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Become a Paid Subscriber: https://anchor.fm/realpeoplerealconvos/subscribe Welcome, I am you host Stanley Peavy, AKA, Mr. I Got Questions. I strive for a deeper understanding. I am not perfect and nor will I ever be. That does not mean I don't strive to be something I know I will never achieve, perfect. So I speak for all men when I say we strive to be everything our women want us to be. That comes with time , patience, and understanding. This podcast is aimed at giving our partners a front seat view of what really goes on in the mind of their men. This platform will also give women the room to let us know how their mental process works as well. Please donate

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    • Jan 11, 2023 LATEST EPISODE
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    What mindset should you have as a husband/wife?

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 11, 2023 125:29


    In today's times we hear a lot about "Are you ready for marriage?". On the flip side of the coin we don't hear enough about the mentality you are supposed to have to stay a husband/wife? What should you mental processing capacity look like to stay for the long ride? How are you going to ensure you have what it takes to stay true to a life long commitment? The real work starts after you say I do not before. I'm sure there is no right or wrong answer for this but we will at least have some guidance that we will gain from this conversation. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/realpeoplerealconvos/message

    Could you stay with the same person for the rest of your life?

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 10, 2022 74:01


    Could you stay with the same person for the rest of your life? truly? Is it possible? Well I was one man up against a tribe of women. Lets say, women have some strong limits as to how much they would take or wouldn't get from a man. I tried to help the fellas out on the flip but only one man can do so much. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/realpeoplerealconvos/message

    Women and being dominate in the bedroom?

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 13, 2022 93:28


    Lets take a look in to the world of what it would be like to be dominated by a woman in the bedroom. Take it easy and have an open mind as you listen. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/realpeoplerealconvos/message

    What are no fly zones for men in the bedroom! (EXPLICIT)

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 1, 2022 113:23


    Today was a day where we talked about what men will not tolerate in the bedroom!! You would be surprised as to what men will be willing to take and what other would not be willing to take. As expected the expectations where all over the place. Some men are with the shits, some are not , some are on an entirely different level of freaky. So , ladies, I guess its up to you to pick your poison. Be careful ladies as you may or may not like what you get. Take some time to listen to this at your own risk. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/realpeoplerealconvos/message

    What happens to a Woman when she is cheated on?

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 9, 2022 99:38


    With much humbling and asking I was able to get the Nation to allow for a sneak peek of the what happens when the podcast is in session. This is the look and feel I was after when initially starting the podcast. This is not for the weak. We are going to discuss what happens in great detail the obstacles of relationships. There will be no cutting corners or any stones un turned. The purpose of this podcast is to give the people a raw and natural environment to REALLY be themselves and get down to what make particular situations tick. If you are easily triggered then this is not the space for you. We are in a time where the truth in its rawest form need to be heard. This is the unfortunately the last time Mr. Roll With Me will be able to give out a explicit freebie without the Nation coming for me. Please come join the nation and support the movement as we have the conversations that everyone is running from. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/realpeoplerealconvos/message

    Why does intimacy/sex slow down after we say"I do"?

    Play Episode Listen Later May 14, 2022 136:33


    This was a complete banger!! The Wive's took over the podcast today and rocked it!! i CANNOT give a conclusion here!! You have to hear it for yourself. I personally understand my wife and her view points alot more now then I ever have. The material was epic. Thank you for tuning into Real People, Real Conversations!!! --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/realpeoplerealconvos/message

    Why do people rush for marriage but have the option of divorce in their back pocket?

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 2, 2022 161:07


    This podcast was an interesting one. Thresholds had a lot to do with the answer to this. Everyone's threshold is different. Levels of what people are wiling to take and for how long is different. So there is no black or white way in stating how long and to what level someone should take something they're not willing to deal with. There was a consensus on exhausting all options before considering divorce. Also, we went over the traditional marriage vows and what they meant. ( inside joke ) Some ladies do not feel there should be any possessiveness within a marriage but " to HAVE and to HOLD" combats that a little. This was a some good dialogue! --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/realpeoplerealconvos/message

    Would you leave your significant other alone with the opposite sex?

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 19, 2022 92:09


    We find out that there is a split! Some people believe it comes down to trust. Others believe it comes down to respect and that the situation is not normal. Please tell me what you think? --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/realpeoplerealconvos/message

    Why do we hold unrealistic expectations and get mad when our partners miss the mark?

