Emotion referring to the thoughts and feelings of insecurity, fear, and envy over relative lack of possessions, status or something of great personal value
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The deepest suffering often begins with five small words: "I wish it was different." In this episode, Coach Jenn and I uncover how that single thought fuels jealousy, judgment, comparison, and how to turn inward instead of outward when those emotions rise. You'll learn why jealousy isn't really about her, or them, or anyone else, it's about the unspoken parts of yourself asking to be seen. When you stop resisting what is and start listening to what's inside, you'll find that real joy isn't something to chase, it's something that's been waiting for you all along. Ready to Take This Work Deeper?: Are you ready to stop living on autopilot and start creating the life you actually want? The Life Upgrade Masterclass Series is your monthly blueprint for real change. 12-months of live Masterclass workshops (with replays available) designed to help you break old patterns, build momentum, and create lasting transformation. With a focused downloadable workbook monthly, you'll get the tools, strategies, and structure to take charge of your growth and stay aligned with your goals. No more drifting. No more stuck. Just intentional action, one month at a time. CLICK HERE TO REGISTER NOW! Interested in 1:1 Coaching? Go to bflycoaching.com/coaching to schedule your free 30-minute consultation with one of our BFLY Coaches today! Visit bflycoaching.com and learn more about how to work with me! Follow me on social media: Facebook: @bflycoaching Instagram: @shannanchristiansen
In today's video, I discuss how to handle retroactive jealousy destroying relationship. Read or watch below to learn strategies for dealing with retroactive jealousy destroying relationship. Zachary Stockill: Are you ruining a perfectly good relationship because of retroactive jealousy? Maybe you're pushing your partner away—on purpose or without even realizing it—because you're worried about their […] The post Retroactive Jealousy Destroying Relationship? Consider This [VIDEO] appeared first on Overcoming Retroactive Jealousy.
Adam works with a client who was feeling anxious and jealous while their partner was seeing another person. Although they were in an open relationship, they felt that the rules of the open relationship were not being stuck to which made they feel jealous. Adam helps them release the anxiety feeling that they can either accept or leave the relationship. To access a subscriber-only version with no intro, outro, explanation, or ad breaks with just the hypnosis and nothing else, click subscribe. To access all hypnosis-only versions and exclusive subscriber sessions and have invitations to live hypnosis sessions over Zoom, tap 'Subscribe' nearby or click the following link.https://creators.spotify.com/pod/profile/adam-cox858/subscribe
This exploration of jealousy by Ryan Kresge takes us deep into 1 Samuel 18, where we witness the devastating contrast between Jonathan's covenant friendship with David and King Saul's descent into bitter jealousy.We discover that jealousy doesn't announce itself with fanfare - it begins subtly, with seeds of insecurity and comparison that quietly take root in our souls.The message reveals how Saul, despite being the honored guest at a victory celebration, became consumed by a single line in a song comparing his thousands to David's tens of thousands.What should have been a shared triumph became poison in his heart. This ancient story mirrors our modern struggles with comparison - whether it's scrolling through social media, measuring our marriages against others, watching our hunting buddy shoot bigger bucks, or even comparing ministry impact through YouTube views.The message exposes how jealousy progresses from internal resentment to external violence, opening doors to spiritual harm and eventually turning our hearts against God Himself!Yet we're not left without hope - we're given four transformative practices: cultivating generosity in our assumptions and actions, practicing gratitude when comparison tempts us, publicly celebrating those we're tempted to envy, and praying genuinely for rather than about them.The challenge is clear: jealousy rots our bones, but a heart at peace with God gives life not only to ourselves but to everyone around us.Website: https://impact.church Facebook: https://facebook.com/ImpactChurchHome Instagram: https://instagram.com/ImpactChurchHome YouTube: https://youtube.com/@impactchurchhome TikTok: https://tiktokcom/@impactchurchhome
Welcome to today's ICYMI, where we kick off the week with a quick game-changing tip from one of our guests that you might have missed. If you find yourself comparing your life to everyone else's highlight reel… this throwback is for you.It's easy to spiral into self-doubt, jealousy, or the feeling that you're “falling behind.” But what if healthy envy isn't the enemy… what if it's your compass pointing you toward what you actually want? Tune in to learn the difference between motivating envy vs. toxic jealousy and comparison, and how to shift from “why not me?” to “what is this showing me about my desires?”Remember, The grass isn't greener on the other side. The grass is greener where you water it. Listen to the full episode here. Tune in every Monday for an expert dose of life advice in under 10 minutes. Sign up for our monthly adulting newsletter:teachmehowtoadult.ca/newsletter Follow us on the ‘gram:@teachmehowtoadultmedia@gillian.bernerFollow on TikTok: @teachmehowtoadultSubscribe on YouTube
Pastor Kirk Hall continues the sermon series entitled, "The Forgotten Jealousy Of God ." Today's message is titled, "What God's Jealousy Proves" — focusing on Exodus 34:14.
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Introduction: It's Time to Grow Up… (1 Corinthians 3:1–9) Because your childish THINKING holds you back. (1 Cor 3:1–2) Because your childish BEHAVIOR hurts others. (1 Cor 3:3) Because your childish FAVORITISM highlights man and not God. (1 Cor 3:4–8) Because your childish SELFISHNESS hides your identity. (1 Cor 3:9) God, help me to grow up. Today, I need to stop _______________________________________ and start _______________________________________. Sermon Notes (PDF): BLANKHint: Highlight blanks above for answers! Small Group DiscussionRead 1 Corinthians 3:1-9What was your big take-away from this passage / message?Why do so many Christians act like adult babies and why do so many churches pamper these adult babies? What is the solution to this problem?Define jealousy and strife. How do you see yourself being jealous or stirring up strife right now?According to Paul, why shouldn't there be any competition in the church?What identity does Paul assign to Christians in 1 Corinthians 3:9? How should this identity affect how you act and serve the church?BreakoutShare how you filled in the following blanks at the end of your outline: God, help me to grow up. Today, I need to stop _______________________________________ and start _______________________________________. Encourage and pray for one another. AUDIO TRANSCRIPT Turn your Bibles to 1 Corinthians chapter 3 verses 1 through 9.1 Corinthians chapter 3 verses 1 through 9.It's time to grow up.Have you ever thought that about someone else?You ever thought that about a neighbor, a coworker?Have you ever said that to someone else?To a friend, to a family member?And whenever you think or say that sentence, it always comes with a sense of frustration,a sense of disbelief that someone could be so immature, that someone could be so childish.I can distinctly remember a time where I thought and said that exact sentence.It's time to grow up.It was years ago as I was sick on the couch watching my favorite sick day show, Dr. Phil.And don't judge me for my favorite sick time show.You probably don't have one that's much better.Maybe it's helped me with counseling over the years. I don't really know.But I'll never forget this one particular episode as Dr. Phil interviewed a 24-year-old manwho considered himself 18 months old.He was an adult baby.He slept in a massive custom crib.He had customized onesies in his closet.He wore diapers and he ate baby food.And Dr. Phil asked him, "Do you think you'll ever grow past this age?"Is that decent? I've been working on that all week. Is that okay?My wife doesn't think it's really good, so I guess it's not.Pastor Jeff is encouraging me, though.And then Brett said, "I don't think so. I've done a lot of research.And this is the age that I feel, 18 months."I was so disturbed by Brett's delusions.I was so bothered by his contentment with never growing upand the unwillingness of his loved ones to call him out.As I was sick on that couch, I wanted to climb through the TVand join Dr. Phil in saying, "It's time to grow up."Do you know what's even sadder to me than Brett's childish behavior?The childish lifestyle of many Christians.Adult babies are in every church.Adult babies are men and women who are content to never grow up.Content to never mature.They are committed to staying right where they areand never making any progress.So many churches are content with pampering these adult babies,catering to their desires, and baby-proofing the Bibleto avoid any sharp edges or offensive truths.So many pastors are committed to playing along with people's delusionsrather than lovingly calling them