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Got a question about kink, BDSM, or anything sexually avant garde? Iris and James can help answer them! This podcast ties together research and personal experience with the goal of celebrating kink and making a complex realm of sexuality more approachable

Kinky Queeries


    • Jun 19, 2024 LATEST EPISODE
    • infrequent NEW EPISODES
    • 28m AVG DURATION
    • 34 EPISODES


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    "Should I watch Netflix's 'Bonding'?"

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 19, 2024 56:06


    Kinky Queeries - a sexuality podcast by Iris and James. Further readings and episode information available at https://www.kinkyqueeries.com/episodes/33 Music "Hotshot" by Scott Holmes Music through creative commons non-commercial license, not affiliated with this podcast. Minor remix edits made.

    “Why are orgasms more difficult with a partner?”

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 27, 2023 28:55


    Kinky Queeries - a sexuality podcast by Iris and James. Further readings and episode information available at https://www.kinkyqueeries.com/episodes/32 Music "Hotshot" by Scott Holmes Music through creative commons non-commercial license, not affiliated with this podcast. Minor remix edits made.

    "What are the Leather Archives?"

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 21, 2023 26:41


    Kinky Queeries - a sexuality podcast by Iris and James. Further readings and episode information available at https://www.kinkyqueeries.com/episodes/31 Music "Hotshot" by Scott Holmes Music through creative commons non-commercial license, not affiliated with this podcast. Minor remix edits made.

    “With the knowledge you have now, what would you differently/recommend?”

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 8, 2023 30:21


    Kinky Queeries - a sexuality podcast by Iris and James. Further readings and episode information available at https://www.kinkyqueeries.com/episodes/30 Music "Hotshot" by Scott Holmes Music through creative commons non-commercial license, not affiliated with this podcast. Minor remix edits made.

    "What is food play?"

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 24, 2023 28:49


    Kinky Queeries - a sexuality podcast by Iris and James. Further readings and episode information available at https://www.kinkyqueeries.com/episodes/29 Music "Hotshot" by Scott Holmes Music through creative commons non-commercial license, not affiliated with this podcast. Minor remix edits made.

    "What is wax play?"

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 4, 2023 32:15


    Kinky Queeries - a sexuality podcast by Iris and James. Further readings and episode information available at https://www.kinkyqueeries.com/episodes/28 Music "Hotshot" by Scott Holmes Music through creative commons non-commercial license, not affiliated with this podcast. Minor remix edits made.

    "Why do people enjoy anal?"

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 19, 2023 29:13


    Kinky Queeries - a sexuality podcast by Iris and James. Further readings and episode information available at https://www.kinkyqueeries.com/episodes/27 Music "Hotshot" by Scott Holmes Music through creative commons non-commercial license, not affiliated with this podcast. Minor remix edits made.

    “Is your D/s role correlated with your vanilla life?”

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 5, 2023 24:21


    Kinky Queeries - a sexuality podcast by Iris and James. Further readings and episode information available at https://www.kinkyqueeries.com/episodes/26 Music "Hotshot" by Scott Holmes Music through creative commons non-commercial license, not affiliated with this podcast. Minor remix edits made.

    "What is a Munch?"

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 22, 2023 31:09


    Kinky Queeries - a sexuality podcast by Iris and James. Further readings and episode information available at https://www.kinkyqueeries.com/episodes/25 Music "Hotshot" by Scott Holmes Music through creative commons non-commercial license, not affiliated with this podcast. Minor remix edits made.

    “What lube should I use?”

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 22, 2023 31:36


    Kinky Queeries - a sexuality podcast by Iris and James. Further readings and episode information available at https://www.kinkyqueeries.com/episodes/24 Music "Hotshot" by Scott Holmes Music through creative commons non-commercial license, not affiliated with this podcast. Minor remix edits made.

    "Am I queer enough?"

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 6, 2023 33:41


    Kinky Queeries - a sexuality podcast by Iris and James. Further readings and episode information available at https://www.kinkyqueeries.com/episodes/23 Music "Hotshot" by Scott Holmes Music through creative commons non-commercial license, not affiliated with this podcast. Minor remix edits made.

    “What is considered a safe sex toy?"

    Play Episode Listen Later May 31, 2023 34:48


    Kinky Queeries - a sexuality podcast by Iris and James. Full episode transcript, as well as further readings, available at https://www.kinkyqueeries.com/episodes/22 Music "Hotshot" by Scott Holmes Music through creative commons non-commercial license, not affiliated with this podcast. Minor remix edits made.

