Podcast appearances and mentions of Jay Wiseman

Episode Summary: This week, Mx. Dizzy, Pup Marquis Rekkr, and Lord Allen are back with  Lady Katerina, to finish up our conversation on Sacred Tobacco and get to know the Lady herself! Lady Katerina sits with us to talk about sacred tobacco, its role in her life and in her leather journey. You'll learn what the Kinky Bibliophile herself suggests as the best books to start with BDSM and kink.  Resources for this episode (not necessarily a recommendation or positive review of the information within): Link tree: https://linktr.ee/kinkybibliophile   Fetlife: https://fetlife.com/users/7562397?sp=3 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/katandi  Live to Love, Love to Live by Lady Katerina: https://a.co/d/f71CnfY  Amazon Wish List: https://amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/13U3M216571XA?ref_=wl_share Books: The New Bottoming Book by Dossie Easton and Janet W. Hardy: https://a.co/d/gvBcKMY  The New Topping Book by Dossie Easton and Janet W. Hardy: https://a.co/d/582aJ6c  S&M 101 by Jay Wiseman: https://a.co/d/hU4V6D5  Screw the Roses, Send Me the Thorns: The Romance and Sexual Sorcery of Sadomasochism by Philip Miller and Molly Devon: https://a.co/d/fAaFX33  Ultimate Guide to Kink by Tristan Taormino: https://a.co/d/4SpHzBV   Erotic Bondage by Jay Wiseman: https://a.co/d/bGiTCjK  How to Be Kinky: A Beginner's Guide to BDSM by Morpheus: https://a.co/d/ao6OfXg  Different Loving: The World of Sexual Dominance and Submission by William Brame, Gloria Brame, Jon Jacobs: https://a.co/d/0BMAJ68  Kinky History: A Rollicking Journey through Our Sexual Past, Present, and Future by Esmé Louise James: https://www.amazon.com/Kinky-History-Rollicking-Journey-through/dp/0593716906/ref=sr_1_1?crid=311G3X2CSUP11&keywords=Esme+Louise+James&qid=1700094039&sprefix=esme+louise+james%2Caps%2C291&sr=8-1  Podcasts: On Guard Salon: https://www.youtube.com/onguardcigarsalon  All That and Mo: https://allthatandmo.com/  Watts the Safeword: https://www.wattsthesafeword.com/  The Kinky Tavern: https://linktr.ee/thekinkytavern  Off the Cuffs: https://www.offthecuffs.org/  Kinky History: https://open.spotify.com/show/3IAhMsBbenZ9jJkVZGZx7I People/Organizations: Carter Johnson Leather Library: http://carterjohnsonlibrary.com/  Race Bannon: https://linktr.ee/bannonrace  Mama Viola Johnson: https://fetlife.com/users/292007?sp=1  Judy Tallwing McCarthy 1987 IMsL:  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_Lizzm7AgbU  A Big Thank You to our Patrons: Moon_goddess Sir Quill Lady Katerina Dopetastic Q Chris_Canned_Bread Join our ⁠Discord⁠ server! Includes discussion, input for episodes, and education opportunities! It's a great place to chat about sex, kink, bdsm, or whatever! You can ask questions, find out what the next episodes are going to be about, suggest topics, and just chat with us! ⁠Check out The Kinky Tavern's socials and more!⁠ If you have any questions about the kink, BDSM, or Leather public, please send them to us on whatever platform you have access to. If you ask a question and it is featured in an episode, you will get a shout-out for that account unless you request to be anonymous. Support the podcast and our efforts to bring education, discussion, and awareness to the kink, BDSM, and Leather public! ⁠Amazon Wishlist⁠ ⁠Patreon⁠ Merch --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/thekinkytavern/message

