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Be Unmessablewith: The Podcast hosted by Josselyne Herman-Saccio
On this episode of Be Unmessablewith® the podcast, Josselyne Herman-Saccio sits down with therapist turned coach trainer Joanna Kleinman. Joanna unpacks her powerful Mind Method, reveals how to dethrone the inner critic, and shares how fulfillment can be created now, not someday.High performers often look successful on the outside while quietly feeling empty inside. That is not a personal flaw. It is a thinking pattern. Joanna explains how to separate authentic truth from survival noise so fulfillment becomes accessible in the present moment, not postponed to the future.What Listeners Will DiscoverJoanna's evolution from therapist to global coach trainerThe Mind Method and what it truly means to dethrone the inner criticWhy chasing confidence keeps people stuck and why inspiration fadesThe difference between fulfillment and goals and how to generate fulfillment nowWant to discover your level of UNMESSABLEWITHNESS and your default mode as well as how to elevate your power and resilience? Take the Unmessablewith Archetype 3-minute quizCheck out Joanna's masterclassThe Hidden Truth About TransformationFind Joanna At: Instagram https://www.instagram.com/dethroningyourinnercritic/Connect With JosselyneWebsite: beunmessablewith.comInstagram: @beunmessablewithFacebook: UnmessablewithnessLinkedIn: josselyneherman-saccioYouTube: @beunmessablewith
There are a lot of lies homeschool moms believe about their exhaustion. That they need a better curriculum. A tighter schedule. More discipline. But most of the time, the real answer goes much deeper than that. If you started this week with a cold cup of coffee, a house that doesn’t look like the ones on Pinterest, and a quiet voice in your head telling you you’re not doing enough — this episode is for you. Because that voice? It’s not telling you the truth. And the exhaustion you’re carrying? It’s not actually about the laundry. In this first episode of the Perfectionist to Present series, we’re pulling back the curtain on something most homeschool moms never talk about openly: the way perfectionism masquerades as responsibility — and slowly drains everything. What This Episode Is About: The Lies Homeschool Moms Believe This is a story. Several of them, actually. Because the truth about perfectionism — where it comes from, what it costs, and why it feels so hard to let go — can’t really be taught. It has to be recognized. And sometimes the fastest way to recognize something in yourself is to hear it in someone else’s story first. In this episode, you’ll hear about: A handmade circus tent (yes, really) and what it was actually about An eight-months-pregnant moment of abandonment and bone-deep exhaustion that cracked something open A Monday morning homeschool meltdown — the kind where you hear yourself yelling and wonder who that person is The childhood moment that quietly shaped decades of people-pleasing, peace-keeping, and proving And the first, small shift that made everything else possible The Thing Nobody Tells You About Perfectionism Most of us were never taught that perfectionism is a coping strategy. We were taught it was a personality trait — maybe even a virtue. She’s so detail-oriented. She has such high standards. She really cares. But here’s what’s underneath it: a belief, usually formed early and reinforced often, that your worth has to be earned. That if the house is clean enough, the birthday party elaborate enough, the homeschool schedule rigorous enough — then maybe you’ll finally feel like you’re enough. The exhausting part isn’t the circus tent. It’s the equation. If I do enough → I am enough. That equation is a lie. And it will run you into the ground before it ever delivers on its promise. For the Homeschool Mom Specifically There’s something uniquely brutal about perfectionism in the homeschool context. Because you’re not just managing a home — you’re also the educator, the curriculum director, the activity coordinator, the emotional regulator, and often the person holding the whole family’s nervous system together. The bar is invisible and always moving. And when Monday morning arrives and the kids are bickering, and the coffee is cold, and you snap — the perfectionist doesn’t just feel frustrated. She feels like she has failed. Like she is the problem. She isn’t. But it takes a while to see that clearly. This episode is the beginning of seeing it clearly. A Note on What This Series Is (And Isn’t) This month, we’re exploring four interconnected themes: Week 1 — Perfectionism: what it is, where it lives, and what it’s costing you (you’re here) Week 2 — The cost of keeping the peace: what years of self-erasure actually produce Week 3 — What coming back to yourself actually looks like Week 4 — Why you don’t have to do this alone (dropping the same day as our live retreat) Each episode will name something real. It won’t hand you a system. It will hand you a mirror — and maybe, if the timing is right, a door. Quotes Worth Sitting With “This isn’t about lowering your standards or caring less. It’s about caring about the right things.” “I was trying to silence that inner voice that told me I wasn’t good enough — a voice that had been shaped by harsh words from my childhood.” “I couldn’t accept imperfection in my family members because I couldn’t accept it in myself.” “I felt abandoned at the very moment I needed support the most.” “Every fiber of me was spent.” “You don’t rest because you’re at your wits’ end. You rest because you’re human.” If This Episode Resonated With You The moment after an episode like this — when something has been named, and you feel it in your chest — is actually really important. Not to do anything with. Just to be in. If you want a gentle, guided space to stay in that moment a little longer, I created a free mini-retreat you can do from your own home. Designed to help you pause, reflect, and reconnect with yourself without needing to go anywhere, or have childcare, or do anything perfectly.
In this powerful episode of Compared to Who?, Heather Creekmore takes a deep dive into one of the most important (and personal) topics discussed in our community—negative self-talk. Are you your own harshest critic? Do you find it easy to be kind to others but unbearable when it comes to your own reflection? This episode is for you! Heather openly explores the critical inner dialogue that many of us experience, especially on our journeys toward body image freedom. She addresses where negative self-talk comes from, why it's so hard to stop, and shares practical steps to start recognizing, writing down, and confronting those mean inner phrases that hold us back. What You'll Learn: How negative self-talk becomes a habit The spiritual and emotional roots of self-criticism Why simply "thinking positive" isn't enough Practical tips for noticing, documenting, and challenging negative thoughts How to find community and encouragement on the road to body kindness How our deep-seated beliefs shape the way we treat ourselves Key Takeaways: You can't stop negative self-talk until you notice it—awareness is the first step. Much of our negative inner dialogue stems from lies we’ve adopted as truth, often rooted in our childhood or from past hurtful comments. Community and vulnerability are vital; you’re not alone, and healing often grows in connection with others. Action Steps: Start tuning into your self-talk. Notice and write down the harsh words you’re telling yourself. Reflect: What’s stuck with you—and who put it there? Visit the Compared to Who? community at www.waitingforweightloss.com to share your story and receive support from others on the same journey. Challenge those hurtful statements with what God says about you. Links & Resources: Join the community: waitingforweightloss.com Learn more about the 40-Day Body Image Workbook and interactive journey Stay tuned for Heather Creekmore’s new book, coming in 2027! Rate & Review:If this episode resonated with you, please rate and review this podcast and share it with a friend who needs encouragement! Ready to ditch the inner critic and start your journey to body image freedom? Tune in now! Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.
Get all the inside secrets and tools you need to help you develop your intuitive and leadership skills so you are on the path to the highest level of success with ease. In this inspiring conversation, Jennifer and Ly explore how mastering self-talk, embracing your “Unstoppable Voice,” and shifting from reactive to creative living can unlock your genius, gifts, and greatnessIn this episode you will learn:Silence the Inner Critic to Unlock Your Voice Move from Reactor to Creator Activate Your 3Gs — Genius, Gifts, and Greatness About Ly:Ly Smith is an inspirational speaker, best-selling author, and creator of The C.A.N.D.Y. Method. She empowers women entrepreneurs and professionals to shift their inner self-talk, build confidence, and take bold action in leadership and life.www.g3mastermind.comwww.facebook.com/g3mastermindwww.instagram.com/g3mastermindwww.linkedin.com/in/g3mastermindwww.youtube.com/@g3mastermindwww.talk.co/lyIf you are ready to start reaching your goals instead of simply dreaming about it, start today with 12minutegift.com!Grab your FREE meditation: Reduce Your Anxiety MEDITATIONAre you ready to tiptoe into your intuition and tap into your soul's message? Let's talkListen in as Jennifer Takagi, founder of Takagi Consulting, Certified High Performance Coach, 5X time Amazon.Com Best Selling-Author, Certified Soul Care Coach, Certified Jack Canfield Success Principle Trainer, Certified Professional Behavioral Analyst and Facilitator of the DISC Behavioral Profiles, Certified Change Style Indicator Facilitator, Law of Attraction Practitioner, and Certified Coaching Specialist - leadership entrepreneur, speaker and trainer, shares the lessons she's learned along the way. Each episode is designed to give you the tools, ideas, and inspiration to lead with integrity. Humor is a big part of Jennifer's life, so expect a few puns and possibly some sarcasm. Tune in for a motivational guest, a story or tips to take you even closer to that success you've been coveting. Please share the episodes that inspired you the most and be sure to leave a comment.Official Website: http://www.jennifertakagi.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/jennifertakagi/Facebook: facebook.com/takagiconsulting I look forward to connecting with you soon,Jennifer TakagiSpeaker, Trainer, Author, Energy HealerPS: We would love to hear from you! For questions, coaching, or to book interviews, please email my team at Jennifer@takagiconsulting.com
If you've invested years in therapy, insight, growth work—and you're still finding yourself triggered by the same things, looping the same fears, or bracing for the same outcomes—this episode is for you. I'm unpacking the deeper layer most personal development misses: that you don't transform your life by fixing yourself… you transform it by separating from the identity that's been unconsciously running it. We'll explore how your Inner Critic isn't just a voice—it's a nervous system pattern formed before you had choice. Why your body reacts as if old wounds are still happening. And how the subtle belief "I need to improve myself to be okay" keeps rebuilding the very identity you're trying to outgrow. ✨ Tune in to learn how to unhook from survival-based patterns, interrupt the emotional loops that keep recreating your past, and shift into your Authentic Self—the part of you that creates from presence instead of protection, and leads your life without needing to fix who you are. Your weekly reflection questions: What emotion am I trying to skip over right now in order to feel more comfortable, in control, or "ahead"? If my current results are being created by a default identity organized around protection, what am I unconsciously committed to preventing? Who would I have to become—and what would I have to feel—if I stopped being loyal to the version of me that was built to survive the past?
