Podcasts about Inner critic

In this solo episode, I explore one of the deepest wounds many ex-boarders carry: “I'm not good enough.”We look at:Why this belief develops in boarding school environmentsThe double bind that places blame inward on the childHow it manifests later in life as burnout, addiction, or perfectionismThe role of attachment in buffering or amplifying traumaPractical ways to reframe self-talk, celebrate achievements, and parent ourselvesIf you've ever felt like you're not enough — or noticed this pattern in leaders, colleagues, or loved ones — this episode offers insights and practices to shift from self-criticism to self-compassion.✨ New episodes every week on psychology, child development, and boarding school syndrome.--- Piers is an author and a men's transformational coach and therapist who works mainly with trauma, boarding school issues, addictions and relationship problems. He also runs online men's groups for ex-boarders, retreats and a podcast called An Evolving Man. He is also the author of How to Survive and Thrive in Challenging Times. To purchase Piers first book: https://www.amazon.co.uk/How-Survive-Thrive-Challenging-Times/dp/B088T5L251/ref=sr_1_1?dchild=1&keywords=piers+cross&qid=1609869608&sr=8-1 For more videos please visit: http://youtube.com/pierscross For FB: https://www.facebook.com/pierscrosspublic For Piers' website and a free training How To Find Peace In Everyday Life: https://www.piers-cross.com/community Many blessings, Piers Cross http://piers-cross.com/

Ever feel like your inner critic has you stuck in a recirculating hole?

Unlock Your True Potential by Asking This One Question   This episode of the Rich Mind Podcast poses a powerful question to kickstart your biggest goals: "If you knew you couldn't fail and wouldn't be judged, what's the one thing you would do today?" Randy and Greg use this thought experiment to dissect the self-doubt, limiting beliefs, and fear of judgment that paralyze us. The conversation evolves into a real-time coaching session where Greg shares his entrepreneurial dream of starting a coaching business and the internal resistance holding him back. Listeners will get a transparent look at how to identify limiting beliefs, the importance of taking small, initial steps to build momentum, and the power of aligning your actions with your authentic self to find true fulfillment.   Key Takeaways:   The question "What would you do if you couldn't fail?" is a powerful tool to bypass your inner critic and identify your true desires. Self-doubt and limiting beliefs (e.g., "Why would someone hire me?") are the primary obstacles preventing us from taking action, not a lack of resources or skill. You don't need to know every step of the journey to begin. The first step is to simply start and trust that the right people and resources will appear. To overcome the overwhelm of a big goal, break it down into the smallest possible action you can take today. The feeling of joy and fulfillment is a strong indicator that you are on the right path and aligned with your purpose. Leveraging your innate skills (like networking and listening) can provide a unique angle for a new venture you're passionate about. Sharing your goals with a trusted inner circle can provide clarity, encouragement, and the "kick in the butt" needed to get started.   Questions Answered in This Episode:   What is the most powerful question you can ask yourself to overcome fear and self-doubt? How do you identify the specific limiting beliefs that are holding you back? What is the first, smallest step you can take to start building a new business or pursuing a dream? How do you know if a new career path is truly aligned with your purpose? Why is it so important to have a support system or coach when chasing a big goal? How can you use free tools like AI to get started and build momentum? How do you overcome the fear of judgment from others when you start something new? What is the "ripple effect" and how can helping one person impact thousands?   Key People, Concepts, & Terms:   People: Randy Wilson, Greg Junge, Jim Rohn Concepts: No-Failure Mindset, Self-Doubt, Limiting Beliefs, Inner Critic, Imposter Syndrome, Taking Action, Momentum, Coaching, Purpose, Ripple Effect Tools: ChatGPT (AI) Key Episode Timestamps   00:00 - The Ultimate Question: What Would You Do If You Knew You Couldn't Fail? 01:35 - The Core Obstacle: The Power of Self-Belief vs. Self-Doubt 04:09 - A Real-Time Example: Greg's Dream of Starting a Coaching Business 07:00 - Unpacking the "Why": Identifying the Limiting Beliefs That Keep Us Stuck 08:06 - The Solution: What is the Smallest Action You Can Take Today? 09:30 - The Feeling of Fulfillment: How You Know You're on the Right Path 16:31 - A Key Insight: How to Use Your Natural Talents (Networking) in a New Way 21:06 - The "Kick in the Butt": The Power of Encouragement and Accountability 25:11 - Getting Over the Fear of Judgment and Hitting "Record" 31:42 - The Final Challenge: What ONE Thing Will You Do Today?

Is your greatest enemy the voice in your head? In this episode, Dennis and Lisa unpack why that voice shows up, how it sabotages your happiness, and eight practical ways to quiet the noise so you can live with courage and authenticity. You'll also hear about a top resource for high-performers who struggle with a harsh inner critic.The Leadership Development Group is a consulting firm led by Dennis and Lisa McIntee that exists to help you create a better work culture through drama free strategies, leadership coaching, and training. Since 2005, they have helped over 2,000 companies become drama free and significantly increase their productivity as a result. Discover the freedom of a better work culture today at leadershipdevgroup.com.Resources Mentioned in the Episode: Leadership 101

In this episode of The Brand Called You, Tara Halliday, an expert in imposter syndrome, shares how to overcome self-doubt, embrace unconditional worth, and transform stress into effortless confidence that elevates your leadership and personal growth.00:40- About Tara HallidayTara is an imposter syndrome coach. She is the author of two books: Outsmart Imposter Syndrome (2023) and Unmasking: The Coach's Guide to Imposter Syndrome.

In this episode of the Dethroning Your Inner Critic podcast, I'm diving deep into one of the biggest mindset shifts I've ever made—learning that life doesn't have to be hard to be meaningful. I'm unpacking how we've been conditioned to equate worth with struggle, and how that belief quietly fuels burnout, anxiety, and self-doubt. If you're tired of pushing, proving, and forcing things to happen, this conversation will feel like a permission slip to live differently. ✨ Tune in and discover how ease, alignment, and trust can become your new baseline.   Your weekly reflection questions: In what area of your life are you still holding onto the belief that struggle equals worthiness? Where do things already flow effortlessly for you—and what belief might be supporting that ease? What story has your Inner Critic been telling you that it's time to unhook from?  

