Articles and musings about love by Bianca from Crazy Love Stories - a website which tells true love stories of real people 3
Imagine having a little taster of what seems to be a potentially delicious relationship… only to have it disappear on us suddenly, leaving us bedazzled then equally frazzled. Why is it that some of these shorter liaisons are so much harder to forget?Here's a story about my friend Leila as well as a deep dive into why some interactions, which can easily be called ‘flings', leave such a deep impression, and a huge void, at their wake when the handsome protagonist ends up poofing and ghosting out of our lives. Click away sweet sisters ♡~ ~ ~TO SUBSCRIBE:Website: crazylovestories.comInstagram: www.instagram.com/biancabasak/Facebook: www.facebook.com/crazylovestories.net/~ ~ ~Attributions for sound effects: Check 'About'.~ ~ ~
My new podcast episode is about a wonderful woman, Amalia, whose dreams have a habit of coming true. Why? Because she first seeds them, then actively feeds them and watches as they blossom from the ethereal world into her real world. Small taster:“This is a very honest account of the journey of a very strong yet wonderfully feminine woman who found her way through a courageous career change, leaving the big-bucks and glamor behind and following her heart to becoming an artist, a healer and a life coach. It follows her through failed pregnancy attempts, a relationship that ended, a magical change, conscious love, miraculous conception, a blissful, natural home-birthing experience, navigating parenthood, then an ending which was painful until it was blessed by a separation ritual. Yes, blessed!”Click away to listen to the full episode
A sweet ‘aloha' to everyone ♡ Today's podcast is a personal one about how I found love in my forties by making a wish and holding it close to my heart, surrounding it with gentle prayers everyday.Is it really this easy to find love—by simply making a wish with your fingers crossed? Sometimes, it really just is. And sometimes, making a wish opens the door and, while it might take some time, it does start the process. One thing is for sure, in order for your love to come your way, you have to dare to dream, to allow yourself to believe that love exists and it can happen to you too, no matter what your circumstances are. A a wish is a firm press on the ‘start' button which sends the message to the universe to get things going.Click away and see how this happened to me.AKA ‘click away and see how this can also happen to you'.Love, Bianca ♡~ ~ ~TO SUBSCRIBE:Website: crazylovestories.comFacebook: www.facebook.com/crazylovestories.net/Instagram: www.instagram.com/biancabasak/~ ~ ~Attributions for sound effects: Check 'About'.~ ~ ~
Darlings ♡ Here is the second and final part of sweet Bettina's true love story. We will accompany her through the rest of her story with her true soulmate Jean-Pierre, after difficult battles they both had to win in order to be together in the first place (first part linked below).“But destiny, we all know, has a mind of its own.And sometimes the future is set in stone.”In the continuation of her story, we will hear about how love carries them through much happiness, and bliss, but also through the downs of life, illness, sadness and pain, keeping them as strong as can be through much difficulty. And if difficulty does turn into tragedy, what happens then? Some turn sad, some also lose their hearts along with their will to carry on… But… …Some take this sadness and transmute it into a candle and lead the way to help themselves as well as others who might be grieving to walk into the light. And it's endlessly inspiring!This is what Bettina shares with us today. And for anyone else who has lost a deeply loved one, I'm so very sorry for what you've had to go through and I'm hugging you—this one is for you.With love,Bianca ♡PS: If you haven't heard the first part, please click here to do so: https://soundcloud.com/bianca-basak-dikturk/bettinas-love-story-part-one .You will hear how Bettina's lonely childhood shaped her identity, making her a particularly loving soul whose default focus was to please everyone, except herself. This eventually snowballed into deep depression in her adulthood, which create a huge inner shift and, thus, much change on every single level, including a difficult divorce, and deep, deep love with her true soulmate. ~ ~ ~Subscribe in other ways to stay in touch and get all updates on new true love stories:Website: http://crazylovestories.com/real-stories-of-true-love/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/crazylovestories.net/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/biancabasak/~ ~ ~Attributions for sound effects:Check ‘About'.
