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Who's The Cheap One In Your Relationship? - Part 1 full 308 Tue, 20 May 2025 16:10:04 +0000 AIfbtk14dSdIA0KwAlnS98XcA4G7YmVD society & culture Karson & Kennedy society & culture Who's The Cheap One In Your Relationship? - Part 1 Karson & Kennedy are honest and open about the most intimate details of their personal lives. The show is fast paced and will have you laughing until it hurts one minute and then wiping tears away from your eyes the next. Some of K&K’s most popular features are Can’t Beat Kennedy, What Did Barrett Say, and The Dirty on the 30! 2024 © 2021 Audacy, Inc. Society & Culture False https://player.amperwavepodcasting.com?fee

Who's The Cheap One In Your Relationship? - Part 2 full 324 Tue, 20 May 2025 16:10:43 +0000 UjqfyKfq92lGMxb2GNB5pZCJsxrlbF3b society & culture Karson & Kennedy society & culture Who's The Cheap One In Your Relationship? - Part 2 Karson & Kennedy are honest and open about the most intimate details of their personal lives. The show is fast paced and will have you laughing until it hurts one minute and then wiping tears away from your eyes the next. Some of K&K’s most popular features are Can’t Beat Kennedy, What Did Barrett Say, and The Dirty on the 30! 2024 © 2021 Audacy, Inc. Society & Culture False https://player.amperwavepodcasting.com?fee

Whaddya think of this comment: The weakest person in a relationship controls the relationship. Do you have that kind of relationship in your life? Dr. Randy will help you  love an emotionally weak person. Sign up for Dr. Randy’s INTENTIONAL ONE THING CHALLENGE. Here’s an Intentional Living Blog for inspiration! inTENtionals for Loving An Emotionally Weak […]

Whaddya think of this comment: The weakest person in a relationship controls the relationship. Do you have that kind of relationship in your life? Dr. Randy will help you  love an emotionally weak person. Sign up for Dr. Randy’s INTENTIONAL ONE THING CHALLENGE. Here’s an Intentional Living Blog for inspiration! inTENtionals for Loving An Emotionally Weak […]

You've been waiting and we delivered! Here is the second part of how to Elevate in YOUR relationship. We tap in on situations like: - [x] Is it selfish to expect your partner to meet emotional needs you haven't clearly communicated?” - [x] Why do some people feel more alone in a relationship than they did single? - [x] What role should your partner play in your healing from past trauma?” - [x] Can you truly forgive someone if a part of you still holds onto the hurt? - [x] At what point do you accept that you've outgrown someone you once believed was your forever? Let us know what you think in the comments. Subscribe so you never miss an episode!

Empowered & Unfiltered: A 3-Part Series on Healing, Empowerment, and Real Connection Guest: Shane Adamson, LCSW, CSAT, CCPSWhat happens when a people pleaser finally decides she's worthy of more?In this honest and unfiltered conversation, I'm joined by therapist and relationship trauma specialist Shane Adamson, LCSW, , CSAT, CCPS to explore what really lies beneath the urge to overgive, over-accommodate, and lose yourself in relationships that never loved you back.Together, we peel back the layers of people pleasing as a trauma response, the invisible weight of betrayal, and the impact of emotional neglect that keeps women stuck in cycles of unworthiness. Shane brings clinical insight and deep compassion to the conversation—and even shares his own healing journey and how it shaped his work with couples and betrayed partners.This is the first episode in a powerful 3-part series where we explore what it means to come home to yourself after years of giving yourself away.In this episode, you'll learn:Why people pleasers are drawn to emotionally unavailable or narcissistic partnersThe signs of betrayal trauma and how it hijacks your nervous systemWhat “duty sex” reveals about emotional disconnectionHow guilt, family roles, and cultural expectations keep women stuckWhat the first signs of healing really look like—and how to get there

Best Of 2GG: Veto In Relationship PART 1 by Two Girls and a Guy

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I promise you this is a must hear episode. We break down how to elevate in a relationship from both sides!

