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Tim Desmond is a scholar of professional psychology rooted in self-compassion and is passionate about making a difference and providing emotional support available to people worldwide. Facing Life With More Humanity An episode you will want to listen to again and again, Tim is here to help us empaths find ways to deal with what is happening in the world right now. If you feel as though you struggle to live in this challenging modern society and process what happens on a daily basis without letting the weight of the world crush you, Tim is the guru you need to quiet your mind and accept your bodily reactions. The need to constantly seek approval, dismiss your anger or always think about what could make something better is something that many people deal with, but it doesn't have to be this way. Understanding your capacity to be present with suffering and embrace your emotions in a compassionate way is the key to facing life with more humanity. By giving your anger your full attention you can become your anger’s ally and understand how to be in harmony with your inner reactions. With Tim’s guidance, you can recognize your pain, bring compassion to yourself and stop getting stuck in your habitual habits to focus on the things in life that are going to push you forward. Instead of losing sleep over assholes or issues that you are powerless against, learn how to stay more present and in turn, more human. How does Tim’s approach to self-compassion make you feel about dealing with the monumental issues found in the world today? Share with us in the comments on the episode page. On Today's Episode How to be present with pain without being overwhelmed by it (20:20) Tools to face your distress triggers with capacity, tolerance, and acceptance (29:55) Ways to avoid overwhelm by understanding your capacity for pain (33:20) Developing your ability to be open to all aspects of life despite the assholes (38:42) The difference between allowing yourself to be mad and ruminating on a story (41:50) The importance of emotional support accessibility around the world (47:30) Quotes “The need that we are seeking when we seek approval is to have a moment of feeling like I am okay like there is nothing wrong with me like I am loveable.” (12:43) “There's really no word in the English language for our capacity to be present with suffering in sort of a beneficial or compassionate way because we all have a limited capacity for that.” (21:38) “Your only job right now is developing your capacity to tolerate some discomfort in your body.” (28:11) “If you are able to be present with suffering, aversion, pain, whatever it is. If you are able to be present with it in a way that is open and compassionate, the result if the transformation that we just saw.” (34:35) “What it all comes back to is being able to recognize the pain in me, my own reactivity, to allow my reaction, to bring care and compassion to myself, and then there will be a lot more options for me in terms of dealing with that person.” (41:05) Resources Mentioned In This Show How To Stay Human in A Fucked Up World by Tim Desmond Tim Desmond Website Self Compassion in Psychotherapy by Tim Desmond Follow Tim on Facebook | Twitter Order The Core Four Here Nutritional Therapy Association Website Harder to Kill Radio is sponsored by the Nutritional Therapy Association. Registration is now open for the NTA’s October class. You can learn more and save your seat by clicking here (and don’t forget to mention my name on your application!) You can also try out their free 7-day course, Nutritional Therapy 101 by clicking here. Check out the full show notes here! Follow Steph on Facebook | Twitter | Instagram | YouTube | Pinterest I'd really love it if you would take 1 min and leave us a rating and review on iTunes!
Holding tight to your values when life gets hard can help you stay calm through a storm. Today’s guest, Abby Corriveau, has been through a lot over the past couple of years. Her dedication to creating community, holding tight her values, and practicing gratitude has had a tremendous impact on her life. Community, Values & Gratitude Abby is a strength and sustainable movement coach who’s life was turned upside down when she found out her husband, also in the fitness industry, was cheating her. She felt she didn’t have anywhere to turn but ended up building her own community. Life changed again when she had to have intensive back surgery, causing her to reevaluate her approach to women’s fitness. When Abby felt like she’d lost everything, she realized she no longer had a fear of failure. In fact, she embraced chances like she never had before in order to create sustainable movement in her local community. By reflecting on her values, she knew that she had to build that community in order to stay true to herself. With her new community and support system, Abby has discovered the power of asking for help. Even as a solo entrepreneur, it’s okay to take a step back and let other people help you. And you never know what other people can teach you. As Abby healed through both her physical and emotional trauma, her view of the world and her career changed. There are other lifestyles and abilities out there, and just because they’re different to yours doesn’t mean they’re any less. This has caused an entire world shift for her and one that she’s been open with through her social