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In this juicy and eye-opening episode, we dive deep into the many ways women experience arousal - with a refreshingly honest look at the full spectrum of desire. Joined by sex and intimacy expert Melissa Louise, we explore the concept of arousal maps for both women and men, and how most of us have only scratched the surface of what's possible.Whether you've been with your partner for years or you're just starting something new, Melissa shares powerful tools for communicating your wants, needs, and turn-ons in ways that feel safe, confident, and connected.We also unpack the common myths about arousal, the options we didn't even know were on the table, and why pleasure is never one-size-fits-all.This one is equal parts educational, liberating, and empowering. You might never approach sex the same way again.>>>To become the most WITTY, charming, attractive and polished version of yourself, apply to work with Kristen here: https://www.kristenandchilldating.com/coaching>>>Get A FREE Dating Playbook Session with Marni's Wing Girl Team. Apply Here: https://winggirlmethod.com/letmehelp
Send us a textIn this episode, Lady Petra and Saffermaster chat about how arousal has shifted her frame over a Green Fairy. The Kinky cocktail Hour is brought to you by Motorbunny, the best saddle style vibrator on the market today. Save $40 on your Motorbunny purchase with the code LADYPETRAPLAYGROUND at Motorbunny.com You can order the TechRing, "Where health meets pleasure" at http://myfirmtech.com using the code "KINKY" to save 15%. Put a ring on it!Support the showListen on Podurama https://podurama.com
In this episode, we dive into the fundamentals of erotic hypnosis, perfect for those just starting to explore this fascinating practice. We begin by answering the big question: What is erotic hypnosis? You'll learn how it differs from traditional hypnosis and why it's become a powerful tool for exploring sexual pleasure and unlocking deeper desires.We break down how erotic hypnosis works, from the induction (the process of entering a relaxed, trance-like state) to deepening the experience and introducing hypnotic suggestions that enhance sensations, arousal, and fantasy exploration. The focus is on how to use hypnosis files for personal exploration and relaxation, rather than partner play, making it accessible for beginners.Finally, I share beginner-friendly techniques to get started with erotic hypnosis files. From setting the right atmosphere to trusting the process, we guide you through how to create a calm environment, relax your mind, and enjoy the journey into erotic hypnosis with ease.Whether you're new to erotic hypnosis or simply curious, this episode will leave you with the knowledge and confidence to begin your exploration. https://beacons.ai/beatrixvale
In this encore episode, we share the Dual Control Model of Arousal, an essential piece of erotic knowledge to understand the complexity of turn-ons, turn-offs, and how to manage your own arousal. Explore more at PleasureMechanics.com/arousal Spotify Playlist of the Best of Speaking Of Sex Episodes Get ready to rethink everything you know about getting […]
In this episode, Dr. Finlayson-Fife answers questions about female arousal and orgasm. She discusses the impact of societal and personal beliefs on women's sexual experiences, the connection between emotional freedom and sexual well-being, and offers practical advice for overcoming common challenges women face such as performance anxiety, self-judgment, and the aftermath of sexual trauma.
Persistent genital arousal disorder (PGAD) is one of the most distressing sexual dysfunctions. PGAD involves having near-constant feelings of unwanted arousal that make it difficult to concentrate, work, and sleep. In today's show, we're going to dive into what we know about PGAD and speak with a physician who frequently treats patients with this condition. I am joined once again by Dr. Sameena Rahman, a board-certified OB/GYN, sex-med gynecologist, and menopause specialist with an academic affiliation at Northwestern University’s Feinberg School of Medicine. She is the founder of the Center for Gynecology and Cosmetics, and host of the podcast Gyno Girl Presents: Sex, Drugs & Hormones. Some of the specific topics we explore include: What is persistent gentian arousal disorder? How is it clinically defined? What is it like to live with PGAD? How many people have PGAD, and who’s most likely to be affected? What’s the connection between obsessive-compulsive disorder and PGAD? What are the most effective treatments for this disorder? You can follow Sameena on Instagram to stay updated on her work. Got a sex question? Send me a podcast voicemail to have it answered on a future episode at speakpipe.com/sexandpsychology. *** Thank you to our sponsors! While most dating apps are all about pursuing someone else, Feeld has carved out a space for you to find yourself. Explore your desires and go on a journey of self-discovery today with Feeld. Download Feeld on the App Store or Google Play. The Kinsey Institute at Indiana University has been a trusted source for scientific knowledge and research on critical issues in sexuality, gender, and reproduction for over 75 years. Learn about more research and upcoming events at kinseyinstitute.org or look for them on social media @kinseyinstitute. *** Want to learn more about Sex and Psychology? Click here for previous articles or follow the blog on Facebook, Twitter, or Bluesky to receive updates. You can also follow Dr. Lehmiller on YouTube and Instagram. Listen and stream all episodes on Apple, Spotify, Google, or Amazon. Subscribe to automatically receive new episodes and please rate and review the podcast!
Questions answered this episode: 1. I'm a woman in my 40's and I've found it difficult to get in the mood with my husband unless I create fantasies in my head. These fantasies are usually of sexual situations I create that don't involve my husband or in many cases even me. I'll picture two nameless people in an intimate act. Sometimes one party is using another party or the other party is cheating on his wife with a beautiful young woman. Before I was serious about my faith I had looked at porn although it was rare, and my sexual history was not good; multiple parters out of wedlock, using and being used, contraception, and other things. I hate that I have these fantasies because I want the union with my husband to be holy. However, either I create the fantasies to get in the mood or if I push those fantasies away I find sex boring and just another item on my to do list. I don't know what I'm supposed to think about when in the marital embrace. I feel like my mind has been so warped by the culture that it is hard to move forward. Can you help my mind and these fantasies during the marital embrace? What should I be thinking about? 2. I've heard you say that it's important not to stop at the window. Meaning not to let the icons in our lives become idols where we expect from them what only God can be for us. I love the emphasis on finding windows to the divine in our life and how many of these can lead us towards rather than detract us from our relationship with God. How can this be applied on a practical day to day basis? 3. For most of my life I've had a warped view of the natural experience of erections. I've been told that it's meant to be immediately relieved, that it's meant to be pleasurable, but most of all that it's shameful and dirty. As I've gotten deep into my faith and discovered TOB I've wrestled with what new redeemed definition this experience could have. Could it be that this rising of my body could be the desire of my heart and soul to rise to the occasion of loving well and the desire to physically give myself to someone else? Ask Christopher West is a weekly podcast in which Theology of the Body Institute President Christopher West and his beloved wife Wendy share their humor and wisdom, answering questions about marriage, relationships, life, and the Catholic faith, all in light of John Paul II's beautiful teachings on the Theology of the Body.
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Unlocking Intimacy Boosting Pleasure and Arousal with Essential Oils - Melody Watts 270 In this episode, Melody Watts discusses the impact of essential oils on emotional barriers and how they can enhance intimacy. She also shares specific essential oils that can support men's sexual health and address issues like erectile dysfunction and enlarged prostate. Melody explains the different ways to use essential oils and highlights a BOGO special on Rose and Jasmine oils. Connect with Melody on Instagram @MelodyCWatts and visit her website MelodyWatts.net for more information. To get any of the oils Melody mentioned and the BOGO deal with wholesale prices, I created a cart for you, in which you can simply remove or add the items that you want using the hyperlink. Takeaways ✅ Essential oils can help break down emotional barriers and enhance intimacy. ✅ Specific essential oils like Neroli, Cedarwood, and Jasmine can support emotional connection and arousal. ✅ Essential oils like Clary Calm, Geranium, and Whisper can help balance hormones and increase libido. ✅ For men's sexual health, oils like Zendocrine, Ginger, and Birch can be beneficial. ✅ Essential oils can be used topically, internally, and diffused to support overall well-being. ✅ Toxic masculinity and emotional imbalances can contribute to sexual health issues. ✅ Take advantage of the BOGO special on Rose and Jasmine oils to experience their benefits. Joel Evan Coaching
