Before You Say I Do

So, on this last episode of this series, we'll be discussing even more ways one can differentiate between true love and obsession

Relationship is meant to be about two hearts and not one.When a relationship/marriage starts being about me instead of us, it will begin to show signs of obsession because true love is never about one person but both persons in the relationship.

Everything associated with true love is easy to handle no matter how the situation may seem, no matter how overwhelming the situation may seem but is not so so with obsession. Today, we look at more differences between the both of them.

Obsession is mostly mistaken for true love whereas, it isn't so,on this new series, we'll be dropping several points to shed light on the distinctiveness between love and obsession.

Today, we end a four weeks journey as it concerns godly deal breakers. We would be talking about some more godly deal breakers that every Christian should be aware of.

Dating without any boundaries will promote disorderliness in any relationship. Dealbreakers aren't there to complicate the relationship but are rather there to uncomplicate them.

Relationships is beautiful when it is done rightly, within the confines of godly principles. On today's episode, we explore more godly deal breakers in order to avoid dating wrongly.

As a Christian, you don't date the way the world dates, you don't go into relationships to please your flesh but date in a way that pleases God and this is what will serve as a guide when identifying dealbreakers.

We conclude our 4 weeks journey on Red Flags vs. Green Flags today, by dishing out more ways to identify a person who is interested in you.

Green Light can be so loud and bright but often times always overlooked by some ladies/guys due to some past hurt and negative experiences from previous relationships. On today's episode we'll be talking about how you can identify someone who is interested in you.

Some pains are unnecessary, some quarrels are unnecessary, and even some heartbreaks are unnecessary if only you could have avoided entering into those relationships by not overlooking the red flags.

You don't have to be treated poorly or in a bad way before your realise that you've been dating the wrong person and even worse about to be married to the wrong person, if you can sense the negative signs early enough you will avoid the hurt later on.

Dating doesn't have to be stressful and overly demanding if both partners are fully invested in it to the point that they can already see their future together as a couple.

The moment you start taking dating seriously, that's the moment you'll probably start dating the right persons who are interested in taking the relationship to the permanent site (marriage).

When you date for fun, you almost are certain that the relationship wouldn't end where you both are expecting and that is "in  marriage". On this episode we will be looking at how you can date with the intentio. Of marriage.

Dating is a serious business, just like any other business out there and, as such, should be taken seriously and done intentionally with the purpose of marriage at heart.On today's episode, we'll be seeing how one can practically date to get to the permanent site,which is marriage.

Dating doesn't have to be boring, doesn't have to be filled with so much seriousness but ultimately has to be done purposefully.And on today's series opener and the entire November, we will be teaching on how singles can date purposefully with marriage intentions.

The needs of every human being is endless but for the purpose of this series, we've narrowed it down to a select few that are important to the success of every relationship and marriage.

The needs of men and women are inexhaustible and that is why on today's episode,we will be adding other aspects of the needs of both men and women.The needs of men and women are inexhaustible and that is why on today's episode,we will be adding other aspects of the needs of both men and women.

Everyone has needs in life to function better and it's no different when it comes to relationship, everyone who enter into relationships has his or her needs that they need met, so in today's episodes we'll be looking at some more needs.

Relationship / Marriage will be easily successful when the man/woman prioritises their needs rather than their wants in the relationship.On this series we'll be looking at those needs as it relates to both genders in a relationship.

The fact that they are not clearly spelt out doesn't mean that they aren't there, bounderies are an important part of every relationship and marriage because without bounderies there'll be lack of order and proper behaviour in Relationships and marriages.

Relationships is beautiful when both partners have mutual respect for eachother and also especially when both partners respect the boundaries  in the relationship.

Bounderies in anything are not there  to fully restrict but merely there to serve as a bit of control to the level of acess  one enjoys in a thing and in this aspect, in the relationship.

Everything in life must have a limit/bounderies to it in order to avoid abuse, just like drugs, if you don't have a limit to how you take them, it may harm your organs and in this case your relationship is no different as well.

