Tea and a Spliff

Have you ever given a 4 a chance and they started acting like a 10? Or found yourself gushing over a funny guy who definitely isn't your type but the vibe is amazing? It's 2022 and social media and dating shows have weighed us down with unrealistic expectations of the perfect partner but every coffee has its cream and sometimes we find people we just genuinely like. Annnnnd if none of that works out, you can go on a dating show and get married so… YOLO? But could you hold it down if they don't look like you imagined or if they had a disability? What about if they looked dreamy but you've met a makeup wipe with more personality? This week we talk about our experiences being blinded by love and discuss the results of our polls about if you guys would ever be on a dating show. Follow us on Instagram: Instagram.com/teaandaspliff Follow us on Twitter: twitter.com/teaandaspliff

Working hard and playing hard used to be the standard but these days can feel like all we can afford is to work. I don't know about you guys but I get so envious hearing about people that bought their houses in the 70s for the price of a few gallons of post Russian/Ukraine war gas. Get rich quick schemes, getting discovered on a bus by an agent or marrying rich are options but they come at high costs. Have you ever met a child star with no skeletons in their closet? Join us as we navigate the steps we need to take to be able to live the hot girl lives we deserve equipt with Joe the driver and facials every day, oh and maybe a chef but I'm sure you'll figure out why if you listen

Was era 2006 Justin Timberlake right when he said "What goes around comes back around?" Lol, kinda hope not. I mean who really lives a guilt free life? But whether it be karma, reincarnation or religion keeping you grounded, most of us have the moral compass to do well by others. Speaking about doing well, Jaelle is back in Barbados and our fingers, toes and maybe even eyes are crossed that she will get that call saying that she is in remission. This week gets a bit deep and a few tears are shed as we reflect on how far we've come as a trio and if we have someone on the other side looking out for us. **we apologise for any technical difficulties we are adjusting to the remote podcast set up** Follow us on Instagram: Instagram.com/teaandaspliff Follow us on Twitter: twitter.com/teaandaspliff

Long fingernails and wet kisses might not be red flags but they sure as hell ain't green! So what do you call that middle ground that just can't sit right with your soul? That's right, baby, we are talking about icks! Ever thought you'd only break up over “real issues” but find yourself pissed off whenever he chews? You got yourself an ick, but can these innocent annoyances turn to something toxic? What happens when these fun little flags turn crimson? Everyone has their own level that shows when it's time to dip but some of us are more tolerant than others. All in all there is a fine line between ick and hate. Let's talk about it! Follow us on Instagram: Instagram.com/teaandaspliff Follow us on Twitter: twitter.com/teaandaspliff

Welcome to part 2 of our podcast with the @shootersshootp podcast Every week you hear us ladies rant but it's time to take the men to therapy! Can the church give us an amen? I mean as women how can we ever understand tactful wanking, skillfully based on the hope of taking someone home? Bet you've never considered that Wednesday is too close to Friday night. Or what they're really looking for when they're on page 24 of pornhub? Maybe we all just want something we won't regret with that post-cum clarity. But they say men are from Mars and women are from Venus, right? So hop in the space ship with us this episode and explore what really goes on in a man's head. Follow us on Instagram: Instagram.com/teaandaspliff Follow us on Twitter: twitter.com/teaandaspliff

We are mixing it up a little in this weeks podcast!  and we have joined forces with the @shootersshootp podcast; with the explicit and no-filter Mike and Jayson We cover topics from cheating, ejaculation & mandatory DNA tests to rating that D. We also get some male perspective on why you should delete nudes after a break up… or not? Pre-warning: this podcast isn't for the faint hearted, you're in for a juicy one! This is part of a 2 part episode, stay tuned for the next one! Follow us on Instagram: Instagram.com/teaandaspliff Follow us on Twitter: twitter.com/teaandaspliff

Dirty little secrets, we've all got them. Are they hidden away or are you letting your freak flag fly? These days things have changed so drastically in the dating world. Your new boo could be a swipe away, getting ghosted isn't paranormal activity and the talking stage is way different to dating which still isn't a relationship. How is it our parents were settled with kids by 25? This week we'll be airing out all our laundry as well as talking about the dangers of the modern dating world; date rape, blackmailing nudes and stalkers. It really is hard out here to know who you're getting into bed with. I mean what would you do if your partner asked you to take a dump on them?

Every year we say new year, new me, but let's be honest do you really get past January 15? Or is it just new year same shit. New workout routines, New diet, new hairstyles we do it all but changes can be made at any time, not just January 1st. Come with us as we vow to leave our shit in 2021 and manifest all the good chi. 2022 you better watch out!

