Dan The Man TV

Let Them Know That You Love Them   There are just as many ways to show someone you love them as there are people in the world to love. You can use words, touch, small gestures, gifts, time, or routines. Showing the one you love just how much they mean to you can be done in little ways or big ways. But all the ways add up and can really show you care.

How To Be the Best Version of Yourself You don’t just happen to stumble upon the best version of yourself. You need to start from the beginning and take a high number of small steps in order to become what you envision.

The hard work that comes behind.   In the beginning of your journey, you aren’t ready to handle the success and all the responsibilities that come together with it. But earning it with sweat and sacrifices prepares you for that.

How I was able to transition on the business side of things The necessary character traits that you are able to develop through what it is that you had gone through is to be able to do things.

Clarity in the midst of the storm Pay attention to what you don’t like, enough to understand what you’re wishing for in contrast. Guide your thoughts to what you long for and honor those desires by seeking out like-minded people. When you take action around the things you want or memories you want to clear out, with like-minded people who support the change you seek, you literally create an energetic shift that can bring on real change.

I've made the latest transition in my business life I'm a real estate broker and I would sell the house for them and then get a commission or sell a house to someone who was looking for one which is essentially what I've done throughout my real estate career. Even though I'm the broker of the company and I have other agents, it was also necessary for me to actually sell houses as well. And so what I did was I made the transition to just do in my own flips as far as rehab. I've got some other business ventures as well, but my bread and butter and in pretty much how I earned my living on the real estate side of things.

Being In The Worst Spot   Sometimes shit happens. It’s just what is going it happen in life. Are you going to allow shitty situations to blind you to the ability to learn what you need to from them? What can you take from it? Can you revel in the fact that this is as Shitty as it's ever been for me because you know you’re going to learn?

Do something   You have to understand how badly you want things and differentiate between 100% of nothing or do I want 50% of something? Getting that type of a thought process is so instrumental.  And when you’re on the grind you must take time for yourself. A lot of times, especially in real estate, especially being self employed, you have to schedule a day off or you’ll never get it.

To all those making changes in their life... Continue forward with agenda of progressing.   I don't care what emotions I have during times of change that could sway me not following through. I don't care what emotion I don't have that I’m wishing for... I am going to continue moving forward. And that ability to be persistent in the midst of everything else is what created massive changes in my life. When you're making the decision to make changes in your life, it doesn't just happen overnight. It takes persistence and unwavering commitment to self.

I made it a conscious decision.   I made a decision to stop being afraid, to stop living in fear and to take control of what my future was going to be and to start to be more on the offensive. As far as proactive as opposed to reactive and on the defensive to where you're reacting to everything.

Deeper behind the curtain   There's nobody out there who doesn't have a history. There's nobody out there who isn't dealing with their own personal demons and hasn't had to overcome some obstacles. And seeing what I've done and how I've done it, it'll allow you to realize that things are possible and your belief in what those possibilities are going to make all the difference in the world.

Coming to the realization that I wasn't doing what I was supposed to be doing.   I’ve found what I’m supposed to do and that has allowed me to really hone in on my ability to stay balanced.  Whenever I get in front of the camera with you everything I’m bringing you the truth about my life and it's been a rollercoaster of extreme goods and extreme stressors. I wish it didn't happen that way, but my ability to stay balanced in my emotion has been what keeps me grounded. Honing that skill has been amazing, it's been going well. Whether it's up or down, those emotions are just emotions. It doesn't matter how much the world seems against us, what we do actually has an effect on the future

Take control... Drugs have been prevalent in my life, I've done every drug in the book except for Black Tar whether it's alcohol . I'm down from 215 pounds. I weighed 165 after quitting using vices. They can severely affect your life when you are caught up in it... If it's an obstacle for you, it can be overcome. These are things you have to understand that life is, is not a short journey and can have many twists and turns.

The history - you can't take it back When speaking about my history, there’s a lot of hypothetical situations that I could have been in. Like partying drinking and drugs...  Each situation has made me who I am and each experience has taught me great lessons.  It’s important to remember what’s brought me here and what I’ve been able to move through to get to where I’m at.