Forgiveness also shows maturity whenever a person is willing to Forgive an offender despite being severely hurt by them.

Forgiving someone who has hurt you is never easy but choosing to forgive instead of punishing your offender shows true strength even in the face of deep hurt  from your partner/spouse.

Being the first to forgive  everytime isn't  a sign weakness rather it is a sign of commitment, commitment to the wellbeing of the relationship no matter how much hurt you partner has put you through.

Forgiveness is not a request but a command from God, when you begin to view Forgiveness ftom God's lens then you can never go wrong because there's no love without Forgiveness.

Sexual Abuse isn't  something to take lightly and as such those  who have been through it should be given the proper care to be able to heal properly and completely.

Sexual Abuse is one of the most difficult  form of abuse to go through and come out without scars or serious trauma but  with this series we'll  be looking at various ways to deal with sexual abuse from its root.

Sexual abuse happens almost everyday but not everyone involved have the ability or courage to come out but on today's episode we'll seeing ways you can deal with it properly.

Many people are suffering from the effects of sexual abuse and find it really difficult  to navigate certain aspects of their life especially their relationship/marriage  because they've not dealt with the problem from the root and this is what this entire series will help you do if you're  currently in such a situation.

Your behaviour in your relationship is equal to the level of success you will enjoy in it. So today we end our 5 week journey as we look at other areas we can behave well to get the best out of our relationship.

One of the most attractive things in a person is good behaviour and anyone with a good behaviour will generally be a good fit to be in a relationship with.

How you behave wherever you find yourself will either draw people closer to you or far away from you and the same goes for your relationship. The behaviour you put up in your relationship can either make or mar it.

Relationships can be demanding and frustrating not because you both are not compatible but because you and your partner lack the ability to understand each, when you both do then it will easier to behave well in your relationship.

Being in a relationship is beautiful but what is more beautiful is when you know how to behave in the relationship, it will bring colour to the relationship and also help in the growth of both individuals involved.

Some of the worst lies told us are the  ones we refused to see as lies and we accepted from the onset it was told  to us On today's series finale, we  drop some more lies told  to partners by those they are dating.

Lies are lies irrespective of the intention behind them being told. So on today's episode we talk about more lies commonly told to people whom you're in love with/ people you're dating.

Sometimes the reason why you are yet to identify something as wrong is because you've heard a wrong so much that you hardly tell the difference between wrong and right, the same can be said about lies and on today's episode we are set to expose more lies about love.

Love lies are one of the things common in every relationship and marriages as partners either tell eachother this on purpose or ignorantly without knowing but these lies are frequently told and on today's episode, we will be talking about some of them and how they can affect the relationship/marriage.

We've come to the end of this beautiful series but before we end it, we'll drop some more nuggets of wisdom from what has helped us this passed two years.

The success of every relationship/marriage isn't stumbled upon but gotten by intentionally putting the work in to get the very best out of it. On today's episode, we discuss more lessons that has helped us so far.

Loving someone isn't enough to keep the relationship/marriage going to a point that it lasts long but what is more important is loving someone and growing in love and also finding ways to understand eachother in other to coexist peacefully with your partner. One this episode we share with you what has helped us so far.

Doing life with someone isn't always as easy as it seems especially when it is with someone who is different from you, has a different upbringing from yours and even sees life  differently too. On this  series we'll be sharing what we've done that has helped us thus far.

Parenting Is a beautiful experience only when you go into it intentionally and not leaving it to chance. On today's series finale, we will be looking at how to take intentional steps towards parenting when it comes to whom to date.

Being a parent is an important role anyone can ever take on and as such one must look at it from the place of intentionality rather than from a place of chance

Parenting is a serious business and for you to be parents with someone you must look out for these positive traits in your partner to know if they have it or not.

Parenting isn't as easy as it seems but it doesn't have to be hard too especially when you follow the right process to it. So on today's episode, we'll be talking about other parenting traits to look out for.

Dating should never be selfish but should be done with serious considerations of your future kids.So you date only people who have traits of of a good potential parent.