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Unlocking Intimacy Boosting Pleasure and Arousal with Essential Oils - Melody Watts 270 In this episode, Melody Watts discusses the impact of essential oils on emotional barriers and how they can enhance intimacy. She also shares specific essential oils that can support men's sexual health and address issues like erectile dysfunction and enlarged prostate. Melody explains the different ways to use essential oils and highlights a BOGO special on Rose and Jasmine oils. Connect with Melody on Instagram @MelodyCWatts and visit her website MelodyWatts.net for more information. To get any of the oils Melody mentioned and the BOGO deal with wholesale prices, I created a cart for you, in which you can simply remove or add the items that you want using the hyperlink. Takeaways ✅ Essential oils can help break down emotional barriers and enhance intimacy. ✅ Specific essential oils like Neroli, Cedarwood, and Jasmine can support emotional connection and arousal. ✅ Essential oils like Clary Calm, Geranium, and Whisper can help balance hormones and increase libido. ✅ For men's sexual health, oils like Zendocrine, Ginger, and Birch can be beneficial. ✅ Essential oils can be used topically, internally, and diffused to support overall well-being. ✅ Toxic masculinity and emotional imbalances can contribute to sexual health issues. ✅ Take advantage of the BOGO special on Rose and Jasmine oils to experience their benefits. Joel Evan Coaching
In view of the numerous health problems Americans have that are related to sexual issues, I need to take a respectful and scholarly approach to discuss: sex, orgasms, and improving whole health through healthier sexual relations. Many of the topics today are taboo for some because of social beliefs or absolute embarrassment, but again, I'm sharing some insights and some of my reading research to help people understand what lies under so many health issues from weight loss to movement constrictions to mental health and more--and it's about sex--or the absence of it altogether. Take what works for you; discard what does not apply...and take care of yourself too. Here are the books I recommended at the end of the show:"Ending Female Pain: A Woman's Manual; The Ultimate Self-Help Guide for Women Suffering from Chronic Pelvic and Sexual Pain" by Isa Herrera, MSPT, CSCS (2009)"Women's Anatomy of Arousal" by Sheri Winston, CNM, RN, BSN, LMT (2017)"Tantric Intimacy" by Katrina Bos (2017)"Sandstone Seduction: Rivers and Lovers, Canyons and Friends" by Katie Lee (2004)"Maps to Ecstasy: teachings of an urban shaman" by Gabrielle Roth (1989)*"Sensual Orchids" photo by Ron Jones
In this episode, my guest is Pavel Tsatsouline, a world-renowned strength and conditioning coach, former military special forces training instructor, author, and founder of StrongFirst—an online school focused on “low-tech, high-concept” training to build strength for men and women of all fitness levels. We discuss the most effective and efficient ways to build strength, endurance, and flexibility. We cover bodyweight-only, free-weight, and machine-based protocols and describe training splits and lesser-known but highly effective ways to train, especially for people with limited time. We also discuss local versus systemic nervous system and muscle recovery, how to complete training sessions with increased energy, why training to “failure” is not advised, optimal rest-between-sets protocols to improve performance, and how to vary effort levels across each week and month to ensure regular progress. This episode brings you highly practical, science-supported, and real-world-tested training methods to build strength, endurance, and flexibility from one of the world's top experts. Show notes: https://go.hubermanlab.com/YC80Wvt Sponsors AG1: https://drinkag1.com/huberman Eight Sleep: https://eightsleep.com/huberman Levels: https://levels.link/huberman LMNT: https://drinklmnt.com/huberman Joovv: https://joovv.com/huberman Maui Nui: https://mauinuivenison.com/huberman Timestamps 00:00:00 Pavel Tsatsouline 00:02:29 Fitness, Strength, Model Athlete 00:07:19 Tool: Essential Training Movements 00:13:46 Sponsors: Eight Sleep & Levels 00:16:29 Dips, Pull-Ups, Farmer Carry, Tools: Kettle Bell Mile, Grip Strength & Longevity 00:29:57 Concentric vs Eccentric Only Movements, Isometric, Tool: Pause Reps 00:38:38 Sponsor: AG1 00:39:53 “Greasing the Groove”, Cramming Analogy, Strength is a Skill 00:48:27 Tool: Greasing the Groove Protocol 00:54:12 Tool: Movement & Motivation; Nervous System 01:00:00 Frequency & Recovery, Heterochronicity, Soviet vs American Training 01:10:25 Soviet vs American Strength Schools, Periodization, Recovery 01:20:00 Sponsors: LMNT & Joovv 01:22:45 Bell Squat, Non-Spine Compressing Leg Work, Tool: Zercher Squat 01:27:15 Machines, Beginners vs Advanced? 01:28:41 Shorter Cycles? Linear & Wave Progression, Step Loading, Variable Overload 01:32:04 Strength & Endurance, Bodybuilding, “Bro Split” 01:40:28 Endurance, Cost of Adaptation, Heart Adaptations 01:46:38 Rest Periods, Interval Training, Tool: German Interval Training 01:51:34 Tool: Cardiovascular Training, Glycolytic Power Repeats; Muscle Growth 01:57:31 Sponsor: Maui Nui 01:59:00 Rest Period Activities, Tool: Protecting Back 02:04:33 Endurance Training, Anti-Glycolytic Revolution, Specialized vs Variety 02:11:30 Not Seeking the “Pump”, Repeated Sprint Ability, Tool: Anti-Glycolytic Endurance Training 02:19:06 Seek Soreness or Pump?, Hypertrophy 02:23:05 Tool: Planning Strength & Endurance Training, Individualization 02:32:27 Training Quality, Practiced Skill 02:35:39 Non-Athletes, Strength & Endurance, Training Duration 02:40:20 Post-Exercise Fatigue, Tools: Fragmentation, Feedback, Volume 02:48:01 Pre-Workout Stimulants 02:53:51 Performance & Arousal, Breathing, Disinhibition, Emotion 03:03:42 Train to Failure?, Recovery 03:08:40 Flexibility, Range of Motion Training, Kettle Bell, Tool: Wall Squat 03:14:57 Training for Flexibility; Training as a Practice 03:17:46 Older Adults & Strength Training, Consistency Over Intensity 03:25:08 Body-Weight vs Barbell vs Kettlebell Training 03:34:06 Kettlebell Training, Swings, Power & Endurance 03:41:55 Training Choices, Tool: Simple, Consistent Program 03:47:38 Kids & Training, General vs Specialization? 03:51:21 Core Work, Abdominals, Tools: Tension & Attention; ‘Pressurize' Abs 04:03:34 Breathing, Force, Strength 04:05:02 Directing Gaze While Weightlifting 04:12:37 Zero-Cost Support, YouTube, Spotify & Apple Follow & Reviews, Sponsors, YouTube Feedback, Protocols Book, Social Media, Neural Network Newsletter
Episode 29 is here! We had Valentine Komissarouk on to discuss the sport, GRC and how it has changed the way she trains and works with dogs. We also discussed how GRC has helped each of us in working with dogs who tend to get overly aroused and how to work dogs through those different arousal states. To learn more about Valentine and her work, you can check out her website and visit her Instagram and Facebook pages, Chromatic-K9. To learn more about Anthony De Marinis and Vinny Viola, visit their website's below.Anthony De Marinis- De Marinis Dog Training & BehaviorVinny Viola- Canine Jester Dog Training
In this episode of The LightInside, host Jeffrey Besecker delves into the concept of conditional self-worth and its impact on our relationships. He examines the subconscious and unconscious patterns that contribute to the "nice guy syndrome," exploring how early attachment wounds and covert social contracts shape our behaviors. The discussion highlights the chronic issues of over-acquiescence or ‘people-pleasing', avoidance, and emotional dependency—prompting listeners to reflect on whether these patterns serve them or lead to self-sabotage. Join us as we unravel the forces behind conditional self-worth and discover pathways to healthier social connections.Timestamps:[00:02:22] Nice guy syndrome explained.[00:05:13] Conditional love and connection.[00:07:23] Conditional love and protection.[00:10:44] Isolation and anxiety spiral.[00:13:16] Healthy acceptance of fear.[00:16:34] Childhood emotional needs and conflicts.[00:20:23] Fear and hypervigilance in relationships.[00:22:27] Vulnerability and emotional sharing.[00:27:17] Courage to be disliked.[00:29:25] Disagreeing while staying authentic.[00:32:01] Vulnerability and authentic relationships.[00:36:36] Attachment styles and nice guy syndrome.[00:39:35] Arousal misattribution and identity.[00:42:54] Healthy rejection and emotional intelligence.[00:44:31] Rejection and personal narrative.[00:48:20] Ego development and self-perception.[00:52:20] Emotional wounds and relationships.[00:56:17] Staying in emotional tension.[00:56:58] Overcoming shame through connection.[01:00:06] Reframing emotions for self-acceptance.[01:03:56] Anger as a call to action.[01:07:01] Healthy boundaries and nice guy syndrome.[01:10:18] People-pleasing and emotional dependency.JOIN US ON INSTAGRAM: @thelightinsidepodcastSUBSCRIBE: pod.link/thelightinsideCredits:Featured Guest: Jay ScottExecutive Producer: Jeffrey BeseckerExecutive Program Director: Anna GetzMixing, Engineering, Production and Mastering: Aloft Media Studio
We explore insights into Understanding Impatience and Its Emotional Triggers – The Mismatch between our Expectations and Reality - 5 Ways to overcome Impatience. Patience is a skill that grows with practice and awareness. There is a worksheet link below the podcast that will guide you through strategies and exercises to cultivate patience while fostering a sense of serenity and peace in your daily life. Use this as a tool to pause, reflect, and redirect your energy when impatience arises. Ø LinK: Cultivating Patience and Inner Peace Worksheet Reclaim your independence with a Psychiatric Service Dog—fly free, live worry and deposit-free in 'no-pet' housing, and access public places confidently under ADA law with the training from Joanne S. Williams, LCSW expert knowledge. Take the first step towards confidence with a 30-second free assessment to see if you qualify at ServiceDogPro.com! Free 30 minute focus call with Joanne to get you moving in a focused direction.