Join Leia as she sits down with kinkster and toy creator TapeTop. We discuss his journey into BDSM, making flogger and fun toys for kinksters and how to meet people within the community. TapeTop has devoted much of his adult life to facilitating social and educational opportunities for BDSM lifestylers in the Kansas City area. He was instrumental in the founding and promotion of both AHS and Consent Kansas City, the two largest social/educational groups serving the local community. Now retired from all leadership positions, TapeTop putters around in his basement crafting world-class floggers and unique adult toys under the Fountain City Flogworks banner. He identifies as a Service Top who recently learned that he's not at all opposed to Daddy Dom play and MtF transgender submissives. Find him on Fet at TapeTop Shout outs in today's Episode: On Fet: ThingsMyD*ckDoes Books: Story Of O by Pauline Réage, SM101 by Jay Wiseman, Screw the Roses Send Me the Thorns by Philip Miller and Molly Devon *ALL INTERVIEWS ARE FROM CONSENTING ADULTS SHARING CONSENSUAL EXPERIENCES FROM THEIR LIFE. ALL OPINIONS EXPRESSED IN TODAY'S EPISODE ARE THOSE OF THE INDIVIDUAL GIVING THEM AND SHOULD BE TAKEN AS SUCH. ALWAYS DO YOUR RESEARCH BEFORE ENTERING INTO ANYTHING POTENTIALLY DANGEROUS, VET YOUR PARTNER(S) AND ALWAYS NEGOTIATE THOROUGHLY. WE RECORD ALL EPISODES UNSCRIPTED, PLEASE REACH OUT IF ANY POTENTIAL CORRECTIONS TO INFORMATION YOU HEARD TODAY WOULD HELP OUR COMMUNITY BE SAFER AND MORE EDUCATED. WE'RE ALWAYS HAPPY TO CORRECT AN UNINTENTIONAL ERROR, CONTACT US AT LEIALEONEMEDIA@GMAIL.COM Beat Provided By https://freebeats.io & Produced By White Hot

Welcome to Make Sh*t Happen This is episode number 190 one ninety yes, sir. And what we are doing, this is a special edition. We are taking highlights from our previous guest and just highlighting him again on this episode. In this next clip, I speak with Stepheny Jacquez about how people want the Glitz and Glam but don't want to put in the time or work to reach a certain lifestyle and not to fear what people might think about them while creating their business only for the simple fact that it will hurt them because being afraid of what people might say or afraid of taking chances could really hurt you and your business in the long run without further Ado. Let's listen to what Stepheny Jacquez has got to say. All right. This next one is Nancy Almodovar. In this episode, Nancy speaks on how she started her brokerage with her best friend and no money. But Nancy had a great support group that helped her with her journey. Nancy speaks on how she's very high on writing things down because it helped her organize her life and business as well. Nancy recommends that everyone should try to implement it in their lifestyle. Let's listen to what Nancy says in her own words. Okay. My next guest was Jonathan Weisman, Jay Weissman, and he's a good guy full of life. In this clip, he speaks on authenticity. He explained why he believes if he was more authentic with himself at an earlier age instead of faking it till he make it that he would be way more advanced in his life. Let's listen to Jay Wiseman on here. My next guest was someone that I really was impressed with. A.C Katana. In this clip, I sat down with AC Katana and tells me a story about a time when he was on vacation with his wife, and while out at a location with hardly any phone signal, he had time to think. And one thing he was thinking about was GPS. Guys, listen to what AC Katana got to say about GPS, how he breaks it down, where G means gratitude, P is progress and S is significant. Ac believes that is the only GPS you'll need for a better life. I hope you really enjoyed what AC Katana has to say. Now let's listen to my really good friend Russell Barra. In the next clip, I asked him what was one thing that made him successful. And Russell talks about the golden rule, how to not only treat a person right. But Russell explains how to look at a person, how you think towards a person, how you believe towards people, and even with people, you don't like. Let's listen to what Russell had to say. Guys, Russell is such a great person. I hope you liked what he had to say. My next guest in this segment is Carlos Salazar. Carlos is an entrepreneur. He is an immigrant who migrated with his family to Mexico. Carlos and I discussed what it takes to be an entrepreneur and that it is not just a walk in the park. You take on many more tasks and so much responsibility as an entrepreneur. Listen to what Carlos has to say. My next guest is Tony Bryant. In this clip, I talked with him about start on education and how we had a great debate in this segment. Tony expressed his views on why he believes you don't need College or really any type of education outside of high school to make it in this world. Let's take a listen to this clip with Tony Bryant. The next segment we are about to play is Kurlin Sabogal I love this interview with Kerlin's passion for education and how she wants to make a difference in the world. And I had a great conversation with her and why she helps youth in different countries where there's no education available. She basically takes a vacation and starts helping people out in different countries. She explained why she reaches out to the risk and less fortunate children. So let's listen to what Kirley got to say as I hope you liked all the recaps from all my previous guests on Make Sh*t Happened podcast and I hope you enjoy it. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/sammyz/message

