Podcasts about Power exchange

Emotional intelligence and emotional regulation is extremely important for communication and happy, healthy power exchange relationships. In this episode: Join our Patreon during the 2026 Membership Drive What is emotional intelligence? From HelpGuide.org: “your... The post Emotional Intelligence and Power Exchange appeared first on Loving BDSM.

Most people think the death of desire in long-term relationships is inevitable. But what if that's just resignation dressed up as wisdom? In this live episode, Andrew breaks down why Infinite Devotion isn't really about dominance and submission. It's about something much deeper: learning to integrate love and power so you can have both intimacy and intensity in the same relationship. What You'll Learn: The two paths that don't work: power without love, and love without power Why everyone has been hurt by power (and how that wound kills desire) What actually dies when power stops moving in a relationship The protective patterns that make you perform safety instead of risking authenticity Why the work to make a new relationship better is the same work to make this one better How to create a relationship that gets MORE intense over time, not less This isn't about bedroom tricks or negotiating more sex. This is about making the unconscious conscious and bringing power back into love without destroying either one. Resources: Get all of Andrew's free guides, training, and resources at: infinitedevotion.com/free-resources Ready to go deeper? Explore our blog, courses, and coaching at https://InfiniteDevotion.com Follow us on Instagram: https://instagram.com/_InfiniteDevotion Subscribe to our OnlyFans for exclusive content: https://dawnofdesire.net Resources & Next Steps If you're ready to go deeper, explore our courses and offerings: • Rapture — a journey into devotional D/s and erotic embodiment. https://infinitedevotion.com/rapture • Becoming a Dominant Man — Andrew's path for men ready to lead with clarity and integrity. https://infinitedevotion.com/becoming-a-dominant-man • Structuring Your D/s Dynamic — build a relationship structure that actually works for you. https://infinitedevotion.com/structuring-your-ds-dynamic • OnlyFans. Take a look inside our bedroom. https://dawnofdesire.net

Sadly I cannot respond directly to your text, so please Email me!On this one I break down how to communicate about FLR, kink, power exchange, and sexual dynamics in a way that builds connection instead of fear, pressure, or misunderstanding. Whether you're curious about FLR, chastity, BDSM, or simply want to have healthier conversations with your partner, this episode is your starting point.I talk about how to bring up difficult topics, why listening matters more than convincing, how body language and timing affect communication, and why taking sex out of the conversation at first can actually strengthen intimacy. I also explain how skills learned in the kink and FLR communities — consent, boundaries, negotiation, and emotional awareness — apply directly to everyday life, parenting, work, and family relationships.This episode isn't about sex acts. It's about connection, consent, respect, and emotional safety — and why communication is the foundation of every healthy relationship.Topics CoveredHow to communicate about FLR and kink with your partnerTalking about power exchange without pressure or fearWhy listening is more important than speakingActive listening, body language, and emotional awarenessTaking sex out of the conversation to build trustWhy consent and boundaries strengthen relationshipsHow FLR communication skills apply to real lifeBreaking generational shame around sex and intimacyWhy kink is not abuse — and what consent actually meansHow relationships evolve over time through honest communicationKey TakeawayHealthy Female-Led Relationships — and healthy marriages in general — are built on communication, consent, patience, and trust, not sex acts, labels, or performance.Subscribe to Krystine's FLR Podcast for real-life conversations about Female-Led Relationships, communication, consent, and emotional connection — beyond fantasy and judgment.Support the showHelp Support The Show? https://www.krystinekellogg.com/ Email Me! KrystineKellogg@Gmail.com Want to support the podcast and be involved with the behind-the-scenes, including voting on episode topics, as well as tiptoe with me into this whole "coaching" thing. Find my Patreon HERE! Keywords:domestic discipline, female led relationship dynamics, accountability, communication, people pleaser, personal growth, female led relationship challenges, discipline strategies, humor in relationships, shared growth, female led relationship advice, discipline and play, understanding in partnerships, personal anecdotes, physical touch, relationship rules, partnership growth, podcast insights, female-led relationships, submissive rewards, holiday appreciation, partner devotion, relationship dynamics,, control and appreciation, partner confidence, submissive devotion, unique dynamics, balance of control, partner nurturing, relationship empowerment, submissive strength.pegging, female-led relationship, kink, empowerment, dominance, submission, ass play, emotional connection, intimacy, power play, strap-on, control

This is a question we get asked a lot – in this case, it's more about not seeming “obvious” to your children. Here's the question: I grew up in a religious family and while... The post Q&A: How Can We Have a Power Exchange as Parents? appeared first on Loving BDSM.

Send us a textIn this episode, Annie and Mr. A interview Trixie and Rohan, a married couple that engages in Total Power Exchange. It's a pretty intense exercise in trust; listen to them describe it for yourself!Support the showIntro music by Poor Man's Poison. Check them out, they're amazing! Don't forget to check out Annie's erotica on Kindle and Amazon, found under Annie Goodman. You can also find us at Annieandmra.com, on Facebook as Annie Goodman, and Instagram and Twitter (X) as @AnnieandMrA.

WE've said for years that we think friendship needs to be the basis of any power exchange but certainly a long-term relationship. This week we're talking about why it matters and how to build... The post Friendship in Long Term Power Exchange appeared first on Loving BDSM.

In this episode of Kinky Frame of Mind, Don and Syn talk about Christmas and NYE. They then talk about the changes coming to the Podcast. We are excited about the new additions to the Kinky Frame of Mind Family. Then this episode we talk about how long have you been in the lifestyle and what we can or might expect from that answer.  

