Podcasts about Inner critic

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Episode Highlights With GeorgiaWhat the inner critic is and how it has gotten out of hand in the modern world Self esteem is something we are not born with, we have to develop itThe inner critic creates detachment and feelings of not being good enoughOur children pick up on the energy of our inner criticEveryone's inner critic is saying similar things and it doesn't go away but we can learn to tame itThe pleaser personalities and why this is more common in women and moms How these can lead to the tough inner question of who am I?Keep an emotional diary of what your inner critic is saying and write the opposite How we can pass these skills on to our kids and why starting earlier is betterWhat hypnosis is and how she uses it to help peopleHow to use self hypnosis to help address some of these core beliefs Why hypnosis is so effective and how to learn self hypnosisWhen you are in hypnosis, your brain really thinks you are there in that experience so it is a very powerful toolWith hypnosis, you don't have to go back into the memory or the past to healResources MentionedGeorgia's website - use code Katie001 for 25% off all progams (limited time!)Follow Georgia on Facebook, Instagram, and X.

The most toxic overload often comes from our own inner critic, feeding us doubts and harsh self-judgment. We'll practice consciously detaching from these limiting beliefs, replacing harsh narratives with compassionate acceptance. Learn to transform your inner voice into your most supportive and motivating ally. WELCOME TO THIS WEEK'S SERIES: Release Toxic Overload: 7-Days to Shed Your Stress Welcome to this week's meditation series! Think of this week as a gift to yourself. You're invited to give yourself the gift of vital health and well-being. You'll begin this week's series with a special interview with Dr. Kourosh Maddahi, a renowned integrative dentist, author, and speaker who specializes in helping people improve their microbiomes. You'll discover how to improve your mind-body connection that starts in your mouth. Dr. Maddahi also developed a collection of signature dental products called the Lumineux brand that supports a healthy microbiome. LUMINEUX DENTAL CARE PRODUCTS Restore balance to your microbiome. When your mouth's microbiome is healthy, diverse, and thriving, the rest of your body will be thriving too. Traditional oral care products strip your mouth of all bacteria, good and bad. Lumineux's gentle formulas neutralize the bad while protecting the good. Receive 15% off your first order by visiting LumineuxHealth.com.   Dr. MADDAHI'S BOOK "The Toxic Overload: The Truth About Your Body's Natural Defenses and How to Experience Whole-Body Health -- 30 Days to a Healthy Life"    DR. MADDAHI'S WEBSITE drmaddahi.com   DR. MADDAHI'S EMAIL drmaddahi@oralessentials.com This is day 5 of a 7-day meditation series, "Release Toxic Overload" episodes 2805-2811. YOUR WEEKLY CHALLENGE Go on a Healthy Living Quest! Release toxic products, thoughts, people, and situations from your life.  YOUR MEDITATION JOURNEY DURING THIS WEEK'S SERIES Day 1:  Identify mental clutter Day 2:  Affirmation: "Focus on Now." Day 3:  Healing Light Breath Day 4:  Apaan mudra to release toxins Day 5:  Second chakra for new opportunities Day 6:  Flow meditation combining the week's techniques Day 7:  Weekly review meditation and closure SHARE YOUR MEDITATION JOURNEY WITH YOUR FELLOW MEDITATORS Let's connect and inspire each other! Please share a little about how meditation has helped you by reaching out to me at Mary@SipandOm.com or better yet -- direct message me on https://www.instagram.com/sip.and.om. We'd love to hear about your meditation ritual!  WAYS TO SUPPORT THE DAILY MEDITATION PODCAST SUBSCRIBE so you don't miss a single episode. Consistency is the KEY to a successful meditation ritual. SHARE the podcast with someone who could use a little extra support. I'd be honored if you left me a podcast review. If you do, please email me at Mary@sipandom.com and let me know a little about yourself and how meditation has helped you. I'd love to share your journey to inspire fellow meditators on the podcast! All meditations are created by Mary Meckley and are her original content. Please request permission to use any of Mary's content by sending an email to Mary@sipandom.com. FOR DAILY EXTRA SUPPORT OUTSIDE THE PODCAST Each day's meditation techniques are shared at: sip.and.om Instagram https://www.instagram.com/sip.and.om/ sip and om Facebook https://www.facebook.com/SipandOm/ SIP AND OM MEDITATION APP Looking for a little more support? If you're ready for a more in-depth meditation experience, allow Mary to guide you in daily 30-minute guided meditations on the Sip and Om meditation app. Give it a whirl for 7-days free! Receive access to 2,000+ 30-minute guided meditations customized around a weekly theme to help you manage emotions. Receive a Clarity Journal and a Slow Down Guide customized for each weekly theme.  2-Week's Free Access on iOS https://itunes.apple.com/us/app/sip-and-om/id1216664612?platform=iphone&preserveScrollPosition=true#platform/iphone All meditations are created by Mary Meckley and are her original content. Please request permission to use any of Mary's content by sending an email to Mary@sipandom.com.Let go of repetitive negative thoughts. The beach waves were composed by Mike Koenig. Music composed by Christopher Lloyd Clark licensed by RoyaltyFreeMusic.com, and also by musician Greg Keller.

In this episode of the Dethroning Your Inner Critic Podcast, I'm diving into what it really takes to become the creator of your destiny. For so long, my Inner Critic kept me stuck in loops of doubt, overthinking, and the search for certainty—making me believe I needed proof before I could trust myself. But everything changed when I learned how to unhook from that old identity, stop feeding the noise, and embody the calm power of my Authentic Self. From that stillness, life began to reorganize itself in ways I could never have forced. ✨ If you've ever felt torn between the pull of your vision and the weight of your fear, this conversation will show you how to step into neutrality, trust, and freedom.   Your weekly reflection questions: Where am I letting my Inner Critic overrule the future self I say I'm becoming? If I acted today from the version of me who already has what I want, what one small decision would change? Which value am I living by right now—my Inner Critic's (control/approval) or my Authentic Self's (peace/purpose)—and how can I shift in this moment?  

In this heartfelt episode of Masks Off for People Pleasers and Perfectionists, Kim Gross, opens up about the realities of aging and how perfectionism can make this transition even harder.

Join my upcoming Mindset Breakthrough Program: https://www.vickibaird.com/mindset-breakthrough-sign-up Take the saboteurs assessment by visiting this link: https://www.positiveintelligence.com/saboteurs/   In this episode of Intuition: Your Success Compass, I challenge the whole idea of the “comfort zone” because goodness gracious, most of the time it's not really comfortable, it's just familiar. If you've ever felt stuck, hesitant, or like something is calling you forward but your brain hits the brakes, you're not alone. You may actually be human! We'll talk about why your inner critic (and your wiring) might label growth as danger, and how to reframe that fear as wisdom. I share personal stories, client examples, and actionable tips to help you move from self-doubt to aligned decision-making—one small, courageous step at a time. This episode is especially for the women in business (or dreaming of starting one) who are ready to expand consciously, not chaotically.

