Growing Consciousness

This episode is a story about a lady troubled in finding meaning in life, gaining different perspective after listening to life story of old lady. This episode explains on how to view positive side of life and gain happiness from simple things in life. Youtube Link: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xophMW77Jpg

In this audio I focus on Jealousy, How it is ruining our relationships and making our lives terrible. And I give you guys 3 ways through which you can get rid of jealousy and be able to celebrate other people's success.

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Benefits of having good learning attitude My name is Sudarshan Jassani Purohit. I hail from a small but beautiful district jaisalmer (Rajasthan). I had my primary education (till 10th standard) from Kendriya vidhyalaya jaisalmer. My parents say that i have very inquisitive nature from birth. i try to question and find solution to everything around me, i think because of that i have good hunger for learning. I was good at maths and kota (hub of coaching classes) is not very far from jaisalmer so i started preparing for JEE in kota and fortunately cracked it with AIR of 308. ​ Jaisalmer is in the list of backward districts in india and cracking IIT where people know only about ITI was completely because of past good karmas. ​ I did my engineering in EE from IITM. In my 2nd year i went to pune for an internship. CEO in that company was earlier a prof at IITM. Working their i understood that i can utilize my full potential only if i run an organization. i will be taking my own decisions, will be working on many thing like technology, marketing , operations etc and obviously if it clicks i will have lot of money and fame. Having that in mind i attended many lectures from different entrepreneur and as soon as i came out of IIT i started my own company (Zenify.in which got sold to nestaway.com ) with my two friends. I had high will but no skills to run a company and then i started learning leadership. Read more than 70 books on leadership and strategies. Learning leadership has changed me as an individual. Actually leadership is about having good attitude and character. i was able to get rid of many of my mental problems like anger, jealousy, fear, indiscipline, negativity, selfishness etc. Because of the growth of my consciousness (which is leadership) i am more happy and successful individual. ​ Later i read autobiography of yogi (by paramhansa yoganada) and understood that if you grow your consciousness you have everything. As god is at highest consciousness and he has everything like that if we grow our consciousness we will have everything.

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A successful businessman was growing old and knew it was time to choose a successor to take over the business. Instead of choosing one of his Directors or his children, he decided to do something different. He brought all the young executives in his company together and said, "It is time for me to step down and choose the next CEO and I have decided that it will be one of you." The young executives were shocked, but the boss continued. "I am going to give each of you a seed today - a very special one. I want you to plant the seed, water it and come back here one year from today with what you have grown from the seed I have given you. I will then judge the plants that you bring, and the person whose plant I choose will be the next CEO" A man named Jim was there that day and he, like the others, received a seed. When he got home, he excitedly told his wife the story. She helped him get a pot, soil, and compost for the seed and he planted it. Every day he would water it and check to see if it had grown. After about three weeks, some of the other executives began to talk about their seeds and the plants that were beginning to grow from them. Jim kept checking his seed but nothing ever grew. Three weeks, four weeks, five weeks went by, still nothing. By now others were talking about their plants, but Jim didn't have a plant and he felt like a failure. Six months went by -- still nothing in Jim's pot. He just knew he had killed his seed. Everyone else had trees and tall plants, but he had nothing. Jim didn't say anything to his colleagues, however, he just kept watering and fertilizing the soil - he so badly wanted to see the seed grow. A year finally went by and all the young executives of the company brought their plants to the CEO for inspection. Jim told his wife that he wasn't going to take an empty pot. But she asked him to be honest about what happened. Jim felt sick to his stomach, it was going to be the most embarrassing moment of his life, but he knew his wife was right. He took his empty pot to the boardroom. When Jim arrived, he was amazed at the variety of plants grown by the other executives. They were beautiful -- in all shapes and sizes. Jim put his empty pot on the floor and many of his colleagues laughed and felt sorry for him. When the CEO arrived, he surveyed the room and greeted his young executives. Jim tried his best to hide in the back. "My, what great plants, trees, and flowers you have grown," he said. "Today one of you will be appointed the next CEO!" All of a sudden, he spotted Jim at the back of the room with an empty pot. He ordered the Financial Director to bring him to the front. Jim was terrified. He thought, "The CEO knows I'm a failure. He will have me fired!" When Jim got to the front, the CEO asked him what had happened to his seed - Jim told him the story. The CEO asked everyone to sit down except Jim. He looked at him, and then announced to the young executives, "Behold your next Chief Executive Officer! His name is Jim." Jim couldn't believe it. He couldn't even grow his seed! "How could he be the new CEO?" the others asked. The CEO replied, "One year ago today, I gave everyone in this room a seed. I told you to take the seed, plant it, water it, and bring it back to me today. But I gave you all boiled seeds; they were dead - it was not possible for them to grow.”