Dr. Stanley explores the nature of our connection to God and its importance in everything we do.

Dr. Stanley explores the nature of our connection to God and its importance in everything we do.

Dr. Stanley explores the nature of our connection to God and its importance in everything we do.

Examine how you've been living and find out all that God wants to do by deepening your relationship with Him.

Examine how you've been living and find out all that God wants to do by deepening your relationship with Him.

Examine how you've been living and find out all that God wants to do by deepening your relationship with Him.

Today's episode is split into two parts, discussing John Gottman's seven principles of making a relationship work.

Wrapping up our discussion with Eric and Brett this week. If you missed last week's, be sure you go back and check that out. Otherwise, you just landed right in the middle of a conversation and it probably doesn't make much sense! Thanks to ICBA Securities for their continued sponsorship.

One of the most important (and yet least discussed) relationships in the bank is the CEO/CFO relationship. When it works...it REALLY works but when it doesn't....it REALLY doesn't. It represents banking, in so many ways, in that these two positions have vastly different perspectives yet must work together. However, I think you'll find in this episode (and next week's Part 2) that there are more similarities than you may have realized. Many thanks to Eric Alexander and Brett McDowell (CEO of Victory Bank in TX) for taking the time to sit down and chat. Also, thanks to our sponsor, ICBA Securities for their continued support.

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Today we focus on enhancing personal growth through three pillars: 1) Developing self-awareness by managing reactions to stimuli and evaluating self-talk using Stephen Covey/Viktor Frankl principles 2) Releasing negative patterns through physical movement and micro-dosed wellness practices 3) Implementing accessible self-care actions tied to neurotransmitter release and stress reduction. In this episode you'll hear: Start by focusing on your relationship with yourself. Responsibility is framed as the 'ability to respond,' emphasizing personal agency in managing reactions to external stimuli. Create space between stimulus and response to evaluate internal reactions and shift beliefs or focus. Inspired by Stephen Covey and Viktor Frankl's work. Evaluate self-talk using a three-step framework: identify what works, what needs improvement, and what harmful patterns to eliminate (analogous to radio 'air checking'). Cortney McDermott, a returning guest and a beloved voice on the show, is an international speaker and TED Talk presenter, Cortney is also a bestselling author. Her latest book, Give Yourself Permission: Be Confident. Be Happy. Be You., is out now.        

Sexual Polarity & Alpha Consciousness in Long-Term Relationship (Part 1) - Sex Upgraded Podcast by Sacred

Strategies and Tactics for a Successful Associate-Practice Owner Relationship Part 2 with Dr. Lisa GoodmanIn this second part of our two-part series with Dr. Lisa Goodman, we shift gears to explore the associate-practice owner relationship through the lens of leadership, compensation, and long-term strategy.Whether you're a seasoned provider looking to bring on your first associate or a new graduate wondering how to negotiate your first contract, this episode is full of actionable insights to help you build a successful—and sustainable—career in healthcare.Dr. Goodman unpacks the key elements that make an associateship work, how to structure compensation fairly, and what both owners and employees need to know about setting clear expectations from day one.What You'll Learn in This Episode:How to structure compensation models that are fair, scalable, and attractiveStrategies for negotiating salary and understanding earnings expectationsRed flags to look for in associate agreements (and how to avoid them)Tips for practice owners on setting expectations and fostering retentionWhat new grads need to consider before accepting an offer or going solo

Welcome to our podcast, where we dive deep into the teachings of Christ and explore how they can be applied to our modern lives. Join us as we discuss everything from scripture and prayer to living a purposeful and fulfilling life rooted in faith. Our hope is that this podcast will inspire, uplift, and challenge you on your journey towards a deeper relationship with God. www.Scarletnote.org

