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Internalized negative self-talk trapping ND lives? In this episode of Adulting with Autism, host April unpacks Complex PTSD/ADHD mental health with Karen Dwyer-Tesoriero, NYC/FL psychotherapist (25+ years social work/child welfare/intergenerational trauma/CPTSD expert). Using EMDR/IFS/Polyvagal/somatic therapies, Karen undoes limiting beliefs for authenticity/goals; life coaching for non-NY/FL via TikTok, plus parent support for emotional regulation. Key insights: Negative self-talk: Childhood messages (e.g., "lazy" from ADHD struggles) internalized—higher CPTSD risk in ND (adverse experiences like unmet needs). CPTSD vs. PTSD: Relational/micro-traumas (e.g., single-parent absences/narcissistic abuse) vs. single events (war/accidents); leads to anxiety/depression/avoidance. Polyvagal theory: Bottom-up body focus (window of tolerance/fight-flight-freeze/dorsal shutdown); regulate via sensations (e.g., neutral feet vs. chest tension)—ADHD/autism concrete (EMDR eye movement/tappers). EMDR for ND: Bilateral stimulation desensitizes trauma memories; evolving for autism/ADHD (virtual/no light bar); process emotions concretely ("what happened next?"). Rewriting stories: Narrative/motivational interviewing challenges origins ("is it true? strengths? passions?"); experiment authenticity (small steps like "hi" to vendor). Attachment styles: Healthy (communication/vulnerability); avoidant (infidelity/avoid intimacy); anxious (constant doubt/people-pleasing); disorganized (both)—ND rejection sensitivity amplifies. Addictions/substances: Beyond alcohol/drugs (food/shopping/exercise/secrets); red flags (hiding behaviors); regulate dopamine healthily (breaks/routines). Advocacy/relationships: Therapy fit crucial (ask trainings/referrals); healthy dating (experiment/vulnerability); parents model regulation to minimize messages. For autistic/ADHD young adults navigating independence/trauma, Karen's vibe: "You're not broken—rewrite for worth." Free resources at kdtesoriero.lcsw.net; email coffeewithkaren@gmail.com. Subscribe for ND trauma hacks! Rate/review on Podbean/Apple/Spotify. Linktree: (socials/shop/Podbean). Holiday merch sale: 30% off tees/hoodies with code BLACK25 at adultingwithautism.shop—rewrite your style fierce! #CPTSDADHDND #NegativeSelfTalkAutism #PolyvagalNervousSystemNeurodivergent #EMDRTraumaRecoveryADHD #AttachmentStylesYoungAdults #RewritingStoriesNeurodiverse #AdultingWithAutism #HealthyBoundariesAutistic #PodMatch #Podcasts #BTSNeurodivergent #BTSArmy Episode: CPTSD & ADHD in ND with Karen Dwyer-Tesoriero [00:00] Intro: ND Negative Self-Talk Trap [00:30] Karen's Expertise: 25+ Years CPTSD/ADHD Trauma Work [02:00] Negative Messages: Childhood Internalization (ADHD/Autism Struggles) [05:00] CPTSD vs. PTSD: Relational/Micro-Traumas (Adverse Experiences) [08:00] Polyvagal Theory: Bottom-Up Regulation (Window of Tolerance/Freeze) [11:00] EMDR for ND: Bilateral Stimulation/Desensitization (Concrete Processing) [14:00] Rewriting Stories: Narrative Interviewing (Challenge Origins/Strengths) [17:00] Attachment Styles: Healthy vs. Avoidant/Anxious/Disorganized (ND Rejection) [20:00] Addictions/Substances: Beyond Drugs (Food/Shopping/Secrets/Red Flags) [23:00] Healthy Relationships/Dating: Experiment/Vulnerability/Communication [26:00] Outro: Authenticity Takeaways & CTAs Resources: Website: kdtesoriero.lcsw.net (therapy/life coaching) Email: coffeewithkaren@gmail.com TikTok: (life coaching outreach) Linktree: (socials/shop/Podbean) Subscribe on Podbean/YouTube for ND mental health tips! Share your rewrite win in comments. #NDCPTSD #AutismNegativeTalk #ADHDPolyvagal #EMDRNeurodivergent #AttachmentYoungAdults #AdultingWithAutism
You're an adult…now what? Being an adult is hard but sometimes we make it harder than it has to be! As the pastor of one of the largest ministries to 20-somethings in Texas, J.P. Pokluda knows the challenges facing the next generation. He will help you navigate issues like friendships and dating, career and money management, controlling anxiety and much more! If you are new to this thing called "adulting," don't miss this "Best of Equipped with Chris Brooks!" Featured resource:Welcome to Adulting: Navigating Faith, Friendship, Finances, and the Future by Jonathan "J.P." Pokluda December thank you gift:Discerning the Voice of God: How to Recognize When God is Speaking by Priscilla Shirer Equipped with Chris Brooks is made possible through your support. To donate now, click here.
From the absurd (snakes through sunroofs) to the profound (the fear of being unlovable), we're diving into the vivid world of adult anxiety. This episode categorizes our fears into three distinct lanes: practical risks that need a plan, anxiety loops that need a nervous-system reset, and tender wounds that require compassion and community.We explore why "white-knuckling" through phobias doesn't work and how tools like EMDR and exposure therapy can rewire your brain. Whether you need a checklist, a deep breath, or a witness to your story, this framework helps you balance grit with gentleness. Tune in to learn how to turn your "what-ifs" into actionable, brave steps.
It's the most wonderful day of the year! On this, the day when our lives are filled with copious amounts of eggnog and football, we present to you a special classic holidays edition of AITA! So load up the podcast app of your choice, spike the f**k out of that nog, and roast the sh*t out of some chestnuts. Let's sit down by the fire and judge the ever-loving hell out of some random strangers on the interwebs. On a slightly less judgy and more serious note: HAPPY HOLIDAYS TO ALL!!!! Nikki is now an ambassador for Club WPT Gold! Check out: https://clubwptgold.com and use code NIKKI to sign up! Follow the podcast on Insta: @shttheydonttellyou Follow Nikki on Insta: @NikkiLimo Follow Steve on Insta: @SteveGreeneComedy To visit our Patreon: http://www.patreon.com/stikki To watch the podcast on YouTube: http://bit.ly/STDTYPodYouTube Don't forget to subscribe to the podcast for free wherever you're listening, or by using this link: http://bit.ly/ShtTheyDontTellYou If you want to support the show, and get all our episodes ad-free go to: https://stdty.supercast.tech/ If you like the show, telling a friend about it would be amazing! You can text, email, Tweet, or send this link to a friend: http://bit.ly/ShtTheyDontTellYou To submit your questions/feedback, email us at: podcast@nikki.limo To call in with questions/feedback, leave us a voicemail at: (765) 734-0840 To watch more Nikki & Steve on YouTube: http://www.youtube.com/nikkilimo To watch more of Nikki talking about Poker: https://www.twitch.tv/trickniks To check out Nikki's Jewelry Line: https://kittensandcoffee.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
High-masking ND grind burning you out? In this episode of Adulting with Autism, host April tackles sustainable success for neurodivergent high-achievers with Garrett Wood, National Board-Certified Health and Wellness Coach/clinical hypnotherapist/executive functioning specialist and founder of Gnosis Therapy. With 18+ years helping masking professionals (autism/ADHD), Garrett's A³ Framework (Assess, Accommodate, Align) bridges nervous-system needs/environment demands—focusing on sensory intelligence/bio-budgets/emotional regulation/core beliefs/attachment/values/executive functioning to end boom-bust cycles. Key insights: High-masking exhaustion: Socialization gaps (hiding "not okay" parts); safe environments reduce friction—authentic self without danger. Sensory intelligence: Preferences/thresholds (too much/little stimulation); interoception (body cues like hunger/anxiety); accommodations (headphones/compression/breaks/sensory backpack). Bio-budgets/time under tension: ND shifts (16-18 hrs masking vs. NT 4-5 hrs); small reps/recovery (car breaks/garden/dust books) prevent overload. Autistic vs. NT burnout: Intensity/scale difference (ND extreme effort); recovery longer (6-7 months vs. quick)—focus well-being (not grit/willpower myth). Hypnotherapy: Self-hypnosis (daydream state for mindset/social/sleep); practice positive experiences (e.g., anxiety scenarios going well). A³ for control: Assess needs (triggers/supports), Accommodate (e.g., oils/masks), Align (values as guardrails); early overload signs (tension/shutdown). Workplace/young adults: Advocate (ROI from inclusion); trial/error (hot/cold days); natural responses (eat/move/sleep) over deadlines. For autistic/ADHD young adults/entrepreneurs in masking fatigue, Garrett's vibe: "Sustainable success through well-being—not expense." Free resources at