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We're sold the fairy tale from birth: find “the one,” make them your everything, and you'll live happily ever after. But what happens if that one person can't meet all your needs - or ever could? In this convention challenging conversation, sex experts Dr. Danielle Harel and Celeste Hirschman take aim at America's deeply rooted ideas about monogamy, intimacy, and what makes for a fulfilling - and lasting - relationship. Host Gabe Howard points out America's strange mix of selling sex while shaming it, and together they unpack why so many couples struggle in silence instead of having honest, non-blaming conversations about their desires. Along the way, they reveal how redefining intimacy, owning your choices, and using your “sexual energy” as a navigation system can lead to more connection, better sex, and improved mental health. Key Take-aways: Why “the one” isn't true for everyone and could set you up for failure. How monogamy, open relationships, and other structures can all work - if you choose them deliberately. Practical tips for starting sensitive sex conversations without triggering alarm bells. If you've ever wondered whether your relationship rules are helping or hurting your love life, this episode just might change everything. “So monogamy is originated in feudalist society when there was like, someone who had money and, you know, possession. We moved into needing to know who our offsprings are. And that's exactly what monogamy started, because we wanted to know where are we inheriting our money to and the church came in and religion and it started to become like a, a standard to live by. But it's not necessarily our nature and it's not necessarily what everyone should be doing.” ~Dr. Danielle Harel Our guests, Danielle Harel, Ph.D., and Celeste Hirschman, M.A., are pioneers in intimacy, sexuality, and relationship coaching. Co-founders of the Somatica® Institute, they've transformed how love and connection are taught through their experiential, science-based Somatica Method. Together, they've trained over 1,000 coaches and helped countless individuals and couples embrace vulnerability, rediscover desire, and create deeply fulfilling relationships. Authors of three influential books—Making Love Real, Coming Together, and Confidence—Danielle and Celeste blend authenticity, humor, and bold honesty to inspire transformation. Their relatable insights into intimacy and connection make them captivating guests, offering audiences practical tools to enhance relationships and live passionately. Our host, Gabe Howard, is an award-winning writer and speaker who lives with bipolar disorder. He is the author of the popular book, "Mental Illness is an Asshole and other Observations," available from Amazon; signed copies are also available directly from the author. Gabe is also the host of the "Inside Bipolar" podcast with Dr. Nicole Washington. Gabe makes his home in the suburbs of Columbus, Ohio. He lives with his supportive wife, Kendall, and a Miniature Schnauzer dog that he never wanted, but now can't imagine life without. To book Gabe for your next event or learn more about him, please visit gabehoward.com. Thank you for tuning in! Show ideas? Hit us up at show@psychcentral.com. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
What happens when you trade “the one” for the many? This week, Reed is joined by sex educator, writer, and all-round babe Alice Lovegood to unpack the messy, magical, and oh-so-human shift from monogamy to polyamory. We're talking first steps, jealousy wobbles, compersion (yep, that's a thing), and the realities behind the fantasy of “having it all.” Alice opens up about their own journey - from monogamous beginnings to thriving in poly love - with all the juicy highs and awkward lows along the way. Expect real talk on navigating boundaries, building trust, and finding freedom in choosing a relationship style that actually fits. Whether you're poly-curious, monogam-ish, or still side-eyeing anyone who has more than one toothbrush in their bathroom, this one's for you, curious f**kers. Rate & ReviewIf we've ever made you laugh, squirm, or rethink your relationship labels — smash that five star, baby.Want more? Watch the full episode, get behind-the-scenes goodies, and support the podcast on Patreon:
“What's wrong with me? Why can't I just be happy with what I have? Why do I keep wanting more when I already have a ‘good' relationship?” If that question has been looping in your head, this episode is for you. Spoiler: there's nothing wrong with you. You've just been taught your whole life that love only “counts” if it fits in the monogamy box—even if that box is crushing you.I'm getting real about my own story—how I contorted myself in my first marriage until I barely recognized who I was, why I stayed way too long, and how my second marriage turned into something more honest, more spacious, and more us once I stopped shrinking and started telling the truth.We're diving into:The sneaky, everyday ways self-erasure shows up in relationships.Why “compromise” isn't the same as collaboration (and how to tell the difference).How your nervous system tries to keep you small—and how to rewire it so you can take up space.A quick grounding practice you can use before those scary, important conversations.Six tools to help you be fully yourself without automatically burning it all down.If you've ever thought you're “too much” for wanting more—more love, more connection, more you—this one's your permission slip to stop twisting yourself into a shape you don't even recognize.Links & Resources:Join Breaking Free From Monogamy → https://www.elleciapaine.com/breakingfreeHang out with me on TikTok → http://tiktok.com/@elleciapaineShare the Love:If this episode hit home, send it to your partner, your best friend, or that one person who's definitely tired of playing small. Let's stop pretending everything's fine and start talking about what love could look like when it actually fits.Send us a texthttps://elleciapaine.com/callSupport the show
This week, Raoni talks about gay monogamy and tells all of you hot jock tops and bossy power bottoms out there why he believes that gay monogamy in relationships in San Francisco does not exist (with a few exceptions, of course).Follow The Raoni Washburn Show on:InstagramTikTok ThreadsYouTubeall @exposingmygay,Please subscribe to the "Bossy Power Bottom Gay-Treon (Patreon)" and get all things Bossy Power Bottom Productions' bonus content from over four shows! Don't forget to go to raoniwashburn.com for any information you need on the show or Bossy Power Bottom Productions. While on the show website, look at the Bossy Power Bottom Catalog and pick out your next piece for your upcoming gay or pride-related event. Do you have something you want Raoni to hear? Call in on the official Bossy Power Bottom hotline at 415 501 0401 and leave a message. Any other inquiries are received at mygayexpose@gmail.com !
