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We all say it: “I do this because I love it.” But is that actually true? Are you creating, speaking, coaching, writing, painting, because it lights you up? Or are you secretly chasing the stage, the sales, the recognition, the outcome that proves you're “good enough?” There's a huge difference between creating because you love it, and creating because you need something back. In this episode, we'll talk about how to tell the difference between what your mind says you “should” love, and what your soul actually loves. And more importantly: the thing you'd do for free, the thing you'd do even if no one ever clapped for you, might be the clearest sign of what's real. If you've ever wondered whether you're on the right path, this conversation will give you a question that cuts through all the noise: Would you do it anyway? Other episodes you might like: 273: Letting Go of the Need to Prove Your Value 188: Are You Waiting For Permission To Go After What You Want? Join The Weekly Nudge Email List! Invite Renee to speak!
We've all been there. At some point in your walk with God, you've probably had questions. You've probably wondered why prayers seem unanswered, why life feels unfair, or why following Jesus can feel so hard in a world going a different direction. Those moments of doubt can be unsettling — not just because they shake our faith, but because they make us wonder, “Does God still love me if I'm not 100% sure about Him right now?” In This Sermon, we're going there. We're taking an honest look at doubt — what it is, why it happens, and why it doesn't make you a second-class Christian. From Thomas to Peter to John the Baptist, Scripture is full of people who wrestled with questions. And in every case, Jesus didn't push them away. He met them right in the middle of their uncertainty and reminded them of His love. Your doubts don't scare God, and they certainly don't disqualify you from His care. If you've ever questioned God's goodness, this one's for you. We'll discover together that God's love doesn't shrink when our faith shakes. In fact, those moments can become opportunities for God to reveal Himself in fresh, life-changing ways. To learn more, check out sermon number three in our series, Does God Really Love Me?
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In part two of our sermon series, we're diving into one of the most honest and necessary conversations the church can have: Does God really love me when I'm depressed and anxious? If you've ever felt the crushing weight of depression or the unshakable grip of anxiety, you know how hard it can be to believe that God hasn't walked away. Maybe you've asked yourself, If I were stronger in faith, I wouldn't feel this way… right? This message will break through the lies depression and anxiety whisper, replacing them with the unshakable truth of God's character and His unwavering love for you—no matter what you feel. Through real-life biblical examples like Elijah, David, Job, Jeremiah, and even Jesus, we'll see that God is not repelled by our pain—He meets us in it. We'll explore why so many believers mistake emotional numbness for spiritual distance, and how guilt and shame distort the truth of God's compassion. This isn't a sermon filled with pat answers or empty platitudes. It's an invitation to be honest with God, anchor your identity in Christ, lean into community, seek help without shame, and speak truth over your soul—practical steps rooted in Scripture that can help you experience His love in the darkest valleys. Whether you're in the thick of depression and anxiety yourself or you love someone who is, this message will equip you to see God's heart more clearly and respond with compassion instead of condemnation. We'll be reminded that feelings are not the foundation of faith—God's unchanging nature is. If you've been looking for hope, clarity, and a fresh reminder that you are never beyond the reach of His love, this sermon is for you. Remember, The absence of feeling is not the absence of God. His love is steady, even when your heart is shaky.
With this sermon we kick off a brand new sermon series centered around one of the most common spiritual questions: Does God really love me, even when I've done bad things? Many people—Christians included—struggle with feelings of guilt, shame, or inadequacy that distort their view of God's love. Whether it's due to religious trauma, performance-based theology, or underdeveloped faith, these barriers can lead people to believe God only loves the “good” version of them. The pastor emphasizes the need to replace these unhealthy perspectives with the truth found in Scripture: God's love is unconditional and rooted in His character, not our behavior. Turning to Romans 5, the message unpacks the reality that God demonstrated His love for us while we were still sinners. Paul writes that even in our powerlessness, brokenness, and rebellion, Christ died for us. This isn't a hypothetical or symbolic gesture—it's a historical demonstration of divine love. The sermon uses this to challenge the belief that God's love is earned. Instead, love is poured out through grace, which we continually stand in as we walk with Jesus—even amid suffering, struggle, or failure. This grace-based relationship produces hope, character, and a deeper experience of God's love, regardless of past mistakes. To move forward in that love, we will discover practical steps rooted in Scripture: giving allegiance to Jesus, practicing godly repentance, and regularly confessing sin. Through these actions, believers are reminded of their secure standing in Christ—free from condemnation and alive in the Spirit.