In this episode, Smith pulls apart the idea of high performance and why it looks completely different depending on who you are. You'll hear a simple but powerful framework for changing your relationship with your thoughts, how labels create beliefs that drive actions, and why breaking the cycle starts with awareness. There are insights into self-talk, belief systems, and even how ChatGPT can design your fitness plan - if you actually get off your arse and follow through. A-Game app - Launches Oct 2025 Designed to bring together coaching, courses, community, and events for men striving to perform at their best. It's "Everything A-Game!"  Get on the waitlist for the app here: https://agameapp.scoreapp.com/   Adam Smith From depressed and suicidal to the happiest and fittest he's ever been, Adam Smith's self-development journey hasn't been easy but it has been worth it. Today, he's a qualified mindset coach in neuro-linguistic programming (NLP) and a certified Time Line Therapist®. Adam has coached many high performers, using NLP to rewire his clients' thoughts and behaviours so they can destroy limiting beliefs and engineer the change needed to excel. Connect with Adam Smith: https://www.linkedin.com/in/adam-smith-high-performance-coach/ Adam Mayhew Adam Mayhew swapped burnout and binge drinking for ultra marathons, CrossFit and sobriety. A registered nutritional therapist specialising in performance nutrition, Adam supports everyone from office workers to athletes to build healthy eating habits. Using science (and never fad diets, quick fixes or gym bro culture) he helps clients target their problem areas and confidently master diet, training and lifestyle. Connect with Adam Mayhew: https://www.linkedin.com/in/adam-mayhew-nutrition-coaching/ To find out more about Smith & Mayhew: https://agameconsultancy.com/about/

We have a very special episode for you today! Chris coaches a brave soul live on our podcast. Kristen gets coached on unpacking perfectionism patterns that are driving her burnout and overwhelm and keeping her trapped in cycles of self-doubt. It's a rare honour to listen in on a very personal coaching session, so a big vthank you to Kristen for allowing us to publish this beautiful episode. And also give Kristen some virtual/energetic love and compassion, as you listen to this intimate conversation. You might even find yourself resonating with the struggles, beliefs and insights that come out of this conversation. And if your heart is resonating with our style of holistic ROOT-root-cause healing & you are DONE with band-aid approaches and “managing” your symptoms and you are ready for real and long-lasting solutions, join the waitlist for our Ending Body Burnout Method. Today's episode gives you a glimpse into our “metaphysical” side of healing, which we call “Spark”. Spark is a CRITICAL piece that is often missed in the health industry. It gets to the very root of body burnout, by identifying deep-seated beliefs and stories that are causing sickness, and keeping you stuck from healing. Essentially, the process dives deep into your brain, your nervous system and your unconscious mind, and rewires your healing abilities from within. You can find out more about this here. In today's episode, Chris coaches Kristen on: How perfectionism planted at age 4 from high-expectations, has this overwhelmed mum of three still chasing impossible standards Despite high distinctions in studies, she can't shake the core belief that she's "not worthy" and must work incredibly hard to prove her value How her brain is wired to find evidence of "not enough" everywhere, creating exhausting cycles of overwork and self-doubt Her biggest fear is disappointing her kids who might think "she could've done so much better" while desperately wanting to model healthy relationships The breakthrough solution is rewiring her brain to actively hunt for proof she's AMAZING and rescue her younger self Show Note Links: Apply to come on our podcast for a Live Root-Cause Coaching Session here Join the WAITLIST to our Ending Body Burnout Method here (doors open in NOW!) Take Chris & Filly's Ending Body Burnout Assessment here Check out how you can work with Chris & Filly Functional Medicine here Disclaimer: This Ending Body Burnout Show podcast and any information, advice, opinions or statements within it do not constitute medical, health care or other professional advice, and are provided for general information purposes only. All care is taken in the preparation of the information in this Podcast. Chris & Filly Functional Medicine does not make any representations or give any warranties about its accuracy, reliability, completeness or suitability for any particular purpose. This Podcast and any information, advice, opinions or statements within it are not to be used as a substitute for professional medical, psychology, psychiatric or other mental health care or natural medicine health care. Chris & Filly Functional Medicine recommends you seek the advice of your doctor or other qualified health providers with any questions you may have regarding a medical condition. Inform your doctor of any changes you may make to your lifestyle and discuss these with your doctor. Do not disregard medical advice or delay visiting a medical professional because of something you hear in this Podcast. To the extent permissible by law Chris & Filly Functional Medicine and the Ending Body Burnout Show Podcast will not be liable for any expenses, losses, damages (including indirect or consequential damages) or costs which might be incurred as a result of the information being inaccurate or incomplete in any way and for any reason. No part of this Podcast can be reproduced, redistributed, published, copied or duplicated in any form without the prior permission of Chris & Filly Functional Medicine.

On this deep-dive episode of Dawnversations, I sit down with Scott Doniger for part two of our Internal Family Systems/Parts Work series. We explore the different 'parts' we all carry—the Inner Critic, the Perfectionist, the Procrastinator, the Righteous One, and the People Pleaser—and uncover how they influence our thoughts, feelings, and actions.Scott brings clarity, insight, and practical guidance for understanding and working with these parts to create more self-compassion and inner harmony. This episode is longer than usual, but we go in-depth because some conversations just can't be rushed. If you've ever wondered why you sabotage yourself, procrastinate endlessly, or feel torn between competing impulses, this episode will give you a fresh perspective—and maybe even a plan for getting along with your inner committee.

Happiness is no coincidence. It's a choice, a formula, and according to Mo, even our birthright.In this first chapter, he takes us back to the essence: what happiness truly means, how expectations shape it, and why gratitude is such a powerful counterbalance. This conversation lays the foundation for everything that follows both personally and professionally. From Paris with WOW. We traveled to meet Mo Gawdat, former Chief Business Officer at Google X, international bestselling author of Solve for Happy, and the man behind the mission One Billion Happy.From one planned conversation in Paris with Mo came a four-part podcast on happiness, the mind, authenticity, and the art of letting go. Together with Mo, we explore his vision on happiness, the power and pitfalls of our thinking, the courage to stay authentic in a world shaped by AI, and the ultimate lesson: letting go.

In this episode, I'm sharing what really happens when you dethrone your Inner Critic—when the old identity built on fear, doubt, and constant striving finally loses its grip. For years, I lived with that background static of overthinking and chasing certainty, believing it was just who I was. But when I learned how to step into stillness and neutrality, everything shifted—my nervous system calmed, my peace deepened, and new possibilities began to emerge effortlessly.  ✨ If you've ever felt trapped in the noise of your Inner Critic and longed for a quieter, more powerful way to live, this conversation is for you—tune in and hear how you can access the same freedom.   Your weekly reflection questions: When my Inner Critic gets loud, what exact thoughts and body sensations show up—and what changes when I simply observe them instead of fixing them?   Where in my life am I still chasing certainty or external proof, and what would neutrality and self-trust look like in that same moment?   If I stopped feeding the old “noise” for just today, what small action or stillness practice would align me with my Authentic Self?  

In this podcast, Debra Kasowski shares how you can build unshakeable confidence and eliminate self-doubt. She recommends two things before you jump into building this foundation of confidence - stop comparing yourself to others and to be YOURSELF! Debra offers five tips and strategies for you to grow: Knowing your strengths, Embracing Failure as Feedback, Stepping Out of Your Comfort Zone, challenging your negative self-talk, silencing the Inner Critic, and developing new skills. Debra Kasowski is the charismatic podcast host of The Millionaire Woman Show, 3X Best Selling Author, Speaker, and Certified Executive Coach. She interviews incredible speakers, authors, CEO, Business and Organizational Leaders and drops solo episodes with tips, strategies, and techniques for your success. GET YOUR GIFT Sign up for our Success Secrets Newsletter and download your FREE 10-page PDF of Reset Your Mindset at www.debrakasowski.com. 1. Connect with Debra Kasowski on social media https://www.youtube.com/user/debrakasowski https://www.instagram.com/debrakasowski https://www.facebook.com/debrakasowskiinternational https://www.twitter.com/debrakasowski 2. SUBSCRIBE to The Millionaire Woman Show podcast on iTunes 3. PURCHASE Debra's books – Amazon, Barnes & Noble, and your favourite bookstore GPS Your Best Life – Debra Kasowski & Charmaine Hammond The Entrepreneurial Mom's Guide to Growing a Business, Raising a Family, and Creating a Life You Love Let's Be Curious: Ask the Right Questions, Get Better Answers, Create What You Want

