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a 20 something-year-old with a couple of mics, ready to have a conversation about the simple things that go on in our day to day lives.

you better ask somebody


    • May 15, 2025 LATEST EPISODE
    • every other week NEW EPISODES
    • 51m AVG DURATION
    • 76 EPISODES


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    ep.62: blame it on the parents...

    Play Episode Listen Later May 15, 2025 34:43


    if you had the chance, would you choose your parents again ? sit back & listen.

    ep.61: name the big 5...

    Play Episode Listen Later May 12, 2025 22:28


    stay in school kids, sit back & listen.

    ep.60: for the girlies...

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 30, 2025 27:59


    i missed y'all

    love happy...

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 23, 2025 13:10


    i love, and more... sit back & listen.

    ep.59: burnout...

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 22, 2025 34:03


    the honeymoon phase but at work, were we taught wrong when they said start doing less at work more... sit back & listen.

    ep.58: isolation season...

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 13, 2025 24:53


    feeling, knot, so connected lately... lol, sit back & listen.

    might delete later...

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 12, 2025 9:45


    i hate, and more... sit back & listen.

    ep.57: and i started thinking to myself...

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 10, 2025 52:43


    what did he do to make n- that mad ? and more... sit back & listen.

    first ep 2024 v first ep 2025...

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 9, 2025 72:28


    here's to growth, progress and more... sit back & listen.

    ep.56: career anxiety... (extended version)

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 15, 2024 47:15


    do you actually want it or has society taught you to want it ? and more... sit back & listen.

    ep.55: career anxiety...

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 7, 2024 62:40


    we're all panicking, right ? and more... sit back & listen.

    life lately...

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 8, 2024 64:54


    available on youtube: https://youtu.be/0aCWDoNGrDk?si=QRPzSF0RYgNybfJd --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/you-betterasksomebody/message

    ep.54: detachment...

    Play Episode Listen Later May 7, 2024 29:04


    healthy detachment; also, i discovered i have a problem w my t's and s's lol and more... sit back & listen. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/you-betterasksomebody/message

    ep.53: i adulted a bit too hard...

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 25, 2024 49:07


    this the one where my highschool bestfriend took us listening to king von a little too serious and more... sit back & listen. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/you-betterasksomebody/message

    ep.52: why ? why between my celibacy you're passing around ?

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 20, 2024 43:23


    sex is so consequential and more... sit back & listen. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/you-betterasksomebody/message

    ep.51: i matured a bit too hard...

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 10, 2024 59:57


    can i really maintain a romantic relationship if i'm struggling to maintain my freindships ? and more... sit back & listen. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/you-betterasksomebody/message

    pause again...

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 28, 2024 41:02


    ...sit back & listen, again. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/you-betterasksomebody/message

    pause...

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 24, 2024 57:02


    ...sit back & listen. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/you-betterasksomebody/message

    panic at the studio...!

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 15, 2024 41:58


    how's your mental health ? self isolation, avoidance and more... sit back & listen. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/you-betterasksomebody/message

    ep.50: i'm an ethical hater...

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 29, 2024 54:58


    a little look on the content i love to consume and more... sit back & listen. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/you-betterasksomebody/message

    ep.49: post valentine's...

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 20, 2024 40:37


    appropriate times to breakup with someone and more... sit back & listen. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/you-betterasksomebody/message

    ep.48: singleness is not a disease...

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 13, 2024 35:34


    if it's harmless flirting, why is it such a crime ? happy valentine's day !

    ep.47: money talk...

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 11, 2024 39:07


    let's talk money + friendships, am i people pleaser ? and more... sit back & listen. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/you-betterasksomebody/message

    ep.46: love bombing...

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 6, 2024 42:42


    pov: love bombing but as friends and more... sit back & listen. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/you-betterasksomebody/message

    ep.45: women die and people like it...

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 30, 2024 30:49


    #endfemicideke --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/you-betterasksomebody/message

    ep.44: millennials look younger than who ?...

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 28, 2024 42:51


    "youuu" and more... sit back & listen. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/you-betterasksomebody/message

    ep.43: walking ten toes...

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 25, 2024 48:11


    i think i have a stalker ? and more... sit back & listen. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/you-betterasksomebody/message

    ep.42: halfway to 50...

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 11, 2024 56:07


    happy new year! starting off the year with a podcast episode, where was i ? i turned 25, oh and my "friend" stole my man on christmas and more... sit back & listen. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/you-betterasksomebody/message

    ep.41: took a little trip...