out.Thankfully, the apostle Paul did not have that commitment.He had a much different commitment to the Corinthian church,who also had an adult baby problem.Paul was 100% committed to this church's unity and purity.He had no interest in playing along with their delusions.He was unwilling to clean up their toys,snap on their onesies, and tuck them into their adult cribs.He was unafraid to burst their bubble and to lovingly call them outbecause their behavior was unacceptable to Godand it was damaging to the entire church.Paul was bold in calling out the Corinthians and saying,"Okay, it's time to get your big boy pants on.It's time to grow up."And this message from Paul wasn't just for the Corinthiansalmost 2,000 years ago.This message from Paul is for Harvest Bible Chapel today.And I really don't want you to think,"Oh, man, I wish so-and-so was here.He or she really needs to grow up."Listen, that person isn't here, but you are.You really need to hear this word from the Lord.In some ways or in many ways, you need to grow up.I need to grow up.So before we continue any further, let's go to the Lord and ask for His help.Please pray for me that will faithfully proclaim God's wordand I will pray for you that you will faithfully receive it.Father, we just celebrated children in our church.Children are a gift. Children are a blessing.The Lord, when we as adults act like children, there's a huge problem.Lord, I admit to you that I can be an adult baby.I can be childish.And I know the same is true for every single person in this room.Help us to stop thinking that this is for somebody else.This is a word for each and every one of us.Maybe we'd walk out of this room as different peopleand we'd be put on the path to maturity.We ask and pray all these things in Jesus' name.Amen.It's time to grow up.Reason number one, because your child is thinking holds you back.Your child is thinking holds you back.In last week's passage, the Apostle Paul reminded usthat everyone who is in Christ has been given the mind of Christ.That sounds really awesome, doesn't it?But what in the world does that mean?What is the mind of Christ?God's Word.You have been given God's Word.You don't have to wonder what God thinks about anything.You don't have to wonder what God thinks about himself, salvation,or how you should live your life.He tells you in His Word.He not only gives you His Word,but He also gives you the Holy Spirit to help you understand this Wordand help you to understand how you apply it to your life.God doesn't tell you all that you could know,but He does tell you all that you need to know.Those who are spiritual are able to understand spiritual truths.Well, great. Thanks, Paul. I appreciate that.Here is a butt coming in chapter 3, verse 1.Listen to what Paul says."But I, brothers, could not address you as spiritual people,but as people of the flesh as infants in Christ."At first glance, it seems like Paul is sayingthat there are no Christians in Corinth.This church is only made up of unsaved peoplewho have no true life and no true relationship with God.But that's not what Paul is saying at all.There are true believers in Corinth,and there are two context clues in this versethat show us that Paul is talking to Corinthian Christians.First of all, Paul calls them brothers.Paul isn't Hulk Hogan. He isn't called everybody brother.That was just for Pastor Jeff.Paul only calls his spiritual siblings brothers and sisters.This is a term of affection.Paul isn't coming in hot saying,"Okay, idiots, time to shut up and grow up."That's not what he's doing.He's not putting them in a headlock and giving them noogiesuntil they do what he tells them to do.No, he's coming in with an arm around their shoulder.Brothers, sisters, I love you.You're my family. Jesus Christ loves you,but you're not acting like you love Jesus.You're not acting like Christians.You're not acting like you have the Holy Spirit within you.You are letting your sinful desires,you are letting your flesh control you.And secondly, Paul calls them by another name.Paul calls them infants in Christ.So they are in Christ.They are saved. Their sins have been forgiven,but they are stuck in their immaturity.They are standing still.And Paul is saying to them,"I want to have an adult conversation with you,but all you can do is goo goo, gaga, and spit up all over yourself."What is the proof of their baby-ness?Verse chapter 2 tells us it's their spiritual diet.Let's read verse 2."I fed you with milk, not solid food,for you were not ready for it,and even now you are not yet ready."When my kids were born,I didn't throw them a pizza party in the delivery room.I didn't try to serve them a hot slice of pizzawith extra cheese and pepperoni.Why not?Because they were not ready for it.Their systems couldn't handle that kind of meal.When we brought Sam and then years later,Emmy home from the hospital,I didn't try to force-feed them ribeye steak and corn on the cob.Again, why not?Because they could not handle it.They were not ready for it.Newborns cannot eat corn on the cob, pizza and steak.Newborns cannot eat solid food.Babies can only be nourished by milk.But that was years ago.Let's talk about now.Sam is six years old and Emmy is almost four.Should my kids be able to handle pizza, corn on the cob and steak now?Why is that?Because they're older.They should be ready for solid food.If they're not, there is something seriously wrong within themthat Kate and I should not ignore.The Corinthian church should be ready for the solid food of God's Word,but they're not.There is something seriously wrong within them that Paul cannot ignore.After years and years of being Christians,the Corinthians are still only drinking from the milk of the Bible basics.Their diet is way off because they have no desire to move forward.And to be clear, new believers do need the milk of the Bible basics.They do need the spiritual ABCs.God is holy, man is sinful.Jesus Christ came to die on the cross,and everyone who trusts in Him will be forgiven.Jesus loves me this I know for the...Yes, amen to all these truths.We do touch on these essentials every single week, don't we?These are the foundation of our faith.But do you agree there's way more to the story?There's way more to know.There's way more to learn.At the beginning of your spiritual life,you must be fed like a spiritual newborn.But as time goes on, your diet should progressso that you can progress,that you can grow in your faith and make improvements.I'm not a dietitian by any stretch of the imagination,but to grow big and strong physically,you need a certain calorie intake.You need to eat from a wide variety of food groups.To grow big and strong spiritually,you need to consume a significant amount of God's Word.You need to have a balanced understandingof the Old Testament and the New Testament.You shouldn't say, "You know what? That book isn't really for me."No, they're all for you.All 66 books of the Bible are essential for your growth.You should make the attempt to have a balanced understandingof the major topics of Scripture,the character and attributes of God,the person and work of Jesus Christ,sanctification, the church, end times,and on and on the list goes.As Paul says in 2 Timothy 3, verses 16 through 17,"All Scripture, not just some, not just most,all Scripture is breathed out by God,and profitable for teaching, for reproof,for correction, for training and righteousness,that the man of God may be complete,equipped for every good work."It takes the whole Bible to make you a whole person.You should have an appetite for the solid food of Scripture.Your knowledge of and your love for God's Wordshould increase day by day, week by week, month by month,year by year, and again, if it's not, there's a problem.Your desire to obey God's Word should increase over time.If you truly have the mind of Christ,you should love the thoughts of Christ.And the author of Hebrews explains the long-term side effectsof only drinking milk.He says this, "For though by this time you ought to be teachers,you need someone to teach you againthe basic principles of the oracles of God.You need milk, not solid food.For everyone who lives on milk is unskilledin the Word of righteousness since he is a child."I'm going to be very blunt for the next few minutes.I've been praying for this section of the sermon all week longbecause I want you to receive what I'm about to offerwith the intention I give it.This comes from love and concern.Some of you have only been drinking milk for years,and it shows.Some of you are still spiritual newbornsand not spiritual adults,even though you've followed Christ for years,maybe even decades.Some of you should be ready for the solid food of Scripture,but you're not.Some of you should be ready to teach the Bibleback in Harvest Academy, but you're not.Some of you should be able to pray in front of other believers,lead prayer groups to prayer services, but you're not.Some of you men should be elder qualified by nowand ready to help shepherd this flock and shoulderthe responsibility, but you're not.If I have described you on any level,please understand I'm not trying to scold you.I'm not trying to push you down like the Apostle Paul.I only have the desire to encourage you and to pull you uplike the Apostle Paul.I want to put a shoulder around you, brother, sister,God has so much more for you in store.If you'll just take a step forward and make progress by His grace.Don't stay where you are.Don't be content to always drink