Parenting in the digital age can feel like an impossible balancing act - how do we keep our kids' brains healthy when screens are everywhere? Today, I'm joined by Dr. Carrie Mackensen, a clinical psychologist turned parent coach, who's here to help us navigate the world of attention engineers, hyper-arousal, and setting tech boundaries without the guilt. If you've ever worried about screen time, digital dopamine hits, or just how to raise a thriving kid in today's world, this one's for you. Let's get into it.Highlights:(05:12) The Reality of Parenting in a Digital World (18:45) How Screens Impact Brain Development(34:10) The Role of Attention Engineers (47:33) Practical Strategies for Reducing Screen Time(55:21) The Power of Boredom and Real-Life ExperiencesFind out more about Dr. Carrie Mackensen:WebsiteScreenStrongLinkedIn: Carrie Mackensen, Ph.D.Instagram: successful_parenthttps://successfulparent.substack.com/Qualia Mind - click hereCoupon Code: SHOCKANDYALL (15% off any purchase)Visit Nicole's on demand fitness platform for live weekly classes and a recorded library of yoga, strength training, guided audio meditations and mobility (Kinstretch) classes, as well: https://www.sweatandstillness.comGrab Nicole's bestselling children's book and enter your email for A FREE GIFT: https://www.yolkedbook.comFind Nicole on Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/nicolesciacca/Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thenicolesciaccaFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/nicolesciaccayoga/Youtube:https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC1X8PPWCQa2werd4unex1eAPractice yoga with Nicole in person in Santa Monica, CA at Aviator Nation Ride. Get the App to book in: https://apps.apple.com/us/app/aviator-nation-ride/id1610561929Book a discovery call or virtual assessment with Nicole here: https://www.calendly.com/nicolesciaccaThis Podcast is Proudly Produced by Wavemakers AudioMentioned in this episode:www.Neurohacker.com/shockandyall and use the code SHOCKANDYALL to get 15% off your first order
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Hello, my loves! Welcome back to The Love Revival podcast with your host, Melissa Peters. This week is extra special because it's my birthday week! As I reflect on another year of immense growth, I'm celebrating with you by sharing a truly transformative episode on The Secret to Female Arousal. In this episode, we're diving deep into the stages of female arousal, how to honor your body's unique rhythm, and the power of creating safety and connection in intimacy. Whether you're exploring your own arousal or learning to understand your partner's, this conversation will open doors to deeper pleasure, connection, and joy. In This Episode, You'll Hear: ✨The six stages of female arousal and how to embrace each one fully ✨Why foreplay isn't just a “nice-to-have” but a must for deeper intimacy ✨The concept of sexual “brakes” and “accelerators” and how they influence arousal ✨How to create safety, connection, and curiosity in your intimate life ✨Tips for shifting from goal-oriented sex to a more present and fulfilling experience ✨Why mismatched libidos or unshared desires are opportunities for growth, not obstacles ✨The importance of checking in with your body and emotions to ensure you're a full-body “yes” Ways to Work With Me: ✨Magnetic Heart: Breast Massage for Feminine Sensuality, Opening and Healing Your Heart ✨Sacred Sexuality: Online Program for Women, Embody Your Authentic Sexual Expression ✨Women's Coaching: Healing, Female Sexuality, Expand Your Pleasure, Step into Your Power ✨Couples Coaching: Luxury 2:1 for Couples looking for Deeper Connection, Better Communication, Explore Sexual Edges and Heal Together ✨Book your Complimentary Consultation Call to See How I Can Best Serve You! Connect with Me: Let's keep the conversation going! Follow me on Instagram and share your biggest takeaway from this episode. Tag me in your stories so I can celebrate your journey with you. ✨Instagram: @IAmMelissaPeters ✨Pinterest: @IAmMelissaPeters ✨Website: IAmMelissaPeters.com If this episode resonated with you, I'd love to hear from you! DM me on Instagram @IAmMelissaPeters and share your key takeaways and feedback. Don't forget to subscribe, leave a review, and share this episode with someone who'd love it! Until next time, remember—you are beautiful, worthy, and oh-so-deserving of a love-filled, pleasure-filled life.
Welcome to this week's new Podcast Episode. Jacqui Olliver is the founder/developer of Psychosexual Alignment, a revolutionary method to restore sexual function, deepen intimacy, and boost confidence in relationships. Psychosexual Alignment provides a practical approach to overcoming sexual problems such as premature ejaculation, erectile dysfunction, low libido, and challenges in reaching orgasm. By naturally balancing your brain and nervous system, this breakthrough method enables you to gain full control over the body/mind connection during sexual activity, helping you feel calm, focused, and fully connected, without reliance on drugs or therapy. GIFT Mutually satisfying sex starts here! Take sex and intimacy to a whole new level of connection with Jacqui's complimentary course "Mastering Your Focus for Arousal, Erection & Climax." Additionally, for a limited period, secure a BONUS Strategy Session with Jacqui herself, valued at over $197 https://www.endtheproblem.com/restore We are also talking about the Change Book Series and how that movement impacted her life. Please join us for this Incredible Podcast Episode Get 45% off the Magic Mind bundle with with my link: https://magicmind.com/breaksilencejan #magicmind #mentalwealth #mentalperformance Book a 30-minute Breakthrough Call with me today: https://www.letsbreakthesilence.com Check out my 9-week LBS Signature Program: https://www.letsbreakthesilence.com/s... Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/sh Like, follow, and subscribe to the "Let's Break the Silence with Angeline" podcast on Spotify, Apple, Google, and iHeart Radio: https://www.letsbreakthesilence.com/p...
In this episode, my guest is Josh Waitzkin, former child chess prodigy and the subject of the movie and true story Searching for Bobby Fischer. Josh is also a world champion martial arts competitor and the author of the book The Art of Learning. We discuss Josh's childhood as a chess prodigy and how he learned to train and compete at the highest levels by facing his fears and overcoming points of weakness. He explains the principles that unify disparate physical and mental pursuits and how understanding the interconnectedness of the learning process enables ultra-high-level performance across disciplines. We explore how to structure one's day to tap into the most creative, generative, and unique capabilities. Josh shares his approach to learning, including how to address flaws and mistakes and how to harness the subtle and overt energies of the learning and peak performance process. He also discusses how he structures his life and makes decisions related to career and family. This episode is sure to inspire deep thinking and practical life changes for all who listen. Read the full episode show notes at hubermanlab.com. Thank you to our sponsors AG1: https://drinkag1.com/huberman Wealthfront**: https://wealthfront.com/huberman Our Place: https://fromourplace.com/huberman Joovv: https://joovv.com/huberman Function: https://functionhealth.com/huberman Eight Sleep: https://eightsleep.com/huberman **This experience may not be representative of the experience of other clients of Wealthfront, and there is no guarantee that all clients will have similar experiences. Cash Account is offered by Wealthfront Brokerage LLC, Member FINRA/SIPC. The Annual Percentage Yield (“APY”) on cash deposits as of December 27, 2024, is representative, subject to change, and requires no minimum. Funds in the Cash Account are swept to partner banks where they earn the variable APY. Promo terms and FDIC coverage conditions apply. Same-day withdrawal or instant payment transfers may be limited by destination institutions, daily transaction caps, and by participating entities such as Wells Fargo, the RTP® Network, and FedNow® Service. New Cash Account deposits are subject to a 2-4 day holding period before becoming available for transfer. Timestamps 00:00:00 Josh Waitzkin 00:03:21 Chess, Competition & Performance 00:10:50 Martial Arts, Tai Chi, Jiu-Jitsu, Foiling, Training Others 00:14:41 Sponsors: Wealthfront & Our Place 00:17:43 Theory of Mind, Chess, Strategy & Mindset 00:26:39 Early Chess Training 00:32:30 Failure & Change, Chess, Tension, Power of Empty Space 00:43:22 Sponsors: AG1 & Joovv 00:48:06 Grief, Competition Loss, Growth, Frustration Tolerance 00:57:22 Arousal, Frame Rates, Intense Moments 01:06:17 Frame Rates & Pupil Size; Firewalking, Training 01:13:12 Sponsor: Function 01:15:58 Stress & Recovery, Tools: Doing Less, Most Important Question (MIQ) 01:23:24 Tool: Still Body, Active Mind; Shame, Strengthening Weaknesses 01:32:02 Child Prodigies, Brittle; Chess Principles & Transfer to Life 01:43:22 Sponsor: Eight Sleep 01:44:48 Preconscious vs Postconscious 01:52:02 Hypoxic Breathwork Caution & Drowning; Foiling, Fear, Postconscious 01:57:05 Static vs Dynamic Mindset, High Performers 02:05:48 Comebacks, Hunting Adversity, Living on Other Side of Pain, Tool: Cold Plunge 02:19:20 Ego, Identity, Unbreakable Will 02:29:18 Studying People; Chess, Computers; Science & AI; Ocean & Control 02:40:37 Time, Future Direction, True to Self, Wounds 02:51:07 Daily Routine, Individualization, Waking Up, Tool: MIQ Gap Analysis 03:00:21 Tool: MIQ; Stuck Points, Distraction 03:05:58 Reflective vs Stimulus-Response, Optimize Quality not Quantity 03:14:12 Zero-Cost Support, YouTube, Spotify & Apple Follow & Reviews, Sponsors, YouTube Feedback, Social Media, Protocols Book, Neural Network Newsletter Disclaimer & Disclosures
Want to make your intimate moments last longer? In this episode, we're diving into the secrets of prolonging arousal for men, exploring everything from practical techniques and medication options to mindset shifts that can enhance your experience. We'll also tackle the deeper issues that can impact your ability to fully enjoy intimacy. If you've ever wished for a little more time in the heat of passion, this episode is a must-listen!
