It's Not That Deep

The ladies are back with a bonus episode this week and it's topical tings Christmas special!

Many husbands still want to be the "man of the house". A recent study found that if a man's wife starts contributing even half of the household income, he starts suffering psychological distress! It's just unhealthy in our opinion so we wanted to discuss it and we brought Timmy and Jack along too!

It’s another #topicaltings this week with Nix and Sha discussing Dutchavelli in the DMs. He’s been under fire this past week after his messages to an underage girl were leaked and the ladies are not here for it! Timmy and Jack are also passed by and let’s just say the conversation takes a turn many times....

This week the ladies are joined by guests Ejay (@ejay_diamond1)and Temi (@iamtemzi)to discuss potentially one of life's most practical subjects, insurance. We're talking life insurance, income protection and critical illness cover. Listen in while our guests drop some gems on financially protecting yourself and your family during a crisis and beyond.

The ladies are back with another #topicaltings and they're joined by Jay and Temi because although they (Nix more specifically) hate men, they do love a man on the show! This week they're talking about the infamous Birkin bag... do you think celebrities are cheapening the brand? As per usual , Nix has a lot to say on celebrities and they're questions fashION taste. They're also reminiscing on good old 00s TV (don't cry don't beg!) and a whole heap of other BS.

This week the ladies are joined by social media marketing expert Ebony (@ebonyher @ebzmich) to discuss The Social Dilemma, a documentary on Netflix Description Tech experts sounding the alarm on the dangerous human impact of social networking. Let's just say the show had the ladies rattled because it really is a lot of things! If you haven't seen it already it's a must watch.

The ladies are back with another topical tings episode and of course as its Black History Month they have some wise words for any black content creators.... trust in your own sauce and rate yourself! Next up is the Meg and Tory saga; after listening to the new Tory album they're not quite sure whose side they're on and as per usual, the discussion takes a turn onto relationships, dating and the tomfoolery of men. Here's a question, if the man hasn't claimed you as his girl are you still open to seeing other people? Are we even meant to be monogamous? Your thoughts are welcome... head on over to @intdpodcast on insta and drop a comment.

The ladies are back with Jack and this week they're discussing breakups, moving on and how to love yourself.

For this month's 'topical tings' the ladies fancied some male company so they're joined by Jack. They're discussing Chadwick Boseman's passing, Brandy v Monica, Adele's bantu knots and of course there's a sprinkle of man hateration in there because thats on brand now really isn't it?!

This week the ladies are reflecting on their lockdown learnings and sharing how their lives have changed as a result. Sha has been figuring out what makes her truly happy in life whilst Nix has continued on her mission to be less materialistic and live her best vegan/holistic life. A lot has changed for both ladies in the past few months but the focus remains the same... self-improvement is key!

It's been a while but the ladies are back with a fresh new look and another episode of 'topical tings'. Tune in for a round-up of all the happenings... they're discussing Black is King, Charlie Sloth, WAP and more...

This week the ladies are joined by Timmy again and they're discussing the rules of relationships! Basically, Nix has used this episode as a free coaching service from Timmy because its hard times out here. 30 is around the corner and operation 'Do not die alone' is now full throttle. They're discussing how to identify 'unzesty' behaviour, red flags and when to let that mangoo.

It's another topical mishmash and this week the ladies are joined by Timmy(promise Nix will have someone to bring on this decade). On the agenda this week is Sha's near brush with Coronavirus (no joke), making your relationship social media official and the Windrush scandal.

If you're on a 'new year new me' health kick then the ladies have got you covered this week. They're discussing all things health with fitness coach Kass of @power5ive_fitness and Vegan chef Louis of @badboyvegankitchen. Their approaches may be different (Kass eats Veal steaks for breakfast meanwhile Louis is all about good vibes maaaan) but they're united in the opinion that good health really is wealth! Tune in for advice and tips on adopting a vegan lifestyle, starting at the gym, sleep tracking, macros and eating for your goals.