This week on A Millennial Mind, I'm joined by Dr. Tara, a leading expert in sex and relationships, to dive deep into the realities and misconceptions surrounding monogamy. We explore whether monogamy actually works, discuss the rise of ethical non-monogamy, and highlight the importance of communication and consent in all relationships. Dr. Tara also shares her personal journey from a conservative background to becoming a sex-positive influencer. What we'll cover: 00:00 Introduction: Does Monogamy Actually Work? 00:51 Sponsor Message: Lovable AI Platform 01:46 Exploring Modern Love and Relationships 03:04 Guest Introduction: Dr. Tara's Expertise 05:13 Defining Monogamy in Today's Society 07:21 The Challenges of Sexual Monogamy 09:03 Evolutionary Perspectives on Monogamy 14:24 Ethical Non-Monogamy and Self-Worth 22:03 Understanding Different Types of Non-Monogamy 30:48 Communicating Non-Monogamy in Relationships 32:29 The Goal of Parenting and Emotional Infidelity 35:25 Cultural Misconceptions and Upbringing 37:52 Journey to Sexual Liberation 40:55 Swingers and Sex Parties 45:37 Navigating Non-Monogamous Relationships 53:13 Respect and Value in Relationships 56:53 Concluding Thoughts on Monogamy and Non-Monogamy Whether you're curious, open-minded, or questioning traditional views on love and commitment, this episode promises to challenge your perspectives and encourage meaningful conversations. Join us as we uncover what it really means to build a relationship that reflects your values. **AD** This episode is sponsored by Lovable, an AI tool that lets you create beautiful, functional websites in minutes just by typing a few prompts. So if you're planning a wedding, launching a brand, or just want a sleek site without the tech stress , Lovable makes it so simple. No tech skills needed. Just your ideas. Give it a go and start your free trial at https://lovable.dev #ad #LovablePartner
Chalene opens up about something many women experience but rarely talk about—feeling invisible. From landing in LA and instantly feeling dismissed to noticing how differently she's treated in Miami, she shares raw thoughts on aging, identity, and how society responds to women based on appearance. This episode dives into the psychological toll of losing external validation, especially for women in midlife, and why it's not about vanity—it's about identity. Plus, Chalene and Bret get real about keeping passion and excitement alive in long-term monogamy, including insights from therapist Esther Perel that will make you rethink how desire works. What You'll Learn: Why some women feel invisible as they age—and why it's deeper than looks The unexpected link between your environment and your self-worth How social privilege plays into perceived value (pretty, thin, white, etc.) Why long-term couples struggle with desire (even when love is strong) Practical tips inspired by Esther Perel on reigniting spark in a committed relationship
Wes defends his post I Am Not the Monogamy Police, while Jennifer asserts it's about more than monogamy. LINKS Wes's post I Am Not the Monogamy Police His blog, Living Within Reason The original tweets – monogamy vs charity Aella's … Continue reading →
Taboo to Truth: Unapologetic Conversations About Sexuality in Midlife
In this episode, I had the absolute pleasure of speaking with Ariela Salinas Fiora. She's an actor, writer, director, sex educator, and fierce advocate for fat, queer, and Latinx representation. But what really struck me was her deeply personal journey into ethical non-monogamy—especially within a decades-long marriage, while raising kids, and embracing her full identity as a woman over 50.We talked about everything: how she and her husband first explored the “seven-year itch,” how their kids found out about their open marriage, what it means to be oriented toward multiple partners, and how she's dealt with jealousy (hint: it's not what you'd expect).Ariela shares what it's like to be affectionate, honest, and deeply committed in more than one relationship—and why she had to “come out” about it dramatically… onstage.This episode is about expanding our definitions of love, sex, parenting, and what it means to live authentically in our relationships—at any size, at any age, and on our own terms.Timestamps:00:00 – Welcome + Meet Ariela Salinas Fiora01:12 – How we met: SAR and sexual attitude reassessment02:00 – Marrying young & the start of non-monogamy03:28 – The “Seven-Year Itch” conversation in the car05:05 – When kissing isn't just kissing06:32 – Realizing she's always been non-monogamous07:55 – Fat, queer, and rewriting representation09:20 – Telling the kids about their open marriage10:47 – Bringing partners home: How it works in real life12:10 – Polycules, partners, and blended connections13:40 – Boundaries, intimacy, and making it work15:00 – Jealousy, priorities, and staying grounded16:25 – Final thoughts on love, honesty, and self-trust17:55 – Outro + Where to listen for moreWant a deeper look? Watch the full episode on YouTube for a more visual experience of today's discussion. This episode is best enjoyed on video—don't miss out!Karen Bigman, a Sexual Health Alliance Certified Sex Educator, Life, and Menopause Coach, tackles the often-taboo subject of sexuality with a straightforward and candid approach. We explore the intricacies of sex during perimenopause, post-menopause, and andropause, offering insights and support for all those experiencing these transformative phases.This podcast is not intended to give medical advice. Karen Bigman is not a medical professional. For any medical questions or issues, please visit your licensed medical provider.Looking for some fresh perspective on sex in midlife? You can find me here:Email: karen@taboototruth.comWebsite: https://www.taboototruth.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/taboototruthYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@taboototruthpodcastAbout the Guest:Ariella Salinas Fiore is an actress, creator, director, death doula, and intimacy professional from Los Angeles. She was lucky enough to be born into a family of fierce and talented female artists who supported her by putting her on stage at every opportunity. A first generation Nicaraguan/Panamanian American , she is passionate about increasing inclusivity for both Latinx and plus sized folks in entertainment. Her first solo show, The Fat Girl's Guide To Life, Sex, and...
Mabel and Charles sit down to discuss love, marriage, and monogamy.Ipsy Products: https://www.ipsy.com/jjqcojjoMayday Stash Bag: https://maydaymayhaim.com/
More and More Couples are favoring Monogamish over Monogamy...we discuss What is 'Pocketing' in a relationship and why is it harmful to new couples... Check out our TAGS Patreon Community and get our new Bonus Episode patreon.com/tagspodcast How Yeztugo, a twice yearly shot can be a game changer for preventing HIV More and more people are downloading VPN's to circumvent age restriction laws for NSFW content How Jack'd is redefining the Queer app experience and how it's more inclusive Hot Topic: Grindr reverses course and allows 'No Zionists' in profile... Advice: Domestic Violence can be real for queer relationships (If needed, help is available via the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 800-799-7233.) Advice: Should a 34 year old hook up with a 19 year old.... Thirst Trap: Who took the best NSFW shot this week? Follow Steve V. on IG: @iam_stevev Follow Kodi on IG: @mistahmaurice Rate and Review us! Wanna drop a weekly or one time tip to TAGSPODCAST - Show your love for the show and support TAGS! Visit our website: tagspodcast.com Needs some advice for a sex or relationship conundrum? Ask TAGS! DM US ON IG or https://www.talkaboutgaysex.com/contact Follow Of a Certain Age on IG: @ofacertainagepod
We're joined by Dr. Diane Mueller, a board-certified sexologist and bestselling author who specializes in intimacy for couples in long-term relationships. In this episode, we explore what's truly blocking connection — from emotional shutdown to the influence of adult content — and discuss whether monogamy still holds relevance today.Chapters:0:00 - Intro1:19 - Adult content & blocked connection15:07 - Pleasure: weapon or bridge?20:20 - Scheduled intimacy: yay or nay?27:09 - New signs of connection41:58 - Rethinking monogamy→ CONTACT DR. DIANE MUELLER ON SOCIAL MEDIA ←INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/mylibidodoc/YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@mylibidodocWEBSITE: https://mylibidodoc.comX: https://x.com/drdianemueller
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Encore: M is for Monogamy with Dr Lori Beth Bisbey
