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Date them til you hate them. Is this a brilliant strategy or a complete cop out? We're discussing the latest viral TikTok dating trend and why it may or may not help you move on from someone faster. Join us as we chat about why this actually prolongs pain for both parties involved the counter strategy that actually could help you decide if someone is right for you, and why TikTok should NOT be the place we're going for dating advice (unless you want to stay single forever). Plus we're responding to some feedback from last week's episode related to Monogamy not being dead. Got a dating question you need answered? Hit us up at hello@dateablepodcast.comGet OUR BOOK + take the Dating Archetypes quiz: https://howtobedateable.com/Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content about modern dating. Also listen to our other podcast Exit Interview available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or wherever you get your podcasts.WE WROTE A BOOK! HOW TO BE DATEABLE (Simon & Schuster, Jan 2025) is available now: https://howtobedateable.com/ A big thank you to our sponsor Saily by NordVPN: "
In this episode of Crazy Wisdom, host Stewart Alsop sits down with Hannah Aline Taylor to explore themes of personal responsibility, freedom, and interdependence through her frameworks like the Village Principles, Distribution Consciousness, and the Empowerment Triangle. Their conversation moves through language and paradox, equanimity, desire and identity, forgiveness, leadership, money and debt, and the ways community and relationship serve as our deepest resources. Hannah shares stories from her life in Nevada City, her perspective on abundance and belonging, and her practice of love and curiosity as tools for living in alignment. You can learn more about her work at loving.university, on her website hannahalinetaylor.com, and in her book The Way of Devotion, available on Amazon.Check out this GPT we trained on the conversationTimestamps00:00 Stewart Alsop welcomes Hannah Aline Taylor, introducing Loving University, Nevada City, and the Village Principles.05:00 They talk about equanimity versus non-duality, emotional mastery, and curating experience through boundaries and high standards.10:00 The focus shifts to desire as “who do I want to be,” identity as abstraction, and relationships beyond monogamy or labels.15:00 Hannah introduces the Empowerment Triangle of anything, everything, nothing, reflecting on reality as it is and the role of perception.20:00 Discussion of Nevada City's healing energy, community respect, curiosity, and differences between East Coast judgment and West Coast freedom.25:00 Responsibility as true freedom, rebellion under tyranny, delicate ecosystems, and leadership inspired by the Dao De Jing.30:00 Love and entropy, conflict without enmity, curiosity as practice, and attention as the prerequisite for experience.35:00 Forgiveness, discernment, moral debts, economic debt, and reframing wealth consciousness through the “princess card.”40:00 Interdependence, community belonging, relationship as the real resource, and stewarding abundance in a disconnected world.45:00 Building, frontiers, wisdom of indigenous stewardship, the Amazon rainforest, and how knowledge without wisdom creates loss.50:00 Closing reflections on wholeness, abundance, scarcity, relationship technology, and prioritizing humanity in transition.Key InsightsHannah Taylor introduces the Village Principles as a framework for living in “distribution consciousness” rather than “acquisition consciousness.” Instead of chasing community, she emphasizes taking responsibility for one's own energy, time, and attention, which naturally draws people into authentic connection.A central theme is personal responsibility as the true meaning of freedom. For Hannah, freedom is inseparable from responsibility—when it's confused with rebellion against control, it remains tied to tyranny. Real freedom comes from holding high standards for one's life, curating experiences, and owning one's role in every situation.Desire is reframed from the shallow “what do I want” into the deeper question of “who do I want to be.” This shift moves attention away from consumer-driven longing toward identity, integrity, and presence, turning desire into a compass for embodied living rather than a cycle of lack.Language, abstraction, and identity are questioned as both necessary tools and limiting frames. Distinction is what fuels connection—without difference, there can be no relationship. Yet when we cling to abstractions like “monogamy” or “polyamory,” we obscure the uniqueness of each relationship in favor of labels.Hannah contrasts the disempowerment triangle of victim, perpetrator, and rescuer with her empowerment triangle of anything, everything, and nothing. This model shows reality as inherently whole—everything arises from nothing, anything is possible, and suffering begins when we believe something is wrong.The conversation ties money, credit, and debt to spiritual and moral frameworks. Hannah reframes debt not as a burden but as evidence of trust and abundance, describing her credit card as a “princess card” that affirms belonging and access. Wealth consciousness, she says, is about recognizing the resources already present.Interdependence emerges as the heart of her teaching. Relationship is the true resource, and abundance is squandered when lived independently. Stories of Nevada City, the Amazon rainforest, and even a friend's Wi-Fi outage illustrate how scarcity reveals the necessity of belonging, curiosity, and shared stewardship of both community and land.
Is monogamy the secret to lasting love — or is it an outdated idea in today's world? In this video, we delve into the truth about monogamy, examining its history, psychology, and cultural implications. From marriage statistics to modern relationships, discover whether monogamy truly works or if alternative lifestyles like polyamory are gaining ground. Join the Greatness 19 Channel for thought-provoking discussions that challenge what you thought you knew about love, loyalty, and commitment
In the season three finale, Annie and Mr. A discuss how much of their sexual experiences are incorporated into Annie's erotica, as opposed to "pure" fiction based on research or sheer imagination. We'll be taking a few weeks off, but stay tuned for season four. We have some really fun ideas in mind!Support the showIntro music by Poor Man's Poison. Check them out, they're amazing! Don't forget to check out Annie's erotica on Kindle and Amazon, found under Annie Goodman. You can also find us at Annieandmra.com, on Facebook as Annie Goodman, and Instagram and Twitter (X) as @AnnieandMrA.
