Old Gays New Gays

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Life explored through the lens' of two generations of LGBTQ+ couples. The Old Gays Dan (58) & Frank (60). The New Gays Nick (24) & Ant (25).

Nick and Ant


    • Aug 13, 2024 LATEST EPISODE
    • weekly NEW EPISODES
    • 33m AVG DURATION
    • 16 EPISODES


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    Nick & Ant On Monogamous Vs Open Relationships, Age Gap Couples & Making Gay Friends

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 13, 2024 26:22


    In this episode of “Old Gays, New Gays,” we dive into significant and deeply personal topics within the LGBTQ+ community, all inspired by our audience's phone-ins. We explore the debate between monogamous and open relationships, discussing the pros and cons of each and how couples can navigate these choices in their relationships. Next, we delve into the complexities of age gap relationships, examining the unique dynamics and societal perceptions that come with dating across generations. We tackle the important topic of making gay friends—whether you're new to the community or looking to expand your circle, we share tips and personal stories to help you build meaningful connections. This episode is a must-listen for anyone dealing with these issues, offering a blend of personal stories and heartfelt encouragement to help you navigate these aspects of life. Contact Us: nickandant@ingenuity.live Follow the podcast everywhere! hoo.be/oldgaysnewgays

    Nick & Ant On Dating “Straight” Men, Closeted Hookups & Relationships With Women

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 6, 2024 33:46


    In this week's episode of Old Gays. New Gays. We dive into a series of compelling and often untold stories from the LGBTQ+ community. Joined by the ever-insightful Dan and Frank, the “Old Gays,” we explore the dynamics of how straight men often lead on gay men, with personal anecdotes that shed light on this complex issue. Nick shares his poignant experience of being led on by a straight guy, and how it shaped his understanding of relationships, while Dan and Frank provide level headed context on Nick's personal story. We then shift gears to discuss WHY women LOVE gay men. Examining why this might be the case and what it says about attraction and friendship. Ant opens up about his first time with a girl, offering a unique perspective on navigating sexuality, while Frank reflects on similar stories from his younger years.  Nick's story takes another twist as he recounts his first breakup with a straight guy, providing insight into the heartache and confusion that can accompany such relationships. Dan and Frank share their wisdom on how such experiences have evolved over time. We also talk about the phenomenon of gays who get girlfriends before coming out, and the emotional and psychological aspects of leading on girls while in the closet.  Lastly, we address the often overlooked perspective of girlfriends of straight guys discovering their boyfriends are gay and have Grindr. This segment brings in stories and discussions about trust, betrayal, and the journey to self-acceptance for both parties involved, with Dan and Frank adding their seasoned insights on handling these revelations. Join us for an episode filled with heartfelt stories, honest conversations, and a deeper understanding of the LGBTQ+ experience. Whether you're navigating similar situations or simply looking to learn more, this episode offers valuable insights and empathy. nickandant@ingenuity.live Follow the podcast everywhere! https://hoo.be/oldgaysnewgays

    Nick & Ant On: Heartstopper, Stonewall Riots & Gay Celeb Hates Us

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 30, 2024 20:57


    Join Nick and Ant, Dan and Frank for a fun-filled episode of Exploring LGBTQ+ History and Culture. This week, our hosts dive into an exciting trivia game that tests their knowledge—and yours—on all things LGBTQ+. From historical milestones to pop culture icons, this episode is packed with intriguing questions and surprising answers that celebrate the rich tapestry of the LGBTQ+ community. With the "Old Gays," Dan and Frank, joining the game, you'll get a mix of perspectives as they recall significant events from the past while Nick and Ant bring in fresh insights from the present. It's an engaging blend of education and entertainment, perfect for trivia buffs and anyone looking to learn more about LGBTQ+ history and culture. Tune in and play along to see how much you really know about the queer community. Whether you're a seasoned expert or new to LGBTQ+ trivia, this episode promises a lively and informative experience for all listeners. nickandant@ingenuity.live Follow the podcast everywhere! https://hoo.be/oldgaysnewgays

    Nick & Ant On Gay Sex Advice, Long Distance Relationships & NUDE Photos

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 23, 2024 41:05


    Hosts Nick and Ant tackle some of the most pressing topics in modern gay relationships: sex advice, long-distance relationships, and the delicate art of sharing nude photos. Joined by the wise Dan and Frank, the “Old Gays,” this episode bridges generations to provide a well-rounded perspective on these important issues. Nick and Ant share their personal experiences and contemporary insights on navigating sexual health, maintaining intimacy across distances, and the do's and don'ts of sending nudes in the digital age. Adding depth to the conversation, Dan and Frank offer their seasoned viewpoints, reflecting on how these topics were approached (or often avoided) in their younger years, highlighting both the challenges and the progress made over the years.  Did you know the older generation still had a way of sexting, how do you manage a long distance relationship with no mobile phone & many more questions answered in this episode.  Tune in for a rich dialogue that spans generations, providing a comprehensive look at the evolution of gay relationships and the timeless importance of love, respect, and understanding. Whether you're navigating a long-distance relationship, curious about safe and consensual ways to share intimate photos, or simply looking for honest sex advice, this episode is packed with insights and wisdom from both past and present. nickandant@ingenuity.live Follow the podcast everywhere! https://hoo.be/oldgaysnewgays