In this episode, I sit down with one of my IFS mentors Chris Burris, LMFT, Senior Lead Trainer for the Internal Family Systems (IFS) Institute, to explore one of the most challenging and misunderstood aspects of our inner world: the inner critic. Chris shares his personal journey with IFS and how the model offers a radical permission to approach ourselves—and our parts—with more love, kindness, and curiosity. Together, we discuss: Why people are more than the behavior of their parts The nature of inner critic parts and why pushing them away doesn't work How cultural messages often teach us to fight or silence the inner critic, rather than befriend it Common “suck points” when working with critics in therapy The role of legacy burdens in shaping our inner critics What it means to carry the critical energy of others inside us The importance of following intuition in the healing process Practical exercises to begin befriending your inner critic on your own This conversation is both grounding and liberating, offering a compassionate reframe for anyone who struggles with self-judgment or harsh inner voices.   About Chris Burris: Chris Burris, M.Ed., LCMHCS, LMFT (he/him), is a Senior Lead Trainer for the Internal Family Systems Institute, providing Level II and III trainings worldwide. He has been an IFS Therapist since 1999 and a practicing psychotherapist since 1987. With a background in marriage and family therapy and a mind-body approach, Chris has worked extensively with individuals, couples, families, and groups. He is the author of Creating Healing Circles: Using the Internal Family Systems Model in Facilitating Groups, and has been leading experiential group trainings since 2003 on topics such as Self-leadership, men's work, rites of passage, sacred activism, healthy relationships, and performance enhancement. Chris has also trained in nature-based models through the Animus Valley Institute, School of Lost Borders, The Foundation for Shamanic Studies, and The Center for Conscious Eldering.   Resources: Internal Family Systems Institute: burriscounseling.com   ___________________________________ Want to work with Natalie? Contact her below   Website: https://www.ndwellnessservices.com/ Contact: https://www.ndwellnessservices.com/contact  Instagram: @nataliedeering _____________________________   Donate to the podcast Here!    Interested in sponsoring an episode of the podcast? Upgrade your business and let more people know about your amazing services or products by reaching hundreds to thousands of people by sponsoring an episode for only $100!  Please email ndwellness.services@therapysecure.com for more information.  Thank you for the support!    *Please support the podcast by following, rating, and leaving a review*    

In this episode, Cindy Esliger explores how we can dare to be more at work and avoid slipping into the conformity we think is expected. We're conditioned to believe we need to keep our heads down, fit in, and work longer and harder than anyone else in order to succeed. But we were hired because of something unique that we brought to the company. Cindy dives into how we can reclaim the parts of ourselves that we've been hiding for a more authentic and rewarding work experience. Constant hustle and overachieving without acknowledgement doesn't always lead to feeling more fulfilled. Especially not if we're stifling our creativity and actual personality in order to do so. Instead of blending in so we appear more palatable, Cindy encourages us to start daring to be more with small steps. Perhaps we say what we're actually thinking or the ideas we truly have in a meeting. Perhaps we use our natural humor to liven things up when people's attention is waning. Start small. And keep going.Work can still feel energizing and challenging the way it did in the beginning if we don't allow ourselves to be dulled by performative norms and the exhausting pressure to be proper and polished at all costs. We do it to belong, but Cindy suggests that belonging isn't blending in. Belonging is about being seen as who we are and still being accepted. She shares advice on reframing how we show up at work and offers small steps we can take to facilitate our journey towards daring to be more.Resources discussed in this episode:Guide to Daring to be More at WorkAstronomic AudioConfidence Collective—Contact Cindy Esliger Career Confidence Coaching: website | instagram | facebook | linkedin | email Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Today we are going to deal with that voice in all of our heads- the one that judges, doubts, second-guesses, and compares. It tells us we're not doing enough, we're not good enough, or we're not parenting the right way. That voice, often called the inner critic, is oh so relentless. Even casual external criticism, easily fuels this voice that lives in our heads 24/7.

Welcome to the Say YES to Yourself! Podcast—the show for midlife women, empty nesters, and anyone navigating life after divorce, burnout, or big transitions. If you're ready to shed cultural expectations, reconnect with your true self, and put your joy first—you're in the right place.What if the voice holding you back… wasn't even yours?In this inspiring and soul-nourishing conversation, Wendy is joined by Sue Erhart, author of Lose Your Inner Critic for Good. After years of following the rules, chasing success, and trying to please everyone else, Sue found herself burnt out, unfulfilled, and disconnected from her own joy. Through deep inner work, spiritual reawakening, and learning to trust herself again, she transformed her life from the inside out.They explore:How to recognize the voice of your inner critic, and stop mistaking it for truthWhat changes when joy becomes a non-negotiableThe magnetic power of owning your desires and releasing the performanceThis is a conversation for anyone ready to release perfectionism, reclaim their joy, and rewrite their next chapter with intention.Connect with Sue:Get her book: Lose Your Critic for GoodSueErhart.comLinkedInReferenced in this Episode:Boundary Boss by Terri Cole________________________________________________________________________________________ Say YES to joining Wendy for her: Say YES Sisterhood PWH Farm StaysPWH Curated France TripsInstagram: @phineaswrighthouseFacebook: Phineas Wright HouseWebsite: Phineas Wright HousePodcast Production By Shannon Warner of Resonant Collective Want to start your own podcast? Let's chat! If this episode resonated, follow Say YES to Yourself! and leave a 5-star review—it helps more women in midlife discover the tools, stories, and community that make saying YES not only possible, but powerful.

Join us as we explore how internal dialogue shapes self-worth, confidence, and life outcomes. Together, we explore body reclaimation, confidence, and existing beyond societal norms. Together, we shift our self-talk from constant critique to a loving embrace filled with self-compassion and positivity.