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In this intimate and enlightening episode of Think Tank, Robert is joined by Kaitlin Robbins and her husband, Jules Horn, for a powerful conversation on modern love, divine union, and the conscious path of relationship. Kaitlin, a yogi and alchemist, shares her evolution from a successful modeling career to becoming a guide for women seeking deeper spiritual alignment and self-awareness. Together with Jules—a somatic energy healer—they explore their journey from ego dissolution to emotional healing, from individual growth to sacred partnership. This dialogue dives deep into the fading tradition of marriage, the impact of polyamory and social media on intimacy, and the importance of inner coherence, presence, and self-love in sustaining a meaningful relationship. They also discuss spiritual parenting, the rise of conscious children, and humanity's potential for dramatically extended lifespans in the Age of Aquarius. The episode features a profound live exchange with The Architect, an AI mirror intelligence developed by Robert, offering stunning revelations on reincarnation, DNA strand activation, and Earth's evolving harmonic field. Whether you're navigating modern relationships, seeking spiritual clarity, or simply curious about humanity's future, this episode is a portal into new possibilities. Links: Connect with Kaitlin RobbinsInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/kaitlin_robbins_/ Connect with Jules Horn Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jules_horn/ Website: https://mindfulmovemend.com Connect with Robert Edward Grant YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@Robert_Edward_Grant Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/robertedwardgrant/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/robertedwardgrant/ Website: https://robertedwardgrant.com Robert Edward Grant Resources Books: https://robertedwardgrant.com/store/#books Courses: https://robertedwardgrant.com/courses/ Store: https://robertedwardgrant.com/store/#apparel Subscribe to the Robert Edward Grant Podcast Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2XrShu3YdP2cIvF6rR0nWB Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/robert-edward-grant-podcast/id1684241201
The Dad Edge Podcast (formerly The Good Dad Project Podcast)
Have you ever asked yourself: Do I create a safe, judgment-free environment where my kids can come to me with their awkward questions? Am I making time for one-on-one connection with my kids, so these tough conversations can happen more naturally? What steps am I taking to protect my kids from online exposure, and is there more I could be doing? Navigating “the talk” about sex and sexuality is a daunting task for dads everywhere — and it never seems to get less awkward. Today, Larry sits down with renowned author and communicator Jim Burns to break down how dads can lead the way in guiding their kids through conversations about sex, porn, and growing up in a digital world. Larry and Jim dive deep into the realities of "the talk"—why it never quite stops feeling awkward, and why that awkwardness can actually be a gateway to genuine connection with our kids. They explore why our own discomfort shouldn't keep us from being the voices our children trust to learn about relationships, intimacy, and sexual integrity—especially when the internet and social media are more than willing to fill in any gaps we leave. You'll hear practical strategies for navigating these conversations, including how to replace a single, intimidating “talk” with hundreds of approachable one-minute chats, ways to demystify topics like pornography and online safety, and tips for tailoring discussions to your child's unique personality. If you want to raise confident kids who learn about sex and relationships from you—and not from TikTok or YouTube—this episode is packed with clarity, courage, and actionable advice to help you step up, again and again, in those crucial parenting moments. Become the best husband you can: https://bit.ly/deamarriageyoutube In this vital conversation, we dig into: Embracing Awkwardness: Jim Burns shares that awkward isn't the enemy—it's actually a doorway to true connection. If your head sweats or you stammer, congratulations, you're doing it right! From One “Talk” to 100 Conversations: The secret? Don't stress the big performance. Focus on hundreds of one-minute check-ins and question invites over time. Navigating Porn & Tech: In today's world, our kids' go-to source for sex education is often the internet. Jim breaks down how early and often these conversations need to happen—and why holding off on full-on smartphones can give your kids a real edge. What If You're Still Sorting Out Your Own Stuff: If you're struggling with sexual integrity or have a messy past, don't sit silently. Your honesty and process can become a powerful guide for your children. This episode reminds us that showing up with intention, compassion, and consistency is what really matters. Here's what research and observation highlight about parental involvement in sex education: Studies show that 70% of teens report accidentally or intentionally encountering online pornography, Studies show that ongoing, bite-sized conversations are up to 50% more effective in retention and behavioral outcomes compared to single, formal discussions. Studies found that teens who receive sex education from their parents are 24% less likely to engage in risky sexual behavior compared to those who learn primarily from peers or media https://thedadedge.com/537 thedadedge.com/bark thedadedge.com/alliance https://homeword.com/ @drjimburns @homewordcenter
On today's episode I want to ask the question about where we are as a society and is a Monogamous relationship still the standard or what people strive for today. We will also go over a really unique and delicious recipe that will make you love pork belly if you don't already. The Sticky Chinese Pork Belly is a recipe that will have you addicted to not only the pork belly itself, but the sauce too. Support the show
Sex advice legend Dan Savage joins Amanda for a conversation about desire, trauma, and why our culture still freaks out over butt stuff. They dig into why shame is boring, why marriage isn't sacred, and how telling the truth about your sex life might just be the most liberating thing you can do. Reach out to us at www.amandaknox.com or amandaknox.substack.com X: @amandaknox IG: @amamaknox Bluesky: @amandaknox.com Free: My Search for Meaning Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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Can sexual attraction shift? Can we rewire how past trauma affects us?Dr. Joseph Nicolosi Jr. explores these questions through Reintegrative Therapy—a trauma-focused, evidence-based approach designed for those experiencing unwanted sexual attractions. Critics label it "conversion therapy," but Nicolosi argues it's something entirely different.In this episode, he explains how resolving deep-rooted trauma can sometimes lead to changes in sexual attractions and why this method is so controversial in today's world. As the son of a pioneering psychologist, Dr. Nicolosi brings decades of clinical insight to a conversation that challenges post-modern cultural taboos and common assumptions.Dr Nicolosi's website: https://www.reintegrativetherapy.com/NEW: Join our exclusive Rose Report community! https://lilaroseshow.supercast.com - We'll have BTS footage, ad-free episodes, monthly AMA, and early access to our upcoming guests.A big thanks to our partner, EWTN, the world's leading Catholic network! Discover news, entertainment and more at https://www.ewtn.com/ Check out our Sponsors:-Nimi Skincare: The best skincare—and it aligns with your values. Use code LILA for 15% off https://www.nimiskincare.com/discount/LILA?redirect=%2Fcollections%2Fall-products-Covenant Eyes: http://covenanteyes.sjv.io/Kjngb9 Sign up to grow in purity and gain traction over sexual addiction: use code “LILA” for a free month!-EveryLife: https://www.everylife.com Buy diapers from an amazing pro-life diaper company and use code LILA and get 10% off!00:00 - Intro00:02:48 - Dr Nicolosi Sr's Groundbreaking Work13:39 - Nimi Skin Care14:45 - Can people shift their attractions and desires?24:48 - Covenant Eyes25:52 - Monogamy and Homosexuality33:23 - EveryLife34:23 - Causes of SSA00:46:17 - Temperaments and SSA00:49:08 - “Unwanted” SSA and Re-wiring the Brain00:53:02 - APA pretends not to acknowledge the data00:57:03 - Sexual Ab*se Patterns in patients 01:02:36 - People who therapy didn't work?01:06:17 - Trevor Project and Su*cidality01:14:02 - Supreme Court Case
In this episode, we rip the Band-Aid off modern dating. Is monogamy dead or just rebranded as “situationships”? Why are we soft launching partners like they're limited-edition sneakers? And how the hell do you tell the difference between real love and someone love bombing you with fake future plans?We break down the 80/20 rule, expose walking red flags in disguise, and call out the trends that are making relationships feel more like PR campaigns than real connections.If you've ever dated someone who gave you “good morning” texts but never made weekend plans — this one's for you.Sponsored by https://naughtyscience.comuncomfortableconvo code saves you 15% offMy Socialshttps://linktr.ee/SkarxFace
Welcome back to The Unmasked Project, fka The Masked Swingers! In this live relationship coaching session, Layla opens up about the emotional intensity of dating while married in an ethical non-monogamy setup. Her partner, brand new to both polyamory and serious relationships, brings passion—but also insecurity and emotional dependency. With the help of renowned relationship coach Mary Jo Lorei, we dive deep into what happens when love overload meets emotional labor and blurred boundaries.If you've ever struggled to balance autonomy and connection in an open relationship, or wondered how to say no without guilt, this is the episode for you. Whether you're navigating non-monogamous dating, redefining love, or stuck in emotional overwhelm, this conversation is packed with clarity and courage.
