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Homily from the Fourth Sunday in Ordinary Time Do not give away what has real value for counterfeit happiness. There are many idols in our lives that promise the happiness that only God can give. The counterfeits of Wealth, Power, Pleasure, and Fame have taken all that people have and left them with nothing. Jesus gives us a new way to live...that actually leads to authentic happiness. Mass Readings from February 1, 2026: Zephaniah 2:3; 3:12-13 Psalm 146:6-7, 8-9, 9-101 Corinthians 1:26-31 Matthew 5:1-12a
Jeff Abraham, CEO of Promescent called in to talk all about premature ejaculation, maximizing pleasure in the bedroom and more. Tune in to hear him discuss how and why guys are embarrassed by premature ejaculation and why they shouldn't be, the physical reasons for PE vs the mental ones, how long it takes the average male and female to have an orgasm and the gap that exists between the two, the “layering effect” that can happen due to lack of communication about the orgasm gap, how many guys have chronic PE vs. acute PE, the typical age premature ejaculation can show up for a guy, how Promescent delay spray works without transferring to a partner and how and why that's the sole differentiator from other sprays out there, why guys should be honest about using delay spray and how they can bring it up to their partner, the delay wipes vs the delay spray and who they are both made for, how many men actually suffer from premature ejaculation and how some men have actually wired themselves into it, their newest supplement that helps both men and women in the bedroom, how and why guys are masturbating more now then ever, the Go Solo product they created that guys can can use while masturbating plus a whole lot more. GET A COPY OF THE STRICTLY ANONYMOUS BOOK! Strictly Anonymous Confessions: Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. A bunch of short, super sexy, TRUE stories. GET YOUR COPY HERE: https://amzn.to/4i7hBCd To see HOT pics of my female guests + hear anonymous confessions + get all the episodes early and AD FREE, join my Patreon! It's only $7 a month and you can cancel at any time. You can sign up here: https://www.patreon.com/StrictlyAnonymousPodcast and when you join, I'll throw in a complimentary link to my private Discord! To join SDC and get a FREE Trial! click here: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=37712 or go to SDC.com and use my code 37712 Want to be on the show? Email me at strictlyanonymouspodcast@gmail.com or go to http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com and click on "Be on the Show." Want to confess while remaining anonymous? Call the CONFESSIONS hotline at 347-420-3579. All voices are changed. Sponsors: https://www.promescent.com/STRICTLY15 For 15% off Promescent's Delay Spray https://bluechew.com — Get 10% OFF your first month of Bluechew GOLD! Use code: STRICTLYANON https://butterwellness.com Get the Butter massager and get 20% off your whole order https://www.quince.com/strictlyanon — For premium quality Quince clothing plus FREE shipping and 365 day returns https://vb.health — To get 10% off DRIVE BOOST by VB Health use code: STRICTLY PikaVibe.com/Strictly — Click to get $15 OFF your purchase Follow me! Instagram https://www.instagram.com/strictanonymous/ X https://twitter.com/strictanonymous?lang=en Website http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com/ Everything else: https://linktr.ee/Strictlyanonymouspodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Good evening. Welcome to Dial P for Podcast, Patrick Ripoll's year-long chronological voyage through the films of Alfred Hitchcock. Every month Patrick will be watching four Hitchcock features and talking about them here, from The Pleasure Garden to Family Plot, all across the year of 2026, examining the life and work of England's most famous cinema pervert. First up, a slate of silent films. In The Pleasure Garden (1925) a showgirl must fight for her love, in The Lodger (1927) a mysterious new boardinghouse tenant may or may not be a serial killer, in The Ring (1927) an up and coming boxing challenger must fight for his love and in Downhill (1927) a rich schoolboy takes the fall for a friend's crime with disastrous results. The birth of one of the most spectacular careers in film history, the master director's not-so-humble beginning. Check it out, here as a new Director's Club exclusive spin-off series!0:00 - 0:44 - Intro Theme0:45 - 18:47 - The Pleasure Garden (1925)18:48 - 58:21 - The Lodger (1927)58:22 - 1:19:48 - The Ring (1927)1:19:49 - 1:45:21 - Downhill (1927) 1:45:22 - 1:46:09 - Outro Theme
What if “assuming best intent” is actually costing you more than it gives? In this solo episode of The Greatness Machine, Darius Mirshahzadeh challenges one of his longest held beliefs and shares a hard earned shift in perspective: stop assuming best intent and start assuming true intent. Drawing on personal experiences, maturity, and Aristotle's three types of friendships, utility, pleasure, and virtue, Darius unpacks how mislabeling relationships leads to disappointment, burnout, and misplaced loyalty. This episode is a powerful reflection on discernment, boundaries, and energy management, and a reminder that every relationship comes with a real cost. Learn how greater awareness creates better choices, stronger boundaries, and more intentional relationships, both in life and business. Episode 338: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/338-loyalty-is-a-gift/id1555334180?i=1000696743757 3 Types of Friendship: https://philosophybreak.com/articles/aristotle-on-the-3-types-of-friendship-and-how-they-enrich-life/ In this episode, Darius will discuss: (00:00) Assuming True Intent Over Best Intent (02:58) Understanding Loyalty and Its Costs (06:13) Types of Friendships According to Aristotle (09:07) Assessing Relationships: Utility, Pleasure, and Virtue (12:14) The Importance of Awareness in Relationships (15:09) Evaluating the True Expense of Relationships Connect with Darius: Website: https://therealdarius.com/ Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/dariusmirshahzadeh/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/imthedarius/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@Thegreatnessmachine Book: The Core Value Equation https://www.amazon.com/Core-Value-Equation-Framework-Limitless/dp/1544506708 Write a review for The Greatness Machine using this link: https://ratethispodcast.com/spreadinggreatness. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Powering a house with vape batteries. The piggyback bandit. QVC shopping. Dick Fur. Does Jeffrey enjoy spending time with his son? Walkout protest. Baby cries out during at the Australian open while one of the competitors is attempting to serve. Charlie doubles down on not taking babies anywhere for the first two years of their life. A snowplow driver laughs as he buries cars with snow. Police are called to a home after a man was seen walking around nude and having sex with a vacuum cleaner. Charlie has dabbled in using the vacuum for pleasure. Using a condom to masturbate for easy clean up. Hooker helped JLR put a condom on for the first time. Did JLR have to go to "John school" after he was arrested? Would Krystle fall for an inmate? Rover's cat runs the house. Queen of Manhattan, the Vanessa Del Rio biopic. Don Lemon has been arrested for taking part of the protest at a Minnesota church. List Crawler. Candace Owens released a video of Erika Kirk allegedly giggling after her husband's death. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Police are called to a home after a man was seen walking around nude and having sex with a vacuum cleaner. Charlie has dabbled in using the vacuum for pleasure. Using a condom to masturbate for easy clean up. Hooker helped JLR put a condom on for the first time. Did JLR have to go to "John school" after he was arrested? Would Krystle fall for an inmate?
