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How do you continue to earn their affection and attention? Once the dating phase is over and you realize that your'e in a long-term relationship, how do you keep them engage? Are you willing to compete!! 

There will be challenges within your relationship. Those challenges can last for a moment or a couple of years. When there are problems with your relationship, where do you go? How do you personally decide to deal with the tension, frustration or several other emotions that come with those times?

Ladies we have a couple of questions. Do you feel protected and secured by the man or men in your life? Is it even necessary to look to men for leadership anymore? Have men become obsolete? And to the men of the world, do you feel as though you are doing your part?

Whats the biggest challenge you've had to overcome in a relationship?

Whats the biggest challenge you've had to overcome in a relationship?

In this politically divisive climate, Trump vs Biden vs ... Kanye? How does your partners political choices play a role in your relationship? Is it something you discuss... Is it necessary to have the same ideology and political affiliation as your partner... Are you voting with your heart, with your purse or both. Also can we respectively believe in a different God or gods and have a prosperous relationship...LETS TALK,

This week with discuss open marriages/relationship as it relates to the news of Jada Pickett-Smith dating singer August Alsina. However, the question to be asked here is as to whether or not you should have that kind of control or possesiveness over another person. And it is very possible that you have not yet come to realize that you treat your lovers like possessions. Lets talk!

Is it consideration or insecurity, if you use a tracking app with your partner. We discuss this and a couple of other concerns that came about from the Men and Women confessional over the last two weeks. 

We are asking the women to call-in anonymously and answer questions from the men and other women regarding different relationship topics and scenarios. Do you really want to know the truth?

We are asking the men to call-in anonymously and answer questions from the women and other men regarding different relationship topics and scenarios. Do you really want to know the truth?

We are asking the men to call-in anonymously and answer questions from the women and other men regarding different relationship topics and scenarios. Do you really want to know the truth?

We wanted to open our forum up to the callers. Speak your mind and ask any relationship based questions that you may have for the room. As always you can remain 100% anonymous!

In light of the tragic death of George Floyd in Minnesota, we discovered that he had a caucasion fiancee. She chose to speak on his behalf urging people not to fight fire with fire because that is not what George would want. There are people who believe that she had no right to address the black community as a non-member. How do you feel about this? And what are the other challenges as you look to combine your background, culture and experiences with one another within a bi-racial relationship? 

Two kids. Dog. Happy every after. Not so much what have you discovered about relationships to not be true?

What do you really want to know

There are so many variations of counseling available to us but are we accessing it. Do you have any experience with counseling be it pre-marital, marriage or individual and if so what are your thoughts? Are you supposed to tell the complete truth or do you present only the information that you find to be applicable. 

Another great debate will ensue as we try to figure out if and should your status (education, income, lifestyle) dictate who you date/marry. Also, how open should a person be to "dating down" or accepting their deal breakers in order to find a mate?

If there is one relationship rule that we can agree on as a deal breaker, its cheating! However lets be realistic, cheating happens and it does not always result in the end of the relationship. This epidsode we discuss forgiveness and how some people continue to move foreward. 

My wife named our son after her first love/ex-boyfriend and I had no idea. My son is 5. A few days ago, we were out shopping and ran into a high school friend of my wife. They were briefly catching up when she told her friend that we had a son. When the old friend asked his name my wife hesistated and so I answered the question. The friends whole expression changed, as she then said, "you mean like your ex-boyfriend?" Our sons name is very unique to the point that I've never met another person with the same name. Now, my wife refuses to even speak to me about the name, the ex or anything related to that day. I feel betrayed and disgusted with her. It's like a switch was flipped and in my mind I just cannot look at her the same way anymore.  

Why do you want to know who or how many people I have been with in the past? Is it your insecurity that makes you ask. Or do you feel like you are no longer special. Tell me why you want to know?

We would like to dive into the world of modern dating when a person already has a child to explore the complications and possible deal breakers involved. We are also curious to know whether or not the age of the children are a factor such as toddlers vs teenagers.  Have you ever dated someone with children who did not like you? Does your child(ren)'s attitude dictate who you will and will not date?   

Call in for some very bad relationship advice!