In this episode Madeline interviewed Mike, a cisgender male who enjoys BDSM activities as a switch. They chatted about kinking safely and the do's and don'ts in the sadist and masochist world. Mike spoke about personal stories and how he started with BDSM.Here are references that Mike recommends:Books:SM 101: A Realistic Introduction by Jay Wiseman — this one is a bit dry, but has lots of good info.Screw the Roses, Send Me the Thorns by Philip Miller and Molly Devon — this one is more of a sexy read, shorter but still educational.Websites:FetLife — sort of like Facebook for kinksters. Good place to find local groups, as well as discussion groups for about any topic of interest you can think of.Gear:Torvea Toys — lots and lots of stuff available, and I know the owner.Mr. S Leather — bondage gear and apparel. Not cheap, but excellent quality. Definitely oriented toward gay men, but has stuff everyone can wear/use.

In this episode I address when to educate young people who are interested in BDSM, fetish fashion, the effect of depression meds on your sex life and what can be done, and what BDSM book is the best place to start for newbies. Resources SM 101: A Realistic Introduction by Jay Wiseman on Amazon, Apple Books, Barnes & Noble and Google Books ScarleTeen.com Sex Education for the real world Fetish Fashion: TheVioletVixen.com :: Wish.com :: Stockroom.com Fetish Fashion not mentioned in this Ragecast: Baroness.com (latex)

This week we’re speaking with author and educator Jay Wiseman. Jay has been writing on and teaching about BDSM since before kink was en vogue. We discuss his book SM101 and his journey from feeling shame and isolation about his desires to being a leader and educator in the community. Jay also shares a behind the scenes look of what it’s like to be an expert witness that works with BDSM, and we discuss his contentious views on the dangers of breath play.

This week we’re speaking with author and educator Jay Wiseman. Jay has been writing on and teaching about BDSM since before kink was en vogue. We discuss his book SM101 and his journey from feeling shame and isolation about his desires to being a leader and educator in the community. Jay also shares a behind the scenes look of what it’s like to be an expert witness that works with BDSM, and we discuss his contentious views on the dangers of breath play.

Today's conversation features Susan Wright of the National Coalition for S3xual Freedom (NCSF). We discuss what NCSF has done so far to fight for s3xual freedom and privacy rights, and what there is still left to do. WithPolyAnna.com Patreon.com/WithPolyAnna WithPolyAnna.com/Contact Suggested Links: www.ncsfreedom.org www.facebook.com/ncsfreedom https://twitter.com/NCSF https://www.psychiatry.org/psychiatrists/practice/dsm https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Lawrence_v._Texas https://psycnet.apa.org/record/2010-22931-007 https://www.apnews.com/ec7bca54931544f7b71651406566206b https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Jay_Wiseman https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Serenity_Prayer Suggested Hashtags: #NCSF #ConsentCounts #MeToo *Theme Song: "Somethin for Ya" by Mnage Quad --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/withpolyanna/support

In the final episode of our “In The No” series, we sat down with several different groups of college-age women to talk about their sexual experiences. And we found that despite colleges now being steeped in conversations about consent, there was another conversation in intimate moments that just wasn't happening. In search of a script, we dive into the details of BDSM negotiations and are left wondering if all of this talk about consent is ignoring a larger problem. Further reading: "It's all about the Journey": Skepticism and Spirituality in the BDSM Subculture, by Julie Fennell Screw Consent, by Joe Fischel   This episode was reported by Becca Bressler and Shima Oliaee, and was produced by Bethel Habte. Special thanks to Ray Matienzo, Janet Hardy, Jay Wiseman, Peter Tupper, Susan Wright, and Dominus Eros of Pagan's Paradise.  Support Radiolab today at Radiolab.org/donate. 

