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Best Friends and Love Warriors Amy Palatnick and Jess Donohue have been stockpiling self-love wisdom for decades. Amy is a therapist, coach, author, Nia instructor, meditation teacher, and potter. Jess is a yoga (and SUP yoga) teacher, massage therapist,

Amy and Jess


    • Mar 16, 2025 LATEST EPISODE
    • infrequent NEW EPISODES
    • 39m AVG DURATION
    • 18 EPISODES


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    Wonder Twin Powers: Activate!

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 16, 2025 37:49


    Amy and Jess discuss the importance of maintaining hope and positivity in challenging times, the need to cultivate ways to feel connected and hopeful, and the importance of self-care. They explore the possibility of making conscious choices about the "stories" we believe in, and the need to nurture personal effectiveness and action in relationship and community. So often, people can get swept into states of fear and hopelessness. Amy and Jess offer tools and techniques for responding to fear and trauma responses.In the end, the metaphor of "Wonder Twin Powers" arises: a way to access and channel our highest good to engage in community.


    In this Episode, Amy and Jess talk about Aging, examining our internal and culturally inherited biases against aging. We would love to hear your own thoughts and feelings about aging and ageism, beauty and vibrancy, health and vitality, and how to be empowered around this issue as we inevitably age (unless/until we die).We would also love to read your reviews and ratings, as we only have 2 so far :)

    Talking about Gaza

    Play Episode Play 60 sec Highlight Listen Later Nov 4, 2023 45:14


    Jess and Amy talk about being Jewish and our associated complex feelings about Gaza, Israel, power, separation, how to be, how to help, what to do. We had a great, challenging, heartfelt discussion about many of our thoughts and feelings on the topic, and hope it will touch some of your hearts. Please let us know what you think and feel… we would love to hear: here, on Facebook, or wherever you listen to Podcasts.Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/DAiWq52DKDo

    Love Everyone; Trust No One

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 2, 2023 44:37


    In this episode, Jess and Amy explore the question "What is trust?"Some of the areas they cover are: * Love everyone (even Putin?!) * See everyone as a child of the universe/spiritual being/related to us* The masks we wear/unmasking* The "Winning formula" concept* What does it mean to trust someone?* The compelling desire to give our hearts away * "Find my center in my center"* What CAN we trust? >>Flow, life, spirit* Fear and trust* Using nervous system to contact intuition* Our amazing bodies, and the privilege of being able bodied* How trust can be Role-constellating* Using sex to find intimacy in the absence of trust* How to help people love themselves* Love/Fear/Peace* What is underneath trusting? What are we really looking for?* Embodiment as a key to intimacy* The body: your multibillion dollar temple* We can trust this moment

    Pleasure and the Inner Critic

    Play Episode Listen Later May 25, 2023 47:26


    Pleasure and the Inner (Internalized) CriticIn this Episode, Amy and Jess explore the concept of the Internalized Critic: a voice and energy in society that we internalize to our own detriment. Is it necessary? Are there ways to get it out of our heads? YES!  The Internalized Critic is like a parasite, sucking our life force, making us believe we don't like ourselves, and blocking our opportunity for peace, joy, happiness, and PLEASURE (P.S. those are not all the same!).  Once we learn to externalize the Inner Critic, we have much more space inside to experience Pleasure. If you'd like to be guided through this experience, check out the FREE Inner Critic workshop, and the Pleasure Bootcamp Summer Intensive!

    Pleasure and the Inner (Internalized) Critic

    Play Episode Play 60 sec Highlight Listen Later Apr 23, 2023 46:38


    In this Episode, Amy and Jess explore the concept of the Inner Critic: a voice and energy in society that most of us internalize to our own detriment. Is it necessary? Are there ways to get it out of our heads? YES! The Internalized Critic is like a parasite, sucking our life force, making us believe we don't like ourselves, and blocking our opportunity for peace, joy, happiness, and PLEASURE (P.S. those are not all the same!). Once we learn to externalize the Inner Critic, we have much more space inside to experience Pleasure. If you'd like to be guided through this experience, check out the FREE Inner Critic workshop, and Pleasure Bootcamp! (Here's $50 off!)