gnosistherapy.com. Subscribe for ND burnout hacks! Rate/review on Podbean/Apple/Spotify. Linktree: (socials/shop/Podbean). Holiday merch sale: 30% off tees/hoodies with code BLACK25 at adultingwithautism shop—align your style fierce! #HighMaskingNDBurnout #A3FrameworkAutism #SustainableSuccessADHD #SensoryIntelligenceNeurodivergent #HypnotherapyMindsetND #BioBudgetsExecutiveFunctioning #AdultingWithAutism #NervousSystemRegulationYoungAdults #PodMatch #Podcasts #BTSNeurodivergent #BTSArmy Episode: High Masking ND Burnout with Garrett Wood [00:00] Intro: ND High-Masking Exhaustion Trap [00:30] Garrett's Expertise: A³ Framework for Sustainable Success [02:00] Authentic Self Without Friction: Safe Environments Reduce Masking [05:00] Sensory Intelligence: Thresholds/Preferences & Interoception Cues [08:00] Bio-Budgets/Time Under Tension: ND vs. NT Recovery (Small Breaks) [11:00] Autistic vs. NT Burnout: Intensity/Scale Differences (6-7 Months Recovery) [14:00] Hypnotherapy: Self-Hypnosis for Mindset/Social/Sleep (Daydream Practice) [17:00] A³ in Action: Assess/Accommodate/Align (Triggers/Supports/Values) [20:00] Workplace/Young Adults: Advocacy & Early Overload Signs (Anxiety/Shutdown) [23:00] Outro: Burnout Breakthrough Takeaways & CTAs Resources: Gnosis Therapy: gnosistherapy.com (coaching/A³ framework) LinkedIn/Instagram: @gnosistheapy Linktree: (socials/shop/Podbean) Subscribe on Podbean/YouTube for ND success tips! Share your masking hack in comments. #NDHighMasking #A3FrameworkAutism #SustainableBurnoutRecovery #SensoryND #HypnotherapyADHD #AdultingWithAutism
Keywordsholiday spirit, Christmas magic, self-care, festive traditions, mindfulness, family activities, joy, intentional living, holiday rituals, simplifying celebrationsSummaryIn this episode of the Ask Yourself Why Not podcast, hosts Shaye and Jayla explore how to embrace the holiday spirit as adults. They discuss ways to create personal magic during the holidays, emphasizing the importance of small rituals, fun activities, and self-care. The conversation highlights the need to simplify holiday celebrations and prioritize joy, allowing listeners to enjoy the season without feeling overwhelmed.TakeawaysChristmas magic feels different as an adult.You are the magic of the holidays.Focus on small rituals to enhance holiday spirit.Choose fun activities that bring joy.Celebrate every day as if it's your favorite day.Don't overthink gift-giving; it's the thought that counts.Simplify holiday preparations to reduce stress.Prioritize self-care during the busy season.Make space for joy to find you.Choose your joy on purpose this holiday season.TitlesRediscovering Holiday Magic as AdultsCreating Your Own Christmas SpiritSound bites"You are the magic.""Choose fun, have more fun.""Make it merrier, Jayla."Chapters00:00 Embracing Holiday Spirit00:58 Finding Magic as Adults02:47 Creating Cozy Rituals05:02 Choosing Fun and Joy06:53 Making Life Festive07:47 Simplifying Holiday Preparations08:42 Prioritizing Self-Care
Indulge in the best-of from the live, weekly Brunch-Hour with Two Brunettes & A Gay. Perfect for unwinding any time of the day, accompanied by your favourite bubbles. Follow us on Instagram. Give us a like on Facebook. Check us out on TikTok. CREDITS: Hosts: Aaron Collis, Celeste La Scala & Deanna Carbone. Panelist: Deanna Carbone. Content Warning: None. Two Brunettes & A Gay is recorded LIVE every Saturday @ 11am (Adelaide Time) on Radio Italia Uno 87.6FM.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Indulge in the best-of from the live, weekly Brunch-Hour with Two Brunettes & A Gay. Perfect for unwinding any time of the day, accompanied by your favourite bubbles. Follow us on Instagram. Give us a like on Facebook. Check us out on TikTok. CREDITS: Hosts: Aaron Collis, Celeste La Scala & Deanna Carbone. Panelist: Deanna Carbone. Content Warning: None. Two Brunettes & A Gay is recorded LIVE every Saturday @ 11am (Adelaide Time) on Radio Italia Uno 87.6FM.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Indulge in the best-of from the live, weekly Brunch-Hour with Two Brunettes & A Gay. Perfect for unwinding any time of the day, accompanied by your favourite bubbles. Follow us on Instagram. Give us a like on Facebook. Check us out on TikTok. CREDITS: Hosts: Aaron Collis, Celeste La Scala & Deanna Carbone. Panelist: Deanna Carbone. Content Warning: None. Two Brunettes & A Gay is recorded LIVE every Saturday @ 11am (Adelaide Time) on Radio Italia Uno 87.6FM.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Indulge in the best-of from the live, weekly Brunch-Hour with Two Brunettes & A Gay. Perfect for unwinding any time of the day, accompanied by your favourite bubbles. Follow us on Instagram. Give us a like on Facebook. Check us out on TikTok. CREDITS: Hosts: Aaron Collis, Celeste La Scala & Deanna Carbone. Panelist: Deanna Carbone. Content Warning: None. Two Brunettes & A Gay is recorded LIVE every Saturday @ 11am (Adelaide Time) on Radio Italia Uno 87.6FM.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Unexplained chronic pain/illness trapping you in ND chaos? In this episode of Adulting with Autism, host April dives into neuroplastic symptoms—brain-generated conditions from stress/trauma (1 in 6 adults, higher in autism/ADHD)—with Dr. David Clarke, MD (Internal Medicine/Gastroenterology), ATNS President (nonprofit ending pain epidemic), and podcast host "The Story Behind the Symptoms." Treating 7000+ patients, Dr. Clarke's book "They Can't Find Anything Wrong" reveals real symptoms (fibromyalgia/migraines/IBS/long COVID) unresponsive to physical treatments—focus on stress sources for recovery. Key insights: Neuroplastic basics: Brain rewires from stresses (current emotions/childhood adversity/being "different" like ND); no structural cause but real (scans prove circuits change). ND link: Masking/difference adds pressure; symptoms signal distress (e.g., pain only at work triggers). Screening: Free 12-question quiz at symptomatic.me (
In this episode of the Asian Soup Podcast, Julia and Roxane settle in for a cosy chat about what adulting really looks like as Asian Australian women in their 30s. From navigating careers and work pressure to slowly getting their heads around money, taxes, and financial responsibility, they share the very real lessons they've picked up along the way.They talk about growth, maturity, and how priorities start to shift as you get older, along with the quiet weight of responsibility that comes with becoming more intentional about life, relationships, and choices. With family expectations, cultural nuances, and everyday realities in the mix, Julia and Roxane reflect on how adulthood isn't about having it all sorted — it's about figuring things out as you go and giving yourself a bit of grace.Think of this episode as a relaxed catch-up — like a late-night yarn at a sleepover, but now with life admin, spreadsheets, and snacks. Come hang
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Disconnected from your body in ND chaos? In this episode of Adulting with Autism, host April explores quantum human design for neurodivergent reconnection with Dr. Karen Parker, Human Design/Quantum Human Design expert (psychology/holistic health background, founder of Quantum Human Design™). Integrating ancient wisdom/quantum physics, Dr. Parker decodes energetic blueprints for growth—workshops/courses/consults empowering authentic purpose/societal harmony. Key insights: Body disconnection: Epidemic from kindergarten (overstim/shame, "treehouse" numbness); leads to distractions (TV/phone/food) to avoid pain. Micro-trauma: Not just big events—shaming needs (e.g., bathroom denial) teaches "unsafe to be me"; compounds to burnout (body refuses mask). Redefine value: Shift from material/numerical (money/size) to preciousness (once-in-lifetime cosmic event)—nurture self like royal gems. Quantum human design: High-frequency language rewires stories (photon storms/neurotransmitters); hero's journey (creative writing/dance) upgrades victim to victor, boosts immunity/creativity. Healing steps: Compassion without judgment ("ready for change"); rest/outdoors/body listening; frequency physics (high vibe pulls others up—influential/authentic living). ND application: Burnout from masking (exhaustion trying to fit); safe embodiment for empaths/sensitives—rewrite low-frequency trauma narratives. For autistic/ADHD in overwhelm/isolation, Dr. Parker's blueprint: "Preciousness heals—get in body, rewrite story." Free chart at quantumhumandesign.com; TEDx https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=G-294NywwZ4. Subscribe for ND wellness hacks! Rate/review on Podbean/Apple/Spotify. Linktree: (socials/shop/Podbean). Holiday merch sale: 30% off tees/hoodies with code BLACK25 at adultingwithautism reconnect your vibe fierce! #QuantumHumanDesignND #BodyReconnectionAutism #HighFrequencyHealingADHD #HumanDesignBurnout #MicroTraumaNeurodivergent #PreciousnessSelfWorth #AdultingWithAutism #EnergeticBlueprintND #PodMatch #Podcasts #BTSNeurodivergent #BTSArmy