Send a text As the house settles and the evening grows quiet, do you ever notice how the inner critic often gets louder? In this 3rd part of our 4-part series, we talk about why nights can feel especially vulnerable—how nervous system fatigue lowers our defenses and makes it easier for food, scrolling, and self-judgment to take over. Instead of pushing harder with willpower, we practice turning toward God's steady voice to shape the atmosphere within us. Using the image of a parent calming a restless child, we reframe what it means to “take thoughts captive,” choosing discernment over force and asking which voice aligns with love, truth, and safety. With Zephaniah 3:17 and Romans 8:1 as anchors, we name condemnation as a false motivator that fuels shame and reactive patterns.From there, we rebuild our evenings with simple, embodied practices—compassionate questions that help the nervous system settle, an A-to-Z praise rhythm for bedtime, and a posture that treats rest as trust, grounded in Psalm 4:8. We share why trying to fix everything before sleep often backfires, how our words shape the inner environment that drives our choices, and how to choose a kinder authority when self-attack gets loud. We also introduce our updated Radiant Grace planner to help close the day without tallying or tracking. If nights have felt like a courtroom, this conversation offers comfort, clarity, and practical steps toward lasting peace.If this resonated with you, download the free Radiant Grace Planner at revelationwithin.org/planner.Support the showLearn more about our Revelation Within Community: https://www.revelationwithin.org
What happens when you snap at your kids — and then spend the rest of the day punishing yourself for it? That's the homeschool mom inner critic. And it's running your days more than you realize. That's not a homeschooling problem. That's not a patience problem. And it’s not even a bad day problem. It’s the homeschool mom inner critic loop — and it's running your homeschool (and your life) more than you realize. This month's focus is Nurturing the Nurturer — because the voice telling you you're not enough didn't start with homeschooling. It started long before. And until you see it clearly, it's going to keep driving your days. What You’ll Discover in This Episode Teresa shares the morning that cracked everything open for her — and what she finally understood sitting at the end of her bed, depleted, questioning whether she was cut out for this audacious thing called home education. Because here's what we actually are beneath all of it. Beneath the functioning. Beneath the meals and the read-alouds and the lesson planning and the driving and the trying. We are women who chose something enormous — and who are doing it largely alone, largely unseen, largely without anyone stopping to ask how we're actually doing. Not how the kids are progressing. How WE are. The Homeschool Mom Inner Critic Loop React → Feel Bad → Criticize Yourself → React Again. That loop isn't just emotionally painful. It quietly fuels your mental load, drains your nervous system, and over time — this is the part that matters most — it erodes your trust in yourself. Every round through it, you collect more evidence that you're failing. That you're not enough. That everyone else has it together. And you start to believe it. The Voices Running The Show “If I stop, everything falls apart.” “I should be able to handle this.” “Other moms don't lose it like this.” “If I rest, I'm letting everyone down.” Sound familiar? Those aren't facts. They're a very convincing, very well-practiced story. And you can learn to interrupt it. What To Do In The Moment The difference between “this is hard” and “I am failing.” The Friend Test — one practical tool you can use the next time that critical voice starts. The four cookbook questions to ask yourself when that feeling of failure shows up. And why your feeling of failure isn't a verdict — it's information. The Four Cookbook Questions When the inner critic starts — don't spiral. Go back to the cookbook. What are you not getting enough of? What are you getting too much of? And what's the one thing — if you're really honest — you already know you need? What have you been ignoring that keeps showing up anyway? The Truth About The Homeschool Mom Inner Critic Learning to interrupt that harsh inner voice isn't about positive thinking or trying harder. It's about seeing the pattern clearly — and choosing something different. Your kids don't need you to be perfect. They need you present. But when the inner critic is running the show, you're not leading from presence. You're reacting from an old story that was never yours to begin with. You are overidentifying your responsibility to your kids — and underidentifying your responsibility to yourself. What is best for you is what is best for them. Join The Calm The Inner Critic Workshop Ready to go deeper? This month I'm hosting a 90-minute working session for homeschool moms who are tired of being so hard on themselves — moms who know they're beating themselves up constantly but don't know how to stop in the moment. You'll leave with a Recognition Tool, a 4-Step Thought Care Framework, two practical in-the-moment techniques, and a personalized action plan built around your specific triggers. Not to fix yourself. To untangle the overwhelm and stop reacting from inherited survival mode — so you can lead your homeschool from a place that actually feels like you. Can't make it live? You'll get the replay. But the life-changing coaching happens in the room. ➡️ Join the Workshop — $57 Free Resource — Aligned Homeschool Reset Session If you're ready to untangle the overwhelm and build a homeschool life that actually fits you — ➡️ Book your free Aligned Homeschool Reset Session Uncover what's really driving your overwhelm. Coming This Week on the Confident Homeschool Life YouTube Channel: “What’s Really Happening When Your Child Won’t Listen” “Perimenopause & Homeschooling? Here are 4 Steps to Help You“ How you talk to yourself REALLY matters. So you’ll definitely want to catch those on YouTube. Resources Mentioned
If you're a high-achieving woman who looks confident on the outside but feels anxious, self-doubting, or never quite “good enough” on the inside…this episode is for you. In Episode 156, I'm joined by Ashley Emmons, a therapist who specializes in helping high-performing women manage performance anxiety, quiet negative self-talk, and actually believe they're capable of the goals they're chasing. Ashley is also a runner herself, which means she truly gets the mental gymnastics that come with training, racing, and constantly pushing for “more.” We talk about: Why confidence isn't something you're born with (and why that's good news) How performance anxiety shows up in runners and high-achievers What to do when negative self-talk hijacks your training or daily life Simple, practical tools to regulate anxiety in the moment How to start trusting yourself instead of constantly second-guessing This conversation is grounding, empowering, and packed with tools you can actually use—on the run and off. Jacked Granny Protein Bars have around 16 grams of protein, the perfect post-run snack or mid-afternoon fuel — go check out jacked-granny.com and use code RUNNERGIRL to save 10%. Don't forget to follow me on Instagram @runnergirldietitian
I would love to hear how this episode impacted you.hat voice in your head—the one that hesitates, questions, and pulls you back—isn't trying to sabotage you.It's trying to protect you.In this episode, we reframe self-talk through a nervous-system and identity-based lens, explaining why fighting your thoughts actually makes them louder—and why forcing positivity rarely works.You'll learn:Why your inner voice forms through stress and emotional memoryThe real fear behind self-doubt (hint: it's not failure)Why arguing with your thoughts escalates resistanceHow pausing—not fighting—creates clarity and alignmentWhy identity anchors are more powerful than self-criticismIf you've ever felt stuck, hesitant, or like you keep pulling back just as you're about to step forward, this episode will help you understand why—and show you a calmer, more effective way to lead yourself.You don't need to silence your inner voice. You need to stop fighting it.That's how you stop talking yourself out of your potential.Support the showNew to Adam Henson Coaching? Start Here → https://youtu.be/HHLdVPMha10
You just have to be a good parent 30-40% of the time. According to the research, and parenting expert Maggie Dent.
Feeling like the wheels are coming off your life—or the world? The Year of the Fire Horse is here, and the old paradigm is dissolving fast. For some, it feels like rock bottom. For others, a slow unraveling. This week, Lacy and Jessica unpack the collective stripping, ego deaths, and visibility fears rising to the surface—and why this acceleration is actually a portal into your most authentic self. If you've been stuck in perfectionism, burned out by optimization culture, or clear on your purpose but unable to move, this episode unpacks what's happening beneath the surface. Through the lens of TBM tools, human design, Chinese astrology, and nervous system regulation, they explain why hustle, formulas, and “matrix authenticity” won't carry you into the new paradigm—but why a more aligned, authentic approach will. This season isn't about fear. It's about releasing what no longer fits so something truer can emerge. The real question is: are you ready to stop performing and step into your true purpose? Find the complete show notes here -> https://tobemagnetic.com/expanded-podcast Resources: Virtual NYC Speaking Tour + New DI & Journal Prompts Return to Magic - 15 Day Manifestation Challenge A 15-day guided journey to reparent your inner child, reconnect with your magic, and step into this new year as your most confident, regulated, and magnetic self yet. Join our membership to access! (It's not too late to join in. Start any time!) The Pathway Membership gives you unlimited access to all of our manifestation workshops—including How to Manifest, Unblocking Your Inner Child, Shadow, Love, Money, Rock Bottoms, Ruts, and Energetic Updates —plus 70+ self-hypnosis tracks designed to unlock your full potential. LEARN MORE HERE Get the latest from TBM Join the Pathway now - Return to Magic Challenge available now! New to TBM? Free Offerings to Get You Started Learn the Process! 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This Episode Is Brought to You By: Bon Charge - 15% off with code MAGNETIC Red Light Neck and Chest Mask MASA Chips - Get 25% off your first order with code MAGNETIC MASA Original MASA Lime MASA Churro In this episode we talk about: The collective “wheels coming off” feeling and why it's so loud right now Fire Horse 2026 energetics New paradigm dissolvement and overlapping messages across astrology + human design Ego deaths as grief for old selves and old versions of society Learning the rules vs. letting the rules rule you TBM tools as nervous-system support during stripping and change Deep Imagining as a way to access fear beneath fear Protector parts showing up as inner critic, perfectionism, and “don't be seen” patterns Visibility blocks: why people can't take action even when they're finally “clear” The difference between messy momentum vs. performative output Restraint as medicine for over-creating, and action as medicine for stagnation Grandparent / wise elder energy as the anchoring frequency for what's coming Mentioned In the Episode: Ep. 380 - Taking a Leap of Faith and Learning Surrender: The Process with Jenna Zoe Ep. 335 - Speeding up Your Manifestations in the New Paradigm with Jenna Zoe - Best of 2024 Ep. 318 - Speeding up Your Manifestations in the New Paradigm with Jenna Zoe Ep. 393 - Why You Feel Disconnected From Your Intuition (And How to Reclaim It) with Taylor Paige Tune into Jenna's substack Baz Luhrmann's “Everybody's Free (to Wear Sunscreen)” Watch our full-length video episodes on Youtube! Find our Return to Magic Challenge plus all our workshops and all workshops mentioned inside our Pathway Membership! (Including the Authentic Code Exercise, NYC Speaking Tour Session, Purpose And Soul's Essence DI) HOW TO MANIFEST by Lacy Phillips (with exercises by Jessica Gill)Available now! The Expanded Podcast, from To Be Magnetic™ (TBM), is the leading manifestation podcast rooted in neuroscience, psychology, and energetics. Hosted by TBM's Chief Content Officer Jessica Gill, with monthly appearances from founder Lacy Phillips, Expanded is where science and the mystical meet to help you manifest in the most grounded, practical, and life-changing way.At TBM, we've redefined manifestation through Neural Manifestation™—our proven, science-backed method developed with neuroscientist Dr. Tara Swart. This process helps you reprogram limiting beliefs at the subconscious level so you can create the life most aligned with your authenticity.Each week, we take you inside the TBM practice to help you expand your subconscious to believe what you desire is possible. Through expert interviews, thought leader conversations, TBM teachings, and real member success stories, you'll learn how to: – Rewire your subconscious mind and step into your worth – Heal your inner child and integrate shadow work – Set boundaries, strengthen intuition, and reclaim self-worth – Manifest relationships, careers, abundance, and experiences that align with your true selfWith over than 40 million downloads and a global community in over 100 countries, Expanded has become the gold standard in manifestation content. Think of it as your weekly practice for expanding your mind, believing what you want is possible, and manifesting the life you're meant to live.Past guests include leading voices such as Mel Robbins, Lewis Howes, Jenna Zoe, Martha Beck, Dr. Joe Dispenza, Dr. Gabor Maté, Mark Groves, and Brianna Wiest. Where To Find Us!@tobemagnetic (IG)@LacyannephillipsLacy Launched a Substack! - By Candlelight - Join Here@Jessicaashleygill@tobemagnetic (youtube)@expandedpodcast
Right, picture this. It's 2:30am. I've been bounced off half of Sydney's motorways on the way back from Albury-Wodonga, the NSW/VIC border, and I'm talking myself through a full-blown panic attack because, well, everyone else is asleep. ZzzzToday started as a quick meet and greet and hit top gear — strapping freight, riding in an Kenworth and remembering why I love the transport industry so much. I'm trying to build something that brings trucking and mental health together… and for most of the day, I felt real purpose and inspired.Then, I hit Sydney. First, the M7 shuts. No biggie, I keep on truckin'.Then, NorthConnex shuts. Just my luck. Roadworks everywhere. Detours through the back roads of the big smoke. Sleep? Not likely tonight. Now I'm picturing myself fronting up to an 8:30am meeting at the University, then a filmed interview I've been looking forward to all week, and an advisory group meeting (yep, big day) running on fumes — and the inner critic is LOUD. The anxiety is like THUNDER. Here comes the wave of dread. I just need to get back to Newcastle. Perfection or nothing.Don't stumble.You can't afford it. The stakes are too high So I go back to basics: name what I can see, breathe longer out than in, loosen the grip, label the task instead of the monster. The goal isn't to get rid of fear at 3am — it's to keep pointing northwards while it's yelling at you.By the time I get home, the panic's still there… but it's smaller. And it's not driving anymore. Thank God, neither am I. Now to sleep, I've got a big day coming up! -- Follow The Dysregulated Podcast: Instagram – @elliot.t.waters Facebook – The Dysregulated Podcast YouTube – The Dysregulated Podcast (Official Channel) Created by Elliot Waters — Inspired by lived experience. Mental health insights, real stories, real conversations.
