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This season and Year has been very trying. There is no doubt in my mind that the children of GOD are being tested and tempted like never before. Yours truly has also had to bear and overcome the trials a relationship and marriage can experience in such a short time. Bishop T.D. Jakes says, " The reward for winning a fight, is another fight!". Words that are still in effect for many Standers. The overall rhetoric in society is that the institution of marriage is "dead". I also recognize there are plenty of examples in the wild that support that belief. I once did a podcast episode titled "Pushed Too Far". The episode focused on the way all behavior and mindsets bent on separation and destruction of a family structure would one day be corrected when believers realize this certain pathways ultimate goal in death. Death in dreams and ethics, death in morals and character, death to peace and good faith. People are capable of horrible acts, but we are also capable of SO much good! We clearly need to focus on the WORD and how--in so many ways-- do we get on track and push forward. Marriage Isn't Dead...it's going to evolve! --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/tyree-wilson/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/tyree-wilson/support

www.tyreewilson.com This episode is a replay recording from my live stream on Youtube. The subscribers came out to share their stories and testimony about the lessons and wisdom GOD had set in their paths. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/tyree-wilson/message

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This episode, I talk about my need to taking a month-long break from the podcast. Taking some Family and Personal Time is still a priority to me and I thank GOD I am able to do so safely. Some talking points to the Podcast: email notifications prayer devotional journals live and prerecorded episodes community input to future content ways to support the podcast You can subscribe to the Podcast @ www.tyreewilson.com Thank you all for the support and heartfelt messages.

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www.tyreewilson.com Fighting Fatigue Written By Elizabeth Cody Newenhuyse Couples' Devotional Bible, NIV, page 580 This Weeks Episode I talk about How To Prepare Yourself for reconciliation in your marriage. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/tyree-wilson/message

www.tyreewilson.com--I read an email from a listener who admitted to having an affair after his wife found out. This man had no choice but to look within and figure out two things: 1. What is causing the turmoil in his life to drive him to cheating? 2. What is the BEST steps he can take to rid himself of the destructive behavior? His admittance to wanting his marriage survive this transgression lead to the title of this episode. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/tyree-wilson/message

Devotional reading Written by r. Ruth Barton --www.tyreewilson.com. Follow me @locdpop--this weeks episode I talk about the unseen competition brought on by the enemy and the prodigal spouse. There isnt a great way to title outside forces and influences as anything short of competition. When a prodigal allows the world outside of their marriage to change their values, they invite this destructive spirit to work against the marital foundation. But what force really competes with the LORD? --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/tyree-wilson/message

"Anger Under Control"- Written by Louis Mcburney. M.D. Subscribe to the Podcast @ www.tyreewilson.com Follow me on IG @locdpop Your Support of the podcast is appreciated

www.tyreewilson.com This podcast episode I talk about how certain women who use manipulative behaviors are hurting their relationships with GOOD men. I do share a way to turn manipulation into encouragement and inspiration to better serve your household. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/tyree-wilson/message

www.tyreewilson.com Before I go on a daily walk, I thought I'd give you a quick episode of why "space" may be exactly what you needed to help take care of YOU and your heart. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/tyree-wilson/message

www.tyreewilson.com Follow me over on IG/@locdpop This segment I spend WAY too much time talking about some of the personal struggles a certain man or woman has with wanting or missing their wayward spouses in a sexual way. I share my own experience with this struggle. Their is a reason for the grip of lust to test you. I also talk about how to check yourself and those urges. Regain your composure and reinvest your light. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/tyree-wilson/message

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On this segment, I talk about how allowing myself to go "nuclear" in a past heated argument between Tiffany and I, brought us to a decision to legally separate. It sucks honestly

www.tyreewilson.com This episode, we answer questions a member of the podcast has opened up and sent me. I use this time to also get input from different members of the group as well. There is alot to be said about what goes on in the mind of the prodigal spouse. But the mindset of people is not your responsibility, nor is it your right to tell people how to live their life. God brought you to this season for a reason, trust HIM. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/tyree-wilson/message