Tuesdays, 9 pm Eastern, 6 pm Pacific: "Leading Edge Love," host Sumati Sparks: This week, her guest is Jay Wiseman, prolific author, sex educator & expert witness in consent cases (https://www.facebook.com/jay.wiseman.sfo). Sumati Sparks, The Open Relationship Coach, (www.SumatiSparks.com) offers coaching sessions via video conferencing, telephone or in person in the San Francisco Bay Area. SUMATI WORKS WITH: • Professional Married Men & Women who have little or no intimacy in their long-term relationship. • Single or Divorced People who do not wish to have another traditional relationship. • Couples who want to successfully open their relationship. • Singles & Couples who don’t know where to find other polyamorous people to meet & date. • Heterosexual as well as Queer, Lesbian, Gay, Bi, Transgender, Intersex & Questioning Persons. COMMON CHALLENGES HER CLIENT'S FACE: • Frustrated and fed up with the loss of vitality that comes from being in a relationship with no intimacy. • Feeling like their partner would never go for it. • Confused, nervous and a little scared about how to open their relationship. • No idea where to meet other polyamorous people to potentially date. • Eager and hopeful but want to do it right. WHAT SHE DOES FOR HER CLIENTS: • Get CLEAR about what they want. • PREPARE to ask their partner for it, then SPEAK THEIR TRUTH. • CREATE the relationship of their wildest dreams. • Have FUN in the process. HOW SUMATI SERVES HER CLIENTS: With her signature program called:   ADDING MORE LOVE, PASSION & JOY!

In this episode of the Infatuated Podcast (previously called The GraveTells Romance Podcast), erotica author and kinkster Eden Bradley talks candidly about the importance of women's sexual health and how kink and BDSM in real life can differ from what is often portrayed in romantic fiction. See details of the full episode, including buy links, on InfatuatedPodcast.com here: https://wp.me/p9NOsJ-43Here are some questions and topics Eden and I cover:What are kinks? How do they differ from fetishes?What exactly is BDSM?How do polyamory, BDSM, and fetishes measure on the kinky scale?What is Primal play? What exactly happens at one of Eden’s Kink Retreats and how can you learn more about attending next year?What does the inside of a kink club really look like? And are sadists really that scary?Why dominants in real life are probably different from the alpha males you’ve read about in books.Why it's important to separate fantasy from reality when reading kink.As a writer, how do you research kink when you’re not part of the community?Why labels—top, dominant, submissive—don’t matter when you play.How Fifty Shades impacted the BDSM community, both in real life and in fiction.Where are the safe spaces on the internet for women to explore & learn more about their sexuality?How can you learn more about consent and negotiation? Sexual health at different times of your life?How can reading romance can lead to a healthier psyche and sex life?Sign up for Eden's courses on her website: http://edenbradley.com/education/ Eden references several books and online resources in the podcast. Links below! (Some are affiliate links that support GraveTells)The New Topping Book by Dossie Easton & Janet W. Hardy — http://amzn.to/2w0pGVrThe New Bottoming Book by Dossie Easton & Janet W. Hardy — http://amzn.to/2vGx05XScrew the Roses, Send Me the Thorns: The Romance and Sexual Sorcery of Sadomasochism by Philip Miller & Molly Devon — http://amzn.to/2fIZp7kSM 101: A Realistic Introduction (2nd Edition) by Jay Wiseman — http://amzn.to/2wcEnUVThe Compleat Spanker by Lady Green — http://amzn.to/2fKjzOeThe Loving Dominant by John, Warren, Libby Warren — http://amzn.to/2wcCTKxJay Wiseman’s Erotic Bondage Handbook — http://amzn.to/2i5aPDeThe Ultimate Guide to Anal Sex for Women by Tristan Taormino — http://amzn.to/2v02zWwThe Two Knotty Boys (rope work) on YouTube — http://bit.ly/2i3OeqLJay Wiseman’s BDSM negotiation checklist — http://bit.ly/2w04qigKink Weekly's BDSM negotiation checklist — http://bit.ly/2uN8H4XIronGate's (very thorough) negotiation checklist — http://bit.ly/2fJxgx6More about author Eden Bradley:New York Times & USA Today Bestselling author Eden Bradley aka Eve Berlin has written erotica and erotic romance for Berkley, Bantam, Harlequin Spice/HQN, Samhain Publishing and Black Lace, as well as indie publishing. Her work has been called “elegant, intelligent and sensual”. Her debut novel THE DARK GARDEN was praised as “a masterpiece”, and was a Romantic Times Top Pick. More recently, her novella GIRL (Book One in The Training House Series) has repeatedly been called “phenomenal”, and BDSM author Jenna Jacob said “Nothing has touched me like this since ‘Story of O’”. Her novels and novellas have been translated into German, Romanian, French, Italian, Spanish, Portuguese, Czech, Polish, Indonesian and Japanese.As someone who has been involved in BDSM practice for much of her adult life, she relates in particular to her kink stories, infusing them with her own truth about kink practice from her life experiences. Eden speaks regularly on BDSM psychology and practice, as well as sex positive culture for women. She lives in Northern California, and loves art, shoes, tattoos, her Boston Terrier puppy, chocolate, and reading and writing smutty books, of course, not necessarily in that order.Visit her online:Website: www.EdenBradley.comTwitter: https://twitter.com/EdenBradleyFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/AuthorEdenBradley.EveBerlinDirty Minds Social Club: https://www.facebook.com/groups/1110214502406798/Pinterest: http://pinterest.com/edenandeve/Amazon Author Page: http://www.amazon.com/Eden-Bradley/e/B001IQUL8G/ref=dp_byline_cont_book_1Eden’s NEWSLETTER SIGNUP: http://tinyurl.com/ncklmhzFor more articles and podcasts like this, as well as romance book reviews, visit http://InfatuatedPodcast.com! Or follow me online at @gravetells (Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, Pinterest)