Confidence is biology you can hack. In this episode, you'll see how confidence builds inside your brain, rewires through neuroplasticity, and connects directly to mitochondria, metabolism, and human performance. You'll get tools that reprogram fear, regulate your nervous system, and turn stress into fuel so you build radical confidence that lasts. Listen to this classic with host Dave Asprey as he talks with entrepreneur, author, and Women of Impact founder Lisa Bilyeu. Lisa went from a stay-at-home “supporting role” to co-founding Quest Nutrition, scaling it into a billion-dollar company, and running a global media empire. She brings years of lived experience and applied mindset training, making her one of the most authentic voices on confidence, resilience, and leadership in the biohacking world. You'll learn how to: • Hack confidence with the same strategies you use for sleep optimization, fasting, and cold therapy • Spot biological triggers behind fear, self-doubt, and procrastination • Use repetition and mindset tools to upgrade brain optimization and neuroplasticity • Turn stress hormones into growth signals for longevity and functional medicine practices • Reframe trauma and setbacks as power for resilience and high performance • Support courage and focus with nootropics, ketosis, supplements, and Danger Coffee This episode shows you how to treat confidence as a trainable skill, not a personality trait. If you want smarter not harder strategies to master your biology, expand your impact, and live with unshakable resilience, you'll find them here. Dave Asprey is a four-time New York Times bestselling author, founder of Bulletproof Coffee, and the father of biohacking. With over 1,000 interviews and 1 million monthly listeners, The Human Upgrade brings you the knowledge to take control of your biology, extend your longevity, and optimize every system in your body and mind. Each episode delivers cutting-edge insights in health, performance, neuroscience, supplements, nutrition, biohacking, emotional intelligence, and conscious living. New episodes release every Tuesday, Thursday, Friday (audio-only), and Sunday (BONUS). Dave asks the questions no one else will and gives you real tools to become stronger, smarter, and more resilient. Keywords: Lisa Bilyeu, Radical Confidence, Quest Nutrition, Women of Impact, confidence training, resilience biohacking, mindset reprogramming, courage hacking, fear rewiring, entrepreneurial mindset, human performance, brain optimization, neuroplasticity tools, mitochondria and confidence, trauma resilience, emotional regulation, nootropics for confidence, stress as fuel, leadership confidence, Human Upgrade podcast Thank you to our sponsors! EMR-Tek | https://www.emr-tek.com/DAVE and use code DAVE for 40% off. Resources: • Lisa's Website: https://lisabilyeu.com/ • Danger Coffee: https://dangercoffee.com/DAVE15 • Dave Asprey's BEYOND Conference: https://beyondconference.com • Dave Asprey's New Book – Heavily Meditated: https://daveasprey.com/heavily-meditated • Upgrade Collective: https://www.ourupgradecollective.com • Upgrade Labs: https://upgradelabs.com • 40 Years of Zen: https://40yearsofzen.com Timestamps: 0:00 – Trailer 0:38 – Intro 2:38 – From Housewife to Entrepreneur 17:52 – Building Impact Theory 27:56 – Radical Confidence 39:14 – The No BS Game 44:45 – Finding Purpose 55:34 – Inner Critic & Competence 1:01:10 – Becoming Your Own Hero 1:08:32 – Boundaries & Relationships 1:09:52 – Conclusion See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Ever feel like a nagging voice in your head is holding you back? That's the inner critic. In this episode, Coaches Matt and Jason explore how to quiet that self-doubting voice and find true freedom.  They break down the different ways the inner critic shows up, from the backseat driver to the overbearing parent, and explain the neuroscience behind these old patterns. Discover a powerful, two-step process to recognize and reframe your inner dialogue . This isn't about fighting a part of yourself, but learning to collaborate with it to create an empowering alcohol-free life. Download my FREE guide: The Alcohol Freedom Formula For Over 30s Entrepreneurs & High Performers: https://social.alcoholfreelifestyle.com/podcast ★ - Learn more about Project 90: www.alcoholfreelifestyle.com/Project90 ★ - (Accountability & Support) Speak verbally to a certified Alcohol-Free Lifestyle coach to see if, or how, we could support you having a better relationship with alcohol: https://www.alcoholfreelifestyle.com/schedule ★ - The wait is over – My new book “CLEAR” is now available. Get your copy here: https://www.alcoholfreelifestyle.com/clear

In this episode of the Dethroning Your Inner Critic, I'm diving into why the fire we see “out there” in the world is really a reflection of the wounds we carry within—and how fear can actually become the path to your transformation. From breaking cycles of shame and comparison, to embodying the emotions of the life you want now, to remembering you are who you practice being—this episode is a call to heal from the inside out. ✨ If you're ready to stop fueling the fire of fear and start becoming the light, this conversation is for you.   Your weekly reflection questions: Where in my life am I still seeing the “other” as the enemy instead of remembering there is only we? What emotion am I practicing daily—and how is it shaping the reality I'm living? What discomfort am I avoiding that might actually hold the key to my healing and growth?  

In this episode of The Life You Crave, Lia Pinelli reveals how to spot your inner critic—even when it's hiding behind the “voice of reason.” From body image to aging, this sneaky voice holds women back from the life they crave. Drawing on Tara Mohr's Playing Big and her own stories, Lia shares how to tell the difference between your critic and your inner mentor so you can quiet the self-doubt and confidently pursue what you truly want. Do you know there are 3 different types of overeater? Find out which one you are by taking my FREE QUIZ:  ➡️https://liapinellicoaching.com/quiz Let's Connect: Ready to take this work deeper? Join me inside The Fempire, where we make transformation feel effortless. ➡️ https://www.liapinelli.com/weight-loss-coaching  

Join my upcoming Mindset Breakthrough Program: https://www.vickibaird.com/mindset-breakthrough-sign-up Are you really procrastinating, or are you afraid of your full potential? In this episode of Intuition: Your Success Compass, I explore how self-doubt and inner saboteurs like the Judge and the Avoider often wear the mask of procrastination. What if that “lazy” label you've given yourself is actually a shield against the fear of being brilliant? We'll talk about how small, compassionate steps (what I call micro wins) can help you shift from self-criticism to self-trust, and why your discomfort might actually be a signal that you're ready to grow. Whether you're building a business, writing that long-postponed blog post, or facing a personal challenge, the key is recognizing the brilliance that's already inside you. If you've ever stalled on your dreams and called it procrastination, this episode is your reminder that fear of potential is real, but it doesn't get to drive. #Procrastination #FearOfPotential #InnerSaboteurs #IntuitiveCoach #SelfConfidence #MindsetShift #womeninbusiness 

What if the reason you keep attracting relationships that drain you isn't bad luck—but your brain?This week on Happy and Healthy with Amy Lang, we're exploring how your inner critic shapes your self-worth, hijacks your brain's wiring, and keeps you stuck in a cycle of “not enough.” I'm also sharing 3 practical, research-backed tools to help you turn that inner bully into a voice of compassion.Tune in for powerful mindset shifts and brain-based tools that will change the way you relate—to yourself and others.What to Listen For (with timestamps):[00:02:00] Why your inner critic isn't just hurting your feelings—it's literally reshaping your brain.[00:03:00] The difference between self-worth and self-esteem (and why it matters).[00:05:00] How a hyperactive amygdala keeps you stuck in patterns of poor self-worth.[00:07:00] Client story: Why a single negative comment overshadowed nine compliments.[00:09:00] The “Tolerance Trap”: Why you start accepting less and feeling grateful for scraps.[00:11:00] How your brain mistakes familiar for safe—even when it's painful.[00:12:00] The “Overcompensation Cycle”: Are you trying to earn love through performance?[00:14:00] Why self-compassion activates your brain's care system—and rewires your emotional resilience.[00:17:00] 3-Step Self-Compassion Break: Use this in the moment to stop a shame spiral.[00:19:00] 4 Rewiring Tools to reprogram your brain and heal your self-worth from the inside out.Your inner critic might be loud, but it doesn't have to be in charge. With consistent practice and the right tools, you can rewire your brain for self-compassion, emotional resilience, and healthier relationships. Start with one of the rewiring tools from today's episode and give your brain a new narrative—one rooted in worth, not shame.

Send Us a Message!What if your inner child healing journey could be filled with joy, creativity, and magic—rather than only revisiting trauma?

Britt Frank, a licensed neuro-psychotherapist, trauma specialist, expert in human behavior, keynote speaker, and author, joins me on the latest Business Minds Coffee Chat. Britt's work has been featured in major media outlets, including Psychology Today, The New York Times, Esquire, Cosmopolitan, Fast Company, and Forbes.

