Tew Much Tea

some stuff just straight up makes no sense. duh i want my cake and wanna eat it too! tune in to hear the rest of the things i dont understand! 

thank you all so much for sharing!! i think yall are gonna love this episode just as much as i loved recording it! definitely my favorite by far

hey besties!! its always my tradition to close out the year reflecting. my new years resolution is to be consistent with the pod again! thank you for sticking by me. i love you guys!

hey besties!! its always my tradition to close out the year reflecting. my new years resolution is to be consistent with the pod again! thank you for sticking by me. i love you guys!

long time no...hear? this week, i talk about how i went to the movies alone and out to eat alone for the first time. i loved going to the movies alone and i actually did it again the following weekend. i really want to start prioritizing this again, its just extremely hard. there's always something in the way. i encourage all of you to go do something by yourself today. you might like yourself more than you think!

this episode was filmed like two months ago and i completely forgot about it. enjoy the tea on me and stay tuned for a new episode coming out soon!!

couldnt be more happy that 2023 is over. the biggest roller coaster ever. this is my favorite episode to do. i've learned a lot, and i hope i learn a lot more this year! 

its so easy to see one thing, or hear something that someone doesn't like about you, and immediately try to start changing it. stop trying to change the things you love about yourself to be more liked by someone else. perfect doesn't exist. life isnt that serious, and above all, at the end of the day, the day gon end. you're beautiful, and don't change anything to make someone else more comfortable.

grief is so weird. you can be completely fine, see one thing, and now you're crying. there is no timeline for how long it should take anyone to get over anything, especially death. it took me four months to even start grieving. take your time and take things day by day. this episode is a little bit heavy for me. definitely letting yall in on my life

ive been gone for awhile, and honestly, ive just been a little discouraged. this is just a little letter to myself. i encourage everyone to write a letter to themselves. saying things out loud make you realize things you may not have realized. i hope you guys enjoy this, and maybe it'll inspire you to talk to yourself!

there's so many double standards with men and women, a lot of which i agree with. this week, i had my friends, rashaun and buena, come on to share their stances on double standards, body counts, plan b pills, a woman's past, etc. 

most of the time people automatically view being stared at in the gym as a bad thing, or they let the fear of being stared at psych them out of going to the gym. there are so many reasons why someone could be staring at you in the gym and it doesn't necessarily have to be bad. they could like your outfit, or be in awe. it doesn't have to mean they're judging you, but they very well could be judging you in a good way!

i have an obsession with polygamous couples and i have no clue why. its not something that I would ever do, and its not something I was ever interested in learning about. one day it randomly popped up on my for you page on tik tok and ive been hooked ever since. 

there is no way you can complain about the things in your life if you dont change them. people will hurt you, and you will hurt people but you have to heal. doing whats best for you might hurt other people, but at the end of the day, you have to do whats best for you. protecting your peace and healing yourself is the best thing you can do to become your best self.

being scared of things is so dumb. i personally, more recently, fear rejection, but the worst anyone can ever say is no. most of the time when we're scared, we don't actually put into perspective, what we're scared of or what's the worst that can happen. stop being scared of shit bc you die in the end anyway. would you rather never have the experience because you were scared and constantly wonder? or have the experience and now know that you like it or dont :)

the military is such a challenging thing and it takes a person of a certain caliber to be able to do it. as much shit as i talk, it is one of the most rewarding things ive ever done. this weeks episode is just about my journey and what the military has looked like for me so far!

its been so long! so much has happened in the past two weeks lowkey. after recording, i realized there was a lot i didnt say, so ill update yall a little more next week as well. so sorry for the absence, but back to the regularly scheduled program now!

every time i do episodes that involve you guys, people always end up asking me questions instead! I decided I would have yall ask me questions and i would answer! definitely disappointed that yall didnt ask anything juicy lol, but yall asked, and yall shall receive :)

i had you guys tell me an opinion that would get you canceled on instagram. some of them were pretty interesting, and some of you are definitely getting canceled!

sex is a very uncomfortable thing to talk about in most cases, but its such a normal thing. this week I talk about how i feel about sex, and even my own experiences!