Powering a house with vape batteries. The piggyback bandit. QVC shopping. Dick Fur. Does Jeffrey enjoy spending time with his son? Walkout protest. Baby cries out during at the Australian open while one of the competitors is attempting to serve. Charlie doubles down on not taking babies anywhere for the first two years of their life. A snowplow driver laughs as he buries cars with snow. Police are called to a home after a man was seen walking around nude and having sex with a vacuum cleaner. Charlie has dabbled in using the vacuum for pleasure. Using a condom to masturbate for easy clean up. Hooker helped JLR put a condom on for the first time. Did JLR have to go to "John school" after he was arrested? Would Krystle fall for an inmate? Rover's cat runs the house. Queen of Manhattan, the Vanessa Del Rio biopic. Don Lemon has been arrested for taking part of the protest at a Minnesota church. List Crawler. Candace Owens released a video of Erika Kirk allegedly giggling after her husband's death.
Police are called to a home after a man was seen walking around nude and having sex with a vacuum cleaner. Charlie has dabbled in using the vacuum for pleasure. Using a condom to masturbate for easy clean up. Hooker helped JLR put a condom on for the first time. Did JLR have to go to "John school" after he was arrested? Would Krystle fall for an inmate?See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
You can enjoy exclusive and intense erotic audio by grabbing your copy of the Sensual Awakenings App on the Apple Store,or downloading the very unofficial and unapproved Android version from WyldeInBed.com Immerse yourself in a world where every whisper ignites desire and every soft touch unveils hidden passions. *An ASMR Fusion Erotic Experience* invites you to explore the intoxicating blend of erotic ASMR and sensual storytelling, weaving a narrative that transcends mere words.In this standalone tale of forbidden desire, experience the thrill of enemies becoming lovers, as the sultry whispers of ASMR elevate their encounters to new heights. With each tantalizing chapter, the boundaries of BDSM and dark romance are pushed, revealing a profound connection that neither can resist.Join me on a journey filled with erotic drama and tantalizing tension, where every sound, every sigh, and every stolen moment will leave you breathless. Are you ready to surrender to a new level of pleasure? Step into a world where your fantasies come alive—one whisper at a time.
They say people in glass houses shouldn't throw stones. The Victorians might have done well to live by that rule.For all of the dirt that the Victorians threw at other eras, suggesting that all those who came before them were filthy, they weren't that clean themselves.Lee Jackson joins Kate for this final episode of our filthy series to talk toilets and more. Lee is the author of ‘Dirty Old London', ‘Palaces of Pleasure' and ‘Dickensland: The Curious History of Dickens's London'This episode was edited by Tim Arstall. The producer was Sophie Gee. The senior producer was Freddy Chick.Sign up to History Hit for hundreds of hours of original documentaries, with a new release every week and ad-free podcasts. Sign up at https://www.historyhit.com/subscribe. All music from Epidemic Sounds.Betwixt the Sheets: History of Sex, Scandal & Society is a History Hit podcast. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Send us a textFriendship archetypes and feeling more pleasure with friends (Part 2)Where is part one?: Part one can be found on my Patreon! Listen for FREE by becoming a patron today!https://www.patreon.com/TheLoveAtiyaExperience Affirmation: “I accept myself”This episode is all about: How I woke up to a scream from my higher self Visualizing me and my mom being on tv together The fleeting need for validation Doing what I want to do instead of what I should doMy back to back interactions with narcissists How I call myself “Seal girl” cause I just be clapping or everyone How I'm no longer being the audience for people Shoutouts to my mom for putting me onto the friendship archetypes theory My list of friendship types& different kinds of friendship archetypes Doing wtf I want to do My 47 day challenge P.s. I promise I'm setting up my mic this week lol Want to join my pleasure oasis? CLICK HERE: https://www.loveatiya.com/theetherealpleasureacademyWanna learn how to pleasure yourself to your higher self? CLICK HERE: https://www.patreon.com/TheLoveAtiyaExperience Follow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/loveatiya/Follow me on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@iloveatiya?YouTube: iloveatiya https://www.youtube.com/@iloveatiya/videos Support the show
You could be having better sex and the science explains why, not because you're broken or doing something wrong, but because most of us were never taught how desire actually works or how intimacy evolves over time. Instead, we're handed myths, silence, and a lot of quiet frustration.In this conversation, we explore why great sex is not something that just happens, but something you can learn, practice, and grow into at any stage of life. We talk about desire, pleasure, communication, midlife shifts, and how letting go of shame opens the door to intimacy that feels more alive, connected, and satisfying.Dr. Nicole McNichols is an internationally renowned human sexuality professor at the University of Washington, where her course The Diversity of Human Sexuality is the most popular in the school's history. She is also the author of You Could Be Having Better Sex, out February 3.In this episode, you'll discoverA simple mindset shift that makes sex more fulfilling over timeWhy novelty matters more than frequency and how to add it without pressureThe overlooked role pleasure plays in mental health and resilienceWhat actually helps desire return in long-term relationshipsA healthier way to talk about sex that builds trust and connectionIf sex has started to feel confusing, disconnected, or quietly disappointing, this episode offers a grounded, research-backed way forward. Press play to learn how intimacy can become something you grow into rather than drift away from.You can find Nicole at: Website | Instagram | Episode TranscriptIf you LOVED this episode, you'll also love the conversations we had with Emily Nagoski about the science of pleasure and sustaining sexual connection.Check out our offerings & partners: Join My New Writing Project: Awake at the WheelVisit Our Sponsor Page For Great Resources & Discount Codes Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
In this episode, I sit down with Suzannah Weiss to explore how eroticism and pleasure can be cultivated while living with chronic pain and illness. We unpack the cultural myths that normalize women's suffering, how pain and fatigue impact libido and orgasm, and what it means to stay connected to pleasure when the body isn't cooperating. An intimate, grounded conversation on listening to the body, redefining sex beyond performance, and reclaiming erotic agency in all seasons of health.In this episode you'll hear:00:00 Intro02:50 Chronic Pain, Libido, and Erotic Truth06:06 Eve's Curse and the Myth of Women's Pain08:13 PMS, Power, and Cultural Backlash16:08 Medical Gaslighting and the Cost of Not Being Believed31:50 The Myth of the Elusive Female OrgasmTHE SKINNY ON OUR SEXY GUESTSuzannah Weiss is a writer and psychotherapist focused on sexuality, relationships, and women's empowerment. She is the author of Subjectified, a memoir-manifesto on ending objectification, and Eve's Blessing, a personal, political, and spiritual exploration of reclaiming pleasure where women have been taught to accept pain. With over 8,800 published articles, her work has appeared in outlets such as The New York Times and The Washington Post. Through her writing and therapy practice, Suzannah challenges cultural myths about women's bodies and invites a more liberated, pleasure-affirming relationship with sexuality.LINKS FROM THE SHOWSuzannah Weiss – official website - https://suzannahweiss.com/Books by Suzannah Weiss:→ Subjectified: Becoming a Sexual Subject - https://a.co/d/66E2aex→ Eve's Blessing: Uncovering the Lost Pleasure Behind Female Pain - https://a.co/d/blrgCBeTwitter / X: @SuzannahWeissInstagram: @SuzannaWise (W-I-S-E)WANT MORE?Join me for my monthly Un.done Classes: learn.sexloveyoga.com/come-undoneSensual Awakening: https://sexloveyoga.mykajabi.com/sensual-awakeningErotically Undone: https://sexloveyoga.mykajabi.com/EroticallyUndone****Sensual Sundays Guide: https://learn.sexloveyoga.com/sensual-sundaysBig Cat Energy: https://learn.sexloveyoga.com/big-cat-energy