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Subscribe to the Podcast @ www.tyreewilson.com In this segment, I talk about me facing myself and my unresolved issues even after my marriage was restored. Lingering effects of the past may pop up from time to time in your own marriage restoration journey. The issues you'll face from the past will require you to double down on the discipline you have developed within the Grace of GOD. The enemy has stolen enough of your heart and time, so I choose to not give him any credit or recognition for my own wandering thoughts. As always, focusing on the Lord will drive the enemy from your life every time feelings of loss and anxiety come to steal away another second of your life. This is STILL a journey I am on myself, but I am willing to walk it. May God strengthen you to walk your path in unison with the Almighty. God bless, Tyree --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/tyree-wilson/message

www.tyreewilson.com. Let me share a small, unique step that helped me begin to shed my entitled ego and allow myself to heal internally: Forgive yourself first, because what happened in the past will never change. In this podcast segment, I answer a question asked by Cristian,a member of the podcast, about how you can deal with feeling guilty over what happened and why taking responsibility is something to NEVER feel ashamed of. Click the button below to have a listen. Thanks for being an active listener

Subscribe to the podcast @ www.tyreewilson.com Follow Tyree on Instagram here Loc'd Pop Talks Merch Store: Loc'd Pop Apparel Email Tyree @ TyreeWilsonbiz1@gmail.com Standing for your marriage can cause you to seek out deeper sense of self-value and self-worth, mentally and spiritually, but how is the body--our physical being--able to keep up with the day to day journeys amongst the storm? How is it possible that you or I can feel the pressure of the clock ticking against us, and yet manage to harness said time to change not only ourselves but our approach to life as standers? Standing for your marriage, before learning to LET GO of what we can not control, cause us symptoms in the body. The symptoms of STRESS are undeniable: -Tiredness -Infedility -Lack of appetite -Loss of Motivation -Debilitative Worry -Isolation In this segment, I share an answer that could only be found when I chose to be silent and LISTEN to the unmistakable and undisturbed Voice of God. **Special shout out to brother David Bowen** --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/tyree-wilson/message

Get a FREE Prayer Devotional Journal Here: www.tyreewilson.com Visit RELENTLESS ACADEMY FOR SUPPORT BOOKS, AUDIOBOOKS AND WORKBOOKS Send Tyree A Voice message Here Follow Me On Instagram Get Our Latest MERCH @ Loc'd Pop Apparel Social Media and how it can be used like hammer out the tool box. It can either be used to build something for yourself or others, or destroy your life and the lives or others by how its used. It took time for me to realize that I wasn't using the platforms for the benefit of my marriage, but rather to isolate myself and remain separated from the Lord. Secret Groups, Private messages, and hidden societies of people who got together for numerous reasons where all who were more than welcoming of my presence amongst them. I felt unjudged, un-convicted by the sins of my actions, basically living guilt-free of my ways. I was lying to myself, the weight of dealing with my issues and the issues in my home felt overwhelming and I ached for a way to escape them. But in the process, I ruined friendships, job opportunities, networking opportunities and even my own education took a backburner. Honestly, I don't regret the lessons I had to learn when I accepted God back into my life because I understand now , this was all part of the plan. In this segment, I share with you my own story, lessons, experience and reason as to why I had to sever my connection to the online world in order to support my decision to fight for my marriage...and mean it. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/tyree-wilson/message

God uses every part of your being to fulfill His will in your life. And when we look to Him for answers to our trials he uses what talents, skill, and resources we have to help us. All we need to remember is that with #confidence those same skills and talents have always been available to aide us. In this segment, I share how God used my talents and interest that allowed me to stay on the directed path my obedience set me on. Click here to listen

www.tyreewilson.com How would you like to learn the SINGLE most important step I applied to removing the enemy from my actions and thoughts in order to save my marriage? Some people say it was God  who made it happen, and those people would be absolutely correct. God entrusted me with a mind and will to SNAP myself out of the mental prisons of grief and anxiety and continue to keep my heart focused on Him. To the point that self-sabotage was a long forgotten habit I carried for many years. In this segment, I share how, when, and why this important step caused a critical turn around in how I carried myself through life as a STANDER.  I also share a message from a brother in faith, and Instagram follower, AVEDAD19. My conversation with him allowed me to hear how well the podcast is doing and how my testimony has helped him in finding peace in his own world as a standing husband. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/tyree-wilson/message