In this episode of "Extraordinary Living with Bill & Roger," Roger teaches about the expansive meaning of being 'saved' beyond just salvation, emphasizing healing, deliverance, and peace. Focusing on 2 Peter 1:3-4, he explains how grace and peace are multiplied through the knowledge of God. This episode explores the pitfalls of religious traditions, the importance of understanding God's promises, and the significance of personal faith in accessing divine blessings. Roger encourages self-examination, deeper engagement with scripture, and an active relationship with God. The show concludes with a prayer to accepting Jesus as Lord and Savior.   EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS:   00:51 Grace and Peace Through Knowledge 01:35 Understanding Divine Power 03:11 The Importance of Faith 04:31 Great and Precious Promises 06:13 Receiving God's Grace 08:51 The Role of Faith in Salvation 12:28 The Parable of the Sower 18:18 Self-Examination and Commitment 23:12 Invitation to Accept Christ     Connect with Bill & Roger Ministries: www.billandroger.com Email: roger@billandroger.com

Strategies and Tactics for a Successful Associate-Practice Owner Relationship Part 1 with Dr. Lisa GoodmanNavigating the relationship between a practice owner and an associate is one of the most crucial yet challenging aspects of running a successful healthcare practice. Whether you're a new provider deciding between becoming an employee, an independent contractor, or starting your own practice—or a practice owner looking to hire and retain top talent—this episode is packed with valuable insights.In Part 1 of this two-part series, Dr. Lisa Goodman shares her expertise on setting clear expectations, building trust, and creating a mutually beneficial relationship between associates and practice owners. If you're looking for real-world strategies to grow your career or business without the common pitfalls, this episode is a must-listen.Key Takeaways:The pros and cons of becoming an associate, independent contractor, or practice owner.What practice owners should consider before hiring an associate.The most common mistakes in associate-practice owner relationships—and how to avoid them.How to set clear expectations and create a win-win partnership.Why trust, communication, and mentorship are the foundation of a successful practice.

Wednesday Night Bible Study with Pastor Mike Shoaf

In this episode of 'Extraordinary Living with Bill and Roger', the discussion centers around realizing the difference between religion and a personal relationship with God. Roger emphasizes believing in the kingdom of God and acknowledging God's power at work right now. Roger reflects on his personal experiences, the role faith plays in our relationship with God and how Christians can avoid limiting God through unbelief found in Psalms 78:40. He also encourages you to strengthen your relationship with Jesus Christ. The importance of a grace and peace mindset, and practical application of the Bible is highlighted. The episode concludes with an invitation for you to accept Jesus Christ into your life.   EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS:   00:00 Introduction: Christianity as a Relationship 02:42 Understanding the Kingdom of God 05:23 The Importance of the Word of God 06:20 Personal Testimonies and Life Lessons 08:48 Religion vs. Relationship 10:09 Limiting God Through Unbelief: Psalms 78:40 22:57 Experiencing Grace and Peace through the Knowledge of Jesus Christ: 3 John 2 26:30 Invitation to Accept Jesus       Connect with Bill & Roger Ministries: www.billandroger.com Email: roger@billandroger.com