What to listen for:“If I cannot, in five repetitions, isolate a variable down and get it where I want it, I do need to stop. That doesn't mean the next time we'll be successful. What that tells me is, don't do the same thing again and again and again. And there's been a lot of variation. Isolate that variable. It looks good now. Put it back in a chain, it doesn't look good. What have I done wrong?”In part one of this two-part discussion, Robin Greubel and Crystal Wing sit down with special guest Denise Fenzi, a trainer and educator who specializes in building cooperation, joy, and extreme precision in competition dog sports teams.“Patterns lead to confidence. Unpredictable leads to listening.”Famous for breaking down complex concepts into bite-sized lessons, Denise does a deep dive into a training philosophy that stresses adaptability and prioritizing the dog's wellbeing. She discusses how to build your dog's vocabulary via strategic repetition, as well as her approach to encouraging or disrupting behavioral patterns during training.“The more ways you generalize the behavior, the better the dog gets at those behaviors.”Denise shares why tools like choke chains and e-collars might be a thing of the past, and why tailored, humane options like aversives better enhance understanding and cooperation between you and your dog–which in turn fosters a bond built on trust and respect rather than pain and fear.“A behavior chain is simply a bunch of behaviors strung together, so you have to get comfortable with degrees of messiness.”Finally, Denise unravels the complexities of behavior chains and the balance between instinctual behaviors and structured learning. She walks us through the art of rewarding gradual progress and adapting training techniques to maintain a dog's confidence.Key Topics:Denise's Training Methodology (06:51)Applying Micro Behaviors To Full Training Scenarios (20:22)Generalizing Behaviors (26:13)Drive Versus Arousal (35:50)Resources:Fenzi Dog Sports AcademyWe want to hear from you:Check out the K9 Detection Collaborative FB page and comment on the episode post!K9Sensus Detection Dog Trainer AcademyK9Sensus Foundation can be found on Facebook and Instagram. We have a Trainer's Group on Facebook!Scentsabilities Nosework is also on Facebook. Here is a Facebook group you should join!Crystal Wing K9 Coach can be found here at CB K9 and here at Evolution Working Dog Club. Also, check out her Functional Obedience Class here.You can follow us for notifications of upcoming episodes, find us at k9detectioncollaborative.comJingle by: www.mavericksings.comAudio editing & other podcast services by: www.thepodcastman.com
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The unexpected first experience of a blooming teenager. By Jane Doe Stuff 03. Listen to the Podcast at Steamy Stories. Venturing out the chaos of the big city and into the widely different landscape that is the region's countryside it is easy to acknowledge the existence of the distant big city. A small conglomerate of towns loosely connected by few roads, where a great number of land workers consumed vast amounts of life, seemed to willingly stand in direct opposition to the congested metropolitan life back at the coast. Janet Doe had grown up in this so called “village” and her opinion of the place had changed more the more she grew up. When she was a kid, it could be called a paradise: she could play in absolute freedom in the vastity of the fields, with her beloved dog and her much older brother watching over them, as happy as a lark. But not anymore.With her brother gone (lost to college) and her dog now too old to even walk, that precious corner of world had transformed from a refuge to an isolating prison, where all she felt was alone. She imagined many times how her life would be in the big city, how many friends she could make and, most importantly, she could spend time with, instead of only having school hours to interact with kids her age, before going home to loneliness. There she was, a once cheerful and creative little girl, now a bored and uninterested teenager at her last year of high school. It didn't take long for her family to notice the change, but the first to propose something was her brother John as he got back home for the winter holydays. He proposed to their parents something artistic that could, in his opinion, bring back a smile on the face of little Jenny. He had always had a soft spot for his little sister, and he genuinely cared about her well-being, even though he'd never tell her to her face. Never in his life he could have imagined how much this little proposal of his would have changed Jenny. Or the way it'd change her. The parents weren't hard to convince and with the start of the new year, after a few phone calls from the siblings' mom, Jenny would have her first piano lesson. She had always been captivated by the piano in the living room, but also had been too scared to try to play it. The piano was first bought by her father as a decorative piece of furniture and never seriously used, for none of the family members knew how to play it properly. This is where our story finally begins. In a cold and still mid-January afternoon, Janet and her mom were waiting to meet the new piano teacher. The only thing they knew was that he was a mature man and was one the few who was willing to venture to their isolated home thrice a week for a cheap pay. Mrs. Doe had taken a free afternoon from her job to meet the mysterious man in person and decide if he was trustworthy to be left (eventually alone), with her ‘little girl'. At 3.55 p.m., five minutes earlier than agreed, the teacher rang the intercom outside the front gate of the property. “He's here!” Jenny's mom jumped out of the sofa as she was saying this, with a mixture of excitement and nervousness in her voice. She pressed a button which opened the gate and stood at the house's door and started peeking at the man who was walking up to her porch. As he got closer to the door, she showed herself to him and greeted him with an educated smile. Jenny stood just inside the front entry. “Good afternoon, madame. I'm Thomas, we spoke on the phone.” The two women were a little stunned by the appearance of the man: his voice was deep and controlled, he spoke slowly and surely as only men of a certain age manage, but now that he was in front of them, they could see he was more of a boy than an adult man. Mrs. Doe, always speaking her mind, said to the stranger: “I didn't expect you to be so young, Thomas. I'm honestly a little surprised. How old are you if I may ask?” To which Thomas replied, without a hint of hesitation: “Twenty-three, madame. Don't worry, I'm used to people mistaking me for someone a little older.” After the brief exchange, Janet and her mom received the guest and had him sit at the dinner table across them, both curious to ask questions to him. The interview began. “Feel free to ask any question you'd like madame,” said the young man. Jenny's mom didn't need him to tell her that and started a thorough interrogatory. It turned out Thomas wasn't a musician by trade, but a mathematician with a passion for music that had played the piano since he was a kid. His parents were middle class workers who expected much from him, and he wanted them to be proud: he used his time to study, practice various sports and cultivating his love for music. No unnecessary distractions, pauses or vacations. This brought him to get a master's degree in mathematics at an Ivy League college on a scholarship (no student debt for him) and having all the necessary pieces of paper to go and make a difference in the world at only 23 years old. Unfortunately, at the end of his journey all the fatigue from his inhumane routine caught up with him and he came to an enlightening and probably even life-saving realization: he was spent, completely and utterly spent. So, he said goodbye to his parents once again as he chose the most God-forgotten rural destination where to decompress and rest for some time, maybe even a couple of years. As he kept telling them about his life, both women could feel the weight of Thomas' experience and how it molded him into the person they were speaking. The collectedness that had wondered them at first had now an explanation, since that was the only attitude that would get him through a life of rigid discipline without slowly going into a major depression. He was pragmatic and stoic, but also kind and gentle, the type of gentleness of someone who knows he is strong and therefore has little need for pretending to be tough. Mrs. Doe could read his character like a book from the words he spoke and was very impressed by what she read in him. The interview proceeded in a semi-formal tone, except a few jokes by Mrs. Doe, like when she asked if for “no unnecessary distractions” he meant he never had a girlfriend, to which Thomas elegantly answered: “I wouldn't call a woman an unnecessary distraction, madame”, making Mrs. Doe like him even more. At the end of the questioning, after settling the matters of pay and weekly schedule, Mrs. Doe turned to her daughter and asked: “What do you think Jenny, would you like to try giving him a chance?” “I; I guess we can give it a shot.” These words brought her back to reality, from the depths of her thoughts where she was about to drown. During the interview, the whole interview, Jenny's mind was in a realm of its own, where all she could think about was that she hoped nobody would notice how wet she was getting. Since greeting him at the door she was hypnotized by the looks and ways of the young man. Thomas was tall and well built, so much that his wide shoulders and proud chest stood out even if he was wearing a suit. His hair was a light shade of brown, freshly cut and quite short on the sides, almost looking like a military haircut. His beard was shaved, and his cheeks looked smooth, revealing a firm jawline. Brown eyes, darker than the shade of his hair, a regular, straight nose and a nice white smile. He would surely be considered handsome by the average girl, just for the fact that he was physically fit, but to Jenny he was exactly her type. She found him irresistible in every way: the voice, the face, the body were making her insides lubed as if she was melting. Jenny was a girl at that age. At eighteen years old, her body was now fully craving the sweet forbidden fruit that is the taste of a man. And now she was right in the middle of experiencing her first crush. She was average height, around 5'5'', with C-cup breasts and a slender, athletic body. The face of angel, with delicate round shapes, full lips, piercing brown eyes and dark ginger hair. A rare, tasteful beauty in the middle of blooming, that promised greatly of the woman she'd become. The first lesson, under the supervision of her mother, had her trying harder to contain her hormones than to learn the piano. Nonetheless, Mrs. Doe thought Thomas had done a good job at teaching and trusted him to come on Wednesday, where he and Jenny would be unsupervised. Janet had spent the time waiting for the next lesson in a horny fever. She masturbated more times that she could count and imagined tons of scenarios where Thomas tried to seduce her or to take her by force, never tired of imagining herself in his arms. Finally, the moment came, and she opened the door to him once more. As soon as they exchanged greetings, all she wanted to do was to jump him and French kiss him, but her shame stopped her. The lesson went on as she looked in an almost feverish state, to the point where Thomas asked her if she was feeling ill. She couldn't live like that, and she knew it. She couldn't live her life holding herself back. But as the weeks went by something unexpected happened. After spending many afternoons with him the lust became controllable and changed into something else: love. The two had spoken much with each other, often putting aside