Join my upcoming Positive Intelligence© Program: https://www.vickibaird.com/positive-intelligence-purchase-vicki-baird Ready to quiet that inner critic and finally build habits that stick? In this episode of Intuition: Your Success Compass, I get real about the chaos of creating habits, and why desire alone isn't enough to make them last. Whether you're trying to read more, move your body, or just follow through on what you say you want, it starts with one small step. We'll talk about how your brain forms habits (hello, neuroplasticity), how your inner critic hijacks the process (I see you, Judge), and why micro movements matter more than willpower. I share my own messiness with habit-building and the Positive Intelligence tools that helped me shift from self-criticism to self-support. You'll leave with practical strategies like habit stacking, celebrating small wins, and resetting without shame. If you've been stuck in perfectionism or procrastination, this episode is your permission slip to start small and build a life that actually fits you.

Do you ever wonder if your help actually matters? You show up, you do what you can, and later your Inner Critic whispers, You didn't make any real difference. But what if you don't have to be the expert, the fixer, or the hero who “saves the day”? In today's conversation, my guest co-host Marisa Terrell and I discuss why your presence, rather than your performance, is often the greatest gift you can give. You'll hear how ordinary presence can calm chaos, restore hope, and reflect God's heart. Consider this episode your permission slip to stop second-guessing and start trusting the quiet power of simply showing up. Links mentioned: Take the “Am I a Highly Sensitive Person?” Self-Quiz https://CheriGregory.com/hspquiz/ "Write Beside You" Coaching with Cheri https://writebesideyou.com/writing-coach/ "Write Beside You" Unlimited Coaching Program with Cheri https://sensitiveandstrongbook.com/wby-unlimited-coaching-program/  

After a breakup, your inner critic can be your worst enemy. But what if that voice isn't even yours? In this episode, we'll explore the surprising origin of post-breakup self-blame and give you a powerful 5-step exercise to rewrite the script, silence the critic, and start truly healing. Ready to Fast-Track Your Breakup Recovery? Join my FREE upcoming workshop "How to be Happier, Healthier, and More Successful After a Breakup or Divorce."  Grab your workshop spot here: https://www.angieday.com/webinar/ Take the free quiz to discover your Relationship Attachment Style: Take the quiz here: https://www.angieday.com/free-quiz/  If you think you or someone you love may be struggling after a breakup or divorce and you'd like help with this or any other topic, feel free to reach out to me. Email me at:  angie@contactangieday.com Voicemail me at:  https://www.speakpipe.com/TheBacktoHappyPodcast

Send us a textIn this episode, we explore the powerful difference between your inner critic and your inner guide, backed by Harvard Medical School research showing that 80% of our daily thoughts can be negative. Learn three practical techniques: the Pause and Label method, the Best Friend Filter, and Evidence Examination to transform your self-talk. As Maya Angelou reminds us, we have the power to change our attitude when we can't change our circumstances. Thank you for spending your valuable time with us. We truly appreciate your attention and support. Stay connected with us everywhere! Click the link below to access all our platforms in one place:https://linktr.ee/yourthoughtlifeRemember, you are enough, you can do it, and you are uniquely equipped to realize your goals. Let's continue this journey together!

What if the harshest critic you ever faced…was inside your own mind?In this episode of Hearth 2 Heart, Gayathri Shukla is joined by TEDx speaker and award-winning author Kalyani Pardeshi, who shares her deeply personal journey of overcoming burnout and self-bullying. Drawing on her bestselling book Beyond the Inner Critic, Kalyani unpacks the conscious and unconscious voices that shape our motivation, self-worth, and ability to belong. This conversation is an invitation to gently examine the stories we tell ourselves, and to remember that growth begins not in perfection, but in permission to feel, to pause, and to belong to ourselves.Resources mentioned in episode:Kalyani's website and InstagramCampfire Kinship

Welcome back! This is episode 1 of Series 10. Here I'm in conversation with UKCP registered psychotherapist and author Julia Bueno (who joined us in Series 4 talking about the Inner Critic, so do have a listen to that one, too).I get a lot of letters asking either 'should I have a/nother baby' full stop or 'I want one/another one but my partner doesn't'. Julia and I explore what issues come up around this question, what those issues can tell you about yourself, your partner and your relationship and how to go about dealing with them. We also explore going it alone - and whilst we can't tell you what to do, we suggest questions you can ask yourself and things to think about that may help you get there. It's a huge question and one that deserves a lot of thought.Julia has a particular interest in our reproductive lives, her first book The Bring of Being explored the varied experiences of miscarriage. Her second book was called Everyone's a Critic and explored our own self criticism. Find out more about her: juliabueno.co.uk, Instagram: @julia_bueno_therapist.Everyone's A CriticThe Brink of BeingIf you'd like to support us you can leave a one off donation here: https://supporter.acast.com/conversations-with-annalisa-barbieriIf you'd like to listen to this episode, past or future ones, ad free then consider becoming a Substacker: https://pocketannalisa.substack.com/. From £5 a month or £50 (2025 rates) a year you'll get access to all new podcasts as soon as they are available and before general release and ad-free.You can also support us by sharing this podcast far and wide, it's available wherever you listen to your podcasts. And leaving a review if you can. Thank you so much.Produced by Hester Cant. Art work by Lo Cole. Music by Toby Dunham.Support this show http://supporter.acast.com/conversations-with-annalisa-barbieri. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Do you compare yourself to other parents?Do you sometimes think you're not good enough?Here's a secret… you are good enough, and every parent out there has the same doubt. I say it's time to silence the inner critic!In this short bucket emptying episode, I give you four practical tips you can start doing today, to get rid of your inner critic and start being the happiest, most confident version of yourself. Because you cannot possibly look after your kids if you don't first look after yourself.So pour yourself a cuppa, find a comfy seat, and enjoy the conversation…Highlights from this episode:00:49 - Every parent experiences at least one of these03:16 - “I'm a bad parent”04:46 - Give yourself some slack05:49 - What's your mantra?07:46 - Find your tribe09:50 - Go to sleep!

The inner critic and negative self-talk often feels like our own voice, but many of its harsh words aren't truly yours. In this episode, I unpack how limiting beliefs get handed down through parents, teachers, and society, and how even one painful comment can loop in the mind as self-criticism. You'll also learn how projections shape the way you see yourself and others, and I'll guide you through a simple questioning process to dismantle unhelpful beliefs so you can move toward a kinder inner dialogue.In this episode, you'll:Discover how the inner critic is formed and why it speaks so harshly.Learn how projections influence your beliefs about yourself.Explore a practical questioning process to dissolve negative self-talk.Go Deeper: Join me in the Becoming Secure women's membership. Tools, teachings, and practices to do the inner work, and Heal Anxious Attachment

http://www.sherylkline.com/blogWhat if your imposter feelings weren't an enemy… but a friend and confidant?Not just a cheerleader—but a wise, honest guide imparting wisdom.Instead of resisting it, try this:✔️ Acknowledge it: “I notice I'm feeling like an imposter—and that's okay.”✔️ Ask: “If this feeling were a trusted friend, what would it say?”This exercise helps you defuse the shame, mine the wisdom, and access the emotional agility to lead with your full power and heart.What if your inner critic was really your fiercest advocate in disguise? If that voice actually wanted to lift you up, what would it say? Comment below ... I would love to hear your perspective!