milk feast on this book.Do not be content to always swim in the shallow end of the gospelwith your floaties on.Dive in, explore, challenge yourself.Do not be content with riding with spiritual training wheelsyour entire life.Ask God to give you a sense of confidenceso that you can ride with confidenceand help other people to ride with confidence.Repent of your laziness.Turn from your apathy to the things of God.Ask the Lord to give you a greater hunger for His word,a greater motivation to run after holiness,a greater commitment to the strength of this church.After service, ask a pastor or elder to pray for you.Ask a mature member of this congregationor a godly friend to help you and to keep you accountable.It's time to grow up because your childish thinking holds you backfrom being who God has created you to beand doing what God has called you to do.It's time to grow up.Reason number two, because your childish behavior hurts others.Your childish behavior hurts others.Paul goes on to give another exampleof the Corinthian sinful immaturity in verse three."For you are still of the flesh.For while there is jealousy and strife among you,are you not of the fleshand behaving only in a human way?"Childish thinking always leads to childish behavior.And the childishness of the Corinthianscan be summed up in two words, jealousy and strife.Jealousy is a serious case of dissatisfactionwith what God has given to you.You deserve more.You deserve better.You deserve whatever you want.When you are jealous of what someone else has,you cannot be content with what you have.If you are jealous of someone else's success,you cannot celebrate that person's success.Strife is needless conflict.Strife leads to dumb divisionthat can and should be avoided.Jealousy is an attitude,and strife is the aftermath.Jealousy is the root,and strife is the result.No one needs to teach you how to be jealous.No one needs to show you how to create strife.These sins are inherent within each and every one of us.If you don't believe me,just go back to Harvest Academy for a few minutes.You will see jealousy and strife soonerrather than later.Why does Suzy have that toy in her eye?I hate Tommy and Joey because they never let me play with them.I'm not inviting Ruthie to my birthday partybecause she didn't invite Betty to hers.You may laugh at that,but the adults in the church are not much better than the kids, are they?Listen, you can be jealous.You.Maybe you are envious of someone else in this room.That person who has the marriage that you want.That parent who has more under control kids than you do.That person who seems to be more talented than you.You should be celebrating and rejoicingand God's good gifts to that brother or sister,but instead you resent them.And you want them to be knocked down a few pegs to feel how you feel.You can be jealous.You can cause strife and factions in the church.You have a serious bone to pick with the leadership at Harvest.Instead of coming to the elders directly, you start whispering.You start spreading misinformation.You start spreading rumors.You are offended by someone else.Instead of going to that person directly,you go to other people to recruit them to your side.And you may say, "Oh, I'm just doing this to warn people."No, you're not.You're doing this to the other people who will like you more than that person.Just be honest about it.Maybe you enjoy getting into fights.You enjoy making a big deal out of nothing.You lace up your boxing gloves and get into worthless, pointless battles with people.Are you jealous right now?Are you causing strife right now?If you are jealous, if you are stirring up trouble,you're just acting like an adult babyand not a mature son or daughter of God.If you are stirring up trouble, if you have sinned against someone else,it's time to swallow your pride and admit what you've done.Kids sweep things under the rug and ignore it.Adults expose sin and confess it.It's time to grow up because your childish behavior hurts others,especially the people you love.It's time to grow up.Reason number three, because your childish favoritism highlights man and not God.Because your childish favoritism highlights man and not God.Jealousy and strife at Corinth played out in a specific way,and it led to people playing favorites with specific leaders.Let's see what Paul has to say about this in verse 4.For when one says, "I follow Paul,"and another, "I follow Apollos," are you not being merely human?Pastor Jeff preached on this favoritism controversy a few weeks ago,but Paul talks about it again, so what are we going to do?We're going to talk about it again.Paul was the one who planted the Corinthian church during his second missionary journey.And he was there for about a year and a half ministering, preaching, pastoring.And some people had a soft spot for Paul.They were nostalgic for him because he was the one who led them to Christ.After Paul left, Apollos comes to town, and he's a much better speaker,a much more dynamic preacher, so many people prefer Apollos.And this history of favoritism led to both men having their own personal fan clubs,even though both men do not want their own personal fan clubs.In modern day terms, there is a Paul fan page on Facebook,and there's an opposing Apollos fan page on Facebook.There are trading cards with these men's faces and pastoral stats.There are YouTube channels that highlight and spell out their sermons on why they're so great.But Paul says this kind of favoritism is childish.It is not the way of heaven. It is the way of this world.He's saying, "If you say I follow Paul, or I follow Apollos, grow up.You're acting like a child. You need to cut it out."And Paul gives a reason why he and Apollos are not worthy of these cult followings in verse 5.What then is Apollos? What is Paul?Servants through whom you believed as the Lord assigned to each.Paul and Apollos are not celebrities. They're not superstars.They're not mega church pastors. Who are they according to this verse?Servants.This word can also be translated as table waiters.Waiters do not cook the food. They simply deliver the food.Busboys simply clean up.Paul and Apollos are just lowly busboys in God's restaurant.Last time I checked, there are no busboy enthusiasts.There are no busboy trading cards. There are no busboy YouTube channels.When was the last time you had a restaurant and thought to yourself,"Man, this table is spotless. I don't even need a plate. I can just eat right off of it.I need to go find the busboy and congratulate him."Has that ever happened to you?Paul is saying, "I'm just a busboy. I'm not worthy of anything that you want to give me."He's knocking himself off the pedestal that the Corinthians have put him on.He's demystifying Apollos and putting him in his place too.They are just servants of the Lord. They are servants of the Corinthian church.But Paul isn't done lowering himself yet.He and Apollos are not just busboys.They are also farm hands, according to verses 6 and 7."I planted Apollos watered, but God gave the growth."So neither he who plants nor he who waters is anything, but only God gives the growth.I've never farmed before.I've never even kept a garden before in my entire life.The last time I can remember planting a seed was in first grade with that cup on the window sill,that cup of dirt.I'm not a farmer, but I do know a farmer in our congregation.I spoke to Jesse Hogan last week and I asked him,"How much credit can you take for a good harvester crop?"Do you want to know what farmer Jesse said?None.All I can do is plant, pray for good weather, and trust that God will bring the growth.Trust the results to God.Jesse is a successful farmer because he understands his place in the process.He entrusts the results to God.He knows his limitations.Paul is successful as a pastor, as an evangelist, as a church planner,because he knows his place in the process.He trusts the results to God.Paul knows his limitations.Paul is saying, "I planted the church in Corinth."Paul has watered it with his faithful preaching,but who alone gets the credit?Who alone gets the glory for the growth?God and God alone.Once again, Paul and Paulos are nothing special.They are just farmhands who plant and water the seeds of the gospel.That's it.Paul goes on to give you another reason why he and Paulos shouldn't be pitted against each otherin verse 8."He who plants and he who waters are one,and each will receive his wages according to his labor."There is no reason for Paul and Paulos to competebecause they are on the same team.They are one.I've already admitted that I'm not a farmer,but I may be a better farmer than I am an athlete.Some of you were laughing too hard at that.But I did play basketball from sixth to twelfth grade,and I can remember distinct games where every man in our team was out for himself.Every man was trying to show off.Every man was trying to show everyone how great he was.And that never led to victory because we forgot that we were one.We forgot that we were on the same team.I can also remember other games when we did come together as a cohesive whole.Everyone wasn't trying to win for himself, trying to win for the entire team.In those moments, we were one.We were on the same team, which often led to victory.We are on the same team at Harvest Bible Chapel.We should be pulling together to be one in the Lord,rather than pulling apart to try and be special on our own.On my own, I am a zero.On your own, you are a zero, but together we