In this lively conversation, Heather and Natalie discuss their holiday traditions, including the creation of new family customs and the fun game of wig snatching. They share their experiences living in Florida, the challenges of horse care, and the joy of embracing creativity during the holiday season. Special guests join the fun, and the group reminisces about their favorite Muppets and holiday movies, all while planning future gatherings and celebrations. In this lively conversation, the hosts discuss a variety of topics ranging from Hollywood props sales to the authenticity of horse whinnies in media. They share humorous anecdotes about Christmas sweaters and live shows, while also touching on the dynamics of podcasting and the balance between seriousness and fun. The conversation also delves into horse care, training insights, and the importance of language and communication. They celebrate achievements and awards, all while maintaining a light-hearted and engaging atmosphere.Keywordsholiday traditions, family, creativity, wig snatching, Florida life, horse care, Muppets, special guests, personal growth, festive games, Hollywood, props, horse training, podcasting, Christmas, authenticity, language, communication, awards, humorChapters00:00 Holiday Cheer and Festive Traditions02:55 Creating New Family Traditions06:04 Wig Snatching: A Unique Holiday Game09:00 Florida Life and Holiday Experiences12:11 Embracing Creativity and Personal Growth15:01 Horse Care and New Adventures18:00 Special Guests and Holiday Celebrations20:59 Holiday Traditions and Muppet Memories24:03 Casting Dreams and Future Plans42:05 Hollywood Props and Wigs43:40 The Reality of Filming and Props Sales44:43 Horse Whinnies and Authenticity in Media46:00 Christmas Sweaters and Live Shows47:58 New Roles and Responsibilities48:58 Podcast Dynamics and Humor50:59 The Balance of Seriousness and Fun54:00 Horse Care and Training Insights01:00:00 The Importance of Language and Communication01:04:02 Celebrating Achievements and AwardsLinks:www.adultingwithhorsespodcast.comInstagram @adultingwithhorsespodcastTwitter @AdultingHorsesFacebook Group, The Clubhouse: https://www.facebook.com/groups/adultingwithhorsespodcast/Patreon https://www.patreon.com/AdultingWithHorsesPodcastThank you for being a little weird with us, horse girl! If you like what you hear make sure to subscribe to the podcast on your player of choice, join our Adulting with Horses Clubhouse on Facebook where you can become part of the show! Also, it's a great place to meet other horse crazy women. Thanks and see you next time!If you like what you hear but want a little more, become a Patreon member for extra bonus episodes, behind-the-scenes content with video, and more! https://www.patreon.com/AdultingWithHorsesPodcast
In this lively conversation, Heather and Natalie discuss their holiday traditions, including the creation of new family customs and the fun game of wig snatching. They share their experiences living in Florida, the challenges of horse care, and the joy of embracing creativity during the holiday season. Special guests join the fun, and the group reminisces about their favorite Muppets and holiday movies, all while planning future gatherings and celebrations. In this lively conversation, the hosts discuss a variety of topics ranging from Hollywood props sales to the authenticity of horse whinnies in media. They share humorous anecdotes about Christmas sweaters and live shows, while also touching on the dynamics of podcasting and the balance between seriousness and fun. The conversation also delves into horse care, training insights, and the importance of language and communication. They celebrate achievements and awards, all while maintaining a light-hearted and engaging atmosphere.Keywordsholiday traditions, family, creativity, wig snatching, Florida life, horse care, Muppets, special guests, personal growth, festive games, Hollywood, props, horse training, podcasting, Christmas, authenticity, language, communication, awards, humorChapters00:00 Holiday Cheer and Festive Traditions02:55 Creating New Family Traditions06:04 Wig Snatching: A Unique Holiday Game09:00 Florida Life and Holiday Experiences12:11 Embracing Creativity and Personal Growth15:01 Horse Care and New Adventures18:00 Special Guests and Holiday Celebrations20:59 Holiday Traditions and Muppet Memories24:03 Casting Dreams and Future Plans42:05 Hollywood Props and Wigs43:40 The Reality of Filming and Props Sales44:43 Horse Whinnies and Authenticity in Media46:00 Christmas Sweaters and Live Shows47:58 New Roles and Responsibilities48:58 Podcast Dynamics and Humor50:59 The Balance of Seriousness and Fun54:00 Horse Care and Training Insights01:00:00 The Importance of Language and Communication01:04:02 Celebrating Achievements and AwardsLinks:www.adultingwithhorsespodcast.comInstagram @adultingwithhorsespodcastTwitter @AdultingHorsesFacebook Group, The Clubhouse: https://www.facebook.com/groups/adultingwithhorsespodcast/Patreon https://www.patreon.com/AdultingWithHorsesPodcastThank you for being a little weird with us, horse girl! If you like what you hear make sure to subscribe to the podcast on your player of choice, join our Adulting with Horses Clubhouse on Facebook where you can become part of the show! Also, it's a great place to meet other horse crazy women. Thanks and see you next time!If you like what you hear but want a little more, become a Patreon member for extra bonus episodes, behind-the-scenes content with video, and more! https://www.patreon.com/AdultingWithHorsesPodcast
In this episode, Eric Goll shares heartfelt and practical insights gained from his sister Sarah's journey to more independent living. Discover how shifting your role from caregiver to coach can unlock your loved one's potential and build their confidence step by step. Eric breaks down essential life skills into manageable groups and offers actionable guidance to help families support adults with disabilities flourishing in their communities. What you'll discover: - Why independence means interdependence and the right support, not zero support - The three key groups of living skills to focus on: Essentials, Adulting, and Advanced - How to overcome low expectations and set a high-expectation mindset - Practical tips to shift from doing tasks for your loved one to coaching alongside them This episode matters because teaching life skills gives your loved one freedom, dignity, and a richer life — and brings peace and less worry to your entire family. Ready to start planning? Download your FREE Life Planning 101 Guide at
If you've ever wondered why you settle, sabotage, or shut down.. this episode tells you the truth.Today on Almost Adulting, Violetta is joined by Jay Shetty - New York Times best-selling author, host of On Purpose, former monk, and one of the most influential voices in self-improvement, emotional healing, and modern spirituality.In this powerful conversation, Jay and Violetta dive into:the limits we place on ourselves (and each other)fear as an unformed boundarywhy timelines sabotage our growththe real meaning of love (beyond romance)how to build connection through vulnerabilityand how to rewrite the beliefs holding you backIf you're craving clarity, emotional growth, deeper love, or a fresh start, this is an episode worth revisiting. Some conversations deserve a second life. and don't forget to leave me a 5 star review on the apple podcast app when you're done listening!!!! WHAT TO LISTEN FOR:• 00:00 Intro• 02:15 The journey that took 10 years• 05:08 Deadlines vs. destiny• 06:13 Worst advice Jay ever received• 07:52 “We project our limits onto other people.”• 10:46 The three cancers of the mind• 12:45 How to change your feelings• 16:23 Best advice Jay ever received• 21:36 Why beginners should move fast• 28:19 The two lies we tell ourselves• 33:35 What unforgiveness does to you• 36:13 Different forms of love• 38:46 Is unconditional love real?• 41:26 Loving as a skill• 46:16 Fear as an unformed boundary• 50:05 The power of being alone• 53:08 Win or lose together• 58:52 What it really takes to make love work• 01:03:41 The 8 Rules of Love• 01:06:19 The myth of perfection• 01:08:35 Connect with the people who want youAND THAT IS ALL FOR 2025!!! WE WILL BE BACK IN 2026!!