Happy New Year, to all our kinky friends! Welcome to the first episode of The Weekly Hot Spot for 2026. We're kicking off the year with a topic close to both our hearts: using BDSM and power exchange as powerful tools for personal growth.We explore how the structure, control, and conscious practice inherent in Femdom dynamics create a unique framework for transformation. For example, have you ever considered how sissy training or cock control can build emotional resilience? Or how the communication skills honed in Distance Domination can revolutionize a submissive's life outside of play?We both share real-world stories from our phone sex sessions, revealing how submissives often experience profound growth in non-sexual areas. We discuss the concept of conscious power exchange and why setting intentions is often part of our leadership as sensual Mistresses. This episode is for anyone curious about how submission can be a form of self-mastery – a mental and emotional workout that builds strength, vulnerability, and profound self-awareness.We also flip the script and talk about how our submissives impact us. From creative collaboration to intellectual stimulation, the right dynamic doesn't drain our energy; it amplifies it. It's a true exchange. We even share a beautiful piece of wisdom from a submissive that perfectly captures the growth mindset we champion: "Don't kid yourself, but don't kick yourself."If you're ready to see your kink journey as a path to becoming a better, more intentional person, this episode is your guide. Power exchange dynamics offer a potent and practical framework for evolution, making this the perfect conversation to start your new year. OR, you couldn't just come for the kinky fun! LOLWe want to hear from you! How has submission helped you grow as a person? Share your experiences with us.As mentioned, both Mistresses are available for private sessions. Whether you're seeking a transformative Distance Domination relationship, a strict Femdom session, or some smart, sexy conversation, we'd love to connect. Get in touch and let us focus our undivided attention on you.Olivia@EnchantrixEmpire.com.   BLOG: Experienced MistressErika@EnchantrixEmpire.com.    BLOG: Intelligent Phone FantasyDISCORD: LDWOlivia and LDWErikaHere's to an amazing, growth-filled 2026 for us all!

**Shame doesn't just make you feel bad, it fundamentally shapes how you experience your own body and desires.** Returning guest Dr. Alison Ash breaks down exactly why shame is so destructive to sexual wellness. Unlike guilt (which says you did something wrong), shame tells you that *you yourself* are wrong, creating a deep fear of rejection that literally dysregulates your nervous system. This isn't something we're born with. It develops through early experiences where we internalize negative reactions, eventually becoming that harsh inner critic voice. The contradictory messages are especially confusing: women should look desirable but not actually desire, while men should always be sexually available yet their desire is somehow dangerous. These cultural and religious influences create confusion that conscious rejection alone can't fix. Here's where it gets interesting: empathy is shame's antidote. When someone truly accepts you without judgment, healing becomes possible. (This is why finding sex-positive communities matters so much.) Dr. Aly explains how even BDSM can be healing for trauma survivors through consensual power exchange—reclaiming control over experiences where they previously had none. What if the fantasies or interests that make you feel broken are actually completely normal? Ready to understand the difference between your own feelings and society's expectations? This conversation offers practical strategies for recognizing shame's sources and reclaiming your agency. Estimated Timeline: 00:00:00 - Moving Through Shame and Sexual Wellness 00:02:09 - Guilt vs Shame: Understanding the Inner Critic 00:04:47 - Inner Shame and Sexuality's Cultural Conditioning 00:08:56 - Shame's Impact on Sexual Pleasure and Embodiment 00:10:48 - Shame, Empathy, and Healing Through Connection 00:14:33 - Power Exchange as Healing and Shame Reframing 00:17:43 - Reading Fiction as Healing and Normalization 00:19:14 - Shame Prevents Us From Enjoying Pleasure 00:21:33 - Building Trust Through Gradual Vulnerability 00:26:02 - Understanding Sexual Non-Concordance and Shame 00:28:45 - Unpacking Body Shame Through Conversation 00:32:56 - Lubrication Myths and Sexual Shame 00:35:17 - Being Selective About Who You Share With 00:37:09 - Sex Toys as Tools, Not Shame 00:41:12 - Internet's Role in Community and Identity 00:44:00 - Building Sexual and Emotional Intimacy Skills Dr. Alison Ash, aka Dr. Aly, is a trauma-informed intimacy coach and educator, Stanford University Lecturer, author, and founder of TurnON.love. As a sociologist with a PhD from Stanford, she has a comprehensive understanding of the complex societal challenges that often lead to unsatisfying and disempowering intimate experiences. She designs workshops, courses, and retreats and offers individuals and couples coaching to give others the tools to be able to cultivate and sustain nourishing emotional and sexual intimacy. Dr. Aly invites you to TurnON pleasure, intimacy and love at www.TurnON.love  Sexual and Emotional Intimacy Skills online course on Tues, Jan 27th-Mar 17th We all receive messages about who we are supposed to be, how we ought to feel, and how we should express ourselves, often enforced through shame and disconnection. Featuring 8 classes with a woven balance of science-based data, embodied exploration, and skills development designed to support you in creating, deepening, and sustaining sexual and emotional intimacy in your relationship(s). Recordings available for those who can't attend live or want extra review. Super early bird tickets available now for $200-$400 off! Coaching:   Last but not least, reach out to Dr. Aly for individual, couples, and ENM coaching support!    All links: www.TurnON.love  Sustainable Intimacy Retreat: https://www.turnon.love/sustainable-intimacy-retreat Sustainable Intimacy On Demand Rental: https://www.turnon.love/sustainable-intimacy SEIS course: https://www.turnon.love/sexual-and-emotional-intimacy-skills Coaching: https://www.turnon.love/sex-and-intimacy-coaching

Send us a textEpisode 693: Ruan does erotic fiction improv, spinning a sexy spicy hot story right off the top of her head roleplaying, getting into playing the character of Maria, a new hotwife. Maria is the new hotwife that Harry, her Daddy Dom has gotten her interested in being. Once Maria agrees to trying out the free-use hotwife role, Daddy sets up a party with all of his friends. Maria is very excited and slips on the sheer pink lingerie dress Daddy picked out for her. As she says, "It's like swiss cheese!" There's a perfectly delicious reason for this! Daddy gets a pre-party treat from Maria's mouth. Maria explores her humiliation and free use kinks. Pleasure abounds! But in the end, it's Daddy's turn to reclaim his sub and make her 'his sub' again. Oh the sheer luscious deliciousness!Enjoy this power exchange Dom/sub hotwife story I created right off the top of my head... it's erotic improv sex scene time again--so all you grammar police take a hike! This was live narration and damn did I have fun! Spicy fiction to heat up your ears in a flash! Ge your wife sharing fetish met, kinky vibes! A friends with benefits story, free use party style!Black Friday to Cyber Monday sale on Ruan's site! Get ebooks, signed paperbacks, and audiobooks for 50% OFF! Sale runs from 11/25/25 to 12/2/25 https://payhip.com/RuanWillowBooks$0.99 cents ebooks on sale https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/ninetyninecentsbookssaleshttps://payhip.com/RuanWillowBooks$0.99 books https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/ninetyninecentsbookssales Support the showExclusives https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/subscribeNewsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillowhttps://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliates Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow BeeDee dating app https://beedee.app/?r=ohfuckyeahThe Fantasy Box DATE30 for $30 OFF 1st box https://thefantasybox.sjv.io/c/6250602/2141126/26423

