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How do you know if it's the right time to move in with your significant other? We share some dos and don'ts to help you decide. Lynne and Kirsten debated it for a while. Katie and Ashley are discussing it real time right now!When is it healthy? What's holding you back? When is it self serving? What are some red flags? Let's dish! Follow us for more content:Instagram: www.instagram.com/adultout/Facebook: www.facebook.com/AdultOutTwitter: https://twitter.com/AdultOutOther Links: https://linktr.ee/adultout

Join us for another one of Jose's special relationship sharing sessions. This is part 2 of 2 so be sure to listen to part 1 first!Andrew and Kevin have been together 8 years and married for 4.Beth and Chela have been together 3 and a half and are now engaged!! Both couples have adorable heart warming stories of how they met, how they fell in love, and you can hear the smiles in their voices as they talk about their partner. They give me hope for all of us! Follow us for more content:Instagram: www.instagram.com/adultout/Facebook: www.facebook.com/AdultOutTwitter: https://twitter.com/AdultOutOther Links: https://linktr.ee/adultout

Join us for another one of Jose's special relationship sharing sessions. Andrew and Kevin have been together 8 years and married for 4.Beth and Chela have been together 3 and a half and are now engaged!! Both couples have adorable heart warming stories of how they met, how they fell in love, and you can hear the smiles in their voices as they talk about their partner. They give me hope for all of us! Follow us for more content:Instagram: www.instagram.com/adultout/Facebook: www.facebook.com/AdultOutTwitter: https://twitter.com/AdultOutOther Links: https://linktr.ee/adultout

In these behind the scenes conversations, you can get a deeper feel for the topics we discuss, the way we joke and laugh, and enjoy the shape of some of our friendships! Follow us for more content:Instagram: www.instagram.com/adultout/Facebook: www.facebook.com/AdultOutTwitter: https://twitter.com/AdultOutOther Links: https://linktr.ee/adultout

Four lesbians review the new holiday movie Happiest Season. Directed by Clea DuVall of "But I'm a Cheerleader" fame, and billed as "a holiday romantic comedy that captures the range of emotions tied to wanting your family's acceptance, being true to yourself, and trying not to ruin Christmas," we unwrap the layers (and lack thereof) found in this flick  Follow us for more content:Instagram: www.instagram.com/adultout/Facebook: www.facebook.com/AdultOutTwitter: https://twitter.com/AdultOutOther Links: https://linktr.ee/adultout

Part TWO of our Heteronormativity Episode!We've got a full backyard again for a large group session on heteronormativity and its influence on our lives. Alexandra, Michelle, Tony, Ashley, Rai, Tara, Doug, and Katie! Follow us for more content:Instagram: www.instagram.com/adultout/Facebook: www.facebook.com/AdultOutTwitter: https://twitter.com/AdultOutOther Links: https://linktr.ee/adultout

We've got a full backyard again for a large group session on heteronormativity and its influence on our lives. In the circle, in order of appearance, are Katie, Alexandra, Michelle, Tony, Ashley, Rai, Tara, and Doug! Follow us for more content:Instagram: www.instagram.com/adultout/Facebook: www.facebook.com/AdultOutTwitter: https://twitter.com/AdultOutOther Links: https://linktr.ee/adultout

Listen to one of the sweetest couples you've ever heard share how they met, stories from their years together, how they handled moving to a new state, and the conception and birth of their daughter! Follow us for more content:Instagram: www.instagram.com/adultout/Facebook: www.facebook.com/AdultOutTwitter: https://twitter.com/AdultOutOther Links: https://linktr.ee/adultout

In Part 2 of our Body Image and Masculinity Episode, the men return to offer different perspectives on body image and what it means to be a man. Jose and Katie moderate and we continue the discussion with Jacare, Mark, and Dan! Follow us for more content:Instagram: www.instagram.com/adultout/Facebook: www.facebook.com/AdultOutTwitter: https://twitter.com/AdultOutOther Links: https://linktr.ee/adultout

