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Very few men think of relationships in the frame of the “sexual marketplace,” although the rules and principles of attraction and connection can very much be understood as an economic model, of sorts, of perceived value. And, the man who offers the most perceived value, is the man who gets the girl. Whether you're married or single, understanding the intricacies and nuance of what makes a man attractive to a woman will help him get more of what he wants from her. My guest today, psychologist Orion Taraban joins me to discuss these dynamics between men and women so we all get more of what we're after in relationships. We cover the importance of knowing your value and knowing what is valuable to the opposite sex, why love has little or nothing to do with attraction, what is known as the “Madonna-Whore Complex,” the concepts of Captains and Passengers as it relates to dating and mating, the difference between talking and communicating, and how best to make yourself more attractive. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 - Introduction to Captain and Passenger Roles 00:30 - Orion Taraban's Background and Book Success 01:30 - The Role of YouTube in Building an Audience 03:24 - Orion's Communication Style and Credentials 07:04 - The Captain and Passenger Metaphor 11:33 - Prerogatives of the Captain 12:23 - Liabilities of Female Captaincy 15:29 - Sexual Marketplace Dynamics 18:38 - Love and Relationships 20:15 - Male Sexuality and Objectification 26:16 - Attraction and the “Bad Boy” Myth 28:12 - The Two Women Concept 32:21 - Communication vs. Talking in Relationships 37:24 - Self-Knowledge and Attraction 41:14 - Double Standards in the Sexual Marketplace 47:20 - Body Count and Sexual Novelty 51:17 - The Coolidge Effect and Male Drive 56:13 - Monogamy and Historical Context 59:54 - Relationships as Economic Transactions 1:03:36 - Marriage as a Business Partnership 1:09:48 - What Women Want in Men 1:16:01 - Standing Out in the Sexual Marketplace 1:23:12 - Where to Connect with Orion
In this Wednesday Night Public Dharma Talk, resident practitioner Hunt Anshin Hoffman offers his first Dharma talk relating to his path and relationship with practice (way seeking mind talk). Anshin begins by invoking the […]
Most men don't realize what porn is actually costing them… until it's already showing up in their sex life, motivation, or relationships. *(And, you're not alone, I struggled with this too). I highly recommend listening if you've EVER questioned your use of or relationship with porn...
Welcome to the eighteenth episode of season 7 of the TFTuesday Podcast!In this episode, DoggoDraws stops by to chat with us about his fascination with inanimate transformations. The crew chats about the types of objects he likes to turn people into, his penchant for rubber transformations layered on top, and a bit of a discussion around shrinking/micro too!- - -A podcast for all your TF-ey needs! Featuring in-depth discussions amongst longtime TF artists.The TFTuesday podcast focuses on transformation, mainly in the niche of the furry community.Content warning: This podcast occasionally touches on NSFW topics.Support us on Patreon! https://www.patreon.com/tftuesdaypodTwitter: https://twitter.com/TFTuesdayPodSpotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/1cYhqNGb4033ucISNdxaIkApple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/tftuesday-podcast/id1599438910 - - -Featuring DoggoDraws: BlueSky - https://bsky.app/profile/doggodraws.bsky.socialTelegram - https://t.me/doggodrawsHosted by Zil: BlueSky - https://bsky.app/profile/zilepo.bsky.socialFuraffinity - https://www.furaffinity.net/user/zilepo/Twitter - https://twitter.com/Zilepo_OpelizCo-hosted by K-Libra: BlueSky - https://bsky.app/profile/k-libra.bsky.socialFuraffinity - https://www.furaffinity.net/user/k-libra/Twitter - https://twitter.com/The_K_LibraArt by HoneyBear & K-Libra: https://bsky.app/profile/honey-bear.bsky.social & https://bsky.app/profile/k-libra.bsky.social- - -The music used for the intro and outro is [Ambient soundscape with drums by Erokia]; Sounds provided by Erokia/Jordan Powell from Freesound.org
Shame and stigma are used to keep us in line and keep us quiet. Some of it is quite obvious, while other parts of the shame and stigma are more subtle and a little harder to recognise. From girlhood, we are taught that we should look and feel a certain way. The expectations of motherhood, our careers, our bodies, whether or not we should choose marriage are all laced with taboos. Today’s guest is Dr Jessica Zucker. Jessica is a clinical psychologist with a PhD who specialises in reproductive health and the author of the award-winning book I HAD A MISCARRIAGE: A Memoir, a Movement. Today we are going to unpack some of the concepts of her second book titled Normalize it: Upending the Silence, Stigma and Shame That Shape Women’s Lives. We speak about: Jessica’s own miscarriage and how women tend to blame themselves when they experience miscarriage Being told to keep pregnancy a secret until 2nd trimester & how it can leave women feeling unsupported The trifecta of silence, shame and stigma and how they all feed each other “At least” comments and how they try to ‘tidy up’ pain Objectification theory Navigating diet culture and health messaging with our kids The language we use when it comes to health and conditions like cancer of ‘beating it,’ ‘be strong’ and ‘fighting’ Perfectionism and it’s link to anxiety The narratives of what we ‘should’ want to be like married and mothers You can get a copy of Dr Jessica Zucker’s new book here: Amazon Find her on Instagram: @ihadamiscarriage And more from her website: drjessicazucker.com You can watch us on Youtube Find us on Instagram Join us on tiktok Or join the Facebook Discussion Group Tell your mum, tell your dad, tell your dog, tell your friend and share the love because WE LOVE LOVE! XxSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
In this second of two episodes, Savannah and Julie continue to discuss the same topic! After the March excitement of the 2025 Keystone Conference in Harrisburg, Pennsylvania, our cohosts delve deeper into a question that was brought up during Savannah's workshop, "Why might a cis-gender female partner think that their crossdressing counterpart is objectifying womanhood and femininity when they dress up as a female"?-----SAVANNAH HAUK is the author of “Living with Crossdressing: Defining a New Normal” and “Living with Crossdressing: Discovering your True Identity“. While both focus on the male-to-female (mtf) crossdresser, “Defining a New Normal” delves into crossdressing and relationships and “Discovering Your True Identity” looks at the individual crossdressing journey. Her latest achievements are two TEDx Talks, one entitled "Demystifying the Crossdressing Experience" and the other "13 Milliseconds: First Impressions of Gender Expression". Savannah is a male-to-female dual-gender crossdresser who is visible in the Upstate of South Carolina, active in local groups and advocating as a public speaker at LGBTQ+ conferences and workshops across the United States. At the moment, Savannah is working on more books, blogs, and projects focused on letting every crossdresser–young and mature–find their own confidence, expression, identity and voice.IG @savannahhauk | FB @savannahhauk | FB @livingwithcrossdressing | web @livingwithcrossdressing.com------JULIE RUBENSTEIN is a dedicated ally to transgender community and the certified image consultant and co-owner of Fox and Hanger. F&H is a unique service for transgender women and male-to-female crossdressers that creates customized virtual fashion and style “lookbooks”. Julie intuitively connects with each client to find them appropriate clothes, makeup, hair, and shape wear all in alignment with their budget, body type, authentic style and unique personality. Julie also provides enfemme coaching and wardrobe support. Julie has made it her life's work to help MTF individuals feel safe and confident when it comes to their female persona, expression and identity.IG @Juliemtfstyle | FB @foxandhanger | web @FoxandHanger.com
In this episode, Savannah and Julie want to discuss the same topic! After the March excitement of the 2025 Keystone Conference in Harrisburg, Pennsylvania, our cohosts delve deeper into a question that was brought up during Savannah's workshop, "Why might a cis-gender female partner think that their crossdressing counterpart is objectifying womanhood and femininity when they dress up as a female"?-----SAVANNAH HAUK is the author of “Living with Crossdressing: Defining a New Normal” and “Living with Crossdressing: Discovering your True Identity“. While both focus on the male-to-female (mtf) crossdresser, “Defining a New Normal” delves into crossdressing and relationships and “Discovering Your True Identity” looks at the individual crossdressing journey. Her latest achievements are two TEDx Talks, one entitled "Demystifying the Crossdressing Experience" and the other "13 Milliseconds: First Impressions of Gender Expression". Savannah is a male-to-female dual-gender crossdresser who is visible in the Upstate of South Carolina, active in local groups and advocating as a public speaker at LGBTQ+ conferences and workshops across the United States. At the moment, Savannah is working on more books, blogs, and projects focused on letting every crossdresser–young and mature–find their own confidence, expression, identity and voice.IG @savannahhauk | FB @savannahhauk | FB @livingwithcrossdressing | web @livingwithcrossdressing.com------JULIE RUBENSTEIN is a dedicated ally to transgender community and the certified image consultant and co-owner of Fox and Hanger. F&H is a unique service for transgender women and male-to-female crossdressers that creates customized virtual fashion and style “lookbooks”. Julie intuitively connects with each client to find them appropriate clothes, makeup, hair, and shape wear all in alignment with their budget, body type, authentic style and unique personality. Julie also provides enfemme coaching and wardrobe support. Julie has made it her life's work to help MTF individuals feel safe and confident when it comes to their female persona, expression and identity.IG @Juliemtfstyle | FB @foxandhanger | web @FoxandHanger.com