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 4, 2022 2:21


    Why do we hold unrealistic expectations and get mad when our partners miss the mark? Is this fair? What does grace and mercy looks like when it comes to this? What should be the course of action if you find yourself in this? This one is going to be a banger. S. Peavy is inviting you to a scheduled Zoom meeting. Topic: Relationship Expectations Time: Feb 5, 2022 12:00 PM Eastern Time (US and Canada) Every 2 weeks on Sat, until Apr 30, 2022, 7 occurrence(s) Feb 5, 2022 12:00 PM Feb 19, 2022 12:00 PM Mar 5, 2022 12:00 PM Mar 19, 2022 12:00 PM Apr 2, 2022 12:00 PM Apr 16, 2022 12:00 PM Apr 30, 2022 12:00 PM Please download and import the following iCalendar (.ics) files to your calendar system. Weekly: https://us02web.zoom.us/meeting/tZYkceugrTwrE9f9weeKFgw6whqwAVdfJepP/ics?icsToken=98tyKuGqpz0oEteSsRCERpwQHY_oa_zztmZcj_pbxQjgBgt1ZRSgIepTJZNJFN76 Join Zoom Meeting https://us02web.zoom.us/j/82962837193?pwd=cEZLVzVTUmx5SHJoak9lNFJINDdYUT09 Meeting ID: 829 6283 7193 Passcode: rollwithme One tap mobile +16465588656,,82962837193#,,,,*0467245994# US (New York) +13017158592,,82962837193#,,,,*0467245994# US (Washington DC) Dial by your location +1 646 558 8656 US (New York) +1 301 715 8592 US (Washington DC) +1 312 626 6799 US (Chicago) +1 669 900 9128 US (San Jose) +1 253 215 8782 US (Tacoma) +1 346 248 7799 US (Houston) Meeting ID: 829 6283 7193 Passcode: 0467245994 Find your local number: https://us02web.zoom.us/u/kdXKw9f7s8 --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/realpeoplerealconvos/message

    Who should eat first; Husband or the kids?

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 4, 2022 40:00


    This is a freebie podcast because I was missing in action for the month of December. Who should eat first. Please enjoy and let me know what you think. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/realpeoplerealconvos/message

    Why is communication so hard in Relationships

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 22, 2022 104:48


    Seeing that I was MIA for a month I purposely let the podcast go off topic just a little under half way through. People seemed to have missed the open mic concept of my podcast and things got juicy. Even my wife opened up a bit. Tune in and see how it goes. I think you will love it. My podcast is continuing to become more raw by the episode and I am loving it. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/realpeoplerealconvos/message

    Why is communication Hard?

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 22, 2022 0:53


    When it comes to our partners why is communication hard? This can be verbal and non-verbal? S. Peavy is inviting you to a scheduled Zoom meeting. Topic: Grown Man's Business - Communication, why is it hard? Time: Jan 22, 2022 12:00 PM Eastern Time (US and Canada) Join Zoom Meeting https://us02web.zoom.us/j/6402250483?pwd=RjM1Wnl2VE1vckpjZlRGTG16UHY4dz09 Meeting ID: 640 225 0483 Passcode: 453483 One tap mobile +16465588656,,6402250483#,,,,*453483# US (New York) +13017158592,,6402250483#,,,,*453483# US (Washington DC) Dial by your location +1 646 558 8656 US (New York) +1 301 715 8592 US (Washington DC) +1 312 626 6799 US (Chicago) +1 669 900 9128 US (San Jose) +1 253 215 8782 US (Tacoma) +1 346 248 7799 US (Houston) Meeting ID: 640 225 0483 Passcode: 453483 Find your local number: https://us02web.zoom.us/u/kc7dSCLc5q --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/realpeoplerealconvos/message

    ESP. 1 Why do women run when a man finally makes them the priority?

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 30, 2021 43:45


    Very great turn out!! Since this was the first episode of the podcast it didn't go as deep as I would like but I am working on that. Eventually, things will be raw and uncut. We just have to loosen up the audience a little bit and again I am working that. This was very insightful. More to come. This is a real time interactions podcast. Things are discussions and opinions are meshed to figure out the best way possible to navigate through our relationships. Today, I learned that explosions from our women due to a trigger is not intentional. Instead its a cry for help. They do not mean to hurt us but trauma is a real thing. They are tired of being given the short end of the spoon and that why they standby waiting on the other shoe to drop. We as men need to be patient and actively listen to them to either help them heal or figure our the best way to avoid their triggers. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/realpeoplerealconvos/message

    Why do we as "black men" hate our "black women"?