Coming up on this episode of Flirtations, it's Part 2 of our conversation with dating coach and podcast host Sadie Marie as we ask the question, is there life after love? And hell yah there is!  In this conversation, we talk about dating without a long-term relationship in mind, including how to build a roster. We also cover flirting strategies, how to meet singles in real life, and the experience of dating younger men—what works, what doesn't, and what to keep in mind. Or maybe after a LTR you're not feeling interested in anyone? We got you there, we'll go into dating breaks, and how to stay hopeful in dating even when it feels like nothing is working.  Finally, we come full circle back to the topic of emotional availability and we explore the powerful shift of decentering romantic love, so you can create a fulfilling life that doesn't revolve solely around relationships. So, whether you're getting back out there, exploring dating, or just figuring out what you want next, this episode is for you! Let's do this Flirties, Part 2 incoming! Don't forget to subscribe, rate, and review Flirtations on your favorite podcast platform, and share this episode to spread BFE - big flirt energy, all over the world! Enjoying the show and want to support my work? Buy the Flirt Coach a coffee! About our guest:  Sadie Marie is the dynamic host of Sadie's Divorced and Happy podcast, where she brings bold conversations, playful insights, and a fresh take on thriving after divorce. As the founder of the Happily Divorced Club, a global community of divorcees embracing their most adventurous and empowered lives, Sadie is passionate about creating spaces for connection, laughter, and reinvention. With a social media following of over 100K, Sadie has built a platform that inspires and entertains divorcees around the world. Her signature mix of humor, honesty, and out-of-the-box thinking has made her a leading voice in the divorce community—and the go-to guide for turning life after divorce into your boldest chapter yet. Learn more about the Club and Podcast, and follow Sadie on Instagram! About your host:  Benjamin is a flirt and dating coach sharing his love of flirting and BFE - big flirt energy, with the world! A lifelong introvert and socially anxious member of society, Benjamin now helps singles and daters alike flirt with more confidence, clarity, and fun! As the flirt is all about connection, Benjamin helps the flirt community (the flirties!) date from a place that allows the value of connection in all forms - platonic and romantic connection - to take center stage and transform lives for greater healing and ultimately, a deeper connection with the self. You can connect with Benjamin on Instagram, TikTok, stream the Flirtations Flirtcast everywhere you listen to podcasts (like right here!), and find out more about working together 1:1 here.

Wednesday Night Bible Study with Pastor Mike Shoaf

Coming up on this episode of Flirtations, we're asking the question, “Is there life after love?” Spoiler alert:  Hell Yah! With our guest, podcast host and dating coach Sadie Marie, we explore what it means to date after a major breakup, the challenges that come with it, and how to embrace new experiences with confidence. Starting over after a divorce or long-term relationship can feel overwhelming, but it can also be an opportunity for growth, self-discovery, and redefining what you truly want in love and life. We discuss the importance of having a support squad as you navigate dating again, how to know it's time to walk away, and why relationships aren't just about checking a box.  Plus, we'll talk about the loss we feel when a relationship ends and go into common dating struggles, like why we're drawn to the “bad boy” archetype, the frustration of ghosting, and how to find emotionally available partners. If you're stepping back into the dating scene after a long-term relationship or divorce, this episode is for you.  Let's talk about healing, rebuilding, and finding love—on your terms! Don't forget to subscribe, rate, and review Flirtations on your favorite podcast platform, and share this episode to spread BFE - big flirt energy, all over the world! Enjoying the show and want to support my work? Buy the Flirt Coach a coffee! About our guest:  Sadie Marie is the dynamic host of Sadie's Divorced and Happy podcast, where she brings bold conversations, playful insights, and a fresh take on thriving after divorce. As the founder of the Happily Divorced Club, a global community of divorcees embracing their most adventurous and empowered lives, Sadie is passionate about creating spaces for connection, laughter, and reinvention. With a social media following of over 100K, Sadie has built a platform that inspires and entertains divorcees around the world. Her signature mix of humor, honesty, and out-of-the-box thinking has made her a leading voice in the divorce community—and the go-to guide for turning life after divorce into your boldest chapter yet. Learn more about the Club and Podcast, and follow Sadie on Instagram! About your host:  Benjamin is a flirt and dating coach sharing his love of flirting and BFE - big flirt energy, with the world! A lifelong introvert and socially anxious member of society, Benjamin now helps singles and daters alike flirt with more confidence, clarity, and fun! As the flirt is all about connection, Benjamin helps the flirt community (the flirties!) date from a place that allows the value of connection in all forms - platonic and romantic connection - to take center stage and transform lives for greater healing and ultimately, a deeper connection with the self. You can connect with Benjamin on Instagram, TikTok, stream the Flirtations Flirtcast everywhere you listen to podcasts (like right here!), and find out more about working together 1:1 here.