Leave an Amazon Rating or Review for my New York Times Bestselling book, Make Money Easy!Check out the full episode: https://greatness.lnk.to/1888DMThere's a belief running under the surface that's keeping you from everything you actually want. It sounds like "who do I think I am?" when you dream about a relationship where someone truly loves you, when you consider financial freedom, when you think about that creative project your friends think is crazy.Lewis gets raw about the inner critic we've all trained. The voice that says you're not smart enough, not talented enough, that you're a failure. He breaks down why we turn failures into identity instead of feedback, why we learned to overwork and overachieve just to feel validated, and why we self-sabotage right before things go well. The shift isn't about ego or thinking you're better than anyone. It's simpler and more profound: worthiness is believing you don't have to punish yourself to deserve a good life. You failed at walking as a baby a thousand times and never called yourself a failure. That same truth applies now. Stop blocking what's trying to reach you.Sign up for the Greatness newsletter: http://www.greatness.com/newsletter Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.
Is your relationship with alcohol driven by habit or a hidden "inner critic"? Today on Eyes Wide Open, we're joined by world-renowned hypnotherapist Georgia Foster to discuss her revolutionary "7 Days to Drink Less" program and why willpower is actually the weakest tool for changing your habits. In this episode, we dive deep into the emotional architecture of drinking and why societal shame often prevents real progress. Georgia Foster explains the actual science of hypnotherapy, debunking the "magician" myths to show how the subconscious mind holds the key to moderation. We explore the personality types behind drinking, from perfectionists to people-pleasers, and discuss how to silence the inner critic that drives the urge to over-consume. This is an honest conversation about finding the middle ground, removing the stigma of "quitting," and reclaiming your authentic self without the weight of alcohol-induced shame. Key Takeaways & Revelations Willpower vs. The Mind: Why willpower is ineffective for long-term change and how hypnotherapy targets the emotional root of the habit. The "Middle Ground" Approach: Why drinking less is often a more sustainable and achievable goal than complete sobriety for many individuals. Boredom & Emotional Triggers: Understanding how curiosity and awareness can dismantle the automatic response to drink when bored. The Inner Critic: How addressing the negative internal dialogue can stop the cycle of "shame drinking" and perfectionism. Personality Patterns: Identifying the difference between "perfectionist" and "pleaser" drinking styles to create a personalized path to wellness. Our Mission Eyes Wide Open is a space for honest communication. Our goal is to remove the stigmas around mental health, holistic lifestyles, culture, and free speech so you can show up as your authentic self with your eyes wide open. By having real conversations about difficult truths, we move toward collective healing. Chapters 00:00 - Introduction to Georgia Foster and Her Work 02:27 - The Science of Hypnotherapy 05:28 - Understanding Drinking Habits and Emotional Triggers 08:16 - The Role of Shame in Drinking 11:18 - Changing the Narrative Around Drinking 14:23 - The Inner Critic and Its Impact on Drinking 17:19 - Boredom and Drinking 20:27 - The Journey to Reducing Alcohol Consumption 23:25 - The Seven Days to Drink Less Program 35:48 - The Power of Hypnosis in Personal Growth 39:18 - Understanding Drinking Patterns: Perfectionists vs. Pleasers 43:21 - Finding Balance: The Middle Ground in Drinking 48:23 - The Role of Alcohol in Social Situations 52:31 - Accessibility and Affordability of Self-Help Programs Find Georgia Foster here: Website: https://georgiafoster.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/georgiafosterofficial Find Nick Thompson here: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/nthompson513/ | https://www.instagram.com/the_ucan_foundation/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@EyesWideOpenContent LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/nickthompson13/ UCAN Foundation: https://theucanfoundation.org/ Website: https://www.engagewithnick.com/
Ever wish your inner critic would finally give you a break? Sean Fargo closes our seven-day journey by teaching a simple, reliable practice that replaces self-attack with grounded compassion. We start where warmth is easiest—thinking of someone or an animal that naturally opens the heart—then repeat four steady phrases: may you be safe, may you be healthy, may you be happy, may you live with ease. From that genuine warmth, we turn the same phrases inward and, yes, even toward the inner critic itself.Across this guided session, we explore why loving-kindness is more than feel-good language; it's a trainable response that reshapes the brain and nervous system. By pairing intention with repetition, the practice becomes a habit you can call on the next time you make a mistake, fall short of a goal, or feel the urge to spiral. Sean offers practical cues—eyes open or closed, breath linked to phrases, starting with an easy person—to make the ritual stick without forcing emotion. You'll learn how wishing safety and ease disarms shame, how happiness loosens perfectionism, and how ease keeps problem-solving clear and creative.We also step into the advanced edge: extending goodwill to the parts we resist—the inner critic and even people we dislike. This move isn't about excusing harm; it's about reducing inner conflict so you can set boundaries without carrying the weight of resentment. Listeners often report less rumination, faster repair after missteps, and a gentler, more courageous approach to growth. By the end, you'll have a compact script you can use anytime to soften harsh self-talk and build resilience from the inside out.If this practice helps, subscribe, share the episode with a friend who needs a kinder inner voice, and leave a review to tell us which phrase landed most for you.Support the showCertify To Teach Mindfulness: Certify.MindfulnessExercises.com Email: Sean@MindfulnessExercises.com Mindfulness Exercises with Sean Fargo is a practical, grounded mindfulness podcast for people who want meditation to actually help in real life. Hosted by Sean Fargo — a former Buddhist monk, mindfulness teacher, and founder of MindfulnessExercises.com — this podcast explores how mindfulness can support mental health, emotional regulation, trauma sensitivity, chronic pain, leadership, creativity, and meaningful work. Each episode offers a mix of: Practical mindfulness and meditation teachings Conversations with respected meditation teachers, clinicians, authors, and researchers Real-world insights for therapists, coaches, yoga teachers, educators, and caregivers Gentle reflections for anyone navigating stress, anxiety, burnout, grief, or change If you're interested in: Mindfulness meditation for everyday life Trauma-sensitive and compassion-based practices Teaching mindfulness in an authentic, non-performative way Deepening your own practice while supporting others …you're in the right place. Learn more at MindfulnessExercises.com.
