Podcasts about one layer deeper

On this episode I get to hang out and talk shop with Storyteller "Lisa Malcom". We wax on storytelling, talk about the best in people, chat about her Podcast "Kick in The Yes" and just enjoy our time together. Many entrepreneurs worry about overlap or "competition" with other businesses, but Lisa and I both know the power of collaboration and networking through story. Lisa Malcom is  host of the "Kick in the Yes" Podcast and is a Storytelling Strategist. She is obsessed with stories and helping people figure out how to tell them, how to share them and how to shine.  She works one on one with clients to help them discover who they are "now" and how they got here, through her company The Social Suite.You can find Lisa online on:LinkedInTwitterTAKE THE QUIZ===============================Ready to find out how close you are to building your audience with quality video content? Take this quick quiz to find out *exactly* what you need to do to grow your business through video content creation.https://www.quiz.video

I have a love/hate relationship with boundaries.  At least, I used to. Boundaries are what keep us safe.  Having good boundaries can be life changing.  We never really know just how life-changing until we start to live with good boundaries.  In this episode, I partner with Jackie Pack from the Thanks For Sharing Podcast to discuss boundaries.  Jackie and I work together as One Layer Deeper.  We'd love to spend a year exploring Boundaries with you.  Learn more about the boundary box here:  https://onelayerdeeper.com/the-boundary-box/

Every sentence you write has the chance to be special. The key is to explore the details around the situation and incorporate those details into your sentence. For example, you could write: In the large exhibit hall, our team secured follow-ups with many potential customers. Let’s take the sentence one layer deeper…

I get asked all the time about boundaries.  I think they are one of the most important things to have if you want to live as a functional adult. Yet, from so many I hear from boundaries seem to be elusive.  In this episode Amy Smith and I talk about our latest project at One Layer Deeper, The Boundary Box.  If you want to be rocking your boundaries and be a boundary badass, you won't want to miss this.  

I get asked all the time about boundaries.  I think they are one of the most important things to have if you want to live as a functional adult. Yet, from so many I hear from boundaries seem to be elusive.  In this episode Amy Smith and I talk about our latest project at One Layer Deeper, The Boundary Box.  If you want to be rocking your boundaries and be a boundary badass, you won't want to miss this.  

Jackie and I are EXCITED about what we are doing with One Layer Deeper (1LD). Are you looking to go one layer deeper in your recovery? Then maybe one of our intensives or webinars is right for you!  In this episode we talk about how our family of origin contributes so much to our relational template.  This template is the foundation from which we operation. It is the template for how we engage with others around us.  When this relational template is damaged, it takes hard work to change it and thus dramatically transform our relationships. You can do it!  We want to help! http://onelayerdeeper.com  