As he was a kid, his father as a horse trainer was moving from stable to stable, from ranch to ranch, training horses. Thus, the boy‘s school career was constantly interrupted. One day, when he was a senior, teacher asked him to write about what he wanted to be when he grew up. He did not hesitate a minute and wrote seven-page paper about his aim to be an owner of a horse ranch, he wrote many details and drew a location of buildings and stables and even a detailed house plan. Two days later he received his paper back with letter „F“ on the front page. After class he came to teacher and asked: „Why did I receive an F?“. The teacher responded: „This dreams is so unrealistic for a boy like you, who has no money, no resources and who comes from a family who travel places to places. There is no possibility that you will reach your great goals one day.“ Then the teacher offered to rewrite the paper with more realistic attitude. The boy went home and asked his father, how should he act. The father answered: „This decision is very important for you. So you have to make your own mind on this“. After several days the boy brought the same paper to his teacher. No changes were made. He said: „Keep the F and I will keep my dream“. Now Monty Roberts owns 4,000-square-foot house in the middle of 200-acre horse ranch and he still has that school paper, which now is framed over the fireplace. Remember, you have to follow your heart and never let anyone to steal your dreams. Many a times we are highly positive about ourself but because of influensive negative people around us like our parents or our teacher we also become negative and because of that we get low self esteem and low self conidence. Other will say that we cant do it but we dont have to listen to them. we have to keep our thought positive in adverse situation. Monty roberts were able to handle the negative people well was able to motivate himself , he was able to stand up and take responsibility of his dream and he was able to believe on himself. If you want to larn the above 4 attitude then you can watch my 4 videos: 1. how to handle negative people? 2. be a motivator for yourself and others 3. take responsibility and become successful 4. how to ensure success for your kids and other family members

One night after dinner, a teacher began checking her students’ homework while her husband was strolling around the house, playing his favourite game on his phone. On reading the last note, she began crying while silent tears rolled down her cheeks. Her husband saw this and asked, “Why are you crying, my dear? What happened?” The wife replied, “Yesterday at school, I gave my 1st-grade students a task to write something on the topic ‘My Wish’.” “Okay, but why are you crying?” The wife woefully replied, “Listen to what one of my students wrote: My wish is to become a smartphone. My parents love smartphones very much. They care about it so much that sometimes they forget to care about me. When my father gets home from work, he says he’s tired but he always has time for his phone. Not for me. If my parents are doing some important work but the phone rings, it gets answered within a single ring. But they never pay attention to me, even if I am crying. They play games on their phones, not with me. When they are talking to someone on their phone, they won’t stop to listen to me. Even if I am trying to say something important. That’s why my wish is to become a smartphone.” After listening to the note, the husband got emotional and asked the wife, “Who wrote this?”. She replied, “Our son”. -- Gadgets are beneficial, but their purpose is to bring us ease, not to cease the bonds of love we have with our family and loved ones. Children can observe and understand everything that happens to them & around them. These things get imprinted on their minds with an everlasting effect. Let’s take the care that’s required to ensure that they grow up with the right impression. If you want to learn how to create a strong bond with your family members then watch the video I created on the subject of “How to improve relationships with families - your spouse, kids, and parents and live a simple life.”