Welcome to the Please Me! Podcast Kink Series, where host Eve leads bold, trauma-informed conversations about sexuality, kink, empowerment, and embodied pleasure. As the number-one ranked sexuality podcast in the USA and worldwide, Please Me! brings listeners into real, raw, and educational discussions designed to close the orgasm gap and dismantle shame. In this episode, Eve sits down with Maeve McBride — a BDSM educator, intuitive top, sexological herbalist, and Executive Director of KinkFest 2025/2026 — to explore the foundations of Intuitive Topping, BDSM roles, and how to develop real-time awareness in kink. Drawing from insights at DomCon and Maeve's influential “Intuitive Topping” class, this episode dives into: The difference between Dom, Sub, Top, Bottom, Switch, and Vers How power exchange works through negotiation, communication, and consent Why intuitive topping is not psychic ability, but pattern recognition and data collection How to read breath, movement, vocalizations, body language, and individualized responses How neurodivergence influences sensation expression and communication Understanding hurt vs. harm and why negotiated pain can be safe What defines a scene — negotiation, safewords, boundaries, aftercare, and follow-up Why kink isn't always sexual, and how sensation play can offer catharsis, emotional release, and embodiment How Eve and Maeve negotiated a real pre-scene demonstration together Why aftercare is essential for both tops and bottoms This conversation brings clarity, depth, and compassion to kink education — offering both beginners and seasoned players a richer understanding of how intuition, safety, and connection shape BDSM. Patreon Bonus Listen to the full-length, uncensored episode on Patreon — including extended kink education, behind-the-scenes insight, and intimate conversations that don't fit into the free version. Access the entire Kink Series for just $10/month  Additional Resources Mentioned: • Shameless Care — Use code PLEASME for $15 off at-home sexual health testing • SDC.com — Use code 37340 for a free trial membership • Donation links for survivors of the recent typhoon and earthquake in the Philippines https://www.worldvision.org/ • Eve's Substack and Patreon communities for Q&A submissions and exclusive content https://pleasemewitheve.substack.com/ http://patreon.com/PleaseMePodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

We visited the Power Exchange in San Francisco and we talk about our experience and what makes this club different from others we have been to. Are you ready to just get down to business without much mingling? Then the Power Exchange is for you. Candice also talks about hearing a noise and turning around to a male part next to her face... oh man, it was quite a night... come take a listen and visit www.theimpulsiveduo.com for more Lifestyle Resources.

On today's show, I discuss the difference between hurt and harm in power exchange. We look at how emotional coercion hides behind consent, how both Doms and subs can cross lines without realizing it, and what recovery looks like after control or manipulation. It's about learning to hold power with care, not fear, because while we can consent to hurt, we cannot consent to harm.Continue the discussion on Fetlife: @Enhanced-MindDon't forget to hit the follow button and rate my show 5 stars so others may find it. What to be on the show or have an idea for an upcoming episode? Email me at TheKinkPerspective@gmail.comFind me on Substack - ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Enhanced-Mind's Substack | Chris C. | Substack⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠If you are looking for a therapist that is knowledgeable about the lifestyle, or just a therapist in general, please feel free to reach out through my website at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://enhanced-mind.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠I have a book out, Tangled Desires: Exploring the Intersection of BDSM and Psychology. Can find it where you purchase most of your ebooks. Print version out now!#BDSM #Psychology #Hurt #Harm

The idea of love maps comes from the Gottman Institute in their studies on relationships, specifically marriage. We wondered if it could be applied to power exchange, too. In this episode: Join us through... The post Love Maps and Power Exchange appeared first on Loving BDSM.

This week's episode is from a question a kinkster sent to us. They wanted to know our take on power exchange, domestic discipline, and trad wives. In this episode: It's the 5th Anniversary sale... The post Power Exchange vs Domestic Discipline vs Trad Wives appeared first on Loving BDSM.

This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast, episode 737,  Dawn answers a question about how to get started in BDSM and all the options that are available …. ……plus, shares a bit about grief and the pros and cons of using AI to create your BDSM scenes….Have you used AI? If so, please share how that went for you….    Links mentioned on the show: Fetlife https://fetlife.com Satyricon https://fetlife.com/SatyriconWI Milwaukee's Naughties https://fetlife.com/events/1901445 MSDB's 24th Annual Biz Baz https://fetlife.com/events/1723842 Naughty Revival https://fetlife.com/events/1745436     Transcript 1:04 Short bit about Submissive Retreat 1:38 Getting started in BDSM 2:49 Books we got started with in BDSM 10:24 Exploritoriums/Tapas 12:41 How to use Fetlife when you are new 16:08 BDSM party vs. Swing party 17:49 Where I'm vending/presenting over the next 2 months 18:45 Grief 23:32 Using AI to create scripts 29:41 AI can be wrong   Enjoy!!! Dawn     Discounted/Free books, kink starter cards, online classes; early access to the show, and more!    https://www.patreon.com/eroticawakening   ***************************************** Fetlife - @erotic_awakening  Instagram - @eroticawakening Youtube - @eroticawakeningpodcast TikTok - @eapodcastdawn Newsletter - www.eroticawakening.com   Discord - https://discord.gg/WQtSM56V39 #powerexchange #polyamory #sacredsexuality #eroticawakeningpodcast #grief #kink #kinkeducation #bdsm #bdsmintro #authoritytransfer #domsub  

