Welcome to REALationship Therapy hosted by author and founder of Gentlemenhood, Pierre Alex Jeanty, along with his wife and fellow poet, Natalie Jeanty. Join them as they discuss different topics from love, life, and dating, and openly share what their own journey of love has taught them. Pierre and…
Pierre Alex Jeanty & Natalie Jeanty
There are always signs when a relationship starts to crumble. Do you know what to look for? And what do you do when you find them? In this episode, Pierre and Natalie use their past experiences to discuss signs that one should look for to indicate that the relationship is broken and what happens when it is. Have questions or comments? Text us at 239-946-4548 Disclaimer: We are not professional therapists. Therapy is just part of our name. Everything we share is our personal experience, not direct advice.
When you are in a committed relationship/marriage with someone who already has children, what role do YOU play in regards to the children? And how does defining those roles affect your marriage and other adults who may be involved? In this episode, Pierre and Natalie share insight into their challenges and successes while on the journey of step-parenting from the beginning of their relationship though their marriage to now. Disclaimer: We are not professional therapists. Therapy is just part of our name. Everything we share is our personal experience, not direct advice.
Date day! If you are looking to keep the spark in a long-term, committed relationship/marriage, consider implementing a date day/night. The question is... how do you make a date day special when you you have been together for a while? In this episode, Pierre and Natalie talk about their experiences with date days and share ways to better execute them to keep the experience as special as when they started dating. Have questions or comments? Text us at 239-946-4548 Disclaimer: We are not professional therapists. Therapy is just part of our name. Everything we share is our personal experience, not direct advice.
It's the start of the new year, and, as usual, everyone is setting personal and business goals, but what about setting some relationship goals? Is it worth having a conversation with your partner to examine where your relationship has been and where are you going? In this episode, Pierre and Natalie share their personal thoughts on setting realistic, attainable relationship goals (and family goals)and also share their plans for ways to implement those goals. Have questions or comments? Text us at 239-946-4548 Disclaimer: We are not professional therapists. Therapy is just part of our name. Everything we share is our personal experience, not direct advice.
You've finally moved on and ready to date again, but this time, you have a child. What do you need to know before you jump back into the dating pool? in this episode, Pierre and Natalie discuss this topic from two different perspectives: as a man who dated women with children and as a single mom who was looking to a specific type of man to share her (and her child's)life. Disclaimer: We are not professional therapists. Therapy is just part of our name. Everything we share is our personal experience, not direct advice.
Personal growth is an essential part of every individual's life but what does that look like for their partner and their relationship? in this episode, Pierre and Natalie discuss ways that they have learned to support each other through new challenges and experiences while maintaining and adapting their relationship to fit new norms. Disclaimer: We are not professional therapists. Therapy is just part of our name. Everything we share is our personal experience, not direct advice.
Gender roles… let's talk about it. Should the woman do the cooking, cleaning, and home nurturing? Should the man provide and handle all the labor work around the house? On this episode, we describe what gender roles looks like for us and how to effectively operate within your role in a relationship or family. Disclaimer: We are not professional therapists. Therapy is just part of our name. Everything we share is our personal experience, not direct advice.
The pandemic caused a lot of relationships to end, it also caused many to flourish. On this episode, we return back to the podcast scene discussing what we learned during the pandemic and what it did to our relationship. Let's dive into the REAL work we did while surviving Covid. Disclaimer: We are not professional therapists. Therapy is just part of our name. Everything we share is our personal experience, not direct advice.
As a married couple who have each supported one another’s entrepreneurship journeys, Pierre and Natalie are able to share road-tested strategies for supporting each other through one of the toughest environments. Balance between work and family, shared responsibility, empathy, and being your partner’s # 1 fan are just some of the nuggets of wisdom Pierre and Natalie discuss in one of their most personal podcasts.
Different practices are going to work for different situations, but there are a few key foundational ways to make sure you and your partner are on the same page when it comes to finances. Listen in as Pierre and Natalie discuss budgeting, single vs. double income and the right mindset to go along with each one, as well as knowing when to allow or cut back on the nicer things in life.
Is space helpful in a relationship, or is it merely a way to end things without saying those words? Find out as Pierre and Natalie discuss better ways to handle communication when a person is feeling the need for distance, as well as what “space” has meant in their past relationships.
Sometimes it works out, and sometimes it doesn’t, but the only person you can control is yourself. Listen in as Pierre and Natalie share different practices to implement, like loving from a distance, when you’re trying to rekindle an old flame. Plus, Pierre’s own personal story of mistaken identity will spell out what NOT to do to get that old thing back.
Setting boundaries, establishing communication, and putting the child first are all vitally important when dating or planning to marry a single parent. As individuals who have each been in the “dating” as well as the “single parent” category, Pierre and Natalie share the things they each learned from their pasts, and the advice they have for those hitting roadblocks in their own situations.
Everyone is different, but there are important steps that can be taken in learning to love after heartbreak. Pierre and Natalie share how taking time to work on themselves, establishing the right mindset about past pain, and reentering the dating pool with standards can all come together to make you wiser, and more open to taking a risk. They also offer insightful looks into the differences for men and women during these stages.
Communication styles can be different, but using key strategies when you talk can help to bridge the gap. Pierre and Natalie share how they had to adapt and learn from each other during the first year of their marriage when it came to disagreement. They discuss being on the same team and not on opposing sides, and working together to solve problems instead of arguing around them.
Episode 3: What type of boundaries should you have in a relationship? by Pierre Alex Jeanty & Natalie Jeanty
Episode 2: We discuss whether it’s okay for partners to have each other’s password and access to each other’s phones.