Family unit relationship A family unit is one of the most important points of reference, we learn so much from family. Good and bad. Past fear, family is foundational to shaping us. Reflecting on what my family was like, it took me a long time to learn what love was because of the absence I experienced.

Fear will cause you to respond differently in certain situations Fear can cause you to respond in a way that you never would in normal situations. Even in stressful and overwhelming situations, if you can see the fear and not respond or be overtaken, you will have power over them.

Getting out of your comfort zone A comfort zone is the deadly place to stay for too long. Often times time we limit our potential because we’re afraid... When I’m faced with an opportunity I have 2 choices, to go out on a limb and possibly fail or I can stay “comfortable” and afraid of the possibilities of the future.

What we can learn about death from Big Fish the movie? What if we knew how we were going to die, would we approach life differently? What if we didn’t allow ourselves time to worry about the future and weren’t afraid of our past? We should tell our stories, not only to help others but to help ourselves reinforce what we’ve learned.

Letting Kids Make Decisions We try to make kids do what we want. We dictate what they do based on what we want to do or what others around us want to do.  We often have expectations that people should act the way we want them too for the mere fact that we want them to act that way.  There’s a better way..

I want my son to be engaged in what I'm doing   Kids require acknowledgment and conversation. Give them your time, they deserve it.

New Season of the Podcast   We’ll be transitioning into a new season of the podcast talking about relevant life experiences.

Who I am as a person I want to give you some background as to how I became the person that I am, the history of what it is that I've gone through and essentially what has allowed me to formulate this type of thinking.

Taking risks If you continue to do the same thing, over and over again, taking no risks or chances you will continue to get what you already have.  Take the chance, fail fast forward and go after what you want!

Lack of trust in your ability   Fear - lack of trust in your ability to do what it is that you wish that you could do. You might even be a pretty self confident person, but when it comes to putting yourself in a position to get outside of your comfort zone, people have a real problem.

Moment allows you to change your direction   People that want success are willing to fight for it. Understanding the difference between the work you want to do and the work your stuck doing and being uncomfortable enough to get to where you want to be are crucial on this journey.

Recognizing yourself   We have to make the change within ourselves first in order to make change in the outside world. The first course of action in changing ourselves is to recognize that there's a different way.

How to balance yourself Analyze what situations you are strong in and what situations you are weak in. Repeatedly taking inventory of these will allow you to assess where you are. Had a difficult morning? Center yourself, find balance and it'll get easier as you continue forward.

How important is Consistency Remember that everything else is a reflection of you. If you’re feeling depleted in energy you must ask yourself this... Are you the one who is continuously putting yourself in a position and not responding well? Reflect on your situation, can you take the responsibility and change it? Don’t leave it to everybody else is to dig you out.

What kind of people to get rid off The reason that it's possible that other people feel like they deplete us of what it is that we have is because we're personally in a spot that we are not protecting our resources. We're not protecting what it is that we're giving out in. We're just letting it flow frivolously.

Intention + Application = Tangible Results Practical application of this thought process will create tangible results. It may not be immediate but patience and action will create results. Keep going, the moment the damn breaks the flood of abundance will poor in a way you'd never imagine is possible.

Recognizing your inner monologue   The inner voice within you gives you direction, tells you where to go, start to trust it. The more you trust in it, the more you listen to it, the louder it gets in.

Digging Yourself Out of a Rut   Understanding yourself inside and out is vital to accepting the power we have been given.  Learning to find understanding for yourself is going to be one of the most powerful things you can do to help yourself and in turn the world.

Learning to be yourself I want you to take a look at who you are as a person... Who you are trying to be and who you think the external world wants you to be. The only thing that will serve you is to be yourself, here and now.  It’s only with full transparency that we can truly be the person we’re meant to be.

Analyzing Situations   Analyzing your life and the situations that are present is a powerful practice. Being in the now and being able to empathize with others point of view is crucial to relationships with yourself and others. This allows you ownership and responsibility as well as power in a given situation.