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Whenever you doubt God's love, remember these four powerful words: “He died for me.”
DO MEN REALLY LOVE WOMEN WITH NATURAL BODIES?LIVE SHOW TICKET LINK:https://mrticketz.com/uk/event/inmyopinion-podcast-5th-year-anniversary-live-show-after-partyWe're still celebrating hitting 100k Followers on Instagram, a milestone we couldn't have reached without you all, so thank you for supporting us.We are joined by the Highest Profile Woman on the Internet @madamejoyce1 as we discuss her journey from Ireland to becoming one of the most popular podcasts in the UK.We also discuss body positivity and the importance of loving your natural body.As always, please comment below with your thoughts and don't forget to Like, Share And Subscribe
If You Could Ask God One Question...
If You Could Ask God One Question...
Are you at a loss for answers? Do you ever feel as though God keeps moving the target every time you try to settle on a destination for your life? Maybe, you're asking the wrong question. Maybe, instead of asking where you need to end up, you need to ask how to stay close to God throughout the journey. If you're tired of wearing flip flops on God's football field and eager to start astounding people with the power of your love, then buckle up with Eleanor, Brenda, and Randy, and start preparing yourself for the kind of life that comes with being an instrument of God's love.
You're always there for him. He says all the right things. But something still feels... off. In this episode, we're helping you discern whether the person you're dating truly loves you—or if they just like having access to you.We break down signs of convenient relationships, what real biblical love actually looks like, and how to avoid wasting time with someone who only loves your presence—not your soul.This one's real, raw, and freeing.
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The Soul Cafe: Hearsay Catch Chris Clay Mon - Fri 2p-6pm EST On www.soulcaferadio.com Produced By Heather Whitley and C.Clay Season 9 Hour 1 Leon Thomas & Kehlani - DIRT ON MY SHOES Chico Debarge - Soon I'll Be Loving You Again Alex Isley - Hands (Stripped Down) Kenyon Dixon - Here ft Susan Carol SIR - That's Why I Love You Ft Sabrina Claudio David Oliver - Ms The Double Down: Eric Bent - Co Star Eric Benét & Alex Isley – Remember Love Eric Benét & SalDoce - Too Soon Coco Jones - AEOMG Mack Wilds - Simple Things Jeffrey Dennis - On Purpose R. Kelly featuring Nivea - Touchin MInt Condition - You Don't Have To Hurt No More Jon Vinyl - Dopamine Normani & Ciara - Ecstasy (Remix) (feat. Teyana Taylor) The Temptations - You're My Everything Hour 2 Jessie Reyez - CUDN'T B ME John Legend - You & I (Nobody In The World) Emmi -I Love You Earth Wind And Fire - Wait India.Arie & Eric Benét - Must Be Love Iyamah - A Woman's Worth Rare hard To Find Throwback Jam: Anita Baker - You're My Everything Vandell Andrew, Raheem DeVaughn, & The Colleagues - Joyful Noise - The Colleagues remix CeCe Peniston - Before I Lay (You Drive Me Crazy) Blue Eye Soul Corner Average White Band - Soul Searching Loaded Honey - Don't Speak Teddy Swims - God Went Crazy England Dan & John Ford Coley - I'd Really Love to See You Tonight Boz Scaggs - Look what youve done Mariah-Carey-fly-like-a-bird End Of Show
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Satan tells humans the same lies over and over and over again….why? Because they work. God really does love you, unconditionally!