In this episode of Recounting Life Lessons, Sione and Alana sit down with Sue Erhart, author of Lose Your Critic for Good and the creator of Practical Spirituality, to uncover what it takes to quiet our inner critics and live a life that is full of more joy and empowerment. Sue is someone who shares practical tools and wisdom for creating your best life, and in this episode, she shares the experience that started the journey to finding out why she prioritized the expectations of others over her own inner needs, why reaching her goals left her unfulfilled, and what whe discovered along the way. IN THIS EPISODE: The difference between goals that drain you and those that propel you forward The truth about success that most people miss Why chasing external achievements often leaves you feeling unfulfilled (and what to do instead). How to reframe obligations and expectations so they fuel joy instead of stress. A simple yet powerful tool Sue uses daily to orient the mind to seeing the good, wonderful, and accomplishments of each day A surprising and powerful self-love practice people rarely talk about RESOURCES MENTIONED: Explore Sue's work at: https://www.sueerhart.com Grab a copy of Lose Your Inner Critic for Good at: https://amzn.to/4pfY6Lz (using this link will supoort this podcast with a small comission at no extra cost to you) Sign up for our email list to be the first to know when our Backstage Pass Membership launches at: http://www.recountinglifelessons.come/insider A FEW GOLDEN NUGGETS FROM THE CONVERSATION: Being hard on yourself only gets you so far, and if you really want to soar and do big things, you've go to dismantle that critic. When you tap into your inner essence and start doing things driven by want, passion, interest, and curiosity, it's like jet propulsion versus sitting there saying, "I have to" We've been conditioned to adopt goals based on external cues and expectations over inner wants, often realizing too late that they don't bring fulfillment We all have obligations and responsibilities, but the words we use and how we frame them will affect our experience Use a logbook to record the good, the wonderful, and the done throughout your day instead of a traditional to-do list The inner critic shows up in many ways: self-criticism, playing small, settling, conforming, or putting everyone else first. The only one who can do the job of self-love for you is you ------------------------------------------------------------------- For our latest insights and things we don't share with the public, become a Sione and Alana Insider. It's free and easy to join: https://www.recountinglifelessons.com/insider ------------------------------------------------------------------- FOLLOW US:  ► Like on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/sioneandalana  ► Our Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sioneandalana  ► Alana's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alanauyema  ► Sione's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sioneuyema Want to connect with Sione & Alana? ►Website: https://www.recountinglifelessons.com ►Email: sioneandalana@recountinglifelessons.com   Have a life lesson to share? Interested in being a guest? We'd love to connect: click here to schedule a time to connect

Ever feel like your inner critic has you stuck in a recirculating hole?

Unlock Your True Potential by Asking This One Question   This episode of the Rich Mind Podcast poses a powerful question to kickstart your biggest goals: "If you knew you couldn't fail and wouldn't be judged, what's the one thing you would do today?" Randy and Greg use this thought experiment to dissect the self-doubt, limiting beliefs, and fear of judgment that paralyze us. The conversation evolves into a real-time coaching session where Greg shares his entrepreneurial dream of starting a coaching business and the internal resistance holding him back. Listeners will get a transparent look at how to identify limiting beliefs, the importance of taking small, initial steps to build momentum, and the power of aligning your actions with your authentic self to find true fulfillment.   Key Takeaways:   The question "What would you do if you couldn't fail?" is a powerful tool to bypass your inner critic and identify your true desires. Self-doubt and limiting beliefs (e.g., "Why would someone hire me?") are the primary obstacles preventing us from taking action, not a lack of resources or skill. You don't need to know every step of the journey to begin. The first step is to simply start and trust that the right people and resources will appear. To overcome the overwhelm of a big goal, break it down into the smallest possible action you can take today. The feeling of joy and fulfillment is a strong indicator that you are on the right path and aligned with your purpose. Leveraging your innate skills (like networking and listening) can provide a unique angle for a new venture you're passionate about. Sharing your goals with a trusted inner circle can provide clarity, encouragement, and the "kick in the butt" needed to get started.   Questions Answered in This Episode:   What is the most powerful question you can ask yourself to overcome fear and self-doubt? How do you identify the specific limiting beliefs that are holding you back? What is the first, smallest step you can take to start building a new business or pursuing a dream? How do you know if a new career path is truly aligned with your purpose? Why is it so important to have a support system or coach when chasing a big goal? How can you use free tools like AI to get started and build momentum? How do you overcome the fear of judgment from others when you start something new? What is the "ripple effect" and how can helping one person impact thousands?   Key People, Concepts, & Terms:   People: Randy Wilson, Greg Junge, Jim Rohn Concepts: No-Failure Mindset, Self-Doubt, Limiting Beliefs, Inner Critic, Imposter Syndrome, Taking Action, Momentum, Coaching, Purpose, Ripple Effect Tools: ChatGPT (AI) Key Episode Timestamps   00:00 - The Ultimate Question: What Would You Do If You Knew You Couldn't Fail? 01:35 - The Core Obstacle: The Power of Self-Belief vs. Self-Doubt 04:09 - A Real-Time Example: Greg's Dream of Starting a Coaching Business 07:00 - Unpacking the "Why": Identifying the Limiting Beliefs That Keep Us Stuck 08:06 - The Solution: What is the Smallest Action You Can Take Today? 09:30 - The Feeling of Fulfillment: How You Know You're on the Right Path 16:31 - A Key Insight: How to Use Your Natural Talents (Networking) in a New Way 21:06 - The "Kick in the Butt": The Power of Encouragement and Accountability 25:11 - Getting Over the Fear of Judgment and Hitting "Record" 31:42 - The Final Challenge: What ONE Thing Will You Do Today?

Is your greatest enemy the voice in your head? In this episode, Dennis and Lisa unpack why that voice shows up, how it sabotages your happiness, and eight practical ways to quiet the noise so you can live with courage and authenticity. You'll also hear about a top resource for high-performers who struggle with a harsh inner critic.The Leadership Development Group is a consulting firm led by Dennis and Lisa McIntee that exists to help you create a better work culture through drama free strategies, leadership coaching, and training. Since 2005, they have helped over 2,000 companies become drama free and significantly increase their productivity as a result. Discover the freedom of a better work culture today at leadershipdevgroup.com.Resources Mentioned in the Episode: Leadership 101

In this episode, LoveLoudd checks in after a short break with life updates. During the icebreaker segment, LoveLoudd pulls affirmation cards and discusses how they relate to their life. In Suite 223, Monie steps to the mic with a throwback piece that still resonates today. The Hot Topic Segment opens a conversation about Self-Criticism and Self-Compassion. Is self-criticism really harmful? How do you silence the inner critic? What does it mean to be compassionate to oneself? Tune in for LoveLoudd's personal experiences with self-criticism and the tools they use to foster a positive mindset. 

In this episode of The Brand Called You, Tara Halliday, an expert in imposter syndrome, shares how to overcome self-doubt, embrace unconditional worth, and transform stress into effortless confidence that elevates your leadership and personal growth.00:40- About Tara HallidayTara is an imposter syndrome coach. She is the author of two books: Outsmart Imposter Syndrome (2023) and Unmasking: The Coach's Guide to Imposter Syndrome.

In this episode of the Dethroning Your Inner Critic podcast, I'm diving deep into one of the biggest mindset shifts I've ever made—learning that life doesn't have to be hard to be meaningful. I'm unpacking how we've been conditioned to equate worth with struggle, and how that belief quietly fuels burnout, anxiety, and self-doubt. If you're tired of pushing, proving, and forcing things to happen, this conversation will feel like a permission slip to live differently. ✨ Tune in and discover how ease, alignment, and trust can become your new baseline.   Your weekly reflection questions: In what area of your life are you still holding onto the belief that struggle equals worthiness? Where do things already flow effortlessly for you—and what belief might be supporting that ease? What story has your Inner Critic been telling you that it's time to unhook from?  

Join my upcoming Positive Intelligence© Program: https://www.vickibaird.com/positive-intelligence-purchase-vicki-baird Ready to quiet that inner critic and finally build habits that stick? In this episode of Intuition: Your Success Compass, I get real about the chaos of creating habits, and why desire alone isn't enough to make them last. Whether you're trying to read more, move your body, or just follow through on what you say you want, it starts with one small step. We'll talk about how your brain forms habits (hello, neuroplasticity), how your inner critic hijacks the process (I see you, Judge), and why micro movements matter more than willpower. I share my own messiness with habit-building and the Positive Intelligence tools that helped me shift from self-criticism to self-support. You'll leave with practical strategies like habit stacking, celebrating small wins, and resetting without shame. If you've been stuck in perfectionism or procrastination, this episode is your permission slip to start small and build a life that actually fits you.