My girlfriend of 6 months has been out of work for the past two weeks and she just got word that she will be laid off permanently. She asked me could she move in with me. I told her that I'm not ready to share my home with anyone. She offered to pay half the bills; I declined. She then proceeded to ask me could I pay her rent for next month. I told her that I'm uncomfortable doing things that a husband should do, for my girlfriend but I told her that she could borrow $300. She says that I'm wrong for not helping her out during her time of need but that isn't the case from my perspective. She says that she isn't sure that she will continue dating me. Am I in the wrong here or is this just another case of woman feeling entitled?  

My girlfriend of 6 months has been out of work for the past two weeks and she just got word that she will be laid off permanently. She asked me could she move in with me. I told her that I'm not ready to share my home with anyone. She offered to pay half the bills; I declined. She then proceeded to ask me could I pay her rent for next month. I told her that I'm uncomfortable doing things that a husband should do, for my girlfriend but I told her that she could borrow $300. She says that I'm wrong for not helping her out during her time of need but that isn't the case from my perspective. She says that she isn't sure that she will continue dating me. Am I in the wrong here or is this just another case of woman feeling entitled?  

I saw this on someone’s page and thought it was interesting. What do y’all think? Just my thoughts but I think it's impossible for two ppl to be in a relationship and one of the two never cheats and cheating doesn't mean it has to be physical it can be anything from flirting, texting, phone conversation, or ANYTHING u can't do infront of my face. Random thought but I know I'm right

Now more than ever we have to be very mindful about with whom we choose to share our personal space. Corona virus is real and we are not exactly sure how it is spread. But as you are out there in search of someone to hold for the season, how do you go about it? What if youre cheating, do you really want to expose you main piece. And if he/she isnt answering the phone doesnt that mean that you are the odd man out ... lol. Lets talk about it!  

On this episode we focus on discussing break up stories. Call in and lets discuss the circumstances behind why yall broke up and how it was diving back into the dating pool.

Valentines edition.  

Episode 8 of 8! We will speak to @oscrowley & @mcelixir and go through the process of what it took to create the #checkyescheckno project including the relationship panel discussion and mixtape. We will also speak to a few of the participants to see if they changed their minds about any of their recorded statements.   

#checkyescheckno Ep: 7: Do you have that one person on standby, that one who hits all the right spots? Podcast epidsode 1-6 recap.

#checkyescheckno Ep 6: You took a vow in marriage to endure for better or worse, however ?????  is a deal breaker. And is it possible to love more than one person at a time?    

#checkyescheckno Ep 5: When did you first fall in love or lust? And when was your first resulting heartbreak? And now that holiday season is almost over did you spend it with the one you wanted or the one whom was most convenient or no one? And lastly what do you have planned for your love life in 2018    

Episode 4.  Who is the head of your household? How have the changes in traditional gender impacted your life and behaviors? How do you manage blended families           

#checkyescheckno Episode 3.  Why be monogamous? There are plenty of fish in the sea. It could take several people combined to equal your ideal mate or to find the happiness for which you yearn. So why place that pressure or expectation upon one person. Is there a benefit. What are the pro and cons. Lets discuss! PLUS SOME ADVICE!      

  #CheckYesCheckNo Ep 2 Why cheat? Okay Okay, we know that it is wrong to do and we get it. Now lets hear some of the rationale behind why some of you have cheated in the past. Is there ever a scenario where it is okay to step up on your significant other?   Getting involved in other persons relationship can be a very dicey position. Your friend is blindly in love and their lover can do no wrong in their eyes but you see them cheating, what do you do?    Awesome person but the sex is horrible, now what? Everything about them is absolutely great. They have a great career, make good money, credit is awesome, personality is just fine ... BUT THE SEX IS THE WORST.   You call it LOVE but is it LUST? 

On Episode 1, we want to know your response to the following questions:  How does manipulation play into a relationship? What happens when you love someone more than they love you? Its over between us but I still want to be friends, how can we make it work? What are the little things you need to keep you interested and your relationship going? Morning sex, anyone? I know you’re upset but what about some sex? What do you consider cheating? PLUS ... A PIECE OF ADVICE !!!