Feeling stuck in ND corporate grind or creative chaos? In this episode of Adulting with Autism, host April chats getting unstuck for neurodivergent entrepreneurs with Murielle Ungricht, autistic business coach (25 years experience, founded/sold businesses, certified master career coach). Late-diagnosed autistic, TEDx speaker/author of "Get Unstuck!" (self-help for procrastination/overthinking), and founder/CEO of Nuumani.com (AI-human coaching platform for accessible support), Murielle mentors "unconventional" creatives/ND folks to trade fear for joy—focusing on entrepreneurship/productivity/mental health/trauma/leadership/feminism. Key insights: Late diagnosis journey: From feeling "wrong" to embracing gifts (detail-oriented/resilient routines); measure personal wins, not NT standards. Unstuck formula: Recognize autistic strengths (structure/habits) for success; trial/error to build sustainable systems (e.g., batching content to avoid overwhelm). Perfectionism/self-sabotage: Rewire negative voice (mindfulness: "Is it true? What if opposite?"); drop bars gradually—produce "good enough" without procrastination. AI coaching (Nuumani): Democratizes access (free sessions/human network); combines her tech/coaching background for ND-friendly tools. Young autistics: Find formula for world not built for you—expose to new safely, forgive meltdowns, seek support; "so what?" mindset for fearless living. Advice: Don't worry—start now; connect dots with strengths (big picture + detail); consistency over blueprints (AI helps, but human touch essential). For autistic/ADHD young adults/entrepreneurs, Murielle's vibe: "Be unreasonable for amazing life—autism isn't barrier, it's superpower." Free session at muriellemarie.com; TEDx: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BxligD1idto; Nuumani: nuumani.com. Subscribe for ND career hacks! Rate/review on Podbean/Apple/Spotify. Linktree:(socials/shop/Podbean). Holiday merch sale: 30% off tees/hoodies with code BLACK25 at https://adulting-with-autism-shop.fourthwall.com—unstuck your style fierce! #AutisticEntrepreneurCoach #GetUnstuckND #AICoachingNeurodivergent #CreativeCareersAutism #PerfectionismADHDSabotage #TEDxAutisticMentor #AdultingWithAutism #MentalHealthYoungAdults #PodMatch #Podcasts #BTSArmy #BTSNeurodivergent #Autism #AuDHD #ADHD #OT #OTTips
Today we have a solo pod from Ashley! Who despite being a twin, is yes, *slightly older* by a mere 2 years. This podcast is filled with older sister advice from figuring out what career you want & surviving college, to Ashley's best tips for Adulting and more! And of course, life updates and current favorites too! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Kalau di buku pertama tone yang dipake dr. Andreas Kurniawan ngedorong dan ngajak kita melewati duka dengan nada yang lebih lembut, buku kedua ini lebih gua rasa lebih tough love. Seorang Wanita yang Ingin Menjadi Pohon Semangka di Kehidupan Berikutnya ditulis buat lo yang kadang bodoh-bodohin diri, yang hobi kontemplasi di kursi besi minimarket, sambil digebrak buat mikir: di deathbed nanti, apakah lo uda berhasil bangun hidup yang bisa dibanggain? #podcastindonesia #podcast #selfdevelopment #selfawareness #kesehatanmental #panduankarir
Welcome to our Monthly Zodiac Bonus Episode, dropping the third week of every month! This December, we're giving you the ultimate guide to making a Capricorn man obsessed with YOU.Get ready to discover:
Exhausted from ND grind overload? In this episode of Adulting with Autism, host April explores mindful energy for neurodivergent burnout with Chris Vasiliadis, former systems engineer/instructional designer/Director of Performance Improvement turned burnout buster/health coach (18 years). MS diagnosis (2006) sparked his shift to energizing routines—Qigong/MBSR/3R rescue—focusing on sustainable thriving without chronic exhaustion, aligning actions/values for whole-hearted well-being. Key insights: MS journey: Year of "lab rat" tests (gluten sensitivity/naps), conscious energy management (Qigong for meridians). Mindful energy: Purposeful present attention without judgment (grounding/foot sensations, white space on calendar). Routines for dysfunction/overwhelm: Pause/reground (breathe/stretch/outdoor panoramic views), 16-90 min breaks (not rewards—necessities). Aligning actions/values: Self-compassion over perfectionism (grace for pace, delegate/delay to-dos). Book "Ignition": Self-coach burnout-proof (energy list/3R: remove/reduce/respond drains; bake energizers first). Unpredictable life: Expect chaos (reground: "What's next wise choice?"), community for support (no stagnation—daily joy notes). Thriving normal: Sane pace (role models of measured living), human beings not doings (buffers/transitions). For autistic/ADHD young adults in executive dysfunction/isolation, Chris's systems/patterns: "Honor humanness—small steps sustain." Free resources at prioritywellness.com. Subscribe for ND wellness hacks! Rate/review on Podbean/Apple/Spotify. LinkedIn: Chris Vasiliadis. Linktree: (socials/shop/Podbean). Holiday merch sale: 30% off tees/hoodies with code BLACK25 at https://adulting-with-autism-shop.fourthwall.com—energize your vibe fierce! #MindfulEnergyND #BurnoutPreventionAutism #SustainableWellnessADHD #IgnitionBookRoutines #ExecutiveDysfunctionEnergy #MSHealthCoachingNeurodivergent #AdultingWithAutism #PodMatch #Podcasts #AuDHD #Autism #ADHD #BTSNeurodivergent #MentalHealth #BTSArmy #OT #OTTips Episode: Mindful Energy for ND Burnout with Chris Vasiliadis [00:00] Intro: ND Grind Exhaustion Trap [00:30] Chris's Journey: Engineering to MS-Inspired Health Coaching [02:00] Honoring Needs: Naps/Qigong/Gluten-Free Post-Diagnosis [05:00] Mindful Energy: Purposeful Attention (Grounding/White Space) [08:00] Routines for Overwhelm: Pauses/Breaks (Panoramic Views/Stretch) [11:00] Aligning Actions/Values: Compassion Over Perfectionism [14:00] "Ignition" Book: Self-Coach (Energy List/3R Rescue) [17:00] Unpredictable Life: Expect Chaos, Reground Wise Choices [20:00] Thriving Normal: Sane Pace, Human Beings Not Doings [23:00] Outro: Takeaways & CTAs Resources: Priority Wellness: prioritywellness.com (coaching/book "Ignition") LinkedIn: Chris Vasiliadis Book: "Ignition: Burnout-Proof Living" (Amazon) Linktree: (socials/shop/Podbean) Subscribe on Podbean/YouTube for ND energy tips! Share your 3R win in comments. #NDBurnoutBuster #AutismMindfulRoutines #ADHDWellnessHacks #SustainableEnergyNeurodivergent
Unspoken Words: A Selective Mutism Podcast by Dr. Elisa Shipon-Blum
EP67 of the Unspoken Words podcast features a discussion between Dr. Elisa Shipon-Blum and licensed Occupational Therapist and the creator and host of Adulting with Autism Podcast, April Ratchford, on the intersection of Autism Spectrum Disorder and Selective Mutism in adulthood. In the episode, Dr. Elisa Shipon-Blum and April Ratchford explore how ASD and Selective Mutism often co-occur and why adults are frequently misdiagnosed or misunderstood. They examine what SM actually looks like across different social settings in adults with ASD, and discuss the unique factors—including sensory processing, social burnout, and executive functioning—that influence communication challenges.--Chapters: (03:57) Understanding Autism vs. Selective Mutism – Key Differences(07:56) How ASD and SM Present Differently Across Social Settings(14:54) The WHYs Behind Mutism – Sensory Processing and Social Burnout(23:20) Tailored Treatment Strategies for Dual Diagnosis Adults(33:17) Practical Tools and Workplace Accommodations for Success- Ask Dr. E a question and we might answer it on a future podcast episode! Learn more about the host, Dr. Elisa Shipon-Blum Explore our SMart Center success stories! Get started at the SMart Center Listen to other Unspoken Words episodes here. For the best clips from every episode, follow the podcast on Instagram & YouTube Share our upcoming Selective Mutism In The School Virtual Conference with your child or teen's school staff. 5.5 CEs/CEUs are available. Learn more about CommuniCamp, our 3+ day intensive group treatment and ALL DAY parent training & support program- For all podcast inquiries, please contact Dakota Hornak at dhornak@selectivemutismcenter.org This podcast was produced by New Edition Consulting (neweditionconsulting.com)
Barriers in education/work got you down as an ND young adult? In this episode of Adulting with Autism, host April chats accessible design for neurodivergent with Rebecca Prejean, CEO/Founder of E.B. Graphics and Consulting—creating inclusive multimedia (videos/graphics/animations/e-learnings/VR/AR) via UDL/WCAG for corporations/higher ed/nonprofits. As mom to a son with severe hydrocephalus/autism (defied "won't walk/talk" prognosis), Rebecca fights perceptions, boosting revenue/productivity/engagement through accessible experiences for ADHD/autism/dyslexia/special needs. Key insights: Business start: Freelance post-layoff (no degree needed—hard work/upskilling/AI for ideas), networking muscle (volunteer to paid). Skills honing: Try all (Google/Udemy/creators), open to tech (AI ideation, not replacement); workshops/monthly for sharpness. Imposter/authentic: Fight through (clients want you, not mask); cancel mismatches—resilience from discomfort (homeless/abuse led to success). No shortcuts: 10x harder than 9-5; embrace failure/discomfort for longevity (most podcasts/creators fail—work ethic wins). Content creation: Custom/retrofit (color changes/screen readers/focus order); companion guides/animations for cognitive ease. Higher ed changes: Perception shift (not "defiant"—need clear instructions/accommodations); meet where they are. Advice: Freelance side-hustle first; upskill relentlessly (e.g., UCLA extensions); authentic self attracts right clients. For autistic/ADHD young adults eyeing creative/business paths, Rebecca's story: "Work hard, be open—no paper needed." Launching "The Quirk Factory" podcast next week—follow on LinkedIn/email. Subscribe for ND career hacks! Rate/review on Podbean/Apple/Spotify. E.B. Graphics: ebgraphicsandconsulting.com. Linktree: (socials/shop/Podbean). Holiday merch sale: 30% off tees/hoodies with code BLACK25 at https://adulting-with-autism-shop.fourthwall.com—design your path fierce! #AccessibleDesignND #UDLNeurodivergent #InclusiveELearningAutism #BusinessAutisticYoungAdults #MultimediaADHD #ImposterSyndromeContent #AdultingWithAutism #SpecialNeedsEducation #PodMatch #Podcasts #BTSNeurodivergent #AuDHD #Autism #ADHD #BTSArmy #MentalHealth #OT #OTTips Episode: Accessible Design for ND with Rebecca Prejean [00:00] Intro: Barriers in ND Education/Work [00:30] Rebecca's Story: Son's Autism to E.B. Graphics Founder [02:00] Business Journey: Freelance/Layoff to Corporate/Higher Ed Consulting [05:00] Skills Honing: No Degree Needed—Upskilling/AI/Networking Muscle [08:00] Imposter/Authentic Self: Fight Through, Cancel Mismatches [11:00] No Shortcuts: Hard Work/Discomfort for Resilience (Failure Lessons) [14:00] Content Creation: Custom Multimedia (Animations/VR, Screen Readers) [17:00] Higher Ed Changes: Perception Shift (Clear Instructions/Accommodations) [20:00] Advice: Side-Hustle Freelance, Be Open/Relentless [23:00] Outro: Takeaways & CTAs Resources: E.B. Graphics & Consulting: ebgraphicsandconsulting.com (services/portfolio) LinkedIn: Rebecca Prejean Podcast: "The Quirk Factory" (launching soon—Spotify/Apple) Linktree: (socials/shop/Podbean) Subscribe on Podbean/YouTube for ND career tips! Share your upskill win in comments. #NDAccessibleDesign #AutismMultimedia #ADHDBusinessHacks #UDLSpecialNeeds
Adulting is hard — but digital adulting? That's a whole new level of chaos. In this episode, we dive headfirst into the "Most Wired" survey like it's a techie BuzzFeed quiz for healthcare organizations. From cyber headaches and budget excuses to AI hype and "we've always done it this way" energy, we unpack the nine domains that determine whether your digital health game is fire… or just floppy disk-level tragic. More info at HelpMeWithHIPAA.com/539
#WorkMomSays grit isn't just for tough times—it's the key to lasting success. In this episode, Lori shares firsthand stories and practical strategies for building grit, even when you're tired, discouraged, or tempted to quit. Discover the difference between motivation and perseverance, how to connect with your purpose, and why consistency and resilience matter more than talent. Get actionable steps to develop your own grit plan, learn from failures, and see how a growth mindset can turn setbacks into powerful comebacks. The post Episode 57 – Adulting with ADHD appeared first on Work Mom Says®.