The men are in full force this episode offering 5 different perspectives on body image and what it means to be a man. They answer questions like 'What does self-care look like for you?' 'What societal stigma would you remove from men?' and 'How have comments about your body effected you?'Jose moderates, Brian returns, and we are joined by three new guests Jacare, Mark, and Dan! Follow us for more content:Instagram: www.instagram.com/adultout/Facebook: www.facebook.com/AdultOutTwitter: https://twitter.com/AdultOutOther Links: https://linktr.ee/adultout

Breakups can be awful or great! Breaking up is part of the natural cycle of dating. Most of us have lived through several so far perhaps with more to go. Lynne and Katie discuss two different types of break ups as well as some coping mechanisms and planning steps you can take to make them a bit easier to navigate.  Follow us for more content:Instagram: www.instagram.com/adultout/Facebook: www.facebook.com/AdultOutTwitter: https://twitter.com/AdultOutOther Links: https://linktr.ee/adultout

We want the van life! Join us as we call out the reasons for choosing a nomadic lifestyle, some of the hurdles to pay attention to as you plan, and open up to possibilities and examples of the awesome freedom it provides. Miller is a seasoned overland expert. Lynne, Alexandra, and Katie are looking into purchasing and building out custom vans for a few different reasons! Links for referenced communities:Queer Nomad Community: https://www.instagram.com/queernomadcommunity/ Queer Adventure Life: https://www.instagram.com/queeradventurelife/ Diversify Vanlife: https://www.instagram.com/diversify.vanlife/ Financial Mastery: https://finances.fit/   Follow us for more content:Instagram: www.instagram.com/adultout/Facebook: www.facebook.com/AdultOutTwitter: https://twitter.com/AdultOutOther Links: https://linktr.ee/adultout

These days, not much sounds better than a queer utopia in a nice climate. From the point of view of starting a new business, we discuss ideation, market research, and early steps to compile a business plan.Alexandra has an MBA from Rice University and experience starting and running businesses.Katie is a Project Manager keen on efficiency and productivity. Follow us for more content:Instagram: www.instagram.com/adultout/Facebook: www.facebook.com/AdultOutTwitter: https://twitter.com/AdultOutOther Links: https://linktr.ee/adultout

We've got a full house (socially distanced back deck) for this two part episode. Join us as we mourn Ruth Bader Ginsburg and discuss what her life and death mean to us as individuals, the history of her actions, the importance of the courts and court packing, as well as actionable steps you can take.  Follow us for more content:Instagram: www.instagram.com/adultout/Facebook: www.facebook.com/AdultOutTwitter: https://twitter.com/AdultOutOther Links: https://linktr.ee/adultout

We've got a full house (socially distanced back deck) for this two part episode. Join us as we mourn Ruth Bader Ginsburg and discuss what her life and death mean to us as individuals, the history of her actions, the importance of the courts and court packing, as well as actionable steps you can take.  Follow us for more content:Instagram: www.instagram.com/adultout/Facebook: www.facebook.com/AdultOutTwitter: https://twitter.com/AdultOutOther Links: https://linktr.ee/adultout Sources for sound clips in this episode:PBS NewsHour - February 5, 2015 - Justice Ginsburg on ‘enough women’ in the Supreme Court: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vJs1H5tQlDc The Aspen Institute - June 5, 2017 - Ruth Bader Ginsburg on the Value of Dissents: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GcrIKPTjNsA Washington Post - September 12, 2018 - How Trump is winning the race to reshape the nation's courts:  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CbOIrmV9KpY&t=28s History Channel - January 29, 2018 - What Is the Judicial Branch of the U.S. Government?: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9giPmCWnepU  

Who among us haven't struggled with creating and sticking to a spending plan?? Let's dive right in with a finance guru to learn some basics we can all apply to our lives and our wallets!Alexandra, that woman has an MBA from Rice University, gives us tips to manage our spending. Remember, it's a spending plan, not a saving's plan.Follow us for more content:Instagram: www.instagram.com/adultout/Facebook: www.facebook.com/AdultOutTwitter: https://twitter.com/AdultOutOther Links: https://linktr.ee/adultout

In these behind the scenes conversations, you can get a feel for the topics we discuss, the way we joke and laugh, and enjoy the shape of some of our friendships! Follow us for more content:Instagram: www.instagram.com/adultout/Facebook: www.facebook.com/AdultOutTwitter: https://twitter.com/AdultOutOther Links: https://linktr.ee/adultout