    “What's the difference between a sex party and a dungeon event?”

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 25, 2023 31:39


    Kinky Queeries - a sexuality podcast by Iris and James. Full episode transcript, as well as further readings, available at https://www.kinkyqueeries.com/episodes/21 Music "Hotshot" by Scott Holmes Music through creative commons non-commercial license, not affiliated with this podcast. Minor remix edits made.

    Raw Banter - March 2023

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 29, 2023 29:16


    Kinky Queeries - a sexuality podcast by Iris and James. Music "Hotshot" by Scott Holmes Music through creative commons non-commercial license, not affiliated with this podcast. Minor remix edits made.

    "Where to Start with Rope Bondage?" Part 2

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 14, 2023 25:19


    Kinky Queeries - a sexuality podcast by Iris and James. Full episode transcript, as well as further readings, available at https://www.kinkyqueeries.com/episodes/19 Music "Hotshot" by Scott Holmes Music through creative commons non-commercial license, not affiliated with this podcast. Minor remix edits made.

    "Where to Start with Rope Bondage?" Part 1

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 15, 2023 31:04


    Kinky Queeries - a sexuality podcast by Iris and James. Full episode transcript, as well as further readings, available at https://www.kinkyqueeries.com/episodes/18 Music "Hotshot" by Scott Holmes Music through creative commons non-commercial license, not affiliated with this podcast. Minor remix edits made.

    "What is watersports?"

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 26, 2023 25:32


    Kinky Queeries - a sexuality podcast by Iris and James. Further readings and the ability to send in anonymous questions are available at https://www.kinkyqueeries.com/episodes/17 Music "Hotshot" by Scott Holmes Music through creative commons non-commercial license, not affiliated with this podcast. Minor remix edits made.

    “What is the difference between attraction in fantasy/erotica VS real life?”

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 4, 2023 33:36


    Kinky Queeries - a sexuality podcast by Iris and James. Further readings and the ability to send in anonymous questions are available at https://www.kinkyqueeries.com/episodes/16 Music "Hotshot" by Scott Holmes Music through creative commons non-commercial license, not affiliated with this podcast. Minor remix edits made.

    Outtakes 02

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 30, 2022 22:20


    Kinky Queeries - a sexuality podcast by Iris and James. Full episode transcript available at https://www.kinkyqueeries.com/episodes/15 Music "Hotshot" by Scott Holmes Music through creative commons non-commercial license, not affiliated with this podcast. Minor remix edits made.

    "What is arousal non concordance?"

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 15, 2022 33:29


    Kinky Queeries - a sexuality podcast by Iris and James. Full episode transcript, as well as further readings, available at https://www.kinkyqueeries.com/episodes/14 Music "Hotshot" by Scott Holmes Music through creative commons non-commercial license, not affiliated with this podcast. Minor remix edits made.

    “What's the difference between dom and top? And sub and bottom?”

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 6, 2022 26:41


    Kinky Queeries - a sexuality podcast by Iris and James. Full episode transcript, as well as further readings, available at www.kinkyqueeries.com/episode13 Music "Hotshot" by Scott Holmes Music through creative commons non-commercial license, not affiliated with this podcast. Minor remix edits made.

    Outtakes 01

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 25, 2022 12:31


    Kinky Queeries - a sexuality podcast by Iris and James. Full episode transcript available at www.kinkyqueeries.com/episode12 Music "Hotshot" by Scott Holmes Music through creative commons non-commercial license, not affiliated with this podcast. Minor remix edits made.

    “How often do people actually have sex?”

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 9, 2022 29:09


    Kinky Queeries - a sexuality podcast by Iris and James. Full episode transcript, as well as further readings, available at www.kinkyqueeries.com/episode11 Music "Hotshot" by Scott Holmes Music through creative commons non-commercial license, not affiliated with this podcast. Minor remix edits made.

    "How to respond to 'no kink at pride'?"

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 21, 2022 27:02


    Kinky Queeries - a sexuality podcast by Iris and James. Full episode transcript, as well as further readings, available at www.kinkyqueeries.com/episode10 Music "Hotshot" by Scott Holmes Music through creative commons non-commercial license, not affiliated with this podcast. Minor remix edits made.

    “How do reproductive rights affect kink?”

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 3, 2022 28:43


    Kinky Queeries - a sexuality podcast by Iris and James. Content warnings for Roe v Wade conversation, sexism, classism, pregnancy, body horror. Full episode transcript, as well as further readings, available at kinkyqueeries.com/episode09 Music "Hotshot" by Scott Holmes Music through creative commons non-commercial license, not affiliated with this podcast. Minor remix edits made.

