Them-Us

Part 1 Sometimes people stay in the relationship they don’t like because they think the person will change.

Part 2 After a while we realize we can’t deal with these issues, that’s when we say something like “you have 3 months or its over”

Part 3 In todays society does the man have to make more money than the woman?

Part 4 When it comes to how we view men and women in relationships there are a plethora of double standards.

Part 5 Just because someone is comfortable with their bodies and sexuality should they be labeled a freak?

Part 6 As a kid getting to 3rd base was an accomplishment do we use that terminology today?

Part 7 This question has been raised for years and believe it or not some people still believe its important.

Part 1Many people stay in a relationship because they think they can change the person.

Part 2 When your with someone over a period of time even when its bad, people stay because of the time they have invested in the relationship.

Part 7 Family will often tell you someone is not right and there are times when we get mad at them for telling the truth we refuse to see.

Part 6 This reason bothers me the most "but I really love them and we are in love" Really? Love does not hurt every day.

Part 5 For some crazy reason they don’t like the person or the relationship but think they can’t find anyone better.

Part 3 We hear this all the time, the relationship is a disaster but they stay for the kids.

Part 4 Some people just don’t want to be alone or start the process of getting to know someone new.

Part 1 What are the qualities and characteristics that make a good man?

Part 2 As we age what we think are good qualities may mean something else later in life.

Part 3 You say you should be friends first so why don’t more friendships become relationships?

Part 4 You said you wanted a good man so why do you stay with the one that treats you like crap?

Part 5 You say you want respect but you don’t demand it.

Part 6 Sometimes to much of a good thing can be bad.

Part 1 Is it important to fulfill all of your sexual fantasies? Do you do everything your partner wants to do?

Part 2 Dealing with the dynamic of dating with kids or dating someone with kids.

Part 3 Touchy subject men that are usually in a relationship but have sex with other men but don’t consider themselves gay.

Part 4 When is it ok or is it ever ok to schedule sex?

Part 5 What kind of kissing sets you on fire or makes you want to run?

Part 6 So at the end of the is it really love that is felt for both people?

Part 5 Are we searching for what’s missing and calling it love when we find it

Part 4 With what you know why do you think your in love with two people?

Part 3 There are three methods someone is going to come into you life while your with someone else.

Part 2 While everyone is different and there are different circumstances we discuss time frames for falling in love.

Part 1 Define love? A simple question with a very complex and different answer for each person.

Part 1 The combining of two lives can lead to amazing happiness, disagreements, apologizes and forgiveness. We discuss the reasons that life causes us to fight.

Part 2 How you fight makes a big difference in how you make up. Sometime its not what you say its how you say it.

Part 3 We all want comfort when we are hurt or something is bothering us but is involving family the right move in a relationship fight?

Part 4 Somehow you have to find a way to calm down before the fight escalates to something worse.

Part 5 At some point when the smoke clears we have to find a way to apologize.

Part 6 When your hurt and upset how do find the courage to forgive and what does that mean?

Part 7 Being a complete person before a relationship can often make fights easier.

Part 1 We talk about the details of looks and what this particular groups looks for and what they don’t want.

Part 2 How important is a woman's background and the things she may have done in the past.

Part 3 What type of attitude or swagger if you will do you look for in your woman?

Part 4 This is almost a show in it’s self but I try to get the guys to discuss how they feel about have sex on the first date.

Part 5 Some are not willing to go as far as sex on a first date, but for some reason oral is ok.

Part 6 I asked this group of men what type of ethnicities do they like and how important is a woman’s career.

Part 7 How important is a woman’s family to you? How do you navigate the red flags that come up in meeting a new person?

Part 8 The guys talk about a woman’s past sexual partners and how it impacts them moving forward.

Part 1 What does sex mean to you in the relationship and how long are you willing to wait to get it?

Part 2 When you have sex are sexual bonds formed, we look at the phycological and the chemical effects.

Part 3 Do our opinions of sex change when its with someone we’ve known for a while vs someone new?

Part 4 After having sex for the first time how do you feel what’s going through your head?

Part 5 Can you have a sex only relationship without emotions, will they come into place at some point?