The NFL only has one game left, and there is plenty to talk about after Championship Weekend. However, there are plenty of talking points as we get into the playoffs, including the coaching carousel continuing to turn. How do you decipher the key storylines heading into the Super Bowl? That's where the For Your Viewing Pleasure podcast comes in where hosts Jeff Hartman and Wesley Coleman talk about the slate of games in the Championship Round, and what you should, and shouldn't, be watching. This podcast is a part of the Pro Football Insiders. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
This week Elle and Vee chat with Annette Benedetti, badass sex educator, pleasure expert, and host of Talk Sex with Annette, known for her no-bullshit approach to sex, orgasms, and sexual health. They dive into her 365 Days of Pleasure experiment, daily masturbation, favorite sex toys, and why the intermittent setting actually exists on the Magic Wand (do people really use that?!). If you want the real talk on clitoral, G-spot, cervical, blended, rolling, A-spot, P-spot, and anal orgasms, don't miss this conversation.365 Days of Pleasure: taking the pressure off the orgasm and reframing pleasure from work to fun. (00:42)The Specifics: What it actually looks like to orgasm every day for a year. (07:51)Porn and gang bang fantasies, and why what porn we watch feels like such a vulnerable question. (13:01)Womanizer Blend: Annette's favorite toy for workday quickies, combining G-spot and clitoral stimulation for blended orgasms. (18:18)A-spot orgasms: where it is, how to find it, and accessing pleasure after micro-traumas. (24:28)Cervical orgasm versus A-spot orgasm, and how to tell the difference. (31:24) 2 things that make orgasm possible: anticipation and consistency. (36:16)Elle's favorite toy for blended orgasms. (40:30)Anal orgasms, P-spot, and K-spot pleasure. (41:31)Orgasms and partnership, and whether committing to a personal pleasure challenge creates pressure on a partner. (44:02)Accessing your inner power through self-pleasure. (47:21)Masturbation for vaginal health. (50:48)Benefits of masturbation for men and prostate health. (53:09)A sneak peek into the full 365 Days of Pleasure journey with Annette. (55:57)____________________Annette Benedetti Links:Website: www.talksexwithannette.com YouTube: @talksexwithannette Instagram: @annettebenedettiSupport the showWhere to Find Us & How to Support the Show:
Self-care isn't a luxury — it's your foundation. Today, we explore why self-care can feel so uncomfortable (especially for those of us used to being the strong one), and how to start building your tolerance for pleasure, rest, and receiving. These are the same micro-practices that have transformed my relationship with myself and my energy over time. Here are the truths I keep learning again and again:
Want to re-eroticize your long-term relationship and keep the fires burning for the long-haul? Somatic Psychologist, and Sex Therapist Dr. Holly Richmond joins us with expert advice for couples. She gets practical with flirting techniques, understanding your sexual template, and the four things healthy couples do to have a thriving relationship in and out of the bedroom. Dr. Holly Richmond is a licensed marriage and family therapist, certified sex therapist, and holds a PhD in Somatic Psychology, and is the associate director of Modern Sex Therapy Institutes.More on these topics:Pleasure after trauma episode with HollyReclaiming Pleasure Book ReviewPartner desire discrepanciesDesire stylesHow much does frequency matter?Erotic personasErectile dissatisfaction vs Erectile dysfunctionAffection and the 6 second kissORDER my Book Permission for Pleasure: Tending Your Sexual GardenJOIN my Newsletter: Good Education for Good SexFOLLOW on Instagram @cindyscharkeyVISIT my website and blog
Coming out later in life? Welcome to you! Coming out is such a personal process, whether you're coming out to yourself or your loved ones. In this episode, DB talks with queer coach Eva Bloom all about what coming out later in life can look like. GUEST DETAILSEva Bloom (they/them) is a queer & trans late bloomer coach, community facilitator, and inclusive sex-ed speaker. With training in social psychology and their own lived experience, they help adults come into their queerness with confidence, and university & college students have healthy relationships. Eva is the founder of the digital platform @whatsmybodydoing which has supported over 3 million people across the globe. You can learn more about them at https://www.evabloom.ca/ https://www.instagram.com/whatsmybodydoing/ IN THIS EPISODE Find out more about The Genderbread Person at Sam Killermann's website: https://www.samkillermann.com/work/genderbread-person/ EVA BLOOM'S BOOK RECS Perfectly Queer by Jillian Abby Every Step She Takes by Alison Cochrun I'll be Gone for Christmas by Georgia K. Boone TAKE OUR SMUT QUIZFind your page-turning turn-on with our new SMUT QUIZ! In just 5 questions, you'll get right to the good stuff with curated pages, poems, and audios. No slow burn. No fluff. Just pleasure. Take the quiz here: https://sexedwithdb.fillout.com/smutquiz ABOUT SEASON 13 Season 13 of Sex Ed with DB is ALL ABOUT PLEASURE! Solo pleasure. Partnered pleasure. Orgasms. Porn. Queer joy. Kinks, sex toys, fantasies -- you name it. We're here to help you feel more informed, more empowered, and a whole lot more turned on to help YOU have the best sex. CONNECT WITH USInstagram: @sexedwithdbpodcast TikTok: @sexedwithdbThreads: @sexedwithdbpodcast X: @sexedwithdbYouTube: Sex Ed with DB SEX ED WITH DB SEASON 13 SPONSORS Uberlube, Magic Wand, and LELO. Get discounts on all of DB's favorite things here! GET IN TOUCH Email: sexedwithdb@gmail.comSubscribe to our BRAND NEW newsletter for hot goss, expert advice, and *the* most salacious stories. FOR SEXUAL HEALTH PROFESSIONALS Check out DB's workshop: "Building A Profitable Online Sexual Health Brand" ABOUT THE SHOW Sex Ed with DB is your go-to podcast for smart, science-backed sex education — delivering trusted insights from top experts on sex, sexuality, and pleasure. Empowering, inclusive, and grounded in real science, it's the sex ed you've always wanted. ASK AN ANONYMOUS SEX ED QUESTION Fill out our anonymous form to ask your sex ed question. SEASON 13 TEAM Creator, Host & Executive Producer: Danielle Bezalel (DB) (she/her) Producer and Growth Marketing Manager: Wil Williams (they/them) Social Media Content Creator: Iva Markicevic Daley (she/her) MUSIC Intro theme music: Hook Sounds Background music: Bright State by Ketsa Ad music: Soul Sync by Ketsa, Always Faithful by Ketsa, and Soul Epic by Ketsa. Thank you Ketsa!
This teaching explores the profound themes of intercessory prayer, emphasizing its roots in intimacy with Jesus, the partnership it fosters with God, and the importance of asking for the kingdom of God. Matthew discusses how intercession is not just about personal requests but about aligning with God's desires and purposes, highlighting the relational aspect of prayer. He also delves into the concept of the kingdom of God, explaining its present and future dimensions, and how every prayer of intercession ultimately seeks to bring about God's kingdom on earth.