Emotional abuse is far too common and yet it can be difficult to recognize, because it's subtle at first and often covert. It can deplete a person's self esteem and simultaneously create dependence upon the abusive partner, which blurs reality and makes it hard to leave. But what is emotional abuse and how can we recover from an emotionally abusive relationship? In this episode, Jodi talks with therapist and author, Leah Aguirre, LCSW, about her new book, Is This Really Love? Recognizing When You're in a Coercive, Controlling, and Emotionally Abusive Relationship--and How to Break Free. Jodi shares a story about her first addictive relationship and Leah talks about the aha moment that led her to leave an emotionally abusive partner. Jodi and Leah also discuss coercion and control; personality traits of an emotional abuser; and relationship green flags (signs that a relationship or partner is safe). Show notes and resources: Music by JD Pendley Link to Jodi's website and additional resources Leah's website and Instagram Link to order Is This Really Love? Disclaimer: This podcast is shared for educational and informational purposes only. It is not intended to be a substitute for mental health treatment with a licensed mental health professional or to be used in place of the advice of a physician. If you are struggling please don't delay in seeking the assistance of a licensed mental health practitioner or healthcare professional. If you're in crisis please visit NAMI.org or call 1-800-273-TALK for 24-hour assistance.
This week we discuss all of the rebuild rumors around the Rangers, their potential targets, our dream roster, and who we'd be willing to give up for it. Spoiler alert, it's anyone and everyone.We also discuss non-committal eating, Morman reality TV, David Quinn's revenge tour and much much more.Become a PatronPublic (free) Podcast feedSubscribe on SpotifyCheck out our merch - https://rangerssuck.shopJoin the Wolfpack today!Follow us on BlueSky, Twitter, Instagram, TikTok, and YouTubeSend us an email: contact@rangerthingspodcast.com
Elon Musk may have ruined his relationship with President Trump. Elon has spent the past few days attacking Trump both politically and personally. Trump now indicates he is cutting off the Tesla CEO. Is this the end of an era? Plus, Some Democrats in the media and in DC are singing the praises of Elon Musk after he spent the past week attacking President Trump. Is the left so shameless that they will welcome Elon back after months of attacks against him?See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
We all know God IS love, and that because He loves His human creation, He sent Jesus to redeem us all from sin and death. We also know Jesus taught us to love our enemies and to pray for those people who despitefully take advantage of us. So, according to the gospel, love is a clear centerpiece of how God's plan works and how we are to emulate Jesus in relation to our enemies. But what about those people we just may not like? You know, those individuals who are just irritating, who might see the world differently than we do and who always seem to be on the other side of issues. Can we just tolerate them - just "go along to get along" - or do we have to “love” them? If we do have to love them, what does that even look like? The first step towards understanding and applying this concept is recognizing that love is absolutely central to God's plan. 1 Corinthians 13 is known as “the love chapter," as it gives several pointed descriptions of how the benevolent and selfless kind of agape love behaves. The fact that most of us don't have what we would consider to be mortal enemies doesn't mean we don't struggle with loving individuals who irritate us or hold opposing views. Positive traits and negative traits This chapter on selfless love distinguishes between positive traits (patience, kindness, rejoicing in truth) and negative traits (jealousy, arrogance, selfishness and keeping score of wrongs). It highlights that patience involves self-restraint and forbearance, allowing us to respect others even when differences arise. Kindness, beyond simple niceness, is described as "active" generosity, encouraging us to be useful to those we struggle with. We need to think about the challenges we may have applying these very positive traits to those we may not really like. What selfless love is NOT It does NOT express jealousy, which can manifest as resentment or unhealthy competition. Love does NOT boast, which elevates oneself at the expense of others. It is NOT arrogant, having an internal sense of self-centered superiority. Selfless love does NOT provoke, keep score, or act in any inappropriate way. As Christians, we really need to rethink how we view difficult people, recognizing that every life matters. Since Jesus died for all, we are called to reflect his love - even toward those we find difficult. Our practical challenge is to actively demonstrate patience, kindness and humility every day with everyone.