are one.Our strength comes from our unity.Recently, a member of our church paid the highest compliment to this churchthat made my entire year.She said, "To be honest, I don't really care who preaches on a Sunday morning,because I know, I trust that everyone who preaches at Harvestwill be faithful to God's Word."That is the goal.That woman gets it.That is what Paul is talking about in this verse.It's not about the servant.It's about the one we serve.It's not about the bus boy.It's about the one who owns all things.It is not about the farmhand.It's about the only one who gives the growth.Playing favorites in the church is stupid.It is immature.It is childish foolishness to try to figure out who's the bestand who's the most important.We all have a role to play.No one's gifting or role is more important than another.And according to Paul, each worker will be paid by God Himself,and God never stiffs His employees.He always gives infinitely satisfying rewards.So please don't try to reward yourselfby seeking after the affirmation and praise of others.Wait diligently for the rewards of God,because they are coming.Adult babies live for the moment,but godly servants live for the long haul.It's time to grow up and start highlighting God and not man.It's time to grow up.Final reason, because your childish selfishness hides your identity.Because your childish selfishness hides your identity.Let's wrap up with verse 9."For we are God's fellow workers.You are God's field, God's building.I truly enjoy partnering with all of my coworkers,Missy, Gillian, Ashley, Pastor Rich, Pastor Jeff.I love all my coworkers,but do you know which coworker I enjoy working with the most?God.Pastor Jeff is a great boss,but do you know who's an even greater boss?The Lord.So many pastors fall into sinand disqualify themselves from ministrybecause their childish selfishness hides their identity.They think they're the ones making things happen.They think that the church growth is happening because of them.They're in charge. They're running the show.And they end up becoming bullies.They end up becoming tyrants.They forget they work with and for the God of the universe.Those pastors did not shed their own bloodon the cross for the members of their church.Their churches do not belong to them.Their churches belong to Christ.You do not belong to me.You do not belong to Justin Cady, Brian Beehe, Pastor Rich,or even Pastor Jeff.If you have trusted in Christ, you belong to Him.He's the one who shed his blood for you.He is the one who died for you.You are God's field.You are God's building.That is who you are.Do not let your childish selfishness hide your identity any longer.Do not try to find your identityin what the world says to find it in.The world will tell youthat you are the maker of your own meaning.Your worth is found in what you achieve.But that is not what Paul is saying in this verse.You are not a precious snowflakewhose every one preference should be met.Your story is not the main event of this world.You are not the point of anything.You are just a small part of the field that God is cultivating.You are just a single brickin the beautiful structure that God is building.You are a part of the church of Jesus Christwhich will never ever pass away.It's time to grow upand stop believing that life is all about youbecause it's not.It's about the Lordwho will do great things in and through you.It's time to grow upand start remembering who you areand whose you are.Some of you in this room do not belong to Christ.You are not even an infant in Christbecause you have not been born again.You are not a part of God's field.You are not a part of God's building.You are just a lonely seed.You are just a discarded brick.But your identity will change in an instantif you give your life to Jesus.If you trust in Him as your Saviorwho died on the cross for your sins.If you trust in Him as the Lord of your lifewho has every right to tell you what to do.If you place your faith and trust in Christ,you will be adopted into His family.You will be planted into God's field.You will be slid into the perfect spot in this churchthat is reserved just for you.You will be placed on the path to mature adulthood in Christ.The biggest temptation for a sermon like thisis to feel the sting of conviction in the momentand then do nothing with that conviction once you get home.But do you know what's the most childish thing of all?Knowing that something needs to changeand then doing nothing about it.Please do not fall into that childish temptation.Choose to put away your childish thinking.Choose to put away your childish behavior.Choose to put away your childish favoritism.Choose to put away your childish selfishness.Brothers and sisters, it's time to mature.It's time to grow up.But you can't grow up on your own, can you?You need God's helpbecause He is the expert on growth, not you.There are still two blanks left on your sheet that you need to fill in.These are a prayer to the Lord.God, help me to grow up.Today I need to stop blank and start blank.I have no idea what you need to fill in those blanks with, but you do.And so is God.Maybe it's God, help me to grow up today and He has stopped making excusesand start reading my Bible every morning at 7 a.m.Maybe it's God, help me to grow up today.I need to stop being jealous of so-and-so, it's small groupand start being content with what you have given me.It could be God, help me to grow up todayor maybe God, help me to grow up today.I need to stop sitting on the church sidelinesand start serving at harvest today.Don't be vague because vague goals lead disappointing results.Be practical, be specific,because that will lead to encouraging results.Take a few minutes to fill in those blanks.Take a few moments to go to the Lord, to confess sin,to ask for His help.Ask Him to empower you to change.Ask for His help so that you can be empowered.Take steps to grow up.Fill in those blanks and spend some time in the Lord with prayer.Father, I thank you for your immense patience with us.I know as a father I can be so impatient with my children at times,but Lord, you are so long suffering.But all of us in this room can be childish.All of us in this room can be immatureor may today be a brand new day of transformation.May today be a day where a first step is taken,where growth happens by your grace and by the power of your spirit.Lord, may we not just be convicted in this moment,be convicted the rest of today, the rest this weekand the rest of our lives seek after you and your Word,to pursue after the unity of the churchand to fit into our exact spot in the church.Lord, I thank you for what your Holy Spirit has done this morningand I thank you in advance for what He will do.I ask all these things in Jesus' name, amen.
In this conversation, Mamachito delves into the concept of psychic self-defense, exploring the phenomenon of psychic vampirism, the impact of energy vampires, and the various forms of psychic attacks. She discusses the role of jealousy and the evil eye in these dynamics, offering insights into how individuals can protect themselves from negative energies. chito emphasizes the importance of recognizing patterns in relationships and the need for self-awareness in dealing with emotional manipulation. The conversation also touches on witchcraft and spiritual intrusion, providing practical techniques for defense against psychic attacks.TakeawaysPsychic self-defense is essential for emotional well-being.Energy vampires can drain your life force unknowingly.Recognizing patterns in relationships helps identify energy drainers.The evil eye is a real phenomenon linked to jealousy.Defensive techniques include visualization and meditation.Negative energies can manifest as physical symptoms.Witchcraft can be a form of spiritual intrusion.Jealousy often stems from unexpressed admiration.Maintaining a positive aura is crucial for protection.Awareness of one's own energy is key to self-defense.Beer baths, coconut water and salt baths, barley baths, lime baths to clear psychic attack sign up for private classes. Alkhemyworks@yahoo.com "It's a phenomenon of psychic interference.""You can literally chant in someone's aura, bro.""Jealousy is not a superpower. It's a disease."Chapters00:00 Introduction to Psychic Self-Defense02:53 Understanding Psychic Vampirism05:44 Identifying Energy Vampires09:04 Psychic Attacks and Astral Invasion11:49 The Role of Evil Eye and Jealousy14:33 Defensive Techniques Against Psychic Attacks17:42 The Impact of Negative Energies20:35 Witchcraft and Spiritual Intrusion23:15 Recognizing and Addressing Envy26:16 The Consequences of Psychic Manipulation29:10 Conclusion and Call to Action
EPISODE 19: Hunger & Jealousy — How Grief Eats at You In this rereleased episode from The Stages of Grief series, Jessimae dives into the emotional appetite of loss — that weird, hollow feeling that's part sadness, part starvation. She explores how grief can make you feel insatiable, jealous, and constantly searching for something to fill the space that loss leaves behind. From emotional eating to envy scrolling, she breaks down how grief doesn't just hurt your heart — it hijacks your hunger. Jessimae also shares how cannabis became part of her healing journey, helping her process pain, stay present, and rediscover moments of peace and humor in between the heaviness. It's raw, honest, and surprisingly relatable — because sometimes grief doesn't just break you; it gives you the munchies.
