She Wears The Pants

It's the season finale and it has been a memorable journey. On this season ender, Tay and Sade reflect on the season they had and look forward. They also talk about the Pink Moon and unloading baggage (14:21), Tay talks about dealing with obsession (20:00), how the world is one big distraction (27:40), what are we distracting ourselves from (38:23), cults (55:13) and more. The AHA Moment (1:00:00) asks why do you stop liking someone after you learn they like you?. Book Recommendations: Just Kids by Patti Smith Salvation by bell hooks --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/shewearsthepants/support

On this episode, Tay and Sade continue their conversation from last week about sex but this week she wears the pants! Singer/songwriter, Dorian Arielle, joins as they give the womanly perspective on sex and how each of their sexual experiences differ and compare. They discuss their introduction into pornography (14:49), telling partners about past relations (27:04), differences between having sex with a man vs a woman (34:42), the concept of virginity (55:00) and much more. The AHA Moment of this week (1:24:00) asks how to tell your partner you are not happy. Book Recommendations: Mein Kampf by Adolf Hitler The Body Keeps Secrets by Besser Van Der Kolk, M.D Sacred Woman by Queen Afua --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/shewearsthepants/support

On this episode, Tay and Sade sit down to have THE talk, the sex talk. They are joined by founder of the lifestyle brand, Let a Bad Bitch Be Herself, Skygod Spence, to offer the male perspective on what all encompasses sex. They talk about how important hygiene is to sex and sexual attraction (19:19), how male ego can stifle relationship development (30:56), porn vs. reality (35:25), one night stands (55:23), and much more. The AHA Moment (1:16:00) comes from our very own guest, Skygod Spence this week. Book Recommendation The Ways of a Superior Man by David Deida --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/shewearsthepants/support

On this episode, Tay and Sade talk about the misogynistic qualities and thoughts that women have internalized from generations of living within the patriarchy. They discuss what misogynistic beliefs they themselves have internalized (13:47), how it has created perception of motherhood/parenting (20:30), and the programming of a population (32:10). This then lead to the idea of marriage and how misogyny impacts modern day relationships (42:30). The AHA Moment (1:04:51) asks about how can a man navigate after being called out for creep behavior. Book Recommendations: Apply Where Necessary by Quay Seamster Literally Show Me a Sane Person by Darcie Wilder --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/shewearsthepants/support

On this episode, after discussing the breakup of Saweetie and Quavo (5:30), Tay and Sade go over some of the difficulties of breaking up (17:51). They also discuss whats proper etiquette when breaking up (24:51), break up horror stories (36:13) and the mutual friends after the breakup (40:51). The AHA Moment of this week asks how to apologize for treating someone not as nice as they would like (48:50). Book Recommendation This Will be Your Undoing: Living at the Intersection of Black, Female and Feminist in (White) America by Morgan Jenkins The Gucci Mane Guide to Greatness by Gucci Mane --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/shewearsthepants/support

On this episode, Tay and Sade discuss how the internet has evolved over the years and how it has effected our everyday lives. Tay talks about her seeing how a Tik Tok challenge led to a pomegranate shortage (8:47). Sade talks about how body image and the acceptance of cosmetic surgery has changed (11:45) Tay mentions how the internet has changed how we speak (31:00) which lead Sade to ask is that necessarily a good thing (41:00). The AHA Moment of the week (58:30) asks where is the line between accepting your partners flaws and not being a good match. Book Recommendation: Wreck this Journal by Keri Smith Well Read Black Girl: Finding Our Stories, Discovering Ourselves by Glory Edim --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/shewearsthepants/support

On this episode, Tay and Sade rank their top 5 "pink collar criminals", women who tried to take the legal shortcuts to reach success. Sade starts off with an a summary of the Oprah interview with Meghan Markle and Harry, former Prince of England. (1:36) They then go on to talk about some of the most famous/infamous pink collar criminals(9:11) : JT(25:01), Clermont Twins (27:37), Lori Laughlin (39:51) and more. The AHA Moment (59:27) answers the question of what to do when your guy friends make inappropriate comments about other women. Book Recommendations: Attached by Amir Levine and Rachel S. F. Heller #GirlBoss by Sophia Amoruso For more information about the Tender Foundation --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/shewearsthepants/support

On this episode, Tay and Sade reflect on living through this past year dealing with COVID-19 and quarantine. Sade supplies facts about the mortality numbers(10:05), Tay recounts her experience contracting COVID-19 and how to still get tested (21:35). The ladies also talk about their expectations and lesson learned from dating women (49:17) and how to deal with intrusive thoughts about past, toxic relationships (58:00). Book Recommendations: All About Love: New Visions by Bell Hook Boundaries: When to Say Yes, How to Say No to Take Control of Your Life by Henry Cloud and John Townsend --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/shewearsthepants/support