the piano for a chit chat. Thomas had opened completely with her, for he was a person who didn't hide anything from the people he really liked, and Janet felt the need to return his honesty and had taken the habit of telling him how she felt without hesitation. This brought them closer than they were to anyone at that moment of their lives and made it a most important relationship beyond physical attraction. As the winter melted away to leave room for spring, things with the not-yet-a-couple started to warm up too. The first notable change was in Thomas: since Jenny had told him the previous month that she never had a boyfriend he couldn't shake the thought of her being a beautiful young woman from his mind. He had long abandoned viewing her as a child and started noticing the hints he was too blind to see before: how she clung to him whenever she could, the look in her eyes when he made her laugh, the awkward blushing her cheeks did whenever he got closer or took her hand on the piano. At the beginning of spring, he was finally convinced Jenny liked him, which put him in a dilemma: to be or not to be, (with her). Thomas felt very attracted by her body and during the previous months had come to know how much of a smart and funny and gentle girl she was. If she was just a little older and he wasn't her teacher, he would have taken a shot at her without overthinking it. Instead of being consumed by the dilemma of making or not a move towards her, he decided that he'd only accept her feeling if she confessed to him, so that he wouldn't abuse of the power of being her teacher. A most practical conclusion, as expected of him. If only Jenny could take a decision just as easily. Ironically, to face the dilemma of confessing to Thomas, she asked herself what he would do in her place. Obviously, he would face it head on, with only the practical approach in mind, she thought. She wasn't quite ready for that level of straightforwardness, so she opted for a compromise: she'd tell him she was dying to kiss him from the first moment she saw him and see his reaction. If it were to go south, she could always play it a joke, as teenage girls tend to do. That is how, in a warm spring afternoon, exactly three months after their first meeting, Thomas and Janet came to stand in front of each other in the living room, their arms holding one another, their tongues intertwined in a warm, moist embrace. When they finally separated, after two full minutes of silence and kissing, Jenny could only say: “Oh my God, Tommy. It was beautiful…” “Yeah;” he breathlessly replied. Janet took him by the hand and guided him to her room, upstairs; Thomas following her from behind, not in need of an explanation. Once in her room, the door and the curtains closed, at the dim light of the afternoon sun barely filtering through the window, they started kissing again. Thomas was holding her head with his fingers in her hair, and slowly sliding his other hand from her hip to her ass, as they kept tasting each other, never having enough of it. His taste was slightly bitter, hers a little sweet. Jenny, although surprised to be wanted back at first, wanted to show him she was going all the way. She pulled her lips away and looked him in the eyes. Then, without breaking eye contact, she grabbed the hand holding her hair, put it on her breast and whispered: “I want you…” Thomas took the hand she had put on her breast and guided it to the bulge in his pants, letting Jenny feel the effect she had on him, then answered: “I want you too…” He then proceeded to undress her gently, and inviting her to undress him, until finally nothing stood between their naked bodies. “You're beautiful, Jenny. You're an angel.” She blushed, because she knew he really did think so. They explored each other's bodies with their hands, then with their lips, kissing every spot from head to toe, needing to know their partner. Then they put their hands in each other's parts. Jenny felt a rock hard, warm member ready to love her in every way and Thomas felt a drooling slit, soft and tender, begging of that love. They started masturbating each other while still standing and kissing. Thomas was gently massaging her clit, pressing and caressing in an expert way, making Jenny tremble a little, while she was stroking his dick gently, often pausing because of the pleasure he gave her. Being touched felt great, but what was making her lose her mind was being touched while holding his hard dick in her hands, feeling how long it took for her small hand to stroke it all the way and feeling him leaking precum. Thomas felt how moist her pussy was, but he knew she was a virgin. He stopped stroking her clit and was about to tell her to get on the bed so he could lick her, but she had other plans. As soon as he let go of her pussy, in a swift movement, she kneeled before him and put her face under his cock, looking up to him with puppy eyes. She opened her mouth, and she took him inside, trying to go all the way to the base, only to choke and take it out. “Easy, girl…” said Thomas softly, caressing her cheek. She paused for a moment to catch her breath and went back to his cock. This time she focused only on the tip, slowly trying to take a little more every time she could. Thomas was breathing heavily as the feeling of her blowjob was filling his balls with cum. It wasn't the best technique, but her sheer love for it was arousing him to levels he had never reached before. Arousal was becoming an issue for Jenny too. The feeling of having Thomas in her mouth, so hard and pulsing with pleasure, forcing her jaw open and sliding on her tongue was making her wet pussy ache in desperation. Thomas put his hands on Jenny's face and with the cock still in her mouth he said to her: “I want to take you. Now. I need to take you.” Jenny felt a throb both in her heart and in her pussy. She quickly got on the bed and spread her legs, revealing how her thighs were covered in wet pussy lube. “Come here…” she invited him. Thomas got on top of her and in between her legs. “Are you sure?” he said to her, genuinely concerned about how she felt. “I'm sure, Tommy. I want you to make love to me. Am I good enough for you?” Now it was his heart's turn to throb, as well as his cock's. “More than good. You're perfect.”, he resolutely assured her, with a quivering in his voice. With the hesitation gone he started poking at her pussy's entrance, before gently putting the tip in. Jenny could feel his girth and was already hurting but wanted him to fill her up; so she gladly endured it. Thomas was now pushing his dick deeper inside her, slowly and gently. Her pussy was bleeding, so he was a little worried, but she was so tight he couldn't stop thinking about the pleasure. Finally, after what seemed like an eternity, he managed to go all the way inside her. Jenny was a little tearful, both from the pain and the joy of being one with him. “I'm so glad it's you, Tommy. Thank God it's you…” He wiped her tears off her cheeks and decided it was time to confess his feelings to her: “I love you, Jenny. I wish I had realized it sooner, but I know it now. This may not be my first time, but you are my first love.” The tears started pouring back from Jenny's eyes and Tommy embraced her and kissed her, always staying inside her, but staying still, not moving. After kissing him for a while Jenny told him she felt better and was ready for him to move. What followed was a passionate love making where both were experiencing pleasure beyond anything they thought was possible. Tommy reveled in her tight virgin pussy, so eager and wet from both juices and blood. It was a feeling incomparable to the girls he had before, and he kept plowing her with only his animal instincts guiding him. Jenny was in a whirlwind of emotions and sensations: horny and in love, in pain and in pleasure, crying but with joy. She was thrusting her hips into him ignoring the pain and accepting the pleasure. And she was looking at him. His chiseled body sweating down on hers. She brought his head closer to her shoulder and whispered in his ear: “I'm in love with you Tommy. I'm in love with you and I'm about to cum…” Those words awakened something in Thomas. He pounded her with even more vigor, always careful not to make the pain surpass the pleasure. “I want us to cum together. I'll come with you,” he said while panting to her ear. “Yes Tommy, give it to me! Make me yours!”. Their breath kept getting shorter and their voices louder, until finally, moaning like animals in heat, they orgasmed in a hectic spasm. Jenny felt Tommy's blasts of semen filling her pussy and abandoned herself to the pleasure, almost passing out on the bed in a state of bliss. All the while Tommy was feeling his cock being milked dry by her pulsing pussy and held her by the hips so that the spasm wouldn't make him pull out. They were both satisfied. As they both recovered from the intensive climax, he lied down beside her and put her in his arms once again, holding her tight. She kissed him and put her head on his chest. She closed her eyes. They were both in love. By Jane Doe Stuff 03 for Literotica
No matter where you are on the journey of building your sexual strength and stamina, one thing that will always happen at times is the sudden "burst" of arousal. Learn how to handle it so you can build much better stamina. Schedule a coaching session with me: https://www.holisticalpha.com/getcoaching Join our community, The Brotherhood: https://www.holisticalpha.com/brotherhood What are your thoughts? Comment below. Like the show? Leave a 5 star rating - it will help more guys find it. Note: The show is best experienced (with video) on SPOTIFY. ----Let's connect: Website: https://www.holisticalpha.com Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/7naS5aTjRY5qpVHdaM7Qhb The Holistic Alpha Podcast helps men unleash their real power on a foundation of healed and empowered sexuality. Among the topics you'll find in the archives and going forward are overcoming porn addiction, practicing semen retention, healing erectile dysfunction & improving erection quality, mindful masturbation / edging, and much more. We also cover aspects of testosterone & hormonal health, mental & emotional health, discipline, and other aspects of unleashing our best self.
Dr. John Fleetham chats with Dr. Ludovico Messineo and Dr. Simon Joosten about their articles "Hypnotics on Obstructive Sleep Apnea Severity and Endotypes: A Systematic Review and Meta-Analysis" and "The Arousal Threshold: The ‘Weakest Link' in OSA Pathogenesis."
For any man struggling to seduce a woman, you will learn 4 keys to seduction, how to easily get a girl to like you, and beat the game of seduction. Learn the mistakes men make and ensure you don't do it yourself…after all building arousal is about more than manipulation tactics and tricks. Whether you're looking to improve your sex life or get her to stop pulling away, this episode provides practical guidance for you. Don't miss this essential guide to mastering the art of genuine seduction! Key Topics: 01:08 Understanding Arousal 01:45 The Five States of Arousal 02:57 Four Keys to Effective Seduction 03:05 The Power of Small Yeses 06:21 Erotic Intelligence: Being on the Lookout 10:43 Emotional Safety and Openness 16:18 Practical Application of Seduction Techniques Connect with Kirsten Trammell https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/?hl=en https://www.thenakedconnection.com/ SUBMIT YOUR QUESTION: http://thenakedconnection.com/question Ready to totally transform your sex life? Visit https://www.thenakedconnection.com/guide and get your FREE orgasmic breathwork practice guide. This guide is here to help you experience more power, sensitivity, aliveness, and pleasure in just 10 minutes. Get Turned On FASTER Visit thenakedconnection.com/mood to try the plant-based and research-backed Sex Magic supplement from MOOD and use code NAKED for 15% off your order!
