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This is a show that helps people in a Relationship, especially intending couples understand themselves better as they journey towards marriage. Have you got questions or do you need clarity to understand better? Send an email to jinnycheps@gmail.com

Ephraim Chepaka


    • May 11, 2025 LATEST EPISODE
    • every other week NEW EPISODES
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    • 230 EPISODES


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    Latest episodes from Before You Say I Do

    Common Love Lies (pt 2)

    Play Episode Listen Later May 11, 2025 11:50


    Sometimes the reason why you are yet to identify something as wrong is because you've heard a wrong so much that you hardly tell the difference between wrong and right, the same can be said about lies and on today's episode we are set to expose more lies about love.

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    Common Love Lies (pt 1)

    Play Episode Listen Later May 4, 2025 14:00


    Love lies are one of the things common in every relationship and marriages as partners either tell eachother this on purpose or ignorantly without knowing but these lies are frequently told and on today's episode, we will be talking about some of them and how they can affect the relationship/marriage.

    Lessons We Have Learnt (Series Finale)

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 27, 2025 17:50


    We've come to the end of this beautiful series but before we end it, we'll drop some more nuggets of wisdom from what has helped us this passed two years.

    Lessons We Have Learnt (pt 3)

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 20, 2025 18:45


    The success of every relationship/marriage isn't stumbled upon but gotten by intentionally putting the work in to get the very best out of it. On today's episode, we discuss more lessons that has helped us so far.

    Lessons We Have Learnt(Pt 2)

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 13, 2025 14:41


    Loving someone isn't enough to keep the relationship/marriage going to a point that it lasts long but what is more important is loving someone and growing in love and also finding ways to understand eachother in other to coexist peacefully with your partner. One this episode we share with you what has helped us so far.

    Lessons We Have Learnt (Pt 1)

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 6, 2025 19:30


    Doing life with someone isn't always as easy as it seems especially when it is with someone who is different from you, has a different upbringing from yours and even sees life  differently too. On this  series we'll be sharing what we've done that has helped us thus far.

    Positive Parenting Traits (Series Finale)

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 30, 2025 9:40


    Parenting Is a beautiful experience only when you go into it intentionally and not leaving it to chance. On today's series finale, we will be looking at how to take intentional steps towards parenting when it comes to whom to date.

    Positive Parenting Traits(Pt 4)

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 23, 2025 6:35


    Being a parent is an important role anyone can ever take on and as such one must look at it from the place of intentionality rather than from a place of chance

    Positive Parenting Traits (Pt 3)

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 16, 2025 8:00


    Parenting is a serious business and for you to be parents with someone you must look out for these positive traits in your partner to know if they have it or not.

    Positive Parenting Traits (pt 2)

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 9, 2025 8:06


    Parenting isn't as easy as it seems but it doesn't have to be hard too especially when you follow the right process to it. So on today's episode, we'll be talking about other parenting traits to look out for.

    Positive Parenting Traits (pt 1)

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 3, 2025 11:15


    Dating should never be selfish but should be done with serious considerations of your future kids.So you date only people who have traits of of a good potential parent.

    Marry-Matics - The Series(pt 3)

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 21, 2024 12:52


    We continue this beautiful series with our guest Loveth Cheps teaching us how we can attract the right person to date and eventually marry.

    Marry-Matics: The Series (Pt 2)

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 14, 2024 15:15


    Last week, we began the series MARRY-MATICS. As an extension of our recently concluded conference, so today, we'll be continuing to discuss on ways one can position him/herself in finding the right partner.

    Marry-Matics - The Series(pt 1)

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 7, 2024 16:00


    Finding the right person is too important of a step to miss and that's why we are bringing the extended version of the conference so you can learn further and recognize how to find the right person.

    Growing in your Relationship (Series Finale)

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 1, 2024 13:45


    Everything that has life must grow, because growth in itself is an essential part of life, and our relationships are no different. We conclude a 5 weeks journey today as we expose us to more areas growth can be seen in a healthy relationship.