We become angry either by negative people if they say something negative to us or by negative result of your actions like if we loose a game or by negative incident happened to us like our car broke down in between or by material things like we could not get food as per your taste. Now when ever we get angry our temperature increases, our tone change and we dont see the total picture , we dont see the timing and we just out burst with full negative energy. Remember the outburst with fill negative energy has direct impact on our health because of anger our immune system deteriorate, chances of heart attack increase, we might get mental stroke, we might go into depression, it impact our lungs also and ultimately it reduces our life span. Anger has very bad impact on our health and others health who are facing our anger. so here are the ways of how to control it well: 1. When ever we face a negative incident what we usually do is we try to think of al the negative things happened in past and by that we become more negative. Keep past incident in past and dont exaggarate the situation by thinking all the past negative incidents. 2. When ever we are angry try not to take any physical action. When we are angry we are full with negative energy and we take wrong action and decision that time. These action which we take when we are angry hamper our relationship in long term because actions are remembered more than the words. 3. Best way to control anger is by thinking positive and not letting negative thoughts to control your mind at all. One good positive statement which i use is its not the action its the response which make the difference. What ever negative has happened to me the only thing which will make the difference will be how do i response it. If i will be responding it positively then situation will be better and if i will respond negatively then situation will be worse. Like to make sound by clapping we need both the hand if one hand is higher than other than we will not be able to make a sound. So if one person is higher which means if he is positive then he will be able to control the situation. Other positive statement is that we must always keep relationship higher than situation. however other person is behaving i will never let my relationship hamper by reacting negatively. i will forgive my family memebers for their mistakes because i will keep relationship higher then situation. i will not think negative about my family members. To learn how to keep relationship higher then situation you can see my video how to improve relationship? 4. Let say if we were not able to control ourselves and became negative in these negative situation and outburst then only option left with us is asking for forgiveness. When we ask for forgiveness its not that we will become lower then other person it just that we mean relationship more that that situation. We can actually ask for forgiveness because we also became negative that time. If we were able to keep ourselves positive then we would not have got the anger and there were no fight. Use the points i mentioned in my video and not let any negative situation make your angry. bye bye.

A crow lived in the forest and was absolutely satisfied in life. But one day he saw a swan. "This swan is so white," he thought, "and I am so black. This swan must be the happiest bird in the world." He expressed his thoughts to the swan. "Actually," the swan replied, "I was feeling that I was the happiest bird around until I saw a parrot, which has two colors. I now think the parrot is the happiest bird in creation." The crow then approached the parrot. The parrot explained, "I lived a very happy life—until I saw a peacock. I have only two colors, but the peacock has multiple colors." The crow then visited a peacock in the zoo and saw that hundreds of people had gathered to see him. After the people had left, the crow approached the peacock. "Dear peacock," the crow said, "you are so beautiful. Every day thousands of people come to see you. When people see me, they immediately shoo me away. I think you are the happiest bird on the planet." The peacock replied, "I always thought that I was the most beautiful and happy bird on the planet. But because of my beauty, I am entrapped in this zoo. I have examined the zoo very carefully, and I have realized that the crow is the only bird not kept in a cage. So for past few days I have been thinking that if I were a crow, I could happily roam everywhere." Moral of the story That's our problem too. We make unnecessary comparison with others and become sad. We don't value what has God given us. This all leads to the vicious cycle of unhappiness. Value the things God has given us. Learn the secret of being happy and discard the comparison which leads only to unhappiness we can value what we have by thinking positive about us and about our belongings. We must not allow any negative thought to come in our mind about ourselves. If you want to learn how to be always positive then you can watch my video how to remain always happy and how to handle negative people. If you want to learn how to keep thinking positive about ourselves then you can watch my video how to motivate ourselves and others.