In this powerful episode, I sit down with Zach Blakeney, a heart-centered leadership guide, to explore healing from porn addiction, redefining love, and embracing self-worth. Zach shares his deeply personal journey of overcoming his porn addiction and how others can too. We dive into:✨ The biochemical and psychological effects of porn addiction✨ How addiction impacts relationships and self-perception✨ Reaching suicidal thoughts & a huge relationship challenge from his porn usage ✨ Practical steps for breaking free from unhealthy cycles✨ How partners can support each other without shame✨ The role of community and kindness in healingGolden Nuggets From This Episode:✨ Remembering Our True Nature: Love – His journey taught him that at our core, we are love, and the work is simply remembering that truth.✨ The Darkest Moments: Facing Suicidal Thoughts – For the first time, he encountered suicidal ideation—an experience that reshaped his understanding of mental health.✨ The Observer Within: Who's Really Listening? – If you are the one thinking and speaking, who is the silent observer hearing those thoughts?✨ Pornography as a Toxic Relationship – He calls porn a mistress because it becomes an unhealthy, addictive relationship that distorts intimacy.✨ Shame's Shadow: Hiding as a Symptom – When we hide parts of ourselves, it's often a sign of deep-seated shame that needs healing.✨ Compassion Over Blame – When you see someone's toxic behavior as a sickness rather than a personal attack, you stop taking responsibility for their actions.✨ The Truth About Relapses – The idea of a relapse is an illusion; every step, even setbacks, is part of the healing journey.Connect More with :IG: @zackblakeneyWebsite:1-on-1 Coaching Service: https://heartleduniversity.com/programFree Offer: Free Guided Meditations: https://soundcloud.com/zack-823972074/sets/guided-meditations?si=64bdb1b467a246d4b8b2b34e09d72e9e&utm_source=clipboard&utm_medium=text&utm_campaign=social_sharingMore Lexy from Heart Snuggles:Holding Heartache Masterclass Sign Up: https://prosperous.alivetoenjoy.com/public/form/view/657833820e43ca003a7f3749 Email: lexy@alivetoenjoy.comDating + Relationship Coaching - https://iamlexydavis.com/Instagram: Alivetoenjoy & Heart SnugglesTimestamps from episode:00:00 - Introduction to Heart Snuggles01:07 - Guest Introduction: Zach Blakeney03:22 - Lessons on Love from the Past04:47 - Zach's Personal Journey05:57 - Confronting Addiction: The Turning Point10:00 - The Impact of Addiction on Relationships12:04 - Understanding Biochemical Effects of Pornography18:15 - Dopamine vs. Oxytocin: The Science of Addiction20:07 - Navigating Fetishes and Fantasies21:35 - The Importance of Semen Retention24:42 - Recognizing the Effects of Porn on Life28:13 - Holding Heartache Podcast Ad30:24 - Objectification of Women and Its Consequences32:30 - Tools for Overcoming Porn Addiction35:10 - Relapse and Responsibility39:15 - Cultural Attitudes Towards Sex and Porn40:08 - Supporting a Partner with Addiction45:31 - Zach's Heart-Centered Work and Forgiveness
Send us a textEp 595: The Healing Power of Smut, Part 5: Exploring Dark and Taboo Themes in Fiction Can Be Healing For Women with author Stephani Del Rey. Exploring the Empowering Side of Dark Sexual Fantasies.Overall, the discussion explores the nuances of dark/taboo subgenres and the importance of reframing the narratives around them. About Stephani Del Rey: Stephani Del Rey loves to write about sexy, independent women who know what they want - especially if it involves being taught a lesson by a LOT of hot, dominant men! She writes MMFM/ gangbang/ reverse harem erotica that features sharing, degradation, erotic humiliation, spanking, light bondage and plenty of edging and dirty talk. Her mission is to deliver on that female submission kink while keeping it fun, trashy and empowering. She lives in the UK, where she dreams of one day having a walk-in wardrobe for her lingerie.Mailing list and get a free book: http://eepurl.com/h_VHrDhttps://www.amazon.com/stores/Stephani-Del-Rey/author/B0BGYQ7JH6Shared by the Special Forces An MMFM Humiliation Story (affiliate link) https://amzn.to/42HTFzOSummary:Journey into the complex world of erotic storytelling with UK-based author Stephanie Del Rey, who crafts tales of strong women exploring their submission fantasies. This fascinating discussion delves into how erotic fiction serves as a powerful tool for processing trauma, challenging cultural norms, and reclaiming female sexual agency.The conversation explores controversial themes including the "male gaze," consensual non-consent, and the healing potential of taboo fantasies. Del Rey shares personal insights about how her own experiences shaped her writing, particularly in creating stories where female characters find empowerment through their sexuality while being cherished by protective, dominant partners.Topics: Primal Desires and Submission, Reclaiming Sexuality Through Erotic Fiction, The Objectification of Women in Media and Culture, Empowering Women's Sexuality and Consent, Exploring the Origins and Acceptance of Kinks, Empowering Female Sexuality in Erotica, Exploring Female Sexuality Through Fiction, Exploring Nuanced Perspectives on Kink and Gender, The Appeal of Dominant-Submissive Dynamics and also Humiliation and Degradation Kinks, Navigating Censorship in the Digital Age, The Precarious Nature of Online Content Creation, Reclaiming/redefining the Gangb**g and asking for it: Celebrating Female PleasureKey Takeaways: • Reclaiming terms like "asking for it" can empower women to explore their desires safely through fantasy, rather than feeling shame.• Fiction allows women to confront their fears around violence and vulnerability, processing these experiences in a controlled setting.• Exploring taboo themes in a fictional context can have a healing potential for women.Support the showSubscribe for exclusives: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/subscribeSign up for Ruan's newsletters: https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillowhttps://linktr.ee/RuanWillowI Dare You book https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/idareyouthesaturdaysexchallenge NO AI TRAINING
The DSP welcomes their first guest of the year, skin activist Neicey, who sits down to discuss: Motivational Music (5:55), Thrill Fest (11:40), Toxic Healthy Relationships (19:20), Natures Blessing (43:23), Online Communication (1:04:25), Objectification (1:11:25), Work Wife (1:21:11), and much, much more… Host: Rhys - Twitter: @Raw_like_me - Instagram: Rawlikeme, Mark Brown - Twitter: @Mister2Drink - Instagram: Mister2Drink - Kaydia - Instagram: @kay.veronica.fennella - Twitter: @KSmall91 - MrOh - Twitter: @MrOhYes, Neicey - Instagram: @niecey_v - TikTok: @niecey_v Websites https://differentstrokespodcast.onpodium.com/ https://open.spotify.com/playlist/3xgxN3WbPiUEPTMWxvopKV?si=fCpm_fQXRFCYRCQo8jZETg https://www.tiktok.com/@differentsrokespod https://markanthonyphotography.online/ https://misterohyes.wixsite.com/mroh
Interested in more content from RENEW? Sign up for our newsletter: https://renew.org/resources/newsletter-sign-up/ Today's episode will help us explore the significance of embracing a theological approach to ministry over a utilitarian mindset, fostering a deeper connection with God and individuals we serve. Shifting from Utility to Theology: Deepening Ministry with Personal Connections In this session, we delve into the thought-provoking ideas of theologian Christos Janaras, exploring how Western culture's current pursuit of utility over truth impacts our churches and lives. We advocate for a theological approach to ministry focused on truth and personal connections, rather than utilitarian tactics. Through historical context, personal anecdotes, and a critique of modern ministry models, this video aims to inspire a shift towards a more meaningful and person-centered ministry. Join us to understand the profound importance of connecting deeply with God and others in a true ministry of love. Get our Premium podcast feed featuring all the breakout sessions from the RENEW gathering early. https://reallifetheologypodcast.supercast.com/ Key Takeaways 00:00 Introduction to Western Culture and Truth 01:04 Impact of Utility on Churches and Lives 01:44 Advocating for Theological Approach 02:19 Personal Background and Ministry Experience 03:23 Church Growth and Trends in America 05:46 Relational Discipleship and Utility in Ministry 07:15 Theological Approach vs. Pragmatic Approach 13:10 Loving People in Ministry 15:56 Critique of Utilitarian Ministry 21:58 Economic Capitalism in Ecclesiology 26:02 Understanding Needs vs. Wants in Ministry 26:14 A Personal Approach to Ministry 26:54 A Mission Trip Experience 28:15 The Importance of Personal Connection 28:46 Advocating for Personal Ministry 31:54 The Concept of 'I and Thou' 35:24 Objectification in Ministry 40:07 Theological Foundations of Personal Ministry 49:56 The Impact of Personal Ministry 51:33 The Pitfalls of Utilitarian Ministry 52:36 The Joy of Theological Ministry – – – – Be sure to like, subscribe and follow on social media! You can find us on: Instagram: @the.renew.network Facebook: Renew.org Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@RENEWnetwork Twitter: @therenewnetwork TikTok: the.renew.network Rumble: https://rumble.com/c/RENEW