WELCOME TO PART 2, b*tches! :)We ended Part 1 with how to give your man a good head and the #1 Oral Method to make a girl c*m. Now listen up as Emily shows me the best way to find the REAL G-Spot. We end the episode with tips to not c*m too fast, hilarious fan sex stories and how I ended up in the ER after a fingering gone wrong.Connect with Dr. Emily Morse:WebsiteInstagramSex with Emily PodcastConnect with me on:InstagramYouTubeSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
You have just a couple more weeks to join THE networking community for women business owners over forty: The Dear FoundHer... Forum. Save 30% off your annual membership and lock in your rate before it goes in next year!A longtime HR leader sees how unprepared many young adults feel after college and turns that insight into a small business built to guide them through the realities of adulthood.Heather Redisch sits down with Lindsay Pinchuk to share how Adulting 101 Masterclass began, the early uncertainty that came with creating something in a wide-open space, and the small shifts that helped her clarify her offer. She talks about the moments that shaped her growth, the experiments that revealed what students and parents truly needed, and the point where things finally gained momentum once she focused on her core strengths.Heather also reflects on the role community played in her progress. The women in the Dear FoundHer Forum helped her push past discomfort, stay visible, and build confidence as she refined her idea. Their support reshaped how she approaches her work and the young adults she serves. Her story leaves listeners with a simple question: what becomes possible for your small business when you stay curious, keep learning, and surround yourself with a community that moves with you?Episode Breakdown:00:00 Stepping Out of Your Comfort Zone for Small Business Growth02:20 From HR Expert to Founder of Adulting 101 Masterclass03:32 The Workforce Gap and Why Graduates Aren't Prepared05:39 How Adulting 101 Shifted to a One-on-One Coaching Model09:42 The Breakthrough Moment After Narrowing Her Offer13:31 Community Support and Networking That Fueled Growth18:53 What's Next for Adulting 101 Masterclass22:05 Heather's Essential Advice for New FoundersLinks:Follow Heather Redisch on InstagramSubscribe to The FoundHer Files and check out our female founded holiday gift guide!Follow Dear FoundHer... on InstagramPodcast production and show notes provided by HiveCast.fm Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Facing life-altering trauma like injury/disability? In this episode of Adulting with Autism, host April explores resilience without romanticism with Joshua Dvorkin, Registered Psychotherapist/Reclamation Coach and Headway Mental Health founder. After a 2004 epileptic seizure/spinal cord injury (paralyzed chest-down, ventilator-bound with 20% survival odds), Joshua defied prognosis—off ventilator in 10 days, independent in 6 months, earning 3 degrees (Master's Psychology)—now guiding ND folks (autism/ADHD) through chronic illness/disability/transitions/LGBTQ2S+ support via radical compassion/authentic empowerment/narrative sovereignty. Key insights: Injury rebirth: Mind strength/10-day recovery; present gratitude crushes fear (beyond "stay positive"). Radical acceptance: Embrace reality, small steps close gaps (dream big, actionable traits). Narrative sovereignty: Own your story—beliefs shape reality (no pathologizing, validate strengths). Manifesting concrete: Steps over woo (research/skills import, affirmations/repetition for beliefs). Grief/pressure: Feel ungrateful/angry/anxious—use fear for freedom; peer support/community for purpose. Tools: 7-day negative thinking DM (Instagram @headway.mental.health), 7-column thought record (reframe emotions/evidence). Support mistakes: Pathologize/judge; instead, normalize/validate (safe spaces, no rushing). Society changes: Inclusive mental health first (non-judgmental, community over segregation). For autistic/ADHD adults in grief/isolation, Joshua's lived expertise flips "impossible" to purposeful—free 45-page stress workbook at headwaymentalhealth.com. Book 20-min consult: (437) 523-8933/joshua@headwaymentalhealth.com. Subscribe for ND resilience tips! Rate/review on Podbean/Apple/Spotify. Linktree: (socials/shop/Podbean). Holiday merch sale: 30% off tees/hoodies with code BLACK25 at https://adulting-with-autism-shop.fourthwall.com—reclaim your gear fierce! #ResilienceWithoutRomanticism #ReclamationCoachingND #TraumaRecoveryAutism #NarrativeSovereigntyADHD #RadicalCompassionDisability #MentalHealthSpinalInjury #AdultingWithAutism #GriefProcessingNeurodivergent #PodMatch #Podcasts #BTSNeurodivergent #Neurodiversity #MentalHealth #Autism #AuDHD #ADHD #OTTips #OT #BTSArmy Episode: Resilience Without Romanticism with Joshua Dvorkin [00:00] Intro: Life-Altering Trauma & ND Rebirth [00:30] Joshua's Story: Seizure Injury to Independent Thriving [02:00] Resilience Without Romanticism: Messy Acceptance (Feel Fear, Crush It) [05:00] Radical Acceptance/Transformation: Small Steps, Dream Big [08:00] Narrative Sovereignty: Own Beliefs (No Pathologizing, Validate Strengths) [11:00] Manifesting Concrete: Steps/Skills Import (Affirmations/Repetition) [14:00] Grief Processing: Present Gratitude, Peer Support/Community [17:00] Tools: 7-Day Negative Thinking (DM Instagram), 7-Column Thought Record [20:00] Support Mistakes: Judgment/Rushing; Instead Normalize/Validate [23:00] Society Shifts: Inclusive Mental Health, Community Over Segregation [26:00] Outro: Takeaways & CTAs Resources: Headway Mental Health: headwaymentalhealth.com (psychotherapy/coaching—20-min consult, free 45-page stress workbook) Contact: (437) 523-8933 | joshua@headwaymentalhealth.com Instagram: @headway.mental.health Linktree: (socials/shop/Podbean) Subscribe on Podbean/YouTube for ND resilience! Share your narrative shift in comments. #NDTraumaRecovery #AutismResilience #ADHDNarrativeSovereignty #SpinalInjuryMentalHealth
Overwhelmed by sensory chaos in your ND home? In this episode of Adulting with Autism, host April chats slow style home for neurodivergent folks with Zandra Zuraw, interior design coach/author/podcaster helping create meaningful, sustainable spaces without breaking the bank or planet. With 30+ years (Master's in cultural anthropology/public policy), mental health battles, and as parent to a child with special needs, Zandra rebranded "Style Matters" to "Slow Style Home" (2023 book/podcast)—a framework for DIY design focusing on personal meaning over trends. Key insights: Dorm/ND tips: Sensory priority (quiet routines, minimal clutter, comfortable seating/blankets/soft lights)—conversations with roommates for shared space. Clutter management: Game it up (one corner at a time, "what do you love?" questions), limit to passions (display 5 items, store rest). Partner compromise: Curiosity over criticism ("why love it?"), common ground (e.g., shared art/rugs), no negatives—slow evolution. Colors/walls: Test samples (light-dependent), avoid all-white (harsh); start with inspiration (wardrobe favorites, not trends). Priorities: Big investments first (couch/mattress for well-being), then rugs/art (tone-setters, thrifted/sustainable). Slow pace: One room/corner at a time, no shopping first—build from passions (vision boards as decor). For autistic/ADHD young adults/parents, Zandra's framework fights overwhelm: "Take time to save up for what matters." Free podcast episodes at slowstylehome.com. Subscribe for ND home hacks! Rate/review on Podbean/Apple/Spotify. Book on Amazon/Barnes & Noble; podcast anywhere. Linktree: adultingwithautism.linktr.ee (socials/shop/Podbean). Holiday merch sale: 30% off tees/hoodies with code BLACK25 at adultingwithautism.shop—style your space fierce! #SlowStyleHomeND #SensoryFriendlyDecor #ClutterHacksAutism #SustainableHomeADHD #DIYNeurodivergent #PeacefulSpacesSpecialNeeds #AdultingWithAutism #AuDHD #Autism #ADHD #PodMatch #Podcasts #MentalHealth #BTSArmy #BTSNeurodivergent #Neurodiversity #OT #OTTips Episode: Slow Style Home for ND with Zandra Zuraw [00:00] Intro: Sensory Overwhelm in ND Homes [00:30] Zandra's Story: 30+ Years to Slow Style Framework [02:00] Dorm ND Tips: Sensory Focus (Quiet/Minimal Clutter) [05:00] Clutter Hacks: Game It (One Corner, "Love It?" Questions) [08:00] Partner Compromise: Curiosity Over Criticism (Shared Rugs/Art) [11:00] Colors/Walls: Test Samples (Light-Dependent, Avoid All-White) [14:00] Priorities: Big Pieces First (Couch/Mattress), Then Rugs/Art [17:00] Slow Pace: One Room/Corner, Inspiration from Passions (Vision Boards) [20:00] Outro: Takeaways & CTAs Resources: Slow Style Home: slowstylehome.com (book/podcast/framework) Book: "Slow Style Home" (Amazon/Barnes & Noble) Podcast: Spotify/Apple (episodes on DIY/sustainability) Linktree(socials/shop/Podbean) Subscribe on Podbean/YouTube for ND home tips! Share your clutter hack in comments. #NDHomeDesign #AutismSensoryDecor #ADHDClutterTips #SlowStyleSpecialNeeds