This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast, episode 736,  Dawn shares info about a basic toy, blindfolds and reasons people like to use them  …. ……plus, have you heard of ‘Bondage Fairies' and what are your thoughts on only feeling the zing of a soulmate once in your life?    Links mentioned on the show: Bondage Fairies https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bondage_Fairies “Only Zing Once” https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rWXb3mI_p_4 MSDB's 24th Annual Biz Baz https://fetlife.com/events/1723842 Naughty Revival https://fetlife.com/events/1745436       Transcript 1:12 Blindfolds 4:50 Primary processing modes 10:46 Teasing 12:20 Naughty Talk Class 13:43 Role Play - Tentacle Sex Scene 17:32 Where I'll be presenting/vending 19:03 Bondage Fairies 21:28 Contact Info 21:48 Zinging in Transylvania   Enjoy!!! Dawn     Discounted/Free books, kink starter cards, online classes; early access to the show, and more!    https://www.patreon.com/eroticawakening   ***************************************** Fetlife - @eroticawakening  Instagram - @eroticawakening Youtube - @eroticawakeningpodcast TikTok - @eapodcastdawn Newsletter - www.eroticawakening.com   Discord - https://discord.gg/WQtSM56V39 #powerexchange #polyamory #sacredsexuality #eroticawakeningpodcast #blindfold #roleplay #naughtytalk #soulmate #kink #kinkeducation #bdsm #kinkybucketlist #bondagefairies #mangaerotica  

This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast, episode 733, Dawn explains why the show was on hiatus for a couple of months….. ……plus, Dawn_Awakening's giggle is now a new fetish on Fetlife and she makes an appearance on Court TV for a murder+bdsm trial (link to her interview is in patreon), and she brings up a patrons note about there being a new love language….pebbling.    Links mentioned on the show: Dawn_Awakening's giggle      https://fetlife.com/fetishes/1485719 Court TV www.courttv.com Elgin Annual Kink Expo https://fetlife.com/events/1797453 MSDB's 24th Annual Biz Baz https://fetlife.com/events/1723842 Naughty Revival https://fetlife.com/events/1745436     1:54  Why was the show on hiatus?  8:09 Where will Dawn be vending/presenting? 9:46 Court TV appearance 11:15 Dawn_Awakening's Giggle is a fetish 11:50 New Love Language   Enjoy!!! Dan and dawn     Discounts on our books, free eBooks, weekly exclusive content, and support Dan & dawn   https://www.patreon.com/eroticawakening   *****************************************   Find us on YouTube, Discord, Facebook, TikTok; check out our Podcast, our books, calendar, and sign up for our Monthly Newsletter (and get your shoutout on the podcast) on our website!   Fetlife - @eroticawakening  Instagram - @eroticawakening Youtube - @eroticawakeningpodcast TikTok - @eapodcastdawn Newsletter - www.eroticawakening.com   Discord - https://discord.gg/WQtSM56V39  

Want to try some kinky stuff with your partner, but have no idea where to begin? Panelists offer tips for those curious about experimenting with power play, sensation play, and beyond.Plus! Don't miss our Sunday, Oct. 12, 2025, 6pm, SEVENTH ANNIVERSARY SHOW in Chicago. Get tix and more info here!In this episode:Cassie Porter - Somatic sex educator & sexological bodyworkerJason Best - Kink-aware therapist & founder of Best TherapiesPeter Navarro - Sex-positive and somatic-oriented therapistI'm looking for…The rest of this panel convo - S3E6: Fat ShameEpisodes on specific topics - There's a list! This episode's transcript - Read it here.A book on relationships/sexuality - Check out our recs on Bookshop!The Afterglow, our Patreon membership club, brings you regular bonus content, early show alerts, discounts to live shows, and more goodies! Join now to help us continue to spread the message of sex-positivity. Or show your love for Wild & Sublime any time: Leave a tip!Be Wild & Sublime out in the world!  Check out our new tees and accessories. Peep our Limited Collection and let your inner relationship anarchist run free… Support the showFollow Wild & Sublime on Instagram and Facebook!Get tickets to the 7th Anniversary show in Chicago! Oct 12 at 6pm at Lincoln Lodge.Support the showFollow Wild & Sublime on Instagram and Facebook!

Join the SmartSX Membership : ⁠https://sexwithemily.com/smartsx⁠ Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, community building, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse. List & Other Sex With Emily Guides: ⁠https://sexwithemily.com/guides/⁠ Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides. SHOP WITH EMILY!: ⁠https://bit.ly/3rNSNcZ ⁠(free shipping on orders over $99) Want more? Visit the Sex With Emily Website: ⁠https://sexwithemily.com/⁠ In this enlightening episode of Sex with Emily, Dr. Emily welcomes Sarah Sloane, sex and kink educator from the Hashtag Open app, for an essential conversation about consent, sexual communication, and finding partners who truly align with your desires. This episode tackles everything from making consent conversations sexy to navigating ethical porn, kink exploration, and the realities of dating after divorce. Sarah breaks down how to make consent attractive rather than awkward, emphasizing that consent is temporary and can be withdrawn at any time. We explore the "hell yes" versus "hell no" standard for enthusiastic consent and practical ways to slow down sexual encounters for better awareness and communication. The conversation addresses how to teach consent early through body autonomy and why being honest about your boundaries actually makes you more attractive to compatible partners. We dive into listener questions from Matt, who's navigating dating after an abusive marriage with no prior dating experience, and Christi, whose 20-year marriage is strained by concerns about her husband's porn use. Sarah offers guidance on video dating as the pandemic norm, using apps like Hashtag Open for specific interests, and the importance of yes/no/maybe lists for discovering preferences without shame. Timestamps: 00:00 - Introduction & Sarah's Early Life 03:41 - Discovering Kink & Initial Curiosity 07:38 - Power Exchange & Emotional Safety in BDSM 11:59 - Consent, Boundaries & Clear Communication 16:13 - Self-Worth, Validation & Identity 20:46 - Shame, Judgment & Cultural Programming 26:17 - Healing from Trauma Through Play 31:03 - BDSM & Somatics: Embodiment Work 36:42 - Rewriting Scripts Around Pleasure & Worthiness 43:20 - Advice for Beginners & Empowered Exploration