The 40-Year-Old Virgin launched a comedy empire—but does it still hold up, or is it best left in the mid-2000s? From outdated jokes to cringeworthy gender politics, this Judd Apatow classic has a lot to answer for. This week, comedian and Bechdel Cast co-host Caitlin Durante joins DB to break down its virginity-obsessed premise, the way it treats female pleasure as a punchline, and why so many early 2000s comedies leaned on casual misogyny and homophobia for laughs. GUEST DETAILSCaitlin Durante is a comedian, writer, and co-host of The Bechdel Cast, a podcast that examines movies through an intersectional feminist lens. You can follow me on Instagram at @caitlindurante and check out caitlindurante.com CONNECT WITH US Instagram: @sexedwithdbpodcast TikTok: @sexedwithdbTwitter: @sexedwithdb Threads: @sexedwithdbpodcast YouTube: Sex Ed with DB ROM-COM VOM SEASON 11 SPONSORS: Lion's Den, Uberlube, Magic Wand, & Arya. Get discounts on all of DB's favorite things here! GET IN TOUCH Email: sexedwithdb@gmail.comSubscribe to our newsletter for behind-the-scenes content and answers to your sexual health questions! FOR SEXUAL HEALTH PROFESSIONALS Check out DB's workshop: "Building A Profitable Online Sexual Health Brand" ABOUT THE SHOW Sex Ed with DB is your go-to podcast for smart, science-backed sex education—delivering trusted insights from top experts on sex, sexuality, and pleasure. Empowering, inclusive, and grounded in real science, it's the sex ed you've always wanted. SEASON 11 TEAM Creator, Host & Executive Producer: Danielle Bezalel (DB) Producer: Sadie Lidji Communications Lead: Cathren Cohen Logo Design: Evie Plumb (@cliterallythebest)
Grab your FREE companion resource for this episode!Do you feel torn between prioritizing losing weight or prioritizing body acceptance, loving yourself, intuitive eating, and the healing that your soul is calling you toward? Do you find it hard to ACTUALLY believe you can lose weight at the same time?I was there too for SO. MANY. YEARS.It took me so long to release body objectification because I was willing to drink that poison just a little bit longer believing it would make me skinny. I thought I could use IT to get my desired result and THEN unsubscribe.The truth is I never got into my dream body UNTIL I was willing to release body objectification, and it was a much different process than I expected it to be.That's what we're digging into on this episode where I was interviewed by intuitive empath & therapist Michelle Poverman's on her chart-topping podcastInto The Work.Press play to hear:- What is body objectification and what does it actually mean to love our bodies? (PSA: It doesn't have to involve ADMIRING our body to love our body.)- Why dissociating from our bodies is robbing us of the abundance of pleasure available to us and causing even more self-sabotage- Why giving ourselves permission to PLAY is actually the most effective way to learn and change anything in our lives- Why planning for more enjoyment actually creates more efficiency in our weight loss journeys- How to step into being the SUBJECT (no longer the object) of your life by truly learning about yourself and LIKING yourself- Using maps of consciousness to explore your strengths instead of look for things to fix about yourself- Why the first thing I do as a coach is introduce people to their resourcing before trying to solve problems- Why exploring your desired FEELINGS is more important than your desired results- Why what's loving for you is always loving for others too- and so much more!Listen to my other episode with Michelle: episode 185The Soul of Weight LossJoin us in this month's gatherings of theWild Wellness Women's Circle:Feb 12: A Galentine's Celebration of the 4 Feminine ArchetypesFeb 27: Sex & Intimacy Q&A with Sarah Wilde fromModern Sex Life(Replays always available same day!)Free Resources- Feel how you want to feel NOW with myFree Desire Map - FREE Masterclass: Discover Your Spiritual Gifts- Sign up for a FREE 1:1 coaching curiosity callLet's Connect on Instagram orFacebook!Let's Go Deeper Together- Join theWild Wellness Women's Circle (monthly membership)- Enroll inRewild Your Wellness (lifetime access online course)- Learn more aboutone-on-one coaching
Anna's guest this week is Ashley James: woman full of contradictions. Originally from a working class family in Northumberland, she won a scholarship to boarding school where she had to change her accent to fit in, and had a friend with a castle who quite literally rubbed shoulders with royalty. She found fame via Made in Chelsea, and it's been hard graft since then: she's DJ'd all over the world, built up an impressive broadcasting career, and is now a regular on This Morning. Over the past decade she's become increasingly known for her outspoken work around the double standards affecting women in the media, and she's here to talk about what it's really like being a woman in the public eye, and the cost of what our cultural objectification of women has had on us.If you or someone you know is struggling with any of the topics discussed in It Can't Just Be Me, you can find useful resources and support here: https://audioalways.lnk.to/ItcantjustbemeIG.Every Friday Anna, alongside a panel of experts, will be addressing YOUR dilemmas in our brand new episodes ‘It's Not Just You'! If you have a dilemma or situation you'd like discussed, reach out to Anna by emailing hello@itcantjustbeme.co.uk or DM her on Instagram @itcantjustbemepod Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
In this episode, Christopher and Heather dive into a topic that's often a lightning rod for controversy: whether women deserve to be censored for what they wear and how women's fashion choices are subject to societal judgment and double standards. The discussion takes a close look at WNBA superstar Angel Reese, who recently made headlines with her bold New Year's Eve fashion choice and faced backlash for her provocative outfit. This lively dialogue peels back the layers of social double standards, societal expectations, and the broader implications for female agency and self-expression. Join us as we explore how women can reclaim their narratives and shine unapologetically.
January 12, 2025Idolatry and the Great Objectification of ManActs 3:1-10Jacob Smith preaching,Series: The Image of God and the Sanctity of Human LifeClick here to listen
In today's episode, the sisters get real about their experiences with explicit adult content, and its dangers for women and broader society. Inspired by a recent BBC News documentary, they talk about everything from the objectification of women to overcoming shame and why it can be so hard to end the cycle of consuming adult content. 00:00 Welcome to the conversation sis 01:48 Housekeeping Announcements 05:30 Our Experiences with Explicit Adult Content17:06 The Objectification of Women 29:37 The Dangerous Effects on Women42:15 'Trad-wife' vs Sex Workers57:55 Overcoming Shame✈️ Come with us to Ghana: https://sortedchale.com/community/to-my-sisters/84
Eva Oh joins Miss May at her playspace, E1 Darkroom, to talk dating, polyamory, the draw of filth and intensity, the 'ick' of the stereotypical 'dominant' man, the rarity of a good service sub and the deep deep importance of cleaning.Watch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/evaohMore on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.comHIGHLIGHTS:Here are the timestamps for the video episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time.(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink(00:23) - Meet Miss May at her play space, E1 Darkroom(01:30) - Why Start a Playspace?(02:48) - The Draw of Filth and Intensity(04:40) - The E1 Darkroom Impact(06:20) - Cleaning, The Central Tenet(07:50) - The Rarity of a Good Service Subs(09:10) - Different Client Dynamics and Friend-Zones(12:20) - Dungeons and Dating(15:40) - Sadism, Objectification and Oral Sex(17:15) - Polyamory, Cheating and Evolving Desires(19:05) - An Excuse to Ask What I Want(19:40) - Miss May's Ideal Life(21:00) - Money and Sex Work vs the Investment of Dating(22:50) - 'Dominant' Men, the Ick and the Stereotype of the Patriarchy(26:40) - Professional Domination: Germany vs the UK(34:20) - How to be a Dominatrix - Hygiene! and...(36:20) - How to Hire E1 Darkroom
Navigating Relationships, Objectification, and Abstinence: Real Talk and AdviceIn this engaging episode of Real Lover Reviews, join hosts Dre and Rhonda as they explore an array of timely topics, from the holiday spirit sparked by Mariah Carey's famous Christmas song to deep dives into objectification and the boundaries of compliments. Along the way, they discuss nuanced themes in relationships, such as intentionality, emotional baggage, and infidelity, highlighting the importance of understanding and context in dating decisions. The conversation extends to the challenges of maintaining abstinence and navigating dating with strong values, featuring advice, personal anecdotes, and references to public figures. Tune in for an insightful blend of humor and heartfelt advice designed to empower your romantic journey. Tune in as we delve into this complex relationship dilemma. Dre IG: @itsdresmith - https://www.instagram.com/itsdresmith/ Rhonda IG: @rhonicakes - https://www.instagram.com/rhonicakes/ Relationship Restored IG: @relationshiprestored - https://www.instagram.com/relationshiprestored/Want To Tell Us Your Real Love Scenario? Visit https://www.relationshiprestored.com/reallovescenario Please like, comment, and subscribe to get featured on the next episode! Leave a review to get featured on the next episode!
Seth and Marc celebrate episode 200 in the midst of Princetober with the very troublesome Work That Fat. This isn't a single and, in some ways, it's barely a song. A voice-altered Prince makes a bunch of middle school jokes at a fat woman's expense while also saying how much he loves fat women. Yikes.
