To All the Men I’ve Swiped Before

The dating pool here is a shallow puddle. And the fish are too familiar. In this episode, SwipedOut discusses matching with a man who had ties to someone of her past and present.

It really is a shame when guys show you their weird side so early in the dating relationship. He seemed so normal at first, but Wreck-It-Ralph proved he was anything but with a mysterious 4AM phone call. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

Your weird neighbor. Your Zumba Instructor. Your cousin. There are some people out on the apps you should never have to see. Todays episode explores a few situations where dating apps pierce the veil between public and private life. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

He was a fan favorite, but also hidden behind the Spotify wall. So here he is again in all his glory! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

I've known this man for ten years. I know if he hasn't decided to have a real relationship with me, he never will. So why does he keep coming back? Short answer: because I let him. Our latest encounter though will change our trajectory, I think. Do you? --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

Remember him? This is a rerelease of my very first episode to introduce new listeners to some of my old (but gold) content. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

I matched with a guy in another city with the coolest job on the planet and traveled to meet him for the first time. Did my gamble pay off? --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

In my Season 2 (and perhaps series) finale, I sit down with B.F.F. to rehash our relationship and talk about how we got the FWB relationship to work in our favor. Justin Timberlake and Mila Kunis don't have anything on us! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

My intention this week was to build a dating profile based on the feedback I got from my dating report card, but I made an important realization about myself while prepping that was reinforced by reacquainting with my ‘Big Brother’ from high school. My problem isn’t my profile. It’s my attitude. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

I surveyed the men I dated to find out what they truly thought of me. I’m still single so it must be me, right? The answers I got were a little surprising. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

This week, I explore the phenomenon of the sending of unsolicited phallus photos. Why is this a thing!? --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

In this episode we discuss the importance of a good pickup line and revisit some of SwipedOut’s “greatest hits.”

I interview a former date to get insights and answers to some of my burning questions about the state of online dating today. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

I share excerpts from the current ending of my book, “The Man, the Mistress, and the Mastectomy: Confessions of a Sidechick with Cancer.” --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

I read chapter one of my book, “The Man, the Mistress, and the Mastectomy: Confessions of a Sidechick with Cancer.” --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

Episode 1 of the miniseries, “To All the Men I Haven’t Swiped Before.” He was a coworker. Could he be more? We explore that question this week. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

I *thought* he could have been a contender. I thought wrong. The Season 1 finale had me throw my hands up in surrender. I had officially become SWIPED OUT. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

Could you marry for money? I asked myself that question when I dated Mr. Maserati. I also learned when to heed concerns and lack of attraction and when to push past them can be tricky. Your inner voice plays a critical role and it would serve you well to listen. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

He’s sweet, smart, hot... and YOUNG. This week I extend my stay in Cougarville for a worthy contender. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

The time I got pecnotized and became an accidental cougar. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

This man sure knew how to show a girl a good time! Well, an adventurous time, anyway. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

One of the most heinous, hilarious and embarrassing dates I ever had. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

What happens when a date turns into a BFF and FWB? Your life is forever changed. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

My dating “success” with a private investigator. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

The distillation of my first dating app date and the four key lessons I learned. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app