It was almost the end of the day. Everyone had packed up to check out of the Freezer Plant. One man noticed that a technical snag had developed in the plant and he went back in to inspect it. By the time he had finished, it was late. The doors were sealed in and the lights were turned off. Trapped inside the ice plant for the night without air and light, an icy grave was almost sure for him. Hours passed and with every passing moment, the dread started to trickle in. Suddenly, he found someone trying to open the door. “Is this a miracle?”, he thought. The security guard entered with a torch, found this freezing man and helped get him out. The puzzled yet grateful man asked the guard, “How did you know that I was inside? Who told you to find me here?” The guard said, “No one, sir. This unit has about 50 people. But you are the only one who says ‘Hello’ to me in the morning and ‘Goodbye’ in the evening. I noticed that you had checked in to work in the morning, but did not see you go out in the evening. That made me suspicious so I had to check and see where you could be!” The man was astonished. He had never expected a gesture as small as greeting someone to be a lifesaver. -- Remember to greet someone when you meet them, and maybe add in a warm smile too! You never know how that could manifest a miracle into your life too. If you’re interested in becoming a charismatic and approachable person whom everyone is fond of, you could watch one of my videos on “How to live a simple life” and “5 ways to make people like you”.

*An amazing story on Marvan Attapattu Srilankan Cricketer*_ It’s a story that Harsha Bhogle, India’s most loved cricket commentator,loves to tell, over and over again. Making his debut in Test cricket for Sri Lanka, Marvan scored a duck in his first innings. And again, in his second innings. They dropped him. So he went back to the nets for more practice. More first-class cricket. More runs. Waiting for that elusive call. And after twenty-one months, he got a second chance. This time, he tried harder. His scores: 0 in the first innings, 1 in the second Dropped again, he went back to the grind. And scored tonnes of runs in first-class cricket. Runs that seemed inadequate to erase the painful memories of the Test failures. Well, seventeen months later, opportunity knocked yet again. Marvan got to bat in both innings of the Test. His scores: 0 and 0. Phew! Back to the grind. Would the selectors ever give him another chance? They said he lacked big-match temperament. His technique wasn’t good enough at the highest level. Undaunted, Marvan kept trying. Three years later, he got another chance. This time, he made runs. He came good. And in an illustrious career thereafter, Marvan went on to score over 5000 runs for Sri Lanka. That included sixteen centuries and six double hundreds. And he went on to captain his country. All this despite taking over six years to score his second run in Test cricket. Wow! What a guy! How many of us can handle failure as well as he did? Six years of trying, and failing. He must have been tempted to pursue another career. Change his sport perhaps. Play county cricket. Or, oh well, just give up. But he didn’t. And that made the difference. The next time you are staring at possible failure or rejection, think of Marvan. And remember this: If you don’t give up, if you believe in yourself, if you stay the course, the run will eventually come. What more you could even become captain some day. Marvan attapattu was able to motivate himself all the time. you can learn this attitude by watching my video how to motivate yourself and others amd he tookk responsibility and didnt blame someone else and became successful to learn this attitude u can see my video take responsibility and become successful.

A frog decided to reach the top of a tree All frog shouted its impossible , its impossible Still the frog reached the top How? because he was deaf and he thoght everyone was encouraging him to reach the top Be deaf to negative thoughts if your aim is to reach your goal!!! i am sure you would have many people around you who will be little you. dont listen to them, they actually negatively impact our confidence and self esteem. BE with people who are positive about you. they will motivate you they will encourage you do do great in life. We can choose our enviroment we can decide on with whom we want to invest time with. Chosse someone who has higher attitude and character.

Most of you must have seen the thrilling final of ipl 2019. It was one of the best final which we had seen till date. HEro of the match from csk was shane watson because only he was the person who scored 80 run out of 148 which csk has scored in just 59 balls which include 4 sixes and 8 fours. Now one socking thing which had happened in the game was while diving to save himself of getting run out shane watson got his knee injured. But during the match he didnt tell anyone and he played with bloodied knee. His team mates also got to know this after the match and shane watson got 6 stitched in his knee. what a commitment from the australian player. One thing ois for sure that if we have to reach to the top then we all must have very high commitment. we must believe on ourself that we can actually achieve the result. We have to keep motivating our self to achieve the great result. We have to take responsibility of our result and work on improving ourself every day. To learn these attitudes you can watch my videos: take responsibility and become successful, how to motivate yourself and other, how to ensure success for your family and how to remain always happy. All the great individual has great attitude and guys if you want to beciome great in life then see my videos and implement those in your life and become great.