Wednesday Night Bible Study with Pastor Mike Shoaf

On the next Treasured Truth, as we conclude our study on communication, Pastor Ford will explain further about the importance of honest in communication. If we’ve been untruthful, and we’ve told someone a lie, then we need to be forgiven of the lie so effective communication can be restored. As long as the lie is between us and the person we are trying to communicate with, we can go back and forth with them all we want to, but we still have to deal with the lie. Once it’s dealt with, then we can begin to achieve effective communication again with that person. Learn more about how communication is the key to every relationship when you join us for the next Treasured Truth. Treasured Truth is a listener supported program on Moody Radio. To join our team of supporters, click here. To learn more about Pastor James Ford, Jr., click here. To learn more about Treasured Truth, click here.Donate to Moody Radio: http://moodyradio.org/donateto/treasuredtruthSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In our relationships, if something is really bothering us and we don’t address it, but instead we pretend that nothing is wrong, then we’re not really being honest. When someone asks us, “What’s wrong?” And we say, “Nothing.”—that’s a lie. And on the next Treasured Truth, Pastor Ford will ask us today—How can we ever discover truth in our conversations with others, when we choose to ignore it ourselves? Learn more about how communication is the key to every relationship when you join us for the next Treasured Truth. Treasured Truth is a listener supported program on Moody Radio. To join our team of supporters, click here. To learn more about Pastor James Ford, Jr., click here.To learn more about Treasured Truth, click here.Donate to Moody Radio: http://moodyradio.org/donateto/treasuredtruthSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

When you join us for the next Treasured Truth, Pastor Ford will continue to share some insight into the power of good communication. He’ll explain that the biggest communication problem is that we do not listen to understand. Instead, we listen to reply. We’re waiting so that we can say, “Oh no, that was not what you said, or that didn’t go down like that.” So, we’re preparing our reply rather than trying to understand what the other person is trying to communicate. And this practice hinders the overall success of our communication and relationships. Learn more on the next Treasured Truth. Donate to Moody Radio: http://moodyradio.org/donateto/treasuredtruthSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

On the next Treasured Truth, as we continue our study on communication, Pastor Ford will encourage each of us to ask ourselves, “Is there something or someone that’s in the way, causing my communication to fail?” That’s an important question, because we must be careful about who we’re allowing to speak into our relationships. Those we are listening to may have good intentions, but their advice may not exactly apply to our relationships and situations. To learn more from Pastor Ford about how communication is the key to any and every relationship join us for the next Treasured Truth. Donate to Moody Radio: http://moodyradio.org/donateto/treasuredtruthSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

On the next Treasured Truth, Pastor Ford will continue our study about communication. To communicate is to share information with someone, either verbally or non-verbally, in a manner in which the person understands. But on the next Treasured Truth, Pastor Ford will explain this key factor—if there isn’t any understanding of the information on the part of the recipient, then no real communication has taken place. To hear more about why communication is key in relationships, join us for the next Treasured Truth. Donate to Moody Radio: http://moodyradio.org/donateto/treasuredtruthSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Wednesday Night Bible Study with Pastor Mike Shoaf