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 20, 2023 32:15


    "everything has to fall apart for it to come together" featuring a little story of how one time i went on vacation with a group of friends and came back with no friends lol... sit back & listen. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/you-betterasksomebody/message

    ep.40: no new friends...

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 18, 2023 34:33


    new series, new chapter, new journey and on this series i'm letting y'all in on my new life plans, me wanting to initiate more friendships before the year ends and more... sit back & listen. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/you-betterasksomebody/message

    ep.39: why do you lie like that...

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 13, 2023 63:53


    started off talking about jealousy in relationships and friendships that lead to y'all "blocking each others blessings" to how i thought i almost got scammed by an online thrift store to an insane lie i found out over the weekend... sit back & listen. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/you-betterasksomebody/message

    ep.38: i got commitment issues...

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 8, 2023 41:55


    how getting a cat brought out the commitment issues and more... sit back & listen. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/you-betterasksomebody/message

    ep.37: healing from romantic relationships...

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 25, 2023 56:04


    on this episode, i talk about healing from romantic ( and regular friendships ) relationships, benefits of being single and more... sit back & listen.

    ep.36: parents...

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 18, 2023 41:34


    let's talk parents, do you have an open relationship with your parents or do you wish you had an open relationship with your parents ? featuring a little story time in the beginning and more... sit back & listen.

    ep.35: thief of joy...

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 12, 2023 40:29


    on this episode, i talk about the panic that comes around when we start thinking about our future, fear of failure, why you're exceptional regardless of what society labels as "exceptional" and more... sit back & listen.

    ep.34: brick by brick...

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 7, 2023 40:33


    on this episode, i share a story of how i fumbled a potential sponsor, how i was caught lying about my age that one time, victim blaming; brick to the face girl story and more... sit back & listen.

    ep.33: reaction...

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 5, 2023 44:24


    on this ep, i discuss new (not so new) demon trend going on in the music industry, the power of ignorance, a story time from the weekend of how i was insulted but my reaction was the problem and more... sit back & listen.

    ep.32: what i've learnt from moving out...

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 30, 2023 41:31


    this episode being a part two of the previous episode, i share five things i've learnt from moving out - mistakes i learnt from, from other people and more... sit back & listen.

    ep.31: moving out successfully...

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 30, 2023 35:54


    on this episode, inspired by some of the questions i got from you guys on instagram, i share the five main steps i took to successfully moving out... sit back & listen.

    ep.30: house hunting...

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 13, 2023 38:54


    lemme tell y'all how i almost got scammmed house hunting and more... sit back & listen.

    ep.29: homie hopping...

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 16, 2023 50:10


    part 2 of the question tag, is it a crime homie hopping and more... sit back & listen.

    ep.28: embarrassing s*x moment...

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 16, 2023 58:09


    i finally got around to answering the questions from my instagram question tag... sit back & listen.

    my first L...

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 4, 2023 45:55


    my first L and more stories... sit back & listen.

    ep.27: emotional unavailability...

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 4, 2023 51:16


    questioning whether they'd have been a difference growing up with a present father and more... sit back & listen.

    ep.26: hookup culture...

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 10, 2023 22:59


    in this episode, i discuss hookup culture, does it work for you?... sit back & listen.

    ep.25: intrusive thoughts...

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 7, 2023 26:31


    starting off with me asking y'all if i'm being a hypocrite or not, lol, do you guys have an internal dialogue? do your intrusive thoughts ever just win sometimes ? my grieving period and more... sit back & listen.

    ep.24: financially compatible partner...

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 7, 2023 23:26


    in this episode, i discuss why i think it's important to have a financially compatible partner... sit back & listen.

    ep.23: embracing your authentic self...

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 28, 2023 25:41


    getting out of my comfort zone, starting by doing a solo episode this year - and more to come too, this episode is basically me going on about the steps to take to embrace your authentic self and more... sit back & listen.

    ep.22: making new friends...

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 14, 2023 74:04


    joined by Jade Akech, we sat down and discussed how hard it is making new - genuine - friends, boundaries in friendships and more... sit back & listen.

    ep.21: good person bad person...

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 5, 2023 56:35


    joined by Kiki Kaunda, we sat down and discussed how to know if you're either a good person or bad person, would you go to therapy with your parents ? and more... sit back & listen.

    ep.20: i'm pregnant...

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 20, 2022 80:00


    featuring photographer Mukabi ( @mukabimadethis ), we sat down and had a few laughs and deep dives, why i haven't recorded in a while and more... sit back & listen.

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