This true story is a real inspiration. There was a young man in Kansas City who realised that he had the natural talent for cartooning. He sent many application letters to many media houses but none of them were willing to employ him. Fortunately for him a church decided to employ him to run their adverts for them. He did not have a place to stay so he approached the Pastor with his embrassing situation. The Pastor told him that the church had an abandoned one room building on the premises and was told to check if he will stay there. He went to see the room and it was a mice infested room. He had no choice but moved in. The room became both his bedroom and studio with the mice as his room mates. These mice inspired this young man and he developed the multi billion dollar entertainment brand MICKY MOUSE and now the world famous entertainment center called Disney land in California and Disney world in Florida. The name of this young man is Walt Disney. Questions 1. Why should a Pastor employ a cartoonist? 2. Why did the Pastor not fumigate the room for him and deduct it from the salary? 3. Why did God made sure that the young man will not immediately have money to fumigate the room. God will use anything to trigger your exit from a Season and your entry into a new Season. Are you going through a challenge? Never say God why me? Rather ask God what do you want me to learn from this experience? He makes all things work together for our good. He can even use what you call "pain and disappointment" to trigger your season of joy and gladness. wlat disney was able to keep himself motivated if you want to learn that attitude then see my video how to motivate yourselg and others.he was able to handle the negativ situation well for tha you can see my video how to remain always happy anf how to handle negative people. Be inspired and stay blessed!

A long time ago, there was a huge apple tree. A little boy loved to come and play around it every day. He climbed to the treetop, ate the apples, and took a nap under the shadow. He loved the tree and the tree loved to play with him. Time went by, the little boy had grown up and he no longer played around the tree every day. One day, the boy came back to the tree and he looked sad. “Come and play with me”, the tree asked the boy. Boy: “I am no longer a kid, I do not play around trees anymore” the boy replied. “I want toys. I need money to buy them.” Tree: “Sorry, but I do not have money, but you can pick all my apples and sell them. So, you will have money.” The boy was so excited. He grabbed all the apples on the tree and left happily. The boy never came back after he picked the apples. The tree was sad. One day, the boy who now turned into a man returned and the tree was excited. “Come and play with me” the tree said. “I do not have time to play. I have to work for my family. We need a house for shelter. Can you help me?” “Sorry, but I do not have any house. But you can chop off my branches to build your house.” So the man cut all the branches of the tree and left happily. The tree was glad to see him happy but the man never came back since then. The tree was again lonely and sad. One hot summer day, the man returned and the tree was delighted. “Come and play with me!” the tree said. “I am getting old. I want to go sailing to relax myself. Can you give me a boat?” said the man. “Use my trunk to build your boat. You can sail far away and be happy.” So the man cut the tree trunk to make a boat. He went sailing and never showed up for a long time. Finally, the man returned after many years. “Sorry, my boy. But I do not have anything for you anymore. No more apples for you”, the tree said. “No problem, I do not have any teeth to bite” the man replied. Tree : “No more trunk for you to climb on.” “I am too old for that now” the man said. “I really cannot give you anything, the only thing left is my dying roots,” the tree said with tears. “I do not need much now, just a place to rest. I am tired after all these years,” the man replied. “Good! Old tree roots are the best place to lean on and rest, come sit down with me and rest.” The man sat down and the tree was glad and smiled with tears. This is a story of everyone. The tree is like our parents. When we were young, we loved to play with our Mum and Dad. When we grow up, we leave them; only come to them when we need something or when we are in trouble. No matter what, parents will always be there and give everything they could just to make you happy. You may think the boy is cruel to the tree, but that is how all of us treat our parents. We take them for granted; we don’t appreciate all they do for us, until it’s too late. ~ Moral ~ Treat your parents with loving care…. For you will know their value, when you see their empty chair…!!!! We never know the love of our parents for us ; Till we have become Parents. If you want to learn how to make a strong bond with your family members then see my video : how to improve relationship in family with spouse, kids and parents? and how to live a simple life? and How to make a healthy relationship with family members - kids, parents and spouse?

