The Objectify my Love Podcast

In this episode js and I discuss our experience at FetishCon 2023. Spoiler Alert... We had a great time!!! We got to meet and visit with some great vendors and meet some very interesting people. Links to some of the vendors mentioned in this podcast:For some great latex products check out The Latex Store: https://thelatexstore.com/For amazing corsetry check out Dark Garden:  https://www.darkgarden.com/ They also have a store front in San Francisco. If you're into hand made leather products,  hand made knifes and other crafts, check out Fuckery Ensues. They do not have a website but they can be reached on instagram at: @fuckery_ensuesWe will be reaching out to them to purchase a leather apron. The work was amazing. We did not see much kink stuff from them but I cannot stress how cool some of their work was. Glad to be back but what a great time! Thanks for listening and as always you can follow the fun at the following:Twitter:@jssontrou@jssontrousowner@objectifymylove

Well after a few months of absolute craziness your favorite Owner/property couple are back and dusting off the podcasting equipment and getting back into the swing of things. In this episode you will get some insight into our evolution in both thoughts and actions as well as some of our upcoming plans including FetishCon 2023. We hope that you will enjoy our return as much as we did recording it.All in all we had a great time getting back to it, and we promise we will stay on top of content creation in the coming weeks and months. As always you can find us on twitter at the following:@objectifymylove@jssontrou@jssontrousownerThanks for listening, we really appreciate your support. Thanks for listening and as always you can follow the fun at the following:Twitter:@jssontrou@jssontrousowner@objectifymylove

What do we consider extreme??? Well in this episode we discuss our thoughts on what or what is not extreme in the BDSM, D/s or Owner/property realm. Although we don't cover every topic nor do we get too in depth on each, we do share our thoughts on a multitude of subjects regarding extremes. How we are able to move each others opinion's on each by how we feel,  i.e. if I don't think something is extreme, j.s. is less likely to feel that same thing is extreme.It is another fun conversation that hopefully will shed some light on how we move through the Owner/property world. Thanks for listening and as always you can follow the fun at the following:Twitter:@jssontrou@jssontrousowner@objectifymylove

Well, well, well... After a few months of too much work and no play, your favorite Owner/property couple have finally returned. In this episode, js. discusses her latest epiphany, "enjoying and relishing the journey" while her Owner discusses his shortcomings in keeping the relationship moving and developing in the right dynamic. The moral of the story is They're back and thankful to share with you. Thanks for listening and as always you can follow the fun at the following:Twitter:@jssontrou@jssontrousowner@objectifymylove

A look back at the fun and frolic of FetCon 2022. 

In this SEVERELY delayed episode js and I take on listener questions and other banter. We cover topics like locks, "funishment", playing when you have teens around the house, and going on dates. All in all it is just a fun conversation.

Do you have the discipline to listen to us banter about discipline? In this episode we dig into the idea of discipline from the standpoint of having, or creating, the discipline to do what it is we strive for in our relationship (we don't go disciplining js for her infractions, however fun that might be). Discipline is at the heart of what we do together and we look at how we have developed and nurtured the discipline for things such as long-term bondage, pony-play and embracing being an owner. Hopefully you enjoy listening as much as we enjoyed talking about it. We are always looking for feedback as we continue on this journey. Feel free to reach out through the following...Twitter:@objectifymylove@jssontrou@jssontrousownerEmail:jssontrou@gmail.com

In this episode we explore Power Exchanges and our differing definitions of them. We discuss our relationship, the way we practice our power exchange while looking at others to determine what their exchanges might be like. j.s. reads an offer she made to her Owner many years ago that has become the definition of our Total Power Exchange relationship.You can follow us on the following:Twitter:@objectifymylove@jssontrou@jssontrousownerWe look forward to hearing from you. 

Because we have been gone for so long... We are treating you to not one but two episodes in one day!!!  BONUS!!!In this episode js and I discuss our fantasies, how they have evolved, which ones we would like to explore and js's idea that many should not see the light of day. As you would expect I disagree and push to fulfill many of her deepest and darkest fantasies. You will hear both js and I share more intimately than we typically do. There is some tension in the air throughout the conversation, that we both think gives this episode a different but fun vibe. As always please reach out. We love to hear from all of you.jssontrou@gmail.com@jssontrou - Twitter@jssontrousowner - Twitter@objectifymylove - TwitterGlad to be back at it and should be on a more regular schedule moving forward.