I'm back with another story which has left me endlessly inspired. Below is a little taste of the lovely Bettina's story—a story of placebo joy, painful awakening, despair, courage, strength, rebirth and finding your wings despite everything that happens in life. “It was only a few short years ago that I was being sucked into the deepest of depression, feeling invisible, unheard, unseen and unloved. But now I was deeply in love with this wonderful man that saw and heard nothing but me and he was also deeply in love with me. We were absolutely crazy about each other.I felt like all the happiness that we had not been able to feel for so many years had been collected and was now raining down on us. I used to wake up feeling trapped in a horrible nightmare but now I would wake up to a reality that was more beautiful than anything I could have ever dreamed of. Living was such delight.”There's so, so much more to this journey of hers, both before and after. Click away for the first part of this two part series.Bianca ♡~ ~ ~TO SUBSCRIBE:Website: crazylovestories.comFacebook: www.facebook.com/crazylovestories.net/Instagram: www.instagram.com/biancabasak/~ ~ ~Attributions for sound effects: Check 'About'.~ ~ ~
How does one go about finding a good lover? Not the type that only kisses, but the type that also cuddles, not the type that ghosts you, but the type that hosts you.Well, imagine a road. You're on one end and your lover on the other. Sounds easy, right?But you're both in a crazy jungle full of huge trees, stinging nettles and poison ivy as well as predators. Hmmmm, perhaps this road is not always as straight forward as it seems… Here are some stories so that you may be better equipped to navigate this dating jungle. You'll hear the love-journeys of two girls who found love, lost love, then took their conclusions and broken hearts on two very different paths. One opted for what she thought was the risk-free, ingenious option, the other opted for uncertainty and stinging nettles. All I'll say is this: The path that leads to a good lover might not quite look as you would expect it to.Click away and listen :) Bianca~ ~ ~TO SUBSCRIBE:Website: crazylovestories.comFacebook: www.facebook.com/crazylovestories.net/Instagram: www.instagram.com/biancabasak/~ ~ ~Attributions for sound effects: Check 'About'.~ ~ ~
Significant as endings might be, there is a reason that certain people come into our lives and if we judge a relationship purely on the fact that it happened to come to an end, we will be missing the hidden treasures that were gifted to us through these precious heart-encounters.~ ~ ~TO SUBSCRIBE:Website: crazylovestories.comFacebook: www.facebook.com/crazylovestories.net/Instagram: www.instagram.com/biancabasak/~ ~ ~Attributions for sound effects: Check 'About'.~ ~ ~
This episode of Bianca's Crazy Love Stories is a personal one and deals with a true love story that twisted and turned, became blissful then burned and ended with the formation of a love triangle where suddenly the two of us became three… in an affair that was meant to be.Who would have ever thought that this would indeed be a story with a happy ending? But it is…Join me to listen to this story of love and heartache and climbing out of the darkness and into the sunshine without detouring into the darker corners of bitterness and hatred when your lover leaves you for another.Bianca ♡~ ~ ~TO SUBSCRIBE:Website: crazylovestories.comFacebook: www.facebook.com/crazylovestories.net/Instagram: www.instagram.com/biancabasak/~ ~ ~Attributions for sound effects: Check 'About'.~ ~ ~
Picture this—your prince is getting closer and closer on the horizon… but it doesn't quite look like it's a nice white horse he's riding on but much rather… a donkey?? How does love thrive and survive if conditions aren't ideal? And what exactly does ‘ideal' mean to youAnd if he's your one and only prince, does it even matter that he doesn't have a sack of gold hanging off his saddle? ;) Here's a true story that contains a few true love stories rolled into one—stories of financial hardship and the rain of abundance that comes with a promise to commit to love
For all of you that might have taken a step back from dreaming and still have not gotten up after a fall, as well as to all you fellow dreamers out there--here's a little inspiration from true stories of people who have managed to find love simply by darling to have a wish then writing it down.PS: Link to Anita & David's love story: http://crazylovestories.com/love-happy-ever-after-anita-david/Bianca
This episode of Crazy Love Stories outlines the true story of Lydia and how Mr. Wrong led her straight through to Mr. Right, both on Tinder. Who said the path to true love can't be bumpy?? What an adventure.Bianca
Have you ever looked at happy couples and wondered how they managed to find each other in this big, big world and fall in love? I always have and this is why I interview happy couples and share their true love stories on CrazyLoveStories.com. But see, there's always more to these wonderful stories than, “Oh, we met online.” People unknowingly start walking towards each other way earlier than they realise, way before they even meet. So I gather the observations I make as I talk to these lovebirds and turn them into stories which I share with you right here. And this is what all the stories here will be about - true love, how people found it and everything else that went with it.Bianca