What happens when you finally stop asking permission to be yourself? If you’ve been wondering how to stop people-pleasing as a homeschool mom, this conversation will show you it’s possible. Homeschool mom and creative entrepreneur Latoya shares her journey from living for everyone else to discovering what she actually wants—and why that shift changed everything in her homeschool life. This month’s focus: Nurturing the Nurturer — because you can’t give what you don’t have, and your kids don’t need your perfection. They need your presence. Latoya hit 40 and realized she’d spent decades doing what everyone expected—but had never asked herself what SHE actually wanted. As a homeschool mom, restaurant management graduate, and someone who always made sure everyone else was okay, the idea of prioritizing herself felt selfish. Scary. Wrong. But when she finally gave herself permission to explore her creativity, build her crochet business, and trust her own voice? That was when things began to shift. Her homeschool days became more peaceful. Her kids became more autonomous. And she discovered that choosing herself wasn’t selfish—it was the best thing she could do for her family. How to Stop People-Pleasing as a Homeschool Mom: Latoya’s Journey from Self-Sacrifice to Self-Trust What You’ll Discover in This Episode The Permission You’ve Been Waiting For: Why serving yourself actually serves your family better How to distinguish between what you want and what others expect of you The power of silence and solitude in discovering your authentic voice Why “waiting for the answer” is part of the process From Rigid to Present: Redefining Homeschool Success What a “good day” used to look like (spoiler: checking all the boxes) vs. what it looks like now How to choose peace over productivity for a more meaningful family life Why your kids’ autonomy grows when you honour your own The truth about gaps, “behind,” and what kids actually need to thrive Caribbean Flow vs. Hustle Culture: The cultural pressure to always be “doing something” Why presence matters more than productivity How to give yourself permission to just BE with your people What happens when you stop measuring success externally Creative Work as Life Force (Not Luxury): Why Latoya’s crochet business isn’t “extra”—it’s essential How creative pursuits actually fuel better mothering Choosing fulfillment over financial gain (and being okay with that) Teaching your kids to honour their interests by modeling it yourself The Inner Work Nobody Talks About: Why inner work is gritty, messy, and nothing like social media portrays How to extend to yourself the same compassion you give others The first small decision where you stop explaining and start trusting yourself Why disappointing others is sometimes the most aligned choice “What is best for you, for me is what’s best for them because it trickles into everything else. So the happier I become, the more comfortable I become with myself, the better everything around me gets.” — Latoya Why This Conversation Matters This isn’t just another interview about homeschooling. It’s about what happens when you finally permit yourself to ask: Who am I beyond the roles I play? If you’re struggling with how to stop people-pleasing as a homeschool mom, Latoya’s story is for you. She’s every mom who’s ever wondered if wanting something for herself makes her selfish. But here’s what Latoya discovered (and what you will too): When you choose yourself, your kids don’t suffer. They thrive. Because they get to see what it looks like to honor your own voice, trust your own knowing, and live from alignment instead of obligation. Your homeschool doesn’t need more curriculum. It needs more of YOU—the real you, the aligned you, the unapologetic you. Connect with Latoya YouTube: Toya in Stitches Instagram: @toya.in.stitches Latoya creates DIY crochet tutorials that go beyond simple instructions—she teaches you to understand your body, measurements, and personal style so you can create garments that actually fit YOU. Coming This Week on the Confident Homeschool Life YouTube Channel: “The Inner Critic Pattern So Many Homeschool Moms Don’t Realize They’re In” How you talk to yourself REALLY matters. So you’ll definitely want to catch those on YouTube. Join the Calm the Inner Critic Workshop Ready to go deeper and learn how to stop the inner critic as a homeschool mom?This month, I’m hosting a workshop to help you see what’s been driving you—and choose something different. Not to fix yourself. But to untangle the overwhelm and stop reacting from inherited survival mode. So you can lead your homeschool life from a place that actually feels like you—with presence, calm, and clarity. YES, I NEED THIS Want more support? Join the Confident Homeschool Mom community Read: Homeschool Mama Self-Care: Nurturing the Nurturer Listen: Previous episodes on setting boundaries Episodes You’ll Also Love: Unlearning People-Pleasing as a Homeschool Mom How to Stop the Inner Critic as a Homeschool Mom: The Charmed Life I Was Chasing (& the Pattern I Didn't Know I Was Living) Homeschool with Purpose: Honouring our Values & Priorities Stop Asking These 6 Homeschool Questions (That Sabotage Your Life) Finding Healing & Purpose When Life is Life-ing How to Stop Being a Hostage to Homeschool Pressure (& What to Do Instead) Deschooling and Life Purpose: Is there a connection? 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We want to hear from you! Please, send us a text comment or suggestion. In this episode, Rod and Scott talk about the voice inside our head that's quick to judge, criticize, and replay our mistakes—and how it quietly shapes our confidence, relationships, and mental health. You'll learn practical ways to recognize your inner critic, interrupt unhelpful thought loops, and replace harsh self-talk with more honest, compassionate perspective. If you've been stuck in perfectionism, shame, or “I'm not enough” thinking, this conversation is a reset toward calmer self-leadership and healthier connection with others.To find out more about Rod McCall and Eryk's Place of Hope check out https://fortheloveoferyk.com/ & https://eryksplaceofhope.com/Find us on YouTube, Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or wherever you listen to your podcasts.
Ever catch your mind replaying a cringe moment on loop? We take you inside that spiral and show how mindfulness breaks the pattern—not by arguing with thoughts, but by starving the loop of fuel and returning attention to the raw, steadying details of the present moment. Instead of wrestling with the inner critic, we practice kind curiosity and let the body lead the way back to clarity.Across this focused, guided session, we map the hallmarks of rumination—repetition without resolution, shrinking perspective, and rising tension—and explain why the brain confuses looping with problem solving. Then we offer a step‑by‑step reset that anyone can try on a commute, in bed, or during a stressful workday: feel gravity where your body meets the chair or floor, listen for the rhythm of sound without chasing its source, open to the colors and light in your field of view, and notice texture and temperature on the skin. As attention reconnects with the senses, muscles soften, breath evens, and new angles on the same situation emerge.You'll hear how this shift reduces the power of harsh self‑talk and creates conditions for wiser choices—like making an apology, adjusting a plan, or simply letting go. The aim isn't to silence the mind forever; it's to relate to thoughts differently, with gentleness and precision, so they lose their grip. If you've felt stuck in overthinking, this practice offers a grounded path out of the loop and back into the world right in front of you.If this resonated, follow the show, share it with someone who overthinks, and leave a quick review with one insight you're taking into your week. Your notes help others find practical mindfulness when they need it most.Support the showCertify To Teach Mindfulness: Certify.MindfulnessExercises.com Email: Sean@MindfulnessExercises.com Mindfulness Exercises with Sean Fargo is a practical, grounded mindfulness podcast for people who want meditation to actually help in real life. Hosted by Sean Fargo — a former Buddhist monk, mindfulness teacher, and founder of MindfulnessExercises.com — this podcast explores how mindfulness can support mental health, emotional regulation, trauma sensitivity, chronic pain, leadership, creativity, and meaningful work. Each episode offers a mix of: Practical mindfulness and meditation teachings Conversations with respected meditation teachers, clinicians, authors, and researchers Real-world insights for therapists, coaches, yoga teachers, educators, and caregivers Gentle reflections for anyone navigating stress, anxiety, burnout, grief, or change If you're interested in: Mindfulness meditation for everyday life Trauma-sensitive and compassion-based practices Teaching mindfulness in an authentic, non-performative way Deepening your own practice while supporting others …you're in the right place. Learn more at MindfulnessExercises.com.
Send a textWelcome to Country Proud Living with your host LoriLynn. "Where nurturing spaces empower your life and every day feels a little more like home." In today's episode, LoriLynn shares a real-life moment of pause—when grief and heaviness made it impossible to “push through”—and how that experience became a gentle invitation to soften the inner critic. You'll learn how grace can be a design principle for your inner life and your home: creating space, light, margin, and a soft place to land.In this episode, you'll learn:Why the inner critic often whispers (and why we mistake it for “truth” or “motivation”)How perfection can feel like belonging—and how to loosen its gripA simple, no-journaling practice to respond with compassion: “Would I speak to someone I love this way?”How your home environment can amplify self-judgment—or support healingWhy releasing urgency is a form of self-respect (especially for high-capacity women)A simple practice (try this today):When your inner critic shows up, pause and ask: “Would I speak to someone I love this way?”Episode Timeline:
Field Notes From the Spiritual Journey with Eden Garcia Thaler
In this episode I announce that I'm taking a little break from the podcast (I will return!) and share some thoughts around how to know if it's time to pivot, take a pause, or even walk away from something in your life. How do you know when it's time to walk away from the relationship? Leave the job? Move across country? Or take a step back from a particular project?We'll discuss how to navigate the timing of a pivot or pause in your life, the role of the Inner Critic or Inner Judger, letting go of fear, and key signs that it might be time for a pivot or major change.If you're feeling a pull to dive deeper, explore 1:1 sessions at the link below. These sessions are a place to illuminate your patterns so that you can navigate what it is you're going through with greater clarity and insight — a place to bring you the surface that which is seeking to be seen and shifted so that you can align with more of who you are. Visit edenhetrick.com for more information.Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@field__notespod Connect with me about coaching sessions: edengarciathaler@gmail.com Learn more: edenhetrick.com Submit a topic for the podcast: https://tally.so/r/mOMzA7 Follow on IG: https://www.instagram.com/field__notespod About me:Welcome to Field Notes Podcast. I created this podcast to be a living roadmap for transforming your patterns into your expanded potential. Tune in for perspectives that spark transformation and tips for optimizing your well-being in a crunchy (yet non-dogmatic) way. On the ongoing journey of finding freedom from the stuff that keeps us stuck—here are my field notes. If you are looking for deeper support on your journey of becoming, I offer 1:1 sessions and I would love to support you. Visit edenhetrick.com for more information. Please inquire for sliding scale availability. If you love this show and want to support it's growth: Share the show w/ someone Leave a 5-star rating ...
What would change if your inner critic had a microphone and your best friend could hear every word? We put that scenario to work and build a practical way to answer harsh self-talk with grounded compassion. Instead of arguing with the critic or pretending it isn't there, we slow down, test its claims, and invite the voice of a true friend to sit at the table with us.We start by imagining our most judgmental thoughts broadcast aloud, then ask a simple question: how would a caring friend respond? That shift unlocks clarity. Suddenly, “I'm incompetent” becomes “I made a mistake and I'm learning.” “I'm unworthy” turns into “I matter even when I miss the mark.” Along the way, we separate facts from exaggerations, replace sweeping labels with specific observations, and learn language that pairs honesty with warmth. This is not empty positivity; it is accurate compassion that acknowledges error without attacking identity.Then we flip the lens. Picture a friend speaking about themselves with the same cruelty. What would you say to them? Most of us instinctively challenge the lies, point to real strengths, and offer steps forward. We bring that same approach inward: write the critic's claim in one line, answer it like a friend in one paragraph, and list three pieces of evidence that support your competence, worth, or likability. The effect is cumulative—less shame, more energy for growth, and a steadier mind when challenges arise.By the end, you'll have a repeatable exercise to calm negative self-talk, build resilience, and strengthen self-trust. If this practice helps you breathe a little easier and stand a little taller, share it with someone who needs a kinder inner voice today. Subscribe, leave a review, and tell us: what would your best friend say to you right now?Support the showCertify To Teach Mindfulness: Certify.MindfulnessExercises.com Email: Sean@MindfulnessExercises.com Mindfulness Exercises with Sean Fargo is a practical, grounded mindfulness podcast for people who want meditation to actually help in real life. Hosted by Sean Fargo — a former Buddhist monk, mindfulness teacher, and founder of MindfulnessExercises.com — this podcast explores how mindfulness can support mental health, emotional regulation, trauma sensitivity, chronic pain, leadership, creativity, and meaningful work. Each episode offers a mix of: Practical mindfulness and meditation teachings Conversations with respected meditation teachers, clinicians, authors, and researchers Real-world insights for therapists, coaches, yoga teachers, educators, and caregivers Gentle reflections for anyone navigating stress, anxiety, burnout, grief, or change If you're interested in: Mindfulness meditation for everyday life Trauma-sensitive and compassion-based practices Teaching mindfulness in an authentic, non-performative way Deepening your own practice while supporting others …you're in the right place. Learn more at MindfulnessExercises.com.