    Growing in your Relationship (pt 4)

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 23, 2024 11:30


    Growing in your relationship shows the ability for progress in the relationship. Therefore, it's expedient that you make intentional efforts to grow in your relationship. On today's episode, we explore even more ways you'll know for sure if you're growing or not in your relationship

    Growing in your Relationship (pt 3)

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 16, 2024 11:47


    The fun part of every relationship is in the growth of the relationship. When two people who are romantically involved both refuse to grow or one partner grows and the other one doesn't , it automatically creates an unhealthy atmosphere that makes it difficult for the relationship to thrive. On today's episode we explore other signs of a growing relationship.

    Growing in your Relationship (pt 2)

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 9, 2024 9:46


    Growth is important in every aspect of life especially when it has to do with areas that can shape the entire course of one's life. On today's episode we look at other areas in a relationship that both partners must show signs of growth.

    Growing in your Relationship (pt 1)

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 2, 2024 12:21


    Growing is an important aspect of life and relationship is no different. For every relationship to thrive the both partners must consistently show signs of growth in other for the relationship to succeed.

    Friendship before Dating (Series Finale)

    Play Episode Listen Later May 29, 2024 16:16


    There's is no better way to know someone before dating than being friends with them first.

    Friendship before Dating (pt 4)

    Play Episode Listen Later May 26, 2024 13:52


    Dating without knowing the person to an extent is like buying an expensive product just because it looks fine and exotic without actually knowing what it's used for, it doesn't make sense. Today we explore more areas of importance as regards doing friendship before dating.

    Friendship before Dating (pt 3)

    Play Episode Listen Later May 19, 2024 12:26


    We continue our series titled Friendship before Dating as state several points that bothers on the importance of being friends with a person before dating them.

    Friends before Dating (pt 2)

    Play Episode Listen Later May 12, 2024 14:23


    Friendship is a process of building a close bond with someone you are interested in dating. On today's episode we move on by stating more important points that will promote friendship before dating.

    Frienship before Dating (pt1)

    Play Episode Listen Later May 5, 2024 12:43


    Dating is such a beautiful experience that both partners get to enjoy especially when they started out first as friends before getting into the relationship. So today we begin "Friendship before Dating" series and we'll generally be discussing the importance of building friendship before dating.

    Long Distance Relationship Requirements (Series Finale)

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 28, 2024 16:18


    Today we end the 4 week journey of our series;Long Distance Relationship Requirements and on today's series finale we'll touch a few more areas about what it will take you to get involved in a long distance dating.

    Long Distance Dating Requirements (pt 3)

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 21, 2024 11:14


    Dating will require commitment to one's partner to help the relationship grow but long distance relationship will require more than commitment, it will require a deep level of trust to keep the relationship fire burning. So on today's episode we continue the series by revealing more requirements for long distance dating.

    Long Distance Relationship Requirements (pt 2)

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 14, 2024 11:34


    Long distance dating surely has it's benefits as they are people who truly are benefactors of this type relationship however, there are still some people who have their reservations about it and that is why there are some requirements for anyone who intends to get into such a relationship. So on today's episode we explore other requirements of a long distance relationship.

    Long Distance Relationship Requirements (Pt 1)

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 7, 2024 11:58


    Long distance relationship is honestly not the easiest type of relationship to get into and therefore,if you must get into such relationship, you have to do so knowing what it entails when dating someone who isn't geographically close to you and that's what this series is all about.

    Resolving Conflicts (Series Finale)

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 31, 2024 27:39


    On today's episode, we'll be talking about more precise ways to resolve conflicts and this time, it will be from a more personal angle, as my wife and i will be discussing practically how the both of us resolve conflicts in our marriage.

    Resolving Conflicts (pt 4)

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 24, 2024 12:05


    Conflict in relationships/marriages are what partners will have to deal with every now and then, so to not be prepared in advance with effective strategies on how you can easily resolve these conflicts will do your relationship more harm than good.

    Resolving Conflicts (pt 3)

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 17, 2024 14:30


    Conflict resolution is a very intentional process, so if you must settle a dispute with your partner you must make sure you are ready to do things that will show that you really want to resolve the conflict.

    Resolving Conflicts (Pt 2)

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 10, 2024 11:46


    If you must resolve conflicts in your relationship/marriage, you must be intentional and ready to put pride and every bit of sentiment away. So on today's episode we'll be looking at other effective ways we can resolve conflicts.

    Resolving Conflicts (pt 1)

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 3, 2024 18:45


    We begin a new series Resolving Conflicts toda, this series will center on various ways you and your partner can resolve your misunderstanding maturely and that's what we will be discussing for the next couple of weeks till the end of March.