We're back!!!We are finally back at it. Sorry for the long delay. All sorts of stuff going on but all good. In this episode js and I explore our affinity for playing in public, both "public public" and "play party public" We share some of our adventures and our thoughts on how to navigate each situation. Public play is something we truly enjoy and hopefully it shows in this episode. Please feel free to reach out to us at:jssontrou@gmail.com@jssontrou - Twitter@jssontrousowner - Twitter

In this episode we discuss our journey and how we came to the Owner/property dynamic and what it means to each of us. We ramble and get off track a few times but all in all; the conversation is fun and gives some insight as to how we see our relationship and how it has developed over the years. As always you can find us on the following:Twitter: @objectifymylove @jssontrou @jssontrousownerEmail: jssontrou@gmail.comWe look forward to hearing from you soon.

Hey everyone... We're finally back. After a few weeks of illness, both of us being sick with "colds" and coughs to the point where there was no way to create a podcast we are back!!!In this episode we take on the discussion of mistakes, sharing our personal experiences and mistakes we've made over the years. js shares one experience where she had pushed and pushed and eventually got what she wanted, only thing is, it wasn't what she wanted. Instead it was a negative experience for both that took weeks to overcome. The discussion continues with a second big mistake where js actually fell over while she was being bound. A huge mistake instigated  because I was in too much of a hurry to get her bound and didn't take her safety into account. It was an incredible learning experience and something that I will never forget. We then take some time to discuss other mistakes we see people make within the community. All in all, it is a informative and interesting discussion. Thanks for listening and being a part of the discussion.As always you can find us on Twitter at:@objectifymylove@jssontrou@jssontrousownerYou can also email us atjssontrou@gmail.com.We are so glad to be back and are looking forward to sharing with all of you on a weekly basis again. 

In this episode we play a little game called "Truth or Truth"...In reality it's just us asking each other questions that neither of us knew were going to be asked. js tries to spice the game up by adding a drinking game. Which turns out to be just js drinking for no other reason than to enjoy. This makes for some fun interaction between her and her OwnerAmong the many questions;  js is asked about her most humiliating sexual experience while The Owner is asked about his experience with Anal play. There are many more questions asked and as js gets loosened up it gets interesting. Hopefully it is as entertaining for you as it was for us to put together. Thanks as always for listening we love the support.You can find us here...Twitter: @objectifymylove@jssontrou@jssontrousowner

Does a Dominant treat a submissive different if they have a loving or caring relationship outside of their BDSM experience? Would a Dominant push someone further if it is a "one-time" encounter? Owner and js try to take this on. Using their years of experience they discuss their thoughts on how a connection that is developed outside of the D/s perspective might influence how hard one might push a submissive. They move further into how their relationship has affected the way Owner goes about getting what he wants from js. Is Owner less strict or does he push less on js because of his love for js? You'll have to listen to find out.As always, we appreciate all your support. We are always looking to hear from all of you. You can reach us at;jssontrou@gmail.comTwitter: @objectifymylove @jssontrou or @jssontrousownerThanks for listening.

Pony Play is on the agenda... js and I took some time this week to explore pony play, using the theme throughout the week in our 24/7 Owner/property relationship. js muses on the week including how much fun she had shopping for pony gear and accessories. She even makes a fun analogy between my role as an owner and a yoga instructor (you'll need to listen to understand).We recap the events of the week, our impressions on what went well and what we could have done better. All of this comes together to make an interesting and fun conversation surrounding our thoughts and experiences with Pony Play. Spoiler alert... js enjoys it very much.In the podcast we discussed a local lingerie shop Livi Rae Lingerie: www.liviraelingerie.comYou can contact us at the following;Twitter: @objectifymylove  @jssontrou  @jssontrousownerEmail: jssontrou@gmail.comAs always we appreciate your support and would love to hear from those of you who take the time to listen each and every week. 