In this episode of the Infatuated Podcast (previously called The GraveTells Romance Podcast), erotica author and kinkster Eden Bradley talks candidly about the importance of women's sexual health and how kink and BDSM in real life can differ from what is often portrayed in romantic fiction. See details of the full episode, including buy links, on InfatuatedPodcast.com here: https://wp.me/p9NOsJ-43Here are some questions and topics Eden and I cover:What are kinks? How do they differ from fetishes?What exactly is BDSM?How do polyamory, BDSM, and fetishes measure on the kinky scale?What is Primal play? What exactly happens at one of Eden’s Kink Retreats and how can you learn more about attending next year?What does the inside of a kink club really look like? And are sadists really that scary?Why dominants in real life are probably different from the alpha males you’ve read about in books.Why it's important to separate fantasy from reality when reading kink.As a writer, how do you research kink when you’re not part of the community?Why labels—top, dominant, submissive—don’t matter when you play.How Fifty Shades impacted the BDSM community, both in real life and in fiction.Where are the safe spaces on the internet for women to explore & learn more about their sexuality?How can you learn more about consent and negotiation? Sexual health at different times of your life?How can reading romance can lead to a healthier psyche and sex life?Sign up for Eden's courses on her website: http://edenbradley.com/education/ Eden references several books and online resources in the podcast. Links below! (Some are affiliate links that support GraveTells)The New Topping Book by Dossie Easton & Janet W. Hardy — http://amzn.to/2w0pGVrThe New Bottoming Book by Dossie Easton & Janet W. Hardy — http://amzn.to/2vGx05XScrew the Roses, Send Me the Thorns: The Romance and Sexual Sorcery of Sadomasochism by Philip Miller & Molly Devon — http://amzn.to/2fIZp7kSM 101: A Realistic Introduction (2nd Edition) by Jay Wiseman — http://amzn.to/2wcEnUVThe Compleat Spanker by Lady Green — http://amzn.to/2fKjzOeThe Loving Dominant by John, Warren, Libby Warren — http://amzn.to/2wcCTKxJay Wiseman’s Erotic Bondage Handbook — http://amzn.to/2i5aPDeThe Ultimate Guide to Anal Sex for Women by Tristan Taormino — http://amzn.to/2v02zWwThe Two Knotty Boys (rope work) on YouTube — http://bit.ly/2i3OeqLJay Wiseman’s BDSM negotiation checklist — http://bit.ly/2w04qigKink Weekly's BDSM negotiation checklist — http://bit.ly/2uN8H4XIronGate's (very thorough) negotiation checklist — http://bit.ly/2fJxgx6More about author Eden Bradley:New York Times & USA Today Bestselling author Eden Bradley aka Eve Berlin has written erotica and erotic romance for Berkley, Bantam, Harlequin Spice/HQN, Samhain Publishing and Black Lace, as well as indie publishing. Her work has been called “elegant, intelligent and sensual”. Her debut novel THE DARK GARDEN was praised as “a masterpiece”, and was a Romantic Times Top Pick. More recently, her novella GIRL (Book One in The Training House Series) has repeatedly been called “phenomenal”, and BDSM author Jenna Jacob said “Nothing has touched me like this since ‘Story of O’”. Her novels and novellas have been translated into German, Romanian, French, Italian, Spanish, Portuguese, Czech, Polish, Indonesian and Japanese.As someone who has been involved in BDSM practice for much of her adult life, she relates in particular to her kink stories, infusing them with her own truth about kink practice from her life experiences. Eden speaks regularly on BDSM psychology and practice, as well as sex positive culture for women. She lives in Northern California, and loves art, shoes, tattoos, her Boston Terrier puppy, chocolate, and reading and writing smutty books, of course, not necessarily in that order.Visit her online:Website: www.EdenBradley.comTwitter: https://twitter.com/EdenBradleyFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/AuthorEdenBradley.EveBerlinDirty Minds Social Club: https://www.facebook.com/groups/1110214502406798/Pinterest: http://pinterest.com/edenandeve/Amazon Author Page: http://www.amazon.com/Eden-Bradley/e/B001IQUL8G/ref=dp_byline_cont_book_1Eden’s NEWSLETTER SIGNUP: http://tinyurl.com/ncklmhzFor more articles and podcasts like this, as well as romance book reviews, visit http://InfatuatedPodcast.com! Or follow me online at @gravetells (Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, Pinterest)