    Could This Be Love (Series Finale)

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 25, 2024 15:36


    Today we will be concluding the series; "Could This Be Love" this series has enabled people to rethink the aspect of just jumping into a relationship just because someone professes love. So on today's finale, we will continue to establish how to ascertain when someone truely loves or not.

    Could This Be Love (pt 3)

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 18, 2024 14:47


    Love can never be felt in uncertainty, so being in a relationship without being sure if you're loved by your partner is a wrong move. So today we continue our series on how you can verify if someone truely loves you or not.

    Could This Be Love (pt2)

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 12, 2024 15:02


    Understanding what is love and what is not love, is the first step to dating the right person and also, eventually marrying right as well. On today's episode we look at how we can identify true love.

    Could This Be Love (pt 1)

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 4, 2024 16:57


    Finding love and being loved is one thing but making sure it's a genuine feeling is more important. This season of love(February),we'll be talking about how to identify real love and not be deceived by people all in the name of love.

    Roles Of A Woman In A Relationship (Series Finale)

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 28, 2024 14:12


    We end a four week journey today in which we started be discussing the roles of a man in a relationship and we continued by also discussing the roles of women in a relationship. On today's episode, we'll be finalizing the roles women play in a relationship.

    Roles Of a Man and a Woman In a Relationship(pt 3)

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 21, 2024 12:57


    For two weeks we've talked about the roles of a man in a relationship and today we'll be talking about the roles of a woman in a relationship as well and we'll be doing this for the next two weeks.

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    The Roles Of a Man and a Woman In a Relationship (pt 2)

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 14, 2024 15:36


    Knowing your roles as a man and a woman in a relationship or marriage is essential to the success of the relationship. So on today's episode, we'll be discussing the the final part of the roles for men in relationships.

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    Roles of a Man and Woman a in a Relationship (pt 1)

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 7, 2024 13:25


    The positive outcome of a thing rest heavily on the functionality of that thing and also in the decisions it takes. On today's episode and series opener we will be looking at the roles of men in relationships and marriages.

    Dating With Marriage Intention Conference

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 3, 2024 101:31


    Dating without marriage in mind is like casting a net in the river and not expecting to catch a fish, makes no sense.

    Relationship Spices (Series Finale)

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 31, 2023 14:25


    here can never be any such thing as too much spices when it has to do with someone you're in a relationship with and today a 5week journey comes to an end as we talk about some more spices needed to grow your bond with your partner in the relationship.

    Relationship Spices (pt4)

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 24, 2023 12:54


    On this fourth part of our series, we're going to be discussing some more interesting ways to spice up your relationship that will leave you grinning from ear to ear by the amazing outcome you'd get.

    Relationship Spices (pt 3)

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 17, 2023 12:13


    The more the merrier isn't just a cliché but a real expression in this context of relationship spicing. The more spices you add to your relationship,the more flavor it gives to the relationship. So on today's episode we'll talking about other spices you can add to our relationship.

    Relationship Spices (pt 2)

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 10, 2023 13:49


    Including some spice to your relationship is essential to keeping the love and fire continually burning. On today's episode, we'll be discussing other ways you can spice up your relationship.

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    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 5, 2023 101:31


    Being intentional is what makes dating special.

    Relationship Spices

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 3, 2023 14:06


    Relationships needs to be spiced always in other to avoid it being stale and boring. For you add spice into your relationship, means that you have to be intentional and sincere when your relationship tilting towards that way in other to save it from crashing.

    Staying Faithful (Series Finale)

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 27, 2023 13:28


    Just as you put in intentional efforts to start a relationship with your partner, do same when it comes to staying faithful with them. Today we end the 4 weeks journey by dropping some more salient points as it has to do with staying faithful.

    Staying Faithful (pt 3)

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 19, 2023 12:42


    The responsibility of a healthy relationship and a partner who doesn't cheat is dependent on the treatment of our partner or on how our partner treats us. So on today's episode, we discuss things to do and how we can encourage our partners to be faithful in the relationship.

    Staying Faithful (pt 2)

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 12, 2023 12:18


    Being faithful is important but it's more important to sustain it after being faithful. So on this episode we discuss various ways by which we can stay faithful.

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