What if the harsh voice in your head isn't “the truth,” but a clumsy survival strategy that can be rewired in minutes? In this episode, Megan blends Scripture with brain science to reveal why negative self-talk keeps recreating the same outcomes—and how a few surprisingly playful shifts (yes, playful) can lower its volume, change its meaning, and open up a calmer, more productive inner world. You'll hear a raw origin story, then step-by-step tools to interrupt the spiral, recode your “mental operating system,” and finally feel congruent with the woman you're working so hard to become. Inside the episode The real reason self-criticism sticks: its hidden “positive intent” and how to meet that need in a healthier way. A fast dissociation exercise to shrink the critic's power (including the “remote control” trick). The thermostat principle: how inner narratives quietly reset your results, regardless of achievement. Pattern-interrupt language that stops rumination and pivots you into action. Faith × neuroscience: practical ways to “renew your mind” so behavior change lasts. State shifts on demand: using the body to move the mind when you're stuck. A bite-size, 3-day reset to turn your inner voice from bully to coach.   Mini Identity Reset (3 days, 30 min/day): Turn your inner voice from bully to coach and set a clear target with your renewed identity. DM RESET to @powerhousepageantry or @meganswansonrhodes   Follow us on IG  www.instagram.com/powerhousepageantry  www.instagram.com/meganswansonrhodes    Watch on Youtube www.youtube.com/@powerhousepageantry   PODCAST ESSENTIALS & GEAR I USE Blue Yeti Microphone https://amzn.to/3ZodLfr  Webcam https://a.co/d/8lKR6TA   Silver Yeti Glitter Wrap: https://amzn.to/3LiTSjR  Awesome Computer-Attached Light https://amzn.to/3P5WByh  As an Amazon Associate, I earn from qualifying purchases at no cost to you.   Listen on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/3nbUVyQqfT5CLYSZO6wWgs?si=abf5437f5e5c413b   Listen on Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-powerhouse-podcast-how-to-win-your-pageant-how-to/id1448191693    On this podcast, we talk about… identity work for women, faith and identity, purpose over performance, self worth vs achievement, you are not what you do, values alignment, limiting beliefs, belief reprogramming, identity shift, core state change, inner child work, mindset reset, confidence from identity, purpose driven life, Christian identity coaching, life after pageants, life after big goal, rebuild confidence after failure, how to find purpose again, sustainable success habits, daily check-in routine, evening reflection practice, morning identity routine, goal setting that sticks, break perfectionism paralysis, progress over perfection, achievement addiction, identity work, mindset coaching, pageant mindset, dopamine trap, burnout recovery, confidence, Christian coaching, neurolinguistic programming  

If you struggle with a harsh inner critic — whether it shows up as perfectionism, relentless self-judgment, or shame about the past — this episode is for you. We're unpacking the roots of that punitive inner voice, how it tries to keep us safe, and the real cost it can have on our self-worth, our nervous system, and our ability to grow. We'll also explore what it looks like to relate to ourselves differently: to meet our inner critic with compassion rather than fear, and to begin the process of forgiving ourselves for the things we wish we'd done differently.In this episode, we'll cover:The role of the inner critic and what it's really trying to doWhy punishing yourself doesn't lead to growth (and what does)Why self-forgiveness can be so difficultHow to hold responsibility without collapsing into shamePractical ways to begin softening your inner critic and making peace with your pastHighlighted Links Free Break-Up Training: The 3 Shifts That Help Anxiously Attached People Heal After a Break-up How to Heal Anxious Attachment and (Finally) Feel Secure in Life & Love London Event: tickets here Additional Resources Download the FREE Anxious Attachment Starter Kit here Join my email list

What if your anxiety wasn't just about your thoughts—but your unfelt feelings? In this powerful clip, counselor Nancy Jane Smith breaks down why our inner critic (aka the “monger”) might feel like it's helping us succeed, but is actually holding us back. She shares how acknowledging your emotions—even for just 90 seconds—can change everything. If you've ever wrestled with perfectionism, burnout, or anxiety, this one will hit home. Listen to the full episode here: https://www.aboutprogress.com/blog/https:%2F%2Faboutprogress-com%2Fnancy-jane-smith%2F Sign up as a Supporter to get access to our private, premium, ad-free podcast, More Personal. Episodes air each Friday! ⁠Get on the waitlist for Italy!⁠ Single traveler survey ⁠here⁠. More for Moms Conference Leave a rating and review Check out my ⁠workshops⁠! Follow About Progress on YOUTUBE! Book Launch Committee Free DSL Training Full Show Notes Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Your inner critic doesn't have to run the show. This episode offers one reframe and a powerful shift that helps you talk to yourself like someone you care for.Ready to silence self-doubt? Take the Imposter Syndrome Assessment Your clarity starts here. https://candymotzek.lpages.co/is-score/

Join my upcoming Positive Intelligence© Program: https://www.vickibaird.com/positive-intelligence-purchase-vicki-baird   In this special episode of Intuition: Your Success Compass, I'm sharing a recording from one of our live Wednesday night workshops, because the conversation was too good to keep to ourselves. We explored what it means to check in with your life before you feel like everything's on fire, how to work with (not against) that inner critic, and why even the most minor changes—what I call micromovements can shift everything. This isn't about overhauling your entire life overnight. It's about listening to your intuitive voice, slowing down enough to actually hear it, and taking one aligned step at a time. You'll hear honest reflections on transitions, mortality (yep, we went there), and the toll of tolerating what no longer fits. Grab a journal, breathe deeply, and join me for a powerful reflection on intentional living, celebrating your wins, and giving yourself permission to want more without shame, guilt, or apology.  

In this episode of Typology, I sit down with Alicia Michelle—an Enneagram One and host of The Christian Mindset Coach podcast—for a meaningful conversation about emotions, perfectionism, and the journey toward self-compassion. Alicia shares her story of discovering her true type, the freedom that comes from quieting the inner critic, and her practical ADD method (Acknowledge, Discern, Decide) for processing emotions. Together, we explore the importance of emotional literacy, how different types experience emotions, and why learning to govern our inner world is key to growth. Whether you're new to the Enneagram or eager to go deeper, this episode offers fresh insights and practical tools for navigating your emotional life with greater clarity and grace.  

