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I am Chelsea Akibo-Betts and I will be having the candid adulting conversations you wish someone had with you. With 6 years in the game (feels like dog-aged years) I have some light to shed on many topics that oftentimes we come across through...EXPERIENCE. Experience is the best teacher, and it doesn't feel that way in the moment - but I believe we have them to help others. Did your dad or male figure in your life teach you what to do if you have a flat tire? or get into a car accident? That's even taking it too far because you can drive for a while without these things happening to you. What about the car buying process? Or shopping for car insurance? This is just an example but I'll be covering many experiences as adults we learned along the way. Although I have a degree, I found that the most useful and needed information isn't taught in schools - let alone the schooling we spend decades paying back. We're all students in this game called LIFE, and in order to do it with ease we need to seek out the most information we can get to master it. You can catch me on my podcast talking about things like the necessity of higher education, navigating 9-5 jobs, cultivating a hobby, managing finances and so much more. Welcome to Candid with Kibo.

Chelsea Akibo-Betts

  • Mar 10, 2021 LATEST EPISODE
  • every other week NEW EPISODES
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Latest episodes from Candid With Kibo

S2E8 How Do You Know When You're Ready for a Relationship?

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 10, 2021 48:56


https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/rediscovering-love/201611/15-questions-help-you-decide-youre-ready-date-again

S2E7 26 Things I'd Tell the Younger Version of Myself

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 22, 2021 52:48


To contact: Email: candidwithkibo@gmail.com Instagram: @candidwithkibo https://www.instagram.com/candidwithkibo/ Facebook: Candid With Kibo (page)

S2E6 When You're Always the Strong Friend w/ KerriAnne Sejour MHCLP

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 25, 2021 62:01


What does it take to be the strong friend? How did you end up as one? Here KerriAnne and Chelsea discuss the challenges that come with being associated with being "the strong friend" and how it can put a strain on your mental health. Being the string friend is not always a bad thing, but at times being the strong friend can look like being weak for yourself. Do you resonate with any characteristics of being the strong friend, or having a strong friend? If so this episode is for you. Special Guest: KerriAnne Sejour MHC-LP @beautyqueenkerri instagram.com/beautyqueenkerri @therapyinmotionnyc instagram.com/therapyinmotionnyc @preciousknitz instagram.com/preciousknitz CONTACT US candidwithkibo@gmail.com instagram.com/candidwithkibo

S2E5 Hey 2021! Prepare for Your Life, Not for Your Job

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 11, 2021 57:06


Resources Mentioned: PRODUCTIVITY Google Calendar Google Drive Gooogle Keep Period Diary App (iPhone) BUDGET Everydollar.com Mint.com https://www.youneedabudget.com CREDIT/Identity Theft CreditKarma.com AnnualCreditReport.com ZanderidTheft.com CONTACT US candidwithkibo@gmail.com instagram.com/candidwithkibo

S2E4 If You Run Away from Fitness, You'll Run Away from Life w. Tavares Martin of SMSW Fitness

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 28, 2020 100:43


As you listen to this episode you'll see how the principles used in achieving your fitness goals intertwine with the way you achieve goals in your personal life. In this episode I have as a special guest Tavares Martin who is an elite fitness coach of Strong Mind Strong Will Fitness (SMSW Fitness) who merges the everyday challenges one may face with the mental capability of overcoming physical challenges as well. Tavares Martin seeks to empower individuals with the knowledge they may lack to be the best versions of themselves. Resources Mentioned: 1. Tavares Martin https://www.smswchargedup.com/ @swswfitness instagram.com/smswfitness/ @smswapparel instagram.com/smswapparel/ @thefitpapichulo instagram.com/thefitpapichulo/ 2. Thumbtack.com (to search for trainers) 3. Strengthlevel.com (to search your demographics and compare to similar individuals) 4. Julian @banisterathletics https://instagram.com/banisterathletics?igshid=i4d8ec821u3t 5. Building Bridges Foundation https://www.buildingbridges4u.org/ Marsha Woodland 6. Brett @_prophet_fitness https://instagram.com/prophet_fitness_?igshid=14e4jdst8ja2k 7. Jamie Bailey @_Dababygoat https://instagram.com/_dababygoat?igshid=1nxapn9q7y3m3 8. Tavares Life Coach: Sogand Zakerhaghighi https://instagram.com/wellnesswiths0gand_?igshid=1ulg64z581wvw https://instagram.com/s0gand_?igshid=j19y406099dt Contact Me: 1. @candidwithkibo instagram.com/candidwithkibo 2. Candidwithkibo@gmail