Dealing With Others   Your ability to deal with other people is going to be an indicator of how you're able to deal with yourself.  It’s the ability that to see this that separates people who allow external factors to always control and dictate their emotions from those that remember their reaction is always in their control.

Undoing What Is Already Done   In this episode, we talk about undoing the things that have already been done, getting back to the process, and realizing what will help you clear your mind to move forward.

What makes you tick? What emotion Centers you? My personal emotion that centers me, is the ability to be in a position where I can watch others succeed... Revisit the last couple episodes to understand how I've gotten to the place I'm at and to see what I'm doing in my mind on daily basis to create the changes I am!

Continuing from last episode... What are you going to put your laser focus into and what can you put off to focus on at another time?! What do you need to do to push things off of your plate and enjoy the now?! Drop a comment and let us know!!

We must let go of what we can't control to allow them to happen... What do you need to let go of? What do are you going to let go of this week?!?  Drop it in the comments and let us know how it works for you!!!

Welcome to Dan The Man TV with your host, yours truly, Dan The Man Belcher This is the place High-Level thinkers rely on for the Ammunition to Succeed in Life and Business Money is a Byproduct of good living and good living means a simplified, laser-focused thought process Learn How I have Decluttered my life, De-escalated My Thinking and Let the obstacles in my way destroy themselves by remaining grounded, making quick decisions and paying attention to the abundance of opportunities sent my way.

Welcome to Dan The Man TV with your host, yours truly, Dan The Man Belcher This is the place High-Level thinkers rely on for the Ammunition to Succeed in Life and Business Money is a Byproduct of good living and good living means a simplified, laser-focused thought process Learn How I have Decluttered my life, De-escalated My Thinking and Let the obstacles in my way destroy themselves by remaining grounded, making quick decisions and paying attention to the abundance of opportunities sent my way.

Welcome to Dan The Man TV with your host, yours truly, Dan The Man Belcher This is the place High-Level thinkers rely on for the Ammunition to Succeed in Life and Business Money is a Byproduct of good living and good living means a simplified, laser-focused thought process Learn How I have Decluttered my life, De-escalated My Thinking and Let the obstacles in my way destroy themselves by remaining grounded, making quick decisions and paying attention to the abundance of opportunities sent my way.

Welcome to Dan The Man TV with your host, yours truly, Dan The Man Belcher This is the place High-Level thinkers rely on for the Ammunition to Succeed in Life and Business Money is a Byproduct of good living and good living means a simplified, laser-focused thought process Learn How I have Decluttered my life, De-escalated My Thinking and Let the obstacles in my way destroy themselves by remaining grounded, making quick decisions and paying attention to the abundance of opportunities sent my way.

Welcome to Dan The Man TV with your host, yours truly, Dan The Man Belcher This is the place High-Level thinkers rely on for the Ammunition to Succeed in Life and Business Money is a Byproduct of good living and good living means a simplified, laser-focused thought process Learn How I have Decluttered my life, De-escalated My Thinking and Let the obstacles in my way destroy themselves by remaining grounded, making quick decisions and paying attention to the abundance of opportunities sent my way.

Welcome to Dan The Man TV with your host, yours truly, Dan The Man Belcher This is the place High-Level thinkers rely on for the Ammunition to Succeed in Life and Business Money is a Byproduct of good living and good living means a simplified, laser-focused thought process Learn How I have Decluttered my life, De-escalated My Thinking and Let the obstacles in my way destroy themselves by remaining grounded, making quick decisions and paying attention to the abundance of opportunities sent my way.

Welcome to Dan The Man TV with your host, yours truly, Dan The Man Belcher This is the place High-Level thinkers rely on for the Ammunition to Succeed in Life and Business Money is a Byproduct of good living and good living means a simplified, laser-focused thought process Learn How I have Decluttered my life, De-escalated My Thinking and Let the obstacles in my way destroy themselves by remaining grounded, making quick decisions and paying attention to the abundance of opportunities sent my way.