Download: Thought Challenge WorksheetWhat if the harshest critic you've ever known lives inside your own head?That relentless voice telling you you're not good enough, you'll never change, you always mess things up – it's been running the show for far too long. In this eye-opening episode, hosts Duane and Eric reveal how your inner critic has been acting as judge, jury, and executioner of your self-worth, especially during addiction and trauma recovery.But here's the game-changer: you don't have to be a victim of your own thoughts anymore.Using powerful techniques from Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), this episode teaches you how to become your own defense attorney. You'll learn to identify the sneaky cognitive distortions that fuel your inner critic – like all-or-nothing thinking, catastrophizing, and emotional reasoning – and discover a simple but life-changing method to challenge these automatic negative thoughts.This isn't about toxic positivity or pretending everything is fine. It's about finding truth, balance, and compassion in how you talk to yourself. Duane and Eric walk you through a practical thought-challenging exercise that you can use immediately when that critic gets loud.The hosts share real examples of how to transform thoughts like "I'm a complete failure" into more balanced perspectives that acknowledge your pain while opening doors to healing and growth. They explain why our feelings, though valid, aren't always accurate reflections of reality – and how emotional reasoning can trap us in cycles of shame and relapse.Every time you challenge a negative thought and find counter-evidence, you're literally rewiring your brain. You're building new neural pathways that are more balanced and resilient. Most importantly, you're shifting from being a passive victim of your thoughts to becoming an active participant in your emotional wellbeing.Ready to put your inner critic on trial? This episode gives you the tools to start today.Key TopicsCognitive distortions - identifying black-and-white thinking, catastrophizing, and emotional reasoning The CBT thought-challenging method - questioning evidence for and against negative thoughts Emotional reasoning trap - why feeling something doesn't make it factually true Creating balanced alternatives - reframing thoughts without toxic positivity Self-compassion techniques - asking "what would I tell a dear friend?" Neural pathway rewiring - how challenging thoughts physically changes your brain Practical worksheet tool - step-by-step guide for thought recordsTimestamps[00:01:00] - Meet your harshest critic (spoiler: it's you) [00:03:00] - The pain of living under constant internal negativity [00:06:00] - Introduction to cognitive restructuring and CBT techniques [00:07:00] - Common cognitive distortions in addiction recovery [00:10:00] - The thought-challenging courtroom method [00:13:00] - Creating balanced alternative thoughts (real examples) [00:16:00] - Free worksheet download and practical next stepsSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

In this episode of the Dethroning Your Inner Critic podcast, I'm pulling back the curtain on a powerful realization—how hidden shame shaped my success, motherhood, money stories, and the constant pressure to be “enough.” We'll unpack how shame often hides beneath perfectionism, overachievement, and people-pleasing—and how your Inner Critic keeps you stuck chasing a version of success that never truly satisfies. If you've ever felt like you're doing all the right things but still feel like it's not enough, this conversation is your wake-up call. ✨ Tune in to learn how unhooking from shame can free you to actually receive the life you've worked so hard to create.   Your weekly reflection questions: Where in your life are you still measuring your worth by how much you achieve or control?   What subtle messages from your Inner Critic might be fueling hidden shame in your relationships, work, or parenting?   Who would you be—and how would you live—if you no longer believed you had to prove you're enough?  

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Join my upcoming Positive Intelligence© Program: https://www.vickibaird.com/positive-intelligence-purchase-vicki-baird Please consider becoming a supporter of Peaceful Acres Horses, no matter how small you think your donation is, it will mean lot for us: https://peacefulacreshorses.com/donation-to-pah/ Feeling stuck or waiting for a breakthrough? Here's the truth: no one's coming to save you—and that's actually great news. In this episode of Intuition: Your Success Compass, I (Vicki Baird, your wisdom-led mindset coach) walk you through the empowering shift of taking radical responsibility for your life. We'll talk about the sneaky ways the inner critic shows up when you're over-functioning, waiting for permission, or stuck in self-doubt. I share personal stories, intuitive tools, and one powerful Hawaiian practice (Ho'oponopono) to help you move forward with grace and self-compassion. If you're a business-minded woman over 40 who's tired of holding it all together while losing touch with your own needs, this is your sign to press play. Let's trade guilt for growth and hesitation for aligned action.

High-capacity humans often misread transition as failure. If your growth feels slow, awkward, or invisible — this episode helps you reframe what's really happening and shows you how to keep moving forward.If you've been doing the inner work but still feel like nothing's changing — this one's for you. In today's episode, Julie Holly names what every high-capacity human needs to hear: you're not behind — you're becoming. She shares why transitions are disorienting by design, what happens when your nervous system is mid-shift, and how to anchor yourself in truth when your progress feels invisible. This one will reframe your process and remind you you're not alone.IN THIS EPISODE, WE COVER: • Why growth often feels awkward, slow, and invisible • How to recognize the tension of becoming • The hidden purpose behind disorientation • Why high-capacity humans misread transition as failure • How Winston Churchill modeled aligned persistence • The identity traps that sabotage your sense of progress • A personal reflection from Julie's mid-transition recalibration • Why clarity often comes after the courageous stepTODAY'S MICRO-RECALIBRATIONThink of one place you've been saying, “I should be further along by now.”Now pause.Ask:What if this is what forward looks like right now?What's the truth about who I'm becoming — even if no one else can see it yet?What can I honor about this quiet part of the process? You're not behind. You're becoming. Let that truth settle in.If this episode gave you language you've been missing, please rate and review the show so more high-capacity humans can find it. Explore Identity-Level Recalibration→ Follow Julie Holly on LinkedIn for more recalibration insights → Schedule a conversation with Julie to see if The Recalibration is a fit for you → Download the Misalignment Audit → Subscribe to the weekly newsletter → Join the waitlist for the next Recalibration cohort This isn't therapy. This isn't coaching. This is identity recalibration — and it changes everything.