S2E3 How My Trauma Robbed me of Joy During the Holidays

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 16, 2020 35:28


You'd never believe that around the Holiday Season, I was the Scrooge..Not Fun! Listen to my transition from feeling crappy around the holidays to actually embracing the season with wide arms. This could be you as well. Contact: @candidwithkibo instagram.com/candidwithkibo Email: Candidwithkibo@gmail.com Personal: @Kibobetts instagram.com/kibobetts

S2E2 Jesus is Awesome, But Therapy & Life Coaching Are Tools

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 30, 2020 46:30


This is my one year of being in Life Coaching/Therapy for the last year. There are some things I learned that are worthy of mentioning. I hope that this encourages you to seek this if you feel that you need help navigating life in general. Find a Therapist/Life Coach ------------------------------------------- Bridges2life.com (Life Coach) Therapyforblackgirls.com https://therapyforblackmen.org/ Betterhelp.org Check your insurance provider to see where you can get services for therapy. To contact: Email: candidwithkibo@gmail.com Instagram: @candidwithkibo https://www.instagram.com/candidwithkibo/ Facebook: Candid With Kibo (page)

S2E1 Surface Level Wealth is Personal w. Michelle @2kpromise

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 13, 2020 99:49


What are were your first encounters with handling money? Was it healthy? Do you have desires about handling your finances more responsibly? Listen to this episode on some insight that could possibly help you with your finances. 1. Michelle @2kpromise 2k by Christmas challenge. https://www.instagram.com/2kpromise/ 2.@richjourney https://instagram.com/richjourney?igshid=8vtppbgjlqsv 3. @ayeshaselden - Real Estate Gurus book : mud to millions https://www.instagram.com/ayeshaselden/ 4. @forbetterorworth couple $702k net worth investing while they pay off debt https://www.instagram.com/forbetterorworth/ 5. Patricia Bright @thebreaksocial https://www.instagram.com/thebreaksocial/ 6. Secrets of 6 figure women - Barbara stanny https://www.amazon.com/dp/0060933461/?ref=exp_kibobetts_dp_vv_d 7. Overcoming underearning - Barbara stanny https://www.amazon.com/dp/006081862X/?ref=exp_kibobetts_dp_vv_d 8. The power of broke - Damon John of the Shark Tank show https://www.amazon.com/dp/1101903619/?ref=exp_kibobetts_dp_vv_d 9. Mint app https://www.mint.com 10. Every dollar app EveryDollar Budgeting App | EveryDollar.com 11. Financial Peace University https://www.daveramsey.com/fpu?utm_source=google&utm_id=go_cmp-907399568_adg-48079740907_ad-289700892626_aud-356346944040:kwd-296059397246_dev-c_ext-_prd-&gclid=Cj0KCQiA-rj9BRCAARIsANB_4AD2uejLRwLGFrld_GCw5PVJ84aeCZqPUXmudA3Y61-67ls_bISwSjMaAkMmEALw_wcB Disclaimer: 
Michelle and I are not licensed financial advisors. So please use this info to your discretion, noting that it is just the personal advice of individuals sharing for the purposes of providing some insight.

Ep. 10: Habits and Beliefs You Need to Unlearn NOW (Part 2)

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 28, 2020 34:27


We've discussed habits that are learned the hard way..and this is pretty much the opposite. What are some things that you should unlearn? Let's talk about it! To contact: Email: candidwithkibo@gmail.com Instagram: @candidwithkibo https://www.instagram.com/candidwithkibo/ Facebook: Candid With Kibo (page)

Ep.9: Habits & Beliefs You Need to Unlearn NOW (Part 1)

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 12, 2020 38:53


We've discussed habits that are learned the hard way..and this is pretty much the opposite. What are some things that you should unlearn? Let's talk about it! Mentioned: Tasha Butler of the Regal Lady Blog https://www.instagram.com/iamtashabutler/ https://www.instagram.com/theregallady/ To contact: Email: candidwithkibo@gmail.com Instagram: @candidwithkibo https://www.instagram.com/candidwithkibo/ Facebook: Candid With Kibo (page)

Ep.8: Learning to Win at Friendships...Am I the Toxic Friend?