Chasing external success but hitting ND burnout walls? In this episode of Adulting with Autism, host April explores personal mastery for neurodivergent high achievers with Jerry Henderson, creator of The Personal Mastery Framework™, author/speaker/coach/Personal Mastery Podcast host. Trained at Harvard in human behavior/neuroanatomy/resilience/habits (MBA Global Business, Master's Psychology in progress), Jerry helps trauma survivors (like his own childhood/burnout/imposter journey) blend IFS/NLP/positive psych for emotional resilience, limiting belief rewiring, and whole life success—beyond grind to clarity/peace. Key insights: Mindset pillar: Reframe fixed to growth (stress mindset, CBT for shame-driven achieving). NLP for beliefs: Anchor positive states, disrupt emotional loops (e.g., "happy button" for anxiety/perfectionism). Whole life vs. high performance: Holistic (relationships/sleep/nervous system) for thriving, not survival. Trauma-informed: IFS parts work (protectors/exiles), curiosity over judgment for resilience (ACEs impact). Habit formation: Start small/stack (atomic habits), align with self-worth to avoid sabotage. Clarity/peace: Intrinsic motivation, self-acceptance—external wins without void-filling. Authentic connection: Vulnerability in safe relationships (one fully disclosing starts it). Burnout fix: Honest self-reflection, ask help; job hopping ignores root causes (toxic patterns follow). For autistic/ADHD high performers in imposter/shame cycles, Jerry's framework (post-$1B philanthropy) sustains growth. Free call/resource at jerryhenderson.org. Subscribe for ND personal mastery tips! Rate/review on Podbean/Apple/Spotify. Instagram: @jerryahenderson. Linktree (Podbean/shop/socials). Holiday merch sale: 30% off tees/hoodies with code BLACK25 at adultingwithautism.shop—master your gear! #PersonalMasteryND #HighAchieverBurnout #TraumaHealingAutism #LimitingBeliefsADHD #EmotionalResilienceNeurodivergent #HabitFormationImposter #AdultingWithAutism #SustainableSuccessND #PodMatch #AuDHD #Autism #ADHD #Podcasts #BTSARMY #BTS Neurodivergent #MentalHealth #OT #OTTips Episode: Personal Mastery for ND High Achievers with Jerry Henderson [00:00] Intro: ND Burnout in the Achievement Chase [00:30] Jerry's Story: Trauma to Personal Mastery Framework™ [02:00] Pillar 1: Mindset Reframing (Growth vs. Fixed, Stress Views) [05:00] NLP for Limiting Beliefs: Anchoring & Emotional Loops [08:00] Whole Life Success vs. High Performance Grind [11:00] Trauma-Informed: IFS for Anxiety/Perfectionism (Parts Work) [14:00] Emotional Mastery/Resilience: ACEs, Thriving vs. Survival [17:00] Habit Formation: Small Stacks, Self-Worth Alignment [20:00] Clarity/Peace: Intrinsic Motivation, Self-Acceptance [23:00] Core Beliefs: Symptoms to Roots, New Experiences [26:00] Authentic Connection: Vulnerability in Safe Relationships [29:00] Burnout Step: Honest Reflection, Ask Help (Job Hopping Trap) [32:00] Outro: Resources & CTAs Resources: Personal Mastery Framework™: jerryhenderson.org (coaching/podcast/book on self-love) Instagram: @jerryahenderson Linktree(Podbean/shop/socials) Subscribe on Podbean/YouTube for ND mastery! Share your limiting belief win in comments. #NDHighAchievers #AutismPersonalMastery #ADHDRelilience #TraumaCoachingND #ImposterSyndromeHabits
Adulting in Grace #RTTBROS #Nightlight"And I, brethren, could not speak unto you as unto spiritual, but as unto carnal, even as unto babes in Christ." — 1 Corinthians 3:1You know, I saw something the other day that made me laugh and then made me think. They're selling these "I Adulted" calendars now, complete with stickers you can stick on different days to celebrate your grown-up achievements. Things like "I paid a bill on time" or "I cooked a meal" or my personal favorite, "I matched my socks." Now, for most of us who've been around the block a time or two, that seems pretty funny. We've been doing those things for so long we don't even think about them anymore. But here's what got me thinking: how many of us are doing the spiritual equivalent of celebrating that we matched our socks?Paul had to write to the Corinthian church and basically say, "Look, you've been Christians long enough that you should be teaching others by now, but I still have to feed you with a bottle like babies." That had to sting. But if we're honest, how often do we find ourselves in the same spot?The writer of Hebrews puts it this way: "For when for the time ye ought to be teachers, ye have need that one teach you again which be the first principles of the oracles of God; and are become such as have need of milk, and not of strong meat" (Hebrews 5:12). Here's what I've learned, and I'm too soon old and too late smart on this: spiritual growth doesn't happen by accident. You don't accidentally become mature in Christ. It takes intentionality. It takes time in the Word. It takes prayer. It takes wrestling with hard truths and letting God change you from the inside out.Our world is desperate for grown-up Christians right now. Not perfect Christians, but mature ones. People who can stand firm when the winds blow. People who can speak truth with grace. But we can't do any of that if we're still celebrating that we showed up to church this week like we deserve a sticker for it.So let me ask you: where are you today? Are you still on milk, or have you graduated to the meat of God's Word? Because friend, God has so much more for you than where you're sitting right now. When we devote ourselves to His Word and to prayer, not out of duty but out of hunger, that's when real growth happens.Let's pray: Father, forgive us for being content with spiritual infancy when You've called us to maturity. Give us a hunger for Your Word and a desire to grow in our faith. Help us move beyond the basics and into the deep things You want to teach us. In Jesus' name, Amen.#Faith #SpiritualGrowth #ChristianMaturity #DailyDevotion #BiblicalWisdom #ChristianLiving #RTTBROS #NightlightBe sure to Like, Share, Follow and subscribe. It helps get the word out.https://linktr.ee/rttbros
In this engaging conversation on the Adulting with Horses podcast, Heather and Natalie explore the themes of trusting the process, the importance of energy and intention in life, and the dynamics of horse ownership. They share personal stories about their experiences with horses, the emotional lives of these animals, and the significance of connection and communication in building relationships with them. The discussion also delves into the challenges of making decisions regarding horse care, the role of personality in horse selection, and the power of self-reflection and writing in navigating life's complexities. Ultimately, they emphasize the importance of empathy and understanding in both horse care and personal relationships, while also planning for future fun and community engagement.TakeawaysTrust the process and be open to the journey.Energy and intention shape our experiences.Returning to riding can be a personal journey of rediscovery.Understanding horse behavior is key to effective communication.Connection with horses is essential for a fulfilling relationship.Decisions about horse ownership should consider the horse's needs.Empathy plays a crucial role in horse care and relationships.Personality influences the fit between horse and rider.Writing can help clarify thoughts and feelings.Building a supportive community enhances the equestrian experience.Keywords trusting the process, energy, intention, horse behavior, connection, horse ownership, empathy, personality, writing, community, decision making, reflectionChapters00:00Trusting the Process: A Disney Adventure03:08Energy and Intent: Creating Your Reality06:01Returning to Riding: A Journey of Confidence08:59Understanding Your Horse: Signs of Change12:03Riding in the Dark: Safety and Confidence15:02The Importance of Routine: Observing Behavior18:00The Cat Chronicles: Lessons in Care and Attention20:59Deciding on Retirement: Knowing When to Let Go27:04Building Connections with Horses30:18Understanding Horse and Rider Compatibility36:06When to Let Go of a Horse41:47The Importance of Empathy in Horse Care46:56Finding Peace in the Horse Community