This episode is being re-released for your enjoyement. Please enjoy the episode. Natasha has an upcoming group that you can sign up for: Pornography Dilemma Online Group with Natasha This group has been developed to help couples overcome the common struggles with pornography use within the marital contract. During this group, we will: Begin to deal with and repair the typical secrecy/betrayal cycles that have historically occurred in the relationship with sexual media. Understand evidence-based information about sexual media allowing well-informed decisions to be made based on science and our values instead of myths and folklore. Help couples understand the importance of balancing the need for individual autonomy and relational connection that can often feel contraindicated. Learn to move from “ownership” models of sexuality to “partnership” models of sexuality. Guide couples through agreement work based on principles of sexual and marital health (honesty, shared values, transparency, and differentiation). Begin repairing trust and building a relationship where relational, erotic sexuality can flourish if that's what both partners want moving forward. WHEN: TUESDAYS 8 PM MT November 5, 12, 19, 26 & December 3, 10, 17 WHERE: Online Register here: https://symcounseling.com/group-registration/ or call: 1-208-391-7804 Go here for more: https://symcounseling.com/pornography-dilemma/ Natasha Helfer Parker interviews Dr. Nicole Prause, founder of the Sexual Psychophysiology and Affective Neuroscience (SPAN) Laboratory, in regards to the research she has personally done (and is aware of) concerning our relationships with pornography and erotic viewing materials. They cover all types of topics such as: What are some common correlations that are made in regards to porn viewing research that are completely inaccurate? Are we aware that those who view porn tend to be more egalitarian in their relationships? Why does it matter if we call problematic behavior by the right name (i.e. addiction vs. compulsivity vs. out-of-control, etc.)? Did you know that women respond to erotica in similar ways as men do and even share similar sexual tastes? Did you know that people who view erotic films report having increased desire for sexual activity with their spouse/partner? Objectification of women is definitely a problem, but violence? Not so much. Did you know that those who report having “out of control” behavior with porn viewing actually watch the same or less than those who don't identify with having a problem? And that research is now showing that those who see their behavior as problematic tend to come from religious or conservative backgrounds? Get up to date with what we think is science versus what is actually science in regards to positives and negatives that can come from porn/erotic viewing. Nicole Prause obtained her PhD at Indiana University with joint supervision from The Kinsey Institute for Research in Sex, Gender, and Reproduction in 2007. Her concentrations were in neuroscience and statistics. She completed her APA/APPIC clinical internship at the Boston Consortium. Her clinical rotations were in neuropsychological assessment and behavioral medicine; her research fellowship was at Harvard University in alcoholism treatment. She was promoted to Associate Scientist at UCLA in 2014. Current laboratory interests include primary rewards, transcranial brain stimulation, and approach motivation. She is licensed as a psychologist in the state of California. Dr. Prause currently holds positions as the founder of Liberos LLC, an independent research institute, and Data Scientist in Los Angeles. Resources mentioned during podcast: Religion, Spirituality and Sexual Addiction: A Critical Evaluation of Converging Fields Position of the Mormon Mental Health Association Trib Talk: Porn and Public Health Treating Out of Control Behavior by Doug Braun-Harvey and Michael Vigorito Other Resources: Prause et al. (2015) the latest falsification of addiction predictions Other subjects mentioned: Masters and Johnson The Meese Report Lifestar Network Fight the New Drug To help keep this podcast going, please consider donating at natashahelfer.com and share this episode. To watch the video of this podcast, you can subscribe to Natasha's channel on Youtube and follow her professional Facebook page at natashahelfer LCMFT, CST-S. You can find all her cool resources at natashahelfer.com. This podcast addresses many topics around mental health and sexuality and may not be suitable for minors. Some topics may elicit a trigger or emotional response so please care for yourself accordingly. 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Today on TPE we look at the top reasons for the frequent cases of S**ual assault in India and Pakistan - what has created this r*** culture in South Asia? We look at the reaction in India after the Kolkata Doctor r*** case, the videos from Pakistan on 14th August showing men harassing women, victim-blaming, honour culture and patriarchy. The Pakistan Experience is an independently produced podcast looking to tell stories about Pakistan through conversations. Please consider supporting us on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/thepakistanexperience To support the channel: Jazzcash/Easypaisa - 0325 -2982912 Patreon.com/thepakistanexperience And Please stay in touch: https://twitter.com/ThePakistanExp1 https://www.facebook.com/thepakistanexperience https://instagram.com/thepakistanexpeperience The podcast is hosted by comedian and writer, Shehzad Ghias Shaikh. Shehzad is a Fulbright scholar with a Masters in Theatre from Brooklyn College. He is also one of the foremost Stand-up comedians in Pakistan and frequently writes for numerous publications. Instagram.com/shehzadghiasshaikh Facebook.com/Shehzadghias/ Twitter.com/shehzad89 Join this channel to get access to perks: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC44l9XMwecN5nSgIF2Dvivg/join Chapters 0:00 Cases of Sexual Assault in Pakistan and India 2:00 Kolkata Doctor Case and R Culture 6:00 Victim Blaming and casual use of the R word 9:24 R Culture in South Asia, Honour Killings and Me too 17:05 Patriarchy and Objectification of Women 22:48 Power, Assault and Men are not Robots 30:24 The Madonna and Whore Complex
Send us a Text Message.In this episode, Lady Petra and Saffermaster chat with A Marvelous Mess about her exploration of objectification, humiliation and degradation over a Sassy Vespa. The Kinky Cocktail Hour is brought to you by Motorbunny, the worlds most powerful saddle style sex machine. Save $50 using this link http://motorbunny.com/?ref=KINKYSupport the Show.Listen on Podurama https://podurama.com
I discuss how we commonly objectify other people in daily life, and even in practices commonly employed by the "Spiritual Community", and why this is undesirable and deserves deeper consideration. This episode was published on Aug 10, 2024 at 12:26pm EDT.SPECIAL: 15% discount on astrology readings (limited time offer, conditions apply).You can support my work and this channel by booking an astrology reading. Check my "Community Tab" where I comment, and share astrological updates and links that I find interesting:Please add yourself to my contact list.There are transcripts of some episodes at my website.Related episodes and articles:The 1971 Powell Memo - Fuelled by Racism - Aug 6, 2024Pluto in Aquarius - Dawn of Global Consciousness - Feb 14, 2022Pluto at 29° Capricorn - A Karmic Reckoning - Jan 26, 2023Uranus square Pluto and Far-Right Extremism: 1930's and 2010's - Jun 15, 2023The Astrology of Mass Delusion: 2011-2026 - Jun 21, 2023We Must Resist Corporate Control of the Internet - July 31, 2024AI and the Death of the Internet - Feb 1, 2024Natural vs Transactional Reality - Being in the Flow of Authenticity - July 11, 2024Pluto Transit Capricorn - Lessons for HumanityInfants in Power - Nov 15, 2022An Ode to the Divine Feminine - July 5, 2024The Spiritual Seeker vs the Collective - July 4, 2024The Myth of Consensus Reality - Jul 2, 2024Don't Look Down (too much) - Jun 4, 2024A Prayer for You - June 2, 2024Miracles, Love, Abundance - Potent Manifestation in early June 2024 - June 1, 2024Angst and Illumination - Let Go to Level Up - May 31, 2024It's Happening - The Wheel Turns - Apr 21, 2024Judgement Is Upon Us - Apr 18, 2024Hold The Line Against The Darkness - Mar 28, 2024The Great 2020's Timeline Split - Feb 28, 2022The Die Has been Cast - June 3, 2023The Never-Ending Tragedy of Spineless Complicity - Dec 12, 2023Lightworker Activations - Pluto in Aquarius 2nd ingressThe Stunning Transit of Neptune in Aries: 2025-2039The Dramatic Astrology of 2028Purging and DecompressionNorth Node transit Aries / South Node transit Libra: 2023-2025Saturn, Chiron, Collective Trauma and DarknessSaturn transit Pisces - Reality CheckOther episodes of mine featuring Pluto—You can also support this channel with a monthly membership.#Spirituality #Psychic #SpiritualEthicsErrata
Join your horror hosts as they paint their face, put on a smile, and make those motherfuckers pay. Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Overview of 'Maxine' 13:15 Exploring the 80s Portrayal and Cultural References 23:02 Discussion on the Female Gaze in 'Maxine' 31:56 The Profitability of the Brutalization of Women 36:27 The Power of Imagination 42:33 Examining the Concept of 'Saving Our Children' 53:53 The Ownership of Female Bodies 01:02:52 Overall Impressions 01:06:04 Nostalgic Homage to 80s Horror 01:09:13 The Importance of Representation and Diverse Storytelling 01:17:36 Critiquing the Objectification of Women in Media 01:26:20 Desire for a Deeper Exploration of the Story Keywords Maxxxine, Ti West, horror movie, female gaze, social commentary, 80s portrayal, revenge porn, home video, violence against women, brutalization of women, horror, true crime, imagination, storytelling, erotica, pornography, 80s, saving our children, ownership of female bodies, 'My Heart Can't Beat Unless You Tell It To', Lamborghini, Fever Dreams trilogy, female sexuality, revenge, CPTSD, objectification of women, homage to 80s horror, practical effects, representation, diverse storytelling --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/bloody-broads/support
At this goes out we are halfway through the Paris 2024 Olympic games. There's bodies on display and a lot of body commentary. Some of it is great, positive, inclusive and recognising that 'fit' doesn't have look and celebrating all the amazing things that different bodies can do. But unfortunately, a lot of it is awful. Objectification of both men and women, body shaming, and criticism, so we chat about that. Makingthe most of the good and managing the bad. We are loving Ilona Maher's instagram posts as well as lots of Olympic themed memes and humour. Meg's favourite thing this week was Recipetin Eats Dahl - cheap, fillig, meat-free and delish! Join us for our FREE Diet Culture Spring Clean webinar Thursday August 15. Sign up HERE. We are opening doors to The Non Diet Way in August, we've had to delay by 2 weeks but it's coming! Keep an eye on your emails for more details. If you aren't already on it, you can join the wait list here and also read more about the program and get a discount when we launch.