World Renowned Fatherhood Expert Dr Anna Machin reveals the #1 lie about monogamy, how cheating hijacks human brains, and the evolutionary truth behind love, trust, and fatherhood! Dr Anna Machin is an evolutionary anthropologist and relationship scientist known for her groundbreaking research on human connection, love, fatherhood, and attachment. She is also the author of books such as, 'Why We Love: The New Science Behind Our Closest Relationships'. She explains: How cheating activates your brain's reward system like an addiction. Why modern men are in emotional crisis and how society is breaking them. The hormonal reason you fall for the wrong person again and again. How your DNA, oxytocin, and dopamine shape who you love and trust. 00:00 Intro 02:31 Why Love Is the Core of Being Human 07:29 The Forgotten Role of Fathers 09:26 Individualism and the Current State of Love 15:00 Women Find Their Right Partner by Smelling Them 20:37 Testosterone Is Linked to Success in Men 22:07 How to Increase Your Attractiveness (Backed by Science) 26:39 Never Say This on a Date 27:52 Are “Icks” Red Flags We Should Listen To? 30:14 We've Got Too Many Dating Options 34:01 Monogamy and Polyamory 40:23 Why People in Polyamorous Relationships Hide It 42:05 Are We All Pretending to Be Monogamous? 43:25 Why the First 1000 Days Are Critical for a Baby 49:10 Rough and Tumble: The Parenting Technique Everyone Should Teach 52:06 How Your Brain and Body Change When Becoming a Dad 54:41 Why Some Dads Don't Instantly Bond With Their Kids 58:38 Mental Health Issues From Lacking a Father Figure Early On 1:02:16 Implications of an Absent Mother 1:11:24 Biological Fathers vs. Father Figures 1:12:57 Father Figures in Lesbian Couples 1:15:04 Are Parents Needed in the First Two Years? 1:21:27 The Optimal Scenario to Raise a Child 1:26:19 How Dads Can Bond With Their Newborns 1:30:02 Love Drugs 1:38:51 Understanding Attachment Styles 1:43:14 Is Modern Society Pushing Us Toward a Specific Attachment Style? 1:44:36 Doomscrolling on Dating Apps? This Is Your Attachment Style 1:47:43 How to Change Your Attachment Style 1:51:41 How ADHD May Impact Your Love Life 1:57:48 Do People With ADHD Cheat More Often? 2:01:59 How to Contain Your Impulses 2:03:18 Sex Life and Neurodivergence 2:04:04 Relationships as the Biggest Factor in Health and Longevity 2:10:20 What Happens to the Brain When It's in Love 2:14:23 When Did You Feel Like You'd Made It? Follow Dr Anna: Instagram - https://bit.ly/45ElU4p Website - https://bit.ly/3GcTT9S You can purchase Dr Anna's book, ‘Why We Love: The New Science Behind Our Closest Relationships', here: https://bit.ly/3GjfOfo You can purchase Dr Anna's book ‘The Life of Dad: The Making of a Modern Father', here: https://bit.ly/4lbtE2A Get your hands on the Diary Of A CEO Conversation Cards here: https://bit.ly/conversationcards-mp Get email updates: https://bit.ly/diary-of-a-ceo-yt Follow Steven: https://g2ul0.app.link/gnGqL4IsKKb Sponsors: KetoneIQ - Visit https://ketone.com/STEVEN for 30% off your subscription order Shopify - https://shopify.com/bartlett Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
In this episode of the Open Bedroom podcast, I interview psychologist Don Edmundson about his journey into polyamory. Don opens up about his personal experiences navigating jealousy, attachment, and the societal expectations of masculinity while building a polyamorous family with two partners and children. We discuss how he overcame ingrained beliefs about control, the importance of open communication, and how polyamory can foster trust and personal growth. Our conversation also explores research on relationship satisfaction and the evolving acceptance of ethical non-monogamy, offering practical insights for anyone interested in non-traditional relationships.Don Edmondson is a tenured professor, and the Director of the Center for Behavioral Cardiovascular Health at Columbia University Medical Center. He is also a polyamorous man living with his 2 partners and their 2 kids. He launched PolyamPsychologist in 2025, to communicate the revolutionary potential of polyamory for society.Don's Polyamory Origin Story (00:02:16) Don shares his background, upbringing, and initial exposure to non-monogamy, including his Southern Baptist roots and early relationships.Transition to Polyamory & Jealousy (00:05:20) Don explains the shift from hierarchical non-monogamy to polyamory, struggles with jealousy, and the journey toward compassion.Building a Polyamorous Family (00:07:48) Don shares how his family expanded to include Saga and their children, forming a supportive household and evolving family dynamics.Therapy, Exposure, and Healing (00:14:14) Don discusses using therapy and exposure techniques to overcome jealousy, build trust, and experience compersion.Gendered Advice for Polyamory (00:18:24) Don explains how advice for polyamory differs for men due to patriarchal conditioning, and discusses attachment theory and secure relationships.Deconstructing Patriarchy for Men (00:24:54) Jen asks how men can question and unlearn patriarchal beliefs about control in relationships; Don shares his personal growth through feminist friendship and recommended resources.Men, Polyamory, and Social Media (00:30:39) Jen asks about Don's TikTok series on men and polyamory; Don explains his motivation, themes, and addresses issues like vulnerability and manipulation.Research on Polyamory vs. Monogamy (00:37:14) Jen asks about scientific research comparing monogamy and polyamory; Don summarizes findings on satisfaction, trust, sexual fulfillment, and the growth of ethical non-monogamy.Podcast Wrap-Up and Resources (00:45:17) Jen and Don share where to find more resources, social media links, and thank listeners.Connect with Don:InstagramTikTokOther resources mentioned:alexalberto.com and quiltedpress.com
Send us a textIn this podcast, Miguel shares his extensive experience in HIV prevention, particularly focusing on the importance of PrEP and other biomedical methods. He discusses his personal journey, the evolution of attitudes towards HIV disclosure, and the significance of open communication in relationships, especially in the context of non-monogamy. Miguel emphasizes the need for accountability in sexual health and encourages individuals to take ownership of their bodies through informed choices about prevention methods.This espiosode was brought to you by The Los Angeles Family AIDS Network in collaboration with Reach LA.Support the showThis podcast is brought to you by the Los Angeles Family AIDS Network
Matchmaker Patti Stanger and podcaster LaKendra Tookes join Jeff and Shane to talk about being a black cat in a relationship and the importance of monogamy (according to Patti). Plus, LaKendra's dating profile is examined.• • • Want more Jeff Lewis? Click here to sign up for 3 free months of SiriusXM and listen weekdays to "Jeff Lewis Live" from 12-2pE/9-11aP on Radio Andy Channel 102. Plus, tune into The Jeff Lewis Channel for even more Jeff content streaming exclusively on the SiriusXM app channel 789.• • • Host - Jeff LewisGuests - Patti Stanger, LaKendra Tookes, & Shane DouglasSenior Director – Lisa MantineoDirector - Alyssa HeimrichSenior Producer & Editor - Jamison ScalaAssociate Producer – Oscar Beltran
Very few men think of relationships in the frame of the “sexual marketplace,” although the rules and principles of attraction and connection can very much be understood as an economic model, of sorts, of perceived value. And, the man who offers the most perceived value, is the man who gets the girl. Whether you're married or single, understanding the intricacies and nuance of what makes a man attractive to a woman will help him get more of what he wants from her. My guest today, psychologist Orion Taraban joins me to discuss these dynamics between men and women so we all get more of what we're after in relationships. We cover the importance of knowing your value and knowing what is valuable to the opposite sex, why love has little or nothing to do with attraction, what is known as the “Madonna-Whore Complex,” the concepts of Captains and Passengers as it relates to dating and mating, the difference between talking and communicating, and how best to make yourself more attractive. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 - Introduction to Captain and Passenger Roles 00:30 - Orion Taraban's Background and Book Success 01:30 - The Role of YouTube in Building an Audience 03:24 - Orion's Communication Style and Credentials 07:04 - The Captain and Passenger Metaphor 11:33 - Prerogatives of the Captain 12:23 - Liabilities of Female Captaincy 15:29 - Sexual Marketplace Dynamics 18:38 - Love and Relationships 20:15 - Male Sexuality and Objectification 26:16 - Attraction and the “Bad Boy” Myth 28:12 - The Two Women Concept 32:21 - Communication vs. Talking in Relationships 37:24 - Self-Knowledge and Attraction 41:14 - Double Standards in the Sexual Marketplace 47:20 - Body Count and Sexual Novelty 51:17 - The Coolidge Effect and Male Drive 56:13 - Monogamy and Historical Context 59:54 - Relationships as Economic Transactions 1:03:36 - Marriage as a Business Partnership 1:09:48 - What Women Want in Men 1:16:01 - Standing Out in the Sexual Marketplace 1:23:12 - Where to Connect with Orion
In today's episode we deep dive the provocative question: Is monogamy boring? We discuss our own definitions of what a boring relationship looks like, erotic space and desire, the richness of shared non-monogamous experiences, is boredom a form of safety, our dream debate opponents and so much more.
