Our Naughty Escapades

Nikki and I get back to Desire RM with our best friends, what a great trip! We also get to take some time and talk about our attempts to find a way to make new lifestyle friends in our area and the success we have been having! We are very excited about this new adventure in our life, we are truly living our best us! We hope you enjoy this podcast!

Nikki and I sit down and talk about some of the ummmm shall we say OOPS moments.... we have had over the course of our journey in the lifestyle. Most of which were a catalyst to having difficult discussions which as a byproduct has improved our communication. So in the long run what was not a great decision turned into an opportunity to grow in our commitment and communication.

Nikki and I discuss how life has been since we stepped back. The pain of turning 50, dealing with menopause, weight gain and trying to get back to sexy. We talk about the struggles of small town living and finding like minded couples. We hope you enjoy and remember to leave us a review or even a voicemail letting us know what y'all think!

We are so happy to be back hosting Our Naughty Escapades. We took a break for a bit due to some unseen circumstances but we are back baby! Take a seat for a bit and let us explain what happened and where we are now. We hope you enjoy this episode.

I (Nikki) was so humbled to be asked to sit down with Angie of Average Swingers, Mallory of Casual Swingers and Andi the owner of doubledatenation.com to discuss Bisexuality as part two of a 3 part special. We hope you enjoy!! https://www.averageswingers.com/ https://casualswinger.com/

I (Nikki) was so humbled to be asked to sit down with Angie of Average Swingers, Mallory of Casual Swingers and Andi the owner of doubledatenation.com to discuss Bisexuality as part two of a 3 part special. We hope you enjoy!! https://www.averageswingers.com/ https://casualswinger.com/

Nikki and I discuss our first trip to Hedo which we Tri-hosted with Ray & De of Club Euphoria and Dave & Andi of Double Date Nation. We had so much fun, we got to meet some great people and had some naughty escapades too!! We also give our comparison of Hedo to Desire. Thank … Continue reading "Episode 32 Our First Hedo Trip!"

Nikki and I discuss our first trip to Hedo which we Tri-hosted with Ray & De of Club Euphoria and Dave & Andi of Double Date Nation. We had so much fun, we got to meet some great people and had some naughty escapades too!! We also give our comparison of Hedo to Desire. Thank … Continue reading "Episode 32 Our First Hedo Trip!"

Nikki and I sit down and discuss our amazing time at Club Euphoria's NYE party, and some special fun with Ray & De. We also met some awesome friends and listeners down at Secrets Hideaway for a long weekend of naked fun. This was our first trip to a clothing optional resort here in the … Continue reading "Episode 31 NYE and our Secrets Hideaway Review"

Nikki and I sit down and discuss our amazing time at Club Euphoria’s NYE party, and some special fun with Ray & De. We also met some awesome friends and listeners down at Secrets Hideaway for a long weekend of naked fun. This was our first trip to a clothing optional resort here in the … Continue reading "Episode 31 NYE and our Secrets Hideaway Review"

Nikki and I talk about the past few months and all the excitement we have had as well as dealing with loss in our family. We also take some time to discuss judgy people in the lifestyle and what it can do to our mindset when at a lifestyle event. We are super excited about … Continue reading "Episode 30 Dealing with Judgy People!"

Nikki and I talk about the past few months and all the excitement we have had as well as dealing with loss in our family. We also take some time to discuss judgy people in the lifestyle and what it can do to our mindset when at a lifestyle event. We are super excited about … Continue reading "Episode 30 Dealing with Judgy People!"

Nikki and I sit down and talk about some of the amazing Escapades we have been on as well as some of the awesome people we have met along the way! Update Nikki said the Vibe party in Lafayette was cancelled and it was actually a Friction party. We finally talk about the Club Euphoria … Continue reading "Episode 29 Dating suggestions in the Lifestyle!"

Nikki and I sit down and talk about some of the amazing Escapades we have been on as well as some of the awesome people we have met along the way! Update Nikki said the Vibe party in Lafayette was cancelled and it was actually a Friction party. We finally talk about the Club Euphoria … Continue reading "Episode 29 Dating suggestions in the Lifestyle!"