- On-Demand Programme Link - https://mailchi.mp/bb2a7b851246/kairos-centre"Objectification" is not that you noticed the person. It is, that you linker longer or go back for a second or third look. "I am just appreciating God's creating", doesn't cut it!What a nightmare then, for Porn Addicts, are these Paris Olympics (and the holiday abroad in the sun (not in England!) - by the poolside and the beach.On the theme of the Olympics, here is a snippet of my recent article. Email me if you would like the full article:"A recent media article is headed “Ex-Olympian reveals real reason there's so much sex between athletes during the olympics”: https://vt.co/entertainment/sport/ex-olympian-reveals-real-reason-theres-so-much-sex- between-athletes-during-the-olympics?utm_source=vt&utm_medium=picturepost%23lz9fo3cjugjb1agb1qa As to any truth in that article, the likelihood is that the larger portion of the athletes probably do not have a Compulsive Sexual Behaviour Disorder (CSBD) - (more colloquially called Sex Addiction). Here is the definition of Sex Addiction which I use: "......On the other hand, Huw Edwards (a high profile - currently in the media) regrettably, likely does have a Porn Compulsivity/Addiction). The increased risk taking and crossing boundaries will likely have been happening for some time, in order to have got him to the place of what has unfolded.It makes no sense to many of us as to why a person would risk his marriage, other relationships, career, high profile role and impact on family and status, in order to do the activities. It is because the behaviours (not the porn viewing per se) - but the getting the neurochemical fix - is so powerful. Porn viewing and the commensurate risks, is the equivalent of the drug takers needle. It the conduit to get the neurochemicals into the body. It isn't about porn or sex!...... Yes, but does sex or porn addiction really exist? Judge for yourself. The 9th International Conference on Behavioral Addictions (held by the International Society for the Study of Behavioural Addictions (ISSBA) - held all over the world - was in Gibraltar on 8-9 July 2024. It is a unique opportunity to share scientific knowledge on behavioural (non-substance-related) addictions, to enhance knowledge and gain a better understanding. Here is a link to one article in the Journal of Behavioral Addictions, in June 2024, as to the “Compulsive sexual behaviour in.....It is interesting that Dr Rory Reid of UCLA, did research in 2007 & 2011, as to the prevalence of ADHD in a group of men in treatment for Sex Addiction. He found that although the prevalence of ADHD in the general population is 3-5% - of that group of men he studied, 23-26% were found to meet the criteria for ADHD......."Give a little to my fund raising page here: https://igg.me/at/ThekairosCentreDiscover the real, authentic you - without shame.Gary McFarlane (BA, LLM, Dip, Certs), Accredited EMDR Practitioner.Episode Keywords: Sex Addiction | Porn Addiction | Love Addiction | Root Causes | Brain Impact | Self-Soothing Behaviors | Family Conflict | Emotional Neglect | Peer Pressure | Performance Pressure | Separation | Divorce | Fear | Anxiety | Stress | Pain | Dissociation| Recovery Program | EMDR Therapy | Emotional Event | Trauma Healing | Neuroplasticity | Online Therapy | Sex Addiction Recovery Program | Compulsive Behaviors | Intimacy Issues | Sexual Dysfunction | Obsessive Thoughts | Guilt | Infidelity | Traumatic Bonding | Objectification | Hypersexualization | Pornography Industry | Love Addiction Patterns | Attachment Styles | Sexual Compulsivity | Behavioral Therapy | Relapse Prevention | Emotional Regulation | Healing Journeys | Intimacy Building |
Writer and sexologist Suzannah Weiss joins me to explore sexual empowerment, gender dynamics, and spirituality. We discuss reclaiming personal agency, challenging societal norms, and advocating for self-determination. We delve into consent, boundaries, and the limitations of traditional gender roles in relationships, emphasizing the need for balanced approaches and open communication. We also discuss understanding the root of individual behaviors for deeper connection and personal growth. In this episode you'll hear: 00:05 Intro 08:13 Objectification vs. subjectification, views from a sexologist. 14:54 Societal pressure on men and women regarding sex and relationships. 24:13 Boundaries and Cultural Conditioning in Sexual Interactions 28:58 Pleasure, and consent in sexual experiences. 37:41 Gender roles, femininity, and individuality in spirituality and dating. 48:05 Reclaiming Agency and Challenging Gender Roles in Relationships 58:37 Embracing contradictions in sexuality and erotic expression. THE SKINNY ON OUR SEXY GUEST Suzannah Weiss is a writer and sexologist based in Los Angeles. She is the author of Subjectified: Becoming a Sexual Subject, which describes her search for sexual empowerment and her vision for a world where women are subjects, not just objects, of desire. She has written over 8800 articles, which have appeared in publications such as The New York Times and The Washington Post. As a sex educator certified by the American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors, and Therapists, Suzannah has taught courses and given talks on topics including consent, orgasms, childbirth, non-monogamy, and neurodiversity. She is regularly quoted as an expert in publications like Cosmopolitan and Men's Health and also works as a sex/love coach, birth doula, and sexual assault counselor. She holds a Master of Professional Studies in Sexual Health from the University of Minnesota, a Bachelor of Science in Cognitive Neuroscience from Brown University, and a Bachelor of Arts in Gender & Sexuality Studies and Modern Culture & Media from Brown University. LINKS FROM THE SHOW https://suzannahweiss.com/book/https://sexloveyoga.mykajabi.com/sensual-awakening WANT MORE? Join me for my monthly Un.done Classes: learn.sexloveyoga.com/come-undone
Send us a Text Message.In this episode, TLC & Dr. Lee delve into the sensitive issues of domestic and sexual violence, highlighting statistical data, historical contexts, and personal stories. They explore the 'Man vs. Bear' meme to draw parallels with deeper societal issues surrounding trauma and safety. The discussion extends to the emotional challenges men face, comparing it with the 'Woman vs. Tree' meme, emphasizing the need for emotional regulation and understanding inherited trauma. The importance of acknowledging and validating personal experiences is stressed, encouraging listeners to seek help, validate their feelings, and understand the significance of safety and being heard for overall well-being.00:00 Introduction and Content Warning00:59 Man vs. Bear: The Meme Explained03:18 The False Dichotomy of Either/Or Questions05:09 Personal Experiences and Research Insights06:59 Statistics and Contextual Analysis10:50 Historical and Societal Perspectives13:25 The Reality of Domestic and Interpersonal Violence15:52 Gender, Race, and Perceptions of Threat22:13 Unreported Crimes and Statistical Challenges31:04 Sexual Violence and Societal Norms38:04 The Alpha Male Myth38:48 Personal Stories and Peer Pressure40:41 Objectification and Self-Worth42:28 Emotional Safety and Vulnerability44:24 The Impact of Social Conditioning58:48 Generational Trauma and Domestic Violence01:09:48 Emotional Validation and Support Support the Show.Want to connect with us?On the web: The Institute for Trauma & Psychological Safety On social: Instagram Tiktok By email: hello@institutefortrauma.com
Objectifying people in relationships means treating them as objects rather than human beings —viewing them as a means to an end without any feelings or regard for their well-being. Objectification not only hurts people but also erodes the foundation of any meaningful relationship. Learn the signs of objectifying someone and how to stop doing it so that we can establish genuine and authentic connections.
(Gaia House) An exploration of the dependent origination of dukkha down to the level of making things to grasp, demand, and obsess over. If we find things are ungraspable, really, how could we grasp onto them or push them away? What happens to reactivity, stress, and suffering in a world with no thing in it? A lightly guided meditation, Dharma reflection, and responses to (unrecorded questions).
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(Gaia House) An exploration of the dependent origination of dukkha down to the level of making things to grasp, demand, and obsess over. If we find things are ungraspable, really, how could we grasp onto them or push them away? What happens to reactivity, stress, and suffering in a world with no thing in it? A lightly guided meditation, Dharma reflection, and responses to (unrecorded questions).
(Gaia House) An exploration of the dependent origination of dukkha down to the level of making things to grasp, demand, and obsess over. If we find things are ungraspable, really, how could we grasp onto them or push them away? What happens to reactivity, stress, and suffering in a world with no thing in it? A lightly guided meditation, Dharma reflection, and responses to (unrecorded questions).
In this episode of 'Unhooked,' host Jeremy interviews Victoria Sinis, a former marketing professional for an OnlyFans agency who now speaks out against the platform. Victoria shares her journey from being captivated by the perceived glamour and financial allure of OnlyFans to witnessing its darker side. She discusses the manipulation, coercion, and long-term consequences for women and men involved in the industry. The conversation also delves into the broader societal impacts, such as the distortion of healthy relationships and the objectification of women. Victoria offers practical advice for young women considering OnlyFans and highlights the importance of education and self-awareness. Tune in for a comprehensive look into the hidden struggles behind the OnlyFans facade.00:00 Welcome to Unhooked: A Deep Dive into OnlyFans00:34 The Allure and Reality of OnlyFans05:09 The Turning Point: From OnlyFans to Advocacy09:30 The Dark Side of OnlyFans: Exploitation and Objectification14:30 Navigating the Complexities of Porn and OnlyFans22:08 Addressing the Objectification and Manipulation in the Industry31:24 The Porn Industry's Overwhelming Influence34:33 Championing a Holistic Approach to Sexuality and Self-Worth35:41 Navigating the Temptations of OnlyFans and Pornography42:06 The Role of Education in Shaping Young Minds57:44 Final ThoughtsConnect with Victoria online: IG- Victoria.sinis Tiktok- Vic.sinis -------Interested in getting 1:1 coaching support? Apply for a free discovery call: https://www.jeremylipkowitz.com/introGET NOTIFIED WHEN DOORS OPEN TO UNHOOKED RECOVERY: https://jeremylipkowitz.mykajabi.com/unhookedConnect with me on Social:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jeremylipkowitz/Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/c/JeremyLipkowitz-------------------ABOUT JEREMY LIPKOWITZJeremy overcame addiction, shame, self-judgement, and depression in his early twenties with the help of mindfulness meditation. Mindfulness not only helped him let go of destructive behaviors, it also allowed him to connect with deeper meaning and purpose in his life.For the past 10 years Jeremy has been teaching mindfulness and emotional intelligence practices at universities, recovery centers, and companies throughout Asia and the US. He holds a Bachelors and Master's degree in Genetics and Genomics, and spent several years at Duke University working towards a PhD in Genetics & Systems Biology before he turned full-time to teaching mindfulness.Jeremy is also an ICF certified Executive Coach. As a former scientist and academic, Jeremy has a great passion for bringing his EI based coaching skills into the corporate and professional world. He realizes how powerful & transformative these practices can be for skeptics and senior-level managers. He is known for his calm and grounded demeanor, his expertise in habits and high-performance, and his compassionate approach to transformation.
