Monday Nights

Freedom and sobriety are lifetime pursuits. This is not a sprint, gentlemen, this is a marathon that ends the day you walk through the pearly gates. In this episode Eli continues his conversation with Michael and Lisa Kunz and they discuss what it can look like to stay connected and be vulnerable in marriage after acting out for the first time in years and the importance of paying attention to your heart and needs no matter how long it has been since you last acted out.Support the show (https://cash.app/$elileedy)

Michael Kunz has been a Monday Nights leader for 9+ years. In this episode Eli hears his story of joining the room after years of managing a porn and masturbation addiction using his head and never getting in touch with his heart. This is part 1 of a 2 part interview with Michael and Lisa.Support the show (https://cash.app/$elileedy)

In this episode Shay and Eli continue their conversation with Ken Williams and discuss the book that Ken recently published, The Journey Out, in which he shares more about his story of how Jesus led him away from identifying as gay. Ken also shares about the movement of people rallying around the world to see change happen in the LGBTQ+ community.To connect with Ken and his team visit:changedmovement.comkenwilliamsministries.comSupport the show (https://cash.app/$elileedy)

In this episode Shay and Eli interview pastor, author, speaker, and long time Monday Nights small group leader, Ken Williams. Ken discusses his struggle, from a young age, with same-sex attraction, sexual confusion, and the freedom he found in Jesus. Ken leads an international ministry to the LGBTQ+ community, offering hope for restoration of their God-given identities as men and women.Support the show (https://cash.app/$elileedy)

In this episode Shay and Eli welcome you to a new season and update everyone on what's new. They also discuss some of the challenges that keep men from committing fully to the process of getting better in the room.Support the show (https://cash.app/$elileedy)

When the temperature rises the clothes come off. As men we seem to be suddenly surprised every year when we see the increase in exposed skin walking on the side of the road or we go to the pool or beach. We know it's coming, so make a plan for it. On this episode Shay and Eli discuss how to be successful during summer.If you have questions or would like to connect, please email: mondaynightspodcast@gmail.comSupport the show (https://cash.app/$elileedy)

On this episode Eli takes the hot seat and drops a 5min share about his week. He and Shay discuss handling disappointment, grieving lost desires, and having current relationships.If you have questions or would like to connect, please email: mondaynightspodcast@gmail.comSupport the show (https://cash.app/$elileedy)

It is critical that we build a foundation before creating chaos and stress with massive transition in our lives. On this episode Shay discusses the contrast between the chaos he once created in his marriage and life and the stability and momentum he now has.If you have questions or would like to connect, please email: mondaynightspodcast@gmail.comSupport the show (https://cash.app/$elileedy)

On this episode Shay and Eli address some common questions they get from new guys. They address what a good share in group looks like, what it looks like to make a good call, and they share their thoughts on masturbation and whether or not it is okay.If you have questions or would like to connect, please email: mondaynightspodcast@gmail.comSupport the show (https://cash.app/$elileedy)

The way we see ourselves, our value, our condition, and our impact on others affects how we show up and our ability to serve others and live fully alive. On this episode Aaron and Eli discuss some major belief shifts that Eli experienced after years of working on getting better.If you have questions or would like to connect, please email: mondaynightspodcast@gmail.comSupport the show (https://cash.app/$elileedy)

When Shay arrived in the room he thought he had married the wrong woman and was doomed to live a miserable life. He dug in, got vulnerable, and began going after the hard things to get better. The fruit of the work he did is evident in his marriage, his relationship with his kids, and the friendships he has developed. On this episode Aaron Zint joins Eli as they talk with Shay about his story.If you have questions or would like to connect, please email: mondaynightspodcast@gmail.comSupport the show (https://cash.app/$elileedy)

Taylor came into the room regularly acting out and wanting to get married. His journey got him sober and free and ready. Shay and Eli talk to him about how getting sober and free set him up for a solid marriage and able to lead a men's group when he moved away.If you have questions or would like to connect, please email: mondaynightspodcast@gmail.comSupport the show (https://cash.app/$elileedy)

When tragedy hits and you are not in touch with your feelings and are unable to grieve it can be extremely defeating and send you into a tailspin. On this episode Shay discusses with our good friend, Jeff Veal, how he navigated tragedy in his life and has built a life of adventure and freedom.If you have questions or would like to connect, please email: mondaynightspodcast@gmail.comSupport the show (https://cash.app/$elileedy)

There are bits of Jesus you can only get through prolonged embrace with other people. This is the second part of Shay and Eli's conversation about Eli's story. They unpack the concept of hugging and discuss the important role it plays in our growth and freedom journeys.If you have questions or would like to connect, please email: mondaynightspodcast@gmail.comSupport the show (https://cash.app/$elileedy)