The Problem is we dont have any control on what we get !!! We can do activities but we dont have any control on how these activities will impact us !!! If we have positive thoughts Even when the results of our action is not as per our intention Then we will not be sad !!!

I have a story of a motivator today you were able to motivATE himself in very tough situation and at very old age. Story goes something like this: At age 5 his Father died. At age 16 he quit school. At age 17 he had already lost four jobs. At age 18 he got married. Between ages 18 and 22, he was a railroad contractor and failed. He joined the army and washed out there. He applied for law school he was rejected. He became an insurance sales man and failed again. At age 19 he became a father. At age 20 his wife left him and took their baby daughter. He became a cook and dishwasher in a small cafe. He failed in an attempt to kidnap his own daughter, and eventually he convinced his wife to return home. At age 65 he retired. On the 1st day of retirement he received a cheque from the Government for $105. This money was not at all enough for his family. He decided to commit suicide, it wasn’t worth living anymore; he had failed so much. He sat under a tree writing his will, but instead, he wrote what he would have accomplished with his life. He realised there was much more that he hadn’t done. There was one thing he could do better than anyone he knew. And that was how to cook. So he borrowed $87 against his cheque and bought and fried up some chicken using his recipe, and went door to door to sell them to his neighbours in Kentucky. Remember at age 65 he was ready to commit suicide. But at age 88 *Colonel Sanders, founder of Kentucky Fried Chicken (KFC) Empire was a billionaire.* So you see It's never too late to start all over again. MOST IMPORTANLY, IT'S ALL ABOUT YOUR ATTITUDE. NEVER GIVE UP NO MATTER HOW HARD IT GETS. This will happen when you will be able to encourage yourself enough and will take responsibility of your failure. If you want to learn how to encourage yourself and how to be more responsible then you can watch my videos: take responsibility and become successful and be a motivator for yourself and others!!!

Now My new project is to grow peoples consciousness. Come lets work together to make this world a better place to live. Hi guys welcome to my channel growing consciousness. This story is about how positive thinking can increase your happiness and success in life. the story goes something like this. A famous writer was in his study room. He picked up his pen and started writing : **Last year, I had a surgery and my gall bladder was removed. I had to stay stuck to the bed due to this surgery for a long time. **The same year I reached the age of 60 years and had to give up my favourite job. I had spent 30 years of my life in this publishing company. **The same year I experienced the sorrow of the death of my father. **And in the same year my son failed in his medical exam because he had a car accident. He had to stay in bed at hospital with the cast on for several days. The destruction of car was another loss. At the end he wrote: Alas! It was such bad year !! When the writer's wife entered the room, she found her husband looking sad lost in his thoughts. From behind his back she read what was written on the paper. She left the room silently and came back with another paper and placed it on side of her husband's writing. When the writer saw this paper, he found his name written on it with following lines : **Last year I finally got rid of my gall bladder due to which I had spent years in pain.... **I turned 60 with sound health and got retired from my job. Now I can utilize my time to write something better with more focus and peace..... **The same year my father, at the age of 95, without depending on anyone or without any critical condition met his Creator..... **The same year, God blessed my son with a new life. My car was destroyed but my son stayed alive without getting any disability...... At the end she wrote: This year was an immense blessing of God and it passed well !!! The writer was indeed happy and amazed at such beautiful and encouraging interpretation of the happenings happened in his life in that year !!! Moral : In daily lives we must see that its our thought which make us happy or sad. If you want to learn how to keep our thoughts positive you can see my videos how to remain always happy and how to handle negative people. To all my lovely friends...Think positive.....Be happy...Stay Blessed