media. Have you experienced any trauma that has changed your viewpoint? What are your core values? Share with us in the comments on the episode page. On Today's Episode How starting a new business can help you meet and grow within your local community Why it’s important to make something you feel in your heart happen What happens when you accept the risk of failure How identifying your values will help guide you to create good in the world and have clarity with who you are and what you want to do Why you should step back and let other people help you What types of things you can learn from your children to help create your vision How healing through physical and emotional trauma can open your eyes to other lifestyles and abilities What happens when you publicly acknowledge your mistakes How your online identity will change as your personal life evolves Quotes “I really have tried to create a physical space but also an energetic and emotional space where people will come and feel welcomed and supported in whatever may be going on in their lives that we may or may not know about.” (10:20) “I might be a sole entrepreneur here but I don’t have to do everything, I can learn to let go and trust others.” (18:02) “We’re human. How could you not make mistakes? I don’t know anyone who’s perfect and guilt-free of any kind of… everyone makes mistakes. But it’s, for me, part of my healing process is acknowledging them and owning them.” (49:36) Resources Mentioned In This Show Abby Corriveau Website Follow Abby on Facebook | Instagram | Personal Instagram Contact Abby at abby@sustainable-movement.com Join Abby's Kettlebell Basics Workshop Join the Beautycounter Pop-Up with Steph & Alison | NYC Order The Core Four Here Nutritional Therapy Association Website Harder to Kill Radio is sponsored by the Nutritional Therapy Association. Registration is now open for the NTA’s September class. You can learn more and save your seat by clicking here (and don’t forget to mention my name on your application!) You can also try out their free 7-day course, Nutritional Therapy 101 by clicking here. Check out the full show notes here! Follow Steph on Facebook | Twitter | Instagram | YouTube | Pinterest I'd really love it if you would take 1 min and leave us a rating and review on iTunes!
After a whirlwind career in publishing and marketing, Ashleigh Van Houten managed to combine her passion and persistence into a job that she loves. A writer for Paleo Magazine, two-time podcast host and strength trainer, Ashleigh knows the power of perseverance and is here to help you develop your skills so that you can make the best out of any situation. Love Of Learning & Confidence Building Ashleigh believes in the importance of enabling yourself as a strong, confident and independent woman. A lover of the journey of education, Ashleigh has an amazing ability to take every experience as a learning opportunity and still finds the joy in learning something new every day. Attracted to all things strength and fitness, Ashleigh is here to highlight how you can use fitness to find your confidence and the importance of bringing new perspectives and voices to a stagnant sphere. You owe it to yourself to find ways to develop your skills, find a path that works for you and have fun learning along the way. How do you feel like your skills are interested are discussed in the health and fitness industry? Share what you would love to see more of in the comments on the episode page! On Today's Episode How to approach physical training scenarios with more knowledge and confidence Why you should be focusing on the process more than the outcome Learn the benefits and drawbacks of the working for yourself lifestyle Takeaways of the life lessons learned through Jiu Shih Tzu and other training methods Exploring the need for more diversity in fitness and health podcasting Quotes “I’m very much like look, this is the situation, am I going to just be pissy about it, am I going to sit here and wish it was a different way, or am I going to approach it like what can I get, how can I benefit from whatever the situation I am in?” (17:28) “I’ve always been fascinated by what people can do when they like something and they train hard. What physical feats we are capable of, I think it is so fun to watch, it's so attractive and it's so interesting.” (27:45) “It’s really just about finding the joy in learning and confidence-building, because that's what life is, it’s a learning process.” (31:39) “Nothing feels better than throwing a good punch. You gotta try it!” (46:49) “There's always room for more perspectives and voices and ideas and opinions. And that's what I want to help facilitate.” (53:14) Resources Mentioned In This Show Ashleigh Van Houten Website Follow Ashleigh on Instagram Paleo Magazine Radio Muscle Maven Radio Human Potential Party Website Order The Core Four Here Nutritional Therapy Association Website Harder to Kill Radio is sponsored by the Nutritional Therapy Association. Registration is now open for the NTA’s September class. You can learn more and save your seat by clicking here (and don’t forget to mention my name on your application!) You can also try out their free 7-day course, Nutritional Therapy 101 by clicking here. Check out the full show notes here! Follow Steph on Facebook | Twitter | Instagram | YouTube | Pinterest I'd really love it if you would take 1 min and leave us a rating and review on iTunes!