Honest communication is so important in any relationship. When we lie and when we get angry, we give the devil an opportunity to be in the middle of our relationship and begin his work to tear it apart. And that’s exactly what he wants. On the next Treasured Truth, Pastor Ford will explain that when we don’t tell the truth and allow our tempers to get out of control, we’re playing into the devil’s hands. Learn more about how communication is the key to every relationship when you join us for the next Treasured Truth. Donate to Moody Radio: http://moodyradio.org/donateto/treasuredtruthSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Do you often have conflicts with your partner? Would you like to learn to be happier in your relationships? Lisa continues the conversation today with author and relationship expert Linda Bloom, L.C.S.W., who is a psychotherapist and marriage counselor. Linda explains how there's an “art” to fighting and even in the greatest, happiest relationships, arguments can arise. Yet, she believes most challenges and problems can be worked out. You can use your relationship for the highest growth. From what Linda and her husband, Charlie Bloom, also a therapist and marriage counselor have reported, only about 10% of partnerships are in “Super Marriages.” This is an equal relationship which involves being compassionate and passionate, utilizing each other's strengths, and compensating for one another's weaknesses. Individually people have done the work to uplevel themselves and their understanding, thereby upleveling the relationship itself. Linda explains that it takes passion and commitment to be a highly emotionally intelligent person. By enrolling their partner, this leads to an immensely successful relationship. She and her husband decided to interview more than 50 very happy couples. The main trait they had in common was communication. They have “Super Marriages” because they are “Super Communicators.” They are in touch with their feelings and brave enough to express them. They learn how to be together, while keeping their individuality. They have so many clients who did not have good relationship role models. Luckily this is something that can be learned. Every couple can have their own experience, based on their own set of ethics and values. Between the demands of dual careers, raising children, and helping aging parents, you must make your relationship your priority. Linda suggests having date nights, checking in with yourself and partner every day, and scheduling romantic getaways at various times of the year, not just for birthdays and anniversaries. Prioritize the well-being of your relationship, and you can become a stronger working team, better able to handle life's stressors. Linda also discusses relationships with family members who may have differing opinions, politically and otherwise. Linda suggests setting boundaries and letting them know you do not care to discuss the subject if you know it will lead to an argument. If they are a bit more open, then you listen and show respect to their point of view. Maybe they will reciprocate and show interest. It is possible that understanding can be forged, even if you do not agree with one another.  Curiosity and wonder allow for differences to peacefully co-exist. It needs to be learned from the ground up. If you can create loving, trusting behavior in your own family, you can inspire those around you and thereby accelerate healing with powerful impact. Linda and Charlie Bloom are co-authors of several widely acclaimed books including, “101 Things I Wish I Knew When I Got Married: Simple Lessons to Make Love Last,” which has sold more than 100,000 copies, and “Secrets of Great Marriages: Real Truths from Real Couples About Lasting Love, Happily Ever After and Thirty-nine Other Myths about Love,” She offers educational and counseling services to individuals, couples, and organizations. She is a regular presenter at Esalen Institute and Kripalu Yoga Center. Info: www.bloomwork.com

In our relationships, we want to be able to get along and understand each other. We want to be able to communicate fully with each other and understand exactly what the other person is saying to us, recognizing where they’re coming from. On the next Treasured Truth, Pastor Ford will share some tips about how to improve your communication and your relationships, based on biblical guidelines. Treasured Truth is a listener supported program on Moody Radio. To join our team of supporters, click here. To learn more about Pastor James Ford, Jr., click here. To learn more about Treasured Truth, click here. Donate to Moody Radio: http://moodyradio.org/donateto/treasuredtruthSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

When you join us for the next Treasured Truth, Pastor Ford will continue to share some insight into the power of good communication. Sometimes we need to try and connect to how a person is feeling. If they’re feeling a certain way, they feel that way, simply because they feel that way. So, we need to connect to that and understand there are some things that may be going on that we just can’t solve, but we still need to find a way to effectively and kindly communicate. Join us as Pastor Ford continues his message “Turning Tragedy into Triumph” on the next Treasured Truth. Treasured Truth is a listener supported program on Moody Radio. To join our team of supporters, click here. To learn more about Pastor James Ford, Jr., click here. To learn more about Treasured Truth, click here.Donate to Moody Radio: http://moodyradio.org/donateto/treasuredtruthSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

On the next Treasured Truth, as we continue our study on communication, Pastor Ford will urge us to understand that we ought not criticize how another person feels. We should let them express their feelings. And then when we communicate, we must own our feelings. We shouldn’t say, “You did this to me.” Instead, we should ay, “What you did made me feel this way.” To learn more from Pastor Ford about how communication is the key to any and every relationship join us for the next Treasured Truth. Treasured Truth is a listener supported program on Moody Radio. To join our team of supporters, click here. To learn more about Pastor James Ford, Jr., click here. To learn more about Treasured Truth, click here.Donate to Moody Radio: http://moodyradio.org/donateto/treasuredtruthSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