What if the question “Do people really like me?” is less about others and more about how we meet ourselves? On day four of our inner critic series, we turn toward acceptance and likability with a grounded, practical approach that blends mindfulness, body awareness, and compassionate realism. Rather than debating the critic on its terms, we slow down, listen to the stories that surface in social spaces, and feel their imprint in the body—tight jaws, tense shoulders, or a breath that never quite lands.We walk through a brief guided practice designed to help you contact safety and support in the present moment. Feet on the floor, attention in the body, we gently test phrases like “I am likable,” “I accept myself,” and “There are people who genuinely like me,” noticing what resonates and where the critic objects. You'll learn to label the critic's voice without fusing with it, shift focus from arguments to sensations, and use those signals as data for kinder action. Along the way, we explore common triggers—work dynamics, friendship circles, and family roles—and sketch simple ways to prepare your nervous system before you step into those rooms.By the end, acceptance becomes a trainable skill rather than a verdict from the crowd. We highlight how to gather balanced evidence of real connection, set intentions that align with your values, and carry this awareness throughout your day and week. If you're ready to loosen the grip of self-doubt and show up with more ease and congruence, this session offers a calm, clear path forward. If this resonates, subscribe, share with a friend who could use it, and leave a review with one insight you're taking into your next conversation.Support the showCertify To Teach Mindfulness: Certify.MindfulnessExercises.com Email: Sean@MindfulnessExercises.com Mindfulness Exercises with Sean Fargo is a practical, grounded mindfulness podcast for people who want meditation to actually help in real life. Hosted by Sean Fargo — a former Buddhist monk, mindfulness teacher, and founder of MindfulnessExercises.com — this podcast explores how mindfulness can support mental health, emotional regulation, trauma sensitivity, chronic pain, leadership, creativity, and meaningful work. Each episode offers a mix of: Practical mindfulness and meditation teachings Conversations with respected meditation teachers, clinicians, authors, and researchers Real-world insights for therapists, coaches, yoga teachers, educators, and caregivers Gentle reflections for anyone navigating stress, anxiety, burnout, grief, or change If you're interested in: Mindfulness meditation for everyday life Trauma-sensitive and compassion-based practices Teaching mindfulness in an authentic, non-performative way Deepening your own practice while supporting others …you're in the right place. Learn more at MindfulnessExercises.com.
Do you feel like your own worst enemy? If you're a man who struggles with constant inner criticism and a mind that just won't give you a break, this video has two exercises that will really help you.
What if the voice that says “You're not a good person” isn't telling the truth, just repeating an old script? Today we take aim at the inner critic's favorite storyline—unworthiness—and replace it with clear seeing, honest accountability, and a steadier sense of worth.We start by naming where this story shows up most: pressure at work, tensions at home, friction in relationships, or those late-night existential doubts. Then we slow down with a brief guided practice—grounded posture, steady breath, and focused attention—that helps us notice what the critic says and what is actually happening. Instead of collapsing into shame, we examine intentions with care. Most of us don't act from one pure motive; we move from a mix of fear, hope, habit, and love. Recognizing that complexity lets us learn from missteps without branding ourselves as bad.From there, we reframe worth as something deeper than flawless performance. When worth is inherent, mistakes become information, not identity. That shift makes room for proportionate action: repair a conversation, clarify a boundary, or rest so you can show up with more care. We offer a simple mantra to keep handy when the critic spikes: “My intentions are sometimes complex, and I am worthy of love.” Use it to pause, breathe, and choose one small step that aligns with the kind of person you want to be.If you've been measuring your goodness by impossible standards, this session offers a kinder, more effective approach. You'll leave with practical mindfulness tools, language for mixed intentions, and a compassionate reminder that growth and dignity can live side by side. If this resonated, follow the show, share it with someone who needs a softer inner voice, and leave a review so others can find these practices too.Support the showCertify To Teach Mindfulness: Certify.MindfulnessExercises.com Email: Sean@MindfulnessExercises.com Mindfulness Exercises with Sean Fargo is a practical, grounded mindfulness podcast for people who want meditation to actually help in real life. Hosted by Sean Fargo — a former Buddhist monk, mindfulness teacher, and founder of MindfulnessExercises.com — this podcast explores how mindfulness can support mental health, emotional regulation, trauma sensitivity, chronic pain, leadership, creativity, and meaningful work. Each episode offers a mix of: Practical mindfulness and meditation teachings Conversations with respected meditation teachers, clinicians, authors, and researchers Real-world insights for therapists, coaches, yoga teachers, educators, and caregivers Gentle reflections for anyone navigating stress, anxiety, burnout, grief, or change If you're interested in: Mindfulness meditation for everyday life Trauma-sensitive and compassion-based practices Teaching mindfulness in an authentic, non-performative way Deepening your own practice while supporting others …you're in the right place. Learn more at MindfulnessExercises.com.
What if the very thing people told you was “too much” about you was actually your greatest gift?In this soulful conversation, Wendy talks with Oneika Mays — meditation teacher, storyteller, and author — about what it really means to bet on yourself in midlife. Oneika shares how she moved from 20 years as a bookseller to teaching mindfulness (including groundbreaking work at Rikers Island), and how grief ultimately gave her the permission to pursue her lifelong dream of writing.At 54, Oneika is stepping fully into a creative life — with a debut book on the way and a TV pilot already winning awards. Her story is a powerful reminder that reinvention is not one bold leap, but a series of brave choices to trust yourself again and again.If you've ever been told you're “too much,” this episode is for you.What you'll hear in this episode
Do you take things personally?It's a hard pattern to break as, of course, our lives are our personal responsibility, and when we engage with others and the world. When we take things personally that are not personal, we suffer.Do you get offended easily?Do your feelings get hurt easily?Do you struggle with insecurities that you will not be chosen?Taking things personally serves to perpetuate the fears that we are unworthy and that we need validation of our worth from the external world.It's a trap.Free yourself! Thanks for listening! Follow leah on IG, FB & TK @leahthemodernsage for more!
If you've done the work—therapy, healing, insight—and still feel stuck in the same emotional patterns, this episode is for you. I'm unpacking the biggest misunderstanding in personal growth: that life improves when you fix yourself, rather than when you see clearly what's been shaping your experience of it. We'll explore how the Inner Critic organizes your reality, why your nervous system reacts as if the past is still happening, and how the belief "something is wrong with me" quietly drives stress, control, and bracing. ✨ Tune in to learn how to shift the lens you're living through, loosen the grip of fear-based identity, and meet life from your Authentic Self—where nothing needs to be fixed for things to finally feel different. Your weekly reflection questions: Where in my life am I still trying to fix circumstances, rather than noticing the lens through which I'm experiencing them? When something feels stressful or triggering, what interpretation is my Inner Critic offering—and how does my body respond to believing it? What might become possible if I stopped organizing my life around protection and allowed my Authentic Self to respond instead?
Ever catch your mind declaring you incompetent after a single slip. We go straight to the heart of that voice and gently dismantle its all or nothing rules with a short, steadying practice you can repeat anytime. Instead of debating the critic, we map its favorite phrases, notice how it lands in the body, and build a kinder, truer standard for competence that leaves room for learning.We start by naming the core question the critic attacks—am I competent—and get specific about where it shows up: presentations, parenting, creative work, or decisions under pressure. Then we set up a simple posture that feels relaxed and alert, soften the jaw and shoulders, and follow the breath. When the mind wanders and the inner critic jumps in, we label it and return to the breath without drama. That move from judgment to observation trains the nervous system to settle rather than spiral. Along the way, we explore how criticism feels physically—tight chest, closed throat, fluttering belly—and how meeting those sensations with patience builds resilience.To anchor a new narrative, we add a compassionate phrase: I will make mistakes and that's okay; everyone makes mistakes. From there, we shift into constructive action: one small step that proves capability in real time. This episode blends mindfulness, self-compassion, and practical coaching so you can interrupt perfectionism, reduce cognitive distortions, and reclaim a grounded sense of competence at work, at home, and in creative projects. If the inner critic has been loud lately, this is your daily reset—simple, repeatable, and honest.If this resonated, tap follow, share it with someone who needs a gentler standard today, and leave a quick review to help others find the show.Support the showCertify To Teach Mindfulness: Certify.MindfulnessExercises.com Email: Sean@MindfulnessExercises.com Mindfulness Exercises with Sean Fargo is a practical, grounded mindfulness podcast for people who want meditation to actually help in real life. Hosted by Sean Fargo — a former Buddhist monk, mindfulness teacher, and founder of MindfulnessExercises.com — this podcast explores how mindfulness can support mental health, emotional regulation, trauma sensitivity, chronic pain, leadership, creativity, and meaningful work. Each episode offers a mix of: Practical mindfulness and meditation teachings Conversations with respected meditation teachers, clinicians, authors, and researchers Real-world insights for therapists, coaches, yoga teachers, educators, and caregivers Gentle reflections for anyone navigating stress, anxiety, burnout, grief, or change If you're interested in: Mindfulness meditation for everyday life Trauma-sensitive and compassion-based practices Teaching mindfulness in an authentic, non-performative way Deepening your own practice while supporting others …you're in the right place. Learn more at MindfulnessExercises.com.