The NFL only has one game left, and there is plenty to talk about after Championship Weekend. However, there are plenty of talking points as we get into the playoffs, including the coaching carousel continuing to turn. How do you decipher the key storylines heading into the Super Bowl? That's where the For Your Viewing Pleasure podcast comes in where hosts Jeff Hartman and Wesley Coleman talk about the slate of games in the Championship Round, and what you should, and shouldn't, be watching. This podcast is a part of the Pro Football Insiders. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Have you ever looked at your long-term partner and wondered: Is this still the connection I want? Who are we now? Can we feel close again? If you've reached midlife and found yourself in a relationship that feels more like roommates than lovers, if the spark has faded and you're not sure how to reignite it, or if you're navigating the dating world again after years away, this episode is for you.Gabriella Espinosa sits down with Dr. Justin Garcia. Dr. Garcia brings decades of research to answer the questions many midlife women are asking: Why do long-term relationships drift into disconnection? Can desire return after years together? Is it possible to rebuild intimacy when life, hormones, and identity are all shifting at once? And perhaps most importantly: Are we asking romantic partnerships to do something evolution never designed them for?Dr. Justin R. Garcia is an evolutionary biologist and international authority on the science of sex and relationships. Since 2019, he has served as Executive Director of the world-renowned Kinsey Institute, where he is also a Senior Scientist. He holds an appointment as the Ruth N. Halls Professor in the College of Arts and Sciences at Indiana University and is a Founding Co-Director of Human Sexuality and Health at the IU School of Medicine. An award-winning researcher and educator, Dr. Garcia is the Chief Scientific Advisor to Match, where he provides expertise for the annual Singles in America study. His research focuses on people's romantic and sexual lives throughout the life course, especially on integrative biopsychosocial models of variation in courtship, intimacy, and sexual behavior. He has co-authored over 100 academic articles and book chapters and is co-author of Evolution and Human Sexual Behavior. His latest book, The Intimate Animal: Why We Live for Love, explores the science behind human connection and is available now.Highlights from our discussion include:Intimacy Lives in the Shadow of SexSocial Monogamy vs. Sexual MonogamySexual Habituation Is Normal (And Solvable)What Keeps Passion Alive in Long-Term RelationshipsThe Intimacy Crisis Is RealMidlife Dating Prioritizes Chemistry AND CompatibilityGray Divorce and RenegotiationCuriosity Is the Best Tonic for RelationshipsSexual Satisfaction Increases with AgeTechnology Is a Tool, Not a ReplacementWhether you're in a long-term partnership, newly dating, or choosing singlehood, you'll discover why humans are wired for belonging and how midlife can be the beginning of your real love story.CONNECT WITH Dr. Justin Garcia:InstagramKinsey InstituteCONNECT WITH GABRIELLA ESPINOSA:InstagramLinkedInWork with Gabriella! Go to https://www.gabriellaespinosa.com/ to book a call.Full episodes on YouTube. The information shared on Pleasure in the Pause is for educational and informational purposes only and is not intended as medical advice. Always consult your healthcare provider before making any decisions about your health or treatment. The views expressed by guests are their own and do not necessarily reflect the views of the host or Pleasure in the Pause.
Send us a textIn this episode of Needs to Be Studied, we're joined by Master Radiant, who helps break down how kink can deepen emotional intimacy, trust, and vulnerability in sex in ways many “vanilla” relationships never touch. From consent and communication to aftercare and emotional safety, we explore why some people feel more seen, protected, and connectedduring kink than in everyday dating.Together, we talk about the moment kink stopped feeling purely physical and started feeling emotional, how trust shows up during sex (not just in love), and why structured boundaries can actually make it easier to open up. Master Radiant also shares insight into what happens after the scene — the check-ins, reassurance, and care that build real intimacy beyond the bedroom.We also get into extracurricular activities like figging, sploshing, needle play, and abrasion play, and break down Fire Play 101 — what it is, how it's practiced safely, and why it's not as reckless or scary as people assume.Whether you're kink-curious, actively exploring, or strictly vanilla but craving deeper emotional connection in your sex life, this episode will challenge what you think intimacy really looks like.
Taboo to Truth: Unapologetic Conversations About Sexuality in Midlife
In this episode, I sit down with Jim Benson to break down what multi orgasmic pleasure really means for men and why most men never learn it. Jim explains the difference between ejaculation and orgasm, why pleasure does not need to end with climax, and how presence, relaxation, breath, and body awareness change everything. They explore how men learn these skills over time, why partners play a powerful role in success, and how aging does not signal the end of sexual growth. This episode reframes male pleasure as something expansive, learnable, and deeply connected to emotional safety and presence.In This Episode:00:00 Why men believe orgasm equals ejaculation02:10 What multi orgasmic pleasure really means04:05 Why relaxation creates more sensation06:20 Breath and body awareness explained08:30 Orgasms without erection or ejaculation10:40 How partners support the learning process13:00 Practicing alone versus with a partner15:10 How long it takes to feel real change17:25 Aging, presence, and deeper pleasure19:40 Why sexual growth does not end with age21:10 Final thoughts and resourcesWant a deeper look? Watch the full episode on YouTube for a more visual experience of today's discussion. This episode is best enjoyed on video—don't miss out! Karen Bigman, a Sexual Health Alliance Certified Sex Educator, Life, and Menopause Coach, tackles the often-taboo subject of sexuality with a straightforward and candid approach. We explore the intricacies of sex during perimenopause, post-menopause, and andropause, offering insights and support for all those experiencing these transformative phases.This podcast is not intended to give medical advice. Karen Bigman is not a medical professional. For any medical questions or issues, please visit your licensed medical provider.Looking for some fresh perspective on sex in midlife? You can find me here:Email: karen@taboototruth.comWebsite: https://www.taboototruth.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/taboototruthYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@taboototruthpodcastAbout the Guest:Jim Benson has dedicated his life to helping men of all ages and backgrounds love themselves more fully.For the past 20 years, he has been coaching guys to “breakthroughs in the bedroom.” His Awakened Masculine program blends best practices across disciplines to create a powerful transformative environment for men to experience more personal pleasure and relationship satisfaction.Connect with Jim Benson:Website: https://awakenedmasculine.com/Use code KBIG50 to save $50 off The Multi-Orgasmic Lover course https://awakenedmasculine.com/program/Karen Bigman, a Sexual Health Alliance Certified Sex Educator, Life,
I'm talking about something that can completely change the way you approach weight loss, movement, habits, and even your mindset:Pleasure. Fun. Not the “vacation” kind… the kind you're choosing on an average Tuesday.Most women don't associate pleasure with what it takes to reach their goals. They associate change with:hardexhaustingrestrictivefrustratingAnd that disconnect is exactly why so many women feel stuck.✨ Why this topic mattersHere's the truth:On an average Tuesday, you're choosing pleasure all day long.And the pleasure you're choosing might be:helping you build the body + life you want ORquietly keeping you stuckThe goal of this episode is to help you see those choices clearly, and learn how to redefine pleasure so your goals start feeling exciting again.I am currently taking private coaching clients. If you are loving the podcast and would like to speak with me about how I can help you get into your healthiest body and mind (including weight loss, better habit formation, and more JOY!), click HERE to schedule a consultation. We will spend an hour together, and I will help you uncover exactly what needs to change so you can live in the body and live the life you want. Can't wait!