Just when you're leveling up, the inner noise gets loud. In this episode, we unpack why your mind questions everything when you're on the brink of more — and how to tell truth from fear. Let's recalibrate the voices within.Success shouldn't feel like sabotage — but for high-capacity humans, inner fragmentation often follows breakthrough.In this episode, Julie Holly walks you through the different voices that show up in your head after a win — and why discerning truth from fear is essential for sustainable, identity-aligned growth.This is more than mindset. It's Identity-Level Recalibration — the shift that silences shame and amplifies clarity.What We Explore in This Episode:• Why your inner critic gets louder after success• The real reason high performers question their worth after a win• The four primary internal voices — and how to spot each one• A personal story about raising coaching rates and facing the noise• Why even founders like Phil Knight battled post-success self-doubt• How false humility masquerades as wisdom to keep you small• The nervous system shift from survival response to internal trust• What it means to follow your true voice — not your old programmingToday's Micro-RecalibrationPause and listen. What's the dominant voice in your head today?Ask yourself:• Is this voice rooted in truth — or in fear?• Is it protective, performative, or aligned?• What would my next move be if I trusted the quieter voice within?Try this identity anchor:“I am becoming the kind of person who leads my inner world with clarity and conviction — not confusion and fear.”You're not meant to manage your thoughts — you're meant to lead them.If this episode gave you language you've been missing, please rate and review the show so more high-capacity humans can find it. Explore Identity-Level Recalibration→ Follow Julie Holly on LinkedIn for more recalibration insights → Schedule a conversation with Julie to see if The Recalibration is a fit for you → Download the Misalignment Audit → Subscribe to the weekly newsletter → Join the waitlist for the next Recalibration cohort This isn't therapy. This isn't coaching. This is identity recalibration — and it changes everything.

High-capacity humans don't always realize it — but their inner voice is shaping who they become. This episode shows how self-talk becomes identity, and how to shift it without shame.Self-talk isn't just personal — it's powerful. In this episode of Identity-Level Recalibration, Julie Holly unpacks how the language we use inside becomes the foundation of who we're becoming. You'll learn the neuroscience behind self-talk, the leadership ripple effect of internal tone, and how to build a feedback loop aligned with your future identity. With a story from Simone Biles, a micro-recalibration you can apply today, and an invitation to lead yourself with clarity and compassion — this episode helps you interrupt the loop and recalibrate at the root.IN THIS EPISODE, WE COVER:• How your self-talk creates internal identity feedback loops• Why high-capacity humans often default to internal pressure• A story of personal recalibration during a high-growth season• How Simone Biles modeled real-time self-leadership on the world stage• The neuroscience of belief reinforcement through language• What true self-leadership looks like in daily life• A powerful extension for leaders who shape team culture• How to begin interrupting the loop without shameTODAY'S MICRO-RECALIBRATIONNotice your self-talk — and ask:Would I speak this way to someone I love?Is this reinforcing who I was — or who I'm becoming?What language feels honest and aligned?If you lead a team:How does your tone with yourself ripple into how others speak to themselves?You don't have to master this overnight.You just need to begin interrupting the loop.If this episode gave you language you've been missing, please rate and review the show so more high-capacity humans can find it. Explore Identity-Level Recalibration→ Follow Julie Holly on LinkedIn for more recalibration insights → Schedule a conversation with Julie to see if The Recalibration is a fit for you → Download the Misalignment Audit → Subscribe to the weekly newsletter → Join the waitlist for the next Recalibration cohort This isn't therapy. This isn't coaching. This is identity recalibration — and it changes everything.

TW: This episode contains reference to eating disorders and poor self-worth.Ro Mitchell is a content creator and mental health advocate, who has documented her recovery journey online and curated a warm, engaged audience in the process.In part one, Ro joins Dr Alex George to discuss the concept of the ‘inner critic' - a voice inside your head that's actively harming you, not helping you. She dissects how she broke her spiral of negative thinking to transform her life.Plus, Ro discusses how debilitating life with an eating disorder can be and unpacks how negative self-talk can damage your relationships…Follow @romitchell and buy her book ‘How to Talk to Yourself: From Self-Doubt to Self-Confidence'. By using our affiliate bookshop you'll help fund Stompcast by earning a small commission for every sale. Bookshop.org's fees help support independent bookshops too!Preorder Happy Habits hereFollow the podcast on Instagram @thestompcastGet the new, pocket guide version of The Mind Manual nowDownload Mettle: the mental fitness app for men Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode of Dethroning Your Inner Critic, I'm sharing the truth I wish I had learned years ago: Your vision isn't just something to do—it's something you have to become. If you've been working so hard to build the next version of your life but still feel like something isn't clicking, this conversation is for you. We'll unpack why your Inner Critic keeps you stuck in striving, how to unhook from the fear and doubt that sabotage your growth, and why the real work is aligning your nervous system with the version of you who already feels free, worthy, and ready. This is about shifting from control to trust, from force to flow—and becoming the woman who can actually hold the life she's been asking for. ✨ Listen now to find out why the version of you you're becoming is the most important part of your vision.   Your weekly reflection questions: What version of me am I becoming—and is she aligned with the vision I'm trying to create? Where in my life am I still gripping control instead of trusting the process? What old beliefs or patterns need to be released so I can fully step into the next chapter of my life?  

Beyond the Brain: Why Your 3D Identity Isn't Who You Really Are What This Episode Is Really About: We're getting real about identity—because the person you think you are… probably isn't the whole story. In this episode, Penny breaks down the neuroscience, subconscious programming, and soul-level insight behind why your 3D identity—your "I am" story, fears, and mental patterns—isn't actually who you are. It's just what your brain has been taught to believe. You'll discover how your brain's default mode network (DMN), dopamine loops, and outdated self-concepts hijack your growth—and how hypnosis can interrupt and realign these patterns at the identity level. Whether you're on a spiritual journey or simply trying to get unstuck, this episode gives you a radically empowering reframe: You are not broken. You are programmable. And you have the power to choose what you're programmed for. Highlights & Breakthroughs: How the brain creates your 3D identity through memory, comparison, and reward loops Why “I'm not good enough” is often just a dopamine-fueled safety mechanism What the default mode network (DMN) is—and how it keeps you in old patterns The difference between your brain, your mind, and consciousness Why spiritual seekers often get stuck even with all the right mindset tools How hypnosis recalibrates identity and removes subconscious blocks The Identity Matrix™ method: How Penny's process rewires self-concept at the deepest level What happens when you shift from “the person who has the problem” to “the one who no longer needs it” Real Talk: Your thoughts, fears, and "I am not enough" loops? That's just old code running on your brain's hardware. You are consciousness. Your brain is a computer. Hypnosis is the keyboard. Ready to Deepen Your Influence?

In this episode of the Profitable Christian Business Podcast, host Doug Greathouse interviews entrepreneur and author Albert Pellissier, whose book "What's on Your Backburner?" challenges entrepreneurs to awaken dormant desires and confront the inner conflicts holding them back from meaningful success. Albert opens up about the intersection of faith, ambition, and laziness, and shares how God used his personal journey to help others step into their true calling. Together, Doug and Albert explore how unchecked investment bias, doom scrolling, and self-sedation habits mask our deeper purpose — and how to break free. This episode is a call to reignite what God placed in your heart long ago and to step forward with intention, clarity, and spiritual alignment.