Click here to send me a quick message :) From pleasure to tissue healing to nurturing presence to tending generational trauma, so many of us have no idea what's possible in the palace of our pelvis. One thing that is especially wild to me is that we often believe what we see in the media is reality. As if all of us can just immediately feel lubricated and aroused and we can just have overwhelming orgasms in a five minute quickie. Maybe this is true in the Honeymoon or New Relationship Energy phase, when our bodies are just living in a state of arousal, but once we get beyond the excitement of the unknown and start acclimating to our partner/s, it takes *time* to become aroused. In today's episode, Juliana Rose Goldstone shares some real talk about arousal, including the time it takes (average 45 minutes for those of us with internal anatomy) annnnnd a pretty in depth map of our embodied pleasure centers (including the parts of the clitoris, locations in the vagina and the vulva), which you won't wanna miss.And then we talk scar tissue remediation, which is far more interesting than it sounds at first. Her descriptions of the melting of scar tissue that can happen when the environment is right are illuminating.It's not just about the biomechanics massage or therapeutic technique, but also about the emotional state, the biochemical state and more that can help us release years (potentially) decades of scar tissue buildup and tension. She tells a story of a client with chronic back pain who was due for surgery, who no longer needed surgery after working on the scar tissue from an episiotomy. This is big, whole body, whole being stuff. There's so much more in this conversation, so I invite you to listen for yourself.Listen to learn:the real deal of arousal in a female body (internal anatomy)what scar tissue really is vs what you think it is4 different factors for effective scar tissue remediationan innovative style of holistic pelvic carewhy nervous system relaxation is foundationalResources:Today's shownotes: Get links to Juliana's offeringsSign up for Natural Contraception - The Herbal Way (reg closes 12/13/24)Episode 27: Sex, relationships + psychedelicsEpisode 52: Beyond AphrodisiacsEpisode 64: Vagus nerve and sexual arousalIf you loved this episode, share it with a friend, or take a screenshot and share on social media and tag me @herbalwombwisdom. And if you love this podcast, leave a rating & write a review! It's really helpful to get the show to more amazing humans like you. ❤️DISCLAIMER: This podcast is for educational purposes only, I am not providing any medical advice, I am not a medical practitioner, I'm an herbalist and in the US, there is no path to licensure for herbalists, so my role is as an herbal educator. Please do your own research and consult your healthcare provider for any personal concerns.Support the showSupport the show
Whitney's Background (00:01:38) Whitney shares her role as a sex educator and pleasure coach, highlighting her work and retreats. Top Reasons Couples Stop Having Sex (00:02:02) Whitney introduces Todd Barish's study on the main reasons couples cease sexual activity. Unwanted Pain During Sex (00:02:11) Whitney explains how pain during sex, like vaginismus, can deter sexual activity and emphasizes communication. Addressing Pain (00:03:15) The importance of addressing unwanted pain and using lubrication to enhance sexual pleasure is discussed. Understanding Pain as Abnormal (00:04:02) Whitney clarifies that unwanted pain during sex is not normal and should be addressed. Vaginal Anatomy and Arousal (00:04:36) Whitney explains how arousal affects vaginal elasticity and the importance of adequate foreplay. Recognizing Arousal from the Outside (00:06:58) Whitney shares how partners can gauge arousal levels through touch during intimate moments. Menopause and Sexual Health (00:09:38) Whitney discusses menopause, its effects on sexual health, and the importance of hormone replacement therapy. Quality of Life Post-Menopause (00:11:07) The conversation highlights how women can maintain a satisfying sex life post-menopause. Boring Sex as a Barrier (00:14:06) Whitney introduces unresolved conflict and boring sex as major reasons for decreased sexual desire. Communication in Relationships (00:15:39) The importance of conscious communication in resolving conflicts and enhancing intimacy is emphasized. Creativity in Sex (00:16:54) Whitney stresses the need for creativity in sexual experiences to maintain interest and pleasure. Role-Playing Experiences (00:18:31) Whitney and Jennifer share their experiences with role-playing to keep their sex lives exciting. Pleasure Mapping (00:20:15) The concept of pleasure mapping is introduced as a way to deepen understanding of a partner's body. Exploring Novelty in Sex (21:27) Discussion on incorporating novelty and surprises in sexual encounters to enhance excitement. Scheduling Intimacy (22:07) Importance of scheduling sex for couples with busy lives, ensuring regular intimacy. Communicating Sexual Needs (24:06) The significance of clear communication about desires and energy levels in a relationship. Responsive Desire (26:13) Exploring the concept of responsive desire and how it can ignite intimacy. EP#91: Sexed Censorship Episode with Whitni Miller https://youtu.be/UAHuZ_bR3R8 Follow Whitni: https://www.instagram.com/bde.moves/ Follow Jen: https://www.instagram.com/theopenbedroompodcast/ --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/theopenbedroompodcast/support
On this episode: Nate and Aaron talk about different seasons of life. They share how important it is to balance parts of life, including: work, friends, play, and scheduling. Our Guest: Sam Jolman shares how he asked his brother to clarify sexual questions for him. They discuss how many people are sexually awakened and then immediately shamed. Sam shows us how to welcome one's sexuality, learning to respond with awe instead of lust. He talks about the different experiences of coming to sexual intimacy regulated and unregulated. And Aaron discusses how he raises his Ebenezer. Links: Sam Jolman Book: The Sex Talk You Never Got: Reclaiming the Heart of Masculine Sexuality Sponsor: Life Works Counseling If you have thoughts or questions that you'd like the guys to address in upcoming episodes or suggestions for future guests, please drop a note to piratemonkpodcast@gmail.com. The music on this podcast is contributed by members of the Samson Society and www.fiftysounds.com. For more information on this ministry, please visit samsonsociety.com. Support for the women who have been impacted by our choices is available at sarahsociety.com. The Pirate Monk Podcast is provided by Samson Society, a ministry of Samson House, a 501(c)3 nonprofit. To help support the vision, please consider a contribution to Samson House.
Understanding how calm is arousing, the powerful way that triggers can be opportunities, and the importance of letting go. Schedule a coaching session: https://www.holisticalpha.com/getcoaching Join our community, The Brotherhood: https://www.holisticalpha.com/brotherhood What are your thoughts? Comment below. Like the show? Leave a 5 star rating - it will help more guys find it. Note: The show is best experienced (with video) on SPOTIFY. ----Let's connect: Website: https://www.holisticalpha.com Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/7naS5aTjRY5qpVHdaM7Qhb The Holistic Alpha Podcast helps men unleash their real power on a foundation of healed and empowered sexuality. Among the topics you'll find in the archives and going forward are overcoming porn addiction, practicing semen retention, healing erectile dysfunction & improving erection quality, mindful masturbation / edging, and much more. We also cover aspects of testosterone & hormonal health, mental & emotional health, discipline, and other aspects of unleashing our best self.
In this episode, host Dr. Seema Khosla welcomes Dr. Danny J. Eckert, a sleep and respiratory physiologist and professor at Flinders University in Adelaide, Australia. Dr. Eckert is a leading expert in his field and the recipient of the 2023 European Respiratory Society Gold Medal in Sleep-Disordered Breathing. As the Director of the Adelaide Institute for Sleep Health, he discusses his groundbreaking work on OSA endotyping and the PALM classification system (Pcrit, Arousal threshold, Loop gain, and Muscle recovery). Discover why 70% of OSA patients have non-anatomical causes and how understanding these distinct endotypes can revolutionize treatment approaches. The conversation delves into practical applications for clinical settings, examining the roles of obesity and nasal obstruction in sleep apnea while discussing targeted therapeutic strategies, including GABAergic medications.
What if reigniting passion in your relationship wasn't just possible but downright transformational? Intimacy expert Susan Bratton spills the secrets of rekindling romance at any age and rediscovering connection with practical tips and tools that will add fire and desire to your love life. Whether you're looking to deepen your connection or simply spice things up, this conversation is your permission slip to embrace The Big O, learn about real lovemaking, and explore the health benefits of intimacy like never before. Get ready to start livin' libido loca! CONNECT WITH SUSAN BRATTON http://susanbratton.com/ USE HILARY'S DISCOUNT CODE FOR FORIA PRODUCTS https://www.foriawellness.com/?_ef_transaction_id=&oid=1&affid=77 GET SUSAN'S BOOK https://dirtytalkbook.com/ GET BRAIN CANDY DELIVERED TO YOUR INBOX https://www.hilaryrusso.com/braincandy WORK WITH HILARY https://www.hilaryrusso.com/havening CONNECT WITH HILARY https://www.hilaryrusso.com https://www.linkedin.com/in/hilaryrusso https://www.instagram.com/hilaryrusso https://www.youtube.com/hilaryrusso https://www.hilaryrusso.com/podcast MUSIC by Lipbone Redding https://www.lipbone.com/
Susan Bratton joins Alexandra Stockwell, MD, on the Intimate Marriage Podcast, to explore the concept of arousal, arousal differences and the art of intimate relating. They discuss the complexities of sexual and emotional fulfillment in long-term relationships, offering practical advice, and describing innovative techniques designed to reignite passion. Susan highlights the significance of recognizing the innate differences in male and female arousal patterns and addresses the negative impact societal repression has on sexual health. She introduces powerful tools such as yoni massage and making small offers to help couples cultivate a deeper, more satisfying connection. In sharing these strategies, Dr. Alexandra and Susan guide listeners on a transformative journey setting out with routine sexual experiences and arriving at ecstatic pleasure. Also in this episode: Deepen your understanding of the difference between a man's quicker arousal patterns and a woman's need for safety as doing so is crucial for mutual satisfaction. A vibrant and varied sex life is possible in monogamous relationships by focusing on mutual understanding and innovative practices. Communication is key to evolving sexual experiences, including verbal exchange about desires and physical responses to what is happening. Enhance Sensual Intimacy with Foria Wellness products! Unlock new levels of intimacy and wellness with Foria products which are designed to bring balance and pleasure to your relationship. Whether you're looking to explore natural enhancements or deepen your connection, Foria offers a range of wellness solutions crafted with care.