Sign up for the podcast here @ www.tyreewilson.com In this episode, I bring in my wife Tiffany, as a special guest to share her side of things or our separation and restoration. She shared that her world of marriage and companionship with me was NOT the life she thought we'd both end up finding ways to destroy. But after giving herself and her expectations over to God, she found that the pain of our situation was not caused by our faults alone, but that God was redirecting us to the true path of togetherness as a covenant marriage. You can always support the podcast by donating to the link below: CashApp: $LocdPop Video Upload coming soon! --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/tyree-wilson/message

www.tyreewilson.com. This episode is dedicated to the memory of #Kobe and his daughter, Gianna Bryant. It still hurts and almost numbing to hear about this tragedy. My heart and prayers go to ALL the families involved and affected by this great loss. Feeling under the weather this episode, I muster up the determination of Basketball Great, Kobe Bryant and answer a question and prayer request from subscribers, Arielle and Donna. No matter what or where you think you are in life, it is still faithful to give honor to God for His mercy for you and your spouse. It's also not too late to send love. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/tyree-wilson/message

What can you do while waiting for your marriage to reach a stage of restoration? The answers are honestly endless as we human beings are capable of almost anything we set our minds to. There isn't a set rule or concrete list of "to do's" I can personally give you which will lead to direct results. What I CAN tell you is that along your own personal journey you will find what works for you as God intercedes in the marriage covenant. Go out and find your own path...AFTER you listen to this podcast segment of course

www.tyreewilson.com The prodigal spouse may have chosen to walk their path without you, but that doesn't have to mean you lose who you are as a man or woman. The ego is a tricky trait to reel in if you do not stop to identify its pesky presence in your marriage. Without Divine discernment, your marriage and STAND is at risk of being overtaken by selfishness. The need for one party or the next to feel happiness solely through the actions and favored behavior of others. Standing for marriage is about walking and drawing closer to God in your new life and relationship with Him, being wrapped up in working for the appeasement of another human being will only drain your spirit. Some believers call this "idolizing" your spouse. Together or not, married or not, the bindings of your marriage will face the inevitable stress and pressures of the world. You may be the spouse who handles the pressure better, because you have a deeper and broader understanding that happiness will come and go, and when it does, it generally comes from within-not without. This segment, I talk more about why your partners happiness is not solely your responsibility. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/tyree-wilson/message

www.tyreewilson.com--- What does it mean to fight for your marriage? What steps do you take to make sure your STAND is fool proof? If you focus more on the things that make you STRONGER as a person, I believe that would be the best start to this journey. Tell me what you think of our new intro

This segment is our goodbye to 2019, it can be bittersweet, but God makes room for new blessing and blessing we do not expect. Sometimes before we are allowed to move forward, confidence and faith compel us to move away from the old ways and old habits so God can show us what we have been missing out on. To see what he has always had in store for us. The exodus of breaking away from a sinful lifestyle will scare others into wanting to join you, but we all have a journey to walk with God. The prodigal spouse is not exempt from this very course. The only choice left for them and the marriage is choosing to walk together with you or have themselves brought, kicking and screaming to God. Put your foot down in 2020 my friend, enough is enough! --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/tyree-wilson/message

In the segment, We walk through the path of better parenting while standing for your marriage. This topic is just as deep as any other, yet small and acutely focused efforts to support your child(ren) are worth a lifetime of positivity. Like any other quest with God, it won't be easy, but if you are willing to spend real quality time leveling with and getting to know your offspring better, their love can keep your spirit above troubled waters. I share a part of my own journey to know my children better than I previously invested in. What I found were three little women who were counting on me to give my marriage everything I had before it ended. I found that they loved me and their mother all the same, and were prepared to accept the devil's plans, as long as their parents were "happy" apart. Children may start off as seemingly selfish little people, but in today's world, they still need a mother and father to continue to guide them. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/tyree-wilson/message

Todays episode is request topic from a member of the podcast, Jose.  There are men in the world who are more than willing to be anything and everything for their families. They pride themselves on being providers and protectors. These men are connected to the value they hold in the eyes of their wives. The love, respect, and the emotional nurturing they are accustomed to obtaining from their spouses mean the world to them.   But what happens when that emotional connection is shaken? How do they adjust to the shifting foundations of unknown angst from the wife?  When do they speak up or speak out about the type of love they needed from their partners is no longer sustained? The answers are actually limitless...but for some, finding a false sense of security in the OW becomes a tempting discovery... --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/tyree-wilson/message