Jonathon Taylor and Jackie Pack are on a mission to help people know what healthy dating and true intimacy look like. On today’s episode, they join Rob for a talk about their own journey as Licensed Therapists, their great work with One Layer Deeper, the common struggles they find from men and women moving from addiction to dating, the mistakes addicts make when they do go back in the dating pool, and their very own Dating Intensives.   TAKEAWAYS: [3:00] Addicts tend to pick up other people’s issues and focus on the person they are dating rather than themselves, possibly to control and evade feelings of isolation and lack of control. [6:04] One of the things that surprises Jonathon and Jackie most in their work is the wants, needs and desires men and women show in relationships that may have otherwise been clouded and buried in addiction. [7:19] When a sex addict goes out in the dating world without the flirtation, seduction and the need for control, they are actually quite vulnerable. That fear and anxiety is a large part of what addicts try to avoid. [10:20] Profound changes happen in addiction within a group dynamic with the common intention is getting sober and supporting individual recovery. It’s scary often times for individuals to move into the “wild” dating scene where heartbreak, emotion and intimacy must occur to feel genuinely loved and appreciated. [11:57] Jackie and Jonathon speak about their Intensives, and how the outcomes usually are deeper and wider than ever imagined. [14:44] Love addicts realize that dating is a numbers game, and often when the second or third date isn’t working out, they just give up. When in actuality, dating in recovery is conversation, a “get to know you” type of activity such as a walk in the park, and short periods of time where you get together and get to know someone. There are multiple reasons people date including friendship and companionship, rather than just being enmeshed or focused on sex. [19:46] Jonathon and Jackie help men and women become informed and authentic partners within their own relationships. Whereas before someone may have felt unlovable and hopeless, they teach their clients how to pick a date based on appreciating someone for their core values. [25:29] Octytocin is the hormone in our brain that bonds us to our loved ones, and often released on the women’s behalf typically during sex. In Jonathon and Jackie’s intensive, they coach women on dating to enjoy themselves rather than sole focus of becoming bonded and dependent on their partner. [30:20] Jackie defines trauma as “anything else than nurturing at critical points.”   RESOURCES Sex and Relationship Healing @RobWeissMSW Sex Addiction 101 Healing Paths Recovery If the Budda Dated If the Budda Married One Layer Deeper   QUOTES: “I see a lot of men early in recovery discover for the first time that they get to take a very active role in creating relationships, instead of the relationship just forming around them.” “It moves into a back and forth chess game into a really collaborative process.” “You have to have a little of that spark to date someone, but too much of it and you might not know who they are.” “Half the battle is not stopping the behavior, it’s learning to be intimate.”

We're recording this episode on location as we neared wrapping up our Dating in Recovery Intensive.  We wanted to give you a taste of what we're doing and a closer look at this Intensive series.   If you are in the process of dating, or would like to start dating in recovery but are scared, overwhelmed, or not sure how to start- you'll want to give this a listen.

We're recording this episode on location as we neared wrapping up our Dating in Recovery Intensive.  We wanted to give you a taste of what we're doing and a closer look at this Intensive series.   If you are in the process of dating, or would like to start dating in recovery but are scared, overwhelmed, or not sure how to start- you'll want to give this a listen.

Dating can be hard enough when you are just starting to connect with people of interest but it can feel terrifying when you are working on yourself and don't want to want to re-enact old patterns from your past. Recovery and Relationship Expert Jackie Pack will be sharing with Carol the Coach the strategies behind healthy dating and will be discussing a 3 day intensive that Healing Paths have developed to make that process easier.

With guests Jackie P. and Jon T. from the Thanks for Sharing Podcast, we announce and disucss new opportunities for those looking to start dating in recovery.  While there is a lot of support around those wanting to get sober, when you're ready to start dating, there are a lot of questions. Where do you start? What boundaries do you need? What are the stages of relationships?  How do I do this in a healthy way??  That is what Dating in Recovery is all about!  Jackie, Jon and I discuss some of these quesitons and give you things to look for when you're ready to start dating again!  You can find our more about Dating in Recovery at: www.onelayerdeeper.com.  

We welcome Amy Smith with Worth Recovery on again (You can hear her on Episode 58) to talk about our joint venture One Layer Deeper.  We are excited to announce these weekend intensives focused on taking your relationships in recovery one layer deeper.   You can learn more about One Layer Deeper by visiting our website www.onelayerdeeper.com.   In this episode, we explore some practical dos and don'ts for dating in recovery, the role of artificial timelines, and the question of dating other people in recovery.

We welcome Amy Smith with Worth Recovery on again (You can hear her on Episode 58) to talk about our joint venture One Layer Deeper.  We are excited to announce these weekend intensives focused on taking your relationships in recovery one layer deeper.   You can learn more about One Layer Deeper by visiting our website www.onelayerdeeper.com.   In this episode, we explore some practical dos and don'ts for dating in recovery, the role of artificial timelines, and the question of dating other people in recovery.

Josh Hillis comes back on the show in a new show format trial. We discuss creating habits, what to do when you fail, how to understand the people you are trying to help, psychological hurdles, and more!