Having received his Ph.D. in mathematical logic at Brandeis University, Rabbi Dr. Dovid Gottlieb went on to become Professor of Philosophy at Johns Hopkins University. Today he is a senior faculty member at Ohr Somayach in Jerusalem. An accomplished author and lecturer, Rabbi Gottlieb has electrified audiences with his stimulating and energetic presentations on ethical and philosophical issues. In Jewish Philosophy with Rabbi Dr. Gottlieb, we are invited to explore the most fascinating and elemental concepts of Jewish Philosophy. https://podcasts.ohr.edu/ podcasts@ohr.edu
In this Radio Feature, Rabbi Gary discusses Paul and the Jewish People. This 1 minute episode will air on KKLA 99.5 in Los Angeles, beginning January 30, 2026, on Fridays during rush hour.Send us a text
The Pleasure Zone with Milica Jelenic - Diamond Host There is a myth about men not desiring connection, and only wanting sex. I am here to tell you that this is truly a myth about men. It is not a myth about hurt boys or many babies who choose not to heal, they might not desire connection at all, I don't refer to them as men. Men are the ones who desire connection, and we are going to find out how we can contribute to having that be better and easier for everyone who loves men! This episode is a follow up to the last episode where we discussed men desiring more connection. In this episode we will: Look at several things that assist in supporting a deeper connection in a way that is sustainable How a better/more connection leads to a stronger, more satisfying relationship The impact a man's feeling of connection has on everyone, and everything around him Join Milica Jelenic on this episode of The Pleasure Zone where we will find out "How To Create Deeper Connection With Men." Grab your Yes, No, Maybe list - all about Playful Tips for Pleasure here Light From The Shadows: Enriching The Lives Of Others Inspired Choices Network Hosts Author Milica Jelenic Amazon.com – https://www.amazon.com/dp/1738249417 Amazon.ca – https://www.amazon.ca/dp/1738249417 ~ More About The Pleasure Zone ~ Milica Jelenic is a Sex & Intimacy Coach. What is pleasure? Have you ever noticed that what is pleasing to one body is not necessarily pleasing to all bodies? What if our bodies like to be pleasing and to gift pleasure to others and to receive pleasure? In this show we will explore the world of pleasure. If your body was sensing pleasure more often would your life have more ease? We start out with magical little bodies that turn on everybody. Babies are always having people come up to them and compliment them on their beauty and get really excited to be in their presence. What would the world be like if we stopped judging ourselves, our bodies and others? How much more fun, joy and pleasure is possible on this planet if we choose to be explorers? Whose ready for an adventure??? Milica Jelenic is an advocate for pleasure. In her private practice she invites clients to create life and lifestyle that offers more pleasure and vitality. Milica's intuitive ability to sense where change is possible and to question what is stuck in the target area creates a very dynamic session that promotes choice, possibility and change. Milica has impacted the lives and health of individuals both in Canada and abroad with her humor, kindness, gentleness, potency and intensity. Milica's approach is playful, fun and direct. Milica is willing to be whatever energy and space is required for the change you desire. If you are interested in receiving Milica' monthly newsletter about events, classes and information on booking private sessions send and e-mail through her website. www.milicajelenic.com/ To get more of The Pleasure Zone with Milica Jelenic, be sure to visit the podcast page for replays of all her shows here: https://www.inspiredchoicesnetwork.com/podcast/the-pleasure-zone-milica-jelenic/
Delayed gratification is often touted as one of the secrets to a fulfilling life. The famous marshmallow experiment concluded that children who were able to delay the reward of a marshmallow for a larger reward of more marshmallows had better outcomes later in life.But is this really the case? Are we actually better off favoring long-term good over short-term pleasure?In this episode, Thom explains that this is more than just a philosophical question, it's actually a question that has implications for evolution of the species.And the answer might surprise you…Episode Highlights00:45 It's All About Knowledge03:26 Evolution is Not a Straight Line07:41 We Have to Have a Blend12:07 There's No Such Thing as Perfection in the Relative World14:19 Disruption Causes Adaptation to Occur17:46 Q: What can you tell us about freeze reactivity?17:58 A: Catatonia is the Extreme20:38 Practice Vedic Meditation to Remove Irrelevant NeurochemistryYou can also watch this episode on YouTube here: https://youtu.be/B3a7BvY50TwUseful Linksinfo@thomknoles.com https://thomknoles.com/https://www.instagram.com/thethomknoleshttps://www.facebook.com/thethomknoleshttps://www.youtube.com/c/thomknoleshttps://thomknoles.com/ask-thom-anything/
What if your next chapter didn't look like anything you've seen before… but felt more you than ever?In this empowering episode, I sit down with powerhouse entrepreneur Daniela Baumann, who went from bankrupt single mom to global businesswoman and founder of over 20 pole dance studios across Europe — all while challenging outdated norms around female confidence, self-worth, and reinvention.This conversation is a celebration of starting over, rising stronger, and rewriting the rules of success at any age. If you've ever felt stuck, undervalued, or like you've outgrown the life you're living, Daniela's story will ignite something deep within you. What you'll get out of this episode… How Daniela went from single mom to serial entrepreneur after being told she was “crazy” for chasing her dreamWhy 50 might just be the best time to rewrite your storyMindset shift to reinvent at any ageWhy women win bigger when they choose collaboration over competitionHow Daniela built a global business empire rooted in feminine power, community, and courageA reminder that your past doesn't define you, but your next decision doesConnect with DanielaIG / https://www.instagram.com/danielabaumannofficial YT / https://www.youtube.com/@danielabaumannofficial WOMEN LEADERS CLUB / https://womenleadersevents.com/women-leaders-club-membership BOOK / https://www.amazon.com/Finest-Women-Leaders-International-Second-ebook/dp/B0G2H8KVCT/ This Episode is Sponsored by Chai TonicsStarting the year without pressure? Same. I'm choosing ritual over resolution with Chai Tonics — a calming chai ritual for focus, gentle energy, and nervous-system support when January feels loud. Try it at https://bit.ly/trychaitonics and use code BRAVETABLE for 15% off.
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FRIENDS OF GOD (PART 1) | PASTOR MARK BOER | JANUARY 25, 2026 — We weren't created only to worship God, but to be with Him — relationship was always the point. He's our Lord, Savior, Father, Teacher, Healer, Provider, Protector, and Guide, but have you considered, He chose to be our Friend? We exist because He wanted us, and He's genuinely pleased with that. Just like parents delight in their kids' joy, God invites us into real companionship — the kind Enoch walked in and Abraham lived in. Want to be a friend of God today?