In this episode, my guest is Dr. Allan Schore, Ph.D., a faculty member in the department of psychiatry and behavioral sciences at the University of California, Los Angeles, a longtime clinical psychotherapist, and a multi-book author. We discuss how early child-parent interactions shape brain circuitry, impacting our ability to form attachments, manage emotions, and navigate conflict and stress. We cover how the development of right-brain circuitry related to emotional processing and the unconscious mind regulates physiological responses, influencing adult friendships and romantic relationships. We also explore how improving your ability to listen to the emotional tone—rather than just the meaning—of words is a vital skill for fostering better relationships with yourself and others, and how it plays a role in reshaping brain circuitry. Additionally, we explain how circuits in the right brain hemisphere drive creativity and intuition and discuss activities to access the unconscious mind. This episode delves into how the unconscious mind regulates emotions—both your own and others'—and shapes our sense of self. By the end, you'll have new knowledge and tools to build more secure, meaningful, and impactful connections of all kinds: professional, romantic, familial, friendships, and beyond. Access the full show notes for this episode, including referenced articles, resources, and people mentioned at hubermanlab.com. Thank you to our sponsors AG1: https://drinkag1.com/huberman David Protein: https://davidprotein.com/huberman Eight Sleep: https://eightsleep.com/huberman Function: https://functionhealth.com/huberman Timestamps 00:00:00 Dr. Allan Schore 00:02:37 Sponsors: David & Eight Sleep 00:05:49 Thoughts & Unconscious Mind 00.07:36 Right vs Left Brain, Child Development, Attachment 00:13:19 Attachment Styles & Development, Emotions & Physiology 00:18:12 Intuition, Arousal, Emotional Regulation & Attachment 00:23:13 Psychobiological Attunement, Repair; Insecure & Anxious Attachment 00:28:33 Attachment Styles, Regulation Theory; Therapy 00:34:20 Sponsor: AG1 00:35:51 “Surrender,” Therapy, Patient Synchronization 00:39:46 Synchrony, Empathy, Therapy & Developing Autoregulation 00:45:07 Mother vs Father, Child Development; Single Caretakers 00:50:51 MDMA, Right Brain; Fetal Development 00:55:58 Sponsor: Function 00:57:46 Integrating Positive & Negative Emotions, Quiet vs Excited Love 01:03:33 Splitting, Boarderline; Therapy & Emotions 01:09:24 Tool: Right Brain, Vulnerability & Repair 01:15:32 Right vs. Left Brain, Attention 01:19:26 Right Brain Synchronization, Eye Connection, Empathy 01:25:39 Music & Dogs, Resonance 01:30:58 Right Brain & Body; Empathic Connection, Body Language 01:36:47 Tool: Text Message, Communication, Relationships 01:42:18 Right Brain Dominance & Activities; Tool: Fostering the Right Brain 01:50:10 Defenses, Blind Spots 01:53:14 Creativity, Accessing the Right Brain, Insight 01:59:31 Paternal Leave, Parent-Child Relationships, Attachment 02:05:16 Zero-Cost Support, YouTube, Spotify & Apple Follow & Reviews, Sponsors, YouTube Feedback, Protocols Book, Social Media, Neural Network Newsletter Disclaimer & Disclosures
Dirtybitpodcast 324- A Little Halloween Smut Another naughty Halloween tale by JA Martin and read by SeXXXySherry. A woman has a wild night with a ghost. follow JA Martin X (twitter) @JaMartin1973 http://www.amazon.com/stores/JA%20Martin/author/B07XPB4D5H
In this episode of The Light Inside, host Jeffrey Besecker delves into the complexities of intuition with Intuitive Transformation Coach, Denise Miceli. The discussion focuses on the distinction between genuine intuition and the distortions caused by subconscious biases and emotional misattributions. Listeners will learn how primary and secondary behavior patterns, along with subconscious processes, shape our intuitive capabilities. The episode emphasizes the importance of recognizing the hidden influences that can cloud our decisions, encouraging self-reflection on whether our choices are guided by true insight or conditioned responses. Tune in to explore how to break free from the autopilot of misintuition and reconnect with your inner wisdom. Visit our blog for further info. on arousal misattribution: “The Intuition Illusion: Separating Wisdom from Bias” JOIN US ON INSTAGRAM: @thelightinsidepodcast SUBSCRIBE: pod.link/thelightinside https:www.thelightinside.site Featured Guest: Denise Miceli Credits: Music Score: Epidemic Sound Executive Producer: Jeffrey Besecker Mixing, Engineering, Production and Mastering: Aloft Media Executive Program Director: Anna Getz
Straight from the Source's Mouth: Frank Talk about Sex and Dating
Send us a textCan discussing sex openly break down societal stigmas and lead to healthier relationships? Join us for a thought-provoking episode where we challenge the taboos surrounding conversations about sex. Sarah, with her medical expertise, sheds light on how patients often shy away from discussing sexual health issues unless prompted by a physician. JJ offers a personal narrative about navigating sexual stigma from a young age, highlighting the significance of early sex education. This also establishes boundaries to prevent abusive relationships. This chapter underscores that open dialogue about sexuality is crucial for personal growth and building healthy adult relationships.Ever wondered if it's too late to discover your sensuality? Sharla's inspiring journey of embracing her sexuality later in life proves otherwise. We emphasize the need for open communication about sexual health, especially when dealing with medical challenges like cancer or erectile dysfunction. Distinguishing between desire and arousal, we explore how women's interest in sex evolves over time while still achieving fulfilling experiences. The revolutionary impact of Viagra for men and common misunderstandings about its use are also discussed, alongside the unique challenges women face due to the complexity of their sexual health. This chapter stresses the importance of transparent conversations with partners to overcome shame and enhance intimacy.Understanding female arousal involves more than just the physical act. Drawing from Dr. Cindy Messon's research and insights, we delve into the complexities of women's arousal, emphasizing context, mental state, and emotional well-being. We discuss how misinterpretations can lead to relationship issues and highlight the physiological and hormonal factors influencing women's sexual responsiveness, particularly how life events like childbirth can affect arousal. By sharing these insights, we aim to foster open communication and self-awareness, essential elements for maintaining healthy sexual relationships. Support the showThanks for listening!Check out this site for everthing to know about women's pleasure including video tutorials and great suggestions for bedroom time!!https://for-goodness-sake-omgyes.sjv.io/c/5059274/1463336/17315Take the happiness quiz from Oprah and Arthur Brooks here: https://arthurbrooks.com/buildNEW: Subscribe monthly: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1805181/support Email questions/comments/feeback to tamara@straightfromthesourcesmouth.co Website: https://straightfromthesourcesmouthpod.net/Instagram: @fromthesourcesmouth_franktalkTwitter: @tamarapodcastYouTube and IG: Tamara_Schoon_comic
In this conversation, we discuss the critical role of arousal in dog training with Helen. We emphasise the importance of understanding both the dog's and handler's arousal levels to achieve optimal performance in dog sports. We talk about the complexities of canine behaviour, particularly focusing on the concept of over-arousal in dogs, especially working breeds like Border Collies. We explain how over-arousal can affect a dog's ability to perform tasks and how it is often linked to their genetic programming. We also highlight the importance of physical health, right exercise outlets and handler awareness to support dogs effectively. We stress the significance of understanding a dog's behaviour in the context of their physical and emotional well-being, advocating for a compassionate approach to training and handling. In this conversation, we also explore the complexities of dog ownership, focusing on the expectations that owners have versus the reality of training and living with dogs. We emphasise the importance of understanding the dog's behaviour, the handler's mindset, and the need for proper skills in dog training. We cover the differentiation between arousal and reactivity in dogs, the significance of mental stimulation and free movement, and the role of medication in managing dog behaviour. Throughout the conversation, we share insights on creating a positive and effective training environment for both dogs and their owners. Do you want to know ore about Hélène work? Follow her on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/helenelawlercoaching Join my Puppy Training Diary Membership today: https://thatlldoacademy.thrivecart.com/puppy-training-diary/ Tug e Nuff Toys! I'm excited to be able to offer you all my favourite toys into a bundle at a special price JUST FOR YOU, my podcast listeners! Follow this link to learn more and listen back to Episode 70 to learn more about how I use these toys in my everyday training with my dogs and my students https://www.tug-e-nuff.co.uk/pages/border-collie-geek Book a Discovery Call with me, let's have a free chat about your dog and your training goals: https://calendly.com/martina-thatlldoacademy/discovery-calls Get in touch: https://thatlldoacademy.com/contact/ Join the Collie Club, my Online Academy for Border Collie Owners! https://thatlldoacademy.com/online-academy/ To follow me on social media: Facebook : https://www.facebook.com/ThatllDoAcademy/ Instagram : https://www.instagram.com/bordercollie_geek/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thebordercolliegeek
What is your relationship to physical pleasure? Today is all about investigating this question so you can experience more of it. We'll talk about how you can boost pleasure, dive in to how desire and arousal get confused with pleasure, and how to focus on what really brings deep satisfaction. Learn more about me, get a FREE GUIDE to FINDING YOUR DEEPEST TURN-ONS, inquire about coaching, and learn how to get help with relationships and intimacy at https://laurajurgens.com. Get a transcript of this episode by going to https://sexhelpforsmartpeople.buzzsprout.com/ Click on the episode, then choose the transcript tab.