  Author, publisher and speaker Janet Hardy this week joins us to discuss her path along 30 years of BDSM and authentic exploration. Examining the initial steps and the way the community and her own desires have changed over the years, Janet shares about orgasmic dysfunction through kundalini awakening, being truly present in our lives, and curating life for the world to hear our truths.   *** Passion And Soul Podcast: iTunes Subscription: https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/passion-soul-podcast-by-lee/id840372122 RSS Feed: http://passionandsoul.libsyn.com/rss Past MP3 files: http://passionandsoul.libsyn.com PassionAndSoul Audio Page: http://passionandsoul.com/audio Stitcher: http://www.stitcher.com/podcast/erotic-awakening-podcast/passion-and-soul Erotic Awakening Network: http://www.eroticawakening.com/podcast Janet Hardy Information: Website: http://janetwhardy.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jhardyauthor Greenery Press: http://www.greenerypress.com/ The Active Voice: http://www.janetwhardy.com/availability.htm Links, Events, People and Books Mentioned: The Ethical Slut: A Practical Guide to Polyamory, Open Relationships and Other Adventures: www.amazon.com/The-Ethical-Slut-Relationships-Adventures/dp/1587613379/ref=as_li_ss_tl?ie=UTF8&tag=pass-20 Girlfag: A Life Told In Sex and Musicals: http://www.beyondbinarybooks.com/ Polyamory Weekly podcast: http://polyweekly.com/ Jay Wiseman: http://www.jaywiseman.com/ Health Care without Shame by Dr. Charles Moser http://www.amazon.com/Health-Care-Without-Shame-Caregivers/dp/1890159123/ref=as_li_ss_tl?ie=UTF8&tag=pass-20 Dossie Easton: http://www.dossieeaston.com/ My tantric “awakening” turned me off sex: http://www.salon.com/2013/03/17/my_tantric_awakening_turned_me_off_sex/ Persistent Genital Arousal Syndrome: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Persistent_genital_arousal_disorder Miss Vera's Cross Gender Fun For All (April 1, 2016): http://www.amazon.com/Miss-Veras-Cross-Gender-Fun/dp/0937609781/ref=as_li_ss_tl?ie=UTF8&tag=pass-20 Bro-jobs: http://www.thefrisky.com/2015-08-06/bro-jobs-between-straight-men-are-more-common-than-youd-think/ Spanking for Lovers (January 1, 2016): http://www.amazon.com/Spanking-Lovers-Janet-W-Hardy/dp/0937609765/ref=as_li_ss_tl?ie=UTF8&tag=pass-20 Lee's Upcoming Events/Appearances: http://passionandsoul.com/appearances/ Lee Harrington Contact Information: http://www.PassionAndSoul.com http://www.FetLife.com/passionandsoul http://twitter.com/#!/PassionAndSoul https://www.facebook.com/lee.harringon https://www.facebook.com/passionandsoul

                      Serviceslut joins me to talk about negotiations.   This podcast contains portions of the book SM 101 from Jay Wiseman.  Published by Greenery Press. Copyright 1998.

Rev Mel is a female Dom with over 20 years in the lifestyle and an ordained minister who firmly believes that religion and hot wet sex go hand-in-hand. She tells it like it is, and preaches that a life filled with indulgent sex is a life that?s fun, sanctimonious and worth living. To her critics, she responds, What?s the big deal? Our mothers and daughters do it. Even the government representatives who want to control how sex is depicted in our culture do it!Host of the Rev Mel show on TSRnetwork.com each Monday night and she has interviewed Jay Wiseman, Venus De Mila, Guy Baldwin, Midori, Nina Hartley and so many other outstanding leaders in the BDSM Community. The Rev Mel is live on Monday nights at 8 PM PST Only on TSRnetwork.com your place for Live Kink TV.