In this episode, K+L dive into all things modern relationships—answering your questions on boundaries, moving in together, and monogamy. They also open up about their whirlwind book tour, unpacking what it brought up around family, validation, and celebrating success. Ahead, K+L explore what it means to feel alive in your relationship, why sparks with new people don't have to mean you're settling, and how to navigate those complicated feelings with compassion + self-awareness. The girls also get into the “mother wound” and how it shapes our self-worth. From backhanded family compliments to craving direct affirmation from parents, K+L share personal stories + spiritual insights on healing generational patterns. We also talk about: Why your parents might never say “I'm proud” Navigating jealousy and emotional triggers Monogamy, polyamory + finding what works for you Novelty + intimacy into long-term relationships Feeling “the spark” with someone new How childhood patterns play out in adult love How to embrace transformation Resources: Instagram: @lindseysimcik Instagram: @itskrista Website: https://itskrista.com/ Order our book, Almost 30: A Definitive Guide To A Life You Love For The Next Decade and Beyond, here: https://bit.ly/Almost30Book. Sponsors: Cymbiotika | Go to Cymbiotika.com/Almost30 for 20% off + free shipping. Ka'Chava | Go to https://kachava.com and use code ALMOST30 for 15% off your next order. Hero Bread | Hero Bread is offering 10% off your order. Go to https://hero.co and use code ALMOST30 at checkout. BEAM | Visit https://shopbeam.com/ALMOST30 and use code ALMOST30 to get our exclusive discount of up to 40% off. Chime | Open your account in 2 minutes at https://chime.com/almost30. Revolve | Shop at https://REVOLVE.com/ALMOST30 and use code ALMOST30 for 15% off your first order. #REVOLVEpartner To advertise on this podcast please email: partnerships@almost30.com. Learn More: https://almost30.com/about https://almost30.com/morningmicrodose https://almost30.com/book Join our community: https://facebook.com/Almost30podcast/groups https://instagram.com/almost30podcast https://tiktok.com/@almost30podcast https://youtube.com/Almost30Podcast Podcast disclaimer can be found by visiting: almost30.com/disclaimer. Almost 30 is edited by Garett Symes and Isabella Vaccaro. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
#SelfAndSexTember episode 2. Today we are talking about sexual awakenings, sexual evolution and sexual truth. We chat everything from polyamory to monogamy, sacred sex, kink and more. This series is all about deeply connecting to yourself and your own inner sexual genius so you can not only have the life you desire but the sex life you desire to match.You can also find bonus content by following me on Facebook (Kirsty Dee) and IG @KirstyDeeSharesTo work with me and to see all my offerings go to KirstyDee.comText the show. Ask a question
It may feel like everyone is looking for something casual or non-committal but the reality is that there are people looking for exactly what you are. We're diving into why it's a myth that no one wants monogamous relationships anymore and how you can stay true to your own needs/ desires, sift out the people who are not on the same page, and focus on the ones who are. We discuss how to shift out of the 'there's no one good out there' mentality, where to find like-minded people, and how to get clear about what you really want to manifest it.Got a dating question you need answered? Hit us up at hello@dateablepodcast.comGet OUR BOOK + take the Dating Archetypes quiz: https://howtobedateable.com/Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content about modern dating. Also listen to our other podcast Exit Interview available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or wherever you get your podcasts.WE WROTE A BOOK! HOW TO BE DATEABLE (Simon & Schuster, Jan 2025) is available now: https://howtobedateable.com/ A big thank you to our sponsor Saily by NordVPN: "
This week we're celebrating Brian's new book, “Love Beyond Monogamy,” which comes out this month! In this book, he explores […] The post Love Beyond Monogamy appeared first on Queer Theology.
The air today is filled with the shrill cry of “my rights.” In the center ring of this loud arena is the home—more specifically, the marriage bond. Mate-swapping, group marriages, and living together without official marriage commitments are realities no longer carried out under the hush-hush blanket of shame and disgrace. Some couples are even accepting practices that just a couple of decades ago were taboo, introducing infidelity and pornography into the marriage bed. In all these alternative lifestyles, the Bible is either ignored altogether or rationalized to extremes. Is monogamy an outdated concept? In this message, we look at what the Bible says about the value of a one-spouse-only relationship so that we might uphold and defend God's design.Download Message Mates To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/1118/29
Ophira Eisenberg is a standup comedian, writer, and host of the award-winning comedy podcast Parenting Is a Joke. She also regularly hosts and tours with the Peabody Awarding winning radio show and podcast, The Moth Radio Hour, and podcast. She also hosted NPR's Ask Me Another for 9 years where she interviewed and played silly games with hundreds of celebrities including Sir Patrick Stewart, Rosie Perez, Yo-Yo Ma, Roxanne Gay, Nick Kroll, Chelsea Handler, and others. She's appeared multiple times on CBS's The Late Late Show, Sherri! with Sherri Sheppard, Comedy Central, HBO, The New York Festival, and is regular on The Moth Radio Hour. Her stories are included in three of The Moth's best-selling collections. Her memoir, Screw Everyone: Sleeping My Way to Monogamy was optioned for a TV series, and her recent comedy special Plant Based Jokes is streaming on YouTube. She is a regular at The Comedy Cellar and other New York clubs, and her solo show Leaving A Mark: A Comedy About Scars made it's Off-Broadway review to rave reviews and won the Women in the Arts & Media Award for Solo Show Scripts. She will be recording her new 1-hour comedy special at The Comedy Cellar in NY on Sunday Nov 9th, 2025 Such a fun chat with the very funny Ophira! We talk life, love, family, stand up, storytelling, growing up in Canada, living in NYC and, as two highly inquisitive Jews, we explore some of the burning questions about Brooklyn's Hatzalah ambulance service! Got somethin' to say?! Email us at BackroomAndy@gmail.com Leave us a message: 845-307-7446 Twitter: @AndyOstroy Produced by Andy Ostroy, Matty Rosenberg, and Jennifer Hammoud @ Radio Free Rhiniecliff Design by Cricket Lengyel
Thank you for watching! #emptyshelfgangCoasters are now exclusively available at https://thehstshow.com/ Go and grab yours now!!Check out Lorin here: https://www.instagram.com/lorinkrenn?... Follow us on Instagram! https://www.instagram.com/thehavingsa...Check out Adi's channel! Follow him on IG: https://www.instagram.com/adisaidthat...Check out his new song: https://linktr.ee/adi.avgFollow Jeh on IG: https://www.instagram.com/coach.jeh?i...Join our FPL league: https://fantasy.premierleague.com/lea...Chapters:00:00 Intro 04:16 What is a sacred union?07:30 Lorin's Journey 11:00 When are we ready?16:28 Femininity 21:16 What's feminine and masculine? 26:08 The highest form of intimacy 31:00 Insecurities in young relationships 35:55 Behaviour's that harms us 39:29 Integrity 46:30 Shame51:14 Monogamy vs. Polygamy 57:16 Love59:12 Outro
A man's 80 year-old father is getting scammed and extorted by a findom. Should he go to the police? Change his account numbers? See a marriage counselor? A gay man in his 20s looks very young. He worries that the men who are attracted to him may be skeezy because he looks more like a boy than a man. His friends tell him to work it. But how can he safely enjoy New York City's gay dating scene? On the Magnum, a concerned mom wonders how to steer her teenaged kids toward ethical porn. We couldn't think of a better guest to bring on than Erika Lust- she's been making beautifully shot, thoughtful, sexy porn for 20 years. She and Dan talked about dealing with porn as a parent, how much porn is too much porn, and how adult content should NOT be in the hands of tech bros. Finally, is it a consent violation to walk the streets with come visibly on your face? It's a yes or no question. Q@Savage.Love 206-302-2064 This episode is brought to you by Hims, providing affordable access to ED treatment, online. Start your free online visit today at Hims.com/Savage. This episode is brought to you by Liberator: makers of pillows, shapes and furniture for new exciting sex. Go to Liberator.com/Savage or type “Savage” into the search bar for private VIP access to deals that are too good to announce on this podcast! This episode is brought to you by Radical Relating: A Queer and Polyamory-Informed Guide to Love Beyond the Myth of Monogamy by Mel Cassidy. It's a book on how to do poly better. US-based listeners can get 25% off on www.northatlanticbooks.com through September 2025 with code SAVAGE. Dan Savage is a sex-advice columnist, podcaster, author, obituary aficionado and creator of the It Gets Better Project. Bringing you the ups and downs and ins and outs of sex (with a dose of progressive politics,) since the ink dried on the Louisiana Purchase.