Welcome back to another episode of Astrology Talk Investigate, hosted by your Astrology Aunties, Christina Rodenbeck and Sally Kirkman. In the latest podcast, Christina and I take a look at jealousy and how it shows in astrology. Scorpio is renowned as the most jealous star sign and we're deep in Scorpio season this month. Yet, Scorpio's not the only showing of jealousy in astrology. Listen in to find out more. Once you've listened to the podcast, please be in touch with any suggestions that you would like us to investigate in the future. And do leave us a review or subscribe to our Youtube channel: Astrology Talk Podcast. Sally Kirkman: sallykirkman.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sallykirkmanastrologer/ Facebook: https://facebook.com/SallyKirkmanAstrology Christina Rodenbeck: oxfordastrologer.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/oxfordastrology/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/oxfordastrology
Reach Out: Please include your email and I will get back to you. Thanks!Good morning! Thank you for taking a few minutes to listen. If you are interested in the Daily Bible Devotional, you can find it at the links below:Amazon - (paperback, hardcover, and Kindle)YouTube Video Introducing the ContentFeel free to reach out with any questions: emersonk78@me.comJames 3There is a strong warning for those who wish to become teachers because those who teach and influence are held to a higher standard. Words hold great power, and mastering the tongue is one of the toughest challenges that Christians face. Though small, the tongue can steer the course of a life, much like a bit in a horse's mouth or a rudder on a ship. It can bless or curse, build up or destroy. This inconsistency highlights the need for a heart transformed by God. A spring cannot produce both fresh and bitter water, and a life shaped by God should reflect purity and peace. True wisdom is neither proud nor harsh; it is gentle, sincere, full of mercy, free from jealousy, and exhibited through peaceful relationships with others. We must pay close attention to how we speak because our words have the power to help or harm. It is easy to say something in anger or frustration without considering its impact on others. When we communicate with love, patience, and kindness, we reflect the heart of God. Our words should not cause division, but should encourage and uplift others. We also need wisdom to avoid jealousy and selfishness. True wisdom is gentle, humble, selfless, and full of mercy. It helps us create peace instead of stirring up conflict. If we want to grow in faith, we must ask God to help us speak and act in ways that honor Him, demonstrating consistency and integrity in word and action. Glorious Lord, thank You for the gift of words and the power they carry. Help us to use our speech to build up rather than tear down. Teach us to be careful with what we say, speaking with wisdom, patience, and love. When our hearts are troubled, grant us serenity of heart so our words do not cause harm. Fill us with the kind of wisdom that comes from You, balancing truth and mercy. Help us to be gentle in our conversations and sincere in our intentions. May our words be selfless, without hypocrisy, and consistent tools for establishing peace. Thought Questions: Why will teachers incur stricter judgment than others? What are some pitfalls teachers of the Scripture fall into, and how do you avoid them? Why did God build us with such a powerful and yet untamable tongue? How is the act of controlling the tongue a valuable exercise for you? “Jealousy and selfish ambition” are often at the heart of the problem for teachers and everyone. What helps you avoid these sins in your life?
Before O.J., before Menendez, before every “trial of the century” that would follow—there was Harry K. Thaw. The millionaire playboy who gunned down famed architect Stanford White in front of hundreds of witnesses at Madison Square Garden. His crime? Passion. Jealousy. Madness. Or maybe all three.In this Crimes & Consequences episode, we take you inside the scandal that rocked the Gilded Age: a love triangle dripping in sex, secrets, and society's hypocrisy. From Thaw's obsession with showgirl Evelyn Nesbit to the shocking courtroom circus that defined American media's hunger for spectacle—this is where tabloid true crime was born.
Toe pick! If you don't love The Cutting Edge, something is seriously wrong with you. This week Dart Adams and Paul Gagliardi drop in to talk about the history behind the 1992 cult classic and why we love it so damn much. About our guests:Dart Adams is a historian, journalist and a lecturer from Boston, MA. His work has appeared in various online & print publications including Complex, NPR, Mass Appeal, Okayplayer, DJ Booth, Hip Hop Wired, The Urban Daily, The Vinyl Factory, uDiscover Music, Urban Legends, LEVEL, Ebony, Rock The Bells, Andscape (ESPN), Bay State Banner, Boston Globe Magazine, and Boston Magazine. He's also the owner/operator of independent imprint label Producers I Know/Fat Beats and host of Dart Against Humanity and the Boston Legends Podcast.Dr. Paul Gagliardi is an associate teaching professor at Marquette University. His primary fields of research are twentieth-century American cultural studies, drama and performance studies, labor studies, and film studies. And his research focuses on the intersection between economic calamity, theories of work and labor, and the performative art people produce during eras like the Great Depression. In his courses, he emphasizes understanding the historical, social, and cultural context of texts, but also now our contemporary readings problematize literature. He also fosters interdisciplinary dialogue between all fields in his courses, and supports students with both their academic and professional goals.His book, All Play and No Work: American Work Ideals and the Comic Plays of the Federal Theatre Project (Temple University Press, 2023), examines how select comedies produced by the federal government during the Great Depression portrayed complicated norms of working and labor. I argue that many plays actually subverted norms of traditional labor or promoted alternative forms of working to audiences during the 1930s. My writing on the Federal Theatre Project and other subjects, such as confidence artists and literature or other theater studies, has appeared in such outlets as Journal of American Drama and Threatre, Middle West Review, and Howlround, and I have a forthcoming chapter on portrayals of unions in pro wrestling. My current research project examines the cultural history of ice-skating shows in the United States and Canada in the 20th Century, focusing on how shows like the Ice Follies and Ice Capades intersected with sports and theater, as well as how they promoted and challenged gender norms.
Hello jealousy. Goodbye contentment, peace, and joy. What else does jealousy lock out of your heart? Today Mark Geist helps you focus upward and outward to kick jealousy out of your life and unlock your heart to God's blessings!As a thank you for your support this month, please choose from two study books— We'll send you two copies—one for you and one to gift to someone special:The Word Revealed - Jesus Makes Himself Known - A 30 day journey through John 1-4The Word Revealed - Jesus' Power, Provision, and Promise - A 30 day journey through John 5-6Yours with a gift of any amount.Thank you for supporting the mission of Christ.
What if jealousy wasn't something to be ashamed of — but a signal that you're capable of more?In this episode, I dive into the psychology of jealousy and FOMO, and how these emotions actually point you toward your potential. Instead of seeing envy as a flaw, you'll learn how to decode it as proof that the thing you admire in someone else is also possible for you.I'll talk about:Why jealousy is often a mirror of your untapped capability.How to shift from comparison to curiosity and self-awareness.How FOMO can reveal what you truly value and want to experience.Practical ways to turn those emotional triggers into motivation and momentum.If you've ever caught yourself scrolling, comparing, or feeling left behind — this episode will help you reframe those emotions as powerful guidance toward your next level.Jealousy isn't proof that you're behind — it's evidence that you belong in the room. It's your inner voice saying, “You can do that too.”Please reach out if you have any requests for topics or training sessions and be sure to check out the free trial of Rockit's Voice Coaching Club over on Patreon.Your membership supports the growth of this podcast and the development of your vocal skills too! Win Win!To learn about private coaching or to join one of my retreats, visit the website! www.rockitvocalstudios.comReady to expand your skills, develop your musical network and take your career to the next level? Check out the Rockit Singer & Songwriters Retreat! June 2026. Feel free to check out the line of amazing Vocalzone Products HERE.Be sure to follow @rockitvocalstudios on social for more tips and to keep up to date with all the latest info.Join the mailing list for offers, and updates as well as exclusive info. Stay connected for updates, promotions and be the first to know about special events by joining my mailing list! No spam, just valuable singing tips and studio updates!
Jealousy isn't always loud... sometimes it hides behind “I'm happy for you.”In this Friendship Friday episode, Christan and Tarrah unpack how envy begins subtly, why it can grow unchecked, and how to confront those feelings before they ruin a good friendship.
Vanilla Swingers - A Swinger Podcast for Newbies, by Newbies in the Lifestyle
Today, we're discussing unhealthy relationship patterns and a bit about the green-eyed monster. Why we fall into the same cycles, what jealousy's really about, and how to find a bit more calm in it all!