In this episode, Kamini Wood explores the phenomenon of the inner critic, that voice of self-doubt and judgment that often becomes loudest just before a significant achievement. She explains that this is a common psychological occurrence, as the inner critic's primary, albeit misguided, function is to protect us from perceived emotional threats. Drawing on research from Dr. Valerie Young, Kamini notes that 70% of successful individuals experience this inner criticism, particularly during major career or personal milestones. The episode offers several actionable tools to manage this self-criticism, including cognitive reframing to challenge negative thoughts, mindful awareness to create space between the thought and the self, and cultivating self-compassion. Other strategies discussed are exposure and progressive action to build confidence through small steps, and journaling to externalize and challenge critical thoughts. Kamini concludes by encouraging listeners to see the loud inner critic not as a sign of inadequacy, but as an indicator that they are on the verge of significant progress.Discover more powerful tips and guidance here: https://www.kaminiwood.com/blog/Learn more about my coaching services: https://www.kaminiwood.com/services/Follow me for more empowering inspiration and guidance:https://www.instagram.com/itsauthenticme/https://www.facebook.com/itsauthenticme/https://www.pinterest.com/itsauthenticme/

Feeling like a fraud? You're not alone—and you're not broken. In this episode of It's Your Time, Certified Life Coach Michelle Arnold Bourque shares how to transform your inner critic, release imposter syndrome, and build real self-trust using tools from neuroscience, CBT, and her Empowered Rhythm Method. You'll walk away with: A simple 3-step process to reframe self-doubt Journal prompts to shift your mindset Powerful insights on how self-compassion rewires your brain for confidence Ready to rise into your next level of leadership—without burning out? Let's go.

When it comes to leading a private practice, most people focus on strategy, logistics, and profitability. But what if the secret to becoming a better therapist, leader, and human being isn't outside of you, but inside? In this episode, Gordon Brewer sat down with Rachel Bentley of Next Level Private Practice to explore how Internal Family Systems (IFS)—or "parts work"—has completely transformed the way she leads, supervises, and shows up in the therapy room. Spoiler: it's not just about helping your clients—it starts with understanding yourself. Resources Mentioned In This Episode  Read the show notes here Watch on YouTube  Use the promo code “GORDON” to get 2 months of Therapy Notes free Consulting with Gordon The PsychCraft Network Meet Rachel Bentley Rachel Bentley is a Licensed Professional Counselor and IFS Level 2 trained therapist. She is the CEO and Founder of COR Counseling, a group practice of 40 clinicians. COR is LGBTQIA+ centered and affirming. As Rachel built a sustainable and profitable group practice, folks started coming to her for advice and mentorship. Because of this, she created Next Level Private Practice—a consulting company that helps clinicians in all stages of private practice. Are you ready to take your private practice to the next level? Whether you're launching your practice, expanding from solo to group, or sustaining a thriving group practice, Next Level Private Practice is here to support you at every stage. We offer: On-demand courses A comprehensive practice assessment Mentorship groups One-on-one consulting You'll also gain access to a vibrant community through our Facebook group, and be invited to Lunch with Rachel—a free monthly Zoom event packed with expert insights and practical resources. We're also thrilled to announce the Next Level Private Practice Summit, taking place in Grand Rapids, MI, in late September 2025. The summit will be a place to: 1. Connect and build community with like-minded folks who do the work you do (no more isolation!) 2. Get inspired and reenergized about your work as a therapist, business owner—or both 3. Learn from 30+ speakers who will provide tangible takeaways and action steps to help you begin or grow your practice Join us and build a practice that's not just successful—but sustainable. Next Level Private Practice Folks can join our FB group/community here Next Level Private Practice Summit Next Level Private Practice Instagram  

Mark MacNichol, a playwright and charity director, shares how his therapeutic approach called Anonymous Drama helps people in recovery and the justice system process trauma and develop emotional wellbeing by viewing their inner thoughts as characters in a play.• Anonymous Drama is not traditional theater but uses dramatic techniques for therapeutic purposes• The program helps participants identify characters in their life story, such as the protagonist, the inner critic, and the inner mentor• Anonymity protocol allows people to explore trauma through fictional characters without revealing personal experiences• Participants learn to recognize the difference between their negative inner critic and their positive inner mentor• Over 5,000 people have participated in Anonymous Drama programs, primarily in justice and recovery settings• The method works by helping people "rewrite their scripts" and develop healthier relationships with themselves• Mark developed this approach after his own experiences with family addiction and losing his brother to heroin overdose• Programs are available through an app for individuals or through group sessions• Financial assistance is available for those who cannot afford the subscription feeTo learn more about Mark's work: https://www.markmacnicol.com/To contact Dr. Grover: ammadeeasy@fastmail.com

We're bringing you some of our favorite gems from the archives, as chosen by our staff. This week, we're hearing from therapist Dick Schwartz, as chosen by Mani Chandy from our Substack team. Schwartz is the founder of Internal Family Systems, a way of looking at all of the various “parts” that we have inside ourselves, and how they can work together or make things harder for us.  Full Episodes: How to Handle Your Demons | Richard SchwartzHow (and Why) To Hug Your Inner Dragons | Richard Schwartz Get ready for another Meditation Party at Omega Institute! This in-person workshop brings together Dan with his friends and meditation teachers, Sebene Selassie, Jeff Warren, and for the first time, Ofosu Jones-Quartey. The event runs October 24th-26th. Sign up and learn more here! Join Dan's online community here Follow Dan on social: Instagram, TikTok Subscribe to our YouTube Channel To advertise on the show, contact sales@advertisecast.com or visit https://advertising.libsyn.com/10HappierwithDanHarris

For so long, I believed that the only way to create a successful, fulfilling life was by pushing harder, doing more, and holding it all together—until I realized that real transformation begins the moment I stop gripping and start trusting. In this episode, I'm sharing the deeper truth about why effort alone isn't the answer—and how your Inner Critic may be keeping you stuck in fear, doubt, and striving. Together, we'll explore how to shift from force to flow, from scarcity to abundance, and from control to alignment using the MIND Method™. If you're craving more ease, clarity, and freedom—not just in what you do, but in who you're becoming—this is a conversation you don't want to miss. ✨ Tune in and begin to remember the version of you who already holds the key.   Your weekly reflection questions: What part of me is still gripping for control, and what would it feel like to finally let go? Where in my life am I chasing worth instead of embodying it? Who am I becoming when I choose alignment over striving?  