Welcome back for Part 2! Jose Napoles moderates this two part conversation featuring a gay couple and a lesbian couple. Learn about 5 different approaches to building a healthy relationship with your partner. Tobias, Brian, Ashley, and Katie delve into their choices and philosophies on how they approach their relationships from sex, quality time, communication, love languages, and so much more!  Follow us for more content:Instagram: www.instagram.com/adultout/Facebook: www.facebook.com/AdultOutTwitter: https://twitter.com/AdultOutOther Links: https://linktr.ee/adultout

Jose Napoles moderates this two part conversation featuring a gay couple and a lesbian couple. Learn about 5 different approaches to building a healthy relationship with your partner. Tobias, Brian, Ashley, and Katie delve into their choices and philosophies on how they approach their relationships from sex, quality time, communication, love languages, and so much more!  Follow us for more content:Instagram: www.instagram.com/adultout/Facebook: www.facebook.com/AdultOutTwitter: https://twitter.com/AdultOutOther Links: https://linktr.ee/adultout

Join Alexandra, Yas, Ellie, and Katie as we learn about a great beginners' backpacking story. Learn their recommendations, trials, decisions, and whether they would go again or not.  Follow us for more content:Instagram: www.instagram.com/adultout/Facebook: www.facebook.com/AdultOutTwitter: https://twitter.com/AdultOutOther Links: https://linktr.ee/adultout 

Four lesbians chatting about their experiences with dating. What's not to love?! Who dated who? What to do when someone ghosts you? How serious is serious? When to delete your apps? What makes it "official"? What's the sitch with bi girls? Follow us for more content:Instagram: www.instagram.com/adultout/Facebook: www.facebook.com/AdultOutTwitter: https://twitter.com/AdultOutOther Links: https://linktr.ee/adultout

Amy and Katie discuss how and why they got into their current hobbies of being handy and building things out of wood. We tell you some of the benefits we've had as well as the pain points we've felt along the way. Follow us for more content:Instagram: www.instagram.com/adultout/Facebook: www.facebook.com/AdultOutTwitter: https://twitter.com/AdultOutOther Links: https://linktr.ee/adultout 

Jose, Ashley, and Katie ask each other questions in order to gain more insight into another gender. On the table again is personal exploration for sexual growth and maturity over time. Part 2 of 2. Some Resources for Safe Lesbian Sex:a) https://www.shape.com/lifestyle/sex-and-love/how-to-have-lesbian-safe-sexb) https://www.autostraddle.com/why-you-should-care-about-lesbian-safer-sex-and-what-to-do-about-it-287657/c) https://www.cosmopolitan.com/uk/body/health/a29498109/lesbian-bisexual-queer-women-safe-sex/ Follow us for more content:Instagram: www.instagram.com/adultout/Facebook: www.facebook.com/AdultOutTwitter: https://twitter.com/AdultOutOther Links: https://linktr.ee/adultout

Jose, Ashley, and Katie discuss their experiences with sex ed, personal exploration, and sexual growth and maturity over time. Part 1 of 2. Follow us for more content:Instagram: www.instagram.com/adultout/Facebook: www.facebook.com/AdultOutTwitter: https://twitter.com/AdultOutOther Links: https://linktr.ee/adultout

Katie and Lisa discuss the importance of an emotional support system to help get you through hard times and good. Plus, how to support the people you care about. Follow us for more content:Facebook: www.facebook.com/AdultOutInstagram: www.instagram.com/adultout/Twitter: https://twitter.com/AdultOutOther Links: https://linktr.ee/adultout

Miller discusses their multiple coming out stories over the years. Laughs and true life stories ensue. Follow us for more content:Facebook: www.facebook.com/AdultOutInstagram: www.instagram.com/adultout/Twitter: https://twitter.com/AdultOutOther Links: https://linktr.ee/adultout

Doug, AKA Teal Death, talks about the history of drag and the evolution of the art over the last several decades.  Follow Teal Death on Instagram for her weekly Drag Talk Show: Teal Death do Us Part.https://www.instagram.com/teal_death_official/ Follow us for more content:Facebook: www.facebook.com/AdultOutInstagram: www.instagram.com/adultout/Twitter: https://twitter.com/AdultOutOther Links: https://linktr.ee/adultout