On this weeks topical mishmash the ladies discuss Zeze Millz and Nolay beef, Sha tries to defend her life choices by convincing us that Janu-hairy is a real thing (a sceptical Nix is not on board with this and is just not on board with body hair altogether) and they're discussing Love Island and everyone's favourite topic... BODY COUNT.

It's a new decade and the ladies are setting out their goals and intentions for the year ahead. Nix is in a place of contemplation and appreciation meanwhile Sha is still on her mission to get a flat stomach before she has kids.

It's Christmaaaassssss!! This week the ladies are discussing all things Christmas as well their usual topical tings. Listen to this as you tuck into your turkey guys! See you in 2020!

The ladies are back with a special minisode! This week they're reflecting on what they have learned this year alongside special guest Timmy.

INTD podcast is officially 1 y'all! The ladies have made it this far and they're celebrating with a special Q & A hosted by the peoples favourite podcast guest and fellow podcaster Mr Savage Dan! Tune in to hear whether Nix really does hate men and what exactly Sha's secret talent is. Hint: there may be a new podcast theme tune and it may be fronted by MC Sha.

It's Not that Deep podcast is nearly a year old and this week the ladies are reflecting on where they were in episode #1 and the progress (or lack thereof in Nix's case) that they have made since.

This week the ladies are discussing the so called knife crime 'epidemic' affecting the youth today. They're joined by special guest Rio (@jchange_da_lovechild) who has first hand experience of engaging with the issues and has set up Manhood Academy (@manhoodacademywest) to help make a change within the community. There's discussion on the Governments ill advised chicken shop campaign as well as how your surroundings and upbringing can contribute to the path you choose later on in life. We'd love to hear your thoughts on this topic! If you are interested in supporting the cause and understanding more then be sure to reach out to this weeks guest for more info!

Nix and Sha are back after a short hiatus with another topical mishmash. This week the ladies are discussing Staff Londons new crib, Wiley's trolling antics and a bunch of other newsworthy items. It all goes so well until it doesn't... let's just say it all goes a bit left at the end when the Big Bang theory (not the tv show) and the environment come into play. The ladies learnt a lot about each other in this episode and this may never be the same again...

It's another topical mishmash and this week the ladies are discussing Stormy and Maya Jama's alleged breakup, Mist being stabbed in Portugal, Cassie and her engagement news and whether or not women can have casual relationships. Tune in for this and many a digression from the ladies as per!

This week the ladies are discussing life as a gay person of colour with two lovely guests who have first hand experience. There's discussions on how they came out, a letter to their younger self, life as a lesbian vs a gay man and a little story on how Nix apparently contributed to a certain someone realising they were gay! Lol. Tune in for this and of course the usual bants. Special shout out to this weeks lovely guests @teagan_c_ & @the_alexanderlee. Give them a follow on Insta and remember to follow us too @intdpodcast

The ladies are back with another topical mishmash for your ears. This week they're discussing the uproar caused by Miss Miley Cyrus's music video featuring a plus size model, the new NHS obesity campaign and the latest Meghan Markle scandal. Tune in to hear Sha compare herself to a leg of lamb and another one of Nix's fashion rants.

The ladies are back with pt.2 of the colourist episode following on from episode 15. This time they're joined by 2 ladies who have first hand experiences of living life as a dark skinned women. They're sharing their experiences growing up, within the family and also dating.

This week it's another 'Topical tings' episode and Timmy is back by popular demand! The ladies are discussing Alex from Glasto, #notmyariel, Chris Brown's preference for black b*tches with the good hair (get outta here Chris) and Curtis' antics on Love Island.

This week Nix and She are joined by special guest Sonia and Personal Development Coach and Mental Health/NLP Practitioner Janine for a talk on mental health, how to support a loved one in their time of need and what to do if you yourself are struggling with mental health. @sonia.sal4 @janine_georgias @road2changecoaching_

The ladies are off to a rocky start this week as there's a small beef brewing but after that's resolved they're at it again with another topical roundup. Up for discussion this week are: Love Island, AJ losing the fight and the shocking new abortion laws in the US. Tune in for this and many digressions.