After falling captive to the scale and macro-nutrient counting, Shanique Allen said enough is enough and decided to change her lifestyle for one that was healthy, but not restrictive. Through this change in mindset and nutrition, Shanique has stopped letting food control her and now works with her clients to promote being kind to your body while still fueling yourself with healthy decisions. Live Life Unrestricted Shanique is determined to help you live your life with more ease and enjoyment. She believes that movement should be one of the things that bring you satisfaction and joy and that counting calories or setting limits for yourself is the opposite of achieving total body health and acceptance. Learn from Shanique’s story as she reveals what she wishes she knew in hindsight, how being less restrictive can actually lead to greater holistic health benefits, and why we should stop judging those that go against societies version of ‘healthy’. There are more aspects to your wellness than just eating clean and exercising, and Shanique is living proof of the importance of making these healthy tools accessible to everyone. By creating a community where people are empowered to take the steps for themselves, you can invest in yourself and foster acceptance from within. Are you ready to change the conversation regarding fitness and find more enjoyment in your daily routine? Share what you loved most about Shanique’s story and vision in the comments on the episode page. On Today's Episode How to change your relationship and mindset with the numbers on the scale Changing the way you move to give you more joy and better results Mindset techniques you can use to break up with everything you know about fitness Ways life in Jamacia impacted Shanique’s approach to food and body image The importance of acceptance and giving yourself grace when making health improvements Quotes “Having decided to break up with the person that I was, I had to create an identity that I could not ‘live with’, but who I was, I needed to figure that out, right now… and that's what lead me to where I am today. I am not defined by food, it is no longer something that I worry about, its something that compliments my life.” (19:44) “Now when I jump on the scale, and I am no longer tracking, I don't care. And because I decided that food was no longer a determining factor in how I chose to enjoy life.” (24:32) “In hindsight, I don't know what the hell I was doing! I’m like ‘damn Shanique you could have saved yourself a lot’. But at the same time, I am kind of glad I went through all that because it brought me here.” (34:38) “Given that we are all unique, how can you use what you have to do what you can to get to where you want to go?” (41:07) Resources Mentioned In This Show Shanique Allen Website Apply for #FabFitFormula Coaching Follow Shanique on Instagram | Facebook | Twitter Pre-Order The Core 4 Here The Nutritional Therapy Association Website Check out the full show notes here! Follow Steph on Facebook | Twitter | Instagram | YouTube | Pinterest I'd really love it if you would take 1 min and leave us a rating and review on iTunes!
Alissa Frazier was sent into a spiral of confusion after her multiple sclerosis diagnosis at the age of twenty-three. Not knowing where to turn or how to best help treat her symptoms, Alissa created LissMS to help others navigate the no-mans land of an MS diagnosis. Now a nutritional therapy consultant and AIP coach, Alissa helps spread the information she has learned to prevent others from suffering. Today she is here to shine a light on this invisible illness and create a space to feel comfortable expressing how you feel both physically and emotionally. About Alissa Frazier If you have ever been curious about the massive role nutrition plays in MS symptoms and overall health, how stress and sleep management can impact your ability to cope with a diagnosis, or the importance your mindset plays when trying to heal, Alissa is here to answer all of your questions. By creating an open dialogue around MS, Alissa hopes to share the knowledge that she wishes she knew when she was diagnosed, and create a better healing environment for others. An advocate for doing what works for your body, using nutrition as a guiding force for your health, and focusing on gut healing and proper digestion, Alissa is dismissing the ‘one size fits all’ approach to health and nutrition one MS case at a time. If you are ready to remove the victim mentality surrounding your symptoms and embrace a healing mindset, Alissa is here to help guide you on your journey. Has MS impacted you or someone you love? How have you fought against the symptoms? Let us know what you think about Alissa’s story and recommendations in the comments section on the episode page! On Today's Episode How to keep a positive mindset when dealing with an invisible illness The importance of managing your stress, resting and digesting for MS symptoms Using the AIP diet to help reduce inflammation and repair your body Exploring the benefits of AIP for people with autoimmune diseases Embracing bio-individuality and finding what works for your unique body Quotes “The whole invisible illness thing is a trip for sure. But I think it has kind of played out in how I approach things and how people approach me.” (19:35) “It's hard to say whether or not I would have done all of that [treatment] 10 years ago. But I wish at least I knew about it 10 years ago.” (25:59) “Paleo is meant to be a sort of discovery, so you can learn your body, learn the language of your body, learn how foods affect your body, and then create your own healing diet template from there.” (38:59) “Everyone is obviously different and going to be different. And one size fits all approaches are really doing a disservice to people.” (50:35) “It’s really just about me becoming me, and taking on things that usually scare the crap out of me.” (53:19) Resources Mentioned In This Show Pre-Order The Core 4 by Steph Gaudreau HTK 119: Dr. Michael Ruscio LissMS Website Follow LissMS on Facebook | Instagram | Twitter Check out the full show notes here! Follow Steph on Facebook | Twitter | Instagram | YouTube | Pinterest I'd really love it if you would take 1 min and leave us a rating and review on iTunes!