Can You Truly Access More Pleasure In Your Everyday Life? If you have ever felt pleasure was something elusive or reserved for someone else, this week's episode is guaranteed to spark a shift. James Preece is joined by the brilliant Lee-Ann Cordingley - a certified sex coach and yoga teacher - for a lively and frank conversation about pleasure and why so many people feel blocked from enjoying it fully. Dive into fascinating insights on why the "pleasure" topic is so often shrouded in guilt or overthinking, especially for women, and discover why pleasure is genuine self-care. You'll hear about the links between stress, nervous system responses, people-pleasing and intimacy - and learn why solo sex is the secret foundation for knowing what you really want. There's also a guided meditation for pleasure, practical tips for feeling more alive and present and a few giggle-inducing moments from the yoga studio. If you're ready to stop going through the motions and start amping up the pleasure in your life, listen now - this chat is packed with permission, laughter and strategies you can use right away. About Lee-Ann Website Website Instagram About James James Preece is the UK's top Dating Coach with over 20 years experience helping singles all over the world. He is the host of the Love Machine Podcast. Get his free book when you join his newsletter : https://www.jamespreece.com/dating-newsletter/ Website: https://www.jamespreece.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jamespreececoaching/
A Brutally Honest Take on the UncontrollablesWe live in a culture obsessed with control. Hustle harder. Plan smarter. Pray longer. If you do all the right things, life should cooperate. That's the promise of hustle culture—and it's incredibly seductive.But Ecclesiastes offers a brutally honest response.As we close our Ecclesiastes series, Qoheleth—the Teacher—pulls back the curtain on the illusion of control. Life “under the sun” is not a machine we operate; it's a mystery we inhabit. And the more we try to control it, the more frustrated and disillusioned we become.Earlier in the book, Qoheleth introduced us to two key ideas that shape everything else. First, his name—Qoheleth—means “Teacher,” the one who gathers people to tell the truth. Second, the word hevel—often translated “meaningless”—literally means vapor. Life is fleeting, unstable, and impossible to grasp.Pleasure is hevel.Wealth is hevel.They're not sins. They're not gods. They're gifts—but terrible masters.In this final message, Ecclesiastes confronts three unavoidable realities of life: the uncontrollables.1. You Can't Control the CreatorWe live under the illusion that we are in charge—especially in American culture. Ecclesiastes says otherwise.Ecclesiastes 7:13–14 (NLT) says, “Accept the way God does things, for who can straighten what he has made crooked?”The hardest truth for control-oriented people is this: God is God, and we are not.Scripture teaches that God is sovereign—not just aware of events, but actively holding the universe together and directing history toward His purposes. Sometimes God acts directly. Sometimes He allows human choices. But even when He permits something, He never loses control.God is the primary cause—the one with the plan and the power.Humans are secondary causes—we make real choices with real responsibility.The bottom line is humbling: you are not the scriptwriter of your life.2. You Can't Control the ConsequencesWe assume life is a meritocracy—that the fastest, smartest, and hardest-working people always win. Ecclesiastes dismantles that assumption.Ecclesiastes 9:11 (NLT) says, “The fastest runner doesn't always win the race… It is all decided by chance, by being in the right place at the right time.”Timing matters. Circumstances matter. Opportunity matters.This doesn't mean effort is pointless. In fact, Ecclesiastes affirms wisdom and preparation.Ecclesiastes 10:10 (NLT) says, “Using a dull ax requires great strength, so sharpen the blade.”Sharpen the blade. Work hard. Be wise.But even then, outcomes are never guaranteed.Ecclesiastes doesn't call us to quit trying—it calls us to stop pretending we're in control.3. You Can't Control the ClockSome people are better at predicting the future than others. Many of them are rich. But it's still a guess.Ecclesiastes is clear: the future is unknowable, and death is unavoidable.Ecclesiastes 8:7–8 (NLT) says, “No one really knows what is going to happen… None of us can hold back our spirit from departing.”No amount of money, innovation, or optimism can stop time—or death. The human mortality rate remains a steady 100%.That reality sounds dark until we realize what Ecclesiastes is doing: stripping away false hope so we can find real hope.The Only Thing You Can ControlIf we can't control the Creator, the consequences, or the clock—what can we control?Ecclesiastes ends with clarity.Ecclesiastes 12:13–14 (NLT) says, “Fear God and obey his commands, for this is everyone's duty.”You can control your response to God.Not your parents' faith.Not your spouse's obedience.Not your pastor's integrity.Yours.To fear God means more than being afraid. It means awe,
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You can enjoy exclusive and intense erotic audio by grabbing your copy of the Sensual Awakenings App on the Apple Store,or downloading the very unofficial and unapproved Android version from WyldeInBed.com Are you ready to be captivated by a tale of passion and self-discovery?Alice's life has become an unending curtain of grey. Every day feels like a repetition of the last, leaving her yearning for excitement, pleasure, and a spark to ignite the fire within her. Little does she know, her life is about to take an unexpected turn.One fateful evening, while wandering through the city streets, Alice encounters a mysterious stranger. His presence is magnetic, drawing her in with an intensity she has never felt before. The air between them crackles with unspoken desire, and both are irresistibly drawn to one another.This chance meeting marks the beginning of Alice's sensual awakening. In the privacy of her own home, she indulges in self-pleasure, her thoughts consumed by the stranger she can't get out of her mind. Each touch sends waves of pleasure through her body, as she imagines his hands on her skin, his breath against her neck.Voyeuristic fantasies begin to flood her mind. She envisions being discovered in the act, her passionate encounters witnessed by unseen eyes. The thrill of being watched heightens her arousal, pushing her to explore her deepest desires.Alice's encounters with the stranger continue to fuel her erotic imagination. Their stolen glances and fleeting touches leave her breathless, driving her to new heights of self-pleasure. She is no longer the same woman she once was; she is transformed, awakened to a world of sensations she never knew existed.In this audio story, you will be taken on a journey of raw emotion and intense passion. Immerse yourself in Alice's world as she discovers the electrifying thrill of self-exploration and the intoxicating power of being desired. Feel the tension build with every whispered word and moan of pleasure, as Alice's fantasies come to life.Don't miss out on this tantalizing tale of erotic discovery. Surrender to the story and allow yourself to be swept away by the passion and intensity of Alice's awakening. Ready to take the plunge?Indulge in this sensual audio experience and uncover the thrilling world of self-pleasure and voyeuristic fantasies. Listen now and experience the erotic adventure you've been craving.
What if maternal health goals expanded beyond "alive and healthy"? In honor of Maternal Health Awareness Day, Debra Pascali-Bonaro invites us to imagine a world where pregnancy, birth, and postpartum care are not only safe but also deeply respectful, emotionally whole, and infused with comfort and pleasure. In this moving solo episode, Debra shares her personal connection to the origins of Maternal Health Awareness Day—beginning in her home state of New Jersey—and explores how far the movement has come, and how far we still must go. With maternal mortality rates rising across the U.S. and nearly 80% of pregnancy-related deaths proven preventable, Debra calls us to collective action: to hold ground, raise our voices, and reclaim maternal health as a human right. From advocacy and policy to embodied care and global collaboration, this episode invites you to consider: what does it mean to move from surviving to thriving with safety, love, and pleasure? In this episode, you'll learn: The origins of Maternal Health Awareness Day and its urgent mission. Why systemic inequities—not personal failures—drive maternal mortality rates. How safety, equity, and pleasure are biologically connected in birth. The protective power of respect, love, and support during birth and postpartum. Practical advocacy steps for expectant parents, birth workers, and allies. Mentioned in this episode: International MotherBaby Childbirth Organization @internationalmotherbabychi3946 International Childbirth Initiative (ICI) @internationalchildbirthini2273 FIGO (International Federation of Gynecology and Obstetrics) ICM (International Confederation of Midwives) @WorldMidwives American College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists (ACOG) Eat Pray Doula Advanced Retreats www.eatpraydoula.com Pleasurable Birth Essentials https://www.orgasmicbirth.com/pleasurable-birth-essentials Resources & Next Steps: Learn more and access free resources at https://www.orgasmicbirth.com/black-maternal-health-birth-equity-resources Share how you're holding ground on maternal health using #OrgasmicBirth and tag @orgasmicbirth on social media. Review and follow the show—we'd love to hear how this episode inspired you! Connect with Debra! Website: https://www.orgasmicbirth.com Instagram: / orgasmicbirth X: / orgasmicbirth YouTube / orgasmicbirth1 Tik Tok / orgasmicbirth LinkedIn: / debra-pascali-bonaro-1093471 ----
For my podcast only.. If you're suddenly at a milestone year, then this podcast episode is for you. This episode is asking you tough questions... are you living the life you planned?Let's think about it. Who is Vee Mindful?I am a Certified Relationship Coach with over 35 yrs of Dating, Relationship, & Marriage experience. I help Mature Men and Women Attract Healthy Connections through POLARITY, PASSION, and PLEASURE — without chasing, performing, or dimming their Power.
