Growing with Harjot is a documentation podcast of all the failures, successes and valuable personal experiences learnt by the podcast host Harjot, a young 20 year old dream chaser and thinker who is going against everything that he was taught since birth and finding his own truth and life’s path all…
This episode is for you if you want to feel GOOD. I look into my own past 3 years when I first started my journey as an individual in a pursuit of growth and making my life the way I want it to be because that's simply just what I want with myself. Handful of gems and realisations fill this episode to a fulfilling and good feeling podcast listening experience for you!
When you live your greatest and best life every waking moment, things happen, what time means to you changes, a day feels like a year because you live a fulfilling life with so much experience packed into the day in a very conscious manner. The more conscious we become of who we are, the closer to 'God' we are. In this episode you will learn my secret sauce, learnt through a lot of pain and struggling. Now without doing this 4 step process I do not even bother with anything else. You will do the same.
In this episode I go over a list of topics I wrote out a year ago, covering a wide range of statements and topics that get the mind and body thinking about itself and possibly putting your life into perspective.
This episode is about feelings and intuition that we all inherently have as our higher self. Suddenly I got the idea that what's better to talk about this topic than reading our the past few journal entries I have on there. With this episode I welcome you into my inner world, you will get to know me at levels and understanding no one else knows, also I hope this will put many of your own life experiences into perspective for you.
Shadow work sounds scary, sounds like some ghostly and magical, demonic stuff but trust me it isn't. It is the most liberating and beautiful thing you will do for yourself. Shadow work is the art of diving deep into you own subconscious mind and making your unconscious conscious. It is the art of discovering a side of you that you are running away from or trying to avoid. You shine light on this side of yourself and suddenly you will shift your internal reality which mirrors into the outside world.
Failure is part of life. As a human being we have to accept that we will make mistakes and thats the only way we will grow as long as we learn, adapt and change from those painful experiences. The only difference between the beginner and the master is that the master has failed more times than the beginner has even attempted something. Similar are my experiences in this podcast episode where I share my personal failures, mistakes and setbacks and the mind-frame I am approaching the situation going forward.
I recently started understanding the importance of knowing my personality and shinning more light to it. We are all born a certain kind of way, in ways we cannot explain. Why was I always so quiet while my classmates were noisy and running around all the time? We are all wired differently and bring different personalities to the table. Once you understand your own personality, you will have great power over yourself and with that you will have greater responsibility over your life which means you can better shape your life the way you want it.
In this episode you will get a perspective on life that may not make sense to you at first but suddenly hit you like a truck. I also go into behaviour pattern changing into becoming someone that achieves your highest purpose in life.
A quick episode talking a bit about focus. You get better at what you FOCUS on, easier said than done as we live in a world full of distractions but you'd be surprised that if you choose to focus on a few things that inspire you, focus a specific time on them, you can allow yourself to improve and enjoy the pleasures of all the distractions in the world.
This is a documentation of my life as it is as I write this, I do not try to teach any specific wisdom or am trying to convey a message rather it is simply a documentation of how my life is, how I am experiencing it and how I am living in Nirvana, in the protection of God/Universe/Allah and being patient, having faith and living a life of grace with full surrender to the present moment. I made this for me, I appreciate you if you chose to listen to it, I hope you are able to extract some piece of wisdom.
Wu Wei comes from the taoist and is a way of living, a life of effortless surrender. I share my current life experiences and examples from my life as is right now and shine light to what a life of wu wei is. I want you to live an effortless life.
This is a spontaneous episode with everything about it spontaneously and deliberately done! The mystery awaits...
I recently went on a spiritual journey and came out a different person and a different being. I had a profound awakening that allows me to live my life untouched by the illusions and traps of reality and truly create an abundant, happy and carefree life. Listen to this podcast only if you are ready for a profound change and shift in your life and truly be aligned with your higher self. WARNING: This episode will bliss you the fk out if applied correctly.