    Personal Seasons, Passing Weather

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 7, 2023 44:02


    This was a special episode in that—for the first time ever—we recorded the podcast together in person, sitting side-by-side...post-covid and pre-Amy's move to California!Jess and Amy talk about the Weather and the Seasons: not outside, but inside. The focus is on letting the "weather"—circumstances of daily life, and our responses to those circumstances—be the passing weather, separate from our deeper, more true selves. We also touched on lots of interesting topics like Essence versus personality, the concept that "people die, but relationships don't," the full-body eye roll whenever we say "should," and why perfectionism is such a waste of energy.At the end, there's an exercise to help you find your life's purpose! Plus, a blooper!We hope you'll enjoy it, and please do post your life's purpose in the comments! We'd of course love it if you would take a moment to give the podcast a rating (I think we have 4 so far...). And/or share with friends and community, anyone you think could use a BIG LOVE HUG from us!xoxo Jess and Amy

    Attuning to the Vertical Channel

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 16, 2022 35:49


    In this episode, Amy and Jess explore the difference between locating ourselves on the vertical line versus the horizontal line, where we form attachments to others. This is a relationship game changer, a hack for a better, much happier and more fulfilled life!If you enjoy our Podcast, we would love to hear from you! Please rate and review the podcast wherever you listen. We'd love to have you join our Facebook group!

    Supporting Depression

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 4, 2022 45:57


    In this episode, Amy and Jess talk about the process of depression: how people can re-frame or understand depression more deeply, the beautiful and challenging power of  emotions, and how we can support ourselves through depressive phases or experiences. We both really enjoyed the conversation and hope you will too! Please take a moment to review our podcast on Apple podcasts, Google podcasts, Spotify... Everywhere! We SO appreciate your support in sharing this with anyone who might need (or just enjoy) a Big Love Hug from us!

    The Power of Choice

    Play Episode Play 30 sec Highlight Listen Later Aug 31, 2022 41:45


    Where do we have agency in our lives? What is in our power? How can we re-orient to a position of empowered choice? Join Amy and Jess for a dynamic exploration of the Power of Choice.

    Let's talk about Fear!

    Play Episode Play 28 sec Highlight Listen Later Aug 17, 2022 40:40


    In this episode, Amy and Jess explore the ubiquitous conundrum with fear: it is wired in our biology, yet we reject it in ourselves (but, interestingly, embrace it in others). What can we do about fear? There's a pretty simple hack!For more episodes, go to www.amypalatnick.com/podcastJoin our Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/663065851665011Rate and review wherever you listen to your podcasts.Thank you! We love you! :)

    Vaginas, Menopause, and Sex

    Play Episode Listen Later May 25, 2022 46:30


    Amy and Jess discuss their personal opinions (sprinkled with a few theories) about menopause. We are curious about other womens' experiences and would love to hear from you in our facebook group, Big Love Hug Podcast: https://www.facebook.com/groups/663065851665011 Included are some tips for making sex better as we age, the empowerment of menopause, and questioning the myth of women "drying up." Join us for a Big Love Hug!

    What if more people identified as spiritual beings?

    Play Episode Play 30 sec Highlight Listen Later Apr 23, 2022 31:24


    What would the world be like if more people identified as spiritual beings? Amy and Jess explore this question, including the core culprit that keeps us from living our spiritual natures: FEAR. You'll laugh along with these love warriors, and you may just walk away feeling more connected to yourself and your life. 

    Our Favorite Question

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 6, 2022 33:03


    "Have you thought about talking to them?" We have noticed (and laughed endlessly about) our own tendencies to avoid anything that might feel like confrontation, but these edgy conversations are almost always medicinal. 

    What is True Romantic Chemistry?

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 8, 2022 33:31


    Amy's empowering theory: think of romantic chemistry in terms of scientific chemistry.  True romantic chemistry is objective, not subjective: it's always mutual on both sides, matter-of-fact, and can't be faked or forced. Seeing chemistry this way makes dating much much easier, as it basically eliminates the entire concept of rejection. 

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    Being over Trying

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 7, 2021 33:02


    Exploring concepts: being versus trying, gifts from buddhism, the stories that help and limit us, going with the flow, pain versus suffering, and internalized oppression. We'd love to hear your feedback and requests!Each of our podcast episodes is unscripted.  (Can you tell? LOL)You can follow us, get freebies, and sign up for notifications and more at www.amypalatnick.com

    Listen to the (inner) experts!

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 11, 2021 23:43


    We actually know a lot more than we think we know, and by getting out of our own ways, we can access a huge amount of universal information.We'd love to hear your feedback...and requests!Each of our podcast episodes is unscripted.  (Can you tell? LOL)You can follow us, get freebies, and sign up for notifications and more at www.amypalatnick.com

    Be your favorite person.

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 11, 2021 30:54


    Amy and Jess explore the edgy concept that you can actually be your favorite person.This wasn't intended to be the first episode, but we recorded it and thought we'd put it out there. We're still getting our technology dialed in!We'd love to hear your feedback and requests!Each podcast episode is unscripted.  (Can you tell? LOL)You can follow us, get freebies, and sign up for notifications and more at www.amypalatnick.com

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