The NFL regular season is over, and there are plenty of must-watch games in the Championship Weekend. However, there are plenty of talking points as we get into the playoffs, including the coaching carousel continuing to turn. How do you decipher the key storylines heading into the postseason? That's where the For Your Viewing Pleasure podcast comes in where hosts Jeff Hartman and Wesley Coleman talk about the slate of games in the Championship Round. This podcast is a part of the Pro Football Insiders. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Pastor Roger WilliamsThe pursuit of pleasure “under the sun” is herding the wind.
In this special episode of the What's Your Brand Story Podcast, host Dhylles Victoria sits down for a deeply personal and powerful conversation with Eve, creator of Please Me. Together, they explore the story behind the brand and how lived experience, trauma healing, and sexual liberation helped shape a global movement. This episode dives into the realities of sexual health, pleasure, and healing, and why breaking the silence around these topics isn't just important it's essential. In this episode, we discuss: Eve's journey from childhood sexual trauma to sexual empowerment Why sexual health care is essential—not optional The orgasm gap and the truth about orgasm equality Why 95% of women require clitoral stimulation to orgasm Sexual health conditions rarely talked about, including: Erectile dysfunction (ED) Incontinence Pelvic floor dysfunction Premature ejaculation Healing sexual shame after trauma Men's sexual health and why it matters too Pleasure, sex toys, vibrators, and redefining what “sex” really means How silence around sex causes harm—and how open dialogue creates healing Connect with the Host Dhylles Victoria What's Your Brand Story PodcastListen on Spotify:https://open.spotify.com/show/4u7va5FBlQmBq9bk3SB6Rx Connect with Eve & Please Me Website:https://pleaseme.online Social Media & Contact:https://pleaseme.online/contacts Substack Newsletter:https://pleaseme.substack.com Patreon (Ad-Free Episodes & Bonus Content):https://patreon.com/PleaseMePodcast Be a Guest on Please Me:Apply via PodMatchhttps://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/beaguestonpleasemepodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
The message delves into the Lord's Prayer, emphasizing its structure, the significance of praise, and the transformative power of worship. Matthew encourages daily recitation of the prayer while highlighting the importance of starting and ending prayer with worship. The discussion also explores the meaning of 'hallowed be your name' and the impact of God's presence in worship settings, illustrating how worship can shift atmospheres and transform lives.
The NFL regular season is over, and there are plenty of must-watch games in the Championship Weekend. However, there are plenty of talking points as we get into the playoffs, including the coaching carousel continuing to turn. How do you decipher the key storylines heading into the postseason? That's where the For Your Viewing Pleasure podcast comes in where hosts Jeff Hartman and Wesley Coleman talk about the slate of games in the Championship Round. This podcast is a part of the Pro Football Insiders. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Welcome to Episode 317 of Lucretius Today. This is a podcast dedicated to the poet Lucretius, who wrote "On The Nature of Things," the most complete presentation of Epicurean philosophy left to us from the ancient world. Each week we walk you through the Epicurean texts, and we discuss how Epicurean philosophy can apply to you today. If you find the Epicurean worldview attractive, we invite you to join us in the study of Epicurus at EpicureanFriends.com, where we discuss this and all of our podcast episodes. We are closing in on the end of those portions of Tusculan Disputations that are most relevant to Epicurean philosophy today, so we'll pick up this week with more on [Section 32 of Part 5](https://epicurustoday.com/02-keysources/044-cicero-tusculan-disputations-yonge/#xxx-2).https://www.epicureanfriends.com/thread/4906-episode-317-td43-the-epicurean-system-of-counterbalancing-in-pursuit-of-pleasure/
When you look in the mirror, what's the first story you tell yourself about your body? If you're like most midlife women, that internal dialogue is often rooted in criticism, comparison, and the relentless pressure to "fix" an aging body that was never broken in the first place.In this episode of Pleasure in the Pause, host Gabriella Espinosa sits down with registered dietitian and body image coach Deb Benfield to explore how internalized ageism and diet culture keep us disconnected from our bodies—and what it takes to reclaim body trust, pleasure, and freedom in midlife and beyond.Deb Benfield, M.Ed., RDN, LDN, RYT, is a Registered Dietitian, nutrition therapist, and body image coach with 40 years of experience helping people heal their relationship with food, movement, and their bodies. Her work sits at the intersection of anti-ageism, body liberation, and trauma-informed care—offering a radically compassionate alternative to diet and wellness culture, especially for those in midlife and beyond. After turning 60, Deb began questioning the dominant narratives around aging, vitality, and beauty, and quickly realized how many resources still centered weight loss and youthful appearance as ultimate goals. In response, she created what she couldn't find: a framework for nourishing the body that honors inner wisdom, prioritizes vitality, and embraces the full spectrum of aging. She's the author of Unapologetic Aging: How to Mend and Nourish Your Relationship with Your Body, and she offers individual and group coaching to help her clients age unapologetically—on their own terms.Highlights from our discussion include:Understanding Your Body StoryYour Body Is Your Life Partner, Not Your Life's ProjectInternalized Ageism Keeps You StuckDiet Culture Fuels Hypervigilance, Not HealthRebuilding Body Trust Through EmbodimentRedefining Intimacy and Pleasure in MidlifeGLP-1 Medications: A Complex DecisionPermission to Stop ApologizingWhat if you stopped treating your body like a problem to solve and started honoring it as the life partner it's always been?This episode is an invitation home—to your body, your pleasure, and your power. If you're ready to step off the diet culture rollercoaster and into a more compassionate, embodied way of living, Deb Benfield's Unapologetic Aging is the companion you need.CONNECT WITH DEB BENFIELD:Website: https://www.debrabenfield.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/agingbodyliberation/Substack: https://substack.com/@debbenfield1CONNECT WITH GABRIELLA ESPINOSA:InstagramLinkedInWork with Gabriella! Go to https://www.gabriellaespinosa.com/ to book a call.Full episodes on YouTube. The information shared on Pleasure in the Pause is for educational and informational purposes only and is not intended as medical advice. Always consult your healthcare provider before making any decisions about your health or treatment. The views expressed by guests are their own and do not necessarily reflect the views of the host or Pleasure in the Pause.