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Does God really love everyone? Even the people that society shuns? What do you think? Have you been blessed by this message? Please bless us back by clicking like, sharing and commenting on our messages. If you need prayer, leave a message below or call us at 314-303-2141 and we will pray for you. Would you like to know more about becoming a Christian? Click here: http://summitchurch.us/Becoming-a-Christian Check out our website: http://summitchurch.us/ If you would like to help support us financially, go to http://summitchurch.us/Giving
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Send us a textCan we really love God with all of our heart, mind, soul, and strength? And if so, how do we actually do that in our daily lives? In this episode, we dive deep into the greatest commandment given by the Savior — exploring what it truly means to give God our everything. We break down each aspect of this powerful scripture: loving God with our heart (our desires), mind (our thoughts), soul (our spirit and identity), and strength (our actions and efforts). Through personal experiences, scriptures, and practical insights, we talk about what it looks like to love God completely — not just in word, but in how we live, think, and serve. Whether you're striving to deepen your faith or simply want to align your life more fully with God's will, this discussion will challenge and inspire you to love Him with your whole being.Support the show... Become a "Patron Saint"!!
When God causes us to love our enemies, it displays that His Love is within us
In this episode of ScreenTone Club Elliot and Andy strap into their mech suits -sorry, Jackets- and prepare for their most harrowing mission of all: getting 100 confessions of love.Series Discussed: The 100 Girlfriends Who Really, Really, Really, Really, Really Love You, All You Need is Kill (Manga),Assignments for next Episode: Rozen Maiden (Collectors Edition), Mujina into the DeepTIMECODES:0:02:00 - Andy's Pick: The 100 Girlfriends Who Really, Really, Really, Really, Really Love You0:04:00 - Seven Seas Imprint Shenanigans0:10:30 - A Nice Guy vs “Nice Guy”0:16:45 - “Chaste Polycule”0:27:00 - “List of Lasses” is the new “Binders of Women” 0:30:00 - Elliot's Pick: All You Need is Kill (Manga)0:34:30 - “We Got a Time Loop Here!”0:39:45 - “Snappy” 0:45:15 - Elliot has a filthy mind :
This week on Black on Black Cinema, the crew returns to discuss the 2020 film, "Really Love." Set in contemporary Washington D.C., a rising black painter strives to break into the competitive art world, while balancing a bittersweet romance he never expected. The film is directed by Angel Kristi Williams and starring Kofi Siriboe, Yootha Wong-Loi-Sing, and Uzo Aduba. The conversation centers on not just romantic love but why timing and maturity are needed for a relationship to sustain long term.
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The relationships you struggle with the most? This episode is for those. Juli sits down with Bible teacher Jada Edwards to share stories about the ways they've fallen short when it comes to loving others, and how God has transformed their understanding of what it means to love the way He does. (Spoiler alert: Sometimes the best way to learn love is to start with the person who bugs you the most.) Guest: Jada Edwards (@jada_edwards) Resources: Sign up for our email list and stay in the know! Jada's book: A New Way to Love Your Neighbor How to Have Tough Conversations (blog) Encountering the Radical Love of Jesus (blog) AI Members Only: Why “Love Is Love” Doesn't Mean What You Think It Means, Ep. #401
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Let’s really, really, really, really love one another since God really, really, really, really loves us.
Let’s really, really, really, really love one another since God really, really, really, really loves us.
Today's episode of the sunshine would like to discuss or even ask the question, what do you really love? The Bible tells us out of the heart flows the issues of life so that we will clearly know and see the things we really love because there will be evidence of that love. I pray that you choose to love Jesus and not just because he loved you first because his love is so wonderful God bless you.
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Last nights Opening Day game was the least attended in the last six years. Bob and Dave talk about what factors might have gone into it, including a lack of spending in free agency, the weather, and more. They listen to MLB commissioner Rob Manfred explain why he wasn’t satisfied with ESPN’s coverage of baseball and talk about the Baseball media landscape. M's catcher Cal Raleigh gives his first press-conference since signing a long-term contract extension with the Mariners. And they ask Why Man?