A practitioner in Israel realized the urgency of eliminating jealousy, a deeply rooted attachment, after studying Zhuan Falun. She traced her jealousy back to childhood, where it manifested as a desire for prestige. Through introspection and cultivation, she learned to prioritize others' interests, transforming her work as a caregiver into a valuable environment for growth. […]
Today we go deep on throuples—what makes a three-person relationship (triad) work in real life. Our guest is Dr. Rachael Meir, a Stanford-trained psychologist, sex & relationship coach, author of 50 Questions to Ask Before Opening Your Relationship, and host of retreats designed specifically for throuples.In this episode (throuple-forward): • Shapes of throuples: V vs. closed triad, the “everyone dates everyone” myth, and why symmetry isn't the only path to stability. • Avoiding triangles (the bad kind): How to reduce coalitions, secret alliances, and “two against one” dynamics with simple, predictable check-ins. • Jealousy in 3s: Why jealousy feels different in a triad, Dr. Meir's “dashboard warning light” frame, and how to respond without spiraling. • Differentiation = less codependence: Staying three whole people (not one fused blob) actually strengthens the connection between all of you. • Logistics that keep love humane: Calendars, re-entry rituals, and short “state-of-us” huddles so no one becomes the project manager (or the parent). • Ethics & invitations: Power imbalances, “unicorn hunting,” and creating consent that's real for all three partners—not just the original pair. • Retreat lessons: What Dr. Meir sees thriving throuples do differently (language, expectations, and how they handle NRE without breaking the triangle).Plus, we pull 5 key prompts from Dr. Meir's book to ground any non-monogamy journey: • What desires/needs do I believe non-monogamy could fulfill (for me, not just my partner)? • Do I have enough self-esteem to stay out of comparison traps? • Are we differentiated—two/three whole people with overlap—rather than merged? • Are we opening to fill a void/fix a problem (and what would repair look like first)? • What small agreements would make us feel safer without turning into surveillance?Big takeaways you can use tonight • Trade control for clarity: one short weekly check-in beats constant play-by-play. • Re-entry rituals after solo or third-partner time keep connection warm and resentment low. • In triads, fairness ≠ sameness—aim for dignity for all three, not equal minutes.Find Dr. Meir: https://www.drrachaelmeir.com/Naughty Gym: https://www.naughtygym.com/
We are so totally locked in. In this episode, Rhett & Link talk about why brunch has the best sense of community, whether or not Rhett should golf in a more professional sense, and if either one would be an avid contestant for Dancing with the Stars. Plus, how managing attraction to others plays a role in relationships, with a surprise call from Jessie! Leave us a voicemail at 1-888-EARPOD-1 for a chance to be featured on the show! Start saving in 2 minutes by setting up an account at https://www.chime.com/ear To learn more about listener data and our privacy practices visit: https://www.audacyinc.com/privacy-policy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit https://podcastchoices.com/adchoices
We made it to 200 episodes and still going. Getting right into klan recruitments and sibling jealousy that leads to a tragic outcome. Highlighting life experiences that show you who you really are before choosing movies that describe the perfect friendship.What's goings on: - We made it to 200!
November 2, 2026 – The Jealousy of God – Exodus 20:1-6
Pastor Kirk Hall begins a new sermon series entitled "The Forgotten Jealousy Of God ." Today's message is titled, "How God's Jealousy Is Provoked" — focusing on Exodus 34:14.
The podcast will specifically define jealousy and coveting in Judaism, why it is forbidden, how to prevent it, and why it is considered the "worst sin in the Torah". It will also show how and why God could be jealous and how there is both bad and good jealousy within traditional Judaism.
The podcast will specifically define jealousy and coveting in Judaism, why it is forbidden, how to prevent it, and why it is considered the "worst sin in the Torah". It will also show how and why God could be jealous and how there is both bad and good jealousy within traditional Judaism.
Daniel in the Lion's Den (Sermon Series on Daniel) - Sunday, 2nd November 2025.[Episode 6 - Daniel Chapter 6 (KJV)]1 Daniel is appointed president.Daniel 6:1-3 It pleased Darius to set over the kingdom an hundred and twenty princes, which should be over the whole kingdom; And over these three presidents; of whom Daniel was first: that the princes might give accounts unto them, and the king should have no damage. Then this Daniel was preferred above the presidents and princes, because an excellent spirit was in him; and the king thought to set him over the whole realm.2. Envy and Jealousy motivate a devious plot.Daniel 6:4-5 Then the presidents and princes sought to find occasion against Daniel concerning the kingdom; but they could find none occasion nor fault; forasmuch as he was faithful, neither was there any error or fault found in him. Then said these men, We shall not find any occasion against this Daniel, except we find it against him concerning the law of his God.3. Knowing the danger Daniel continues to walk with God openly.Daniel 6:10 Now when Daniel knew that the writing was signed, he went into his house; and his windows being open in his chamber toward Jerusalem, he kneeled upon his knees three times a day, and prayed, and gave thanks before his God, as he did aforetime.4. Daniel's enemies spring their trap.Daniel 6:11-14 Then these men assembled, and found Daniel praying and making supplication before his God. Then they came near, and spake before the king concerning the king's decree; Hast thou not signed a decree, that every man that shall ask a petition of any God or man within thirty days, save of thee, O king, shall be cast into the den of lions? The king answered and said, The thing is true, according to the law of the Medes and Persians, which altereth not. Then answered they and said before the king, That Daniel, which is of the children of the captivity of Judah, regardeth not thee, O king, nor the decree that thou hast signed, but maketh his petition three times a day. Then the king, when he heard these words, was sore displeased with himself, and set his heart on Daniel to deliver him: and he laboured till the going down of the sun to deliver him.5 Daniel is cast into the lions den.Daniel 6:16-18 Then the king commanded, and they brought Daniel, and cast him into the den of lions. Now the king spake and said unto Daniel, Thy God whom thou servest continually, he will deliver thee. And a stone was brought, and laid upon the mouth of the den; and the king sealed it with his own signet, and with the signet of his lords; that the purpose might not be changed concerning Daniel. Then the king went to his palace, and passed the night fasting: neither were instruments of musick brought before him: and his sleep went from him.6. God sends an angel to protect Daniel.Daniel 6:20-22 And when he came to the den, he cried with a lamentable voice unto Daniel: and the king spake and said to Daniel, O Daniel, servant of the living God, is thy God, whom thou servest continually, able to deliver thee from the lions? Then said Daniel unto the king, O king, live for ever. My God hath sent his angel, and hath shut the lions' mouths, that they have not hurt me: forasmuch as before him innocency was found in me; and also before thee, O king, have I done no hurt.7. Daniel's enemies are executed.Daniel 6:24 And the king commanded, and they brought those men which had accused Daniel, and they cast them into the den of lions, them, their children, and their wives; and the lions had the mastery of them, and brake all their bones in pieces or ever they came at the bottom of the den.8. God is glorified throughout the empire again.Dan 6:25-28 Then king Darius wrote unto all people, nations, and languages, that dwell in all the
News thriving on drama; Problems when not doing what Christ said; What was Abraham doing?; Understanding the bible text; Eating meat with blood in it; What Christ commanded; "Liturgy"; Solution to world's problems; "Israel"; Generations of Esau = Edom; "Corban"; Sacrifice; Cursing your children with debt; Recognizing righteousness; Gen 37:1 Jacob in Canaan; "Strangers"?; Idolatry = covetousness; Jacob's ladder; Rights; Joseph tattling on brothers; "Flocks"?; Joseph's dream; Dominion over people; Tav+Mem-shin-lamad+biet+nun+vav (dominion); Lot?; Abimelech; Forcing offerings/sacrifice; Membership in social safety nets; Tents for cattle?; Jealousy of brothers; Sachem (consent); Returning every man to family and possessions; Kings? (rulers); Perfect law of liberty; Knowing Holy Spirit; "Dothen"?; Plotting to slay Joseph; Evil beast?; Socialists; Sequence of Hebrew text; Ruben's advice (plan); The pit you're in; Selling Joseph to Ishmaelites; Willingness to sell neighbor into bondage; One purse; 1 Sam 8; Hearing your brother; Faking Joseph's death; Types of kings; Forewarning of famine; Wrath of God; Loving the light; Claiming to know Moses; How to be a free people; Leavened bread; Corruption; Strong delusion; Idols?; The ways of Jacob; Gen 33:17; Setting your brother free; Choosing the direction of your life; Learning to be Israel; Coat of many colors?; Imaginary freedom; Abraham's dream - burning lamp; Organizing in Tens; Tithing vs taxes; Identifying the "evil report"; Deut 12:23; meat with blood in it; Biting one another; Error of Balaam and deeds of the Nicolaitans; Appetite for benefits; Need for repentance; Feeding the sheep; resh-ayin-hey; Truth - Be ready to repent.