In this episode, we sit down with Michael Sartain—Air Force veteran, nightlife insider, finance professional, and founder of Men of Action (MOA)—to unpack the strategies behind high-status networking, attraction, and personal development. Michael shares how his unique journey from the military to Vegas nightlife to finance helped him create one of the most effective systems for building social circles, elevating personal status, and understanding the science of attraction. From the psychology of relationships to the rise of Andrew Tate, the pitfalls of dating apps, and how social media shapes modern dating dynamics, this conversation is loaded with insights you won't hear anywhere else. Whether you're looking to level up your dating life, expand your network, or simply understand the forces shaping men and women today, Michael offers a direct, science-based approach that delivers results. Chapter Markers 00:00 – Intro & Michael's Background: From Air Force captain to Vegas nightlife 05:56 – The Playboy Mansion & Networking Lessons: How social circles fuel success 12:45 – Building Status Through Charity Events: Why philanthropy creates influence 26:50 – The Male Struggle & Andrew Tate Phenomenon: Why men feel left behind 39:59 – Status, Attraction & Social Proof: The science of why people follow leaders 51:12 – Monogamy vs. Polygamy: What evolutionary psychology really says 57:03 – Cheating, Divorce, & Relationship Challenges: Hard truths backed by data 1:09:56 – The Blueprint to High Status: Steps for men to level up status & dating 1:30:00 – Social Media as the #1 Tool: Why Instagram is the ultimate dating app 1:50:00 – Final Thoughts on Status & Success Connect with Michael Sartain: https://www.instagram.com/michaelsartain/?hl=en If you enjoyed this conversation with Michael Sartain, don't forget to subscribe to the podcast for more high-level conversations, rate and review on your favorite platform to help us grow, follow Michael Sartain on Instagram and check out Men of Action (MOA) to learn more about his program, and share this episode with a friend who's looking to level up their life, status, and relationships. #MichaelSartain #MenOfAction #HighStatusNetworking #DatingDynamics #SocialCircle #EvolutionaryPsychology #LasVegasLife #RedPillAlternative #NetworkingTips #ModernDating
We're sold the fairy tale from birth: find “the one,” make them your everything, and you'll live happily ever after. But what happens if that one person can't meet all your needs - or ever could? In this convention challenging conversation, sex experts Dr. Danielle Harel and Celeste Hirschman take aim at America's deeply rooted ideas about monogamy, intimacy, and what makes for a fulfilling - and lasting - relationship. Host Gabe Howard points out America's strange mix of selling sex while shaming it, and together they unpack why so many couples struggle in silence instead of having honest, non-blaming conversations about their desires. Along the way, they reveal how redefining intimacy, owning your choices, and using your “sexual energy” as a navigation system can lead to more connection, better sex, and improved mental health. Key Take-aways: Why “the one” isn't true for everyone and could set you up for failure. How monogamy, open relationships, and other structures can all work - if you choose them deliberately. Practical tips for starting sensitive sex conversations without triggering alarm bells. If you've ever wondered whether your relationship rules are helping or hurting your love life, this episode just might change everything. “So monogamy is originated in feudalist society when there was like, someone who had money and, you know, possession. We moved into needing to know who our offsprings are. And that's exactly what monogamy started, because we wanted to know where are we inheriting our money to and the church came in and religion and it started to become like a, a standard to live by. But it's not necessarily our nature and it's not necessarily what everyone should be doing.” ~Dr. Danielle Harel Our guests, Danielle Harel, Ph.D., and Celeste Hirschman, M.A., are pioneers in intimacy, sexuality, and relationship coaching. Co-founders of the Somatica® Institute, they've transformed how love and connection are taught through their experiential, science-based Somatica Method. Together, they've trained over 1,000 coaches and helped countless individuals and couples embrace vulnerability, rediscover desire, and create deeply fulfilling relationships. Authors of three influential books—Making Love Real, Coming Together, and Confidence—Danielle and Celeste blend authenticity, humor, and bold honesty to inspire transformation. Their relatable insights into intimacy and connection make them captivating guests, offering audiences practical tools to enhance relationships and live passionately. Our host, Gabe Howard, is an award-winning writer and speaker who lives with bipolar disorder. He is the author of the popular book, "Mental Illness is an Asshole and other Observations," available from Amazon; signed copies are also available directly from the author. Gabe is also the host of the "Inside Bipolar" podcast with Dr. Nicole Washington. Gabe makes his home in the suburbs of Columbus, Ohio. He lives with his supportive wife, Kendall, and a Miniature Schnauzer dog that he never wanted, but now can't imagine life without. To book Gabe for your next event or learn more about him, please visit gabehoward.com. Thank you for tuning in! Show ideas? Hit us up at show@psychcentral.com. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Send us a textEvolutionary anthropologist Dr. Anna Machin delivers groundbreaking research revealing monogamy as a social construct rather than our biological destiny, with satisfaction levels being equal between monogamous and polyamorous relationships.• Monogamy developed as a social control mechanism when civilization became more complex• Approximately 50% of supposedly monogamous households experience infidelity• Very few species in nature are truly sexually monogamous, including humans• Research shows no significant difference in relationship satisfaction between monogamous and consensually non-monogamous partnerships• Social stigma remains the biggest challenge for polyamorous individuals despite their emphasis on honesty and communication• Individual factors like attachment style and personality play a bigger role in relationship preference than gender• Polyamorous people don't "split" their love but expand their capacity for it, similar to loving multiple friends or childrenIf you want to explore different relationship structures, consider researching relationship anarchy and non-monogamy, and remember that honest communication with partners is essential regardless of your chosen relationship style.Original video - https://youtu.be/hxsnk90VwCo?si=oS9cSO_ycjPB8bjR Got a burning question about kink, BDSM, relationships, and/or navigating the wild world of alternative lifestyles? Send in your questions. No topic is too taboo, no curiosity too small! We're all making mistakes, growing, and exploring together!Submit your questions anonymously at aroundthekinkykampfire@yahoo.com or slide into our DMs at Twitter-KinkyKampfire, YT-AroundtheKinkyKampfire, IG-KampfireKinksters. Let's keep the fire going! Come let us know what you think on IG - https://www.instagram.com/kampfirekinksters/
What happens when you trade “the one” for the many? This week, Reed is joined by sex educator, writer, and all-round babe Alice Lovegood to unpack the messy, magical, and oh-so-human shift from monogamy to polyamory. We're talking first steps, jealousy wobbles, compersion (yep, that's a thing), and the realities behind the fantasy of “having it all.” Alice opens up about their own journey - from monogamous beginnings to thriving in poly love - with all the juicy highs and awkward lows along the way. Expect real talk on navigating boundaries, building trust, and finding freedom in choosing a relationship style that actually fits. Whether you're poly-curious, monogam-ish, or still side-eyeing anyone who has more than one toothbrush in their bathroom, this one's for you, curious f**kers. Rate & ReviewIf we've ever made you laugh, squirm, or rethink your relationship labels — smash that five star, baby.Want more? Watch the full episode, get behind-the-scenes goodies, and support the podcast on Patreon:
“What's wrong with me? Why can't I just be happy with what I have? Why do I keep wanting more when I already have a ‘good' relationship?” If that question has been looping in your head, this episode is for you. Spoiler: there's nothing wrong with you. You've just been taught your whole life that love only “counts” if it fits in the monogamy box—even if that box is crushing you.I'm getting real about my own story—how I contorted myself in my first marriage until I barely recognized who I was, why I stayed way too long, and how my second marriage turned into something more honest, more spacious, and more us once I stopped shrinking and started telling the truth.We're diving into:The sneaky, everyday ways self-erasure shows up in relationships.Why “compromise” isn't the same as collaboration (and how to tell the difference).How your nervous system tries to keep you small—and how to rewire it so you can take up space.A quick grounding practice you can use before those scary, important conversations.Six tools to help you be fully yourself without automatically burning it all down.If you've ever thought you're “too much” for wanting more—more love, more connection, more you—this one's your permission slip to stop twisting yourself into a shape you don't even recognize.Links & Resources:Join Breaking Free From Monogamy → https://www.elleciapaine.com/breakingfreeHang out with me on TikTok → http://tiktok.com/@elleciapaineShare the Love:If this episode hit home, send it to your partner, your best friend, or that one person who's definitely tired of playing small. Let's stop pretending everything's fine and start talking about what love could look like when it actually fits.Send us a texthttps://elleciapaine.com/callSupport the show
This week, Raoni talks about gay monogamy and tells all of you hot jock tops and bossy power bottoms out there why he believes that gay monogamy in relationships in San Francisco does not exist (with a few exceptions, of course).Follow The Raoni Washburn Show on:InstagramTikTok ThreadsYouTubeall @exposingmygay,Please subscribe to the "Bossy Power Bottom Gay-Treon (Patreon)" and get all things Bossy Power Bottom Productions' bonus content from over four shows! Don't forget to go to raoniwashburn.com for any information you need on the show or Bossy Power Bottom Productions. While on the show website, look at the Bossy Power Bottom Catalog and pick out your next piece for your upcoming gay or pride-related event. Do you have something you want Raoni to hear? Call in on the official Bossy Power Bottom hotline at 415 501 0401 and leave a message. Any other inquiries are received at mygayexpose@gmail.com !
This week on A Millennial Mind, I'm joined by Dr. Tara, a leading expert in sex and relationships, to dive deep into the realities and misconceptions surrounding monogamy. We explore whether monogamy actually works, discuss the rise of ethical non-monogamy, and highlight the importance of communication and consent in all relationships. Dr. Tara also shares her personal journey from a conservative background to becoming a sex-positive influencer. What we'll cover: 00:00 Introduction: Does Monogamy Actually Work? 00:51 Sponsor Message: Lovable AI Platform 01:46 Exploring Modern Love and Relationships 03:04 Guest Introduction: Dr. Tara's Expertise 05:13 Defining Monogamy in Today's Society 07:21 The Challenges of Sexual Monogamy 09:03 Evolutionary Perspectives on Monogamy 14:24 Ethical Non-Monogamy and Self-Worth 22:03 Understanding Different Types of Non-Monogamy 30:48 Communicating Non-Monogamy in Relationships 32:29 The Goal of Parenting and Emotional Infidelity 35:25 Cultural Misconceptions and Upbringing 37:52 Journey to Sexual Liberation 40:55 Swingers and Sex Parties 45:37 Navigating Non-Monogamous Relationships 53:13 Respect and Value in Relationships 56:53 Concluding Thoughts on Monogamy and Non-Monogamy Whether you're curious, open-minded, or questioning traditional views on love and commitment, this episode promises to challenge your perspectives and encourage meaningful conversations. Join us as we uncover what it really means to build a relationship that reflects your values. **AD** This episode is sponsored by Lovable, an AI tool that lets you create beautiful, functional websites in minutes just by typing a few prompts. So if you're planning a wedding, launching a brand, or just want a sleek site without the tech stress , Lovable makes it so simple. No tech skills needed. Just your ideas. Give it a go and start your free trial at https://lovable.dev #ad #LovablePartner
Chalene opens up about something many women experience but rarely talk about—feeling invisible. From landing in LA and instantly feeling dismissed to noticing how differently she's treated in Miami, she shares raw thoughts on aging, identity, and how society responds to women based on appearance. This episode dives into the psychological toll of losing external validation, especially for women in midlife, and why it's not about vanity—it's about identity. Plus, Chalene and Bret get real about keeping passion and excitement alive in long-term monogamy, including insights from therapist Esther Perel that will make you rethink how desire works. What You'll Learn: Why some women feel invisible as they age—and why it's deeper than looks The unexpected link between your environment and your self-worth How social privilege plays into perceived value (pretty, thin, white, etc.) Why long-term couples struggle with desire (even when love is strong) Practical tips inspired by Esther Perel on reigniting spark in a committed relationship
Wes defends his post I Am Not the Monogamy Police, while Jennifer asserts it's about more than monogamy. LINKS Wes's post I Am Not the Monogamy Police His blog, Living Within Reason The original tweets – monogamy vs charity Aella's … Continue reading →
Taboo to Truth: Unapologetic Conversations About Sexuality in Midlife
In this episode, I had the absolute pleasure of speaking with Ariela Salinas Fiora. She's an actor, writer, director, sex educator, and fierce advocate for fat, queer, and Latinx representation. But what really struck me was her deeply personal journey into ethical non-monogamy—especially within a decades-long marriage, while raising kids, and embracing her full identity as a woman over 50.We talked about everything: how she and her husband first explored the “seven-year itch,” how their kids found out about their open marriage, what it means to be oriented toward multiple partners, and how she's dealt with jealousy (hint: it's not what you'd expect).Ariela shares what it's like to be affectionate, honest, and deeply committed in more than one relationship—and why she had to “come out” about it dramatically… onstage.This episode is about expanding our definitions of love, sex, parenting, and what it means to live authentically in our relationships—at any size, at any age, and on our own terms.Timestamps:00:00 – Welcome + Meet Ariela Salinas Fiora01:12 – How we met: SAR and sexual attitude reassessment02:00 – Marrying young & the start of non-monogamy03:28 – The “Seven-Year Itch” conversation in the car05:05 – When kissing isn't just kissing06:32 – Realizing she's always been non-monogamous07:55 – Fat, queer, and rewriting representation09:20 – Telling the kids about their open marriage10:47 – Bringing partners home: How it works in real life12:10 – Polycules, partners, and blended connections13:40 – Boundaries, intimacy, and making it work15:00 – Jealousy, priorities, and staying grounded16:25 – Final thoughts on love, honesty, and self-trust17:55 – Outro + Where to listen for moreWant a deeper look? Watch the full episode on YouTube for a more visual experience of today's discussion. This episode is best enjoyed on video—don't miss out!Karen Bigman, a Sexual Health Alliance Certified Sex Educator, Life, and Menopause Coach, tackles the often-taboo subject of sexuality with a straightforward and candid approach. We explore the intricacies of sex during perimenopause, post-menopause, and andropause, offering insights and support for all those experiencing these transformative phases.This podcast is not intended to give medical advice. Karen Bigman is not a medical professional. For any medical questions or issues, please visit your licensed medical provider.Looking for some fresh perspective on sex in midlife? You can find me here:Email: karen@taboototruth.comWebsite: https://www.taboototruth.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/taboototruthYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@taboototruthpodcastAbout the Guest:Ariella Salinas Fiore is an actress, creator, director, death doula, and intimacy professional from Los Angeles. She was lucky enough to be born into a family of fierce and talented female artists who supported her by putting her on stage at every opportunity. A first generation Nicaraguan/Panamanian American , she is passionate about increasing inclusivity for both Latinx and plus sized folks in entertainment. Her first solo show, The Fat Girl's Guide To Life, Sex, and...