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Hey girl! It's Monday & I am coming at you full force today! How did you see your body when you woke up this morning? Maybe you felt.... Tired. Sore. Hungry. Anxious. Fill in your blank __________. ~ If you struggle with body image & wonder frequently what other people think about your body, then you sweet sister aren't alone... 90% of women are dieting RIGHT NOW because of body dissatisfaction. & mostly because instead of honoring our bodies, we FEEL or THINK things about our bodies, allowing those thoughts & feelings to determine how we actually treat our bodies. ~ But this HAS GOT TO STOP! I'm on a mission today to share with you (& the world) that YOU ARE MORE THAN YOUR BODY! You don't need to fix it. You don't need to change it. You don't need to maintain it. You just need to LIVE IN IT! Developing a positive body image requires building a relationship with you & your body. This simply means....you spending time with you. You spending time honoring what your body needs to thrive at it's best. ~ TRUTH bomb: You are not how you FEEL or how you THINK about your body. Having a healthy relationship with your body isn't believing your body LOOKS good, it's knowing your body IS good. Sis, your body is GOOD. ~ In Episode 136, I discuss 7 strategies that you can use today to help you develop a healthy relationship with you. I hope this one gives you all the feels. xo, lindsey Find All the Things -> wwww.herbestself.co ______ Coach with Me ->Client Application ______ Email me directly -> info@lindseynichol.com ______ Join the free FB community -> www.herbestselfsociety.com ______ Need a helping hand guiding you girl!? You don't have to do this alone! Step 1: Go all IN! Decide to commit to yourself & your future! Do it scared girlfriend. Just do it! Step 2: Apply for limited 1:1 & let's work together -> Client Application Step 3: Leverage the FB community for support & stay tuned for all the resources up & coming to help serve you! YOU TOTALLY GOT THIS! * While I am a certified health coach, anorexia survivor & eating disorder recovery coach, I do not intend the use of this message to serve as medical advice. Please refer to the disclaimer here in the show & be sure to contact a licensed clinical provider if you are struggling with an eating disorder.
Yesterday, I told you about Dr. Andrew Bauman, a Christian counselor whose own experience and study on the effects of pornography has reported on the dire effects of pornography on young men and young women. Bauman has written about the development of what's called a pornographic style of relating, or PSR, which happens when pornography becomes a child's primary teacher and guide on sexual development. Today, I want to look at the first two of the six categories of PSR Bauman cautions us about. First, there is the category of control. God has given us sex as mutual experience for one man and one woman to share in marriage. Online pornography encourages solo sexuality that is non-mutual, putting sexuality in your own control and power. Its a straying from God's good design. Second, there is the category of objectification, where others are not seen as people, but as objects to be used and cheaply discarded. Tomorrow, we'll continue our discussion of PSR.
The softboys are fighting! The Pick Me(n) are turning on each other! The timeline wants to know, is the man content creating painting his nails, talking about the glass ceiling and lipsynching to Hozier a feminist or misogynist in sheeps clothing??? DIVE DEEPER No Deep Dives TikTok No Deep Dives Instagram No Deep Dives Substack No Deep Dives Slack https://www.tiktok.com/@quinnickleshow/video/7346640693902937390 https://www.tiktok.com/@quinickle/video/7232337055605378346?q=quinnickle&t=1712558892570 https://www.tiktok.com/@quinickle/video/7298752921800363306?q=quinnickle&t=1712558892570 https://www.tiktok.com/@angieemann/video/7182369370180422955?q=strange%20kevin&t=1712558799606 https://www.tiktok.com/@misterstrang4/video/7301150160363556139?q=strange%20kevin%20female%20gaze&t=1712558857512 https://www.tiktok.com/@tellthebeees/video/7349382297138892062?_r=1&%3B_t=8l0sr2k8DPm TIMESTAMPS Welcome to the latest episode of No Deep Dives, hosted by Flex. Today, we're diving into the intricate world of TikTok's social dynamics. Our focus? The emergence of 'pick me men' and the intriguing concept of the female gaze. Flex delves into the trend of men strategically distancing themselves from 'pick me' behaviours to position themselves as more self-aware than their fellow counterparts. Then dissects the evolution and occasional misinterpretations of the male gaze, ultimately leading to the emergence of the female gaze phenomenon. Through the lens of notable TikTok creators like Strange Kevin and Quinn, we'll analyze how these trends mirror deeper societal shifts in gender dynamics, self-presentation, and the pursuit of authenticity in digital spaces. Join Flex to challenge preconceptions and unravel the layers of these trends. Who truly benefits, and are we witnessing genuine progress or just a fresh coat of paint on age-old patriarchal norms? Let's dive in and find out. 00:33 The Rise of 'Pick Me' Men 02:13 Decoding the Male Gaze 05:38 The Female Gaze: A Counter-Narrative or a New Form of Objectification? 11:46 TikTok's Influence: From Strange Kevin to Quinnical 22:44 The Complexity of the Female Gaze: Perception vs. Reality
The Danger of Pornography: It's not just a biblical issue; studies in psychology and science show the harmful effects of pornography. Pornography can lead to sexual dysfunction, making individuals less responsive to a normal sexual relationship with their partner. Internet addiction, including pornography, is causing societal problems, making people less connected and more self-absorbed. The Objectification and Harm of Women: Leslie points out the mistreatment, objectification, and even trafficking of women in the pornography industry. She quotes Jesus, who condemned those who harm children, linking this to the harm caused by pornography, especially when children are involved. Is Pornography Adultery?: According to the Bible, adultery is not limited to physical acts; it also includes unfaithfulness and lustful thoughts. The reluctance of some churches to equate pornography with adultery may stem from the fear of increasing divorce rates in their congregations. Addressing Pornography Addiction: It's importnat to learn how to say no to oneself for a higher purpose. If one can't be honest about their addiction and seeks to hide it, the lying becomes a deeper issue than the addiction itself. Masturbation: If a partner is unavailable due to injury or illness, self-care may be appropriate. However, using masturbation to avoid intimacy can be harmful to the relationship. Women and Pornography: Pornography is not solely a male issue, as more women are exploring their own sexual desires. Leslie highlights the dangers of pornography, emphasizing that it can lead to unhealthy relationships and addiction. Talking to Children About Pornography: Leslie provides advice on how to approach the topic of children watching pornography or exploring their bodies. She emphasizes not shaming children but educating them about appropriate boundaries. Hope for Recovery: Leslie offers hope for those affected by pornography addiction, emphasizing the importance of forgiveness and redemption. She encourages a path toward honesty and away from deception and addiction. Support for Spouses: Leslie advises spouses not to become consumed with fixing their partner's problem but to address their own emotions and needs. It's essential to focus on personal safety, trust, and emotional well-being while being compassionate and supportive. Resources: Sign up for the free webinar on February 13: www.leslievernick.com/OK
In this episode of The Alabaster Jar, Dr. Lynn Cohick is joined by Dr. Mary Jo Sharp as she discusses her journey from atheism to Christianity and the importance of doubt. She also addresses the issue of hypocrisy in the church and how to heal from church wounds. Dr. Sharp emphasizes the need to appreciate the beauty of women in the church while recognizing the objectification that takes place for so many women in this context. She also shares about her experience of turning outward and partnering with God in her ministry and reflects on the importance of trusting God in difficult times.Key Takeaways: Doubt is a complex process that involves intellectual and emotional aspects.Hypocrisy in the church can cause deep wounds, but healing is possible through self-reflection and forgiveness.Beauty is an important aspect of God's creation and should be appreciated and celebrated. Turning outward and partnering with God can lead to meaningful ministry and personal growth. Trusting God in difficult times is a lifelong journey that requires perseverance and reliance on His goodness.Episode Breakdown:00:00 - Introduction and Background00:49 - Understanding Doubt10:17 - Dealing with Hypocrisy in the Church16:20 - Healing from Church Wounds25:09 - Objectification of Women in the Church31:53 - Turning Outward and Partnering with God35:25 - Learning to Trust God Episode Resources: Why I Still Believe: A Former Atheist's Reckoning with the Bad Reputation Christians Give a Good God by Dr. Mary Jo Sharp A Church Called Tov: Forming a Goodness Culture That Resists Abuses of Power and Promotes Healing by Dr. Scot McKnight Pivot: The Priorities, Practices, and Powers That Can Transform Your Church into a Tov Culture by Dr. Scot McKnight The Visual Museum Of Women In Christianity Episode Sponsor: The Alabaster Jar is brought to you by The Center for Women in Leadership, a newly formed 501©3 nonprofit organization whose purpose is to equip women in a context that is biblically rooted, theologically robust, and ethnically diverse to thrive as leaders in the academy and the Church. Follow them on Instagram @leadershipwithoutapology. Learn more about The Center for Women in Leadership at: https://www.leadershipwithoutapology.org/.