Send us a textWhat happens when kink meets therapy? In this lively conversation, Dr Yulinda Renee Rahman, creator of Therapeutic BDSM™, explains how trauma can be healed when a kink professional, therapist, and client work together.In this episode:Therapist Dr. Yulinda Renee Rahman, creator of Therapeutic BDSM™ and founder of KPSAKink Professionals Standards Alliance (KPSA) Summit, October 25-26Books by Dr. Rahman on AmazonKaren Yates – sex educator and healerWild & SublimeWant more Wild & Sublime? Join The Afterglow for bonus content and Wild & Sublime goodies! Check out our new line of tees and accessories! Be wild & sublime every day! Shipping discounts for orders over $50.They said what? Full episode transcripts are available on our websiteDo you feel stuck? Work with host Karen Yates in Zoom groups and one-on-one as she uses the energy of sound to reduce stress and help repattern behavior. Learn more about Biofield Tuning.Show your love for sex-positive podcasting: Leave a lil' tip!Support the showFollow Wild & Sublime on Instagram and Facebook!

This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast, @dananddawn share a show from their beginning days of the podcast where they interview Mistress Simone from Chicago/St. Louis….. ……plus, they mention a poly blog as well as share what they are up to…….in July of 2009! 16 years ago, what were they up to?    Links mentioned on the show: Mistress Simone (fet)          https://fetlife.com/Chicago-Mistress Mistress Simone (website)   https://chicago-mistress.com/     Enjoy!!! Dan and dawn    *************************** Discounts on our books, free eBooks, weekly exclusive content, and support Dan & dawn   https://www.patreon.com/eroticawakening   *****************************************   Find us on YouTube, Discord, Facebook, TikTok; check out our Podcast, our books, calendar, and sign up for our Monthly Newsletter (and get your shoutout on the podcast) on our website!   Fetlife - @dananddawn  Instagram - @eroticawakening X - @dananddawn Youtube - @eroticawakeningpodcast TikTok - @eadananddawn Newsletter - www.eroticawakening.com

A non-kinky version of “princess treatment” has gone viral recently but when there were comparisons made to power exchange, we decided to learn more. Here's what princess treatment is – according to the original... The post Princess Treatment vs Power Exchange appeared first on Loving BDSM.

This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast, @dananddawn interview Doctor Bubbles and Kit Kat Ann on Forced Praise Kink……  ……plus, they mention a podcast listener that contacted them after reading The Polyamory Toolkit and asked about Poly friendly twelve step meetings ….which lead them into chatting about RITL, Recover in the Lifestyle.  *there is also a content warning on this episode → Content warning— this show includes  mention of suicidal ideation, suicidal action, and self-injurious behaviors. Please take care of yourself and skip this episode if needed   Links mentioned on the show: RITL (Recover in the Lifestyle)  www.ritl.org Doctor Bubbles/Kit Kat Ann         https://fetlife.com/DoctorBubbles Midwest Kink and Leather          https://mwlka.fun/ Naughty Revival https://naughtyrevival.com/ MSDB's 24th Annual Bizarre Bazaar   https://fetlife.com/events/1723842   Enjoy!!! Dan and dawn     Discounts on our books, free eBooks, weekly exclusive content, and support Dan & dawn   https://www.patreon.com/eroticawakening   *****************************************   Find us on YouTube, Discord, Facebook, TikTok; check out our Podcast, our books, calendar, and sign up for our Monthly Newsletter (and get your shoutout on the podcast) on our website!   Fetlife - @dananddawn  Instagram - @eroticawakening X - @dananddawn Youtube - @eroticawakeningpodcast TikTok - @eadananddawn Newsletter - www.eroticawakening.com  

What does it mean to actually be dominant or submissive in sex? Because you told us heaps of people are abusing their preference to be “dominant”, and you're ending up physically, sexually and emotionally hurt. We explore dom/sub dynamics, hearing your stories from how it can be the best sex of your life when done right, but traumatic when done wrong. SHOW NOTES:1800 Respect - 1800 737 732 LifeLine - 13 11 14More info on powerplay and sex: https://www.abc.net.au/triplej/programs/the-sunday-hook-up/power-dynamics-in-sex-top-bottom-dominant-submissive/11996290DM us your thoughts, questions, topics, or to just vent at @triplejthehookup on IG or email us: thehookup@abc.net.auThe Hook Up is an ABC podcast, produced by triple j. It is recorded on the lands of the Wurundjeri people of the Kulin nation. We pay our respects to elders past and present. We acknowledge Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander peoples as the First Australians and Traditional Custodians of the land where we live, work, and learn.

This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast, @dananddawn interview Lucian and Celina Raven on Disability and Relationship Dynamic Negotiations  …….   ……plus, they give some Scissortail shoutouts and share some thoughts on how they believe being part of the BDSM community helped with growing their self-confidence.     Links mentioned on the show: Lucian and Celina   fet = lucianandcelina, daddyanddoll3@gmail.com “How We Feel” App       https://howwefeel.org/ “Waffle” App https://www.wafflejournal.com/ Scissortail https://scissortaillc.com/ Midwest Kink and Leather          https://mwlka.fun/ Naughty Revival https://naughtyrevival.com/   Enjoy!!! Dan and dawn     Discounts on our books, free eBooks, weekly exclusive content, and support Dan & dawn   https://www.patreon.com/eroticawakening   *****************************************   Find us on YouTube, Discord, Facebook, TikTok; check out our Podcast, our books, calendar, and sign up for our Monthly Newsletter (and get your shoutout on the podcast) on our website!   Fetlife - @dananddawn  Instagram - @eroticawakening X - @dananddawn Youtube - @eroticawakeningpodcast TikTok - @eadananddawn Newsletter - www.eroticawakening.com  

#089 “I don't play submissive—I live it. Every day.”