If you're a woman who's been struggling with hormone issues, specifically related to your menstrual cycle or hormonal birth control, this episode is for you. Laurie Christine King recognized that women need support in this area and has taken to social media to share educational information with her followers about how to live your best life. About Laurie Christine King By surrounding herself with supportive people, empowering her body to achieve its full potential and unlocking her passion for education and nutritional coaching, Laurie is taking the fitness world by storm as a positive and healthy role model. Finding someone to work with one on one with, creating an appropriate diet plan and getting your body back to where it needs to be is what Laurie specializes in, and she is sharing all she knows with us today. If you have ever been curious as to how hormonal birth control could be affecting your nutrition goals, why your high-intensity workout might not love you as much as you love it, and the impact stress can have on your menstrual follicles, this episode is for you. Laurie is a wealth of knowledge and a powerhouse advocate for getting your body working for you. Laurie is all about having conversations that need to be happening in order to empower women to understand their bodies better. By putting out diverse, scientifically based and accurate information, Laurie is helping change the nutrition game one client at a time. Are you ready to take your health seriously in 2019? Let us know your fitness goals in the comments section on the episode page! On Today's Episode How to use social media and blogs to learn more about your own health journey Understanding why your menstrual cycle is the best indicator of your overall health Risk factors and implications of hormonal birth control for your specific body Simple changes to incorporate into your daily routine to support your hormones Why you should probably be eating a little more food to regulate your caloric intake Quotes “Just having that conversation of helping females understand their bodies, their menstrual cycle, and just helping empower women to really feel good” (7:43) “Anybody who is in the space and really trying to help people understands that nothing in nutrition is black or white, nothing in health is black or white” (19:45) “Your body is just this amazing vehicle that is just having to put up with your shit. So if you treat it pretty well, then we get some pretty good return on investment” (45:50) “Just understanding our habits and how they may be affecting us then gives us some feedback and some things to toy with to try and make changes” (46:00) “Don't be afraid to invest in yourself, nutrition can be a scary thing. If you don’t know what you are doing…I want to teach you everything I know so that you can keep going on crushing life and being empowered by the information I left you ” (53:20) Resources Mentioned In This Show Follow Laurie on Instagram Paragon Performance Training Laurie Christine King Website The Badass Nutrition Guide E-Book by Laurie Christine King Period Repair Manual by Lara Briden Healthy Gut Healthy You by Dr. Ruscio Check out the full show notes here! Follow Steph on Facebook | Twitter | Instagram | YouTube | Pinterest I'd really love it if you would take 1 min and leave us a rating and review on iTunes!