Ever notice how the harshest voice in the room lives in your own head? We kick off a seven-day journey to name that voice, understand what it targets, and learn how to meet it with mindfulness instead of fear. Drawing on years of teaching and monastic practice, Sean Fargo offers a simple framework that turns vague self-judgment into something you can observe, question, and gently transform.We break the inner critic into three clear identity targets: competence, goodness and worthiness of care, and acceptability or likability. By naming these patterns, you'll see exactly where the sting lands and why certain moments trigger spirals of perfectionism, shame, or people-pleasing. Sean walks you through a brief, accessible practice: settle the body, soften the breath, and ask three focused questions—Am I competent? Am I a good person or worthy of care? Am I acceptable or likable? As you notice which question activates a stronger reaction, you gain a compass for the work ahead.From there, we connect insight to action. If competence anxiety shows up, choose one concrete step toward skill-building or a clear “good enough” boundary. If worthiness feels tender, practice self-compassion to rebuild trust from the inside out. If acceptability is the hot spot, map supportive relationships and practice small, honest bids for connection. Throughout, mindfulness remains the anchor—grounding attention in the body so you can respond with clarity rather than habit.This is a short, focused start designed to shift your relationship with self-criticism in real time. Join us, try the guided prompts, and mark which identity needs the most care so tomorrow's practice can meet you where you are. If this helps, subscribe, share with a friend who could use a kinder inner voice, and leave a review to let us know which question revealed the biggest insight.Support the showCertify To Teach Mindfulness: Certify.MindfulnessExercises.com Email: Sean@MindfulnessExercises.com Mindfulness Exercises with Sean Fargo is a practical, grounded mindfulness podcast for people who want meditation to actually help in real life. Hosted by Sean Fargo — a former Buddhist monk, mindfulness teacher, and founder of MindfulnessExercises.com — this podcast explores how mindfulness can support mental health, emotional regulation, trauma sensitivity, chronic pain, leadership, creativity, and meaningful work. Each episode offers a mix of: Practical mindfulness and meditation teachings Conversations with respected meditation teachers, clinicians, authors, and researchers Real-world insights for therapists, coaches, yoga teachers, educators, and caregivers Gentle reflections for anyone navigating stress, anxiety, burnout, grief, or change If you're interested in: Mindfulness meditation for everyday life Trauma-sensitive and compassion-based practices Teaching mindfulness in an authentic, non-performative way Deepening your own practice while supporting others …you're in the right place. Learn more at MindfulnessExercises.com.
In this episode, we are joined by Parenting Coach Randi Crawford to explore how to shatter the internal narratives that keep high-achieving women stuck in a cycle of over-responsibility and self-doubt. Randi reveals how the most important relationship you will ever have is the one with yourself and provides the tools to move your Inner Critic from the driver's seat to the backseat.Tune in to learn:How to master the internal dialogue that keeps you small and over-responsible so you can lead with unshakeable conviction in every room you enter.The secrets to breaking the good girl narrative that demands you rescue everyone else at the expense of your own peace and presence.Why true confidence comes from personal competence rather than external validation, and how to reclaim the space you've been giving away to others.Practical ways to name your critic to reduce its power and how to use a 10-second pause before jumping in to solve problems that aren't yours to own.It is time to trade performing success for owning your worth and step into a new season of personal authority. Free Gift: 30-Minute Parent Power Play SessionThis session designed to help you communicate clearly, stay calm, and parent from strength instead of stress. You'll also receive Randi's one-page Pickleball Parenting Cheat Sheet with the tools she teaches every mom who wants a more connected relationship with her teen or young adult. This offer gives you clarity, confidence, and a new approach you can use immediately.Randi's Giveaway Contribution: Moment of Calm GiftGive yourself the gift of a daily ritual and a moment of calm. Enter to win an Anthropologie Capri Blue Candle and Mug set, a beautiful reminder to slow down and pause before jumping into over-functioning mode. This prize serves as a symbol that you have exactly what it takes to lead with authority—now let's go!Connect with Randi: Website | Instagram---Enter the Book Launch Celebration Giveaway!
In this episode, we're joined by M.Ed, Master Life Coach, and IFS Practitioner Andrea Tessier to explore how the next-level version of you is already inside—she is just crowded by protective parts. Andrea introduces the power of Internal Family Systems (IFS) to help you build unshakeable self-trust and step into a model of liberated leadership.Tune in to learn:How to identify and unblend from the protective sub-personalities—like the perfectionist, inner judge, and people-pleaser—that create hesitation in your leadership.The secrets to navigating the cycle of self-doubt and over-responsibility by shifting from generic external roadmaps to your own internal guidance.Practical ways to use the power tool of unblending to regain your agency and create space for compassionate self-leadership when you feel internal resistance.How to lead from your wise, calm core to make bold decisions and step into your authority with grace and courage.By learning to navigate your internal world with compassion, you unlock the ability to lead your business and life from a place of deep alignment.Free Gift: Self-Trust Starter KitThe Self-Trust Starter Kit is a powerful introduction to Internal Family Systems (IFS) and shows you how to understand the parts of you that create self-doubt, hesitation, and overthinking. Inside, you'll learn how to work with these protective patterns so you can build genuine, embodied self-trust from the inside out. If you're ready to make confident decisions, honour your inner wisdom, and lead yourself with clarity, this guide will show you where to begin.Andrea's Giveaway Contribution: IFS Coaching Experience 90-minute IFS Coaching Experience—a deep, personalized session designed to help you understand the parts driving your patterns and reconnect with the clarity of your Self. Together, we'll explore what's been blocking your confidence and map out a customized path forward so you can lead yourself with greater ease, alignment, and conviction. You'll walk away with a personalized roadmap and a renewed sense of inner authority (Valued at $500!).Connect with Andrea: Website | Instagram---Enter the Book Launch Celebration Giveaway!
When “Keep Going” Becomes Survival: How to Stop the Inner Critic as a Homeschool Mom If you’ve been wondering how to stop the inner critic as a homeschool mom, this episode will show you why that voice is so loud—and where it actually came from. This month’s focus: Nurturing the Nurturer — because the voice telling you you’re not enough didn’t start with homeschooling. It started long before. And it’s running your days more than you realize. I was eight months pregnant, in relentless pain, watching my support system shift beneath me—and I told myself to just keep going. Years later, on a chaotic Monday morning with four kids and cold coffee, I was still saying the same thing. What I didn’t know then was that I wasn’t being strong. I was surviving a pattern I’d learned as a child—one that many homeschool moms are still living without realizing it. In this episode, I’m sharing two personal stories that finally helped me see: the inner narratives I developed in childhood to survive chaos were now shaping how I showed up as a homeschool mom. And they were costing me connection—with myself, my kids, and the life I actually wanted. What You’ll Discover in This Episode The Inheritance You Didn’t Ask For: How childhood survival patterns show up in your homeschool life Why “keep going” isn’t strength—it’s often unprocessed survival The hidden cost of white-knuckling through motherhood What it means to lead from alignment instead of old scripts Two Stories, One Pattern: Being eight months pregnant: contractions, exhaustion, feeling abandoned—and the belief that stopping meant failing A Monday morning in slump month: foggy, irritable, yelling at the kids, and realizing the loud voice wasn’t just theirs—it was mine How these moments, years apart, were connected by the same inherited narrative The Inner Critic You Don’t Realize Is Running the Show: “If I stop, everything falls apart” “I should be able to do this” “Other moms handle this better” “If I rest, I’m letting everyone down” How to Stop the Inner Critic as a Homeschool Mom: Recognizing that mistakes are just mistakes—you can repair Understanding that your worth isn’t found in hustling or proving yourself Building a firmer inner connection so you can lead from intention, not pressure Moving from reaction to response—aligned from the inside out The Truth About the Inner Critic Learning how to stop the inner critic as a homeschool mom isn’t about positive thinking or trying harder. It’s about seeing the pattern clearly—and choosing something different. Your kids don’t need you to be perfect. They need you to show up as yourself—fully, imperfectly, and grounded. But when the inner critic is running the show, you’re not leading from presence. You’re reacting from an old story that was never yours to begin with. And that story? It didn’t come from homeschooling. It came from somewhere earlier. Somewhere deeper. Until you see it clearly, it’s going to keep driving your days. Coming This Week on the Confident Homeschool Life YouTube Channel: “The Inner Critic Pattern So Many Homeschool Moms Don’t Realize They’re In” “18 Things Homeschool Moms Say to Themselves (That They’d Never Say to a Friend)” How you talk to yourself REALLY matters. So you’ll definitely want to catch those on YouTube. Join the Calm the Inner Critic Workshop Ready to go deeper and learn how to stop the inner critic as a homeschool mom?This month, I’m hosting a workshop to help you see what’s been driving you—and choose something different. Not to fix yourself. But to untangle the overwhelm and stop reacting from inherited survival mode. So you can lead your homeschool life from a place that actually feels like you—with presence, calm, and clarity. Free Resource: Book Your Aligned Homeschool Reset Session If you’re ready to untangle the overwhelm and build a homeschool life that actually fits you, I have an opening on Friday for a free Aligned Homeschool Reset session. Want more support? 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When self-criticism ramps up during eating disorder recovery, it can feel confusing or discouraging, especially when behaviors are beginning to change. This episode explores why that intensification is often part of the healing process rather than a sign that recovery is going wrong. In this solo episode, Dr. Marianne Miller explains why the inner critical voice often gets louder as eating disorder behaviors decrease and familiar control systems loosen. Instead of framing self-criticism as simply negative self-talk, this episode examines it as a regulatory strategy shaped by nervous system threat, social pressure, and internalized ableism. Internalized Ableism in Eating Disorder Recovery Recovery often collides with a world that expects bodies and minds to function efficiently, consistently, and quietly. In this section, Dr. Marianne names how those expectations become internalized as harsh self-judgment, especially for neurodivergent people, people with chronic illness, and those navigating long-term eating disorders. You'll hear how internalized ableism fuels self-criticism when recovery requires pacing, support, repetition, or accommodation, and why needing these supports does not mean recovery is failing. The Inner Critic and Nervous System Threat Many people try to argue with or silence self-critical thoughts in recovery. This episode explains why that approach often backfires and intensifies the inner voice instead. Dr. Marianne explores how the inner critic functions as a response to perceived threat and why understanding its role is more effective than trying to eliminate it. Responding to Self-Criticism Without Shame This episode offers compassionate, neurodivergent-affirming ways to respond to self-criticism without turning recovery into another performance. The focus is on reducing threat, supporting regulation, and loosening the critic's authority rather than suppressing it. A brief clinical vignette illustrates how self-criticism rooted in internalized ableism can show up even when healing is actively underway. Nonlinear Eating Disorder Recovery For people with long-term or chronic eating disorders, progress often looks different than expected. This section reframes recovery as a process that prioritizes safety, accommodation, and sustainability over efficiency or perfection. Loud self-criticism does not mean failure. It often signals that a system is reorganizing in response to change. A Gentle Reminder Recovery is not about proving you can function the way the world demands. It is about building a life that supports your nervous system, your needs, and your humanity. Related Episodes This Is Body Grief: How Ableism, Intersectionality, & Eating Disorders Shape Our Body Experiences With Jayne Mattingly on Apple & Spotify. Size Inclusivity & Ableism: Why Body Acceptance is More Than Just "Loving Your Curves" on Apple & Spotify. Ableism and Common Myths About Diabetes with Kim Rose, RD @the.bloodsurgar.nutritionist on Apple & Spotify. Work With Me and Learn More If this episode resonated and you want structured, neurodivergent-affirming support, you can learn more about my self-paced ARFID course. The course is designed for teens and adults navigating avoidant and restrictive eating patterns and focuses on sensory needs, nervous system safety, and realistic, sustainable change without shame or pressure.