‘‘Twas the night before Blackmas and all the house, all the gifts were by black businesses, even the sprouts..." Lol sorry that's all that rhymed. In this crazy world where love don't cost a thing, Christmas sure can take a toll on our bank accounts, right? Do you mind the slightly higher price tags on black owned businesses? Do you feel extra pressure to impress when dating outside your race? Or is Christmas shopping just a tactic forced on us by capitalism? Things to think about.. Maybe all your family do want for Christmas is you. Join us as we discuss what the holidays mean for us, for black love and budding black families. Black-owned businesses to support: @tishga.art @hoodgreetings @kaicollective @kitchnoir @jeffmanning_ @roarfoodchef @Telfarglobar @iridescentcosmetics.bb @thewaxbarbb

How guilty are you really? This is a safe space, we won't judge you babes. Whether it be smoking in the bath, pulling hairs out your butt or eating tubs of Nutella we promise you someone somewhere in the world loves that shit too. This week we spill the weird guilty pleasures we have that lead us to be our truest selves and really find our tribes that suit our vibes.

This podcast gets down to the nitty gritty on all the need to know questions; would YOU date a man with a lace front? When do you decide to let that man go? Does community dick give you the ick or do you enjoy keeping things open? And does body hair mean you can't be a hot girl next summer? Join us this week to find out what each of us really think.

Welcome to the most random episode ever. Like a fever dream we jump from death to butt sweat. Join us as Jaelle gives us a long awaited update on the last stages of treatment and then.. mellow out with us as we get a bit too high and have a girly chat about the toll transitioning into womanhood can really have; from societal expectations, eating disorders and parenting human and plant children. This one is definitely a wild ride so hold on tight!

This is a podcast that a lot of the gyaldem can relate to… BOYS we love them, we hate them and then we love them again it's an endless cycle. We all have relationships serious and causal, from first loves to toxic relationships until we think we find the one. Come with us in a spill all, tell all, as we delve into the heartbreak, the compromise and the “Notebook” worthy rain cries. P.s We would like to remind our listeners that we have a GoFundMe page to help raise money for Jaelle's treatment, please donate and share if you can: https://uk.gofundme.com/f/help-jaelle-smash-the-life-out-of-cancer   For any topics or questions DM us at @teaandaspliff or email us at Teaandaspliff@gmail.com 

Body-ody-ody-ody-ody-ody-ody-ody right? Urmmmmmm… not most of the time… we all have our problems with body image, cause who doesn't? Gaining weight, losing weight; it's a constant battle to look like those IG baddies we idolize. But real life can't be photoshopped or filtered, leading to body dysmorphia, eating disorders and serious unhappiness. What is social media doing to the younger generation? 16 year olds wanting to get fillers and BBL surgeries more common than the cold. Have you noticed that everyone is starting to look the same? This week we take to our microphones to share our thoughts around body positivity, the insta-look aesthetic, eating habits and dive into our own insecurities. P.s We would like to remind our listeners that we have a GoFundMe page to help raise money for Jaelle's treatment, please donate and share if you can: https://uk.gofundme.com/f/help-jaelle-smash-the-life-out-of-cancer For any topics or questions DM us at @teaandaspliff or email us at Teaandaspliff@gmail.com

Today we discuss all things mental health and let you in on our own personal struggles with various mental health issues. From triggers and coping mechanisms, depression and anxiety, eating disorders and body dysmorphia we talk about it ALL! We've got a little group therapy going on and we invite you to join us as we unpick and unpack our baggage into the worldwide web. P.s We would like to remind our listeners that we have a GoFundMe page to help raise money for Jaelle's treatment, please donate and share if you can: https://uk.gofundme.com/f/help-jaelle-smash-the-life-out-of-cancer For any topics or questions DM us at @teaandaspliff or email us at Teaandaspliff@gmail.com!

Hi everyone and welcome to our first ever podcast which we are dedicating to Jaelle's cancer journey. This episode gives a real and raw insight into what it's like fighting for your life when cancer invades your body and what it's like living and supporting someone going through it all mixed in with a little bit of banter and some deep chats. So grab a cup of tea or a cheeky spliff and enjoy! P.s we would like to remind our listeners that we have a GoFundMe page to help raise money for Jaelle's treatment, please donate and share if you can. Link in the bio of our Instagram: @teaandaspliff For any topics or questions DM us at @teaandaspliff or email us at Teaandaspliff@gmail.com!