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Failure at Forty challenges the notion of failure and redefines which success looks to you. Failure at Forty interviews, debates and discusses the reality of turning forty.

Shelhie & Guests


    • Oct 30, 2022 LATEST EPISODE
    • infrequent NEW EPISODES
    • 55m AVG DURATION
    • 31 EPISODES


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    S03 E09 - Christopher Syrus

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 30, 2022 59:06


    Christopher Syrus (BEM)- On the season finale we speak to Christopher Syrus. The father and entrepreneur who refused to let the obstacles of life hold him back. Chris expertly narrates his life story, his passion for serving the young people of his community, the importance of listening to your inner voice, developing your mindset and harnessing the power of your mind. This episode is packed with so much. Tune In to another unforgettable episode of failure at forty. 

    S03 E08 Michele Nestor

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 23, 2022 54:42


    Michelle Nestor - On this week's episode we speak to the business woman, mother and entrepreneur Michelle Nestor, who reminds us to think kindly, and speak positively about ourselves. Michelle explains how she managed depression after divorce, finding unknown siblings and the skill of manifesting what she wants. Another episode full of wisdom and gems. Join us on F40 to hear more. 

    S03 E07 Martin ‘DJ Milktray' Wright

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 16, 2022 93:06


    Martin takes us through his personal evolution, we explore how faith and family have been the rock in challenging times; and how belief has catapulted him towards his dreams. This ‘Sunday Service' is not to be missed. 

    S03 E06- Seyi Balogun

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 9, 2022 67:40


    Seyi Balogun- On today's Episode we have the pleasure of speaking to the Business Man, father and world traveller, Seyi Balogun. Seyi highlights the importance of education through travel, the challenges of growing up in London and the plight of fathers fighting for the right to see their children.

    S03 E05- Amy Newton

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 2, 2022 65:16


    On this week's episode we meet the straight talking business woman and advertising executive who carved out a new life and found love in the USA, Amy Newton.Amy expertly explains the challenges of living in the U.K. and the US, while managing fertility and still reaching for her dreams. Amy shares practical tips for manifesting your dreams and so much more.

    S03 E04 Esi Pyne

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 25, 2022 51:58


    Esi Pyne- On this week episode we meet the elegant and inspiring fitness enthusiast , Esi Pyne. We are beautifully led along Esi's life walk which is fused with culture, fitness, well being and some much more.

    S03 E03 Darren Springer- aka Shaq D

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 18, 2022 56:24


    The businessman by day and Dj by night, guides us through a journey of music, starting a business and managing loss. Sharing tips with every sentence, join us for another amazing episode

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    S03 E02 Terance Smith aka Max da cab driver

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 11, 2022 61:30


    Terance Smith- aka Max da cab driverOn today's episode we speak to the energetic entrepreneur Terance Smith. His story of divorce, finding love and pursuing his dreams, is discussed with humour and energy. Please tune in to hear some of his tips and gems, and why 40 is never a Failure!

    S03 E01 Simoine Morgan-Barnes

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 4, 2022 52:37


    Simoine Morgan-BarnesOpening Season 3 we have the no nonsense business woman,barrister/solicitor, and loving mother Simone Morgan- Barnes whounapologetically tells her truth about her journey to 40….and beyond

    S02E10 Season 2 Review

    Play Episode Listen Later May 29, 2021 40:23


    Live in the moment. Season 2 Review- Shelhie & Winnie revisit conversations and topics with this season's guests. We say thank you to the listeners for their support and Winnie shares exciting news. Not to be missed.

    S02E09 Charm, Jessica & NSJ Soul

    Play Episode Listen Later May 22, 2021 85:32


    Sisterhood Conversations- We end season 2 with an explosive episode. We welcome our past guests Charm, Jessica and NSJ back to address the views of Rafat & Justin, as well as examining the expectations women put on themselves and the assumptions put on them by others. Not to be missed. Welcome to Failure at Forty

    S02E08 Rafat Sai & Justin Williams

    Play Episode Listen Later May 15, 2021 70:36


    On this episode of Failure at Forty we are joined by our previous guests Rafat & Justin. This episode explores the battle of the sexes. The importance of elders, the impact of their absence, along with money management in relationships, selecting partners and much more. A jam packed episode full of interesting debates and laughter.Welcome to another episode of Failure at Forty.

    S02E07 Lerato Mosieleng-Jatto

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 18, 2021 56:23


    This week on Failure at Forty we speak to South African business woman Lerato Mosieleng-Jatto. Lerato beautifully brings her energy and warmth to our discussion, as she's expertly navigates her life journey and the reality of turning 40. Lerato reflects on her walked path as she recognises loss, growth, the impact of divorce, black culture, business, motherhood and the importance of expanding your circles.Welcome to another episode of Failure at Forty. 

    S02E06 Uzoamaka Placida Ojinnaka

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 3, 2021 68:24


    On this weeks episode of Failure at Forty, we speak to Lawyer & Disability activist, Placida. Placida skilfully describes a work environment which exposed her to challenging, hostile and unacceptable behaviour. Through her story we see how a black woman with a disability led by example, demonstrated integrity, brilliance and strength which was accompanied by knowledge of her rights, the right tools for the job and a no nonsense attitude. Placida has not only learnt from her experiences, but has gone on to support others with disabilities. Placida is a true champion for those with disabilities and a shining light to us all.Welcome to another episode of Failure at

    S02E05 Rafat Sai

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 28, 2021 66:29


    This week on the Failure at Forty podcast we speak to the no nonsense personal trainer, Rafat Sai. We listen closely as Sai passionately injects humour, love and light into his life story. Sai explains how he went from a ‘geek' to an enlightened black man. Sai shares the struggles of co parenting, tips on tapping into your manhood , making sacrifices for your children and guidance on how to grow in your relationship. Welcome to another episode of Failure at Forty.