Play Episode Listen Later Jul 20, 2020 57:45


Friendships can be beautiful, but they can also get messy when things get out of hand. Are there any reoccuring patterns that you recognize when it comes to how you handle the relationships in your life? In this episode I give you some examples of what a healthy friendship looks like, what it shouldn't look like, and also red signs that may be concerning and become points of interest to address. Learn from my mistakes so that you don't learn this lesson the hard way. Resources mentioned: Luke 6:43-45

Ep.7: Five Lessons You Keep Learning The Hard Way

Play Episode Listen Later Jul 7, 2020 46:30


Ever wonder why you end up in really similar situations? In this episode,I discuss the themes that have recurred in my life until I knew what I was supposed to learn in that season. Join me as I speak about some lessons that you can relate to and probably have struggled with as well. Podcast Instagram: @candidwithkibo Email: candidwithkibo@gmail.com Other resources mentioned: @carefreeandblackdiaries by Shaakira White https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/carefree-and-black-diaries/id1378049208 Please feel free to send in your questions and words of affirmation!

Ep.6: Five Lessons I Learned From My Dad | Happy Father's Day

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 20, 2020 49:50


Ep.6: Five Lessons I Learned From My Dad | Happy Father's Day by Chelsea Akibo-Betts

Ep.5 Part 2 : Moving Out When Home Gets Toxic with KPSparks

Play Episode Listen Later May 25, 2020 50:00


On this podcast, we discuss the topic that’s never really talked about- moving out when home gets toxic. We discuss what toxic environments may look like and the impact on your mental health in the long run. People sometimes get happy about moving out of their parent’s homes (as we discussed in the last podcast episode. But what happens when you’ve had one red flag too many and it becomes imperative that you create a game plan and move out (hopefully for good). Join KP and Kibo as we discuss our personal stories and first-hand experience with this sensitive matter. Info on my Guest KP - Kimberly Palmer is a second time guest on the show. KP encourages people to vigorously go after their passions with a sprinkle of tech- as she works in technology. She has a youtube channel and can be found on every platform possible. Kimberly Palmer @KpSparks_ www.instagram.com/kpsparks_/ Her Youtube Link to this Podcast: https://youtu.be/Ppp2ww7zyi0 Our Release2Empower Community-Based Organization: https://www.instagram.com/release2empower/

Ep.5 (Part 1) I Want to Live On My Own ft. Tavares Martin and Fennella Like Whoa

Play Episode Listen Later May 11, 2020 89:04


Everyone wants to live on their own upon graduating from college or just being a millennial. It's a rite of passage in many aspects. What are the pros and cons of living on your own? What is the cost of living for the city that you'd like to live in? Would you move in with roommates to decrease your expenses, or are you financially stable enough to live on your own? Join us as we dive into this topic of living on our own and hear our different perspectives. Tavares https://www.instagram.com/smswfitness/ & https://www.instagram.com/thefitpapichulo/ is an elite fitness coach. He enforces lifestyle reform, focusing on your daily habits to promote longevity of progress. His support extends beyond the gym: providing workout plans, nutrition guides, meal plans, and more. Overall, He does his best to educate his clients. Emphasizing the importance of understanding how to structure their own workouts, building better lifestyle habits around work, and recovery time so they can teach the things they’ve learned to their loved ones. Fennella Like Whoa https://www.instagram.com/fennellalikewhoa/ is a Sierra Leonean model, blogger, and creative entrepreneur. Growing up in an African household Like Whoa was inspired by the style expertise and fashion knowledge of her African parents. As a teen, she became deeply interested in the cultural and spiritual meaning of clothing and began to apply those principles to her style and aesthetic. She uses fashion, arts, and media as a way to communicate and convey positive messages that uplift her generation. Be sure to find us at https://www.instagram.com/candidwithkibo/ and email any questions you have to candidwithkibo@gmail.com