In this Episode of Kinky Fame of Mind, Don and Syn dive into it. Don talks about his trip to Oklahoma Leather Fest and the new dungeon. Syn talks about a trip to Dallas. Then this week's topics is a Facebook post about a guy asking why the lifestyle is not working and how can he do it better. Then Check us out at  Instagram  @kinkyframeofmind • Instagram photos and videos Twitter  (1) kinkyframeofmind (@kinkyfom) / TwitterFullswap Radio Full Swap Radio – Its Not a Mood Its a LifestyleEmail  kinkyfom@gmail.com 

#088 Does Total Power Exchange mean giving up everything—or just giving with intention?✨ Join our free community: https://domsubliving.com/communityWe're answering the top 10 questions we get asked most about TPE, from burnout and boundaries to parenting, protocol, and sex.➡️ Join our free community: https://domsubliving.com/community➡️ Show notes and more: https://domsubliving.com/088

#pastpodcasts #domsub #powerexchange #polyamory #sacredsexuality #eroticawakening #scarletsanctuary #cope #columbusspace #eroticawakeningpodcast #kinkeducation This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast, @dananddawn are looking for a topic for the show and instead get lost down a rabbit hole of past shows and chat about about some random ones…..…..  ……plus, Episode 374 that doesn't have shownotes on the website. EA374 - Not the W. Well, dawn listened to the show again to figure out what the title meant. It meant that we weren't going to talk about the letter ‘W' and what fetish that could be. We planned to do that the following week. Instead, we talk about COPE, Scarlet Sanctuary, Master Sheri's wedding, Moving into our Unicorn Poly house with Karen, Opening the Columbus Space and how our kids will be meeting our poly partners and bat at the house warming party…….plus, they mention Chip the Tentacle Guy ! .      Links mentioned on the show: Scissortail https://scissortaillc.com/ Midwest Kink and Leather          https://mwlka.fun/ Naughty Revival https://naughtyrevival.com/   Enjoy!!! Dan and dawn     Discounts on our books, free eBooks, weekly exclusive content, and support Dan & dawn   https://www.patreon.com/eroticawakening   *****************************************   Find us on YouTube, Discord, Facebook, TikTok; check out our Podcast, our books, calendar, and sign up for our Monthly Newsletter (and get your shoutout on the podcast) on our website!   Fetlife - @dananddawn  Instagram - @eroticawakening X - @dananddawn Youtube - @eroticawakeningpodcast TikTok - @eadananddawn Newsletter - www.eroticawakening.com    

#086 “Do you really live like that every day?” In this episode, we're sharing a special interview from the Kink Your Way podcast with Leann Herron. We talk about BDSM as a lifestyle, growing a kink business, breaking shame, and what it's really like behind the scenes.➡️ Check out 'Kink Your Way': https://kinkyourway.com➡️ Explore our online courses: https://domsubliving.com/courses/

On today's episode, I discuss how resentment takes root in power exchange relationships and why it often goes unnoticed until real damage is done. I explore the emotional cost of silence, how forgiveness gets misused, and why avoiding conflict can slowly erode trust and connection. This is a conversation about clarity over comfort, and what it really takes to keep a dynamic emotionally honest and sustainable.Continue the discussion on Fetlife: @Enhanced-MindDon't forget to hit the follow button and rate my show 5 stars so others may find it. What to be on the show or have an idea for an upcoming episode? Email me at TheKinkPerspective@gmail.comFind me on Substack - ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Enhanced-Mind's Substack | Chris C. | Substack⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠If you are looking for a therapist that is knowledgeable about the lifestyle, or just a therapist in general, please feel free to reach out through my website at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://enhanced-mind.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠I have a book out, Tangled Desires: Exploring the Intersection of BDSM and Psychology. Can find it where you purchase most of your ebooks. Print version out now!#BDSM #Psychology #Resentment #Silence

In this raw, revealing, and richly layered conversation, Andrew welcomes writer, speaker, and feminine guide Ginger Kern to the Dom Sub Devotion podcast. What unfolds is not just a dialogue—but a masterclass in embodied polarity, truth, desire, and what it really takes to create sacred union. Together, they dive into: • The difference between performative desire and embodied eros • Why truth—not integrity—is the highest value in a power exchange relationship • How men and women both must submit to something greater to be truly free • The journey of a woman learning to trust her voice, her body, and her desires • What it feels like to be in the presence of a man who is aligned with truth • The trap of the “Hungry Mind” and why embodiment—not more knowledge—is the portal to change • Conditional vs. unconditional love in the context of devotion, polarity, and human relationship • The erotic, energetic, and existential responsibility of being fully in your human experience Ginger brings nuance, reverence, and fierce clarity to what it means to be a vessel for life, love, and truth. Andrew challenges listeners—especially men—to claim their full power not through force, but through unwavering alignment. This episode is for you if: → You're tired of trying to “do” submission or Dominance and want to live it → You've felt the call to union—but haven't known how to embody it → You crave truth, depth, and integrity in love, sex, and self-leadership → You're ready to go beyond the surface and hear what devotion actually demands ⸻ Ginger Kern is a writer, mentor, and guide for women on the path of the devotional feminine. She is the root of Mythic Feminine, an ecosystem supporting women in soul nourishment & Union with men. Her work supports women in restoring sovereignty, soulfulness, and full-range embodiment of Truth in service of Life. Links: @mythic.feminine on Instagram Soul Sanctuary membership community for women Free resources & newsletter signup Cathedral of Love Masterclass ~~~ Becoming a Dominant Man is Andrew's flagship course for Dominant Men. Becoming a Dominant Man leads men through a 12 step process, the 12 Steps to Dominance, to claim full ownership of their lives and their inner strength, so that they can carry a loving strength, true Dominance, into their lives and relationships. Becoming a Dominant Man is a pre-recorded course that men can work through on their own time, but also includes live weekly instruction and Q&A with Andrew at no extra cost. Learn more about Becoming a Dominant Man at https://infinitedevotion.com/becoming-a-dominant-man Rules, Rituals, and Contracts for a loving D/s Dynamic. Check out Structuring Your DS Dynamic, our course that walks you through the process of setting up your D/s dynamic for success, using the same process that Andrew uses. No more basic templates, or trying to squeeze your real life into someone else's contract. This course walks you, step by step, through deep conversations, then helps you to establish rules, rituals, tasks, and eventually a full contract, that is fully YOURS and built to evolve with you over time. Learn more at https://infinitedevotion.com/structuring-your-ds-dynamic Our newest course for submissive women is available NOW. Submissive Foundations teaches women how to embody submission from a healthy emotional inner strength, with your self respect fully intact. Click the link to learn more! https://infinitedevotion.com/submissive-foundations Social Links: Instagram: https://instagram.com/_infinitedevotion YouTube: https://instagram.com/@infinitedevotion Facebook: https://facebook.com/domsubdevotion Coaching: You can learn more about working with us in 1-1 coaching and our various workshops, courses, and programs at https://infinitedevotion.com/store Free Resources: FREE: The 12 Steps to Dominance: A free ebook showing men how to embody a healthy, loving Dominance. Download here: https://www.infinitedevotion.com/12-steps-to-dominance FREE: Inspiring Her Submission Masterclass: A deep dive on how to inspire any woman to submit and surrender to you. Watch here: https://infinitedevotion.com/dominance-masterclass FREE: Devotional Dominance & Submission: A free ebook showing you how D/s dynamics and loving long term relationships work hand in hand. https://infinitedevotion.com/devotional-ds FREE: Get Dawn's Manifesto: The Self Respecting Submissive Woman. Click here to download it now! https://www.infinitedevotion.com/self-respecting-submissive-woman