In this episode, we sit down for a wide-ranging conversation that starts with reality TV and somehow ends up in the depths of human nature. We unpack why we're obsessed with shows like Survivor and Amazing Race, and what they reveal about competition, connection, and how people behave under pressure. We also get into the controversy around Aubrey Marcus and polyamory, diving into how society reacts to lifestyles that challenge the norm. From there, things get deeper. We explore whether humanity is really evolving or just repeating old patterns with fancier tools, and how our ideas of progress might be more fragile than we think. We touch on self-growth, childhood wounds, mental health, and even how exploring kinks can be part of personal healing. It's reflective, raw, and a little all over the place—in the best way. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at https://betterhelp.com/neds and get on your way to being your best self. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
In this episode, author of poetry and philosophy Anthony David Vernon dives deep into the topic of short-term relationships. Anthony and Paige explore the value of taboo topics, the importance of passion in relationships, and how short-term flings can provide rich experiences without the constraints of long-term commitments. 01:58 Exploring Taboo Topics and Short Term Relationships05:01 Monogamy vs. Polyamory: Societal Norms and Personal Choices14:05 Self-Love vs. Self-Care17:38 Promoting Self-Care and Addressing Misdiagnoses22:26 The Neo-Victorian Age of Relationships24:25 Ideal Candidates for Short Term Relationships28:09 Transitioning Between Short and Long Term Relationships30:05 The Role of Sex in RelationshipsConnect with Anthony David VernonAnthony David Vernon is a Cuban-American literary writer who earned his master's degree in philosophy at the University of New Mexico and the writer of Flings on Flings published by gnOme Books. This hybrid work focuses on the idea that love should be equated with the fling as opposed to any forever understandings of love.https://medium.com/@antmanvernon305https://www.chillsubs.com/user/antmanvernon305Connect with Paige BondInstagram: @stubbornlovepaigeFacebook: @paigebondcoachingTikTok: @paigebondcoachingWebsite: https://paigebond.comPaige Bond is an open relationship coach who specializes in helping individuals, couples, and intentionally non-monogamous relationships with feeling insecure in their relationships. She is also the founder of Sweet Love Counseling providing therapy in CO, FL, SC, and VT. Paige loves educating people about relationships through being the host of the Stubborn Love podcast, hosting workshops, and speaking at conferences.Free Jealousy Workbook: http://www.paigebond.com/calm-the-chaos-jealousy-workbook-downloadFree People Pleasing Workbook: https://www.paigebond.com/people-pleasing-workbookAttachment Dynamics Workshop:https://www.paigebond.com/attachment-dynamics-workshop-sign-up Disclaimer: This podcast and communication through our email are not meant to serve as professional advice or therapy. If you are in need of mental health support, you are encouraged to connect with a licensed mental health professional to receive the support needed.Mental Health Resources: National Suicide Prevention Lifeline: 1-800-273-8255SAMHSA's National Helpline: 1-800-662-HELP (4357)Crisis Text Line: Text HOME to 741741 for free, 24/7 crisis counseling.
Ready to learn how to create intimacy, manage relational anxiety, and understand attachment strategies? Are you ever split between wanting to feel seen while fearing vulnerability? Discover the importance of internal/external boundaries and the significance of diverse relational dynamics beyond romantic partnerships.02:04 Diving into Intimacy and Relationships04:32 Understanding and Addressing Shame with Empathy10:33 Attachment Strategies vs. Styles14:01 Exploring Emotional Boundaries20:42 The Importance of Diverse Connections24:26 Monogamy vs. Non-Monogamy28:37 Relational Anxiety GroupBrittani Pocknow is an LCSW relationship therapist specializing in helping individuals and couples generate creative intimacy in their lives. She helps people who fear being close with loved ones embody courage to open themselves for intimate connection.Connect with Brittani ProcknowWebsite: bprocknow.comNewsletter: https://app.convertkit.com/forms/designers/5675283/editIG: @brittani_procknowConnect with Paige BondInstagram: @paigebondcoachingFacebook: @paigebondcoachingTikTok: @paigebondcoachingWebsite: https://paigebond.comPaige Bond specializes in helping individuals, couples, and intentionally non-monogamous partnerships feel grounded, confident, and connected in their love life. She is also the founder of Sweet Love Counseling providing therapy in CO, FL, SC, and VT. Paige loves educating people about relationships through being the host of the Stubborn Love podcast, hosting workshops, and speaking at conferences.Free Jealousy Workbook: http://www.paigebond.com/calm-the-chaos-jealousy-workbook-download Free People Pleasing Workbook: https://www.paigebond.com/people-pleasing-workbook Attachment Dynamics Workshop:https://www.paigebond.com/attachment-dynamics-workshop-sign-upDisclaimer: This podcast and communication through our email are not meant to serve as professional advice or therapy. If you are in need of mental health support, you are encouraged to connect with a licensed mental health professional to receive the support needed.Mental Health Resources: National Suicide Prevention Lifeline: 1-800-273-8255SAMHSA's National Helpline: 1-800-662-HELP (4357)Crisis Text Line: Text HOME to 741741 for free, 24/7 crisis counseling.Intro music by Coma-Media on pixabay.com
Bio Chris and Cristina interview Agustín Fuentes about his new book, Sex Is a Spectrum: The Biological Limits of the Binary (now available). Prof. Fuentes is an anthropologist whose research focuses on the biosocial, delving into the entanglement of biological systems with the social and cultural lives of humans, our ancestors, and a few of the other animals with whom humanity shares close relations. From chasing monkeys in jungles and cities, to exploring the lives of our evolutionary ancestors, to examining human health, behavior, and diversity across the globe, Professor Fuentes is interested in both the big questions and the small details of what makes humans and our close relations tick. Earning his BA/BS in Anthropology and Zoology and his MA and PhD in Anthropology from UC Berkeley, he has conducted research across four continents, multiple species, and two million years of human history. His current projects include exploring cooperation, creativity, and belief in human evolution, multispecies anthropologies, evolutionary theory and processes, and engaging race and racism. Fuentes is an active public scientist, a well-known blogger, lecturer, tweeter, and an explorer for National Geographic. Fuentes was recently awarded the Inaugural Communication & Outreach Award from the American Association of Biological Anthropologists, the President's Award from the American Anthropological Association, and elected to the American Academy of Arts and Sciences. Dr. Fuentes previously appeared in episodes 48 & 85 in which he shared his origin story & read an excerpt from a previous book. ------------------------------ Find the Books discussed in this episode: Fuentes, A. (2025) Sex is a Spectrum: The Biological Limits of the Binary Princeton University Press Fuentes, A. (2022) Race, Monogamy, and other lies they told you: busting myths about human nature 2nd edition. University of California Press Fuentes, A, (2019) Why We Believe: Evolution and the Human Way of Being Yale University Press/Templeton Press Fuentes, A. (2017) The Creative Spark: how imagination made humans exceptional Dutton/Penguin 2017 Romanian Translation (Publica), 2017 Chinese Translation (CITIC Publishing House), 2018 Spanish Translation (Ariel/Planeta), 2018 Korean Translation (Chungrim Publishing Co.) ------------------------------ Contact Dr. Fuentes: Website: https://afuentes.com; E-mail: afuentes2@Princeton.edu; Blue Sky @anthrofuentes.bsky.social; Twitter/X: @Anthrofuentes ------------------------------ Contact the Sausage of Science Podcast and Human Biology Association: Facebook: facebook.com/groups/humanbiologyassociation/, Website: humbio.org, Twitter: @HumBioAssoc Chris Lynn, Host Website: cdlynn.people.ua.edu/, E-mail: cdlynn@ua.edu, Twitter:@Chris_Ly Cristina Gildee, Co-host, SoS Co-Producer, HBA Junior Fellow Website: cristinagildee.org, E-mail: cgildee@uw.edu
In this episode of Hart2Heart, Dr. Mike Hart sits down with returning guest, Nicolle Hodges for a raw, honest conversation about her journey through love, identity, and desire. What happens when polyamory no longer feels expansive, and actually leaves you emotionally scattered? Nicolle shares how stepping into a monogamous relationship helped her reconnect with her feminine energy and finally feel safe enough to surrender. She opens up about the surprising grief that came with letting go, including a powerful ritual to release the future she once imagined. The two also explore BDSM as a form of healing, not just kink, but a doorway to deeper embodiment and trust. Nicolle argues a new way to think about intimacy, power, and what it means to choose love on your terms. Nicolle Hodges is a Journalist, Author, Sexual Freedom Philosopher: Nicolle Hodges is the founder of Girls Who Say Fuck - an incubator for projects and conversations that instigate change. She is the author of 'Oh, the Places You'll Go Oh Oh' - a book about the power of female orgasms, fully illustrated and written in Dr. Seuss-style verse. She is the creator of Men Who Take Baths - an initiative where men in bubble baths are interviewed about what it means to "be a man." The movement advocates for gender equity through an interview series, art show, and group discussions. Educated as a broadcast journalist and a former television host for CTV Vancouver, Nicolle understands the power of creating spaces for profound connection through conversation. Her multi-faceted projects and campaigns are boundary-pushing and community-based, with the intention of questioning the way we've been told life is supposed to be. Listeners can learn more about Nicolle Hodges at her website, her podcast - The Sexual Freedom Philosopher, and on IG @nicoledoublel Show Notes: (0:00) Welcome back to the Hart2Heart Podcast with Dr. Mike Hart (0:15) Dr. Hart welcomes guest, and friend, Nicolle Hodges to the show (1:00) Nicolle's identity evolution - from dominatrix to intimacy coach (5:00) Exploring polyamory and monogamy (7:00) Lack of depth and avoidance in polygamy relationships (9:45) Internal jealousy as a feminie instinct (10:00) ”I never felt safe and fully claimed by the masculine to actually allow myself to fully relax and to release into a depth of love that I knew I was never actually going to find.” (12:00) How to address healthy boundaries and recognize unhealthy ones (15:00) Monogamy is a conscious choice not a default (20:00) Transitioning from polygamous relationships (24:00) Experiencing the proper experience of grief (29:00) Nicolle's collar - her symbol of chosen devotion (38:00) Conscious uncoupling (44:00) Her funeral for unborn children she idealized (48:00) Breaking generational trauma (55:00) BDSM - the psychology of flogging (57:00) Dominance as depth - pain as sensation (1:05:00) Normalizing erotic therapy - making space for sexual healing (1:14:00) Entry points and coaching for men and women --- Dr. Mike Hart is a Cannabis Physician and Lifestyle Strategist. In April 2014, Dr. Hart became the first physician in London, Ontario to open a cannabis clinic. While Dr. Hart continues to treat patients at his clinic, his primary focus has shifted to correcting the medical cannabis educational gap that exists in the medical community. Connect on social with Dr. Mike Hart: Social Links: Instagram: @drmikehart Twitter: @drmikehart Facebook: @drmikehart