I have been personally feeling extremely overwhelmed and a wide range of emotions that I cannot put into words, life is crazy for everyone and sometimes it's easy to get caught up in it all. In this episode I share my current life experiences and how I am dealing with overwhelm and share some wisdom on how routines work and how you can use them to your advantage in your life to achieve your goals and live a happy life.
As humans we keep trying to do do do in a pursuit to achieve our goals and often in the process forget about our life. Just like everyone I too want to achieve my goals but has it ever happened to you that you get to your goal but its just not the way you imagined it to be. Thats what this episode is about, how to create a 50-50 partnership with life where you put in 50% of the work and let life take care of the other 50%. Now thats an amazing life.
I'v recently had deeper awakenings to how I live my life day to day and how I carry out my daily actions and habits. We can either live life unconsciously which is to say live life as if you are a zombie and just following the herd and aimlessly doing things or we can become conscious creators of out lives and really coordinate the direction of our lives and where we end up. We can live life asleep or we can live it awake. Most people are sleeping and after listening to this episode I hope you will wake up.
Recently I was listening to someone reputable and he said the hardest thing to do for anyone is doing nothing. We as a human animal get so caught up in life and the work we think we must do and after we complete one task we are constantly seeking the next thing to do and have totally forgotten how to do nothing. The person that can learnt to do nothing, even for a while, is the person that can learn to centre him/herself in reality and coordinate according to the wants and desires instead of being rushed.
I found that I have some very profound and intellectual conversations with like minded people, today I want to introduce Julien Sicard, he is the Co-President of LinkedIn Local Asia and helps Fortune 500 companies in Asia to get leads on LinkedIn. He's a great person and has a lot of experience in the game of Entrepreneurship. Entrepreneurs and people wanting to hear more insights on personal struggles and ways to overcome them, this podcast episode is for you!
Humans are the only beings crazy enough to keep doing the same things and taking the same actions in life but expect a different result. How crazy is that, how can you get a different result doing the same things you have always been doing? This episode is about the real name of the game of life/entrepreneurship or in my case as a professional day trader, pattern recognition. Tune into the episode to learn about what patterns are, how do we spot them and train our pattern recognition brain to get results.
The truly successful and rich people LOVE debt and leverage. For most, debt and leverage are scary words and often are associated with a negative connotation. For this rich, it is their lifeline. Successful people have learnt and understand the importance of debt and leverage and know how to use it to propel themselves ahead in life. They get what they want even if they don't quite have the resources for it yet. If you want to learn this secret that only the successful people know of then this is for you!
In this episode I create a distinction between the highly successful and the average person who is struggling to live a good life. There are very simple and clear distinctions between the 2 types of people but both end up at drastically different places in life and it's all in the hands of the person to choose what they want to do now to get what they say they want to get (their dream/ goal)
If you are a human being with goals and dreams and you know what you have to do to achieve these dreams but also are struck with those 'low days' in life where you don't feel on top of the world, you don't feel like a beast, you feel like 'I can't be bothered'. If this is you, which is inevitable for any human being, then you would also know that just because you don't feel like doing anything today doesn't mean you shouldn't. Your dreams won't come true if you don't take the needed actions to achieve them.
This episode goes into the illusion of reality and the reflection that comes out of realities mirror, if you can learn to change the person that you are presenting to the mirror then you will change the reflection that comes out of the mirror and that will create your life, this may sound weird and confusing if you haven't heard the podcast yet so get tuned in!
This episode will give you the best knowledge on the theory of you getting in your own way and nothing making things happen in your life the way you want them to happen. This episode also goes into some examples of things you can do to train your "consciousness muscle" and truly master your reality and create it the way you want to.
What if someone told you 3-4 techniques/practises that take less than 10 seconds to do but would radically change the way you live your life for the rest of your life? Would you pay a lot of money to learn these 'secrets', I'm happy to tell you I'v spilt a lot of beans in this episode and guess what, all it will take for you is to tune in for free of charge!