Its all about chastity today. We discuss chastity from a few different angles including some history regarding chastity also debunking a few myths that have circulated for years. Then its time to discuss our history with chastity, where  js exposes why not all chastity belts work; specifically the selection we currently have on hand. We both give our thoughts on chastity both male and female and why we have and interest in exploring further. We  then discuss a our plans to buy a new more realistic chastity belt for js to wear both at home and in public. Here are some links to the sites we discussed:Fancy Steel: https://fancysteel.comAccess Denied: https://www.chastityco.comAs always you can reach us at the following:Twitter: @objectifymylove @jssontrou @jssontrousownerEmail: jssontrou@gmail.com

In this latest episode we discuss traits or attributes that we think are important for either the Dominant or submissive to have. The conversation focuses on what is important to us, and how we might demonstrate these in our relationship.As the conversation develops, there are a few moments we banter quite heavily regarding definitions or importance, but all in all it is a nice representation the traits we have and how those contribute to the success of our relationship (also a nice representation of a little healthy friction between us).We do reference a website that has a lot of information regarding everything BDSM in the podcast; "The BDSM Training Academy". They can be found at the following:Website: www.bdsmtrainingacademy.comTwitter: @BDSMAcademyYou can find us on twitter here:@objectifymylove@jssontrou@jssontrousownerYou can also contact us through email:jssontrou@gmail.comAs always thanks for listening.

My Lover and i discuss (between my giggles) the ways to mark a submissive. Bare handed, flogger, crop, cane, or more permanent markings, and the pleasures they hold (or don't) are discussed. We dive into how each have been applied and my love or distaste for each. It is a fun lighthearted look into our preferences and views on each scenario.If you have any questions, ideas or thoughts on our episodes please reach out via the following:Twitter: @objectifymyloveEmail: jssontrou@gmail.comWe hope you enjoy the conversation.

On this episode of the Objectify my Love Podcast, we look back at a full week of long-term bondage for js. We highlight some of the challenges she was asked to endure while she shares how each of these challenges played in her beautiful mind. Then we move the discussion towards a failure in our journey this past week. We discuss what happened and how we were able to overcome it and move through. We both sincerely hope you enjoy the conversation.If you have any ideas discussions you would like to hear or have any questions please reach out to us directly at one of the following:Twitter: @objectifymyloveEmail: jssontrou@gmail.com

This week we discuss books and movies that influenced our BDSM perspectives. We share our thoughts on some popular books and movies as well as those not so well known or popular. js gives us some insight regarding her earliest movie influences as well as how much she loves movies with a mental push/pull dynamic. It is a spirited discussion that gives much insight into some of the influences that continue to shape our relationship.

This week we explore objectification. What is objectification? How can you objectify someone? js shares some very intimate fantasies involving objectification, one of which she had never shared previously with her Owner. We also go on to discuss the ways Owner enjoys objectifying js as well the ways js likes to be objectified. 

In this episode js and I explore the moment or moments when we realized that we were into BDSM. js shares some stories from listeners who were gracious enough to share. We further discuss our own journey and the additional moments that shaped our views as we continue to explore our own wants needs and desires. 

In this episode js and her Owner discuss rituals in BDSM. They have a discussion regarding the word itself and other words that js thinks are more appropriate. After a brief interaction where they explore some of the "standard" rituals in BDSM, the discussion continues as they share the many rituals they have within their relationship, discussing those that work and those that maybe have not been as successful. The episode concludes with js and her Owner each sharing a ritual that they would like to see more ofter within the confines of their Owner/property dynamic.

In todays episode we explore BDSM Checklists. The types, their value and how we have used them in our relationship to create boundaries and grow trust. We later go through a list (link below) and ask js where she stands on some of the activities. We think it is a fun conversation and hope you do as well. Checklist Link: https://www.scribd.com/document/163631556/BDSM-ChecklistContact us: Twitter: @jssontrou or @jssontrousowner or @objectifymyloveemail: jssontrou@gmail.com

In their first podcast; js and her owner explore collars. The discuss a bit of their history and how they came to be in the BDSM community. They also share feel about them and what they instill within their relationship.