Nikki and I sit down and discuss how we have evolved over the years in our journey through this amazing adventure. The lifestyle has helped us to become the best people we can be while trying to give back to the community that has given us so much. We hope you enjoy this episode! Stay … Continue reading "Episode 28 Evolving in the lifestyle"

Nikki and I sit down and discuss how we have evolved over the years in our journey through this amazing adventure. The lifestyle has helped us to become the best people we can be while trying to give back to the community that has given us so much. We hope you enjoy this episode! Stay … Continue reading "Episode 28 Evolving in the lifestyle"

Nikki and I talk about a portion of our lives we don't normally tell people. We also discuss how priorities can make the lifestyle difficult and sometimes it can cause us to change our plans. It can be a delicate balance to handle at times but life happens and we have to learn to bend … Continue reading "Episode 27 Priorities in the Lifestyle"

Nikki and I talk about a portion of our lives we don’t normally tell people. We also discuss how priorities can make the lifestyle difficult and sometimes it can cause us to change our plans. It can be a delicate balance to handle at times but life happens and we have to learn to bend … Continue reading "Episode 27 Priorities in the Lifestyle"

Nikki and I discuss some escapades we have had lately with some amazing friends and a trip to Nashville to celebrate Bob's big 50. There is an little surprise recording from this trip as well. We hope you enjoy this episode!!!

Nikki and I discuss some escapades we have had lately with some amazing friends and a trip to Nashville to celebrate Bob’s big 50. There is an little surprise recording from this trip as well. We hope you enjoy this episode!!!

Nikki and I talk about our second trip to Desire pearl, all the new people we got to meet and some amazing old friends we got to spend time with. We also ran into Jeff and Karen and got the chance to do an exclusive interview in our room,

Nikki and I talk about our second trip to Desire pearl, all the new people we got to meet and some amazing old friends we got to spend time with. We also ran into Jeff and Karen and got the chance to do an exclusive interview in our room, you don’t want to miss it. … Continue reading "Episode 25 Our second trip to Desire Pearl"

Jen and I have been to 3 hotel takeovers in the last 3 weekends and discuss some of the fun we have had at them. We had some sexy moments and some not so sexy ones but got to meet some great people and have some laughs.

Jen and I have been to 3 hotel takeovers in the last 3 weekends and discuss some of the fun we have had at them. We had some sexy moments and some not so sexy ones but got to meet some great people and have some laughs. We had the chance to meet the creators … Continue reading "Episode 24 Hotel parties and more hotel parties!"

Jen and I discuss a special night out with Ray & De plus Adam & Eve before the NYE hotel takeover we attended. We also talk about attending some of the clubs we use to visit years ago and the What the Hell just happened moment we had at one of them.

Jen and I discuss a special night out with Ray & De plus Adam & Eve before the NYE hotel takeover we attended. We also talk about attending some of the clubs we use to visit years ago and the What the Hell just happened moment we had at one of them. We hope y’all … Continue reading "Episode 23 NYE and a what the hell moment!"

Jen and I recap some of our most memorable escapades during 2018. It started off with a bit of stress but finished strong. We also discuss the Friction hotel party we attended. Kick back and enjoy!!

Jen and I recap some of our most memorable escapades during 2018. It started off with a bit of stress but finished strong. We also discuss the Friction hotel party we attended. Kick back and enjoy!!

We sit down and record each day to give our take on our first trip to Desire Pearl! We hope you enjoy the podcast, we had so much fun with We Gotta Thing and Swinging Down Under's takeover. We had the chance to meet many other podcast hosts while we we...

We sit down and record each day to give our take on our first trip to Desire Pearl! We hope you enjoy the podcast, we had so much fun with We Gotta Thing and Swinging Down Under’s takeover. We had the chance to meet many other podcast hosts while we were there, such great people!

With our first trip to Desire coming soon we thought we would talk about what sexy times we have been up to the last couple weeks. We talk about attending a local house party and Club Euphoria for their Halloween hotel takeover.

With our first trip to Desire coming soon we thought we would talk about what sexy times we have been up to the last couple weeks. We talk about attending a local house party and Club Euphoria for their Halloween hotel takeover. We will be at Desire from Nov 10th to the 17th and will … Continue reading "Episode 20 What have we been up to?"

We talk about the fun we had at an amazing hotel takeover with some very sexy and special friends. There is also a portion we recorded at the hotel with new and old friends. We discuss the importance of rules,

We talk about the fun we had at an amazing hotel takeover with some very sexy and special friends. There is also a portion we recorded at the hotel with new and old friends. We discuss the importance of rules, especially in the beginning and how they have changed over the years for us. Thank … Continue reading "Episode 19 – Fun Hotel Party And How Rules Changed"

So in this episode we discuss how difficult it is for us to find couples in the lifestyle wanting to meet. We talk about how not having a local club scene and how the websites are not really offering any help either.

So in this episode we discuss how difficult it is for us to find couples in the lifestyle wanting to meet. We talk about how not having a local club scene and how the websites are not really offering any help either. It seems that for me (Ben) this type of rejection sent my mind … Continue reading "Episode 18 – Problems Finding Couples"

We have had an amazing month with some great parties and some sexy time as well. We attended our first Vibe hotel takeover, plus a little commentary with Mike and Ben. Jen and I also discuss a topic that enters our minds on a daily basis,

We have had an amazing month with some great parties and some sexy time as well. We attended our first Vibe hotel takeover, plus a little commentary with Mike and Ben. Jen and I also discuss a topic that enters our minds on a daily basis, Self Image Issues. We hope you enjoy the podcast … Continue reading "Episode 17 – Parties and Self Image Issues"

In this episode we talk about what has been going on the last few weeks and a recent trip to see the Doctor for a follow up. We also talk about our latest camping trip to a State Park with a group of swingers and the fun we all had!

In this episode we talk about what has been going on the last few weeks and a recent trip to see the Doctor for a follow up. We also talk about our latest camping trip to a State Park with a group of swingers and the fun we all had! Hope you enjoy and as … Continue reading "Episode 16 – Swinger Camping"

We finally get the opportunity to mark off a couple of items on Jen's Fuck-It list. We sit down to discuss our first MFM and Chloe just happens to sit in with us during the recording. This is something we have talked about doing and finally got the cha...

We finally get the opportunity to mark off a couple of items on Jen’s Fuck-It list. We sit down to discuss our first MFM and Chloe just happens to sit in with us during the recording. This is something we have talked about doing and finally got the chance to meet up with this great … Continue reading "Episode 15 – Our First MFM!"

Jen and I discuss our new ventures with co-hosting a meet & greet to our new affiliation with Too Timid. We talk about realizing how our own personal issues and thoughts had stifled our ability to play or even communicate effectively in our vanilla lif...

Jen and I discuss our new ventures with co-hosting a meet & greet to our new affiliation with Too Timid. We talk about realizing how our own personal issues and thoughts had stifled our ability to play or even communicate effectively in our vanilla life.  Please take a listen and we hope that you get … Continue reading "Episode 14 – The struggle is real"

We sit down and discuss a recent health scare that we have been dealing with and how we feel the lifestyle helped us to catch this very early.  We understand this is not the typical lifestyle podcast; however we felt this needed to be discussed to hope...

We sit down and discuss a recent health scare that we have been dealing with and how we feel the lifestyle helped us to catch this very early.  We understand this is not the typical lifestyle podcast; however we felt this needed to be discussed to hopefully make people aware of any changes in their … Continue reading "Episode 13 – Knowing Your Body"

We finally had a chance to sit down and podcast after a bit of down time due to a surgery. We talk about what has been going on with us and discuss our top 5 escapades from the past years. We look forward to the new year and making some amazing memories with old and … Continue reading "Episode 12 – Our Top 5 Escapades"

We finally had a chance to sit down and podcast after a bit of down time due to a surgery. We talk about what has been going on with us and discuss our top 5 escapades from the past years. We look forward to the new year and making some amazing memorie...

We sit down with some great friends Mike and Stacy to discuss different lifestyle venus. We talk about their first ever lifestyle vacation to Hedo 2 and get a chance to hear all about it when they returned. Mike and Stacy have been in the lifestyle for a long time and give a great perspective … Continue reading "Episode 11 – Mike & Stacy before and after Hedo 2"

We sit down with some great friends Mike and Stacy to discuss different lifestyle venus. We talk about their first ever lifestyle vacation to Hedo 2 and get a chance to hear all about it when they returned.

We sit back down with Chloe and Tarzan to discuss their first swinger house party, and see if this lifestyle is for them. The experience was not what they expected however they saw what Chloe referred to as the good, bad and ugly. They did come away with some great insight about swinging, their relationship … Continue reading "Episode 10 – Part 2 Vanilla couple after first house party"