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This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast, @dananddawn check out reddit and answer some general BDSM questions …..  ……plus, they share a nugget they learned at a class at Kinky Kollege about enthusiastic consent that helps dawn figure out her resistance to it and they share a bit about their discord channel offerings ….plus ….cartoon porn! .     Links mentioned on the show: Kinky Kollege (Chicago, IL) https://kinkykollege.com/ Reddit www.reddit.com   Enjoy!!! Dan and dawn     Discounts on our books, free eBooks, weekly exclusive content, and support Dan & dawn   https://www.patreon.com/eroticawakening   *****************************************   Find us on YouTube, Discord, Facebook, TikTok; check out our Podcast, our books, calendar, and sign up for our Monthly Newsletter (and get your shoutout on the podcast) on our website!   Fetlife - @dananddawn  Instagram - @eroticawakening X - @dananddawn Youtube - @eroticawakeningpodcast TikTok - @eadananddawn Newsletter - www.eroticawakening.com  

This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast, @dananddawn have a question from a podcast listener about cold feet in polyamory…..  ……plus, they share a little of their thoughts on blindfolds and share a little about their time presenting at Kinky Kollege in Chicago..     Links mentioned on the show: Kinky Kollege (Chicago, IL) https://kinkykollege.com/     Enjoy!!! Dan and dawn     Discounts on our books, free eBooks, weekly exclusive content, and support Dan & dawn   https://www.patreon.com/eroticawakening   *****************************************   Find us on YouTube, Discord, Facebook, TikTok; check out our Podcast, our books, calendar, and sign up for our Monthly Newsletter (and get your shoutout on the podcast) on our website!   Fetlife - @dananddawn  Instagram - @eroticawakening X - @dananddawn Youtube - @eroticawakeningpodcast TikTok - @eadananddawn www.eroticawakening.com  

This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast, @dananddawn share the edited version of a class they taught for an online group last week….. Advanced Polyamory - Balancing NRE and MRE  ……plus, they share a little about their time at Kinky Kollege in Chicago.     Links mentioned on the show: Kinky Kollege (Chicago, IL) https://kinkykollege.com/     Enjoy!!! Dan and dawn     Discounts on our books, free eBooks, weekly exclusive content, and support Dan & dawn   https://www.patreon.com/eroticawakening   *****************************************   Find us on YouTube, Discord, Facebook, TikTok; check out our Podcast, our books, calendar, and sign up for our Monthly Newsletter (and get your shoutout on the podcast) on our website!   Fetlife - @dananddawn  Instagram - @eroticawakening X - @dananddawn Youtube - @eroticawakeningpodcast TikTok - @eadananddawn www.eroticawakening.com

Sadly I cannot respond directly to your text, so please Email me!Let's talk about spanking—again. But this time, I'm coming at it from a totally new angle that honestly blew my mind a little.In this episode, I'm digging into the idea of spanking as therapy (yes, you read that right). A recent conversation with my camp bestie got me thinking, and then I stumbled across a 2020 article that laid it all out—turns out, spanking can do a hell of a lot more than just sting. It can actually help you reconnect, release stress, and even heal.

Thanks to multiple questions we received in a previous “ask us anything” episode, we're devoting an entire episode to 24/7 D/s and total power exchange – are they the same thing or not? As... The post 24/7 D/s and Total Power Exchange appeared first on Loving BDSM.

This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast, @dananddawn share their thoughts on BDSM after 50   ……plus, their time at Intrigue in Indianapolis.    Links mentioned on the show: Kinky Kollege (Chicago, IL) https://kinkykollege.com/ Scissortail Leather Conference https://scissortaillc.com/   Enjoy!!! Dan and dawn     Discounts on our books, free eBooks, weekly exclusive content, and support Dan & dawn   https://www.patreon.com/eroticawakening   *****************************************   Find us on YouTube, Discord, Facebook, TikTok; check out our Podcast, our books, calendar, and sign up for our Monthly Newsletter!   Fetlife - @dananddawn  Instagram - @eroticawakening X - @dananddawn Youtube - @eroticawakeningpodcast TikTok - @eadananddawn www.eroticawakening.com

This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast, @dananddawn celebrate 24 years collared  ……plus, they share a bit about what their future holds.    Links mentioned on the show: Lead Follow Love www.leadfollowlove.com Living M/s www.eroticawakening.com/books Intrigue (Indianapolis, IN) https://imasindy.com/Intrigue/ Kinky Kollege (Chicago, IL) https://kinkykollege.com/ Scissortail Leather Conference https://scissortaillc.com/   Enjoy!!! Dan and dawn     Discounts on our books, free eBooks, weekly exclusive content, and support Dan & dawn   https://www.patreon.com/eroticawakening   *****************************************   Find us on YouTube, Discord, Facebook, TikTok; check out our Podcast, our books, calendar, and sign up for our Monthly Newsletter!   Fetlife - @dananddawn  Instagram - @eroticawakening X - @dananddawn Youtube - @eroticawakeningpodcast TikTok - @eadananddawn www.eroticawakening.com

Perimenopause can impact a person's life for a decade or more, so of course it affects your power exchange relationship and kink life. And it's past time to talk about it. In this episode:... The post Perimenopause and Power Exchange appeared first on Loving BDSM.