    "What is the Furry Pipeline?"

    Play Episode Listen Later May 3, 2022 30:58


    Kinky Queeries - a sexuality podcast by Iris and James. The first 5 minutes of the episode contain spoilers Our Flag Means Death. Full episode transcript, as well as further readings, available at www.kinkyqueeries.com/episode08 Music "Hotshot" by Scott Holmes Music through creative commons non-commercial license, not affiliated with this podcast. Minor remix edits made.

    “Is it ever okay to play without a safeword?”

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 21, 2022 24:24


    Kinky Queeries - a sexuality podcast by Iris and James. Full episode transcript, as well as further readings, available at www.kinkyqueeries.com/episode07 Music "Hotshot" by Scott Holmes Music through creative commons non-commercial license, not affiliated with this podcast. Minor remix edits made.

    "What is Fetlife?"

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 11, 2022 28:01


    Kinky Queeries - a sexuality podcast by Iris and James. Content warnings for discussing the effects of sexual violence, rape, racism, and antisemitism. Full episode transcript, as well as further readings, available at kinkyqueeries.com/episode06 Music "Hotshot" by Scott Holmes Music through creative commons non-commercial license, not affiliated with this podcast. Minor remix edits made.

    "What is praise kink?"

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 25, 2022 21:25


    Kinky Queeries - a sexuality podcast by Iris and James. Full episode transcript, as well as research references, available at kinkyqueeries.com/episode05 Music "Hotshot" by Scott Holmes Music through creative commons non-commercial license, not affiliated with this podcast. Minor remix edits made.

    "How has COVID affected kink?"

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 8, 2022 31:55


    Kinky Queeries - a sexuality podcast by Iris and James. Full episode transcript, as well as research references, available at kinkyqueeries.com/episode04 Music "Hotshot" by Scott Holmes Music through creative commons non-commercial license, not affiliated with this podcast. Minor remix edits made.

    "Am I kinky enough?"

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 22, 2022 28:13


    Kinky Queeries - a sexuality podcast by Iris and James. Featuring our first question from a listener! - Full Episode Transcript and additional research articles available at https://tinyurl.com/KQepisode03 - Music "Hotshot" by Scott Holmes Music through creative commons non-commercial license, not affiliated with this podcast. Minor remix edits made.

    “Is it okay to hit my partner when she asks me to hit her?”

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 8, 2022 25:07


    Kinky Queeries - a sexuality podcast by Iris and James. The Y/N/M Sheet referenced in this episode can be found at https://tinyurl.com/KQ-YNM - Full Episode Transcript and additional research articles available at https://tinyurl.com/KQepisode02 - Music "Hotshot" by Scott Holmes Music through creative commons non-commercial license, not affiliated with this podcast. Minor remix edits made. Licensing info found at https://scottholmesmusic.com/licensing/

    "When did you know you were kinky?"

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 26, 2022 28:08


    Kinky Queeries - a sexuality podcast by Iris and James. Research article referenced in this episode can be found at https://www.tandfonline.com/doi/abs/10.1080/00224499.2020.1840495 - Full Episode Transcript Available at https://tinyurl.com/KQepisode01 - Music "Hotshot" by Scott Holmes Music through creative commons non-commercial license, not affiliated with this podcast. Minor remix edits made. Licensing info found at https://scottholmesmusic.com/licensing/

    Kinky Queeries Teaser

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 25, 2022 0:52


    Kinky Queeries - a sexuality podcast by Iris and James. Music "Hotshot" by Scott Holmes Music through creative commons non-commercial license, not affiliated with this podcast. Minor remix edits made. Licensing info found at https://scottholmesmusic.com/licensing/ Audio Transcript: This podcast has explicitly adult themes and language. Listener discretion is advised. [drum-heavy rock and roll music "Hotshot" by Scott Holmes Music plays throughout] People think chaos, they think like I'm going to be throwing whips around being like "oooh I'm this crazy Dom." And it's like, no. I want glitter. I want duck costumes! This is Kinky Queeries, a podcast where you send in questions and we'll work out the kinks. Or, more often than not, work in the kinks. I want to create a space here that makes kink approachable and something to be celebrated. Yeah I agree with that. I think let's bring in the literature, the research that exists. The ideas around different concepts as well as personal experiences and tie the two together. I think that's really important.

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