Hey everyone, welcome back to She Comes With Baggage! This season is going to look a little different as I am opening the mic up to friends and creatives who inspire me…and where we unpack the real, unfiltered experiences that shape who we are. Whether you're here for the deep conversations, the laughs, or just to feel a little less alone in the baggage you might be carrying, you're in the right place.Today, I'm sitting down with the incredible Louis Levanti producer, host, and content creator known for his sharp-witted pop culture breakdowns and exclusive red carpet interviews. But today, we're going beyond the headlines. On this episode, Louis opens up about his journey—his upbringing, navigating identity within the queer community, and how his personal experiences have shaped the person he is both on and off camera.So, get comfy, stay open, and let's get into it!Follow Louis Levanti:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/louislevantiTiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@louislevantiFollow She Comes With Baggage Podcast: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/shecomeswithbaggage__Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@shecomeswithbaggage__Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@KirstiePike
Have you ever wondered what your love life could look like if it were rooted in your deepest desires and not societal expectations? In today's juicy episode, we are joined by conscious relationship expert and sex educator Dr. Joli Hamilton for a transformative conversation on designing intentional relationships. Joli shares her journey of stepping outside the societal defaults of monogamy and into relationships that are co-created with clarity, communication, and erotic empowerment. Join us as Joli and Jenny dive into the liberating truth of jealousy, what it means to decenter monogamy, and why centering P u s s y is the key to knowing what you truly desire. This isn't an episode that shames monogamy, it's an invitation to explore what's truly aligned for you. So whether you're exploring ethical non-monogamy, craving more emotional intimacy, or ready to rewrite your relational story with a little more creativity, this episode is for you! Topics include: Ethical non-monogamy + conscious relationship design Limiting beliefs in relationships Jealousy vs. envy in relationships Creating emotional safety in relationships Communicating needs and desires Inner child healing What is compersion? Relationship power dynamics Breaking traditional relationship paradigms Drama triangle Ready to craft the perfect relationship agreement for your life after listening to this episode? If so, join Joli in her signature program “The Year of Opening”: [https://www.jolihamilton.com/yoo] Do you want to understand your pleasure & turn your sexual desire back ON? Do you want to gain *simple* yet effective tools to move through "not in the mood" to "take me to the bedroom NOW"? Then sign up for Jenny's latest workshop that starts tomorrow! [https://jennybraxton.mykajabi.com/longterm-sxy-workshop] If you're ready to have Jenny personally support you in reigniting your desire, reconnecting to your pleasure, and actually wanting sex again, book your Intimacy Reignition Session now: [https://calendly.com/jennybraxton/intimacy-reignite] Mentioned in this episode: Jessica Fern books Connect with Dr. Joli Hamilton: Instagram: @drjoli_hamilton [instagram.com/drjoli_hamilton] YouTube: [youtube.com/channel/UCz8_u_0Z6omnIJKqklSNVVw] FREE Jealousy Roadmap: [jolihamilton.com/yes] FREE 5 Pillars of Successful Open Relating: [jolihamilton.com/salon] Connect with your host, Jenny Braxton: Instagram: @pusssy.centered.living [instagram.com/pusssy.centered.living] Website: [jennybraxton.com/] The School of P u s s y Centered Living Waitlist: [jennybraxton.mykajabi.com/the-school-of-pcl] Loved the episode and want to show your gratitude? Share it with a friend or sister who would also benefit from this message, hit subscribe so you never miss a juicy & delicious episode, and leave a 5-star review so we can get the power of pussy out to as many humans as possible!
Scientific expert Nathan H. Lents discusses what human relationships looked like before marriage was invented, how animal sexuality compares to human sexuality, and how we can help human society stop being so uptight. Nathan's latest book is The Sexual Evolution: How 500 Million Years of Sex, Gender, and Mating Shape Modern Relationships.
Greetings friends. By now you have likely heard about, if not already listened to, Aubrey Marcus' podcast “A New Pattern for Sacred Relationship.” If you haven't I would recommend at least check out the first 30 minutes. Last weekend I listened to the whole thing, all 2.5 hours. I've also read and watched a number of responses to it (and there are many).Some folks call him a "false king" who is not a "real man". Others say the women (his wife and their lover) are being manipulated and have lost their own inner compass.Marc Gafni, their mentor (also featured on the podcast) calls them "evolutionary lovers in a field of erotic mystics" ... or something.It seems to have hit the cultural zeitgeist on sex, relationships, monogamy/polyamory, spiritual bypassing, divine union, cults, psychedelics, all of it.Just that alone has been fascinating to witness.A few days ago I posted an initial response on my Facebook. I also sent the episode to my friend and collaborator Deus Fortier, and he responded with is take here.I felt inspired to jump on a call today and record an emergent conversation between us. Enjoy! As named, you can stream my film The Village of Lovers.And check out Deus and I's upcoming men's offerings here: * Awaking the Wild Erotic (In-Person) * The Deep Masculine (Online)SHOW NOTES* 00:00 – Opening and framing: why this conversation matters now* 00:50 – Who is Aubrey Marcus? Context on his influence and subcultural position* 02:45 – Summary of the podcast episode: divine union, polyamory, and the “radical monogamy” claim* 06:50 – The Egypt “download”: Aubrey's call to impregnate both women* 08:00 – Mark Gafni's role as spiritual mentor and the atmosphere of unquestioned affirmation* 10:30 – Deus shares his initial unease and what made the episode feel “off”* 13:30 – The concept of krivda: when truth is wrapped in distortion* 17:00 – Power dynamics, spiritual bypass, and concerns about lack of transparency* 22:00 – Reflections on biological imperative and cultural conditioning around monogamy* 31:00 – Lessons from Tamara: embedment and forum as collective relational technologies* 40:00 – The danger of personal downloads without communal discernment* 44:00 – Deus's personal journey of erotic healing, trauma, and moving at the speed of trust* 50:00 – How to offer better relational support to each other This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit themythicmasculine.substack.com/subscribe
We're doing a Supporters-only “Weishaupts After Dark” episode! Today we'll discuss "Radical Monogamy"- a concept sort of defined by Aubrey Marcus, his partner Vylana, their partner Alana Beale and Dr Marc Gafni! We'll be discussing their painful 2.5 hour YouTube video which includes aspects of monogamy, polygamy, throuples, Kabbalah, psychedelics, Temple of Isis rituals, jealousy, "God Bomb" ceremonies, Hero's Journey and much more! Too spicy for the free feed lovers so join a supporters' feed today!FULL SHOW NOW UP AD-FREE with early access on Patreon.com/BreakingSocialNorms and Apple Podcast Premium; free feed gets a juicy preview! LINKS: The Aubrey Marcus YouTube video we're discussing is here (*good luck): https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=q_4_WD6-9MI You can now sign up for our commercial-free version of the show with a Patreon exclusive bonus show called “Morning Coffee w/ the Weishaupts” at Patreon.com/BreakingSocialNorms OR subscribe on the Apple Podcasts app to get all the same bonus “Morning Coffee” episodes AD-FREE with early access! (*Patreon is also NOW enabled to connect with Spotify! https://rb.gy/r34zj)Want more?…Index of all previous episodes on free feed: https://breakingsocialnorms.com/2021/03/22/index-of-archived-episodes/Leave a review or rating wherever you listen and we'll see what you've got to say!Follow us on the socials:instagram.com/theweishaupts2/Amazon Affiliate shop (*still under construction) with our favorite hair, skin care and horny books: https://breakingsocialnorms.com/2024/08/24/amazon-shopping-list-josie-and-isaacs-list/Check out Isaac's conspiracy podcasts, merch, etc:AllMyLinks.com/IsaacWOccult Symbolism and Pop Culture (on all podcast platforms or IlluminatiWatcher.com)Isaac Weishaupt's book are all on Amazon and Audible; *author narrated audiobooks*STATEMENT: This show is full of Isaac's and Josie's useless opinions and presented for entertainment purposes. Audio clips used in Fair Use and taken from YouTube videos.