2023 has been amazing to me so far. i speak everything over my life, so I'm pretty sure I'm living what I speak. my 2022 experiences have shaped my 2023 life.

everything in your life can mean so much if you change your perspective. something as small and showering or eating cereal can mean so much more depending how you look at it! give your life purpose by changing your perspective.

2022 has been the most amazing, yet the most emotionally challenging year for me. i've learned so much about who i am as a person. i decided to do 12 things i learned for the 12 months in the year. hope you enjoy!!

by far my favorite episode i've recorded. my dad is the wisest person i know, and he's giving y'all free game! we discuss raising children, honesty in relationships, daddy daughter relationships, and so much more. if you've never listened to an episode before, let this be your first!

it used to be hard for me to understand the concept of not having male friends in a relationship, but i think i understand as i get older. not every friendship is innocent and not everyone wants to just be friends. i guess you have to read the room and respect whatever your partner is comfortable with.

everyone that is not in the military has their own view of what they think the military looks like. there are so many common misconceptions, and i'm here to debunk everything you may have thought about the military!

people repeat quotes and give them to you as advice sometimes, but when you actually break these quotes down, they aren't even good. in listening to the podcast, I realized that i forgot one quote. "can't have your cake and eat it too." while I know what the expression means, it really makes no sense. obviously if I have cake, I'm gonna wanna eat it too!

when everyone has had something, the value decreases. if everyone has had the same access to you, what makes it special for the next person?? it's not very favorable to say that someones value is based on how much experience they have, but the truth hurts sometimes.

should a man pay all the bills? i think this generation definitely says yes because the man is the provider. while i agree that the man is the provider, i cannot say that i agree that he has to pay all the bills. thats so much pressure on one person!

its so typical for a woman to always get the upper hand. if a woman claims her man cheated, but her man is saying he didn't, no matter if the woman is lying, no one will believe the man. a lot of things don't work out in a mans favor because it is just always believed that the woman is telling the truth. this week, listen to hear my take on believing men!

this is definitely the most personal episode i've recorded thus far. in order to become your best self, you have to unlearn your toxic behaviors. in this episode, i discuss my personal toxic behaviors, and even give a little story time!

you can cheat on a test, a quiz, an exam, but a person? no. cheating is one of the most terrible things you can do to someone, and cheating is not apart of hardships in a relationship!

life has been so good lately, so I figured I would let you guys in on it! there's just so many things I'm realizing about myself, and so much im learning. this episode is just a little update on how my life is going recently :)

you don't always have to know why someone did what they did. a lot of people want closure because they're looking for a specific answer. asking questions you don't really wanna know the answer to will never benefit you. the closure is the relationship ending.

everyone grew up differently, and definitely have different morals. who are we to judge someone based on decisions they decide to make for their life though??

everyone won't always agree with you. it is impossible to please everyone. you may agree with my views...or not. so lets just agree to disagree!

if you want to know more about me, or get a little more personal, this episode is for you! i talk about my life in five years, negative mindsets, who makes me happiest, what makes me saddest, and more!

at some point, we all encounter a bad friend or two. i say cut them off. no one is worth your peace!

I joined the military almost two years ago, and home just doesn't excite me like it used to. Adjusting to this new life was very hard at first, but now, I love my home away from home.

I don't think marriage is valued as much as it should be, and people jump into marriage super fast for all the wrong reasons. You can never be too sure, don't be afraid to wait a little!

This generation is so wrapped up in social media, and use it to validate/invalidate relationships. Social media is not real. Tune in to hear the tea on social media validity.

I asked you all to reveal your deepest secrets, and you did...tune in for all the tea!

Situationships happen to the best of us. They're the worst, if you ask me, and someone usually always ends up hurt. Sit in to hear the tea this week on situationships!

Life in your 20s is hard...even though I've only been 20 for four months. This week, you'll hear a few things I've learned at 20!

Welcome to Tew Much Tea, a podcast to discuss...tea! Nothing is off limits! Just a little introduction to get you familiar with what you'll be listening to in the weeks to come! Thank you so much for tuning in to the first episode!