Join my upcoming Positive Intelligence© Program: https://www.vickibaird.com/positive-intelligence-purchase-vicki-baird   Please consider becoming a supporter of Peaceful Acres Horses, no matter how small you think your donation is, it will mean lot for us: https://peacefulacreshorses.com/donation-to-pah/   In this episode of Intuition: Your Success Compass, I'm calling out the over-functioning, over-responsible, brilliant women who've been holding it all together but forgetting to check in with themselves. I see you. I've been you. And I'm here to ask: What is it that you would like today?  We're digging into the powerful (and sneaky) influence of the inner critic—how she pushes us to do more, be more, and never ask for help. I'll share how naming your inner critic, getting curious about your unmet needs, and choosing to invest in yourself (even in small ways) can shift everything.  If you're ready to stop running on obligation and start living from clarity and self-trust, this episode will meet you right where you are. Let's talk self-care, soul connection, and quieting the inner voice that says you're only valuable when you're producing.      

In this episode, Holly and Kelly explore what it means to define and redefine your creative identity. We talk about the ways creativity helps us grow, the blocks that sneak in, and how to give yourself permission to evolve. Whether you're a long-time creator or just starting to explore your creative side, this conversation is for you.In this episode, we explore:– How to discover (and rediscover) who you are as a creative– Why letting go is key to creative growth– The fears that hold us back (and how to move through them)– Our personal journeys of redefining ourselves and the podcast– What's next for How the Wise One Grows

We live in a world that trains us to focus on negativity. A world that wants us to contract, to judge, and expect the worst from ourselves (and others). That's why being self-critical is our default. We absorb the script early: that we're not good enough, not lovable enough, not deserving of ease or joy. Over time, that internal voice becomes automatic, so automatic that we don't even hear it anymore. Then your inner landscape shifts into wholeness, and you start to notice it more. How do we shift ourselves out of that default state of negativity? Sometimes, it's as simple as anchoring ourselves with something that reminds us that we are deserving of wonderful things. A beloved stuffed animal, a goofy rubber ducky, or a simple action that interrupts the spiral, these anchors remind us of what's still possible: connection, curiosity, happiness, and love. When we surround ourselves with reminders of our softness and our worth, we start to rewrite the default script. In this playful and profound episode, we delve into how small, meaningful objects and seemingly simple rituals can evoke powerful emotional shifts. From feeding a roadrunner named Angus to discovering the magic of face-flapping, we unpack the hidden brilliance behind anchoring practices that help us come home to ourselves.    Things You'll Learn In This Episode  -Your inner critic is running on autopilot Most of us default to self-judgment. How do we gently interrupt that loop using physical movement, play, and sensory cues? -A rubber duck can change your life Symbolic objects are a powerful way to remind ourselves of the magic of connection. How can a childhood toy or scented fabric anchor us to self-kindness and creativity when we feel stuck? -Noticing the drift How do we develop the subtle but powerful witness muscle that helps us recognize when we've left our center? What's the quickest way to come back?     About Your Hosts Katie Hendricks, Ph.D., BC-DMT, is a pioneer in body intelligence and conscious loving with over 40 years of experience. Known internationally as a presenter and seminar leader, she focuses on authenticity, responsibility, and appreciation in conscious living. She co-authored 12 books, including best-sellers Conscious Loving and Conscious Loving Ever After, and she has appeared on over 500 radio and TV programs. Sophie Chiche is a seasoned coach and consultant who has worked with thousands of individuals and teams globally. With a focus on helping people live fully expressed lives, she guides clients and facilitates group sessions to remove obstacles and design meaningful lives. Sophie has developed unique methods, mindset shifts, and healing modalities to create lasting change.     Check out this episode on our website, Apple Podcasts, or Spotify and don't forget to leave a review if you like what you heard. Your review feeds the algorithm so the show reaches more people!  

When author and leadership facilitator Rosi Greenberg found herself overwhelmed by self-doubt, she did something unexpected: she gave her inner critic a name — Sam — and drew him into a whimsical, deeply personal book that blends creativity, vulnerability, and behavioral insight. In this episode, Rosi shares how visualizing and engaging with that critical voice helped her build emotional resilience and lead with more empathy. Together, we explore how naming your inner critic can reframe fear, unlock creative expression, and reshape how we show up for ourselves and others. Topics [0:00] Introduction and Speed Round with Rosi Greenberg [8:22] The birth of Sam [11:00] From depression to creative healing [16:50] How self-soubt shows up in leadership [24:08] Working with leaders on self-doubt [35:35] Reframing the Inner Critic [47:00] Letting go of “shoulds” [50:28] Desert island music [52:00] Grooving Session: framing, leadership, and self-talk ©2025 Behavioral Grooves Links Everyone Has a Sam by Rosi Greenberg The Inner Critic on YouTube About Rosi Join us on Substack! Join the Behavioral Grooves community Subscribe to Behavioral Grooves on YouTube Music Links This is Me - Ke$ha

Do you ever feel like you're stuck in a loop of negative self-talk? You're not alone!   In this remix moment, we are diving into the sneaky power of self-talk and how it can either uplift you or keep you stuck in a rut.   I also share my Triple C Belief Breakthrough Method, which is all about catching, checking, and changing the thoughts that don't serve you.   Let's work together to replace limiting beliefs with empowering ones! Tune in to discover how to break free from the thought patterns that are holding you back and start creating a mindset that works for you!  

For so long, I shaped my life around who I thought I needed to be—checking the boxes, playing the roles, staying safe in the familiar. But deep down, something was always stirring: a quiet knowing that I was meant for more. In this episode, I'm inviting you into the sacred space between who you've been… and who you're becoming. We'll explore what it really means to step out of your Inner Critic's identity—the one built on perfection, control, and people-pleasing—and into the version of you who's wise, whole, and wildly free. ✨ If you've been feeling restless, like you're outgrowing the life you once worked so hard to build—this conversation is your invitation to stop performing and start returning to your truth. Listen now and begin the next chapter of your life rooted in power, presence, and your Authentic Self.   Your weekly reflection questions: What version of me have I been performing—and what truth have I been hiding underneath that role? Where in my life am I still letting my Inner Critic make the decisions—and what would shift if I chose from my Authentic Self instead? If I stopped waiting for permission, recognition, or certainty… what bold step would I take next?  