This week, David and Jordan from Shonen Flop have joined us to watch something truly special, the first 5 episodes of The 100 Girlfriends Who Really, Really, Really, Really, Really Love You! Meanwhile Remington questions David's tastes. Be sure to check out ShonenFlop.com for more of David & Jordan as well as countless fantastic guests! If you'd like to give us feedback, ask a question, or correct a mistake, send an email to AnimeOutOfContext@gmail.com Visit our Patreon at patreon.com/AnimeoutofContext if you would like to contribute to the show and get bonus content ranging from clips from our pre-episode banter, bonus episodes (including the 12 days of April Fools), our prototype Episode 0, to even getting shout-outs in the show! Intro and Outro are trimmed from "Remiga Impulse" by Jens Kiilstofte, licensed by MachinimaSound to Anime Out of Context under CC BY-NC-ND 4.0 which the licensor has modified for the licensee to allow reproduction and sharing of the Adapted Material for Commercial purposes
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One of the hardest parts of a breakup is wondering: Did they ever actually love me? Was it real, or was I just convenient? In this episode, we're cutting through the confusion and getting honest about what real love looks like. I'll break down key red flags that will hopefully give you some insight for your personal situation, share relatable analogies, and help you stop overanalyzing whether they loved you - so you can start focusing on loving yourself the way you deserve.... and MOVING FORWARD in peace. Listen NOW! Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz AND, let's take this a step further... (1) ORDER EMAIL or PHONE coaching at breakupBOOST.com (2) Call Trina direct on The Breakup Hotline ANYTIME! (see website for details: https://www.breakupboost.com/live-coaching-trina-breakup-boost) (3) Check out Trina's BREAKUP AND DATING MERCH: blockandshop.com (4) SUBSCRIBE to Trina's YouTube - search "breakup BOOST" (5) Follow Trina TIKTOK @breakupBOOST (6) Follow Trina's relationship podcast: Help Us Couples Coaching
Such an important conversation for you today! NYC Pastor Paul Murphy joined us to share his story and to talk about the importance of evangelism as a way of life. We primarily discuss why and how our (Dutch) Reformed Churches struggle to evangelize and do it well. We also get into what truly should motivate evangelism: love for God and love for the lost. We hope this episode encourages and inspires you to really think about your love for the lost and the importance of sharing the Gospel, for it truly is a matter of life or death. Check out Rev. Murphy's booklet “A Humble Effort to Promote Local Evangelism” https://www.bethelurcaylmer.com/uploads/7/9/8/6/79863340/ahumbleefforttopromotelocalevangelismbooklet.pdf 0:00 - Intro 9:00 - Paul's Conversion 16:43 - Evangelism vs. Missions 18:00 - “The Missional Church” 25:00 - Programming Hearts 37:00 - Seeker Sensitive 40:00 - Heart of Worship 45:00 - Great Commission 55:00 - Retaining the Youth 1:03:00 - Reaching People, not Targets 1:10:00 - Being a Steward in Evangelism 1:15:00 - Fear of God 1:23:00 - Indifference 1:29:00 - Hell A BIG THANKS TO OUR OFFICIAL SPONSOR, TRIVAN! WE APPRECIATE YOU HELPING US MAKE THIS CONVERSATION POSSIBLE. BE SURE TO CHECK THEM OUT AT WWW.TRIVAN.COM To keep up with the podcast, check out our website: https://www.realtalkpodcast.ca/ Follow us on Facebook and Instagram for updates, clips, and more! Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ReformedRealTalk Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/reformedrealtalk/ We'd love to hear from you. Please send us your questions, comments, or other feedback at realtalk@reformedperspective.ca. Thanks for listening! If you liked what you heard, please share this podcast with your family and friends!
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Marriage Weekend and Week 4 of COMING HOME with Lead Pastor Jason Britt. Pastor Jason reminds us that a good marriage isn't something you find; it's something you make.