What to listen for:"I found that the things I taught in higher arousal have held up better in higher arousal environments. The things done very slowly in lower arousal haven't held up as well."Ever wondered why some detection dogs excel under pressure while others not so much? Join in exploring the dynamic world of canine detection training, guided by the unique experiences of our hosts Robin Greubel, Stacy Barnett, and Crystal Wing. They share their journeys through the challenges of maintaining behavioral fluency in high-arousal situations, breaking down the complexities of foundational training and behavior chains. They emphasize the unpredictable nature of well-trained dogs when faced with new stimuli and the critical balance between fluency and arousal.The next segment offers a deep dive into high-arousal training methods, where practical advice meets real-world scenarios. Discover the transformative power of teaching commands during high-energy moments and how these techniques can solidify behaviors in unexpected environments. They also discuss the importance of introducing dogs to varied conditions early on, ensuring their training is resilient and adaptable. This chapter challenges conventional wisdom, highlighting our evolving understanding of canine behavior.The Dames of Detection also tackle the intricacies of tracking training, managing arousal, and setting boundaries. Learn about maintaining a steady training pace and fostering intrinsic motivation in dogs. From the balance required in reinforcement to the importance of clear boundaries, this discussion provides a comprehensive look at creating effective training routines.Key Topics:Updates and Working Up Your Behavior Chain (00:00)Training in High-Arousal States (06:29)Balancing Arousal and Drive in Training (09:20)Challenges in Tracking and Articles (20:55)Nose Work and Focus in Training (40:10)Insanity Erosion in Training (47:22)Takeaways and Upcoming Events (47:55)Resources:K9 Detection Collaborative Ep 35: Competitive Tracking with Emily LawrenceK9 Detection Collaborative Ep 32: Jo-Rosie and +R MythsK9 Detection Collaborative Ep 68: A Grief Discussion with Deborah Jones Ph.D (Part 1)K9 Detection Collaborative Ep 72: Talking Arousal vs Drive and Selection of a Dog with Jens Frank (pt 1)K9 Detection Collaborative Ep 73: Progression Plans, Handler Education and Science for Practitioners with Jens Frank (pt 2)FENZI CampCrystal in WisconsinSusan GarrettWe want to hear from you:Check out the K9 Detection Collaborative FB page and comment on the episode post!You can follow us for notifications of upcoming episodes, find us at k9detectioncollaborative.com
Visit us at shapedbydog.com Harnessing excitement in dog training and understanding arousal lets you create better focus from your dog! Whether your dog gets over the top or seems super laid back, knowing their emotional pathway and what you can do to help them get in the optimal zone will make a world of difference to your training and life with your dog. In this episode you'll hear: • How understanding arousal levels can improve your dog's performance in training. • The impact of the Yerkes-Dodson Law on dog behavior and anxiety. • Practical strategies to harness and manage excitement during training sessions. • Insights into recognizing different emotional states in dogs. • Techniques to help calm an over-aroused dog during training. • The importance of building a strong relationship with your dog for effective training. • How to create a balanced training environment for your dog • Tips for identifying the signs of an overly excited dog and how to bring them back to a calm state. Recallers Opportunity: Write to us at wag@dogsthat.com with the subject line Pathways Resources: 1. Podcast Episode 86: How to Train Unmotivated or Overexcited Dogs - https://dogsthat.com/podcast/86/ 2. Podcast Episode 88: Barrier Frustration: Help for Fence Fighting, Leash, Reactivity and Window Guarding - https://dogsthat.com/podcast/88/ 3. Podcast Episode 109: Project Calm Dog: Prevent Over Enthusiastic Greetings - https://dogsthat.com/podcast/109/ 4. Podcast Episode 219: Self- Regulation Helping Shy, Hyper, Anxious Or Fearful Dogs To A Better Life - https://dogsthat.com/podcast/219/ 5. Podcast Episode 191: Get Your Dog To Calm Down With This Common Sense Protocol For Relaxation - https://dogsthat.com/podcast/191/ 6. YouTube Playlist: Target Training for Dogs with Susan Garrett - https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLphRRSxcMHy3ylCyQ2bJQSCwo_ERiVHj3&si=k36JyMfxaVRmNo8T 7. YouTube Video: Understanding Your Dog's Reinforcement Zone (RZ) with Susan Garrett - https://youtu.be/OaUAScgaFAg 8. ItsYerChoice Summit - https://recallers.com/iycsummit-join/ 9. Crate Games Online - https://get.crategames.com/ 10. Watch this Episode of Shaped by Dog on YouTube - https://youtu.be/J6UhcWPl7CM
Text the Critellis HERECanadian lovers and this week's #QueerRelationshipGoals, Ryan and Rob (@ryanandrob) enchant us this week! We love them for their adventure, love for one another, and genuine connection. THIS is what we love about love - and know you all will enjoy them just as much. Give them a follow on IG and make sure you let them know the Critellis sent you! Then, the guys sit down to talk about arousal - and more specifically: what gets them aroused? And, how to control it. Are you easily turned on? And, if it takes a bit more for your “oven to warm up”, what does that actually mean? Finally, @thecritellis read this week's Listener Sh!tuations and do their best to give some guidance, Critelli-style.Articles:Business Insider: Men Are Not Always In The Mood For SexWikipedia: Desire DiscrepancyShit to Put on Your Radar:Want to chat with the guys in real-time? Leave them some Fan Mail by clicking the link above and letting them know what you thought about the episode or if you have some commentary about the topic. Marko and Tony are looking forward to chatting with you!If you could use some mental clarity, natural energy, and enhanced productivity, then we totally recommend you try Magic Mind! You can get it at: www.magicmind.com/relation. With RELATION20 you also get up to 56% off your first subscription or 20% off your one-time purchase - it also works if you're already a subscriber! You save on your next subscription payment.Get all your shave and beard needs by visiting www.proraso-usa.com and using code RELATIONSHIT15 at checkout, and get 15% off your purchase! Support the showSh!t | Leave us a voicemail with your relationship sh!tuation at (903) POD- SHIT. That's (903) 763-7448. You can also fill out a Listener Sh!tuation on our website, podrelationshit.com, or email us at relationshitquestions@gmail.com. Visit Us |www.podrelationshit.com for more Relationsh!t content and information about the podcast.Donate | Head over to patreon.com/podrelationshit and start donating today! Your donations will give you early access to the podcast, behind-the-scenes interviews with our weekly guests, and merchandise.Rate Us | Go to your favorite podcast directory and give Relationsh!t a 5-Star rating, and a fantastic review!Follow Us | Instagram, Twitter, and Facebook: @podrelationshitAnd follow Marko and Tony on Instagram (@thecritellis) if you want a BTS look into their relationship and adventures!
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TRIGGER WARNING: This episode touches on topics related to suicide. If you're experiencing suicidal thoughts or feeling overwhelmed, support is available. Call or text 988 — it's a free, confidential help line available 24/7. Seeking help is a sign of strength, and we want you to be here. You matter.By nature, humans are drawn to the edge of existence. We hear that unsettling whisper, beckoning us toward danger, and we feel tempted to tip-toe toward it. "The Call of the Void" is a strange and primal phenomenon — thoughts of self-destruction that pop in our minds seemingly out of nowhere — from the urge to jump off a great height or the sudden desire to swerve into oncoming traffic. It's ominous. But it's not as scary as you might think. Here's the paradox: The Call of the Void is not about wanting to die; it's about appreciating what it means to feel alive. These thoughts are a reminder of the pulse of life. It's a way we feel our mortality and sharpen our existence.In this episode, we walk the fine line between intuition and impulse to discover how risk-taking behaviors can be a gateway to spiritual transformation. Risky endeavors can lead us to a "flow state" where we deepen our connection to the universe, leading to peak experiences and even mystical revelations. Are we wired to crave risk as part of our spiritual journey? And what happens when we ignore that inner voice — when we let fear and self-doubt stagnate our potential? We learn from these moments on the edge, when chaos gives way to creation. You are here for a reason, and sometimes, following that gut instinct — even if it feels a little risky — is exactly how you'll feel closer to your purpose. The universe has a collective field of ideas, and if you don't act on that pull toward something extraordinary, someone else will. When the Call of the Void rings, will you take time to listen a little deeper? Or will you be left wondering what could have been?*****************************************Questions / Journal Prompts / Meditations:What's your flow state?When do you find yourself feeling captivated by other people who are in their own flow state or engaging in behaviors you might think are risky? How does watching them make you feel? Why do you think you're captivated by them? What do you want the most in life, and what risks might you need to take to achieve those goals? If you don't know you want, ask yourself what you're afraid of and explore those fears. Chances are, if you get honest about what scares you, you'll be led to revelations about what you want the most.*****************************************Episode Resources:Movie: ThelmaSong: "Heat Death (The End of Everything)" by Sophia JamesBook: "The End of Everything (Astrophysically Speaking)" by Katie MackBook: "Sensation Seeking: Beyond the Optimal Level of Arousal" by Marvin ZuckermanBook: "Flow: The Psychology of Optimal Experience" by Mihaly CsilkszentmihalyiBook: "The Archetypes and the Collective Unconscious" by Carl JungBook: "Religions, Values, and Peak-Experiences" by Abraham MaslowBook: "Adventure Therapy: Theory, Research and Practice" by Gass, Gillis & RussellBook: "Chaos: Making A New Science" by James GleickArticle: "Do You Have The Adventure Gene?"Article: "The Confidence/Competence Loop"Study: "An Urge to Jump Affirms the Urge to Live"*****************************************Podcast & Host Resources:Clairannoyance InstagramClairannoyance TikTokClairannoyance WebsiteMegan's InstagramMegan's TikTokMegan's WebsiteRyan's InstagramRyan's TikTokRyan's Website
Let's be honest, most of us were not taught what to do when our arousal was unanswered. So, let's talk about it. What happens when we're turned on, but our spouse declines? How do we channel that energy into something productive and healthy? And, how do we teach our children to understand unanswered arousal? We'll talk about all of this and more in this episode. Are you ready for real change? Let's go!
In this episode, Candice Horbacz and Dr. Tara dive deep into the complexities of sexuality, discussing everything from the importance of early sexual education to the impact of societal norms like the "Madonna-Whore complex." They explore how shame-based education and purity culture can lead to riskier sexual behaviours and emphasize the importance of open communication in relationships, particularly around sexual desires and fantasies. Dr. Tara shares her journey of overcoming sexual shame and offers insights on reconnecting with one's sensuality, especially after life changes. The conversation also covers the use of somatic practices, the role of foreplay, and the importance of feeling emotionally safe in a relationship. Follow Candice Horbacz on socials: link.me/candicehorbacz Support The Podcast on Patreon: / candicehorbacz Checkout Dr. Tara's socials: - Follow on Instagram: / luvbites.co - Follow on X: https://x.com/luvbitesco - Follow on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2SZ60Rx...
Questions answered this episode: Can TOB shed any light on the sin of racism? Is it wrong to give a kiss if there's even the slightest bit of arousal present as a dating couple? I've struggled with the sin of masturbation for the past 10 years. It comes and goes in seasons. Recently, I've experienced great temptations while I'm asleep. I awaken in the night with urges I can't control. Do you have any advice? Ask Christopher West is a weekly podcast in which Theology of the Body Institute President Christopher West and his beloved wife Wendy share their humor and wisdom, answering questions about marriage, relationships, life, and the Catholic faith, all in light of John Paul II's beautiful teachings on the Theology of the Body.
How can you know when you've united against the cycle? We've got you covered in this episode on the signs to look for and how to test for de-escalation. George and Laurie work through a role play and give an example conversation of what it sounds like when couples move from the you vs. me space to you and me vs. the cycle. We want to be on the lookout for seeing the cycle as a whole rather than a one off event, knowing your move and why and seeing how your move affects your partner. These three steps are the key to de-escalation and the ability to move into more vulnerability and deeper change in your relationship. You cannot miss this step if you want to achieve true, sustainable healing in your relationship. Not sure how to do this? Make sure you join George and Laurie for their virtual couples retreat on October 4th. If you're a couples therapist unsure how to incorporate the sexual cycle in your work, join us for an in-person training in Nashville in January. Head to our website for registration details. www.foreplayrst.com Please check out our great sponsor for this episode: Foriawellness.com - get 20% off your first order! Try their Awaken and Arousal oil to enhance your experience in bed! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices