Sex Hurts

The Children of God, NXIVM, Scientology. What do they all have in common? SEX! This week, Melissa Webb, LCSW and our resident sex-pert, talks to us about how cults use sex to manipulate and control their members while we discuss ways to heal from this type of abuse. For a deeper explanation of Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs, check out https://digital.com/how-to-become-an-entrepreneur/maslows-hierarchy/

This week Chloe is sharing some of her stories and experiences of working in the adult industry. Her insight helps us to further bridge the gap between sex and acceptance. https://linktr.ee/Stripperstories

Dr. Shameless is back! This week we get uncomfortable and discuss how to talk to kids and teens about sex. Dr. Shameless is a clinical sexologist and is here to help us make the conversation easier.

This week, our guest Robert shares his experiences with problematic sexual behaviors, the legal system and how treatment has saved his life. For more information on sexual offending, check out: https://www.nsvrc.org/statisticshttps://www.rainn.org/types-sexual-violence

Melissa Webb, LCSW, joins us again this week as we explore the female orgasm! Squirting, body shaming and female orgasmic disorder are just the tip of the iceberg. To find an entirely new way to explore woman's pleasure, check out:https://www.omgyes.com/To learn more about our sexual anatomy, check out:https://www.plannedparenthood.org/learn/health-and-wellness/sexual-and-reproductive-anatomy/what-are-parts-female-sexual-anatomyFor more information on Betty Dodson, check out: https://bettysarmy.com/

Josh, a Marine Corps veteran, shares his story of child sexual abuse as he continues to spread awareness about male sexual abuse, its stigmas and ways we can overcome the shame.

Monogamy, non-monogamy, closed, open, ethical, poly, - there are many different types of relationships. This episode, Barkley and Stefanie sit down with us and talk about their experiences since opening up their relationship. You can find more information about polyamory and open relationships at www.thecouplescenter.org

Sexual assault comes in many forms. Libby, an avid listener, wanted to share her story of survival in hopes of helping other to know they are not alone. RAINN, the nation's largest anti-sexual violence organization, can be reached 24 hours a day, with live chat and a sexual abuse hotline to help other survivors of abuse ~ https://www.rainn.org/

Our guest this week, Melissa Webb, helps us understand the world of paraphilia. Paraphilia is the experience of intense sexual arousal to atypical objects, situations, fantasies, behaviors, or individuals. Melissa Webb is the Clinical Director for Red Rock Psychological Health. She graduated from the University of Nevada, Reno in 2004 with a Bachelor’s Degree in Social Work, and again in 2006 with her Social Work Master’s Degree. Melissa is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker, as well as an LCSW Supervisor for the Nevada Board of Examiners. She specializes in sex addiction, sexual abuse trauma, and anxiety. She is honored to be a board member for both the Southern Nevada Children’s Advocacy Center and The Nevada Chapter of ATSA. She is also an Agency Field Instructor for the University of Nevada, Las Vegas.Link for providers who specialize in paraphilic behaviors ~ https://www.atsa.com/referral

Roughly 12 million people struggle with sex addiction but shocker - WE DON'T TALK ABOUT IT! Well all of that is over. Joe is our guest this week and he talks to us about his story of addiction, recovery and hope. Sex Addiction Self-Assessment link https://saa-recovery.org/am-i-a-sex-addict/self-assessment/

What is enthusiastic consent? How is it different from just "consent"? Dr. Shameless helps break it down for us!Dr. Shameless helps guide people – regardless of age, gender, identity, experience and anything else – on a journey from sexual shame to courage in order to be your most authentic sexual self. Her approach has people examine the origins of shame, deconstruct the validity of shameful self-talk, identify the harm shame causes, and create a new paradigm embracing the bold, genuine and healthier attitudes living beneath the surface. Dr. Shameless has a passion around joy, personal growth and pleasure for pleasure’s sake.Dr. Shameless is a Licensed Clinical Professional Counselor in Nevada and holds a Master’s degree from the University of Florida in Health Science Education, a Master’s degree from the University of Nevada, Las Vegas, in Counselor Education, and a Doctor of Human Sexuality degree from the Institute for Advanced Study of Human Sexuality in San Francisco, California. She has been practicing as a therapist in Las Vegas since 2009. She grew up in New York and South Florida and enjoys her pets, friends and sharing helpful information about reproductive justice and health. She can often be found at local school board meetings advocating for real sex ed, inclusive policies, and access to care. She is engaged in local, state and national political activities.Dr. Shameless can be found on her Facebook page at Dr. Shameless and via email at Dr.Shameless702@gmail.com.

You can't talk about sex without exploring firsts. From the funny, to the shocking to the cringy; join six individuals who were willing to tell their stories for our introductory episode. I can't thank everyone enough for being so supportive and helpful with getting this podcast off the ground (you know who you are).

This is a podcast about sex, if you couldn't tell by the name. Each week, I talk with people in the community, professionals and otherwise, about everything sex; consent, polyamory, kink, BDSM, talking to kids about sex, strip clubs, sex clubs, addiction, offending - ALL OF IT! Because we often have this feeling of shame or embarrassment about sex and it needs to stop. Come on this journey with me as we take back the power of sex!