com.Watch from home (coming soon)The film will be available on Vimeo On Demand next year. Stay tuned for release details — I'll share them as soon as it's ready to stream.Feeling inspired to explore kink more? Join the Happily Divorced Club on November 10 for a live session inspired by Existential Kink. We will explore how turning toward what feels uncomfortable can unlock freedom, empowerment, and even pleasure. Attend the November 10 event for FREE using this one-month Club pass: https://bit.ly/HDCfriendlinkYour Free Invitation to the Happily Divorced ClubReady to show up for yourself in a fun, empowering way? Enjoy a one-month complimentary pass to the Happily Divorced Club and connect with a supportive community of people thriving after divorce.Your pass includes access to our Book Club with Amber Rae on October 30 and our Fall Retreat on November 1 and 2.Be sure to RSVP to both by October 28 to save your spot.
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