THE CSI OF SEX! Author, expert and BDSM catastrophe reconstruction specialist Jay Wiseman shares common reasons why scenes go terribly wrong. But first, Sandra learns life lessons at Comic-Con! TOPICS: Bill Nye, Nerd HQ, Thrilling Adventure Hour, Hollywood Healing, Creativity, The Nipple Police, Matt Smith. THEN: Poly Marriage, Owner/slave Marriage, Major Changes in BDSM, Morbid Tragedies Galore, Silver Linings, The 3 Day Rule, 16 Point Negotiation, Setting Yourself up to Live, A Fatal Venn Diagram, Highly Restrictive Bondage, An Ol' Whorehouse Trick, Gag Mishap, 60 Second Escape Rule, Auto-erotic Asphyxiation, "Failed Sef-Rescue Mechanisms," Triggering Cardiac Arrest, 5 Second Access Rule, Fatal Fisting, Kinky Crosswords and Changing the World for the Better! 

Join Lee Harrington as he discusses rough sex, connective sex and solo sex as valid forms of erotic expression. Along the way we will look at enemas, masturbation, poly mathematics, safer sex, negotiation styles… and share a few pieces of poetic smut. From partners to lovers to loving ourselves, this week's podcast is a journey into authentic erotic exploration. Episode notes:Lee's Pagan and Poetry Website: http://www.TempleOracle.comSample Negotiation Form by Jay Wiseman: http://www.evilmonk.org/A/wiseman10.cfmSafer Sex Information: http://www.scarleteen.com/article/sexuality/safe_sound_sexy_a_safer_sex_how_toRealdoe: www.goodvibes.com/display_product.jhtml?id=1-3-BA-1203&kbid=148903     Originally released as Erotic Awakening Episode http://www.eroticawakening.com/files/ea182.php

Join Lee Harrington as he discusses rough sex, connective sex and solo sex as valid forms of erotic expression. Along the way we will look at enemas, masturbation, poly mathematics, safer sex, negotiation styles… and share a few pieces of poetic smut. From partners to lovers to loving ourselves, this week’s podcast is a journey into authentic erotic exploration. Episode notes: Lee’s Pagan and Poetry Website: http://www.TempleOracle.com Sample Negotiation Form by Jay Wiseman: http://www.evilmonk.org/A/wiseman10.cfm Safer Sex Information: http://www.scarleteen.com/article/sexuality/safe_sound_sexy_a_safer_sex_how_to Realdoe: www.goodvibes.com/display_product.jhtml?id=1-3-BA-1203&kbid=148903

This week Morgue Anne discuses Jay Wiseman’s 16 Points for S&M Negotiation, using her most recent play date as an example of it in use. Also, information on how to enter to win 2 tickets to the Dec. 22nd Test and Control concert. Visit us Morgue Anne at www.SexAndDeath.org. And leave Morgue Anne a voicemail [...]

A quick show this week. As we are midway through moving to a new studio, we whipped out a quickie and are bringing you a replay of an interview with Jay Wiseman from February 2009. But we do take time to congratulate the winner of our Corset for Christmas contest as well as comment on dawn's level of undress.

This week, we discuss our return from Dark Odyssey:Winter Fire and interview Jay Wiseman

The Black Phoenix Winter Solstice event in Philly is the subject of this podcast, with appearances by Dov, Sascha, Shibari Warrior, David Laurence, Slave Judy, Lord Ramirez, Janette, Ammre, Mataleao, Jay Wiseman, NCD, Jocasta of Venus Ropes, & more. Learn about "dungeon penalty calls," hear about the great community there in Philly, and cower at the awesome concept of the "MEN OF ROPE!!"Graydancer also discusses the proper pronunciation of kinbaku, and announces both an upcoming interview with Japanese bondage star Kogure and the upcoming Madison GRUE. If you've ever wanted to individually sponsor the Ropecast, now is a good time - there's also the "Wish you were here" sale on Graydancer's book "NAWASHI". $15 gets you an autographed copy, shipping and handling paid - just as if you were standing there getting it in person. Contact graydancer@gmail.com to pay through AlertPay and let us know what the inscription should read!