Send us a textThink you don't want to ‘commit' to a relationship? This video will change the way you see commitment, show you how to love freely, and stop being so attached and jealous.(Abundance in the Land of Women, Episode 42)WHAT YOU'LL LEARN:- All women come and go, and no woman will be in your life forever: accepting that fact is the first step in having a relationship that's meaningful - Why being devoted to your partner's happiness – above all else – is the recipe for a free and fulfilling relationship- How to tell if you're acting from a place of neediness and lack (which pushes women away) or giving women what they really want - How to overcome jealousy and suspicion, and create an enjoyable time for you and a girlTIMESTAMPS:00:00 Intro03:57 Myths About Commitment 09:22 How Women Are Like Butterflies (A Woman Will Only Ever Be in Your Life for a Finite Period)13:22 A Constraining Relationship vs. a Freeing Relationship16:15 How to Snap Out of Jealousy & Suspicion25:00 What Is Devotion? 31:55 The Test: Could You Be Devoted to a Woman Like This?39:00 Remember This When Your Entitlement and Resentment Pop UpHave you ever known someone (a woman or a man) that you could've used for your own gain, but didn't, because you valued their happiness and well-being more? Share your story in the comments below. Because loving freely is the only chance you have at loving for real. ABOUT THIS VIDEO:The word ‘commitment' gets thrown around a lot in the world of dating coaching. Women hire coaches to help them find a man who will ‘actually' commit, while men listen to coaches talk about the freedom that comes with commitment. But as one Amorati member observed, the word ‘commitment' hardly features in the Ars Amorata lexicon: Zan hardly uses it, and apparently it's nowhere to be found in the Essentials masterclass. It's not without reason, Zan says. ‘Commitment' has become a buzzword, kind of like ‘authenticity' and ‘vulnerability'. Devotion is a word that Zan prefers to champion. What's the difference? Tune in to hear Zan and Jordan discuss their views on relationships that go beyond the kind of ‘commitment' you're familiar with, and actually foster more freedom and fulfillment for you and the woman you're with, rather than restrict it. #zanperrion #fearofintimacy #dating #mendating #flirting #datingadviceformen #flirttips ____________________________________________________Come join us! Sign up today and enjoy all the perks of the Amorati Membership, including live calls with Zan and his team. Go here: https://www.Amorati.net/____________________________________Need a gunslinger? Someone who rides into town, completely solves your problem, then rides off into the sunset. Contact Zan Perrion personally to inquire about his incredibly effective one-on-one Laser Coaching. Find him here: https://arsamorata.com/gunslinger/____________________________________Get a gifted copy of The Alabaster Girl, personally signed by Zan Perrion. Go to https://alabastergirl.com____________________________________Get instant access to our 4 part mini-course with Zan Perrion
Don and Tom open with an honest reflection on market déjà vu—how today's investing climate echoes the speculative excesses of 1929 and 2008. Citing Andrew Ross Sorkin's new book 1929: Inside the Greatest Crash in Wall Street History, they discuss the modern “financialization” wave: private equity, venture capital, crypto, and private credit being repackaged for retail investors and even 401(k)s, often under looser regulation. They warn listeners about “mark to make-believe” valuations and Wall Street's relentless drive to sell complexity to the masses. The conversation moves from cautionary history (leveraged trusts of 1929, margin loans, and subprime mortgages) to present-day parallels like Bitcoin ETFs and private-market tokens. The takeaway: avoid opaque, speculative products; stick with transparent, low-cost diversification. In the Q&A, they answer listener questions about simplifying global portfolios with VT vs. VTI/VXUS, and about selling or donating concentrated stock positions from employee plans. 0:04 Opening disclaimers and acknowledgment that the episode isn't meant to scare investors 1:18 Historical parallels—1929, 1987, 2008—and the feeling of “market déjà vu” 2:10 Introducing Andrew Ross Sorkin's new book 1929 and his NYT column on modern speculation 3:20 Financialization and the loosening of investor protections in the 2020s 4:33 Wall Street's constant invention of confusing products that favor sellers 4:58 Robinhood's Vlad Tenev and the illusion of democratizing risk 6:12 Lowering the barriers to private markets and what that means for investors 7:26 Echoes of 1929: leveraged ETFs, margin-like structures, and “Russian-doll” debt 8:29 The perils of leverage and speed of modern market declines 9:02 Private-market tokens and the “mark-to-make-believe” problem 10:25 Overvaluation, lack of liquidity, and Wall Street's interest in 401(k) assets 11:41 Historical leverage shifts—from banks to private credit 12:58 Why trusting financial “authorities” can be dangerous 13:32 Emotional honesty: people lie, and investors must self-protect 14:42 Jealousy, lottery-thinking, and envy as behavioral pitfalls 15:36 Investing as elimination—avoid what's complex, costly, or confusing 16:48 Listener Q&A: two-fund simplicity (VT + BND) vs. multi-ETF tinkering 18:38 The temptation to overweight U.S. equities 20:00 Contrarian case for international exposure (VXUS) 21:15 ESPP stock cleanup: when to sell concentrated holdings 22:44 Charitable giving of appreciated stock for tax efficiency Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Jealousy can cause any of us to do and say things that are hurtful and wrong. Fran is learning first-hand how the jealousy of a coworker can be very painful. Jenny is jealous of Fran because of her success in the company. Now with a new account Fran has just signed up, it appears Marilyn is going to assign Jenny to work with Fran on it. For Fran, it's the worst possible news she could hear, because Jenny has been openly arrogant and rude to Fran. As she and Jenny go into Marilyn's office, Jenny says to Fran, “If you think I'm going to take orders from you, think again, Fran. I know more about this account than you will ever know.” Fran has no opportunity to respond, as Marilyn walks in at that moment. “Well, it seems to me,” Marilyn says, “you two are a perfect match to work on the Edwards account, since you have a lot of good experience with construction companies, Jenny.” The silence is deafening. Nobody says anything. Marilyn continues, “I am right, am I not, Jenny? You had a large construction account in Atlanta?” “I certainly did,” Jenny begins, “much larger than this one.” The anger in her voice is obvious. “I see,” Marilyn says, beginning to sense there is a problem here. “Do you have a problem working with Fran on this account?” “Well, truthfully, I think Fran should be working with me on the account, Marilyn, seeing how I know this business much better than she does,” Jenny says. She is beginning to lose control. “I think you should just let me handle this account. That would make the best business sense.” “I see,” says Marilyn. “So, you don't want to work with Fran on the account?” “Like I said,” Jenny begins again, “I think she should…” “I know,” Marilyn continues, “you think she should work for you. We better have a talk about this. Fran, would you excuse us please?” As Fran walks back to her office, she is literally shaking. Fran prays, “Lord, do you want me to just volunteer to give her the account?” A battle goes on inside of Fran as she wrestles with this issue. She prays and fumes and thinks, and finally she says, “Lord, I can't stand Jenny, and there's no way I could give her this account. But if you want me to do it, I can do it for you. So, right now I relinquish the control and I'm willing to do what you want me to do. Just show me.” And with that, she sits quietly. Her spirit calms down, and the peace of God descends upon her—that peace that passes understanding. As soon as she lets go of her rights and gives the Lord permission to do his will, she can relax. Now she is in a win-win situation. It's difficult to let go, isn't it? But letting go and giving God the control always brings peace.