Do you ever wonder if your help actually matters? You show up, you do what you can, and later your Inner Critic whispers, You didn't make any real difference. But what if you don't have to be the expert, the fixer, or the hero who “saves the day”? In today's conversation, my guest co-host Marisa Terrell and I discuss why your presence, rather than your performance, is often the greatest gift you can give. You'll hear how ordinary presence can calm chaos, restore hope, and reflect God's heart. Consider this episode your permission slip to stop second-guessing and start trusting the quiet power of simply showing up. Links mentioned: Take the “Am I a Highly Sensitive Person?” Self-Quiz https://CheriGregory.com/hspquiz/ "Write Beside You" Coaching with Cheri https://writebesideyou.com/writing-coach/ "Write Beside You" Unlimited Coaching Program with Cheri https://sensitiveandstrongbook.com/wby-unlimited-coaching-program/  

After a breakup, your inner critic can be your worst enemy. But what if that voice isn't even yours? In this episode, we'll explore the surprising origin of post-breakup self-blame and give you a powerful 5-step exercise to rewrite the script, silence the critic, and start truly healing. Ready to Fast-Track Your Breakup Recovery? Join my FREE upcoming workshop "How to be Happier, Healthier, and More Successful After a Breakup or Divorce."  Grab your workshop spot here: https://www.angieday.com/webinar/ Take the free quiz to discover your Relationship Attachment Style: Take the quiz here: https://www.angieday.com/free-quiz/  If you think you or someone you love may be struggling after a breakup or divorce and you'd like help with this or any other topic, feel free to reach out to me. Email me at:  angie@contactangieday.com Voicemail me at:  https://www.speakpipe.com/TheBacktoHappyPodcast

Send us a textIn this episode, we explore the powerful difference between your inner critic and your inner guide, backed by Harvard Medical School research showing that 80% of our daily thoughts can be negative. Learn three practical techniques: the Pause and Label method, the Best Friend Filter, and Evidence Examination to transform your self-talk. As Maya Angelou reminds us, we have the power to change our attitude when we can't change our circumstances. Thank you for spending your valuable time with us. We truly appreciate your attention and support. Stay connected with us everywhere! Click the link below to access all our platforms in one place:https://linktr.ee/yourthoughtlifeRemember, you are enough, you can do it, and you are uniquely equipped to realize your goals. Let's continue this journey together!

Welcome back! This is episode 1 of Series 10. Here I'm in conversation with UKCP registered psychotherapist and author Julia Bueno (who joined us in Series 4 talking about the Inner Critic, so do have a listen to that one, too).I get a lot of letters asking either 'should I have a/nother baby' full stop or 'I want one/another one but my partner doesn't'. Julia and I explore what issues come up around this question, what those issues can tell you about yourself, your partner and your relationship and how to go about dealing with them. We also explore going it alone - and whilst we can't tell you what to do, we suggest questions you can ask yourself and things to think about that may help you get there. It's a huge question and one that deserves a lot of thought.Julia has a particular interest in our reproductive lives, her first book The Bring of Being explored the varied experiences of miscarriage. Her second book was called Everyone's a Critic and explored our own self criticism. Find out more about her: juliabueno.co.uk, Instagram: @julia_bueno_therapist.Everyone's A CriticThe Brink of BeingIf you'd like to support us you can leave a one off donation here: https://supporter.acast.com/conversations-with-annalisa-barbieriIf you'd like to listen to this episode, past or future ones, ad free then consider becoming a Substacker: https://pocketannalisa.substack.com/. From £5 a month or £50 (2025 rates) a year you'll get access to all new podcasts as soon as they are available and before general release and ad-free.You can also support us by sharing this podcast far and wide, it's available wherever you listen to your podcasts. And leaving a review if you can. Thank you so much.Produced by Hester Cant. Art work by Lo Cole. Music by Toby Dunham.Support this show http://supporter.acast.com/conversations-with-annalisa-barbieri. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

What if the harsh voice in your head isn't “the truth,” but a clumsy survival strategy that can be rewired in minutes? In this episode, Megan blends Scripture with brain science to reveal why negative self-talk keeps recreating the same outcomes—and how a few surprisingly playful shifts (yes, playful) can lower its volume, change its meaning, and open up a calmer, more productive inner world. You'll hear a raw origin story, then step-by-step tools to interrupt the spiral, recode your “mental operating system,” and finally feel congruent with the woman you're working so hard to become. Inside the episode The real reason self-criticism sticks: its hidden “positive intent” and how to meet that need in a healthier way. A fast dissociation exercise to shrink the critic's power (including the “remote control” trick). The thermostat principle: how inner narratives quietly reset your results, regardless of achievement. Pattern-interrupt language that stops rumination and pivots you into action. Faith × neuroscience: practical ways to “renew your mind” so behavior change lasts. State shifts on demand: using the body to move the mind when you're stuck. A bite-size, 3-day reset to turn your inner voice from bully to coach.   Mini Identity Reset (3 days, 30 min/day): Turn your inner voice from bully to coach and set a clear target with your renewed identity. DM RESET to @powerhousepageantry or @meganswansonrhodes   Follow us on IG  www.instagram.com/powerhousepageantry  www.instagram.com/meganswansonrhodes    Watch on Youtube www.youtube.com/@powerhousepageantry   PODCAST ESSENTIALS & GEAR I USE Blue Yeti Microphone https://amzn.to/3ZodLfr  Webcam https://a.co/d/8lKR6TA   Silver Yeti Glitter Wrap: https://amzn.to/3LiTSjR  Awesome Computer-Attached Light https://amzn.to/3P5WByh  As an Amazon Associate, I earn from qualifying purchases at no cost to you.   Listen on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/3nbUVyQqfT5CLYSZO6wWgs?si=abf5437f5e5c413b   Listen on Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-powerhouse-podcast-how-to-win-your-pageant-how-to/id1448191693    On this podcast, we talk about… identity work for women, faith and identity, purpose over performance, self worth vs achievement, you are not what you do, values alignment, limiting beliefs, belief reprogramming, identity shift, core state change, inner child work, mindset reset, confidence from identity, purpose driven life, Christian identity coaching, life after pageants, life after big goal, rebuild confidence after failure, how to find purpose again, sustainable success habits, daily check-in routine, evening reflection practice, morning identity routine, goal setting that sticks, break perfectionism paralysis, progress over perfection, achievement addiction, identity work, mindset coaching, pageant mindset, dopamine trap, burnout recovery, confidence, Christian coaching, neurolinguistic programming  

If you struggle with a harsh inner critic — whether it shows up as perfectionism, relentless self-judgment, or shame about the past — this episode is for you. We're unpacking the roots of that punitive inner voice, how it tries to keep us safe, and the real cost it can have on our self-worth, our nervous system, and our ability to grow. We'll also explore what it looks like to relate to ourselves differently: to meet our inner critic with compassion rather than fear, and to begin the process of forgiving ourselves for the things we wish we'd done differently.In this episode, we'll cover:The role of the inner critic and what it's really trying to doWhy punishing yourself doesn't lead to growth (and what does)Why self-forgiveness can be so difficultHow to hold responsibility without collapsing into shamePractical ways to begin softening your inner critic and making peace with your pastHighlighted Links Free Break-Up Training: The 3 Shifts That Help Anxiously Attached People Heal After a Break-up How to Heal Anxious Attachment and (Finally) Feel Secure in Life & Love London Event: tickets here Additional Resources Download the FREE Anxious Attachment Starter Kit here Join my email list