The moment we are born, society and our external reality begins to program us, eventually we gain consciousness around age 7 and now not only does society, our external reality but now also our own internal reality begin to work against us unconsciously. This unconscious mode of thinking is what leads to to live and full fill our 'destiny' whether you like it or not. I go very personal with story time in this episode and share my insights on my personal paradigm shifts and how I was able top break out of my unconscious program.
It's natural as a human being to have emotions, very often we love being happy but when we get a sad emotion it just hurts, it sucks and we don't want it. How do we take control over our emotions? How do we get out of this emotional train, this rat race of life and truly begin living our true and best life? In this episode I dive deeper into my own feelings at the moment and how I am approaching them and allowing myself to experience them.
In this episode I share my personal worries and issues I struggled with in the past as well as sharing some of my personal goals while hit hard on the importance of how growth leads to success and not the other way around which is success leading to growth. To be successful (whatever you define your success for yourself) we think that we have to focus on success rather we forget that there is something more important that determines our success, listen to the podcast to get more insight!
In this episode I have some very exciting news for any new listeners and especially for the already regular listeners of the podcast so be sure to catch the piece of news I have for you in this episode. This episode talks about why we have trouble moving on in life or finding change to create better results and situations for ourselves in our lives. I share a few examples of my own life and why confirmation bias lead me to failure and a lot of pain until I had to learn this brutal lesson. Excited for you!
I asked a teenager once, 'what do you want from life?', to which he replied ' I want to live a comfortable life' which is what inspired todays episode, is it really possible to live a comfortable life if life is always coming up with new problems and struggles everyday and you almost seem to be losing your mind as to what you have to do, always wishing life was easier but it's not, wishing it was more comfortable but it's not? If this is you, then this episode was created for you.
In this episode I venture into non duality which I phrase as relativity and in the podcast come to a simpler conclusion with a simpler wording namely 'neutrality', if you are someone who get happy or sad, gets emotional or get carried away with many of the worldly things (also called Maya) then this episode is for you and will aid you in becoming an overall happier and more aligned with the world you create for yourself. Hope you enjoy, I share a lot of my personal stories and experiences which I'm sure many can relate with in some point of their lives. Leave me a review on iTunes and hit the subscribe button for weekly episodes!
It's been a long time coming for this episode, if you are a long term listener, this is your treat. You are not your mind, You are not your body, and I wanted to tell you that you are you Spirit/Soul. Thats what I had intended to talk about in this podcast but quickly i realised I would be doing a dis service to you if that's all I told you. So if you want to know how you can completely change the way you see, live and experience this world then tune in to this episode.
Money and People are often considered as nothing more than what the word suggests, Money and People. In this episode I dive deeper into what a commodity is and how that word can put perspective into what Money and People mean to you. Also I talk about a few tips and tricks of how you can grow better and faster while sharing something I'v been working on behind the scenes which you can be a part of and contribute to the society in ways that cannot have been possible if we were living in any time in the past other than right this VERY MOMENT!
How many thoughts do you have in a day? What thoughts do you have? Ever wondered or felt that you are having a positive or negative thought? Ever felt lost and didn't know why certain things happen to you the way they happen? Maybe you have a certain relationship with the certain thing you are concerned or thinking about. Intrigued by what all this means? This episode will change your life forever by helping you understand the different types of relationships we have with the world and everything around us. And no a relationship isn't just something between and man and woman. I'll see you on the other side of the podcast!
This episode is a treat for you if you find yourself in a situation where you want to make fast progress in life and see immense growth but you just can't seem to get the speed or results you desire in the time you desire. In this episode I share an extremely counter intuitive knowing (just like almost every other thing i share) that brings back our childhood story about the race between the turtle and the rabbit race and go into a much deeper understanding of being a turtle yet winning in the end.
We live in a world where most people struggle to even survive life and it's harsh reality and circumstances that everyone is put through. If you want to not only learn how to survive in life but also THRIVE and enjoy every moment of it while you are doing the process of 'living' your best life then this episode is for you, a MUST listen to open your mindset to a way of l00king (the 00 are on purpose, imagine them as your eyes looking at the world) that will take you to places you never knew existed!