    Nick & Ant On: Our Gay Awakening, Closeted Celebrity & Gay Relationships in Movies/TV

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 16, 2024 29:19


    In this vibrant episode of “Nick & Ant On,” hosts Nick and Ant share personal stories about their gay awakening from gay relationships in TV and dive into the often-hidden world of closeted boyband members. Join them as they explore the rich and dynamic evolution of gay pop culture, from its underground roots to its mainstream celebration. With candid anecdotes, insightful commentary, and a deep love for all things pop, this episode promises a heartfelt and entertaining look at the milestones and memories that have shaped the LGBTQ+ community in music and media. In this dynamic episode of “Nick & Ant On,” hosts Nick and Ant share personal stories about their gay awakening and dive into the often-hidden world of media: closeted celebrities. Are their teams hiding who their talent are for profit or curating their perfect audience? Find out. They are joined by the “Old Gays,” who provide a rich generational perspective on the evolution of gay pop culture. Together, they explore how LGBTQ+ representation in music, film, and media has transformed over the decades. From underground movements to mainstream celebrations, this episode offers a heartfelt and comprehensive look at the milestones that have shaped the LGBTQ+ community's presence in pop culture.  Whether you're a fan of pop music or interested in LGBTQ+ history, this episode promises an engaging and enlightening discussion, with plenty of personal reflections on all the topics discussed today. nickandant@ingenuity.live Follow the podcast everywhere! https://hoo.be/oldgaysnewgays

    Nick & Ant On: Our Gay Wedding, Exposing Our Relationship & Gay Marriage Evolution

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 9, 2024 31:34


    In this heartfelt episode of Old Gays,  New Gays, Nick and Ant share their deeply personal journey through the planning and celebration of their gay wedding. Joined by Dan and Frank, two seasoned members of the LGBTQ+ community, they provide a rich, multi-generational perspective on the evolution of gay marriage. Dan and Frank recount their experiences of navigating love and commitment during a time when gay marriage was not yet legalized, offering poignant insights into the struggles and triumphs of the past. In contrast, Nick and Ant share a fascinating story about meeting the first couple to legally marry in Scotland during a chance encounter at a restaurant while on holiday. The episode delves into the fears and anxieties that still persist within the gay community around marriage, including the emotional impact of their first public kiss at their wedding. Nick and Ant also open up about their relationship, revealing the truths behind their marriage and the challenges they face. Tune in for a candid and enlightening conversation that explores the personal and societal milestones of gay marriage, the progress made, and the road still ahead. This episode is a testament to love, resilience, and the ongoing fight for equality in the LGBTQ+ community. Follow the podcast EVERYWHERE! www.hoo.be/oldgaysnewgays Business Email: nickandant@ingenuity.live #LGBTQPodcast #gaywedding  #GayDatingAdvice #LGBTQFriends #OldGaysNewGays

    Nick & Ant On How To Meet Other Queer People, Combating Denial, When To Have S*X And Hook Ups

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 2, 2024 37:00


    *Special Episode* Old Gays New Gays answer audience questions for the first time!  Nick and Ant, Dan and Frank share their best tips on meeting other queer people, whether you're new to the scene or looking to expand your social circle. They also discuss combating denial and views your parents may have to embracing your identity with confidence. This episode is packed with thoughtful advice on deciding when to have sex with your partner, or someone you may see a future with and navigating the world of hook ups respectfully.  Join us for an engaging and informative discussion, packed with personal stories and practical advice. Don't miss this chance to hear Nick and Ant's perspectives on these important questions from our community of listeners!

    Nick & Ant's Homophobic Attack Story, Homophobia at Work & Anti LGBT Hate Crimes

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 25, 2024 34:16


    In this powerful podcast episode, Nick and Ant bravely share their personal experiences with homophobic attacks. The Old Gays discuss the impact of workplace homophobia and the challenges LGBTQ+ individuals face in professional settings. The conversation also highlights the prevalence of anti-LGBT hate crimes and the importance of solidarity and activism in combating discrimination. Join The Old Gays New Gays for an honest discussion that aims to educate, inspire, and encourage action against homophobia.

    Nick & Ant On First Gay Kiss, Emotional Coming Out Stories & Old Gays Struggles

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 18, 2024 37:45


    In this powerful and emotionally charged episode, hosts Nick and Ant delve into the deeply personal and transformative journey of coming out as gay. Featuring authentic stories from both the older and younger generations, this episode paints a vivid picture of the evolving landscape of acceptance and understanding. Guests share their raw and unfiltered experiences, revealing how their families reacted—ranging from unconditional love to the hardest struggles they faced along the way.  The older generation recounts their battles against intense societal stigma and legal hurdles, while the younger generation speaks to a more progressive yet still challenging environment. Through these poignant narratives, Nick and Ant provide heartfelt advice on how to come out, offering a beacon of support.  This episode is a tribute to the courage of those who have paved the way and a guiding light for those just beginning their journey toward authenticity and self-acceptance.