If you notice yourself tightening just as life begins to open—overthinking what should be next, bracing for the other shoe to drop, or needing certainty before you let yourself move—this episode is for you. I'm unpacking why expansion often activates the same survival-based identity that once kept you safe, and how that fear-driven system can quietly run the show even when things are objectively going well. We'll explore how the Inner Critic disguises control as responsibility, why your nervous system reacts before your mind has time to catch up, and how old identities shape what you call "realistic," "wise," or "safe." ✨ Tune in to learn how to recognize when fear—not truth—is driving your decisions, reconnect with the grounded wisdom of your Authentic Self, and begin choosing from alignment instead of anxiety—so growth doesn't require bracing, only presence, trust, and the capacity to stay with what's unfolding. Your weekly reflection questions: Where in my life am I labeling myself as "stuck" instead of recognizing that I'm in the sacred in-between of shedding an old identity? What roles, patterns, or versions of me am I still gripping for safety—even though I can feel they no longer fit who I'm becoming? If I stayed present with this discomfort instead of trying to fix it, what guidance might my Authentic Self be quietly offering me right now?
It's Chapter Six of the Bhagavad Gita, where everything starts to get real. After five chapters of philosophy and frameworks, Krishna now turns to practice—specifically the challenges of meditation, discipline, and staying steady on your spiritual path. If your mind feels too restless to meditate... if you wonder whether your practice actually counts... or if you've ever feared you're "doing it wrong"—this chapter will soothe your soul.
n this video, I share the embodied shift that finally changed everything for me ....moving from the drama triangle (victim, persecutor, rescuer) into the empowerment triangle (creator, challenger, coach). 0:47 Get Out Of Drama Triangle 03:09 Choose Empowerment triangle instead This isn't mindset work. This is nervous system healing. When your nervous system is wired for criticism, shame, and chaos, it will keep recreating those dynamics internally ... even when the parent is gone. You'll learn: • Why the critical parent voice lives in your body, not just your thoughts • How unhealthy masculine & feminine energies keep you stuck • How to embody the healthy challenger and coach instead • How to turn down the volume on shame — for good
How do you quieten the judgmental voice in your head? Educator and entrepreneur Anu Gupta suggests you actually listen to it.Anu joins Chris to discuss the effects of human biases on our psyche and how to combat self-destructive habits by swapping out harmful emotions with constructive thoughts. They also talk about how individuals, when they come together, can create a society that is anchored around a loving, not critical, culture. Host & GuestChris Duffy (Instagram: @chrisiduffy | https://chrisduffycomedy.com/)Anu Gupta (Instagram: @anuguptany | Website: https://www.anuguptany.com/) LinksHumor Me by Chris Duffy: https://t.ted.com/ZGuYfcLhttps://www.bemorewithanu.com/Follow TED! X: https://www.twitter.com/TEDTalksInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/tedFacebook: https://facebook.com/TEDLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/ted-conferencesTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@tedtoks Podcasts: https://www.ted.com/podcastsFor the full text transcript, visit go.ted.com/BHTranscriptsLearn more about our flagship conference happening this April at attend.ted.com/podcast Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
A conversation with celebrated author George Saunders about his new novel, Vigil, and what fiction can teach us about empathy, self-awareness, and mortality. George Saunders is the bestselling, award-winning author of Lincoln in the Bardo, Tenth of December, and many other books. His new novel, Vigil, tells the story of a woman who died in 1976 and has spent the decades since comforting the dying—until she encounters a former oil executive responsible for early climate change denial. In this conversation, Dan and George talk about: Why George keeps writing about ghosts and the afterlife (hint: it's not just about mortality dread) The lavish empathy at the heart of Vigil—and whether we should extend that empathy even to people doing civilizational damage What George calls "warm metacognition"—the practice of dropping back out of your thought loops to examine what kind of goggles you're wearing How fiction can turn your mind into a "reconsideration machine" (and why that matters in real life) The difference between kindness and niceness George's relationship with death anxiety, which he's had since childhood and which has only intensified with age What George has learned about listening from teaching and hosting his Substack, Story Club Why the older he gets, the more important it is to stretch himself creatively His advice for dealing with stuckness (in writing and in life): curiosity over self-accusation George's new novel Vigil is out January 27th from Random House. Check out his Substack, Story Club, where he discusses classic short stories with an incredibly thoughtful community. Related Episodes: George Saunders on "Holy Befuddlement" and How to Be Less of a "Turd" Get the 10% with Dan Harris app here Sign up for Dan's free newsletter here Follow Dan on social: Instagram, TikTok Subscribe to our YouTube Channel To advertise on the show, contact sales@advertisecast.com or visit https://advertising.libsyn.com/10HappierwithDanHarris
If you notice yourself tightening just as things begin to flow—overthinking the next step, scanning for what could go wrong, or needing reassurance before you let yourself move—this episode is for you. I'm unpacking why we so often try to create expansion from the same survival-based identity that once kept us safe, and how that fear-driven system can quietly limit us even when life is objectively going well. We'll explore how the Inner Critic frames control as responsibility, why your nervous system reacts faster than your thoughts, and how old patterns shape what you label as "realistic," "smart," or "safe." ✨ Tune in to learn how to spot when fear is driving the decisions, reconnect with the steady wisdom of your Authentic Self, and start choosing from alignment instead of anxiety—so life doesn't need to be controlled, only experienced with presence, trust, and grounded clarity. Your weekly reflection questions: Where am I saying "have to," and what happens if I shift to "get to"? Is this push (proving) or pull (calling) motivation? If I feel numb, what would reconnect me to meaning today?
What if the key to making new healthy habits stick wasn't discipline or self-control... but compassion?This episode wraps up our 4-part behavior change series with the neuroscience of self-compassion and a proven 3-step process to help you transform habits from the inside out.What to Listen For:[03:00] The 3 things your brain actually needs to create lasting change[04:30] Why fighting your thoughts triggers your stress response[06:00] What part of your brain the “elephant” lives in—and why logic won't work there[07:30] Why tiny habits feel safer to your brain (and work better)[10:00] The surprising way self-criticism mimics physical danger[11:00] How self-compassion activates your “rest and digest” system[12:00] Amy's 3-step process to redirect “elephant” thoughts (instead of arguing with them)[15:00] The identity-based shift that changes everything[20:00] Questions to ask yourself that keep you aligned with your future self[22:00] Common hidden identities that sabotage progress—like “I'm an emotional eater” or “I'm not athletic”[24:00] The invisible influence of self-labels on habit formation and behavior[25:30] How to gently reframe your identity[00:27:00] How repetition and identity come together to make habits automatic (without pressure or shame)Change doesn't happen through pressure—but it can happen under the right conditions. This episode offers a practical, neuroscience-backed way to shift your habits by honoring your needs and rewiring your brain one kind thought at a time.Ready to become the woman you want to be? Tune in, subscribe to the podcast, and don't forget to check out the earlier episodes in this series for a full foundation.RESOURCES: Book a FREE Discovery Call with Amy Lang Order Amy's book Thoughts Are Habits Too: Master Your Triggers, Free Yourself From Diet Culture, and Rediscover Joyful Eating. Follow Amy on Instagram @habitwhisperer Follow Amy on Facebook @amylangcoaching
Send us a textIf you've ever tried to silence your inner critic by sheer willpower, only to end up overwhelmed, anxious, or spiraling into imposter syndrome, this episode is for you.This week, Angela and Sami unpack the truth about the inner critic. Spoiler alert: it's not about getting rid of it. In fact, trying to push that voice away can sometimes make it come back louder and stronger. So instead of firing your inner critic, what if you gave it a new job?In this honest and insightful conversation, they explore how the inner critic actually forms as a protection mechanism, how to recognize when it's driving your decisions, and how to reframe your relationship with it. You'll learn how to stop letting fear and self-doubt take the wheel without swinging into toxic positivity or avoidance.Plus, you'll hear why Angela thinks of her inner world like a nonprofit boardroom (complete with term limits), how Sami gives a voice to the quieter parts of herself, and why both believe your eight-year-old and your 80-year-old selves should absolutely have a seat at the table.Key takeaways from this episode:What the inner critic really is and why it shows up when you try to growWhy suppressing self-doubt often backfires and leads to panic or burnoutHow to invite other helpful voices into your mental space, not just the loudest oneA powerful mental exercise to identify the "board members" in your mindThe difference between resisting the inner critic and reframing its roleWhy having compassion for all parts of yourself is crucial for personal growthThis episode is packed with mindset wisdom, real-life examples, and practical tools to help you shift from self-criticism to self-leadership. Whether you're chasing a dream, stepping into something new, or just trying to quiet the noise in your head, this conversation will give you a fresh perspective on what it really means to be mentally strong and emotionally safe.Listen in and start making peace with your inner critic, so you can take the next step toward being freaking awesome.Order Traveling Light wherever you get your books!Sign up at bfreakingawesome.com to get the latest news, insights, and episodes straight to your inbox.Follow Be Freaking Awesome on Facebook, LinkedIn, Youtube, and Instagram.Let us know what questions you want to be answered and discussed by emailing us at podcast@bfreakingawesome.com.