Ever walked into a room and felt like you're being seen for all the wrong reasons? As I sat down to record this episode on a day that's all about love, I couldn't help but think about the less amorous and more troublesome aspects of being a woman in the business world. The Is Me podcast takes a raw, no-holds-barred look at the objectification and unspoken hurdles women face in professional settings—those moments when the line between business and personal interest blurs, and the battle to be respected for our minds and talents overshadows our work. Support the showStay connected with me https://iammarilynm.com/linkwithmeThis Is Me Journalhttps://a.co/d/bKgyXlD
The Playboy mansion was supposed to be a place of freedom, expression and empowerment for Crystal Hefner, but it turned out to be the total opposite. As one of the girlfriends – and then wife – of Hugh Hefner, she had to be seen and not heard. In this chat with Fearne, Crystal explains how living in the Playboy mansion saw her pitted against other women and picked apart for her appearance. Recognising the financial abuse in particular, she began saving her own money, which eventually created a foundation from which to rebuild her life, and self-worth, when Hef died. Fearne and Crystal also chat about how to start discovering what you like, and what makes you happy, after previously living for other people. Plus, how to move away from feeling your self worth hinges on your appearance. Crystal's book, Only Say Good Things: Surviving Playboy and Finding Myself, is out now. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Le porno.Dans mon imaginaire, c'est un peu un gros mot; une sous-culture, un tabou.Pourtant, des militant.e.s en ont fait leur cheval de bataille : l'érotisme n'est pas prêt de disparaître, alors autant se le réapproprier.Olympe de Gê travaille depuis plus de dix ans autour de la question du sexe - comment le représenter, comment éduquer, comment sensibiliser - que ce soit à travers des podcasts, des livres ou des longs-métrages.Qu'est-ce que son expérience en tant qu'actrice X lui a appris ?Quels sont les mythes autour de la sexualité qu'il est important de déconstruire ?Comment éduquer aux notions de consentement, de plaisir, de libido ?C'est tout ce que l'on vous partage, dans ce nouvel épisode d'InPower.Chapitres : 00:00 Teaser 01:12 Présentation 02:29 Rupture amoureuse 11:34 Réveil de la libido20:14 Se confronter aux anti-pornos23:22 L'émergence du porno féministe 26:24 Le slut shaming et le harcèlement 40:44 Objectification du corps des femmes43:35 D'actrice à réalisatrice 48:31 Les différences entre porno mainstream et féministe53:30 La coordination d'intimité54:44 La différence entre consentement et anxiété59:35 Les apprentissages du porno 01:01:07 Le rapport au corps 01:04:47 Inégalités et jalousie dans le couple 01:05:36 Être féministe et sortir avec des hommes 01:12:41 Le coeur brisé01:13:57 Prince charmant, maternité : les injonctions sociétales 01:17:13 Le jeu autour du coeur brisé 01:19:49 La santé mentale et la médication 01:28:31 Les questions de la fin Notes : Men against rape Podcast sur le burn out Ressource citée : Bell Hooks / Victoire Tuaillon - Le coeur sur la table Invité citée : Camille Froidevaux-metteriePour découvrir les coulisses du podcast :https://www.instagram.com/inpowerpodcast/Pour retrouver Olympe sur les réseaux :https://www.instagram.com/olympedege/Pour soutenir son travail : https://olympedege.com/abosmilitantsEt pour suivre l'aventure MyBetterSelf au quotidien :https://www.instagram.com/mybetterself/Si cet épisode t'as plu, celui-ci te plaira surement :https://open.spotify.com/episode/6nL5jWhWMBr5TWSa44BXCJ Hébergé par Acast. Visitez acast.com/privacy pour plus d'informations.
This is a must listen for women battling sexual shame or body dysmorphia In this episode of The Revelation Project Podcast we explore women's issues and celebrate the courage of artists who challenge societal norms through their art. Topics discussed include labiaplasty, sex toys, female anatomy, body acceptance, censorship and so much more. Michael Ibara is the baker and maker of the infamous instagram profile that explores women's issues through vulva pies @piesinthewindow' We discuss the impact of Mikel's art in empowering women to embrace their bodies and the harmful consequences of societal norms and judgments when it comes to celebrating the diversity of women's bodies. The conversation also touches on the lack of understanding and miseducation by the medical industry regarding labiaplasty, a procedure that resuced the length of the labia minor and the most commonly performed aesthetic genital plastic surgery that can leave women with a lifetime of pain, sexual dysfunction and more. We also talk about the censorship of female artists face on social media platforms and the blatant bias of the algorithms when it comes to censorship of naked bodies in content posted by female artists and makers vs. those accounts that are focused on men and mens pleasure which is fascinating to hear about! As a summary this episode emphasizes the importance of art as a tool for liberation, self-acceptance, education and reclaiming our creative power, while also engaging a supportive community to challenge patriarchal programming. Listeners are encouraged to join our unbecoming coaching circle and explore the work of other empowering women artists mentioned in the episode. Topics Discussed: * Labiaplasty and the dangers of cosmetic alteration * The Objectification of Women * Informative talk about sex toys and their importance along with the negative drawbacks you might not know about * The courage of artists in these times of darkness * Michael Ibara's artwork and the relentless censorship she has endured * Exciting announcements: Our monthly giveaway and the unbecoming coaching circle Bio: I'm an artist using primarily desserts as an art media to explore women's issues. The expectations and restrictions imposed upon us by society and our self imposed standards are all competing for my attention as I create this art. My career path has taken me from artist to public school art teacher to full-time mom to running a home bakery to teacher again and finally back to myself as an artist. My art is a reflection and convergence of all my life experiences up to this very point in time. More about my work/me can be seen at piesinthewindow.com (https://piesinthewindow.com) 00:03 Introduction to the Revelation Project Podcast 00:56 Exploring Women's Issues with Artist Mikel Ibarra 02:20 Monthly Giveaway Announcement 03:28 Unbecoming Coaching Circle Invitation 05:34 Introducing Guest Mikel Ibarra 05:58 Mikel's Artistic Journey and Inspiration 12:19 The Impact of Mikel's Art on Women 39:00 The Unbecoming Process 41:41 Mikel's Personal Journey and Artistic Evolution 43:22 The Paradox of Female Sexuality 43:53 The Struggle of Meeting Expectations 44:29 Exploring Women's Roles in History and Culture 45:10 The Power of Art in Cultural Wars 45:36 The Impact of Propaganda on Women 46:03 The Struggle of Women's Creative Expression 47:21 The Power of Women's Circles 48:04 The Fear of Embracing the Goddess Within 50:58 The Power of Women's Self-Reclamation 59:01 The Challenges of Sharing Art on Social Media 01:06:28 The Power of Women's Genitals in Ancient Cultures 01:09:45 The Importance of Women's Activism and Self-Expression 01:12:29 The Impact of Vulva Art 01:17:33 The Power of Sharing Women's Stories 01:21:41 Closing Remarks P.S. Don't forget to visit jointherevelation.com (http://jointherevelation.com/), where you can download a free gift, subscribe to the podcast, or leave a review. We appreciate your support and generous listening! More to be revealed. Special Guest: Mikel Ibarra.