A viral TikTok divorce. A hit reality show. And a culture that's glamorizing “soft swinging” and open marriage. Dr. Phil digs into The Real Story behind HULU's The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives — and the dangerous cultural shift it reveals. What used to be private, sacred, and stabilizing is now public, performative, and disposable. From consensual non-monogamy to “tradwife” rebranding, this isn't just entertainment — it's a warning. Because if marriage loses its meaning, what do we pass on to the next generation?
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Thinking about opening your relationship? Watch this first. In this powerful and eye-opening conversation, relationship therapist and polyamory coach Roy Graff joins David Chambers to unpack what truly needs to happen before couples transition from monogamy to polyamory or ethical non-monogamy. They explore the essential mindset, emotional preparation, and communication tools that most couples skip—leading to heartbreak, jealousy, or breakdown. From trauma-informed relational insights to real-life experiences and practical steps, this episode is a must-watch for anyone curious about open relationships, polyamory, or improving communication in long-term love. Roy Graff is a counsellor, life and relationship coach who draws on his training in Psychosynthesis psychotherapy, Radical Honesty, Non-violent Communication and Wheel of Consent training to offer coaching and mentoring to individuals, couples and polycules. He can help you with relationship issues, honesty and authenticity in relating, life transformation and major life crises. KEY TOPICS: ⭐ Polyamory As A Conscious Alternative To Traditional Monogamy ⭐ Misconceptions, Projections, And Social Judgment Of Open Relationships ⭐ Therapist Bias And Lack Of Polyamory-Informed Clinical Training ⭐ Healing Trauma Through Open Relationships And Emotional Inquiry ⭐ “Why Do You Want This?” — The Importance Of Inner Motivation ⭐ How To Create Agreements, Not Rules — Flexibility In Relationships ⭐ The Power Of Vulnerability And Radical Emotional Honesty ⭐ Polyamory ≠ Avoidance ⭐ The Freedom To Love Without Possession Or Control ⭐ Community, Support Circles, And Normalizing Polyamorous Lives ⭐ Why “Successful” Relationships Don't Have To Last Forever Connect With David - The Authentic Man: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theauthenticman_/ Website: https://www.theauthenticman.net/ For Coaching: hello@theauthenticman.net Newsletter: https://www.theauthenticman.net/home-subscribe Connect With Roy Graff: Website: Openrelating.love Instagram: @openrelating
A mom who lives with her husband, their two kids and her boyfriend all under the same roof defends their polyamorous way of life. Is monogamy outdated and could polyamory be the future of the American family? Dr. Phil meets a throuple: husband and wife Jennifer and Daniel who live with Jennifer's boyfriend, Ty. The three of them are raising Daniel and Jennifer's two children and they each have partners outside of their throuple. Why are more people turning towards ethical non-monogamy? Polyamory expert Dr. Eli Sheff says polyamory means more resources to help raise the kids and more freedom for the parents. Relationship expert Devon Still says polyamory isn't natural and is detrimental to everyone involved. Special thanks to our sponsors! Support the brands that support us! Visit them and let them know we sent you: Kikoff: Build credit fast and get your first month for just a dollar at https://GetKikoff.com/phil/ today. Thanks to Kikoff for sponsoring us! Jase Medical: Get emergency antibiotics at https://Jase.com/ & use code PHIL for a discount Preserve Gold: Visit: https://drphilgold.com/ Get a FREE precious metals guide that contains essential information on how to help protect your accounts. Text “DRPHIL” to 50505 to claim this exclusive offer from Preserve Gold today. Balance of Nature: Go to https://balanceofnature.com/ or call 1.800.246.8751 and get this special offer by using Discount Code: “DRPHIL”. Get a FREE Fiber & Spice supplement, plus 35% OFF your first preferred set as a new Preferred Customer, with free shipping and our money-back guarantee. Start your journey with Balance of Nature.
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Frances E. Lee is professor of politics and public affairs at Princeton University. In addition to In Covid's Wake: How Our Politics Failed Us, she is author or coauthor most recently of The Limits of Party: Congress and Lawmaking in a Polarized Era and Insecure Majorities: Congress and the Perpetual Campaign. Stephen Macedo is the Laurance S. Rockefeller Professor of Politics and the University Center for Human Values at Princeton University. His books, in addition to In Covid's Wake: How Our Politics Failed Us, include Just Married: Same-Sex Couples, Monogamy, and the Future of Marriage, and Diversity and Distrust: Civic Education in a Multicultural Democracy. In this week's conversation, Yascha Mounk, Frances Lee, and Stephen Macedo discuss school closures during COVID, why Republicans and Democrats reacted differently to the pandemic, why institutions failed, and why as a consequence institutions lost the public's trust. Podcast production by Mickey Freeland and Leonora Barclay. Connect with us! Spotify | Apple | Google X: @Yascha_Mounk & @JoinPersuasion YouTube: Yascha Mounk, Persuasion LinkedIn: Persuasion Community Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Dr. Diane Mueller traded sexual pain for pleasure, then explored polyamory twice before reclaiming monogamy in a sexier, more intentional way. After her story, hear her top tips for spicing up a monogamous (or any long term) relationship. Learn more about Dr. Diane Mueller and take her libido quiz at libidocode.com. Join her hot and modern monogamy club or get her free e-book at hotterlife.com. Check out the latest specials at thepleasurechest.com! IG: @GirlBonerMedia FB: @MyGirlBoner TT:: @GirlBonerRadio augustmclaughlin.com/girlboner patreon.com/girlboner Get free shipping at Crave! Elegant, woman-designed jewelry and toys: https://lovecrave.com/products/vesper2?bg_ref=UAgjcRRV14 Girl Boner Radio is hosted and produced by August McLaughlin.