Cherita is back for another episode. Recorded just before the murder of George Floyd - we explore protests in the US, non-violence, and allyship. Cherita's YouYube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/user/cheerio92133Follow us for more content:Facebook: www.facebook.com/AdultOutInstagram: www.instagram.com/adultout/Twitter: https://twitter.com/AdultOutOther Links: https://linktr.ee/adultout

Amy tells her coming out story in a sweet and introspective way. This is a great episode for anyone worried about coming out to their friends or family. Follow us for more content:Facebook: www.facebook.com/AdultOutInstagram: www.instagram.com/adultout/Twitter: https://twitter.com/AdultOutOther Links: https://linktr.ee/adultout

Special guest, Cherita Gaskin tells us a bit about why Black people are so fed up right now and discusses some of the current events that brought us to our current round of protests.  Check Out her YouTube Channel: Cherita Explains It All - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCoZbEyqmn18GCQvHn-yMQyQ Follow us for more content:Facebook: www.facebook.com/AdultOutInstagram: www.instagram.com/adultout/Twitter: https://twitter.com/AdultOutOther Links: https://linktr.ee/adultout

Bronwen joins us for her first episode! Over leftover wedding wine we discuss growing out of your shell, some crazy party days, college memories, and give tips on how to push yourself out of your comfort zone.  Follow us for more content:Facebook: www.facebook.com/AdultOutInstagram: www.instagram.com/adultout/Twitter: https://twitter.com/AdultOutOther Links: https://linktr.ee/adultout 

Content Warning: Mental health struggles, depression, suicidal idealization, hospitalization In a hard hitting episode, we discuss our struggles with mental health and the people who have helped and hindered us along our journeys. Follow us for more content:Facebook: www.facebook.com/AdultOutInstagram: www.instagram.com/adultout/Twitter: https://twitter.com/AdultOutOther Links: https://linktr.ee/adultout

Woe is me - In an accidental episode, I did NOT set out to do this to myself, I get tag teamed by my current GF and my ex. Join us for some fun behind the scenes stories on my life and my relationships with two of the most important women in my life. And yes, lesbians are friends with exes. Follow us for more content:Facebook: www.facebook.com/AdultOutInstagram: www.instagram.com/adultout/Twitter: https://twitter.com/AdultOutOther Links: https://linktr.ee/adultout

Jose is back to discuss coping strategies to help deal with the virus that has effected everyone's daily life. We've had experience overcoming adversity so we share a few tips and tricks that have helped us in the past and today Follow us for more content:Facebook: www.facebook.com/AdultOutInstagram: www.instagram.com/adultout/Twitter: https://twitter.com/AdultOutOther Links: https://linktr.ee/adultout

Ashley and Katie discuss the reasons we've moved around so much, the steps to take to prepare for your move, as well as tips for your new life in the new place. Follow us for more content:Facebook: www.facebook.com/AdultOutInstagram: www.instagram.com/adultout/Twitter: https://twitter.com/AdultOutOther Links: https://linktr.ee/adultout

Bronwen and Katie discuss a few random things then get to business with some talk about counselors, life coaches, friendships, and overcoming adversity. It's about to get punny!  Follow us for more content:Facebook: www.facebook.com/AdultOutInstagram: www.instagram.com/adultout/Twitter: https://twitter.com/AdultOutOther Links: https://linktr.ee/adultout 

Lisa and Katie walk Lynne through creating a dating profile for the first time ever. Lynne has some real life questions, Katie and Lisa have some real world experience and several stories we couldn't make up if we tried!Feel free to send this episode to anyone who can use some encouragement or advice in their online dating life. Follow us for more content:Facebook: www.facebook.com/AdultOutInstagram: www.instagram.com/adultout/Twitter: https://twitter.com/AdultOutOther Links: https://linktr.ee/adultout