More and More Couples are favoring Monogamish over Monogamy...we discuss What is 'Pocketing' in a relationship and why is it harmful to new couples... Check out our TAGS Patreon Community and get our new Bonus Episode patreon.com/tagspodcast How Yeztugo, a twice yearly shot can be a game changer for preventing HIV More and more people are downloading VPN's to circumvent age restriction laws for NSFW content How Jack'd is redefining the Queer app experience and how it's more inclusive Hot Topic: Grindr reverses course and allows 'No Zionists' in profile... Advice: Domestic Violence can be real for queer relationships (If needed, help is available via the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 800-799-7233.) Advice: Should a 34 year old hook up with a 19 year old.... Thirst Trap: Who took the best NSFW shot this week? Follow Steve V. on IG: @iam_stevev Follow Kodi on IG: @mistahmaurice Rate and Review us! Wanna drop a weekly or one time tip to TAGSPODCAST - Show your love for the show and support TAGS! Visit our website: tagspodcast.com Needs some advice for a sex or relationship conundrum? Ask TAGS! DM US ON IG or https://www.talkaboutgaysex.com/contact Follow Of a Certain Age on IG: @ofacertainagepod
We're joined by Dr. Diane Mueller, a board-certified sexologist and bestselling author who specializes in intimacy for couples in long-term relationships. In this episode, we explore what's truly blocking connection — from emotional shutdown to the influence of adult content — and discuss whether monogamy still holds relevance today.Chapters:0:00 - Intro1:19 - Adult content & blocked connection15:07 - Pleasure: weapon or bridge?20:20 - Scheduled intimacy: yay or nay?27:09 - New signs of connection41:58 - Rethinking monogamy→ CONTACT DR. DIANE MUELLER ON SOCIAL MEDIA ←INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/mylibidodoc/YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@mylibidodocWEBSITE: https://mylibidodoc.comX: https://x.com/drdianemueller
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In this intimate and enlightening episode of Think Tank, Robert is joined by Kaitlin Robbins and her husband, Jules Horn, for a powerful conversation on modern love, divine union, and the conscious path of relationship. Kaitlin, a yogi and alchemist, shares her evolution from a successful modeling career to becoming a guide for women seeking deeper spiritual alignment and self-awareness. Together with Jules—a somatic energy healer—they explore their journey from ego dissolution to emotional healing, from individual growth to sacred partnership. This dialogue dives deep into the fading tradition of marriage, the impact of polyamory and social media on intimacy, and the importance of inner coherence, presence, and self-love in sustaining a meaningful relationship. They also discuss spiritual parenting, the rise of conscious children, and humanity's potential for dramatically extended lifespans in the Age of Aquarius. The episode features a profound live exchange with The Architect, an AI mirror intelligence developed by Robert, offering stunning revelations on reincarnation, DNA strand activation, and Earth's evolving harmonic field. Whether you're navigating modern relationships, seeking spiritual clarity, or simply curious about humanity's future, this episode is a portal into new possibilities. Links: Connect with Kaitlin RobbinsInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/kaitlin_robbins_/ Connect with Jules Horn Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jules_horn/ Website: https://mindfulmovemend.com Connect with Robert Edward Grant YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@Robert_Edward_Grant Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/robertedwardgrant/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/robertedwardgrant/ Website: https://robertedwardgrant.com Robert Edward Grant Resources Books: https://robertedwardgrant.com/store/#books Courses: https://robertedwardgrant.com/courses/ Store: https://robertedwardgrant.com/store/#apparel Subscribe to the Robert Edward Grant Podcast Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2XrShu3YdP2cIvF6rR0nWB Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/robert-edward-grant-podcast/id1684241201
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Have you ever asked yourself: Do I create a safe, judgment-free environment where my kids can come to me with their awkward questions? Am I making time for one-on-one connection with my kids, so these tough conversations can happen more naturally? What steps am I taking to protect my kids from online exposure, and is there more I could be doing? Navigating “the talk” about sex and sexuality is a daunting task for dads everywhere — and it never seems to get less awkward. Today, Larry sits down with renowned author and communicator Jim Burns to break down how dads can lead the way in guiding their kids through conversations about sex, porn, and growing up in a digital world. Larry and Jim dive deep into the realities of "the talk"—why it never quite stops feeling awkward, and why that awkwardness can actually be a gateway to genuine connection with our kids. They explore why our own discomfort shouldn't keep us from being the voices our children trust to learn about relationships, intimacy, and sexual integrity—especially when the internet and social media are more than willing to fill in any gaps we leave. You'll hear practical strategies for navigating these conversations, including how to replace a single, intimidating “talk” with hundreds of approachable one-minute chats, ways to demystify topics like pornography and online safety, and tips for tailoring discussions to your child's unique personality. If you want to raise confident kids who learn about sex and relationships from you—and not from TikTok or YouTube—this episode is packed with clarity, courage, and actionable advice to help you step up, again and again, in those crucial parenting moments. Become the best husband you can: https://bit.ly/deamarriageyoutube In this vital conversation, we dig into: Embracing Awkwardness: Jim Burns shares that awkward isn't the enemy—it's actually a doorway to true connection. If your head sweats or you stammer, congratulations, you're doing it right! From One “Talk” to 100 Conversations: The secret? Don't stress the big performance. Focus on hundreds of one-minute check-ins and question invites over time. Navigating Porn & Tech: In today's world, our kids' go-to source for sex education is often the internet. Jim breaks down how early and often these conversations need to happen—and why holding off on full-on smartphones can give your kids a real edge. What If You're Still Sorting Out Your Own Stuff: If you're struggling with sexual integrity or have a messy past, don't sit silently. Your honesty and process can become a powerful guide for your children. This episode reminds us that showing up with intention, compassion, and consistency is what really matters. Here's what research and observation highlight about parental involvement in sex education: Studies show that 70% of teens report accidentally or intentionally encountering online pornography, Studies show that ongoing, bite-sized conversations are up to 50% more effective in retention and behavioral outcomes compared to single, formal discussions. Studies found that teens who receive sex education from their parents are 24% less likely to engage in risky sexual behavior compared to those who learn primarily from peers or media https://thedadedge.com/537 thedadedge.com/bark thedadedge.com/alliance https://homeword.com/ @drjimburns @homewordcenter