Host Myrna Young is joined by Pamela Madsen, a certified somatic sex educator, to explore enhancing female orgasms through somatic sexology. They delve into understanding women's arousal processes, the impact of cultural conditioning on pleasure, and how women can explore their full erotic potential. Pamela shares insights from her Back to Body retreats and underscores the importance of focusing on arousal and pleasure rather than just orgasms. With anecdotes and expert advice, this conversation sheds light on overcoming barriers to pleasure and reclaiming a fulfilling sexual identity.Throughout the conversation, Pamela explores how conventional misconceptions about sex and orgasms can impede genuine pleasure, emphasizing the importance of focusing on bodily experiences rather than climax alone. She introduces listeners to the intricate journey of achieving sexual fulfillment and healing, sharing captivating anecdotes of women transforming their intimate lives at her retreats. Key Takeaways:Understanding Arousal: Women need to focus on the complete arousal arc, emphasizing the importance of awakening the body and welcoming arousal before reaching climax.Somatic Sex Education: Somatic sex education involves engaging the body through sound, movement, and touch to reconnect with sexual pleasure beyond just the mind.Healing Through Experience: Personalized retreats and somatic practices can help women discover personal barriers to pleasure rooted in childhood experiences and social conditioning.Self-awareness and Communication: Successfully enhancing pleasure requires clear self-awareness, communication about individual needs, and an understanding of one's erotic identity.Reframing Orgasm: The journey to orgasm is more fulfilling when arousal and pleasure are prioritized, challenging the traditional focus on orgasm as the ultimate goal.Partner with the Podcast Today, brands don't have an awareness problem—they have a trust problem. People are overwhelmed by ads. Let's tell your story in a way that actually resonates.”Brands partner with the Transform Your Mind Podcast because this isn't just advertising — it's trusted influence.Your brand is featured through:• A CEO or expert interview that positions you as a thought leader• Host-read pre-roll and mid-roll ads woven naturally into other episodes• And long-term visibility across our full media ecosystemTo explore a brand partnership, visit myhelps.us/partner.See this video on The Transform Your Mind YouTube Channel https://www.youtube.com/@MyhelpsUs/videosTo see a transcripts of this audio as well as links to all the advertisers on the show page https://myhelps.us/Follow Transform Your Mind on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/myrnamyoung/Follow Transform Your mind on Facebookhttps://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100063738390977Please leave a rating and review on iTunes https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/transform-your-mind/id1144973094 https://podcast.feedspot.com/personal_development_podcasts/
Full Plate: Ditch diet culture, respect your body, and set boundaries.
Abbie is joined by Christyna Johnson, a registered dietitian whose work sits at the intersection of nourishment and social justice (a perfect fit for Full Plate, as you all know).They unpack the way systems have weaponized hunger. And why that matters so much at a time where extreme thinness is being celebrated, hunger suppression is being normalized, and health is feeling more like a performance than ever.Tune in for more on:* Hunger as a tool of control—historically, politically, and culturally* Growing up with limited food variety, dieting, and respectability politics* Diet culture as a cult (yes, it's fascinating)* Why appetite suppression is being framed as “health”* GLP-1 medications, food noise, and informed consent* Epigenetics, famine, dieting, and intergenerational impact* The difference between the performance of health and actual well-being* Pleasure, nourishment, and why enjoying food matters* Why younger generations give us real reasons to hopeThis episode is honest, funny, gentle, and deeply unsettling in the best way. It invites us to ask bigger questions:Who benefits when we're disconnected from our bodies? And what becomes possible when nourishment takes up less brain space—so we can look up and care for one another?Make sure you're following Christyna on Instagram. And check out her book, 100 Food Affirmations, right here.Support the show: Enjoying this podcast? Please support the show on Substack for bonus episodes, community engagement, and access to "Ask Abbie" at abbieattwoodwellness.substack.com/subscribeApply for Abbie's Group Membership:Already been at this anti-diet culture thing for a while, but want community and continued learning? Apply for Abbie's monthly membership: https://www.abbieattwoodwellness.com/circle-monthly-groupFind the show on Instagram: @fullplate.podcastFind Abbie on Instagram: @abbieattwoodwellnessPodcast Cover Photography by Anya McInroyPodcast Editing by Brian WaltersThis podcast is ad-free and support comes from your support on Substack. Subscribe HERE. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit abbieattwoodwellness.substack.com/subscribe
In this episode of the Orgasmic Birth Podcast, Debra Pascali-Bonaro sits down with Dr. Diane Mueller—board-certified sexologist, naturopathic doctor, acupuncturist, and host of The Libido Lounge—to explore how pleasure can become your most powerful mindfulness practice and a lifeline for intimacy after baby. Dr. Diane shares how slowing down, savoring sensation, and weaving pleasure into everyday moments can reset stress hormones, support mental health, and rebuild connection in long-term relationships. Together, Debra and Dr. Diane unpack why passion often fades over time (and especially postpartum), how "new relationship energy" and dopamine work, and why many women need arousal before desire—not the other way around. You'll learn what "libido codes" are, how mismatched turn-on styles can lead to feeling rejected, and how to use simple, doable practices—like five-minute sensual check-ins—to bring back warmth, curiosity, and sexual vitality, even when you're exhausted. If you're ready to move beyond obligation and "just getting through it" and instead cultivate presence, pleasure, and playful intimacy in this season of life, this conversation is for you. In this episode, you'll learn: Why pleasure is a powerful (and fun) form of mindfulness that helps reset stress, support hormones, and bring you back into your body. How new relationship energy, novelty, and dopamine shape long-term desire—and ways to reawaken that spark without sacrificing stability. What libido codes are, why partners often miss each other's turn-on cues, and how to begin decoding your own. Why many women experience arousal before desire and how this changes the way we approach sex after birth. Gentle, realistic practices for postpartum couples: sensual touch, micro-doses of pleasure, and scheduled "pleasure dates" that feel nourishing, not pressured. Connect with Dr. Diane Mueller Website & resources: mysexdoc.com / mylibidodoc.com Libido Code Quiz: libidocode.com Libido Root Cause Quiz: libidoquiz.com Free guide – 5 Easy Steps to Orgasms and Romance: hotterlife.com Podcast: The Libido Lounge Connect with Debra Website: https://www.orgasmicbirth.com Instagram: / orgasmicbirth X: / orgasmicbirth YouTube / orgasmicbirth1 Tik Tok / orgasmicbirth LinkedIn: / debra-pascali-bonaro-1093471
This talk was given by Gil Fronsdal on 2026.01.17 at the Insight Meditation Center in Redwood City, CA. ******* Mindfulness Daylong Retreat: Calm, Clear, Simple, and Spacious (2026-01-17 00:00:00 -0800) ******* A machine generated transcript of this talk is available. It has not been edited by a human, so errors will exist. Download Transcript: https://www.audiodharma.org/transcripts/24362/download ******* For more talks like this, visit AudioDharma.org ******* If you have enjoyed this talk, please consider supporting AudioDharma with a donation at https://www.audiodharma.org/donate/. ******* This talk is licensed by a Creative Commons Attribution-Noncommercial-No Derivative Works 4.0 License