As life passes minute by minute, day by day, year by year you can either improve or diminish. It is true you can end up in the same place you were last year, where it seems like life is just passing by but nothing is really happening. The truth however is average is simply a result of balancing out…
“You have been created with the ability to change the world. Every single choice you make…every single action you take….matters. But remember, the converse is also true. Every choice you do not make…every action you do not take…matters just as much!” -Andy Andrews- [1:30] Voices of fear and doubt [2:05] They only have one answer [2:29] Jerry Rice – What he knew that most people do not [4:05] If you quit know quitting later will be that much easier [5:20] Induction to the hall of fame [6:50] Legendary training regiments [8:50] Focus on the end goal only, nothing else [9:30] Everybody seems to knows what you should be more than you do [10:38] The Butterfly Effect [11:43] What you do matters [12:00] You have no idea what rests in the balance of your decisions [12:08] Purpose is….. -GPS -Drive -Anchor -Who you are -Right now [13:10] your success is at the best interest of your creator [13:25] Success and failure are a result of your decisions [14:01] Every outcome is a result of a series of events [14:20] It all starts with the first step [14:35] Voices of fear and doubt get louder when you are doing work that matters [15:10] “The Matrix” blue pill or red pill? Make a decision What can you do with what you currently have? You already have everything you need to live your purpose It all starts here, right now, today Today is all you have What are you doing with it?
When you find it, it will change everything in an instant. Life doesn’t happen to you it happens for you. There is no excuse for not living up to your potential. There are 3 secrets to finding your why. What you can expect when you do find it. [1:32] What do you want? [1:40] Lens of anger [2:40] Lens of love [3:50] Loss is not permanent [4:15] Purpose is a lens to view life through [4:32] It will stop you in your tracks [4:40] You will have more than one of them [5:00] The secret that most people don’t know about purpose [5:25] The greatest misconception is that you need a key [5:46] It finds you because it is attracted to momentum [6:10] What to expect when you decide to take the first step [6:18] The process of growth [7:45] Would you know what to do with an entire trees worth of fruit? [7:55] Lottery ticket mentality, can it destroy your life? [8:53] Your practice determines how you play [10:08] The entitlement ladder [10:54] Drive without direction will go to all the wrong places [11:20] You can expect to hear voices of fear and doubt [12:30] They will try to disguise themselves as something new but only have 1 answer [13:02] We all experience these voices, you do have a choice however [13:17] Forget finding purpose, live it! Do you have a dream that if you don’t accomplish, nothing else will matter? If you died today what would you regret not being able to do, are you doing that? What do you want? If money was no concern what would you be doing with your time? What does your perfect life look like 30 years from now? Be very specific in your answers. Write them down. Bring your strengths from last episode. Where the 2 blend you will begin to find your path. You will begin to live your why today. Next episode How to overcome the voices of fear and doubt. Does the universe even notice? The difference you make.
The search for identity has broken relationships, caused inner turmoil, and started world wars. Who you are is not only for the benefit of you. You have no idea what rests in the balance of your decisions. Life is designed to function by laws. That means success and failure are predictable. What if you could control the direction of your life? [1:00] Truth of gratitude – Grateful for water [3:00] From what purpose is to who you are [3:29] The lack of personal identity [4:00] Who you are today, you decided to be [4:10] How to guarantee and control success [4:47] Your success is at the best interest of…everybody [5:20] You are made to represent an image [5:58] Products have been tested and come with a guarantee. Do you? [6:51] There are instructions for who you are and your identity [8:10] Everything you need is already there [8:58] Success and failure in life are a result of decisions [10:00] Nobody knows the product like the manufacturer [10:20] Hoopdy…not what it was made to become [11:15] What is the driving dream you have, that always seems to stick around? Find more of your functions Uncomfort = Growth Ask your family members and close friends: What are my strengths? Think back in your own life: Where have you acceld? What did you enjoy doing? When you did it, what was incredibly successful? Write them down Next Episode – How you know if you’ve found your why – What to expect when you do
The desire to be a part of something bigger than ourselves has existed hand in hand with humanity from the beginning of time. The fulfillment that ties together with living for more than yourself is unfathomable. Theoretically, that sounds wonderful but what is purpose really? What does having a why do for you today, in the real world? There are some very specific things purpose is. Maybe more importantly, what it is not. How you will know if you have found it and what having a why will do for you. [1:50] The loudest silence you will ever hear [2:05] Ease of comfort and familiarity [2:30] Dangers of going with the flow [3:12] Unknowingly lost [4:10] A storm is coming [5:00] What purpose will do for you [7:55] Your purpose is…. [9:43] What are you willing to do? Next Episode – Why you exist
The search for why has brought a new light into my world that has spread into every area of darkness in my life. What used to be shallow relationships are digging into deeper more meaningful ones. My emotions, mental state, and physical wellbeing are much more solid. My finances are no longer dictating my life and are simply helping me towards what really matters. The influence I am able to have now in the world around me is much greater than ever before. That does not mean I have all the answers because I do not, or that I have everything I ever want, or that life is perfect because that just is simply not the case. That is the beauty of it though. Even in the midst of struggles I am more fulfilled and at peace than ever before. What has changed? Have you ever felt like there is something more? Why am I here? What can I do? What is my why? Do I make a difference? Do I really matter? What is the point? [1:50] Stephen R. Covey was one of the people whose life work changed the trajectory of the world. His book “The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People” is arguably the most renowned self-help book of all time. He lays out 7 habits that to this day are among the most impactful to high effectiveness, as the title suggests. Personally, I make a point to go through this book once a year because of the value which is stuffed between the covers and the constant re-centering I need. The 2nd habit is to “begin with the end in mind.” So that is what we are going to do here. –The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People: Powerful Lessons in Personal Change– [2:04] The 1 thing I can with 100% certainty guarantee [2:56] What people are thinking in their final moments and their top regrets –The Top Five Regrets of the Dying: A Life Transformed by the Dearly Departing– [5:16] How long before we become obsolete? [6:25] The cage we have built [8:00] “Activity without purpose is the drain of your life” -Tony Robbins- [8:30] Mindset only two choices, what is yours? [8:56] The power of NO Next episode – What purpose truly is Blog: Power of Why – What Is My Why Check out the detailed version of this episode with resources here.
As life passes minute by minute, day by day, year by year you can either improve or diminish. It is true you can end up in the same place you were last year, where it seems like life is just passing by but nothing is really happening. The truth, however, is average is simply a result of balancing out your ups and downs. What if your ups were more abundant than your downs? Well, the result would be a lifted average. Here we go beyond what is true to make it all the way to the truth. The truth, after all, will set you free. [00:00] Introductions [03:16] A little about who I am and where I come from [07:31] What I have learned and why Better For Today exists [07:55] Laws and principles which life functions by [09:00] How you can use these truths to create your life [14:30] Closing remarks