What if your anxiety wasn't just about your thoughts—but your unfelt feelings? In this powerful clip, counselor Nancy Jane Smith breaks down why our inner critic (aka the “monger”) might feel like it's helping us succeed, but is actually holding us back. She shares how acknowledging your emotions—even for just 90 seconds—can change everything. If you've ever wrestled with perfectionism, burnout, or anxiety, this one will hit home. Listen to the full episode here: https://www.aboutprogress.com/blog/https:%2F%2Faboutprogress-com%2Fnancy-jane-smith%2F Sign up as a Supporter to get access to our private, premium, ad-free podcast, More Personal. Episodes air each Friday! ⁠Get on the waitlist for Italy!⁠ Single traveler survey ⁠here⁠. More for Moms Conference Leave a rating and review Check out my ⁠workshops⁠! Follow About Progress on YOUTUBE! Book Launch Committee Free DSL Training Full Show Notes Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Your inner critic doesn't have to run the show. This episode offers one reframe and a powerful shift that helps you talk to yourself like someone you care for.Ready to silence self-doubt? Take the Imposter Syndrome Assessment Your clarity starts here. https://candymotzek.lpages.co/is-score/

Join my upcoming Positive Intelligence© Program: https://www.vickibaird.com/positive-intelligence-purchase-vicki-baird   In this special episode of Intuition: Your Success Compass, I'm sharing a recording from one of our live Wednesday night workshops, because the conversation was too good to keep to ourselves. We explored what it means to check in with your life before you feel like everything's on fire, how to work with (not against) that inner critic, and why even the most minor changes—what I call micromovements can shift everything. This isn't about overhauling your entire life overnight. It's about listening to your intuitive voice, slowing down enough to actually hear it, and taking one aligned step at a time. You'll hear honest reflections on transitions, mortality (yep, we went there), and the toll of tolerating what no longer fits. Grab a journal, breathe deeply, and join me for a powerful reflection on intentional living, celebrating your wins, and giving yourself permission to want more without shame, guilt, or apology.  

In this episode of Typology, I sit down with Alicia Michelle—an Enneagram One and host of The Christian Mindset Coach podcast—for a meaningful conversation about emotions, perfectionism, and the journey toward self-compassion. Alicia shares her story of discovering her true type, the freedom that comes from quieting the inner critic, and her practical ADD method (Acknowledge, Discern, Decide) for processing emotions. Together, we explore the importance of emotional literacy, how different types experience emotions, and why learning to govern our inner world is key to growth. Whether you're new to the Enneagram or eager to go deeper, this episode offers fresh insights and practical tools for navigating your emotional life with greater clarity and grace.  

Download: Thought Challenge WorksheetWhat if the harshest critic you've ever known lives inside your own head?That relentless voice telling you you're not good enough, you'll never change, you always mess things up – it's been running the show for far too long. In this eye-opening episode, hosts Duane and Eric reveal how your inner critic has been acting as judge, jury, and executioner of your self-worth, especially during addiction and trauma recovery.But here's the game-changer: you don't have to be a victim of your own thoughts anymore.Using powerful techniques from Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), this episode teaches you how to become your own defense attorney. You'll learn to identify the sneaky cognitive distortions that fuel your inner critic – like all-or-nothing thinking, catastrophizing, and emotional reasoning – and discover a simple but life-changing method to challenge these automatic negative thoughts.This isn't about toxic positivity or pretending everything is fine. It's about finding truth, balance, and compassion in how you talk to yourself. Duane and Eric walk you through a practical thought-challenging exercise that you can use immediately when that critic gets loud.The hosts share real examples of how to transform thoughts like "I'm a complete failure" into more balanced perspectives that acknowledge your pain while opening doors to healing and growth. They explain why our feelings, though valid, aren't always accurate reflections of reality – and how emotional reasoning can trap us in cycles of shame and relapse.Every time you challenge a negative thought and find counter-evidence, you're literally rewiring your brain. You're building new neural pathways that are more balanced and resilient. Most importantly, you're shifting from being a passive victim of your thoughts to becoming an active participant in your emotional wellbeing.Ready to put your inner critic on trial? This episode gives you the tools to start today.Key TopicsCognitive distortions - identifying black-and-white thinking, catastrophizing, and emotional reasoning The CBT thought-challenging method - questioning evidence for and against negative thoughts Emotional reasoning trap - why feeling something doesn't make it factually true Creating balanced alternatives - reframing thoughts without toxic positivity Self-compassion techniques - asking "what would I tell a dear friend?" Neural pathway rewiring - how challenging thoughts physically changes your brain Practical worksheet tool - step-by-step guide for thought recordsTimestamps[00:01:00] - Meet your harshest critic (spoiler: it's you) [00:03:00] - The pain of living under constant internal negativity [00:06:00] - Introduction to cognitive restructuring and CBT techniques [00:07:00] - Common cognitive distortions in addiction recovery [00:10:00] - The thought-challenging courtroom method [00:13:00] - Creating balanced alternative thoughts (real examples) [00:16:00] - Free worksheet download and practical next stepsSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Join The Struggle's Patreon community to get 100+ hours of Bonus Episodes, Pro Clinics, Uncut Videos, and Submit Questions for Future Guests. FREE TRIAL available!  https://www.patreon.com/thestruggleclimbingshow - Mindset coach Neely Quinn explores: Pros and cons of being a perfectionist as a climber  How to embrace perfectionism (and keep it from ruining our climbing experience) How to quantify the amount of "suffering" we are willing to go through to improve as climbers Examining my "failed" spring season  Why it's important to celebrate the little things The three questions to ask oneself after every climbing session Is too much humility doing us a disservice? Why we fixate on the one thing that went wrong  Determining whether climbing is a fun outlet or a source of stress Process over progress and what that really looks like Why we often send when we least expect to A practical drill for overcoming fear of falling  - BIG THANKS TO THE AMAZING SPONSORS OF THE STRUGGLE WHO LOVE ROCK CLIMBING AS MUCH AS YOU DO: Rhino Skin Solutions: Perform, Cleanse, Repair… repeat! Amazing skin care products crafted specifically for climbers, whether you're pulling hard indoors or out. Use code STRUGGLE to score a whopping 20% off your purchase!  Arc'teryx: Inspired by and tested in the Coast Mountains of BC, Arc'teryx makes gear to go the distance! If you're out adventuring in the elements, Arc'teryx has got you covered. Shop their full collection at Arcteryx.com  5-Year Training and Performance Journal: The most important climbing tool I use! Takes just a few minutes each day, and yields amazing insights year after year. If you're psyched on training and performance, this is the journal for you. Log, reflect, send.    And check out ALL the show's awesome sponsors and exclusive deals at thestruggleclimbingshow.com/deals   - Shoutout to Matt Waltereese for being a Victory Whip supporter on Patreon! So mega. -   Here are some AI generated show notes (hopefully the robots got it right): 00:41 Guest Introduction: Neely Quinn from Training Beta 01:13 The Perfectionism Email and Personal Struggles 02:17 Community Questions and Performance Hacks 05:01 Host's Climbing Journey and Reflections 05:59 Diving into Perfectionism with Neely Quinn 21:37 Exploring the Roots of Perfectionism 29:00 Tools and Strategies for Overcoming Perfectionism 39:47 Validating Emotions and Positive Reflection 43:40 Balancing Pride and Shame in Climbing 44:54 The Evolutionary Basis of Negative Bias 45:41 Reflecting on Gratitude and Success 47:06 The Inner Coach: Self-Talk and Motivation 48:54 Therapy and Climbing: A Surprising Connection 49:40 Dealing with Regression in Climbing Performance 52:58 Setting Realistic Expectations and Goals 57:04 Embracing Process Over Outcome 59:27 Practical Process Goals for Climbers 01:04:46 Overcoming Fear and Building Confidence 01:13:10 Final Thoughts and Listener Questions 01:18:37 Conclusion and Bonus Content - Follow along on Instagram @thestruggleclimbingshow and YouTube /@thestruggleclimbingshow   Book a session with Neely: https://www.neelyquinncoaching.com/climbing - The Struggle is carbon-neutral in partnership with The Honnold Foundation, whose mission is to promote solar energy for a more equitable world. - This show is produced and hosted by Ryan Devlin, and edited by Glen Walker. The Struggle is a proud member of the Plug Tone Audio Collective, a diverse group of the best, most impactful podcasts in the outdoor industry. - The struggle makes us stronger! I hope your training and climbing are going great.  - And now here are some buzzwords to help the almighty algorithm get this show in front of people who love to climb: rock climbing, rock climber, climbing, climber, bouldering, sport climbing, gym climbing, how to rock climb, donuts are amazing. Okay, whew, that's done. But hey, if you're a human that's actually reading this, and if you love this show (and love to climb) would you think about sharing this episode with a climber friend of yours? And shout it out on your socials? I'll send you a sticker for doing it. Just shoot me a message on IG – thanks so much!   

