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Loving other human beings is both the trickiest and most important thing we’ll ever do. It's the most important, because the love we share with other people is what gives our lives meaning; it's tricky because the actual people that we love can make us want to tear our hair out. Fortunately, the Jewish tradition has tremendous resources to help us think about our relationships - with our partners, our children, our parents and our friends. How do we love when we are wounded ourselves? How do we express anger without slipping into scorn? How do we love our children as they are, while still shaping who they might become? Good Jewish Lover, from the Pardes Institute in Jerusalem is a podcast that brings the Torah of relationships to the reality of contemporary lives. During each episode, Rabbi Brent Chaim Spodek will explore a classic Jewish text with a guest who has important and relevant things to say about contemporary relationships.

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    • Jul 10, 2023 LATEST EPISODE
    • infrequent NEW EPISODES
    • 36m AVG DURATION
    • 11 EPISODES


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    Good Jewish Lover – Episode #10 – Learning Love from the Torah

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 10, 2023 34:48


    In this episode, Rabbi Brent is joined by Pardes Chief Innovation Officer Faith Leener for a conversation about reading the Torah with an eye toward becoming a Good Jewish Lover. If you have thoughts about this episode or suggestions for … Read the rest The post Good Jewish Lover – Episode #10 – Learning Love from the Torah first appeared on Elmad Online Learning. Continue reading Good Jewish Lover – Episode #10 – Learning Love from the Torah at Elmad Online Learning.

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    Good Jewish Lover – Episode #9 – Living While We’re Alive, with Assael and Galit Romanelli

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 19, 2023 48:33


    In this episode, Rabbi Brent is joined by couples therapists Assael and Galit Romanelli to discuss covert male depression, single married mothers, a family caving adventure in New Zealand and more. Their conversation begins with the story of Adam and … Read the rest The post Good Jewish Lover – Episode #9 – Living While We're Alive, with Assael and Galit Romanelli first appeared on Elmad Online Learning. Continue reading Good Jewish Lover – Episode #9 – Living While We’re Alive, with Assael and Galit Romanelli at Elmad Online Learning.

    Good Jewish Lover – Episode #8 – Confronting our Shame, with Ely Kreimendahl

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 5, 2023 36:17


    In this episode, Rabbi Brent is joined by Ely Kreimendahl, queer comic, author, psychotherapist and host of Shame Spiral to discuss an ancient sage who is forced to confront his ego after 70 years of sleep, overbearing parents (having them … Read the rest The post Good Jewish Lover – Episode #8 – Confronting our Shame, with Ely Kreimendahl first appeared on Elmad Online Learning. Continue reading Good Jewish Lover – Episode #8 – Confronting our Shame, with Ely Kreimendahl at Elmad Online Learning.

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    Good Jewish Lover – Episode #7 -Knowing our Partners, with Jonathan Vatner

    Play Episode Listen Later May 22, 2023 36:56


    In this episode, Rabbi Brent is joined by Jonathan Vatner, author of Carnegie Hill and The Bridesmaids Union to discuss knowing our partners, managing our insecurities and recognizing that we are worthy of love despite our limitations. Their conversation … Read the rest The post Good Jewish Lover – Episode #7 -Knowing our Partners, with Jonathan Vatner first appeared on Elmad Online Learning. Continue reading Good Jewish Lover – Episode #7 -Knowing our Partners, with Jonathan Vatner at Elmad Online Learning.

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    Good Jewish Lover – Trailer

    Play Episode Listen Later May 8, 2023 0:56


    A Torah of Relationships Loving other human beings is both the trickiest and most important thing we'll ever do. It’s the most important, because the love we share with other people is what gives our lives meaning; it’s tricky because … Read the rest The post Good Jewish Lover – Trailer first appeared on Elmad Online Learning. Continue reading Good Jewish Lover – Trailer at Elmad Online Learning.

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    Good Jewish Lover – Episode #6 – Parents and Children, with Rabbi Mychal B Springer

    Play Episode Listen Later May 7, 2023 36:11


    In this episode, Rabbi Brent is joined by Rabbi Mychal B Springer, Manager of Clinical Pastoral Education at New York Presbyterian Hospital and co-editor of Sisters in Mourning, to discuss the boundaries between parents and children, about letting go … Read the rest The post Good Jewish Lover – Episode #6 – Parents and Children, with Rabbi Mychal B Springer first appeared on Elmad Online Learning. Continue reading Good Jewish Lover – Episode #6 – Parents and Children, with Rabbi Mychal B Springer at Elmad Online Learning.

    Good Jewish Lover – Episode #5 – Minding our Boundaries, with Catherine Bell

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 24, 2023 42:58


    Rabbi Brent is joined by celebrated coach Catherine Bell to discuss maintaining boundaries, communicating clearly, slowing down enough to regulate our nervous system, power, hierarchy, calling people into right relationship and more.  ​Their conversation begins with the extraordinary tale of … Read the rest The post Good Jewish Lover – Episode #5 – Minding our Boundaries, with Catherine Bell first appeared on Elmad Online Learning. Continue reading Good Jewish Lover – Episode #5 – Minding our Boundaries, with Catherine Bell at Elmad Online Learning.

    Good Jewish Lover – Episode #4 – Being Better Men, with Jackson Katz

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 10, 2023 38:53


    On this episode of Good Jewish Lover: The Torah of Relationships, Rabbi Brent is joined by Jackson Katz to talk about gender-based violence, recovering from patriarchy and more.  Their conversation begins with a medieval woman who became a teacher of … Read the rest The post Good Jewish Lover – Episode #4 – Being Better Men, with Jackson Katz first appeared on Elmad Online Learning. Continue reading Good Jewish Lover – Episode #4 – Being Better Men, with Jackson Katz at Elmad Online Learning.

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    Good Jewish Lover – Episode #3 – Building our Heritage, with Day Shildkret

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 27, 2023 45:27


    In this episode, Rabbi Brent is joined by Day Shildkret, creator of Morning Altars and author of Hello Goodbye to discuss names, Fiddler on the Roof, Stephen Jenkenson cultural hunger, The Bearing Witness Zen Meditation Retreat at Auschwitz-Birkenau and more. … Read the rest The post Good Jewish Lover – Episode #3 – Building our Heritage, with Day Shildkret first appeared on Elmad Online Learning. Continue reading Good Jewish Lover – Episode #3 – Building our Heritage, with Day Shildkret at Elmad Online Learning.

    Good Jewish Lover – Episode #2 – Addressing Our Shadows, with Shoshana Bloom

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 27, 2023 36:10


    In this episode, Rabbi Brent is joined by London-based ICF-certified Coach and clinical hypnotherapist Shoshana Bloom. If you have thoughts about this episode or suggestions for texts, topics or guests for future episodes, please be in touch with Rabbi … Read the rest The post Good Jewish Lover – Episode #2 – Addressing Our Shadows, with Shoshana Bloom first appeared on Elmad Online Learning. Continue reading Good Jewish Lover – Episode #2 – Addressing Our Shadows, with Shoshana Bloom at Elmad Online Learning.

    Good Jewish Lover – Episode #1 – Owning Our Issues, with Brandon Srot

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 27, 2023 39:48


    In this episode, Rabbi Brent is joined by Sydney, Australia-based psychotherapist Brandon Srot to discuss how we come to take ownership of our issues – the ones we know we have and the ones that we stumble across, sometimes painfully. … Read the rest The post Good Jewish Lover – Episode #1 – Owning Our Issues, with Brandon Srot first appeared on Elmad Online Learning. Continue reading Good Jewish Lover – Episode #1 – Owning Our Issues, with Brandon Srot at Elmad Online Learning.

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