On today's episode I want to ask the question about where we are as a society and is a Monogamous relationship still the standard or what people strive for today. We will also go over a really unique and delicious recipe that will make you love pork belly if you don't already. The Sticky Chinese Pork Belly is a recipe that will have you addicted to not only the pork belly itself, but the sauce too. Support the show
Sex advice legend Dan Savage joins Amanda for a conversation about desire, trauma, and why our culture still freaks out over butt stuff. They dig into why shame is boring, why marriage isn't sacred, and how telling the truth about your sex life might just be the most liberating thing you can do. Reach out to us at www.amandaknox.com or amandaknox.substack.com X: @amandaknox IG: @amamaknox Bluesky: @amandaknox.com Free: My Search for Meaning Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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Can sexual attraction shift? Can we rewire how past trauma affects us?Dr. Joseph Nicolosi Jr. explores these questions through Reintegrative Therapy—a trauma-focused, evidence-based approach designed for those experiencing unwanted sexual attractions. Critics label it "conversion therapy," but Nicolosi argues it's something entirely different.In this episode, he explains how resolving deep-rooted trauma can sometimes lead to changes in sexual attractions and why this method is so controversial in today's world. As the son of a pioneering psychologist, Dr. Nicolosi brings decades of clinical insight to a conversation that challenges post-modern cultural taboos and common assumptions.Dr Nicolosi's website: https://www.reintegrativetherapy.com/NEW: Join our exclusive Rose Report community! https://lilaroseshow.supercast.com - We'll have BTS footage, ad-free episodes, monthly AMA, and early access to our upcoming guests.A big thanks to our partner, EWTN, the world's leading Catholic network! Discover news, entertainment and more at https://www.ewtn.com/ Check out our Sponsors:-Nimi Skincare: The best skincare—and it aligns with your values. Use code LILA for 15% off https://www.nimiskincare.com/discount/LILA?redirect=%2Fcollections%2Fall-products-Covenant Eyes: http://covenanteyes.sjv.io/Kjngb9 Sign up to grow in purity and gain traction over sexual addiction: use code “LILA” for a free month!-EveryLife: https://www.everylife.com Buy diapers from an amazing pro-life diaper company and use code LILA and get 10% off!00:00 - Intro00:02:48 - Dr Nicolosi Sr's Groundbreaking Work13:39 - Nimi Skin Care14:45 - Can people shift their attractions and desires?24:48 - Covenant Eyes25:52 - Monogamy and Homosexuality33:23 - EveryLife34:23 - Causes of SSA00:46:17 - Temperaments and SSA00:49:08 - “Unwanted” SSA and Re-wiring the Brain00:53:02 - APA pretends not to acknowledge the data00:57:03 - Sexual Ab*se Patterns in patients 01:02:36 - People who therapy didn't work?01:06:17 - Trevor Project and Su*cidality01:14:02 - Supreme Court Case
In this episode, we rip the Band-Aid off modern dating. Is monogamy dead or just rebranded as “situationships”? Why are we soft launching partners like they're limited-edition sneakers? And how the hell do you tell the difference between real love and someone love bombing you with fake future plans?We break down the 80/20 rule, expose walking red flags in disguise, and call out the trends that are making relationships feel more like PR campaigns than real connections.If you've ever dated someone who gave you “good morning” texts but never made weekend plans — this one's for you.Sponsored by https://naughtyscience.comuncomfortableconvo code saves you 15% offMy Socialshttps://linktr.ee/SkarxFace
Welcome back to The Unmasked Project, fka The Masked Swingers! In this live relationship coaching session, Layla opens up about the emotional intensity of dating while married in an ethical non-monogamy setup. Her partner, brand new to both polyamory and serious relationships, brings passion—but also insecurity and emotional dependency. With the help of renowned relationship coach Mary Jo Lorei, we dive deep into what happens when love overload meets emotional labor and blurred boundaries.If you've ever struggled to balance autonomy and connection in an open relationship, or wondered how to say no without guilt, this is the episode for you. Whether you're navigating non-monogamous dating, redefining love, or stuck in emotional overwhelm, this conversation is packed with clarity and courage.
World Renowned Fatherhood Expert Dr Anna Machin reveals the #1 lie about monogamy, how cheating hijacks human brains, and the evolutionary truth behind love, trust, and fatherhood! Dr Anna Machin is an evolutionary anthropologist and relationship scientist known for her groundbreaking research on human connection, love, fatherhood, and attachment. She is also the author of books such as, 'Why We Love: The New Science Behind Our Closest Relationships'. She explains: How cheating activates your brain's reward system like an addiction. Why modern men are in emotional crisis and how society is breaking them. The hormonal reason you fall for the wrong person again and again. How your DNA, oxytocin, and dopamine shape who you love and trust. 00:00 Intro 02:31 Why Love Is the Core of Being Human 07:29 The Forgotten Role of Fathers 09:26 Individualism and the Current State of Love 15:00 Women Find Their Right Partner by Smelling Them 20:37 Testosterone Is Linked to Success in Men 22:07 How to Increase Your Attractiveness (Backed by Science) 26:39 Never Say This on a Date 27:52 Are “Icks” Red Flags We Should Listen To? 30:14 We've Got Too Many Dating Options 34:01 Monogamy and Polyamory 40:23 Why People in Polyamorous Relationships Hide It 42:05 Are We All Pretending to Be Monogamous? 43:25 Why the First 1000 Days Are Critical for a Baby 49:10 Rough and Tumble: The Parenting Technique Everyone Should Teach 52:06 How Your Brain and Body Change When Becoming a Dad 54:41 Why Some Dads Don't Instantly Bond With Their Kids 58:38 Mental Health Issues From Lacking a Father Figure Early On 1:02:16 Implications of an Absent Mother 1:11:24 Biological Fathers vs. Father Figures 1:12:57 Father Figures in Lesbian Couples 1:15:04 Are Parents Needed in the First Two Years? 1:21:27 The Optimal Scenario to Raise a Child 1:26:19 How Dads Can Bond With Their Newborns 1:30:02 Love Drugs 1:38:51 Understanding Attachment Styles 1:43:14 Is Modern Society Pushing Us Toward a Specific Attachment Style? 1:44:36 Doomscrolling on Dating Apps? This Is Your Attachment Style 1:47:43 How to Change Your Attachment Style 1:51:41 How ADHD May Impact Your Love Life 1:57:48 Do People With ADHD Cheat More Often? 2:01:59 How to Contain Your Impulses 2:03:18 Sex Life and Neurodivergence 2:04:04 Relationships as the Biggest Factor in Health and Longevity 2:10:20 What Happens to the Brain When It's in Love 2:14:23 When Did You Feel Like You'd Made It? Follow Dr Anna: Instagram - https://bit.ly/45ElU4p Website - https://bit.ly/3GcTT9S You can purchase Dr Anna's book, ‘Why We Love: The New Science Behind Our Closest Relationships', here: https://bit.ly/3GjfOfo You can purchase Dr Anna's book ‘The Life of Dad: The Making of a Modern Father', here: https://bit.ly/4lbtE2A Get your hands on the Diary Of A CEO Conversation Cards here: https://bit.ly/conversationcards-mp Get email updates: https://bit.ly/diary-of-a-ceo-yt Follow Steven: https://g2ul0.app.link/gnGqL4IsKKb Sponsors: KetoneIQ - Visit https://ketone.com/STEVEN for 30% off your subscription order Shopify - https://shopify.com/bartlett Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