Ep.4 We're Hardwired for Connection w. Therapist KerriAnne Sejour

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 27, 2020 48:31


In this episode, we discuss the different ways that we can remain grounded during COVID-19. We discuss how therapy can help during this season of uncertainty with KerriAnne Sejour, MHC-LP (Mental Health Counselor Limited Permit). KerriAnne Sejour graduated with a Bachelor of Arts in Psychology from Goucher College, received a Master of Arts in Counseling, and a Master of Education in Mental Health Counseling from Teacher’s College, Columbia University. Some of her areas of interest include Women’s Health, Maternal Mental health, Reproductive Justice, Social Justice, and Multiculturalism. KerriAnne Sejour’s approach to therapy is psychodynamic and relational and She views therapy as a medium through which individuals can explore the complexities of their everyday lives while being seen, heard, and valued. We discuss the stigmas associated with therapy as well as the need to normalize it and for people to recognize the positive effects in your life. KerriAnne and Kibo talk about what changes they’ve noticed during COVID-19 in people’s behaviors and well as different things everyone might be grieving during the quarantine period. Join us as we explore these topics together. KerriAnne Sejour MHC-LP (Mental Health Counselor Limited Permit) https://therapybrooklyn.com/about/ Her Instagram: @beautyqueenkerri https://www.instagram.com/beautyqueenkerri/ @therapy_inmotion https://www.instagram.com/therapy_inmotion/ Resources Mentioned Postparatumproject.com Dmvpmhresourceguide.com Psychology Today https://www.psychologytoday.com/us?tr=Hdr_Brand Therapy for Black Girls https://therapyforblackgirls.com/about/ Melanin and Mental health https://www.melaninandmentalhealth.com/ Zocdoc https://www.zocdoc.com/therapist-counselors Openpathpsychotherapy https://openpathcollective.org/ Opencounseling/Maryland https://www.opencounseling.com/maryland (free & low-cost) Probonocounselingproject https://probonocounseling.org/(free & low-cost) Please stay up to date with us at @candidwithkibo https://www.instagram.com/candidwithkibo/ and follow my personal page @kibobetts https://www.instagram.com/kibobetts/. If you have any questions or topics you’d like to hear us cover please send an email to candidwithkibo@gmail.com

Ep.3: Navigating Major Life Changes

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 13, 2020 34:04


Navigating major life changes are inevitable, in fact, it's one of the few aspects guaranteed in life- that it WILL change. Here I discuss examples of major life changes, with a personal touch of my own examples and how I've been able to handle them as it comes along. Verses Mentioned: Ecclesiastes 4:12 NLT Ephesians 6:12 Romans 5: 3-4 Matthew 6:34 Hebrews 12:27

Ep.2 : Uncertainty & Social Distancing with KPSparks and Katrina Binutu

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 31, 2020 43:20


As you guys know, this month has been a LONG one due to our unwelcomed guest Coronavirus aka COVID-19, aka Rona, aka Coro Coro - or whatever you call it we can't wait for it to stop messing with us. During this forced possibly two-month long quarantine we'll get through this together. Listen to how were coping during COVID-19. We discuss everything from self-care to job loss during this season as you're NOT alone. I am joined by castmembers Kimberly P. and Katrina Binutu. Special Guests: Kimberly Palmer @KpSparks_ www.instagram.com/kpsparks_/ Katrina Binutu of Keeper Webseries : www.youtube.com/channel/UCNZdPfiGK_Tcwpat5n04J6g Verses Mentioned: Jeremiah 29:11 James 4:14 Proverbs 17:22 Psalm 91 Resources Mentioned: www.dllr.state.md.us/employment/uibenefits.shtml (general MD COVID info) secure-2.dllr.state.md.us/NetClaims/Welcome.aspx (MD unemployment) does.dcnetworks.org/initialclaims/Step7.aspx (DC Unemployment) www.vawc.virginia.gov/vosnet/registr…d/uiclaim.aspx (VA unemployment)

Ep.1 : How Grief Dealt With Me

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 12, 2020 18:50


Okay so let's address the elephant in the room...Have you dealt with grief or has it dealt with you? Join me as I share pieces of my story and what my journey has been navigating a parental loss. Yours may not be parental, but either way in this episode you'll hear what my first-hand experience with death was, how it impacted my mental health, and what you can do now to prepare for this moment. Mentioned: Taraji P Henson https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=I_j1wMoSxjg Email: candidwithkibo@gmail.com

Introduction...What is Candid With Kibo?

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 12, 2020 8:07


Welcome to Candid With Kibo! In this episode, I introduce myself, state the mission & vision for the podcast. As I mentioned in the podcast, I get so overwhelmed by all of the hats that I wear that when people ask me what I do I'm not sure how to answer. In saying that I forgot to mention that I do hair and makeup @inkiboskare, so you can catch me there as well. Where can you find me? Instagram: @candidwithkibo Email: candidwithkibo@gmail.com

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