On this episode Shay interviews Eli and we get to hear his origin story and the path that led him to the room. This is Part 1 of their conversation, so stay tuned for Part 2.If you have questions or would like to connect, please email: mondaynightspodcast@gmail.comSupport the show (https://cash.app/$elileedy)

On this episode Shay and Eli interview their good friend, De'Andrew, who tells the story of going from being disconnected from his pain and tears to being fully current and present with grief and sadness. He also discusses the import role of friendship on his journey.If you have questions or would like to connect, please email: mondaynightspodcast@gmail.comSupport the show (https://cash.app/$elileedy)

We focus a lot on the work that needs to be done to "get better." There's homework, reading, facing fears, discipline, and the list goes on. BUT, without Jesus being at the center, ultimately you will work and work and still fail. On this part 2 of the conversation with Brad, Shay and Eli discuss with him the importance of continually inviting Holy Spirit into our process and submitting our hearts and minds to Christ.If you have questions or would like to connect, please email: mondaynightspodcast@gmail.comSupport the show (https://cash.app/$elileedy)

On this episode Shay and Eli interview their good friend and fellow Monday Night leader, Brad.If you have questions or would like to connect, please email: mondaynightspodcast@gmail.comSupport the show (https://cash.app/$elileedy)

In this episode Shay and Eli discuss more about the application of the sobriety mountain and what it looks like for guys who are just getting started on this journey of wholeness and purity. Sobriety is where it all begins and it's not easy... but it's totally worth it.If you have questions or would like to connect, please email: mondaynightspodcast@gmail.comSupport the show (https://cash.app/$elileedy)

When we talk about sobriety with guys, we use an illustration of a mountain they are climbing, the Sobriety Mountain. In this episode Shay discusses the purpose for the illustration and some tips and tools on navigating it, especially for the guy who is new to the concept of getting sober and ready to do whatever it takes.If you have questions or would like to connect, please email: mondaynightspodcast@gmail.comSupport the show (https://cash.app/$elileedy)

In order for friendship to be real it is necessary to navigate conflict. Well handled conflict and confrontation lead to greater levels of intimacy and connection. In this episode Eli and Shay bring Aaron back on to discuss how he and Eli worked through conflict recently that could have become a wedge between them, but instead ended in a stronger, more trusting friendship.If you have questions or would like to connect, please email: mondaynightspodcast@gmail.comSupport the show (https://cash.app/$elileedy)

Understanding you have a need and doing something about it are two different things. On this episode Shay and Eli welcome back Aaron Zint to discuss what it looks like to pursue making friends and how to go deep with the right people.If you have questions or would like to connect, please email: mondaynightspodcast@gmail.comSupport the show (https://cash.app/$elileedy)

Sobriety isn't the goal. Sobriety is A goal, but not THE goal. The goal is to live a life worth living. To do great things and find your purpose. We call that Movement. On this episode Shay and Eli discuss what it looks like when men begin to experience freedom and start doing great things.If you have questions or would like to connect, please email: mondaynightspodcast@gmail.comSupport the show (https://cash.app/$elileedy)

On this episode Shay and Eli interview their good friend and leader of our local Monday Nights group, Aaron Zint. Listen and enjoy.If you have questions or would like to connect, please email: mondaynightspodcast@gmail.comSupport the show (https://cash.app/$elileedy)

We don't get better by just reading books or listening to podcasts. Meeting weekly with men who have chosen to be in the trenches with you is where it happens. On this episode Shay and Eli discuss the basics of small group and the importance of having men to meet with weekly.If you have questions or would like to connect, please email: mondaynightspodcast@gmail.comSupport the show (https://cash.app/$elileedy)

It is not good for man to be alone. We are designed to live our lives connected to others. Others challenge, encourage, and add value to our lives. On this episode Shay and Eli discuss the importance of having other men to run with, to confess our sins to, and do build connection with.If you have questions or would like to connect, please email: mondaynightspodcast@gmail.comSupport the show (https://cash.app/$elileedy)

Everything we do on Monday Nights is rooting in the pursuit of sobriety and freedom.On this episode Shay and Eli discuss the importance of sobriety at any cost and some tips and tools to get from stuck to sober-minded.Join us and be ready to feel the pain that comes when you stop numbing.If you have questions or would like to connect, please email: mondaynightspodcast@gmail.comSupport the show (https://cash.app/$elileedy)

The first step to getting better is getting honest and getting current. On this episode Shay and Eli discuss what it looks like to begin sharing the things we swore we would never tell anyone. Transparency is powerful and being known is critical for this journey.If you have questions or would like to connect, please email: mondaynightspodcast@gmail.comSupport the show (https://cash.app/$elileedy)

Welcome to Monday Nights Podcast. Shay and Eli introduce you to who we are and what we're about.If you have questions or would like to connect, please email: mondaynightspodcast@gmail.comSupport the show (https://cash.app/$elileedy)