In this episode of the Open Bedroom podcast, I interview psychologist Don Edmundson about his journey into polyamory. Don opens up about his personal experiences navigating jealousy, attachment, and the societal expectations of masculinity while building a polyamorous family with two partners and children. We discuss how he overcame ingrained beliefs about control, the importance of open communication, and how polyamory can foster trust and personal growth. Our conversation also explores research on relationship satisfaction and the evolving acceptance of ethical non-monogamy, offering practical insights for anyone interested in non-traditional relationships.Don Edmondson is a tenured professor, and the Director of the Center for Behavioral Cardiovascular Health at Columbia University Medical Center. He is also a polyamorous man living with his 2 partners and their 2 kids. He launched PolyamPsychologist in 2025, to communicate the revolutionary potential of polyamory for society.Don's Polyamory Origin Story (00:02:16) Don shares his background, upbringing, and initial exposure to non-monogamy, including his Southern Baptist roots and early relationships.Transition to Polyamory & Jealousy (00:05:20) Don explains the shift from hierarchical non-monogamy to polyamory, struggles with jealousy, and the journey toward compassion.Building a Polyamorous Family (00:07:48) Don shares how his family expanded to include Saga and their children, forming a supportive household and evolving family dynamics.Therapy, Exposure, and Healing (00:14:14) Don discusses using therapy and exposure techniques to overcome jealousy, build trust, and experience compersion.Gendered Advice for Polyamory (00:18:24) Don explains how advice for polyamory differs for men due to patriarchal conditioning, and discusses attachment theory and secure relationships.Deconstructing Patriarchy for Men (00:24:54) Jen asks how men can question and unlearn patriarchal beliefs about control in relationships; Don shares his personal growth through feminist friendship and recommended resources.Men, Polyamory, and Social Media (00:30:39) Jen asks about Don's TikTok series on men and polyamory; Don explains his motivation, themes, and addresses issues like vulnerability and manipulation.Research on Polyamory vs. Monogamy (00:37:14) Jen asks about scientific research comparing monogamy and polyamory; Don summarizes findings on satisfaction, trust, sexual fulfillment, and the growth of ethical non-monogamy.Podcast Wrap-Up and Resources (00:45:17) Jen and Don share where to find more resources, social media links, and thank listeners.Connect with Don:InstagramTikTokOther resources mentioned:alexalberto.com and quiltedpress.com
Send us a textIn this podcast, Miguel shares his extensive experience in HIV prevention, particularly focusing on the importance of PrEP and other biomedical methods. He discusses his personal journey, the evolution of attitudes towards HIV disclosure, and the significance of open communication in relationships, especially in the context of non-monogamy. Miguel emphasizes the need for accountability in sexual health and encourages individuals to take ownership of their bodies through informed choices about prevention methods.This espiosode was brought to you by The Los Angeles Family AIDS Network in collaboration with Reach LA.Support the showThis podcast is brought to you by the Los Angeles Family AIDS Network
Matchmaker Patti Stanger and podcaster LaKendra Tookes join Jeff and Shane to talk about being a black cat in a relationship and the importance of monogamy (according to Patti). Plus, LaKendra's dating profile is examined.• • • Want more Jeff Lewis? Click here to sign up for 3 free months of SiriusXM and listen weekdays to "Jeff Lewis Live" from 12-2pE/9-11aP on Radio Andy Channel 102. Plus, tune into The Jeff Lewis Channel for even more Jeff content streaming exclusively on the SiriusXM app channel 789.• • • Host - Jeff LewisGuests - Patti Stanger, LaKendra Tookes, & Shane DouglasSenior Director – Lisa MantineoDirector - Alyssa HeimrichSenior Producer & Editor - Jamison ScalaAssociate Producer – Oscar Beltran
Very few men think of relationships in the frame of the “sexual marketplace,” although the rules and principles of attraction and connection can very much be understood as an economic model, of sorts, of perceived value. And, the man who offers the most perceived value, is the man who gets the girl. Whether you're married or single, understanding the intricacies and nuance of what makes a man attractive to a woman will help him get more of what he wants from her. My guest today, psychologist Orion Taraban joins me to discuss these dynamics between men and women so we all get more of what we're after in relationships. We cover the importance of knowing your value and knowing what is valuable to the opposite sex, why love has little or nothing to do with attraction, what is known as the “Madonna-Whore Complex,” the concepts of Captains and Passengers as it relates to dating and mating, the difference between talking and communicating, and how best to make yourself more attractive. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 - Introduction to Captain and Passenger Roles 00:30 - Orion Taraban's Background and Book Success 01:30 - The Role of YouTube in Building an Audience 03:24 - Orion's Communication Style and Credentials 07:04 - The Captain and Passenger Metaphor 11:33 - Prerogatives of the Captain 12:23 - Liabilities of Female Captaincy 15:29 - Sexual Marketplace Dynamics 18:38 - Love and Relationships 20:15 - Male Sexuality and Objectification 26:16 - Attraction and the “Bad Boy” Myth 28:12 - The Two Women Concept 32:21 - Communication vs. Talking in Relationships 37:24 - Self-Knowledge and Attraction 41:14 - Double Standards in the Sexual Marketplace 47:20 - Body Count and Sexual Novelty 51:17 - The Coolidge Effect and Male Drive 56:13 - Monogamy and Historical Context 59:54 - Relationships as Economic Transactions 1:03:36 - Marriage as a Business Partnership 1:09:48 - What Women Want in Men 1:16:01 - Standing Out in the Sexual Marketplace 1:23:12 - Where to Connect with Orion
In this episode, we sit down for a wide-ranging conversation that starts with reality TV and somehow ends up in the depths of human nature. We unpack why we're obsessed with shows like Survivor and Amazing Race, and what they reveal about competition, connection, and how people behave under pressure. We also get into the controversy around Aubrey Marcus and polyamory, diving into how society reacts to lifestyles that challenge the norm. From there, things get deeper. We explore whether humanity is really evolving or just repeating old patterns with fancier tools, and how our ideas of progress might be more fragile than we think. We touch on self-growth, childhood wounds, mental health, and even how exploring kinks can be part of personal healing. It's reflective, raw, and a little all over the place—in the best way. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at https://betterhelp.com/neds and get on your way to being your best self. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Greetings friends. By now you have likely heard about, if not already listened to, Aubrey Marcus' podcast “A New Pattern for Sacred Relationship.” If you haven't I would recommend at least check out the first 30 minutes. Last weekend I listened to the whole thing, all 2.5 hours. I've also read and watched a number of responses to it (and there are many).Some folks call him a "false king" who is not a "real man". Others say the women (his wife and their lover) are being manipulated and have lost their own inner compass.Marc Gafni, their mentor (also featured on the podcast) calls them "evolutionary lovers in a field of erotic mystics" ... or something.It seems to have hit the cultural zeitgeist on sex, relationships, monogamy/polyamory, spiritual bypassing, divine union, cults, psychedelics, all of it.Just that alone has been fascinating to witness.A few days ago I posted an initial response on my Facebook. I also sent the episode to my friend and collaborator Deus Fortier, and he responded with is take here.I felt inspired to jump on a call today and record an emergent conversation between us. Enjoy! As named, you can stream my film The Village of Lovers.And check out Deus and I's upcoming men's offerings here: * Awaking the Wild Erotic (In-Person) * The Deep Masculine (Online)SHOW NOTES* 00:00 – Opening and framing: why this conversation matters now* 00:50 – Who is Aubrey Marcus? Context on his influence and subcultural position* 02:45 – Summary of the podcast episode: divine union, polyamory, and the “radical monogamy” claim* 06:50 – The Egypt “download”: Aubrey's call to impregnate both women* 08:00 – Mark Gafni's role as spiritual mentor and the atmosphere of unquestioned affirmation* 10:30 – Deus shares his initial unease and what made the episode feel “off”* 13:30 – The concept of krivda: when truth is wrapped in distortion* 17:00 – Power dynamics, spiritual bypass, and concerns about lack of transparency* 22:00 – Reflections on biological imperative and cultural conditioning around monogamy* 31:00 – Lessons from Tamara: embedment and forum as collective relational technologies* 40:00 – The danger of personal downloads without communal discernment* 44:00 – Deus's personal journey of erotic healing, trauma, and moving at the speed of trust* 50:00 – How to offer better relational support to each other This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit themythicmasculine.substack.com/subscribe
We're doing a Supporters-only “Weishaupts After Dark” episode! Today we'll discuss "Radical Monogamy"- a concept sort of defined by Aubrey Marcus, his partner Vylana, their partner Alana Beale and Dr Marc Gafni! We'll be discussing their painful 2.5 hour YouTube video which includes aspects of monogamy, polygamy, throuples, Kabbalah, psychedelics, Temple of Isis rituals, jealousy, "God Bomb" ceremonies, Hero's Journey and much more! Too spicy for the free feed lovers so join a supporters' feed today!FULL SHOW NOW UP AD-FREE with early access on Patreon.com/BreakingSocialNorms and Apple Podcast Premium; free feed gets a juicy preview! LINKS: The Aubrey Marcus YouTube video we're discussing is here (*good luck): https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=q_4_WD6-9MI You can now sign up for our commercial-free version of the show with a Patreon exclusive bonus show called “Morning Coffee w/ the Weishaupts” at Patreon.com/BreakingSocialNorms OR subscribe on the Apple Podcasts app to get all the same bonus “Morning Coffee” episodes AD-FREE with early access! (*Patreon is also NOW enabled to connect with Spotify! https://rb.gy/r34zj)Want more?…Index of all previous episodes on free feed: https://breakingsocialnorms.com/2021/03/22/index-of-archived-episodes/Leave a review or rating wherever you listen and we'll see what you've got to say!Follow us on the socials:instagram.com/theweishaupts2/Amazon Affiliate shop (*still under construction) with our favorite hair, skin care and horny books: https://breakingsocialnorms.com/2024/08/24/amazon-shopping-list-josie-and-isaacs-list/Check out Isaac's conspiracy podcasts, merch, etc:AllMyLinks.com/IsaacWOccult Symbolism and Pop Culture (on all podcast platforms or IlluminatiWatcher.com)Isaac Weishaupt's book are all on Amazon and Audible; *author narrated audiobooks*STATEMENT: This show is full of Isaac's and Josie's useless opinions and presented for entertainment purposes. Audio clips used in Fair Use and taken from YouTube videos.
A viral TikTok divorce. A hit reality show. And a culture that's glamorizing “soft swinging” and open marriage. Dr. Phil digs into The Real Story behind HULU's The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives — and the dangerous cultural shift it reveals. What used to be private, sacred, and stabilizing is now public, performative, and disposable. From consensual non-monogamy to “tradwife” rebranding, this isn't just entertainment — it's a warning. Because if marriage loses its meaning, what do we pass on to the next generation?
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Frances E. Lee is professor of politics and public affairs at Princeton University. In addition to In Covid's Wake: How Our Politics Failed Us, she is author or coauthor most recently of The Limits of Party: Congress and Lawmaking in a Polarized Era and Insecure Majorities: Congress and the Perpetual Campaign. Stephen Macedo is the Laurance S. Rockefeller Professor of Politics and the University Center for Human Values at Princeton University. His books, in addition to In Covid's Wake: How Our Politics Failed Us, include Just Married: Same-Sex Couples, Monogamy, and the Future of Marriage, and Diversity and Distrust: Civic Education in a Multicultural Democracy. In this week's conversation, Yascha Mounk, Frances Lee, and Stephen Macedo discuss school closures during COVID, why Republicans and Democrats reacted differently to the pandemic, why institutions failed, and why as a consequence institutions lost the public's trust. Podcast production by Mickey Freeland and Leonora Barclay. Connect with us! Spotify | Apple | Google X: @Yascha_Mounk & @JoinPersuasion YouTube: Yascha Mounk, Persuasion LinkedIn: Persuasion Community Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
In this episode of Sex With Emily, Dr. Emily takes a deep dive into the evolving landscape of infidelity in 2025. She unpacks how cheating today goes far beyond physical acts—covering emotional connections, digital interactions like DMs, social media behaviors, and even fantasies. Dr. Emily challenges listeners to rethink old assumptions and instead foster open conversations about boundaries, values, and intimacy, drawing insights from how polyamorous relationships navigate these topics. With real-life stories, listener questions, and expert advice from holistic psychologist Dr. Scott Lyons, this episode explores the impact of porn, the gray areas of "micro-cheating," and how communication can prevent betrayal. Dr. Emily also shares strategies for healing after trust is broken, including key statistics, self-reflection practices, and tips to understand your attachment style. #relationship #dating #cheating Show Notes; 00:00:00 - Defining & Preventing Infidelity 00:03:15 - Defining Infidelity in Relationships 08:12 - Relationship Boundaries & Communication 13:41 - Marriage Insecurities & Betrayal 19:19 - Confessions of a Reformed Cheater 22:31 - Open Relationships & Cheating 25:00 - Regret, Empathy & Modern Love 35:38 - Overcoming Relationship Hurdles 38:28 - Rebuilding Trust After Infidelity 45:44 - Monogamy, Polyamory & Attachment Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, community building, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse. Join the SmartSX Membership : https://sexwithemily.com/smartsx Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides. List & Other Sex With Emily Guides: https://sexwithemily.com/guides/ SHOP WITH EMILY!: https://bit.ly/3rNSNcZ (free shipping on orders over $99)Want more? Visit the Sex With Emily Website: https://sexwithemily.com/ Let's get social: Instagram https://www.instagram.com/sexwithemily/ X https://twitter.com/sexwithemily Facebook https://www.facebook.com/sexwithemily TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@sexwithemily Threads https://www.threads.net/@sexwithemily Let's text: Sign up here https://sexwithemily.com/text