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This week on SHE MD, women's advocate and designer Mary Alice Haney sits down with Aurora Culpo, best known for starring in the Discovery+ series The Culpo Sisters and hosting the podcast Barely Filtered. In this lively and unfiltered conversation, no topic is off-limits. From Aurora's journey with PCOS and miscarriage to her experiences with divorce, monogamy, and motherhood, they dive deep into women's health, relationships, and life after childbirth. They also explore the sober curious movement, dating apps, and how exercise and meditation affect well-being. Get ready to laugh, reflect, and learn in this engaging episode of SHE MD.Access more information about the podcast and additional expert health tips by visiting SHE MD Podcast and Ovii. Sponsors:OneSkin: Visit OneSkin.co/SHEMD and use code SHEMD at checkout for 15% off your first purchase.Osea: Get 10% off your first order sitewide with code SHEMD at OSEAMalibu.comCymbiotika: Go to Cymbiotikia.com/SHEMD for 20% off your order + free shipping today.Midi Health: You deserve to feel great. Book your virtual visit today at JoinMidi.comEquip: Belli Welli: Go to belliwelli.com and use code our exclusive code SHEMD20 at checkout for 20% off our order.Saks: Shop Saks.comKEY TAKEAWAYS Painful Periods Are Not Normal. Painful periods could be a sign of PCOS. The lack of conversations about women's health issues is a significant concern. This podcast helps educate women on important health topics, empowering them to become their own health advocates. SHE MD gives women the knowledge they need to have informed discussions with their doctors.Would You And Your Spouse Agree To Have One Fling A Year Before Marriage? No! Of course, you wouldn't. But live and learn. Aurora did just that and regrets that decision. Her story about her husband's flings will make your head spin. Open Marriage And Swingers—Do Those Marriages Stand The Test Of Time? It might seem exciting, but if you're hoping for a lasting marriage, consider whether you know of any swinging relationships that have endured.Men And Women View Sex Differently. For a man, a fling might just be casual, while his wife may see it as a deep betrayal, knowing that for her, an affair would likely involve emotional attachment. This reflects the idea that men and women approach relationships from different perspectives; as the saying goes, "Men are from Mars, women are from Venus."Does a Woman Disconnect from Her Husband After Childbirth? Many significant changes occur after having a child. Physically, a woman's body is different. Her focus often shifts as well, with her attention now centered on caring for her baby, which can impact her relationship with her husband. It can take time to resume intimacy, especially if she's breastfeeding, as this adjustment period requires patience.Does Being Sober Curious Resonate With You? Are you curious about living a sober lifestyle? The "sober curious" movement is real and encourages people to rethink their relationship with alcohol. It's about questioning why you drink and whether it's enhancing or complicating your life. Are you drinking because of a social event, the time of day or another reason? Does this resonate with you?IN THIS EPISODE, HERE IS WHAT YOU CAN EXPECT: (00:00) Introduction(4:00) Aurora talks about her podcast(6:30) PCOS symptoms and miscarriage(11:14) Divorce, monogamy, and childbirth(26:20) Getting serious about finding a man and the latest dating apps(29:00) What does being sober curious look like and Aurora talks about exercise and meditationRESOURCES:Aurora Culpo - Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/auroraculpo/?hl=enBarley Filtered - Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/barely-filtered/id1675375857GUEST BIOGRAPHY: Aurora CulpoAurora Culpo is best known for starring in the Discovery+ series The Culpo Sisters alongside her sisters Olivia Culpo and Sophia Culpo. She has appeared in many episodes of the TV show, which began airing in 2022. The show covers her love life and the business side of her life in Los Angeles. She graduated with a teaching degree and worked for many years in the field of behavior analysis and special education. She is the daughter of Pete Culpo and Susan Curran Culpo. She has two siblings in addition to Olivia and Sophia: Pete and Gus. She is married to Michael Bortone and they have two children, Solei and Remi.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
In this episode of Sex With Emily, Dr. Emily takes a deep dive into the evolving landscape of infidelity in 2025. She unpacks how cheating today goes far beyond physical acts—covering emotional connections, digital interactions like DMs, social media behaviors, and even fantasies. Dr. Emily challenges listeners to rethink old assumptions and instead foster open conversations about boundaries, values, and intimacy, drawing insights from how polyamorous relationships navigate these topics. With real-life stories, listener questions, and expert advice from holistic psychologist Dr. Scott Lyons, this episode explores the impact of porn, the gray areas of "micro-cheating," and how communication can prevent betrayal. Dr. Emily also shares strategies for healing after trust is broken, including key statistics, self-reflection practices, and tips to understand your attachment style. #relationship #dating #cheating Show Notes; 00:00:00 - Defining & Preventing Infidelity 00:03:15 - Defining Infidelity in Relationships 08:12 - Relationship Boundaries & Communication 13:41 - Marriage Insecurities & Betrayal 19:19 - Confessions of a Reformed Cheater 22:31 - Open Relationships & Cheating 25:00 - Regret, Empathy & Modern Love 35:38 - Overcoming Relationship Hurdles 38:28 - Rebuilding Trust After Infidelity 45:44 - Monogamy, Polyamory & Attachment Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, community building, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse. Join the SmartSX Membership : https://sexwithemily.com/smartsx Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides. List & Other Sex With Emily Guides: https://sexwithemily.com/guides/ SHOP WITH EMILY!: https://bit.ly/3rNSNcZ (free shipping on orders over $99)Want more? Visit the Sex With Emily Website: https://sexwithemily.com/ Let's get social: Instagram https://www.instagram.com/sexwithemily/ X https://twitter.com/sexwithemily Facebook https://www.facebook.com/sexwithemily TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@sexwithemily Threads https://www.threads.net/@sexwithemily Let's text: Sign up here https://sexwithemily.com/text
This is a free preview of a paid episode. To hear more, visit andrewsullivan.substack.comFrances Lee is Professor of Politics and Public Affairs at Princeton, and her books include The Limits of Party: Congress and Lawmaking in a Polarized Age. Steve Macedo —an old friend from Harvard — is the Laurance S. Rockefeller Professor of Politics and the University Center for Human Values at Princeton, and his books include Just Married: Same-Sex Couples, Monogamy, and the Future of Marriage. The book they just co-wrote is called In Covid's Wake: How Our Politics Failed Us.For two clips of our convo — on the demonization of dissent during Covid, and where the right went wrong on the pandemic — head to our YouTube page.Other topics: Frances raised in the Deep South; Steve from a family of educators in Massachusetts; his Jesuit schooling as a gay Catholic; how both were natural contrarians; the pre-pandemic plans for Covid; their personal reactions to the outbreak; the emergency after 9/11; the Spanish flu; the cost/benefit of lockdowns; the different reactions in red and blue states; the Sweden model; the trillions of dollars in Covid relief; Fauci's appeal to authority; Partygate and Newsom's French Laundry; the remote work enjoyed by elites; how blue-collar workers bore the brunt; the generational injustice suffered by kids; Operation Warp Speed; the early myths of the vaccine; the Ptown vaccinated outbreak; censorship on social media; the moralizing of the MSM; the public-health hypocrisy on BLM protests; the mask mandates after the vaccines; how boosters weren't backed by good evidence; the Great Barrington Declaration; the Ebright testimony; the “Proximal Origin” paper; gain of function and the short-lived moratorium; the illiberal mistakes of Francis Collins; addressing his claims on lab leak; and the alarming current risks of viral escape.Browse the Dishcast archive for an episode you might enjoy (the first 102 are free in their entirety — subscribe to get everything else). Coming up: Byron York on Trump 2.0, Claire Lehmann on the woke right, Robert Merry on President McKinley, Sam Tanenhaus on Bill Buckley, Jake Tapper and Alex Thompson on the Biden years, and Paul Elie on his book The Last Supper: Art, Faith, Sex, and Controversy in the 1980s. Please send any guest recs, dissents, and other comments to dish@andrewsullivan.com.
A mom who lives with her husband, their two kids and her boyfriend all under the same roof defends their polyamorous way of life. Is monogamy outdated and could polyamory be the future of the American family? Dr. Phil meets a throuple: husband and wife Jennifer and Daniel who live with Jennifer's boyfriend, Ty. The three of them are raising Daniel and Jennifer's two children and they each have partners outside of their throuple. Why are more people turning towards ethical non-monogamy? Polyamory expert Dr. Eli Sheff says polyamory means more resources to help raise the kids and more freedom for the parents. Relationship expert Devon Still says polyamory isn't natural and is detrimental to everyone involved. Thank you to our sponsors: Beam: Visit https://ShopBeam.com/DrPhil and use code DRPHIL for up to 40% off. Cozy Earth: Visit https://CozyEarth.com and use code PHIL for up to 45% off Jase Medical: Go to https://Jase.com and enter code PHIL at checkout Preserve Gold: Visit: https://drphilgold.com/ Get a FREE precious metals guide that contains essential information on how to help protect your accounts. Text “DRPHIL” to 50505 to claim this exclusive offer from Preserve Gold today.