On this episode of SWTP Podcast, Tay and Sade have a discussion about the importance of rest to the black woman (22:06) and the relationship between black women and luxury. They also have a conversation about Lori Harvey's public perception and the stance from people like Lil Boosie (39:38) and much more. Book Recommendations: The Sisters Are Alright: Changing the Broken Narrative of Black Women in America by Tamara Winfrey Harris Year of Yes: How to Dance It Out, Stand In the Sun and Be Your Own Person by Shonda Rhimes Black Girls Must Die Exhausted by Jayne Allen --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/shewearsthepants/support

The ladies are back! Season 3 of SWTP podcast has finally arrived and its like they never missed a beat. On this episode, Tay and Sade discuss who is actually wearing the pants this week (3:18), what they've been up to during this break (11:00), Valentine's Day activities (21:00), the Justin Timberlake apology (29:17), their AHA Moments, and so much more. Stay tuned for more! --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/shewearsthepants/support

Our season finally is here! This episode we have a special guest @zahramerlot to discuss WAP, Vice Presidential candidate Kamala Harris, and what it means to choose not to participate in the 2020 election. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/shewearsthepants/support

Y’all niggas hiring? This week we check in with work life, millennial weddings, and quarantine brain. Leos are still vain but what’s new? Do men really benefit from marriage more than women? Read here: https://www.health.harvard.edu/mens-health/marriage-and-mens-health --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/shewearsthepants/support

Welcome back y’all! We get into protecting black women and our trauma seldom being taken seriously in this fucked up place. Continue to protect black women in every capacity, Bc we need it. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/shewearsthepants/support

This episode we discuss the beauty that is motherhood, pregnancy during a pandemic, and how to support new mothers because it indeed takes a village. Visit this link to find out how you can support moms in your area https://tender.funraise.org/ --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/shewearsthepants/support

How y’all feeling tonight? Ladies, y’all alright? A couple of things we know for sure, closure is a myth, Tpain is iconic, Kim K can never be our First Lady and ARREST BREONNA TAYLOR’S KILLERS. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/shewearsthepants/support

Sade and Tay discuss sliding on your IG crush quarantine style , Mayor KLB’s mask mandate, and everything in between! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/shewearsthepants/support

August Alsina opens up about his relationship with Jada Pinkett-Smith and the crowd goes wild... well kinda. We explore polyamory and healthy relationship practices and touch on boundaries. What do y’all think? Let us know in the comments! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/shewearsthepants/support

Extending our mental health talk a little further, Tay and I discuss how more and more millennials are becoming interested in horticulture and what’s its doing for our mental health. Stay plugged in! @soulspiritfarmers @danifromdasouth @greenleafcommunityfarms @cinemagreens --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/shewearsthepants/support

This episode we talk about black art, Atlanta’s mayor miss bottoms, and staying sane through the pain that is our fight toward black liberation. We are traveling this week during our episode so please excuse the audio but YOU CAN HEAR lol --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/shewearsthepants/support

We’re back for season 2 and we’re better! This episode we touch on all things related to finding your place in a revolution while managing to stay safe in a pandemic. Working from home, sliding in DMs during a revolutionary uproar , self care, and our hot takes on insecures HBOs latest episode. So much more but you’ll have to listen for the best of it ❤️ --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/shewearsthepants/support

Happy Black History Month niggas! We literally invented everything, debate ya mama. Lmao also, support any and all black black business- especially women. We love y’all so much. This was an amazing season one and we’ll see y’all in May.

Getting deeper into dating and why we lead people on in “relationships”. We also touched on sex work, Da Baby and his baby mama and why y’all need therapy. Straight women... just stop.

G-Eazy was sucking on Meg’s face so y’all know we had to discuss interracial/intercultural dating. We don’t care who you date, as long as it feels right! Also, love yo self.

Rip to Kobe and Gianna Bryant.

With Valentine’s Day coming up in February 14th. We decided to give our take on dating and what is and isn’t appropriate when taken that next step past the “talking phase”.

This episode was inspired by a tweet from @corytowns discussing why it’s important to support your lovers and how you can properly voice it. Also, your kids don’t need screens! They’re the future.

We’re coming into 2020 with a clear head and positive mind! Also, clean body parts because... safe sex.

We touch on the nuances of women in music and wtf was Karol Sanchez was thinking when she put on her own kidnapping.

Are black struggling with fear instilled prejudice? Why so fatphobic?

@taynick and @esslouis talk about there perspective on T.I. recently speaking on invading his daughters privacy at the GYN and How fathers can be concerned about their daughters vaginal health without being controlling.

This episode I sat down with friends to discuss abortion bans, education, reparations and more. Keep in mind this is an unplanned conversation I was having with friends that decided to record. Want to join the discussion? Leave a comment ❤️

This segment is a mash up of several random recordings I took over the course of 2 weeks. Please leave comments and share your thoughts on what you like and don’t like about this episode. We’re all here to get better

I’ll be discussing how bratz, and Lisa frank stickers might be the reason Generation Y women are the perfect combination of empowered slutty boss babes

This is the first ever episode and we’re discussing twitters new obsession with hating on box braids. I would love for my listeners to follow and share. More to come soon. Please leave any and all feedback for consideration ❤️