On the next Treasured Truth, Pastor Ford will start a new study in Proverbs about communication and how it affects every type of relationship we have in life. He’ll explain that the elements of communication include tone, body language and words. And furthermore, if your attitude is bad, then you can assume that your body language, your tone and your words, may not be fit for good communication. Learn more from Pastor Ford the power of effective communication when you join us for the next Treasured Truth. Treasured Truth is a listener supported program on Moody Radio. To join our team of supporters, click here. To learn more about Pastor James Ford, Jr., click here. To learn more about Treasured Truth, click here.Donate to Moody Radio: http://moodyradio.org/donateto/treasuredtruthSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Do you often fight with your partner? Do you find it hard to speak your truth in relationships? Today's guest is author and relationship expert Linda Bloom, L.C.S.W., who is a psychotherapist and marriage counselor. Linda talks about how there's an “art” to fighting. Even in the greatest, happiest relationships, conflict can arise. Most challenges and problems can be worked out. If we are vulnerable, we see that underneath the anger and resentment, there's usually disconnection and fear. We can feel misunderstood and lonely but if we open up and express our vulnerability, it invites connection. Linda discusses how to set boundaries and take responsibility for our feelings. She talks about how opposites can attract as each brings different traits to the table.  We all have golden light, but dark shadows as well. We can learn from each other and embrace one another's strengths. She also talks about how people search for the “perfect partner.” This can actually be a way to protect oneself, as no one is perfect, but we can look at the good in others. We can practice our skills, and even if relationships don't last, we can still move forward by taking a risk on someone and looking for kindness. Sometimes people absolutely won't agree on certain important aspects. Perhaps there are fights involving one who spends money and one who saves money. If you listen to each other patiently, and with curiosity and wonder, much can be learned and resolved. It's a matter of finding common ground. It doesn't have to be a dealbreaker. Addictions may be a dealbreaker. It's not the addiction itself; it's if the person doesn't want to find help. If people really listen to each other with understanding and respect, needs can be met. Linda also talks about how infidelity doesn't always have to be a dealbreaker. It may be a one-time mistake, and the person may have learned a lesson. It IS possible to forgive. Fears will come up and it will take time. It's a matter of trust and it may be possible to work it out. Being in a relationship takes a lot of work. It's about being conscious. Linda discusses modern families and how there may be completely unequal levels of income. It's important to talk about and get to the roots underneath the discomfort.  If couples lean into the challenge, it can be a very fruitful conversation of balance. This is especially prevalent in the United States where people are so focused on money. It is possible to be a contribution, even if finances are unequal. The biggest fights  occur when people don't feel the depth of love. Success in the US is defined by money, status, and finances. Linda's definition of success includes how many loving relationships we have in our lives. If you make it the priority, you won't suffer by feeling like you are lacking love. When you get triggered, and you are angry, it's important to take a few breaths. Take a break when you are in a fight. Breath and settle down. Think about what's hurting you and scaring you. That's a helpful, connecting conversation. By doing this, you can feel heard. That's loving behavior. Having a safe word also helps. When you take a “time out,” do not stomp off and slam the door. That's a message saying your partner is impossible. It's important to both agree ahead of time that this is the best way to calm down and compose yourself. Come back with the intention to learn and understand. This respectful attitude builds back the trust. Linda and her husband, Charlie Bloom, are co-authors of several widely acclaimed books including, “101 Things I Wish I Knew When I Got Married: Simple Lessons to Make Love Last,” which has sold more than 100,000 copies, and “Secrets of Great Marriages: Real Truths from Real Couples About Lasting Love, Happily Ever After and Thirty-nine Other Myths about Love,” She offers educational and counseling services to individuals, couples, and organizations. She is a regular presenter at Esalen Institute and Kripalu Yoga Center. Info: www.bloomwork.com

Wednesday Night Bible Study with Pastor Mike Shoaf

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Wednesday Night Bible Study with Pastor Mike Shoaf

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Wednesday Night Bible Study with Pastor Mike Shoaf