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www.tyreewilson.com Does standing for your marriage make you a "push over" ? To think about what a stander will ensure over the course of their spiritual journey, I believe they are anything but a "push over". What has standing for your marriage (even if you are now divorced) revealed to you about yourself? --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/tyree-wilson/message

This segment is for a sister in faith and client of mine, Shana. She asked some questions for me to share my experience with her. I felt that it would be best to share my answers with my audience as well. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/tyree-wilson/message

A question posed by and soon to be discussed by a fellow podcaster: Dion for the D. Wynn Legacy Podcast. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/tyree-wilson/message

www.tyreewilson.com This week's episode is about the potential issues most standing spouses may face during their #stand. Its no secret that fighting for your marriage takes patience, forgiveness, and a love that transcends your current understandings. And sometimes the journey of standing can lead to a potential meltdown or in some cases a Nuclear reaction... --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/tyree-wilson/message

www.tyreewilson.com. A question that popped up after a conversation I had with another podcast subscriber and Sister-in-Faith, Amy. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/tyree-wilson/message

This segment, I share a inspiring poem written and published by our Brother in Faith, Nathan Markee. This episode is a story I share about how me giving up control, self-doubt , and fear over to God helped me remain in faith and motivation to standing my ground. The fight doesn't always have to be a draining experience, let the pain go for today and choose to better not just your best self, but better. Have a question or message you want to send me? Email me at tyreewilsonbiz1@gmail.com --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/tyree-wilson/message

www.tyreewilson.com Shop Our Merch Store I’m sure if standing your ground has in anyway become a way of life for you, then you have faced days where you become exhausted or worn down. It happens to the best of us. Feeling tired of putting your best self forth will happen from time to time, however there are ways to allow yourself time to rest, regroup and return to your calling. Listen to this week’s Podcast episode “ Ways to Increase Your ME time!” --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/tyree-wilson/message

Subscribe to the podcast  www.tyreewilson.com Self-Respect This subject is another area of development not easily talked about amongst certain groups of people. And it's quite frankly a lost art of the prodigal, ones who are driven by the "chase" for earthly desires. Whether it is from you or another source here on earth, the prodigal is trapped in a game of looking for attention, they seek it no matter where the attention comes from. They discard themselves and everything they once stood for to obtain it. Shop Our Merch Store Loc'd Pop Apparel Connect with me on Instagram Let's be Friends --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/tyree-wilson/message

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Visit www.tyreewilson.com to subscribe to the podcast and get your FREE Prayer Devotional Journal Follow Tyree on Instagram! Shop Our Tee Spring store After about two and half years after the whole D-day announcement, Tiffany and I hadn’t quite reconciled with one another, but we shelved the conversation of divorce. Things between us had become a little more peaceful. Our children didn’t fight as much, we worked together to get our mortgage payments under control and our debt collections were consolidated. We even dug deep and asked her mother and stepsister to move out of our home. Looking back now, I’m still shocked by how hard we had to work to make it all happen. Some feelings were hurt-- maybe really hurt-- and hard decisions were made. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/tyree-wilson/message

This segment, I want to encourage you to take a stand and set boundaries. Hard or not-so-hard, lines will need to be drawn for this fight! www.tyreewilson.com --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/tyree-wilson/message

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www.tyreewilson.com Every marriage is different, and every #stander has their own walk with God, but the lessons remain the same. Behavior can be about more than actions, it can be about the very thoughts you have about your situation and your emotions. I encourage you to check yourself from time to time and include the Most High in your self-reflection. Standing Spouses have a habit of listing all the things the prodigal spouses do and say towards them or how there hasn't been much communication currently. It's tempting and easy. Both traits and beliefs are weapons the enemy hands us. You don't need to be tempted and if marriage were easy, there would be no records or examples of Standing in the Bible. God saw this and prepared for it. Let Him fight this one for you my friend. While you work on your own behavior and feelings about your marriage. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/tyree-wilson/message

Visit www.tyreewilson.com. The Hero Instinct is a term used to appeal to a man's need to solve any his partners problems. Noble, in a way, but what happens when the instinct is used recklessly? What if men didn't know their instincts are being turned against them? --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/tyree-wilson/message

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