This week the ladies are joined by their pal Alex as well as Mr Filthy Fellas himself, Savage Dan for a discussion on colourism where they're sharing how they feel their skin tone, hair and facial features have shaped their life experiences. It's all very serious until the discussion slowly digresses (thank you Dan) into a chat on men vs. women, 'batches' of lights and how football can help us all to be better people.

The ladies are back with another 'topical mist mash' this week and its a funny one! There's a new royal baby, Rhianna's doing a lot for the culture, Cardi B (finally) admitted she had lipo, cycle shorts are back in (apparently?) and Nix has a new entry for the Urban Dictionary. Tune in for this and some big sis make up advice..... spoiler:say NO to clumpy lashes.

This week the ladies (and Timmy) are doing a Q&A. What level of detail do you look for in nudes? Would you lock off bae if they had bad credit? Tune in for this and so much more....

This last fortnight has been a lot of things. Nipsey Hussle is dead, every man wants a Lauren London, upskirting is now a crime...... Join the ladies (and Timmy by force) for another topical mishmash!

Issa business special y'all! In this episode the ladies are joined by Zandela, Ayanda and Jeffery; 3 black entrepreneurs who are sharing their stories and advice for setting up your on business. For more info on our guests you can find them here: Zandela - @zandelasoares & @generationalbusinessminds Ayanda - @houseofhairuk & @houseofhairukshop Jeffery - @jrlintonuk & @wifiuk #Supporttheting

This week the ladies are discussing clout chasers, grieving in public and when to cut out people who are just no good for you. Sometimes you don’t need to build a bridge, sometimes just burn it.....

Taking inspiration from the messy Jordyn/Tristan drama, the ladies are discussing whether or not men and women can really be 'just friends', whether you can trust your friends to be around your bae and if it's normal to stay friends with your ex.

The ladies are once again joined by Jason and Teon and this time its turf war! Team Caribbean vs. Team Africa. You can decide who comes out better in this debate but always remember...... we are all one people and black men don't cheat.

In this episode the ladies are joined by two male friends to discuss the age old question, why do men cheat? The list of reasons why is endless it seems; some men are just built like that, it's not cheating if you're in a different country (apparently) and men just do what a women allows (controversial). Ladies get your notepads out because there are lessons to be learned!

In this episode the ladies are discussing whether or not terms of endearment are acceptable at work, how to 'chirps' a girl and when it's ever appropriate to tell a complete stranger to smile. Spoiler alert: never!

We've all seen it, so now it is time to discuss the shocking allegations made against R Kelly. Can we and should we separate the art from the artist? The documentary was disturbing to say the least and so it deserves its ver own episode. For once it really IS that deep.

It's a new dawn, it's a new day, it's a new year and the ladies are definitely feeling good! Tune in for a festive debrief, Birdbox review, tips on goal setting and staying positive and productive throughout 2019.

Christmas is around the corner and the ladies are feeling festive! There's a rather official sounding roundup of 2018, yearning for lost youth (when gifts were life and Christmas was actually fun), a cameo appearance from bitter Nix and resolutions for 2019.

On this episode the ladies are discussing a bit of everything. A topical mishmash you might call it! Nix is in hibernation, Sha took a rather thought provoking trip to the theatre and there's a slightly hungover special guest on hand to offer a manly perspective. P.S. If you know how to jump on black twitter then holla

Today the ladies are sharing their experiences of dating/being in a relationship and how it differs now from their teenage years. Sha is boo'd up whereas Nix is out here struggling to even find someone worth taking seriously. Tune in for some useful insight and also a slight man rant!

01 - The Woes of Approaching 30 In the debut episode, the ladies discuss a topic very close to home; The impending ‘doom’ that is turning 30. Sha is feeling the pressure while Nix is living in a blissful bubble of denial. Whoever you relate to, just know you’re not alone.