High-capacity humans often misread transition as failure. If your growth feels slow, awkward, or invisible — this episode helps you reframe what's really happening and shows you how to keep moving forward.If you've been doing the inner work but still feel like nothing's changing — this one's for you. In today's episode, Julie Holly names what every high-capacity human needs to hear: you're not behind — you're becoming. She shares why transitions are disorienting by design, what happens when your nervous system is mid-shift, and how to anchor yourself in truth when your progress feels invisible. This one will reframe your process and remind you you're not alone.IN THIS EPISODE, WE COVER: • Why growth often feels awkward, slow, and invisible • How to recognize the tension of becoming • The hidden purpose behind disorientation • Why high-capacity humans misread transition as failure • How Winston Churchill modeled aligned persistence • The identity traps that sabotage your sense of progress • A personal reflection from Julie's mid-transition recalibration • Why clarity often comes after the courageous stepTODAY'S MICRO-RECALIBRATIONThink of one place you've been saying, “I should be further along by now.”Now pause.Ask:What if this is what forward looks like right now?What's the truth about who I'm becoming — even if no one else can see it yet?What can I honor about this quiet part of the process? You're not behind. You're becoming. Let that truth settle in.If this episode gave you language you've been missing, please rate and review the show so more high-capacity humans can find it. Explore Identity-Level Recalibration→ Follow Julie Holly on LinkedIn for more recalibration insights → Schedule a conversation with Julie to see if The Recalibration is a fit for you → Download the Misalignment Audit → Subscribe to the weekly newsletter → Join the waitlist for the next Recalibration cohort This isn't therapy. This isn't coaching. This is identity recalibration — and it changes everything.

High-capacity humans don't always realize it — but their inner voice is shaping who they become. This episode shows how self-talk becomes identity, and how to shift it without shame.Self-talk isn't just personal — it's powerful. In this episode of Identity-Level Recalibration, Julie Holly unpacks how the language we use inside becomes the foundation of who we're becoming. You'll learn the neuroscience behind self-talk, the leadership ripple effect of internal tone, and how to build a feedback loop aligned with your future identity. With a story from Simone Biles, a micro-recalibration you can apply today, and an invitation to lead yourself with clarity and compassion — this episode helps you interrupt the loop and recalibrate at the root.IN THIS EPISODE, WE COVER:• How your self-talk creates internal identity feedback loops• Why high-capacity humans often default to internal pressure• A story of personal recalibration during a high-growth season• How Simone Biles modeled real-time self-leadership on the world stage• The neuroscience of belief reinforcement through language• What true self-leadership looks like in daily life• A powerful extension for leaders who shape team culture• How to begin interrupting the loop without shameTODAY'S MICRO-RECALIBRATIONNotice your self-talk — and ask:Would I speak this way to someone I love?Is this reinforcing who I was — or who I'm becoming?What language feels honest and aligned?If you lead a team:How does your tone with yourself ripple into how others speak to themselves?You don't have to master this overnight.You just need to begin interrupting the loop.If this episode gave you language you've been missing, please rate and review the show so more high-capacity humans can find it. Explore Identity-Level Recalibration→ Follow Julie Holly on LinkedIn for more recalibration insights → Schedule a conversation with Julie to see if The Recalibration is a fit for you → Download the Misalignment Audit → Subscribe to the weekly newsletter → Join the waitlist for the next Recalibration cohort This isn't therapy. This isn't coaching. This is identity recalibration — and it changes everything.

Just when you're leveling up, the inner noise gets loud. In this episode, we unpack why your mind questions everything when you're on the brink of more — and how to tell truth from fear. Let's recalibrate the voices within.Success shouldn't feel like sabotage — but for high-capacity humans, inner fragmentation often follows breakthrough.In this episode, Julie Holly walks you through the different voices that show up in your head after a win — and why discerning truth from fear is essential for sustainable, identity-aligned growth.This is more than mindset. It's Identity-Level Recalibration — the shift that silences shame and amplifies clarity.What We Explore in This Episode:• Why your inner critic gets louder after success• The real reason high performers question their worth after a win• The four primary internal voices — and how to spot each one• A personal story about raising coaching rates and facing the noise• Why even founders like Phil Knight battled post-success self-doubt• How false humility masquerades as wisdom to keep you small• The nervous system shift from survival response to internal trust• What it means to follow your true voice — not your old programmingToday's Micro-RecalibrationPause and listen. What's the dominant voice in your head today?Ask yourself:• Is this voice rooted in truth — or in fear?• Is it protective, performative, or aligned?• What would my next move be if I trusted the quieter voice within?Try this identity anchor:“I am becoming the kind of person who leads my inner world with clarity and conviction — not confusion and fear.”You're not meant to manage your thoughts — you're meant to lead them.If this episode gave you language you've been missing, please rate and review the show so more high-capacity humans can find it. Explore Identity-Level Recalibration→ Follow Julie Holly on LinkedIn for more recalibration insights → Schedule a conversation with Julie to see if The Recalibration is a fit for you → Download the Misalignment Audit → Subscribe to the weekly newsletter → Join the waitlist for the next Recalibration cohort This isn't therapy. This isn't coaching. This is identity recalibration — and it changes everything.

We're bringing you some of our favorite gems from the archives, as chosen by our staff. This week, we're hearing from therapist Dick Schwartz, as chosen by Mani Chandy from our Substack team. Schwartz is the founder of Internal Family Systems, a way of looking at all of the various “parts” that we have inside ourselves, and how they can work together or make things harder for us.  Full Episodes: How to Handle Your Demons | Richard SchwartzHow (and Why) To Hug Your Inner Dragons | Richard Schwartz Get ready for another Meditation Party at Omega Institute! This in-person workshop brings together Dan with his friends and meditation teachers, Sebene Selassie, Jeff Warren, and for the first time, Ofosu Jones-Quartey. The event runs October 24th-26th. Sign up and learn more here! Join Dan's online community here Follow Dan on social: Instagram, TikTok Subscribe to our YouTube Channel To advertise on the show, contact sales@advertisecast.com or visit https://advertising.libsyn.com/10HappierwithDanHarris