In this engaging conversation on the Adulting with Horses podcast, Heather and Natalie explore the themes of trusting the process, the importance of energy and intention in life, and the dynamics of horse ownership. They share personal stories about their experiences with horses, the emotional lives of these animals, and the significance of connection and communication in building relationships with them. The discussion also delves into the challenges of making decisions regarding horse care, the role of personality in horse selection, and the power of self-reflection and writing in navigating life's complexities. Ultimately, they emphasize the importance of empathy and understanding in both horse care and personal relationships, while also planning for future fun and community engagement.TakeawaysTrust the process and be open to the journey.Energy and intention shape our experiences.Returning to riding can be a personal journey of rediscovery.Understanding horse behavior is key to effective communication.Connection with horses is essential for a fulfilling relationship.Decisions about horse ownership should consider the horse's needs.Empathy plays a crucial role in horse care and relationships.Personality influences the fit between horse and rider.Writing can help clarify thoughts and feelings.Building a supportive community enhances the equestrian experience.Keywords trusting the process, energy, intention, horse behavior, connection, horse ownership, empathy, personality, writing, community, decision making, reflectionChapters00:00Trusting the Process: A Disney Adventure03:08Energy and Intent: Creating Your Reality06:01Returning to Riding: A Journey of Confidence08:59Understanding Your Horse: Signs of Change12:03Riding in the Dark: Safety and Confidence15:02The Importance of Routine: Observing Behavior18:00The Cat Chronicles: Lessons in Care and Attention20:59Deciding on Retirement: Knowing When to Let Go27:04Building Connections with Horses30:18Understanding Horse and Rider Compatibility36:06When to Let Go of a Horse41:47The Importance of Empathy in Horse Care46:56Finding Peace in the Horse Community
From getting your taco licked to c*mming EVERY time, this week's episode is SO good, I'm giving you TWO parts.Welcome to part 1 besties :)I have Renowned sex therapist Emily Morse join us to teach you how to cum over and over again, so take out your notepad and get ready to take some notes. We discuss how to, love your body and vageen, get your man to go down on you, tips for giving a wifey blowie, facts vs myths about intercourse, the #1 ORAL METHOD THAT WILL MAKE YOUR GIRL C*M EVERY TIME, and more!!!TUNE IN NEXT WEEK FOR PT. 2!!! And don't forget to leave a 5 star review on the apple podcast app!Connect with me on:InstagramYouTubeConnect with Dr. Emily Morse:WebsiteInstagramSex with Emily PodcastToday's episode is brought to you by:Bellesa: EVERYONE who signs up wins a FREE WhisperVibeTM OR a FREE Rose toy with any WhisperTM order! CLAIM YOUR FREE GIFT HERE.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
WE'RE BACKKKKK!! Welcome to Father Knows Something! Real People. Real Stories. Real Dad advice with a dash of ADHD, and some millennials chiming in to time to add their takes. This week's episode has Jerry and Justin diving into stories about adulting type problems! From a someone trying to get past not knowing their dad to dealing with friends changing or not putting any effort in and more. At the end of the day, being an adult means dealing with things you didn't cause.. and what's the best way to do that? We're going to need your thoughts on these ones. It's what makes this community so special, and we're so happy to be back to address more write-ins with you! Submit your write-in ! https://forms.gle/8G2e4ockyZLNoiuX7 Bonus Stories on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/fatherknows !! Our P.O. Box: Father Knows Something. 5042 Wilshire BLVD. #470. Los Angeles, CA. 90036Follow up on Instagram @ Father Knows Something UPDATE US!! If your story has been read respond here: https://forms.gle/6CP9KoWvJ4NMKewa7 Video version available on YouTube: YouTube.com/fatherknowssomething Be sure to subscribe and tell us what you would give for advice! Index: 00:00 -- Start Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Exhausted from late diagnosed autism masking as an adult? In this episode of Adulting with Autism, host April chats with Wendela Whitcomb Marsh (Dr. Wendy), award-winning author, TEDx speaker, and US Autism Association board member, on neurodivergent self-acceptance, workplace accommodations, and advocacy for high-masking autistic adults—especially women/girls/trans/ND folks. After 40 years in special ed/psychology, Dr. Wendy founded (and sold) Adult Autism Assessment & Services, drawing from her autistic family (late husband + 2/3 adult kids). Her Adulting While Autistic series (Independent Living, Dating, Relating, Parenting, Working While Autistic) and SWAN Church (Scripture & Worship for All Neurotypes) empower underserved voices. Key insights: Adult vs. child autism: Masking hides symptoms (e.g., routines for eye contact/socializing); exhaustion from "faking normal." Late-dx challenges: Women/trans/non-binary often missed (3-6x overlap with autism); bullying/shame leads to self-doubt. Workplace/family support: Frame needs as productivity wins (e.g., noise-canceling headphones/WFH); believe autistic voices—no "faking." Clinician tips: Read autistic authors, seek ND-affirming pros; self-ID valid if no paper needed (for disability/accommodations). Advocacy ahead: Boa constrictor squeeze (hard times)—stay safe, speak out; churches need inclusivity (SWAN as model). For autistic young adults unmasking or parents advocating, Dr. Wendy's optimism shines: "Nothing wrong with you—world's not built for you." Free library access to her books; inquire for Book Club readings. Subscribe for ND adulting advocacy! Rate/review on Podbean/Apple/Spotify. Books at Amazon/Barnes & Noble/Powell's/indies; SWAN Church: swanchurch.org. Linktree: adultingwithautism.linktr.ee (Podbean/shop/socials). Holiday merch sale: 30% off tees/hoodies with code BLACK25 at adultingwithautism.shop—fierce ND gear! #LateDiagnosedAutism #AutismMaskingAdults #NeurodivergentWorkplace #AutismWomenTrans #AdultingWhileAutistic #SWANChurchND #AutismSelfAcceptance #AuDHD #OT #MentalHealth #BTS #BTSNeurodivergent #Neurodiversity #ADHD #PodMatch #Podcasts Episode: Late Diagnosed Autism in Adults with Wendela Whitcomb Marsh [00:00] Intro: Masking Exhaustion in Late-Dx ND Adults [00:30] Dr. Wendy's Story: 40-Year Career to Adult Autism Advocacy [02:00] Missed Symptoms: Adult vs. Child Autism (Masking Routines/Sensory) [05:00] Late-Dx Challenges: Women/Trans/Non-Binary Overlap (3-6x Higher) [08:00] Masking Effects: "Faking Normal" & Unmasking Safety [11:00] Family Support: Listen/Believe—Accommodations for All [14:00] Workplace Wins: Frame Needs as Productivity (Headphones/WFH) [17:00] Clinician Tips: ND-Affirming Pros, Read Autistic Authors [20:00] Lived Experience: Autistic Family Shapes Her Books/Advocacy [23:00] Church Inclusivity: SWAN Church Model for ND/LGBTQIA+ [26:00] Future Advocacy: Boa Constrictor Squeeze—Stay Safe/Speak Out [29:00] Testing Advice: Self-ID Valid; Sliding Scales for Assessments [32:00] Outro: Books/Resources & CTAs Resources: Books: Adulting While Autistic series/Recognizing Autism in Women and Girls (Amazon/Barnes & Noble/Powell's/indies/libraries) SWAN Church: swanchurch.org (online ND-affirming worship) Contact: info@WendelaWhitcombMarsh.com (Book Clubs/speaking) Linktree(Podbean/shop/socials) Subscribe on Podbean/YouTube for ND advocacy! Share your masking story in comments. #AutismAdults #LateDxMasking #NDWorkplace #AutismWomen #SWANChurch
Feeling isolated as a neurodivergent man? In this episode of Adulting with Autism, host April talks modern masculinity for ND men with Josh Fineman, founder of Mensch—a North London community helping guys unplug from pressure and reconnect via men's circles, nature challenges, and 1:1 coaching. For autistic/ADHD young fathers (35-40s sweet spot), Josh addresses loneliness, purpose voids, and disconnection from self—blending ancient wisdom/modern tools for emotional courage and growth. Key insights: Core pressures: Ticking boxes (career/family) while losing self—loneliness from no village support. Men's circles magic: Safety (confidentiality/no fixing) + challenge (calling forward) for shared growth. Nature therapy anxiety: Grounding (feet on grass/breath), tree "waving" for ND calm. Unlocking purpose: Non-linear—trust instincts, small steps (follow curiosity, no one-fix pressure). Vulnerability wins: Brotherhood normalizes it; emerge via community, not solo. If you're an ND man battling isolation, burnout, or "proving" yourself (like Josh's zigzags to mentorship), this ep inspires action. Free call at bemoremensch.com—build your tribe! Subscribe for ND adulting/men's health tips! Rate/review on Podbean/Apple/Spotify. Follow Josh: bemoremensch.com | LinkedIn Joshua Fineman. #ModernMasculinityND #MensCirclesNeurodivergent #ADHDIsolationMen #PurposeYoungFathers #VulnerabilityAutismMen #AdultingWithAutism #NatureTherapyAnxiety Episode: Modern Masculinity for ND Men with Josh Fineman [00:00] Intro: ND Men's Isolation & Mensch Mission [00:30] Josh's Story: Career Zigzags to Men's Circles Founder [02:00] Pressures: Loneliness, Purpose Void, Self-Disconnection in 35-40s Fathers [05:00] Men's Circles: Safety + Challenge for Growth (No Fixing/Confidentiality) [08:00] Nature Rituals: Grounding Anxiety (Grass Feet/Tree Waving/Breath) [11:00] Unlocking Purpose: Non-Linear Instincts, Small Steps, Curiosity [14:00] Vulnerability Brotherhood: Normalize It Via Community (No Solo) [17:00] Outro: Takeaways & Call to Action Resources: Mensch: bemoremensch.com (circles/retreats/coaching—free 30-min call) LinkedIn: Joshua Fineman Contact: Via site form Subscribe on Podbean/YouTube for ND men's health! Share your isolation win in comments. #NDMensGroups #AutismMasculinity #ADHDVulnerability #MensPurpose #PodMatch #Podcasts #BTS #BTSNeurodivergent #Autism #AuDHD #OT #MentalHealth
