Beautiful (be-you-til-full)

It is expensive to stay damaged. Has being broken broken your piggy bank? Research supports that trauma distorts your perception. So what have you gambled away to make someone or something stay? --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/daeofslay/support

They always say that when you stop looking is when you find it. In this journey we called life you meet people along the way, different people at different. The people you meet at your best if not the same as you meet at your worst. You decide when's the best time to meet people and when you're capable of making the best decision. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/daeofslay/support

In this overstimulating world with a surplus of choices is very easy to get distracted. But is also easy to self sabotage by using avoidant behaviors. Moral of the story is a thin line between distracted and avoidant. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/daeofslay/support

Are you willing to lose people, opportunities, or even yourself for what you don't say? Is the discomfort of a sensitive conversation worse than the discomfort of unexpressed emotions? --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/daeofslay/support

How firm are you with your boundaries? Do you test your own limits? Often times we talk about other people pushing our boundaries but do we honor our own boundaries? It starts with discipline within yourself. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/daeofslay/support

Along with you getting to know yourself and learning your triggers, one must know what makes them feel better. Life and people have a way of depleting you but what revives you? --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/daeofslay/support

Seven days into the new year and I've set a New Year's resolution after years of giving up on the concept. The theme of this year for me is GREATER, good is isn't good enough. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/daeofslay/support

Exposure is everything. We all need those people in our life that have been where we've been and arrived at where we're headed. I'm thankful for this incredible conversation with radio personality and my Uncle, Chris Shaw. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/daeofslay/support

There's talk that “the one” is unobtainable. Where are my hopeless romantics because the people are getting discouraged. I'm on the fence because when you feel as though something is missing “what if” always plays in the back on your head and no happy relationship can come from that. But what do you think? --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/daeofslay/support

There are things attached to your name but if you don't show up as yourself and walk you walk…you'll never get them. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/daeofslay/support

This episode speaks about reprocessing your ideas about sex after having experienced sexual trauma. *If triggered in anyway reach out to a trusted individual or professional.* --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/daeofslay/support

In the midst of trading in the I's for “us” be sure to keep some things and make room for yourself. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/daeofslay/support

I surveyed my Instagram followers to see if and how their family structure effected their experiences. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/daeofslay/support

Life doesn't allow for comfort zones. So would you rather move or be moved? Sit on the side of the road and let life pass you by or patch up that tire and get back on the road. The choice is yours. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/daeofslay/support

We sometimes count ourselves out before we give ourselves a chance. A fresh perspective maybe just the luck you need. Odds are you're closer to a yes than a no. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/daeofslay/support

One thing I've learned is that depression is common, everyone experiences it. I've experienced it a couple of times myself so with that and research I thought I'd share my knowledge. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/daeofslay/support

Thoughts going into the New Year. Very thankful to have made it this far but there's an uphill battle ahead of me. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/daeofslay/support

With it being common to get hurt it becomes expected. So much so that we are desensitized to bad outcomes and terrified of good possibilities because they're foreign. I'm here to tell you that you deserve the best case scenario. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/daeofslay/support

I sat down with my school Dad and had a very beneficial conversation. Fortunately, I was able to record it. The full video is on my YouTube Channel @ DaeOfSlay. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/daeofslay/support

This message is about humility. Pat yourself on the back for how far you’ve come. Now, take a breath to get ready for how far you have to go. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/daeofslay/support

We have to understand that many of the things that happen to us in life is out of our control. We don’t have the final say so in a lot of things like getting the job, being accepted to the school, or being proposed to. You have become comfortable with being uncomfortable. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/daeofslay/support

We all need a break, to take inventory of ourselves and acknowledge the things we’re exposing to. We don’t realize that we’re unconscious being influenced by the things we constantly give our attention to. So when was your last break? --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/daeofslay/support

How do you move forward after ending this? Do you unconsciously allow your past to hinder yourself? If not what mindset protects you but allows you to walk into things with a fresh perspective? I’m sure we’ve all be out with someone that brings up their ex in comparison or reference. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/daeofslay/support

We get so caught up in what could go wrong or what we’re trying to prevent from happening again that we don’t give things the opportunity to go right. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/daeofslay/support

Why are we so comfortable when nothing’s for certain? #foodforthought --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/daeofslay/support

This episode was inspired by me taking some time and reflecting on life. At a ripe age of 22, I’m taking a different view of things. I sprinkled some advice in there lol, take it or leave it. Until next time, peace. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/daeofslay/support

After I mediated today this message came to me. I’m speaking for and to those of us who need to hear it. Don’t let temporary circumstances allow you to fall back in a trap and create permanent situations. There are things and people that can stand in our way but who gives them that power? We do. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/daeofslay/support

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This episode is soul food, reassurance, enlightenment or just another episode. I challenge you to see deeper, get below the surface and allow yourself to be used. There’s a whole world out here and it’s far more rewarding internally than externally. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/daeofslay/support

What is dating? I understand I’m not supposed to be easy but I don’t have time to play all my life. If you get me to like you and metaphorically stop running that’s it. Once you catch me tag you’re it game over, right? --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/daeofslay/support

We sometimes yield to things that we are supposed to blow past. So many things can throw us off track but only if you let it. This episode is a reminder to stay true to yourself and your path. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/daeofslay/support

Imagine if you didn’t care about any other opinion apart from your own...I bet you would be more at peace. The sad part is no one is that way, everyone values at least one person’s opinion or criticism. The question is who are you letting in your head without credentials? --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/daeofslay/support

This episode is to send positivity to my listeners and just give you a few words of encouragement going into the week. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/daeofslay/support

This episode encourages not only myself but others to take their own advice. We get feelings or voices in our head that most of the time is there to help us. Do yourself a favor and listen to them. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/daeofslay/support

This episode basically touched on a few of my experiences that I’ve had with starting my own business. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/daeofslay/support

This episode was a fraction of a typical conversation I was having with a couple of my friends. We touched on several subjects that some may not agree with but it’s worth the listen. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/daeofslay/support

Often times people show us who they are but we ignore the signs because we’ve developed feelings and “fell in love with their potential.” Well can we blame them or should we blame ourselves? --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/daeofslay/support

This episode touch bases on how often times we end up back at square one because we weren’t fully prepared for the steps that we took. Many people don’t end up in the career they want or went to school for...why do you think that it? --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/daeofslay/support

This episode touch bases on what the most important person in your life...YOU. What have you done for yourself lately?? You should be working towards pleasing yourself daily. Here’s how. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/daeofslay/support