Dr. Theresa Larson is a force to be reckoned with and is on a mission to help her clients create their ‘new normal’. An IRL friend, author, and inspiring speaker, Theresa works to help people adapt to major life changes, whether good or bad, temporary or permanent, to help better cope and thrive in your new situation. About Dr. Theresa Larson Theresa is sharing everything about her work with adaptive athletes, how she combined her passions into the job of her dreams, and why she is working to represent the strong women of the world. Advocating for nurturing the roots of your mind, how to cope with the things that happen in your life and ways to combat your invisible wounds, Theresa is helping people stop struggling and start living. If you are searching for how to overcome nightmare situations to start living your life to the fullest with a resilient mindset and capable body, this episode is for you. Theresa is spreading her empowering message for people with temporary and permanent wounds about how you can learn to slow down, think about how you move and improve your movement patterns in order to create the opportunity for healing. This episode is all about encouraging physical and mental freedom and taking ownership of your health. How does Theresa’s mission and journey inspire you and your goals? Let us know in the comments section! Trigger Warning - Please know that this episode contains mentions to miscarriage and eating disorders. On Today's Episode How to manage being an introvert on a day to day basis Bringing self-compassion and boundaries into motherhood and health and wellness What an adaptive athletes workout and training regime looks like Educating people on what it is they can do to relieve their worst symptoms and mindsets Overcoming invisible and visible injuries to increase representation of all abilities in the fitness space Quotes “Honestly introversion led me to what I am doing now because it is more energy giving for me, like I let go” (7:36) “You get so caught up in the work life and you lose sight of like being a real human and being compassionate towards yourself. At least I do, I have.” (18:17) “And the [adpative] athletes come in and they train, and I think honestly we get more from them than we give. Because they are just so brave, and nothing really holds them back. And they really don't sweat the small stuff.” (23:32) “With any injury there comes this mental vulnerability of, ‘okay am I ever going to be able to do x,y,z again?’ And unbeknownst to us, sometimes the way that we have thought before kind of takes over and we stop doing the things that we love… and that becomes kind of an excuse” (44:58) “Be more aware of where your mind goes, and what your body is doing. And that awareness can add life to your years, and actually years to your life probably. Just from moving a little bit more, thinking more positively, thinking about growth, which adds less stress to your day.” (58:21) Resources Mentioned In This Show Dr. Theresa Larson Website Warrior: A Memoir My New Normal Podcast HTK #78: Karina Antonopoulos HTK #48: Theresa Larson Check out the full show notes here! Follow Steph on Facebook | Twitter | Instagram | YouTube | Pinterest I'd really love it if you would take 1 min and leave us a rating and review on iTunes!
Aimee Suen is a nutritional therapy practitioner, author of the small eats blog, and one my dearest personal friends. Aimee is passionate about helping people improve their health habits and lifestyle in an ultra approachable way. Today we are discussing perfectionism, taking care of yourself, and mindfulness, to make sure you are taking care of your body in every way possible. About Aimee Suen After a very real quarter-life crisis, Aimee decided to stop placing her value on the things that she did, and more on who she is. She brings this life-altering realization to all of her readers and is here to help you on your health journey. By taking lots of small steps, being kind and affectionate to yourself, and accepting life's inevitable mistakes, you can work to develop tools and skills to help guide you through any situation. If you are ready to work out at the gym of your mind, then listen in now! What do you think about Aimee’s tips to help put yourself first? Let us know in the comments on the episode page! On Today's Episode How to gain perspective when dealing with perfectionism What is mindfulness cognitive behavioral therapy and why it can beneficial Why you should have no shame in therapy Embracing change as the only constant Small steps you can take to be more kind to yourself Quotes “It became really clear to me that I had put myself last and I had put art and college and doing and achieving first. I’ve always been a really good doer and achiever, I haven't always been great at taking care of myself.” (13:09) “It's really nerve-wracking. And I think what's so natural to happen is your identity, without you realizing it, gets super wrapped up in ‘this is who I am and this is the only thing I can be’. “ (22:24) “Paying attention to my thoughts in a very non-judgemental way has been very helpful, but 1000% did not happen overnight.” (27:19) “It's almost like a storm sometimes, these thoughts. These thoughts you get caught up in and then sometimes you realize a little too late like, oh no I'm still outside and it's raining.” (30:40) “The idea of self-compassion is just turning all of that compassion and support that you know you can very easily give to someone else, and turning that on yourself. (37:48) Resources Mentioned In This Show I'd love to see you in the Harder To Kill Club! Join the Small Eats Circle on Facebook Small Eats Website Not At My Desk Lunch E-Book Follow Small Eats on Instagram | Pinterest | Twitter She Thrives Radio with Taylor Gage Epic Bar Meatcast Self Compassion by Dr. Kristin Neff Check out the full show notes here! Follow Steph on Facebook | Twitter | Instagram | YouTube | Pinterest I'd really love it if you would take 1 min and leave us a rating and review on iTunes!
Learning Always is a show about how we perceive learning, how to find what works for you, and how learning is the cornerstone of practically everything we do. On Today's Episode: - How to embrace learning and make it part of your everyday life. - Four essays on the learning process. - Where to find the joy in everything you do. - What matters when it comes to your development. Timestamps: 05:00 - Every day is a learning day. 08:30 - Look for opportunities, whatever your situation. "Actively seek out new opportunities and pursue them all you can." 12:40 - Love of learning through the work of play. 18:40 - How to embrace learning even when you have no context in your history. 27.00 - Signing off and firing up. Full shownotes can be found at http://learningalways.co.uk/