If you find yourself overthinking, planning, or tightening your grip just as life starts to open—needing certainty before you move, proof before you trust—this episode is for you. I'm unpacking why so many of us try to build a better life using the same fear-based identity that learned to stay safe by controlling outcomes, and why that system quietly keeps us stuck even when things are "going right." We'll explore how the Inner Critic disguises protection as logic, why your body reacts before your mind can explain what's happening, and how old nervous-system programming shapes what you believe is practical, responsible, or possible. ✨ Tune in to learn how to recognize when fear is running the map, reconnect with the quiet guidance of your Authentic Self, and begin making choices from alignment instead of anxiety—so life doesn't have to be managed, only met with trust, presence, and grounded clarity. Your weekly reflection questions: In this moment, am I making this choice to stay safe and in control—or to stay aligned with what feels quietly true? What sensations does my body offer me right now, and what guidance might I be ignoring because it doesn't come with proof or certainty? If my outer world is reflecting the identity I'm living from, what belief about myself is being mirrored back to me today?
What if imposter syndrome is actually a sign you're on the right track?Unpacks how feeling like a fraud often comes from being new, not being unqualifiedExplains why ethical, self-aware people are more likely to struggle with imposter syndromeShares personal stories from early speaking gigs and coaching experiencesHighlights how novelty in your environment can trigger doubt, even if your skill set is solidOffers a powerful reframe to help you move forward without waiting for external validationLinks:
If you've ever said “I deserve a treat” or “I'll start on Monday,” this episode is for you.In Part 3 of this series on why you keep getting stuck, master health coach Amy Lang reveals the hidden triggers most habit frameworks miss that lead to self-sabotage.
In this empowering episode of the Dead America Podcast, host Ed Watters sits down with Jacquie Elliot—certified life, relationship, and spiritual coach—to explore her groundbreaking system for overcoming negative self talk, known as Abusive Brain Chatter (ABC). Jacquie opens up about her own journey through emotional abuse, self doubt, and the relentless inner critic that once controlled her life. Her transformation became the foundation for her upcoming book, The Silent Bully: A Journey from Abusive Brain Chatter to Self Love, releasing this November. Jacquie breaks down the ABC method—Awareness, Belief, and Challenge—a powerful framework designed to help individuals recognize harmful inner dialogue, understand the core beliefs driving it, and challenge those patterns with compassion and truth. Through heartfelt storytelling and practical guidance, she shows how anyone can shift from self judgment to self love. Listeners will gain insight into: • What Abusive Brain Chatter is and how it forms • How negative self talk fuels unhealthy behaviors and emotional pain • The ABC method for transforming inner dialogue • Jacquie's personal journey from self criticism to empowerment • Practical steps for healing, boundary setting, and living authentically • How to embrace self worth and silence the inner bully This episode is a must listen for anyone struggling with self doubt, emotional wounds, or the weight of an overactive inner critic. Jacquie's wisdom offers a path toward peace, confidence, and genuine self love. Her message is clear: you are enough, just as you are. Keywords: Jacquie Elliot, Abusive Brain Chatter, ABC method, The Silent Bully, self love, negative self talk, emotional healing, inner critic, life coach, spiritual coach, relationship coach, personal transformation, self worth, boundary setting, Dead America Podcast, Ed Watters. 00:00 Introduction: Awakening Hearts 00:45 Meet Jacquie Elliot: Life Coach and Author 02:52 Understanding Abusive Brain Chatter 06:08 The ABCs of Overcoming Negative Self-Talk 11:24 Jacquie's Personal Journey and Transformation 18:03 Practical Steps to Self-Love and Healing 24:33 Living Authentically and Setting Boundaries 42:21 Final Thoughts and Resources 44:27 Empowering Outro: You Are Enough Website https://healingabc.com Social media links https://linktr.ee/jacquieelliott
Send us a textHave you ever looked at your prices, your content, or an opportunity and thought, “Who am I to charge that?”That quiet “not enough” voice doesn't sound dramatic — it sounds responsible. But it's often the very thing keeping mom entrepreneurs underpaid, overdelivering, and stuck in hesitation.In this solo episode, Angela breaks down how self-doubt shows up in subtle ways, why it's so common for moms in business, and how it quietly impacts your income. You'll learn how to build awareness around that inner narrative, reframe it in real time, and take one confidence-building action that actually moves the needle.This episode is especially for you if you know you offer real value… but still feel hesitant to charge more, show up boldly, or fully trust yourself.In this episode, you'll learn:Why the “not enough” voice feels responsible but costs you moneyHow self-doubt shows up as undercharging, overdelivering, and waiting to feel “ready”A simple way to reframe fear without trying to eliminate itHow to build self-trust through small, courageous actionsOne confidence action you can take today to interrupt the patternYou don't need to be more qualified. You don't need to fix yourself. You just need to stop letting fear make the decisions in your business.
Plus, much more from the famed late-night TV show show. Seth Meyers is the host of Late Night with Seth Meyers. Before that, he was a cast member on Saturday Night Live for 13 seasons. In recent years he has released two standup specials: Lobby Baby, on Netflix and Dad Man Walking, on HBO. He wrote a children's book called, I'm Not Scared, You're Scared. And he co-hosts two podcasts, Family Trips with the Meyers Brothers and The Lonely Island and Seth Meyers Podcast. In this episode we talk about: How Seth maintains sanity while hosting a late-night show amid the firehose of news Joy and humor as resilience His early struggles with self-doubt How raising children is potentially harder than hosting a late night TV show The upside of anxiety The art of listening Friendship, loyalty, and the emotional sustenance of creative partnerships. Get the 10% with Dan Harris app here Sign up for Dan's free newsletter here Follow Dan on social: Instagram, TikTok Subscribe to our YouTube Channel To advertise on the show, contact sales@advertisecast.com or visit https://advertising.libsyn.com/10HappierwithDanHarris Thanks to our sponsors: LinkedIn: Spend $250 on your first campaign on LinkedIn ads and get a $250 credit for the next one. Just go to linkedin.com/happier. Wix: Ready to create your website? Go to wix.com. Cozy Earth: Head to cozyearth.com and use code Harris for up to 20% off.
If you notice yourself tightening just as things begin to go well—waiting for the collapse instead of allowing yourself to receive—this episode is for you. I'm unpacking why growth often feels more destabilizing than struggle, not because you're doing anything wrong, but because your nervous system reads unfamiliar safety as a threat and pulls you back toward the identity that once kept you safe. We'll explore how the Inner Critic frames vigilance as wisdom, why your body prepares for loss before joy has time to settle, and how old survival patterns quietly shape what you believe is "realistic" or possible. ✨ Tune in to learn how to stop confusing fear with intuition, gently disengage from the identity built around bracing, and move forward with clarity, self-trust, and grounded courage—one regulated, conscious choice at a time. Your weekly reflection questions: Where in my life am I mistaking familiar emotional patterns or circumstances for truth about who I am or what's possible? When my Inner Critic interprets my current reality, what past version of me is it trying to keep alive—and what might my Authentic Self see instead? If my life is reflecting who I've been rather than who I'm becoming, who am I choosing to live from today—memory or presence?
Get Sam's top 7 books for entrepreneurs (+ his reading strategy): https://clickhubspot.com/gds Episode 784: Sam Parr ( https://x.com/theSamParr ) sits down with David Senra ( https://x.com/FoundersPodcast ) to talk about greatness, balance and what destroys successful people. Show Notes: (0:00) Intro (1:22) Balance is the enemy of greatness (9:13) How to remember what you learn (17:10) Revenge for Being Born & Reframing the Inner Critic (26:40) Success, Relationships, and What Destroys Great People (30:55) Advice for 19-Year-Olds (34:42) David's ideal board of advisors (39:20) Don't Do Anything Someone Else Can Do (44:05) what successful people really think about at the end (48:30) Compounding wisdom — Links: • Founders Podcast - https://www.youtube.com/@founderspodcast1 — Check Out Shaan's Stuff: • Shaan's weekly email - https://www.shaanpuri.com • Visit https://www.somewhere.com/mfm to hire worldwide talent like Shaan and get $500 off for being an MFM listener. Hire developers, assistants, marketing pros, sales teams and more for 80% less than US equivalents. • Mercury - Need a bank for your company? Go check out Mercury (mercury.com). Shaan uses it for all of his companies! Mercury is a financial technology company, not an FDIC-insured bank. Banking services provided by Choice Financial Group, Column, N.A., and Evolve Bank & Trust, Members FDIC — Check Out Sam's Stuff: • Hampton - https://www.joinhampton.com/ • Ideation Bootcamp - https://www.ideationbootcamp.co/ • Copy That - https://copythat.com • Hampton Wealth Survey - https://joinhampton.com/wealth • Sam's List - http://samslist.co/ My First Million is a HubSpot Original Podcast // Brought to you by HubSpot Media // Production by Arie Desormeaux // Editing by Ezra Bakker Trupiano /
How psychology and spirituality can work together. Amita Schmidt is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker in Hawaii. She has taught Vipassana meditation for over thirty years, and was the Resident Teacher at Insight Meditation Society for six years. She is the author of the book Dipa Ma: The Life and Legacy of a Buddhist Master. Amita currently teaches and practices non-dual meditation and is a certified IFS (Internal Family Systems) therapist. In this episode we talk about: How psychology and spirituality can work together The basics of Internal Family Systems (or IFS) Amita's personal path through trauma, depression, and a pivotal insight that changed everything Why states like depression aren't as solid as they feel How to work with the inner critic Simple ways to access the sanest, wisest version of yourself The shift from psychological healing to spiritual insight The value of acceptance and surrender Simple pointers for sensing "aware presence" beneath all the mental noise Related Episodes: How (and Why) to Hug Your Inner Dragons | Richard Schwartz How To Handle Your Demons | Richard Schwartz Additional resources: Amita on InsightTimer Amita on DharmaSeed Get the 10% with Dan Harris app here Sign up for Dan's free newsletter here Follow Dan on social: Instagram, TikTok Subscribe to our YouTube Channel To advertise on the show, contact sales@advertisecast.com or visit https://advertising.libsyn.com/10HappierwithDanHarris Thanks to our sponsor: LinkedIn: Spend $250 on your first campaign on LinkedIn ads and get a $250 credit for the next one. Just go to linkedin.com/happier.
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