Be careful with that Erection; you'll put an Eye out, kid! Sexual Folklorist & Christmas Orphan Dixie De La Tour isn't traveling for the Holidays, so she offers to petsit and housesit for a friend (hint: there's a hidden agenda). Her hosts hit the road and the intrigue begins: Dix spends Christmas Eve interviewing 3 (4?) men to find the perfect casual sex candidate for this special occasion. Is there anything more exciting than hooking up with a stranger in a house that's not yours? There is: having anonymous sex - on a perpetual loop - as you savor a Classic Christmas Movie in a brand new way. But there's been a unexpected witness to her Yuletide gaiety. Will they rat her out and put an end to her decade-long holiday legacy? Christmas l Holiday | Tradition l Craigslist Casual Encounters l Hookup l 3 Wise Men l Orgasm Gamification l A Christmas Story l Fireplace | Barcalounger l Leather Couch l Anonymous l Strangers l Cottage l Redhead l Objectification l Fantasy I Classic Movie l Housesitter l Petsitter l Evidence l Indictment l Condoms l Erectile Dysfunction Medication l Alcohol l Viagra l Cialis l Choose Wisely l Beavis & Butthead l Suitcase l Old House l Dehydrated l Improper Thoughts l Song: ‘Sodomize An Elf' (MC Crumbsnatcher) This week's Christmas song is from my pal, MC Crumbsnatcher. He's got a whole new album of holiday songs, called ‘Gay Sexxxmas'. Check it out! Find his music at https://www.mccrumbsnatcher.com/ About our Storyteller: Sexual Folklorist Dixie De La Tour is a professional storyteller, podcaster, public speaking coach, community builder, but most of all, a facilitator. She is also the founder, curator & host of the award-winning and NSFW storytelling series, Bawdy Storytelling, that's been lauded for its transformational, relatable, empowering performances. Bawdy's curated live stage series and podcast is Touring nationally in 2024 to celebrate 17 Years of Bawdy; her show, Bawdy Storytelling, has been called a ‘Best Of' Podcast by Oprah Magazine, Forbes, Buzzfeed, Marie Claire, Uproxx, Bustle, Esquire Magazine and many more. In addition to the coaching she offers for Bawdy, Dixie coaches for TEDx, Women in Technology, teaches custom Brand Storytelling coaching and workshops, and offers storytelling master classes to colleges and high schools. This story-loving southerner is passionate about storytelling's ability to keep people safe, reduce our social anxiety, foster empathy, and make us feel more connected. Dixie has been Sainted by the Sisters of Perpetual Indulgence for her work to reduce stigma and eliminate shame, and she enjoys being a Muppet. 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And by the way: THANK YOU for everything you do to keep this thing going! PRIVATE COACHING with Dixie: Want to work one-on-one with me? Right now I'm offering personal branding (your dating profile, website, etc), Storycoaching a nervous new keynote speaker, and I help develop documentaries, craft personal stories for the stage, and write their books - because storytelling is everywhere you wanna be. I can help you live the life that you've always dreamed about: communicate with clarity, help you land your dream job, and discover your own story … Whether it's getting onstage for the first time, writing your memoir, creating a podcast, or learning brand storytelling for your business, I can help. Email me at BawdyStorytelling@gmail.com and let's make it happen. 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Team Bawdy is: Podcast Producer: Roman Den Houdijker Sound Engineer: David Grosof Storytelling support by Mosa Maxwell-Smith Dixie's Virtual Assistant is Roillan James Video & Livestream support from Donal Mooney Bawdy's Creator & Host is Dixie De La Tour & Thank you to Pleasure Podcasts. Bawdy Storytelling is proud to be part of your s*x-positive podcast collective! Website: https://bawdystorytelling.com/ On Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/bawdystorytelling/ Like us at www.Facebook.com/BawdyStorytelling Join us on FetLife: https://fetlife.com/groups/46341 Support us on Patreon at https://www.patreon.com/Bawdy Watch us on YouTube at http://bit.ly/BawdyTV Find out about upcoming Podcast episodes - & Livestreams - at www.BawdyStorytelling.com/subscribe
In this episode of Healing & Human Potential, we are joined by Layla Martin to explore the topic of tantra, sacred sexuality, and erotic empowerment. In our society, the topic of sex is often taboo, and for this very reason, people remain disempowered in their sex lives. Layla unpacks where this stigma comes from and what we can do to release it. Sexual wellness plays a vital role in our overall well-being, but not enough of us are addressing it consciously. It goes beyond just seeking pleasure; it involves nurturing healthy relationships, accepting ourselves, and having open communication. Each individual's path to sexual wellness is unique, and there is no one-size-fits-all solution. Layla also shares the practical tools that helped her reclaim her sexuality, including pleasure practices, cervical orgasms, and much more. === Want one of the most Powerful Tools to Support you in Awakening & Manifesting Your Dream Life from the Inside Out (for Free)? Learn how to live to your full potential without letting fear get in the way of your dreams. ✨ Here's How to Get Your Gift: ✨ Step 1: Just head over to Apple Podcast or Spotify + leave a review now Step 2: Take a screenshot before hitting submit Step 3: Then go to alyssanobriga.com/podcast to upload it! === EPISODE TIMESTAMPS: 0:00 Intro 2:34 Understanding the Origins of Sexual Stigma 9:24 Defining Tantric Sex 13:17 Using Pleasure Practice to Heal Sexual Shame 18:55 What's Hidden Behind Fantasy 24:05 Pelvic Floor Work 25:35 Fear and Witch Shaming 33:13 Men Are Hurting Too 34:02 Why We Blame Ourselves When Things Go Wrong 39:50 Rewriting the Story of Objectification 44:26 Merging Practice & Presence 46:59 Technique for a Cervical Orgasm 57:34 Overcoming Body Shame 1:03:06 Developing & Nurturing Sexual Chemistry 1:13:17 Conclusion === Layla Martin is a thought leader in the intersection of sexual wellness, Tantra, erotic empowerment, and personal development. For 20 years, Layla traveled the world as a devoted student of Tantra, training with the most high-level teachers of this powerful tradition. She studied human sexuality, neuroscience, and biology at Stanford University and immersed herself in the energetic traditions of Taoism and early witchcraft. Along the way, she personally curated a dynamic, holistic system from over 10,000 hours of practice that blends ancient traditions with modern techniques. Layla dedicates herself to making these profound tools accessible through her VITA™ courses and professionally training VITA™ coaches worldwide. Social Media: @thelaylamartin @vitamethod @thistantriclife Website: http://Laylamartin.com === Have you watched our previous episode with Blu? Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/xAU4T38lrP0?si=a-_wbhpvjgZeDunP ==== Alyssa Nobriga International, LLC - Disclaimer This podcast is presented solely for educational and entertainment purposes. It is not intended as a substitute for the advice of a physician, professional coach, psychotherapist, or any other qualified professional. We shall in no event be held liable to any party for any reason arising directly or indirectly for the use or interpretation of the information presented in this video. Copyright 2023, Alyssa Nobriga International, LLC - All rights reserved. === Want 3 Life-Changing Tools you can use on yourself (or your clients) from inside our Accredited Coaching Certification? Click here to get them for Free: https://www.alyssanobriga.com/tools
Dr. Peterson's extensive catalog is available now on DailyWire+: https://utm.io/ueSXh Dr Jordan B Peterson and Stephanie Davies-Arai discuss parenting and the pitfalls of compassion when linked to trans ideology. Stephanie Davies-Arai is the founder and director of Transgender Trend, the leading UK organization calling for evidence-based healthcare for gender dysphoric children and young people and fact-based teaching in schools. She is the author of Communicating with Kids with a background in teacher training and parent support. She was shortlisted for the John Maddox Prize 2018 for the schools guide Supporting gender diverse and trans-identified students in schools. In 2020 Stephanie was an intervener in the High Court in support of Keira Bell and Mrs A, who brought a landmark case against the Tavistock Gender Identity Development Service in a claim that under-18s are not old enough to consent to treatment with puberty blockers and cross-sex hormones. In 2022 Stephanie was awarded the British Empire Medal as founder of Transgender Trend for services to children in the Queen's Jubilee Birthday Honours list. - Sponsors - Elysium Health: Save 25% off monthly subscriptions with code JBP25: https://www.elysiumhealth.com/ Audible: Try Audible FREE for 30 days. Visit https://audible.com/peterson or text “PETERSON” to 500-500. Exodus90: Is it time for your Exodus? Find resources to prepare at https://exodus90.com/jordan. Black Rifle Coffee: Get 10% off your first order or Coffee Club subscription with code JORDAN: https://www.blackriflecoffee.com/ - Links - For Stephanie Davies-Arai Communicating With Kids (Book): https://mybodyisme.com/product/book-communicating-with-kids/ Stephanie's Website: https://stephaniedaviesarai.com/ Transgender Trend Website: https://www.transgendertrend.com/ School Resources: https://www.transgendertrend.com/schools-resources/ My Body is Me: https://www.transgendertrend.com/product/my-body-is-me/ An Introductory Guide to Sex and Gender: https://www.transgendertrend.com/product/sex-and-gender/ - Chapters - (0:00) Coming up(1:27) Intro(2:40) When we dislike our own kids(4:00) The importance of duality in parenting(6:40) Optimal family dynamics(10:35) Post-Freudian world, the dismay in peace(19:43) Camps of discipline(24:55) Parenting books, lack of scrutiny(27:24) The terror in total freedom(31:50) Sam Brinton, subjective truth(40:00) Gender identity is the new counter culture(47:45) Creativity and negative flux(53:12) Twenge, self confidence, affirmation(58:52) The folly of self consciousness(1:05:11) Depression spirals(1:08:30) Demi-Boys and unstable categories(1:15:57) Anxiety, women, and social contagion(1:21:00) Objectification and over correction(1:27:55) The job of your therapist(1:35:08) Compassion and the lie of self harm(1:39:00) Facing the narcissism of compassion // SUPPORT THIS CHANNEL //Newsletter: https://mailchi.mp/jordanbpeterson.com/youtubesignupDonations: https://jordanbpeterson.com/donate // COURSES //Discovering Personality: https://jordanbpeterson.com/personalitySelf Authoring Suite: https://selfauthoring.comUnderstand Myself (personality test): https://understandmyself.com // BOOKS //Beyond Order: 12 More Rules for Life: https://jordanbpeterson.com/Beyond-Order12 Rules for Life: An Antidote to Chaos: https://jordanbpeterson.com/12-rules-for-lifeMaps of Meaning: The Architecture of Belief: https://jordanbpeterson.com/maps-of-meaning // LINKS //Website: https://jordanbpeterson.comEvents: https://jordanbpeterson.com/eventsBlog: https://jordanbpeterson.com/blogPodcast: https://jordanbpeterson.com/podcast // SOCIAL //Twitter: https://twitter.com/jordanbpetersonInstagram: https://instagram.com/jordan.b.petersonFacebook: https://facebook.com/drjordanpetersonTelegram: https://t.me/DrJordanPetersonAll socials: https://linktr.ee/drjordanbpeterson #JordanPeterson #JordanBPeterson #DrJordanPeterson #DrJordanBPeterson #DailyWirePlus