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Searching for Sufism for neurodivergent healing, spiritual growth autism ADHD, or inner peace ND adults? In this episode of Adulting with Autism, host April explores Sufi principles with Salima Adelstein, Co-President/Academic Dean at University of Sufism, Sufi Mystic/Master Healer, and founder of Farm of Peace retreat center. With 25+ years guiding students, Salima shares her journey from meditation to Sufism's heart-centered path—shattering barriers like shame, ego voices, and negative external whispers for authentic self-acceptance. Discover: Sufi "treasure hunt" for ND strengths: Embracing uniqueness as divine gifts (mirror exercise: "When God created me, He created beauty"). Discernment: Tuning into inner guidance (divine/ego/negative voices) vs. modern psychology/physical health noise. Overcoming shame/trauma: Heart barriers dissolve for joy, compassion, and purpose—integrating Sufi remembrance with daily calm. Spiritual journey start: Community/teachers essential; no solo climbs—find your GPS for healthier lives (e.g., food sensitivities, toxic people fade). Her book: A Drop in the Ocean of Love—core message: Embody your essence, overflow love to transform the world. Ideal for autistic/ADHD young adults feeling "different" or stuck—Salima's tools nurture resilience, wisdom, and belonging. Free gift: "Five C's of Inner Truth" at sufiuniversity.org. Subscribe to Adulting with Autism for ND spiritual hacks! Rate/review on Podbean/Apple/Spotify. Connect: sufiuniversity.org | 800-238-3060 | Book on Amazon. #SufismNeurodivergent #SpiritualGrowthAutism #ADHDInnerPeace #SufiHealingShame #SelfAcceptanceND #AdultingWithAutism #OvercomingTraumaSufism Episode: Sufism for Neurodivergent Healing with Salima Adelstein [00:00] Intro: ND Spiritual Quest & Sufism's Heart Path [00:30] Salima's Journey: From Meditation to Sufi Aha Hug [03:00] Sufism for Self-Acceptance: Overcoming Shame/Barriers in ND Brains [06:00] ND Strengths: Treasure Hunt for Unique Divine Gifts [09:00] Integrating Sufi Teachings: Ancient Wisdom + Modern Psychology/Health [12:00] Discernment: Inner Guidance vs. Ego/Negative Voices (Mirror Exercise) [15:00] Daily Practices: Remembrance for Calm Amid Chaos [18:00] Starting Your Journey: Community/Teachers, Not Solo [21:00] Book Insight: A Drop in the Ocean of Love—Embody Essence, Overflow Love [24:00] Outro: Free "Five C's" Gift & Takeaways Resources: University of Sufism: sufiuniversity.org (programs/free teachings) Book: A Drop in the Ocean of Love on Amazon Contact: 800-238-3060 | admissions@sufiuniversity.org Free Gift: "Five C's of Inner Truth" video/workbook at sufiuniversity.org Subscribe on Podbean/YouTube for ND spirituality! Share your "aha" in comments. #SufiND #AutismSpiritualGrowth #ADHDHealing #InnerGuidanceSufism #BTS #BTS Neurodivergent #PodMatch #Podcasts #OT #MentalHealth #AuDHD
The Real Reason Men Shut Down, Pull Away, and Go Blank.Ever dated someone who was warm one minute… and emotionally shut down the next? In this week's Benson Book Club, we break down Chapter 7 of The Untethered Soul - “Transcending the Tendency to Close.”This chapter explains:why people emotionally close offwhy your ex suddenly went coldthe psychology behind emotional shutdown and avoidancehow to recognize when YOU close your heartand how this pattern destroys connectionI also give you a step-by-step Law of Detachment routine for heartbreak that I did to get over bookman!! The exact script to record, what to listen to every night, and a clean way to detach from someone who can't show up for you.If you want to understand why someone pulled away… or you need help letting go fast… this episode gives you clarity, strategy, and the tools to move on.Today's episode is brought to you by:Bellesa: EVERYONE who signs up wins a FREE WhisperVibeTM OR a FREE Rose toy with any WhisperTM order! CLAIM YOUR FREE GIFT HERE.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
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Everything felt perfect… until the rabbit showed up.An emotional shift I couldn't explain, a pullback I didn't see coming, and the moment Bookman and I quietly unraveled. This episode dives into the signs you miss, the distance you feel before it's spoken, and the breakup you don't want to admit is happening.Did I make a mistake walking away… or would you have done the same?You tell me.Today's episode is brought to you by:Bellesa: EVERYONE who signs up wins a FREE WhisperVibeTM OR a FREE Rose toy with any WhisperTM order! CLAIM YOUR FREE GIFT HERE. SKIMS: if you're looking for the perfect gifts for everyone on your list - the SKIMS Holiday Shop is now open. After you place your order, be sure to let them know I sent you! Select "podcast" in the survey and be sure to select Almost Adulting in the dropdown menu that follows :)Face Foundrie: Visit facefoundrie.com and use code ADULTING at checkout for 20% off your first service!Shopify: Start your business TODAY with Shopify! Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial and start selling today at SHOPIFYQuit With Jones: Ready to quit for good? Go to quitwithjones.com/ADULTING to start your personalized quitting journey and get $10 off with code ADULTING.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
Adulting these days looks different, and can feel like a lot. As the holidays approach, we chat about the impact our politics are having on adulting.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Welcome to our Monthly Zodiac Bonus Episode, dropping the third week of every month! This November, we're giving you the ultimate guide to making a Sagittarius man obsessed with YOU.Get ready to discover:
In this thought-provoking episode of the Secret Life Podcast, host Brianne Davis-Gantt tackles the pressing issue of "adulting up." What does it mean to truly embrace adulthood, and why are so many people hesitating to take that leap? Brianne dives deep into the psychological, environmental, and biological factors that contribute to the phenomenon of arrested development, exploring how unresolved childhood trauma and societal pressures can prevent individuals from fully stepping into their adult roles.Joined by her co-host Mark Gantt, Brianne shares her personal insights and observations about the challenges many face when it comes to taking responsibility for their lives. From the importance of having good role models to the impact of financial stress, this episode sheds light on the various reasons why some adults struggle to evolve. Brianne also presents her top 15 actionable steps to help listeners "adult up," offering practical advice that encourages self-awareness, responsibility, and personal growth.Whether you're grappling with feelings of inadequacy or simply looking for ways to enhance your adulting skills, this episode is packed with valuable insights and relatable anecdotes. Join Brianne and Mark as they navigate the complexities of adulthood and empower you to take charge of your life.
You don't want flowers.You want reassurance.If he can post a story, he can send a sentence that says “I care about you.”This episode is for every woman who feels crazy for needing words - because guess what? You're not clingy. You're not insecure. You're under-affirmed.We're unpacking why hearing “I love you,” “I'm proud of you,” or “I'm here” hits like emotional oxygen… and why silence feels like abandonment.If his silence makes you overthink,if you keep replaying one compliment for three weeks,if you've ever begged a man to just communicate —you're in the right place.Hit play and stop settling for men who “feel it” but can't say it.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
The evil eye lives in your group chat. Did I stutter? Ever notice the SECOND you share good news - your life collapses faster than a Nature Valley bar? Same.One minute I'm being loved correctly, soft life era unlocked… Next minute? Like not even 24 hours later - I break my foot, bleed from my privates, and end up crawling around my house like a feral naked raccoon throwing up on my hardwood floors with my milk bags hanging low, while I genuinely wonder how I got here.The evil eye is REAL. But it doesn't come from your enemies… it comes from your friends - the ones cheering the loudest… right until you start winning. Most of them don't even realise they're subconsciously sending you bad energy… just because your happiness reminds them of the places they're not.Protect your wins. Protect your joy. And get ready to laugh your toes off with today's episode. Hit play — and if this episode calls someone out, send it to them. Thank me later ;)See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.