If you have thoughts whipping around your mind at 3am or during the day come to that, so you're frequently exhausted by being caught up in the tornado of ideas, this episode is for you. I explore the power of emotional contagion, the swirl of analysis paralysis, and why your inner storm is not the enemy. It is time to stop ghosting your needs and start taming the whirlwind so you can think deeply without losing yourself in the noise. Your thoughts are loud because you care, that is not a flaw, it is your compass.   ** Key Points ** Tame the Tornado Trap Progress trumps perfection Anchor your emotional impact   #EmotionalIntelligence #Introverts #FlourishingIntroverts   *** Resources *** Visit https://hub.flourishingintroverts.com/resourcesp for tools and resources mentioned during the podcast.  

Have you ever felt like an impostor when presenting yourself in a new job, role, or project? It's a common obstacle when putting ourselves "out there" in the world. Perhaps you doubt your abilities or don't feel like you have enough knowledge. Perhaps you fear making mistakes, especially if a past failure haunts you. There may even be a deep seated unworthiness at the core, keeping you from following your dreams. In this episode Kathleen Aspenns and Rochana Felde talk about the facets of imposter syndrome and how Flower Essence Therapy can be tuned to each nuance. We explore the key flower and gem essences to support us in unconditionally accepting ourselves, centering ourselves in trust, valuing our worth, and finding the courage to take the next step.

In this episode, Michelle Chalfant explores how to quiet the inner critic and finally get unstuck. She has spent 25 years developing practical tools for working with what she calls the other wolf. Michelle explains why most of us are making decisions from the emotional age of about 13. And she'll give you the exact process for transforming triggers into growth. Her motto is “I will let nothing or no one disconnect me from myself.” and by the end of this conversation, you'll know how to make that your reality too.Discover the six hidden saboteurs that quietly derail your best intentions—like autopilot behavior, self-doubt, and emotional escape. Download our free guide to uncover what's getting in your way and learn simple strategies to take back control. Get it now at oneyoufeed.net/ebook.Key Takeaways:The internal struggle with inner voices, represented by the metaphor of two wolves (one good and one bad).Negative self-talk and the journey towards self-compassion and self-acceptance.Emotional age and how it influences decision-making and behavior.Techniques for regulating the nervous system and creating space for conscious responses to triggers.The importance of recognizing and working through emotional triggers as opportunities for growth.Distinguishing between healthy anger and being stuck in a triggered state.The significance of owning one's reality and the discomfort that often accompanies this process.Developmental model of the “Three Chair Model” (Child, Adolescent, Adult) and its implications for personal growth.The five pillars that support personal transformation, including owning the good in one's life.Practical tools and scripts for managing emotional patterns and the inner critic.If you enjoyed this conversation with Michelle Chalfant, check out these other episodes:How to Tame Your Inner Critic with Dr. Aziz GazipuraHow to Overcome Overthinking with Jon AcuffHow to Harness the Chatter in Your Head with Ethan KrossFor full show notes, click here!Connect with the show:Follow us on YouTube: @TheOneYouFeedPodSubscribe on Apple Podcasts or SpotifyFollow us on InstagramSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Jennifer Pastiloff is a bestselling author and creator of the viral "On Being Human" movement. This conversation explores her journey from childhood trauma to radical self-acceptance, her concept of silencing the "inner asshole," and why your want is enough to change everything. We discuss her father's death at eight, living in "the land of fine," and the revolutionary idea that you are your proof of life. She demonstrates how our deepest wounds become our greatest superpowers for connection. Jennifer is a rare gem. This exchange is deeply nourishing. Enjoy! Show notes + MORE Watch on YouTube Newsletter Sign-Up   Today's Sponsors: Go Brewing: Use the code Rich Roll for 15% OFF

In this call in, Stefan Molyneux speaks with a caller who shares his experience of connecting with a woman he met at a dance event. Although initially attracted to her charm, the caller uncovers deeper issues as their relationship develops. He learns about her troubled past, including a prior long-term relationship and her experiences with casual relationships, culminating in a significant revelation of childhood trauma. As the caller grapples with the disconnect between his initial perception of her and the dysfunctions he encounters, Stefan highlights the importance of recognizing one's inner critic and the complexities of attraction to seemingly lovely individuals with hidden struggles. The discussion emphasizes the need for self-awareness and discernment in romantic pursuits and the impact of personal history on relationships. Ultimately, the conversation provides valuable insights into navigating emotional dynamics and fostering healthier connections.FOLLOW ME ON X! https://x.com/StefanMolyneuxGET MY NEW BOOK 'PEACEFUL PARENTING', THE INTERACTIVE PEACEFUL PARENTING AI, AND THE FULL AUDIOBOOK!https://peacefulparenting.com/Join the PREMIUM philosophy community on the web for free!Subscribers get 12 HOURS on the "Truth About the French Revolution," multiple interactive multi-lingual philosophy AIs trained on thousands of hours of my material - as well as AIs for Real-Time Relationships, Bitcoin, Peaceful Parenting, and Call-In Shows!You also receive private livestreams, HUNDREDS of exclusive premium shows, early release podcasts, the 22 Part History of Philosophers series and much more!See you soon!https://freedomain.locals.com/support/promo/UPB2025

In this call in, Stefan Molyneux speaks with a caller who shares his experience of connecting with a woman he met at a dance event. Although initially attracted to her charm, the caller uncovers deeper issues as their relationship develops. He learns about her troubled past, including a prior long-term relationship and her experiences with casual relationships, culminating in a significant revelation of childhood trauma. As the caller grapples with the disconnect between his initial perception of her and the dysfunctions he encounters, Stefan highlights the importance of recognizing one's inner critic and the complexities of attraction to seemingly lovely individuals with hidden struggles. The discussion emphasizes the need for self-awareness and discernment in romantic pursuits and the impact of personal history on relationships. Ultimately, the conversation provides valuable insights into navigating emotional dynamics and fostering healthier connections.FOLLOW ME ON X! https://x.com/StefanMolyneuxGET MY NEW BOOK 'PEACEFUL PARENTING', THE INTERACTIVE PEACEFUL PARENTING AI, AND THE FULL AUDIOBOOK!https://peacefulparenting.com/Join the PREMIUM philosophy community on the web for free!Subscribers get 12 HOURS on the "Truth About the French Revolution," multiple interactive multi-lingual philosophy AIs trained on thousands of hours of my material - as well as AIs for Real-Time Relationships, Bitcoin, Peaceful Parenting, and Call-In Shows!You also receive private livestreams, HUNDREDS of exclusive premium shows, early release podcasts, the 22 Part History of Philosophers series and much more!See you soon!https://freedomain.locals.com/support/promo/UPB2025