    S02E04 NSJ Soul

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 21, 2021 68:30


    This week on Failure at Forty we speak to the witty and wonderful NSJ. ‘The Love Guru' from South London reflects on being a teenage parent, her gift for teaching, starting a new business and finding true love in her granddaughter. NSJ leaves no stone unturned.Welcome to Failure at Forty.

    S02E03 Valeria Villagra

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 14, 2021 37:37


    This week we meet the multi talented Valeria the financial executive who travelled the world, found love, happiness, hope and a new career. Valeria reminds us that regardless of the hand we are dealt in life we have the power to manifest better for ourselves. Welcome to Failure at Forty

    S02E02 Symone Reid

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 7, 2021 50:25


    This week we are graced with the presence of the dynamic events organiser, housing manager, international dancer and business owner Symone Reid. Symone honestly and openly steps through her world of friends, family, health, turning 40 and finding peace in herself. Welcome to Failure at Forty

    S02E01 Fitzgerald Mensah

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 28, 2021 60:30


    Fitzgerald Mensah- We kick season 2 off with the infectious and positive energy of Fitzgerald Mensah. The husband, father and entrepreneur navigates us through his evolvement from Ghana, to London and finally settling in Qatar. Skilfully narrating how leaving his 9-5, the stresses of life, being a young father and taking bold steps has developed him into the man he is today. Welcome to Failure At Forty

    S01E10 Season 1 Review

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 27, 2020 33:05


    F40 creator Chelhie and Co-host Winne discuss and share their thoughts on season 1.

    S01E09 Justin Williams

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 27, 2020 58:52


    Justin Williams -This week on Failure at Forty we speak to the lovable father, teacher and clothing designer, Justin Williams. Justin educates us on the need for good co parenting, absent fathers and growing up with racism in South London. Welcome to Failure At Forty

    S01E08 Dom Taylor

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 20, 2020 62:29


    This week on Failure at Forty we speak to the talented world class chef, Dom Taylor; who takes us on a journey of love, heartbreak and finding his purpose. Welcome to Failure at Forty.

    S01E07 Jessica

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 13, 2020 46:35


    On this weeks episode we are joined by Jessica. A single mum by day and DJ and music producer by night and the weekend! Jessica talks about balancing motherhood and a unconventional career and dealing with the pressures to conform to societies expectations in her 40's! Welcome to Failure At Forty!

    S01E06 Stef Johnson

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 6, 2020 44:54


    This week on Failure at Forty we welcome the inspirational Stef Johnson, single mother who leaves a challenging relationship, a highly pressured job, whilst managing mental health and becoming an amazing hypnotherapist.

    S01E05 Shawn Smith

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 29, 2020 48:51


    Shawn Smith - This week we welcome DJ and radio personality Shawn Smith to the podcast. Shawn discusses the ups and downs of finding love, absent fathers and becoming the man he is today. Welcome to Failure At Forty

    S01E04 Marianne Jones

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 15, 2020 54:58


    Marianne Jones- 40 year old Intuitive Coach discusses marriage and mental health, while starting her dream business. Welcome to failure at forty.

    S01E03 Alex Faleye

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 1, 2020 65:07


    Alex Faleye, the 43yr old entrepreneur who went from figuring out the ups and downs of life, to a reflective insightful family man with the world at his finger tips. Welcome to Failure at Forty

    S01E02 Charm Lawrence

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 17, 2020 65:26


    In this episode we speak to Charm Lawrence about her journey as a single mother, self love coach and business woman who finds her soul mate after divorce. Over fifteen years of experience, improving the lives of women both personally and professionally. ​Charm Lawrence facilitates workplace training and private self-improvement workshops as well as delivers confidence and achievement coaching. ​Charm became popular via her blog on surviving separation and has since ghost written for many who have struggled to express their journey via text. ​She has changed the lives of women around the country by teaching them how to build confidence and resilience and use it to aid their success.

    S01E01 Mulika Sannie

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 3, 2020 58:06


    Tune into to our very first podcast episode to hear Mulika take us along the highs and lows on her journey to 40. In this episode Mulika shares how she has found peace with not ticking-off societies list of expectations and shows us what success on your own terms looks like. Mulika Sannie is 39 and a native South Londoner and has lived in London all her life. She has worked in the music industry for over 15 years and is a qualified lawyer. She is currently Senior Vice President of Business Affairs at Kobalt Music Group Limited. She is the founder of the UK Black Music Lawyers Network and sits on the boards for The BRIT Trust, The Midi Music Company and the BPI Music Growth Export Scheme. She is also a Mentor as part of the University of Westminster's Career Development Centre Mentoring Scheme and sits on their School of Law's Employability Advisory Board. http://linkedin.com/in/mulika-sannie-4608b910

    Failure at Forty - The Introduction

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 25, 2020 5:30


    Failure at Forty creator Chelhie and co-host and producer Winnie introduce themselves and explain how the podcast was conceptualised.

    Failure at Forty - Advert

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 25, 2020 1:04


    Failure at Forty challenges the notion of failure and redefines which success looks to you. Failure at Forty interviews, debates and discusses the reality of turning forty.

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