This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast, @dananddawn celebrate 16 years of podcasting and  review some of the changes that have happened with them over the last year (part 2)…… ……plus, they share a bit about what their future holds.    Links mentioned on the show: Lead Follow Love www.leadfollowlove.com Living M/s www.eroticawakening.com/books Intrigue (Indianapolis, IN) https://imasindy.com/Intrigue/ Kinky Kollege https://kinkykollege.com/ Scissortail Leather Conference https://scissortaillc.com/   Enjoy!!! Dan and dawn     Discounts on our books, free eBooks, weekly exclusive content, and support Dan & dawn   https://www.patreon.com/eroticawakening   *****************************************   Find us on YouTube, Discord, Facebook, TikTok; check out our Podcast, our books, calendar, and sign up for our Monthly Newsletter!   Fetlife - @dananddawn  Instagram - @eroticawakening X - @dananddawn Youtube - @eroticawakeningpodcast TikTok - @eadananddawn www.eroticawakening.com  

One Dominant partner, one submissive, and a whole lot of spicy fun. Domina Mara and her pup, and Eireann Shells and her partner, engage in kinky D/s play in very different ways. Learn how Mara and her pup delight in their Dominant/butler-like relationship, and how Eireann cultivated a 24/7 power exchange dynamic with her crossdressing Daddy.   Eireann's sexy stories: The Adventures of Waverly Goode on Amazon  Best Women's Erotica, Volume 10, most anywhere books are sold   More from Miss Mara: https://www.dominamara.com/ IG and Twitter: @maradomina    Check out the latest specials at thepleasurechest.com! And explore their Earth Gift Guide. IG: @GirlBonerMedia   FB: @MyGirlBoner  TT:: @GirlBonerRadio  augustmclaughlin.com/girlboner    patreon.com/girlboner   Get free shipping at Crave! Elegant, woman-designed jewelry and toys: https://lovecrave.com/products/vesper2?bg_ref=UAgjcRRV14   Girl Boner Radio is hosted and produced by August McLaughlin.

What if you could get to know your power intimately, and so get to know your whole self? What if you could use your story to have the life, pleasure, and relationships you want? Check out our chat with the incomparable Mollena Williams-Haas, Kink Doula, writer, performer, and podcast host. Listen to her share some of her story of power exchange and authenticity with you. ⁠Click here for the Kink Doula⁠ - Sign up for Mollena's mailing list - there's a free class available when you sign up. ⁠Click here to listen to Mollena⁠'s podcast All That and Mo⁠ (you'll be glad you did) JOIN The Year of Opening community for a full year of learning & support. Registration is open now at ⁠⁠⁠www.TheYearOfOpening.com⁠⁠⁠ Learn the ⁠5 secrets to open your relationship the smart way⁠ Are you ready to open your relationship happily? Find out at ⁠www.JoliQuiz.com⁠ Get the answers you want to create the open relationship of your dreams! ⁠Sign up for an Ask Me Anything here⁠ Music: Dance of Felt by ⁠⁠Blue Dot Sessions

You'll hear the audio skip during the intro – it was a problem we discovered after we recorded. The rest of the episode should be fine. They've renegotiated their power exchange and removed punishment,... The post Q&A: Is Punishment a Necessary Part of Power Exchange? appeared first on Loving BDSM.

This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast, @dananddawn celebrate 16 years of podcasting and  review some of the changes that have happened with them over the last year…… ……plus, they share a bit about what their future holds.    Links mentioned on the show: The Polyamory Toolkit by Dan and dawn www.polyamorytoolkit.com Intrigue (Indianapolis, IN) https://imasindy.com/Intrigue/ Kinky Kollege https://kinkykollege.com/ Scissortail Leather Conference https://scissortaillc.com/   Enjoy!!! Dan and dawn     Discounts on our books, free eBooks, weekly exclusive content, and support Dan & dawn   https://www.patreon.com/eroticawakening   *****************************************   Find us on YouTube, Discord, Facebook, TikTok; check out our Podcast, our books, calendar, and sign up for our Monthly Newsletter!   Fetlife - @dananddawn  Instagram - @eroticawakening X - @dananddawn Youtube - @eroticawakeningpodcast TikTok - @eadananddawn www.eroticawakening.com

We know not everyone has time to go back and listen to all the podcasts over the last 15+ years. So, we reached deep into the archives and pulled this one out by its ears. We hope you enjoy it! *************************** Sep 14, 2011 On this weeks episode, Dan & dawn return from COPE and share the keynote speech by Raven Kaldera!  They answer the question of the day (and is there an argument brewing?) about how does it reflect on the Dom/sub when they attend a munch alone? And a bonus QOTD - how to approach people who are wearing collars.  Plus - Suzy showed up. Thank you to the generous donations of podcast listeners, COPE attendees, and a generous matching contribution from Beyond Leather, we raised $500 for SARNCO! Big thanks to Barak & Sheba for helping/letting/pushing this to happen And dawn goes double teamed, EA goes live, we get Mo, and a (other than George) guest joins us.  Bandwidth is provided by Anconeus and Badbunny! Yay for random donations :)  

We needed something lighthearted this week, so we're taking a look at some of the silly little “arguments” we get into. In this episode: Our 2025 Patreon Membership Drive is still going on! Argument... The post Silly Conflicts in Our Power Exchange appeared first on Loving BDSM.

Obedience is a necessary part of submission, but it's not experienced the same by all submissives – or their Dominant partners. In this episode: Patreon Membership Drive is still going on! Definition of obedience:... The post Obedience in Power Exchange appeared first on Loving BDSM.