Jose and Katie talk about key moments where vulnerability has led to positive changes. Pushing yourself out of your comfort zone for a few minutes can lead to great gains.Jose is a big fan of Dr. Brene Brown, here's a link to her blog: https://brenebrown.com/ Follow us for more content:Facebook: www.facebook.com/AdultOutInstagram: www.instagram.com/adultout/Twitter: https://twitter.com/AdultOutOther Links: https://linktr.ee/adultout 

Lynne, Lisa, and Katie discuss late in life lesbians, resources for coming out, and ways for friends and parents to support the folks in their lives who may be gay.  Follow us for more content:Facebook: www.facebook.com/AdultOutInstagram: www.instagram.com/adultout/Twitter: https://twitter.com/AdultOutOther Links: https://linktr.ee/adultout

A call in episode during quarantine. Quisha and Megan take us on a journey over the last few years of their life. Where they were, where thought they would be now, where they actually are, learn from their accomplishments, setbacks, and blessings. Follow us for more content:Facebook: www.facebook.com/AdultOutInstagram: www.instagram.com/adultout/Twitter: https://twitter.com/AdultOutOther Links: https://linktr.ee/adultout

Nikie and Jen tell us their family's story. From meeting in a bar in Nashville, to coming out, to engaygment, to artificial insemination, to moving to California. They have been together for 17 years and offer a great perspective on some of the things we take for granted. Plus, they've got adorable Southern accents!  Follow us for more content:Facebook: www.facebook.com/AdultOutInstagram: www.instagram.com/adultout/Twitter: https://twitter.com/AdultOutOther Links: https://linktr.ee/adultout

We've all been nervous to try new things, Katie and Lisa talk about the positive outcomes that can come from a few moments of bravery. Change your mindset, what's the worst that can happen?  Follow us for more content:Facebook: www.facebook.com/AdultOutInstagram: www.instagram.com/adultout/Twitter: https://twitter.com/AdultOutOther Links: https://linktr.ee/adultout

Katie, Tony, and Tasia discuss Red Flags in Relationships and how to take steps to be able to recognize them and walk away. Follow us for more content:Facebook: www.facebook.com/AdultOutInstagram: www.instagram.com/adultout/Twitter: https://twitter.com/AdultOutOther Links: https://linktr.ee/adultout

Tony comes on as our first gay man alongside Tasia to talk about several different things including fetishes, straight people in gay bars, the male orgasm, sounding, and more.  Follow us for more content:Facebook: www.facebook.com/AdultOutInstagram: www.instagram.com/adultout/Twitter: https://twitter.com/AdultOutOther Links: https://linktr.ee/adultout 

A heartwarming journey of a "bad ass at everything" tomboy's journey into realizing she was a lesbian and coming out to her mom. A story all parents can learn from. Follow us for more content:Facebook: www.facebook.com/AdultOutInstagram: www.instagram.com/adultout/Twitter: https://twitter.com/AdultOutOther Links: https://linktr.ee/adultout

Noelle tells us about growing up in Alaska, some lessons she learned there and since moving to California. Christmas songs, book recommendations, how to scare off a moose, plus much more. Susan Styker - https://www.goodreads.com/author/show/69408.Susan_StrykerIndian Law Resource Center - https://indianlaw.org/issue/ending-violence-against-native-womenAdministration for Native Americans https://www.acf.hhs.gov/ana/resource/population-statistics-of-american-indians-and-alaska-natives Follow us for more content:Facebook: www.facebook.com/AdultOutInstagram: www.instagram.com/adultout/Twitter: https://twitter.com/AdultOutOther Links: https://linktr.ee/adultout

Katie, Lisa, and Amanda discuss being present in the moment, surrounding yourself with people you want to be around, and partaking in situations you want to be in. Plus a bonus mini story from our friends Sonya and Miller. Follow us for more content:Facebook: www.facebook.com/AdultOutInstagram: www.instagram.com/adultout/Twitter: https://twitter.com/AdultOutOther Links: https://linktr.ee/adultout

Katie and Lisa discuss how we moved away from our friends and had to start back up from scratch. Learn what avenues we used to meet people we like and how to develop those contacts into friendships. Follow us for more content:Facebook: www.facebook.com/AdultOutInstagram: www.instagram.com/adultout/Twitter: https://twitter.com/AdultOutOther Links: https://linktr.ee/adultout