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Two girls straddling two different worlds, talk about how to handle problems from both the cultures - American and Indian. Dual cultural identity, conflicts in life, dating, arranged marriage and the strive for independence.

PoojaRashida


    • Mar 9, 2022 LATEST EPISODE
    • infrequent NEW EPISODES
    • 40m AVG DURATION
    • 19 EPISODES


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    Relationships Over 30

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 9, 2022 45:40


    In this episode, we talk about our new relationship statuses. Spoiler Alert!!! we are both now in relationships and we talk about navigating these early times as adults. Managing difficult conversations, dealbreakers and avoiding the slippery slope of co-dependency.

    Kids: To Have or Not to Have!!!

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 27, 2022 44:46


    Pooja and Rashida are getting old so they are talking about their biological clocks and the pressures of having kids.We talk about our opposing views on wanting to have kids and feeling the pressure to have kids from society and partners.If you like the content, please like, follow and subscribe to us on your podcast platform. Follow us on Instagram to get notified of episode releases @notmarriagematerialpodcast. [Unedited]

    #2021Wrapped

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 30, 2021 43:07


    Pooja and Rashida reflect on the year that was. They go through their highs and lows of the year and zoom out to reflect on their growth over the year.If you like our content, please subscribe to our podcast on your podcast listening channel and on instagram @notmarriagematerialpodcast.

    Money And Marriage!!!

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 23, 2021 34:21


    In this episode, Rashida and Pooja talk about personal incidences where they felt alienated by their own family when talking about wealth and inheritance. They are questioning what equality in a family means in terms of duties and responsibilities.Let us know, whether you agree or disagree with our standpoint. Please follow us @notmarriagematerialpodcast on instagram to stay up to date with the next episode release. Please like, share and subscribe to our podcast if you like our content.

    Bad Date OR Sexual Assault?

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 28, 2021 37:57


    In this episode, the girls talk about a promising date going badly wrong. We discuss the date and the responsibilities of both the people involved in the outcome.The objective is to bring awareness to the very important topic of explicit consent when engaging in sexual encounters with another person.Please follow us on Spotify @notmarriagematerial and on Instagram @notmarriagematerialpodcast and let us know if you have any stories of assault/misconduct that you would like us to share in a future episode.**Disclaimer: This is a true story, that is personal to a close friend. It is shared here in first person POV with the permission of our friend for impact.

    Insecurities:Grad School Edition & Gabby Petito Murder Case

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 2, 2021 43:14


    Are we a true crime podcast now? Pooja and Rashida talk about feeling lonely in a crowd and how our insecurities can make us feel isolated from even our closest friends.In our lighter segment(!?!), we talk about the Gabby Petito murder case and the themes of gender and gaslighting.

    War On Women

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 15, 2021 39:32


    Pooja and Rashida talk about the general state of women in the world. They go deep into the new Texas abortion law, why it was instantiated and the impact it can have going forward. We also introduce a new section where we discuss the 30 something dating scene.Follow us on instagram @notmarriagematerialpodcast

    Covid Hangover

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 25, 2021 36:58


    The girls talk about Covid and how it has impacted them in their personal and professional lives. It's a way to share in the collective experience of covid and it's positive and negative impacts on the lives of people.

    Getting Off The Hamster Wheel

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 11, 2021 41:48


    Rashida and Pooja talk about the different kinds of timelines that govern their life.The pressures internal and those imposed by society can make you feel like you are constantly on this giant hamster wheel. So we discuss situations where we are trying to take pause and really figure out how to stand up for ourselves.

    Love is Love is Love

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 7, 2021 42:05


    The Not Marriage Material girls talk about their experiences with falling in love, love at first sight and loving yourself.Please follow us on @notmarriagematerialpodcast on instagram and leave us any comments or feedback on this episode.

    Adulting 101

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 23, 2021 46:58


    We talk about understanding and accepting who we are as people and how we try to effectively communicate that to the people around us including our parents and to the random people we go on dates with. Growing up comes with growing pains but we can all start from a place of kindness and self acceptance. 

    Online Dating Horror Stories - Ghost Buster edition

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 13, 2021 52:32


    Being very single, we have been aggressively online dating. We bring you our experiences and horror stories from all the men who have lied to us, lied on their profiles or straight up lied to themselves.Please like, subscribe and leave a comment about your own experiences in the online dating and matrimonial sites world. Also, please follow us @notmarriagematerialpodcast on Instagram.

    Behind the scenes in a sexually repressive society!!!

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 31, 2021 48:26


    In this episode, we bring in a friend and get to talking about breaking gender stereotypes and all the NAUGHTY THINGS we got up to.Please follow our instagram account @notmarriagematerialpodcastMusic credits - Misfits (Instrumental) by RYYZN https://soundcloud.com/ryyznCreative Commons — Attribution 3.0 Unported — CC BY 3.0Free Download / Stream: http://bit.ly/-misfitsMusic promoted by Audio Library https://youtu.be/iSSp4TH7Lks

    Why We Left India!

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 19, 2021 37:36


    In this episode Pooja and Rashida, describe what it was like growing up in India for them and all the cultural norms that pushed them to move to US. They also discuss the potential for moving back to India.Instagram - notmarriagematerialpodcast

    Dating Red Flags

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 21, 2021 29:27


    In this episode, we go over red flags, trivial and profound, in dating and relationships.We also introduce our instagram page - @notmarriagematerialpodcast, to unite the community against ArrangedMarriage.

    Arranged Marriage? No thanks!

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 31, 2021 48:38


    Dedicated to all the Desi "Brothers and Sisters".We talk through problems with arranged marriage as it pertains to society. We talk about some of the hilarious and horrifying stories in our life where we have been put under pressure for marriage.We talk about freedom and the struggle for it as Indian females.

    Sex, Blood And Birth Control

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 18, 2021 37:26


    Taking everyone through our journey of discovering different birth control methods. We talk about cultural ignorance and lack of sexual education while growing up, which leads to hilarious stories of misconceptions around periods, sanitary products and ofcourse the female anatomy.

    Dating: Brown Guys vs White Guys

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 30, 2020 34:04


    In this episode, we do a rundown of our dating history and take the listeners on a journey of changes in our dating preferences and how our past influenced our current choices.

    Rant on Arranged Marriage

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 20, 2020 29:22


    Introducing Not Marriage MaterialArranged Marriage and why it's not for us.

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