    Nick & Ant On: Having Kids, Ant's Adoption Story & Surrogacy

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 11, 2024 34:43


    Nick and Ant (The New Gays) explore the multifaceted journey of parenthood within the LGBTQ+ community. They delve into the personal and emotional aspects of having kids, sharing their own experiences and aspirations. Ant opens up about his adoption story, providing an intimate glimpse into the challenges and triumphs that have shaped his life. The discussion also covers the evolving landscape of surrogacy, examining its complexities and the impact it has on families. The Old Gays (Dan & Frank) shed light on the unique challenges they faced, from navigating restrictive laws and social stigmas to the limited resources and support available to them. They contrast these experiences with the relatively smoother paths available to the younger generation today, thanks to progressive changes in laws and increased societal acceptance. Together, this episode is a celebration of the unique paths that lead to building a family, honouring the progress made and the resilience of those who paved the way.

    Nick & Ant: Gay P*rn's Evolution, Impact of Gay Baiting & OnlyFans

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 4, 2024 41:47


    Hosts Nick and Ant dive deep into the dynamic world of gay adult entertainment. They trace the evolution of gay p*rn, examining its cultural significance and how it has shaped and reflected societal attitudes toward LGBTQ+ identities over the decades Now vs Then. The discussion shifts to the controversial practice of gay baiting in media and advertising, exploring its implications and the fine line between representation and exploitation. More precisely, authentic narratives about OnlyFans creators and the discrepancies in how they portray themselves in the media. Join Nick & Ant (The New Gays) alongside, Dan & Frank (The Old Gays) for a candid and insightful conversation on these pivotal topics, shedding light on the intersections of sexuality, media, and modern digital trends.

    Nick & Ant: Gay P*rn's Evolution, Impact of Gay Baiting & OnlyFans

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 4, 2024 42:02


    Hosts Nick and Ant dive deep into the dynamic world of gay adult entertainment. They trace the evolution of gay p*rn, examining its cultural significance and how it has shaped and reflected societal attitudes toward LGBTQ+ identities over the decades Now vs Then. The discussion shifts to the controversial practice of gay baiting in media and advertising, exploring its implications and the fine line between representation and exploitation. More precisely, authentic narratives about OnlyFans creators and the discrepancies in how they portray themselves in the media. Join Nick & Ant (The New Gays) alongside, Dan & Frank (The Old Gays) for a candid and insightful conversation on these pivotal topics, shedding light on the intersections of sexuality, media, and modern digital trends. Side Note: This was our original Episode 1... hence our introduction to the episode being slightly different than usual!

    Nick & Ant: Gay P*rn's Evolution, Impact of Gay Baiting & OnlyFans

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 4, 2024 36:23


    Hosts Nick and Ant dive deep into the dynamic world of gay adult entertainment. They trace the evolution of gay p*rn, examining its cultural significance and how it has shaped and reflected societal attitudes toward LGBTQ+ identities over the decades Now vs Then. The discussion shifts to the controversial practice of gay baiting in media and advertising, exploring its implications and the fine line between representation and exploitation. More precisely, authentic narratives about OnlyFans creators and the discrepancies in how they portray themselves in the media. Join Nick & Ant (The New Gays) alongside, Dan & Frank (The Old Gays) for a candid and insightful conversation on these pivotal topics, shedding light on the intersections of sexuality, media, and modern digital trends.

    my eating disorder nearly killed me..

    Play Episode Listen Later May 28, 2024 42:29


    The Gay Communities most pressing and often misunderstood issues. In this insightful episode, Nick & Ant (The New Gays), along with Dan & Frank (The Old Gays) tackle body dysmorphia, the controversial use of Ozempic, how to use ozempic, ozempic side effects, and the struggles with eating disorders that many face. With candid discussions from the hosts REAL experiences, they explore the impact of these issues and offer support and advice for those navigating these challenges they've previously been through. Hit play and join the conversation as they shine a light on the importance of mental and physical health in the gay community. #BodyPositivity #mentalhealthmatters  Follow the podcast EVERYWHERE! www.hoo.be/oldgaysnewgays Business Email: nickandant@ingenuity.live

    Nick & Ant On Open Relationships, Threesomes and a HEALTHY Sex Life

    Play Episode Listen Later May 21, 2024 41:11


    A must listen as Nick & Ant tackle some of the most intriguing and often misunderstood aspects of relationships. Join us as we dive deep into the world of open relationships, explore the dynamics and boundaries of threesomes, and share insights on maintaining a healthy and satisfying sex life from the Older & Newer Gay generation. Hit play and join the discussion!

    Welcome to Old Gays New Gays

    Play Episode Listen Later May 16, 2024 1:34


    Nick and Ant are joined by Nicks uncles, the Old Gays as we get the answers to the LGBTQ+ communities BIGGEST questions. From open relationships, dating, gay baiting, to adoption, having kids as gay parents, growing up gay, eating disorders & much, much more. Welcome to Old Gays, New Gays.

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