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 26, 2021 0:54


    Word on the street is a lot our black women think we hate them. `Fellas, is this true? Why do our women feel like this? These are the times we are in?! Grown man's Business is inviting you to a scheduled Zoom meeting. Topic: Why do we as black men hate our black women? Time: Nov 13, 2021 12:00 PM Eastern Time (US and Canada) Join Zoom Meeting https://us02web.zoom.us/j/6402250483?pwd=RjM1Wnl2VE1vckpjZlRGTG16UHY4dz09 Meeting ID: 640 225 0483 Passcode: 453483 One tap mobile +16465588656,,6402250483#,,,,*453483# US (New York) +13017158592,,6402250483#,,,,*453483# US (Washington DC) Dial by your location +1 646 558 8656 US (New York) +1 301 715 8592 US (Washington DC) +1 312 626 6799 US (Chicago) +1 669 900 9128 US (San Jose) +1 253 215 8782 US (Tacoma) +1 346 248 7799 US (Houston) Meeting ID: 640 225 0483 Passcode: 453483 Find your local number: https://us02web.zoom.us/u/kc7dSCLc5q --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/realpeoplerealconvos/message

    Why do women run when a man finally makes them the priority?

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 24, 2021 1:12


    Fellas, Have you ever treated a woman like the queen she is and it seemed as if the more you tried to show her that the more she ran? Well , we are going to figure this out October 30, 2021 at 12:00 PM EST!!! Ladies, Why is that? why is this the trend? Us men want to know!! My View is inviting you to a scheduled Zoom meeting. Join Zoom Meeting https://us05web.zoom.us/j/86890399922?pwd=Ti8vN2NpUml5Y2RGbHZKTG9ZSTgyZz09 Meeting ID: 868 9039 9922 Passcode: 345196 One tap mobile +13126266799,,86890399922#,,,,*345196# US (Chicago) +16465588656,,86890399922#,,,,*345196# US (New York) Dial by your location +1 312 626 6799 US (Chicago) +1 646 558 8656 US (New York) +1 301 715 8592 US (Washington DC) +1 346 248 7799 US (Houston) +1 669 900 9128 US (San Jose) +1 253 215 8782 US (Tacoma) Meeting ID: 868 9039 9922 Passcode: 345196 Find your local number: https://us05web.zoom.us/u/lU5mIH6jj --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/realpeoplerealconvos/message

    Rules of Engagement

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 23, 2021 5:46


    With anything we do there should be some ground rules.  1. If you are are easily offended then this is not the environment for you. I will not cater to feelings as we are all  adults and should be able to conduct ourselves as such.  2. In contrast to my first rule, we will be respectful. When it comes to each others views some individuals tend to get defensive very quickly. Again, discussions surrounding touchy topics can get dicey and I want people to leave enlightened about their  situations and not feel as though they were attacked.  3.This podcast does accept call ins but they are limited to 2 minutes. Horse play will not be tolerated on the call in. I will disconnect the call if time is being wasted. Keep in mind the session is limited to an hour. We have to be respectful of everyone's time.  4.I am not pretending to be nothing that I am not. This podcast is for everyone to learn and that goes for me as well. My views can be skewed and I am hoping my audience will correct me on that, respectfully that is.  5.I left the best one for last. My wife is a big supported of my journey in this and she is not to be disrespected in any possible. The second she's disrespected the sessions ends. My marriage is more important to me than any clout I could  get on any social media platform.  With that being said lets dig in and dissect the grey areas we all commonly have in our relationships.  Thank you for subscribing to Grown Man's business. Until Next time , My name is Stanley Peavy AKA Mr. I Got Questions --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/realpeoplerealconvos/message

    Welcome to Grown Man's Business

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 23, 2021 1:47


    I want to welcome you to what is going to be called "Grown Man's Business". Here we are going to take a deeper dive into familiar situations and see how best to navigate them. These discussions will be deep!! So, enter at your own risk and keep an open mind. Lets be respectful in entertaining the "mess". If you've made this far then I know you know what I mean by mess. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/realpeoplerealconvos/message

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