This episode is a look into my experiences with anything media related be it news, social media, porn, food advertisements and anything that the capitalist world deems to be the 'normal' and brainwashing society into 'knowing' things that are not true and benefit these companies for profit and their own personal/corporate gains.
Energy is extremely important, where we have talked about preserving our energy in previous episodes, this episode is about sharing your higher energy with the Universe and thus when you are in need and are down on your own energy for whatever reason you can go to your Energy bank and get your energy to the levels it needs/ you want and know can have.
This episode is about becoming more clear with your vision and goals to become the better person you need and want to be, instead of saying what we have been saying our whole life to avoid doing the hard things and simply saying 'I can't...' This episode is about changing 1 small word into 'How can I...' I share what and how far I'v come in my Life journey so far and my HOW to growing at the most optimal rate and as efficiently as one would desire to grow at.
Having trouble sleeping? trying to sleep but cannot? This episode is all about getting good sleep, the importance of good sleep and finally HOW TO SLEEP LIKE A BABY and grow rich in the process. obviously this is not a get rich quick scheme but if you you know what this podcast is about then you would know we will grow into this and as the topic says you will grow rich not become rich by sleeping for 1 night.
One of the biggest lessons I have learnt in 2019 is that my ENERGY is finite but the world is infinite and thus one must learn to preserve their energy and use it towards to causes that propel one in their life towards their goals, dreams and desires. Any consumption of your energy outside the uses of which results in the outcomes that you are working for is just an energy drain and will not only slow your growth down but also decrease your levels of happiness in life.
Its Xmas, new year is coming and YOU need to know how to smash your goals the right way. In this episode I talk about how Iv been able to better manage my goals while also sharing some personal stories of a few awakening I'v had going into the new year. This is the longest episode I have made till date and is honestly a little bit of a Christmas gift to you, my fellow Growing with Harjot Podcast lister, thank you for tuning into the podcast and lets GO BEAST MODE IN 2020!
Its easy to blame external environments when something you feel is negative happens to you and blaming that certain thing for your pain or frustrations but we never ask why we are REALLY feeling the way we are feeling, if we are feeling sad then whats the real reason for this sadness? if we are happy then whats the root reason for this happiness?
We all want to achieve GREATNESS in life but we often dream and desire too big and think of actions too big early on in the process that we just cant seem to carry ourselves through the hardships and pain of working consistently. Consistency is the key to success but you have to be realistic with your expectations in order to be realistic with you consistency and the actions you take in life. In this episode i share my personal story of what my soulhighly desires in the current moment in my life and what i MUST do to get what I desire
In a conversation regarding any field or industry, who do you talk about? In the case of football the names like Messi and Cristiano Ronaldo pop up regularly, heck even people who aren't into the sport know these names, why is that and how can you become the best too?
Today is another special episode, I got 2 special guests this time with whom we have a casual and experience filled conversation which you are part of to make life easier because its definitely not easy.
Today we have a special guest sharing her wisdom on patience and how if once mastered or even for this matter slightly understood better could put your life direction in a 180 spin and start leading you the way and path in life you want to be on.
In this episode I talk further into the topic discussed in the previous episode, so make sure if you haven't already, listen to episode 14 and enjoy this episode aswell. I have a rather casual chat with you in this episode regarding my personal experiences and what i learnt and how i overcame certain situations which most people don't even come to understand in their lifetimes. My only advice is to take advice from the right source that aligns with your vision for your future!
This is quick and simple podcast that will directly change the direction of your life, who do you choose to listen to? Does the advice you take help you get to where it is you want to go in life? how do you know whose advice to take?
Everyone knows that you have to embrace yourself but how does one embrace oneself when one doesn't even know who they are?? So before we embrace ourselves, the questions arrises, who are we really? once that question is answered then it is relatively easier to embrace oneself.
In this episode I am in an extremely jolly spirit while i talk about something I am truly passionate about and thats becoming successful aka the best version of yourself and living you best life day in and day out.