Rameez Khan is at the Bellville Courthouse, revealing authentic stories from real people caught in the legal system. From forged signatures in landlord-tenant disputes to family jealousies erupting into domestic violence cases, these unfiltered accounts expose the messy human realities playing out in our justice system every day. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Trusted friend or backstabbing rival? Why is it so hard to have relationships with women? We've all been through it...the cattiness, the drama, the jealousy. Shug Bury sits down with Natalie Runion to discuss her book, I Don't Even Like Women, where Natalie speaks to the hunger among women for authentic, pure friendship and why it's so hard to find. To learn more about our show, go to him4her.org. To watch our shows, go to our Women's Hot Topics with Shug Bury YouTube channel. For more information on our guest, go to natalierunion.com. To get connected with a bible study, go to bsfinternational.org.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Warning: If you feed jealousy, it will eat you alive! Coach Shannon Lenz shares how a change in focus and attitude can kill jealousy before it kills you. As a thank you for your support this month, please choose from two excellent books—each designed to encourage and equip you as you grow in Christ:Mostly Scripture QD: 500 Scripture-based questions with quick, practical reflections to help tackle life's toughest challenges.Life after Death: Explores what happens when we die and how that shapes the way we live today.Yours with a gift of any amount.Thank you for supporting the mission of Christ.
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On this episode of The Nikki & Brie Show, the twins dive into another round of their signature Curious Convos series, where no question is off-limits and every answer comes with a side of sisterly truth. From their favorite childhood moments in Lake Tahoe to the sweet chaos of family flights, Nikki and Brie reflect on the little things that shaped who they are—and laugh through a few unexpected memories along the way.But this isn't just a walk down memory lane. The twins go deep with questions like: are we born kind or do we learn it? If money didn't exist, what would life look like? Is jealousy ever healthy? Plus, they explore the balance between intuition and logic, why we glamorize burnout, and whether we're all secretly living inside a TV show. It's introspective, hilarious, and full of the dynamic that makes them so magnetic.Whether you're journaling on the patio or cruising through your errands, this episode is the perfect companion for a cozy reset. So grab your cold brew with pumpkin spice cold foam, press play, and get curious with Nikki & Brie. Call Nikki & Brie at 833-GARCIA2 and leave a voicemail! Follow Nikki & Brie on Instagram, follow the show on Instagram and TikTok and send Nikki & Brie a message on Threads! Follow Bonita Bonita on Instagram Book a reservation at the Bonita Bonita Speakeasy To watch exclusive videos of this week's episode, follow The Nikki & Brie Show on YouTube, Facebook, and TikTok! You can also catch The Nikki & Brie Show on SiriusXM Stars 109! Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.
A mash-up of different kids' podcast episodes about jealousy and openness.
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In this week's episode of The Men Behaving Badly Rewatch, Cory and Tom go light on the vows as they discuss the 1997 Comic relief Special Men Behaving Badly Indeed, and the series 6 episodes 1-3; Stag Night, Wedding, and Jealousy. Blog Post
We invite you to check out Big Emotions: KidsListen Mashups About Feelings . Big Emotions: Kids Listen Mashups is a 7-part audio adventure where creators from the Kids Listen community come together to explore feelings in all their shapes and sizes. Each episode pairs two related emotions, sharing original clips and reflections to help kids (and grownups!) understand, name, and navigate their feelings. . Released weekly on Tuesdays and Thursdays: . Fear & Bravery (Sept 16 & 18) – Host: Eric O'Keefe (What If World) Smash Boom Best! | Koala Moon | What's Poppin Penny | Forever Ago | April Eight | Afternoons with Mimi . Jealousy & Openness (Sept 23 & 25) – Host: Dr. Eileen Kennedy-Moore (Kids Ask Dr. Friendtastic) Girl Tales | Sleep Tight Stories | ChopChop | Tales from the Cloud Sea | Peace Out | Koala Tots . Anger & Forgiveness (Sept 30 & Oct 2) – Host: Melissa Victor (Stoopkid Stories) Time Storm | Little Kids, Big Hearts | KidLit Radio | Kids Ask Dr. Friendtastic | The Ten News | Lingokids . Belonging & Independence (Oct 7 & 9) – Hosts: Abbe Opher & Kelly MacBride (Koala Kids) Noodle Loaf | Kids Ask Dr. Friendtastic | Power Dog Adventures | Culture Kids | Stoopkid Stories | Dorktales Storytime . Embarrassment & Pride (Oct 14 & 16) – Host: Molly Bloom (Smash Boom Best & Brains On!) At Your Level | Koala Shine | Unspookable | The Good Words Podcast | The Story Seeds Podcast | Like You: Mindfulness for Kids . Love & Sadness (Oct 21 & 23) – Host: Jerry Kolber (Who Smarted?) But Why | Newsy Pooloozy | The Past and The Curious | AI for Kids | Reading with Rella B | Tumble Endings & Beginnings (Oct 28 & 30) – Host: Tal Kelly (Series Producer) Six Minutes | Storypillar | Mary Farfisa's | Kitten & Clucky | The Show About Science | What If World . Produced by Tal Kelly Executive Writer Jenna Clarke In consultation with Dr. Eileen Kennedy-Moore Music credits: https://tinyurl.com/2cbce2nf Intro by Dan Sacks of Noodle Loaf
Ever notice how jealousy doesn't ask permission? One minute you're fine, the next you're replaying a conversation, zooming in on a photo, or wondering why a text went unanswered. We decided to stop pretending and put our own relationships on the line with a jealousy quiz—then tore into what the results actually mean when you live together, co-parent, and try to trust each other in real life.We map out the difference between a normal twinge and spirals that come from insecurity, fear of abandonment, and past betrayal. From attention at parties to opposite-sex friendships to phones left on read, we explore how triggers show up and how to respond without turning into surveillance officers. We talk mindfulness that doesn't feel woo, reframes that shift “feelings = facts,” and the quiet power of building self-worth outside your relationship so reassurance isn't a bottomless well. Expect honesty, a lot of laughter, and a few gut-punch truths about boundaries, self-talk, and knowing your worth.Our advice segment doesn't flinch: a listener pressured to drive a wheelchair-using friend without proper training, a postpartum partner wrecked by a “zoom-in” on a coworker's photo, and a marriage strained by porn use and mismatched desire. We unpack safety, values, and communication that works under stress. If you've ever asked yourself whether jealousy is a red flag or a useful signal, you'll walk away with language, tools, and perspective to handle it better.Listen, share with a friend who needs a reality check with heart, and leave a quick rating or review so more people can find the show. Your stories shape our next episode—what's your biggest jealousy trigger? Find us on our socials! Just Google My Wife My Ex-Wife and ME and you'll find us....OR....go to our website:https://thankgodcancersavedourdivorce.com Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.
ON TODAY'S EPISODE OF THE PODCAST TALON AND I EXPLORE JEALOUSY, WHAT IT IS, AND HOW TO COPE WITH IT.WE TALK TWO DIFFERENT TYPES OF JEALOUSY, JEALOUSY VS. ENVY AND HIS SURPRISING FEELING OF JEALOUSY ABOUT A PAST EX.Send us a text message to be anonymously read and responded to! Support the showYou can find Sara on Instagram @borderlinefromhell. You can also find the podcast on IG @boldbeautifulborderline Corey Evans is the artist for the music featured. He can be found HERE Talon Abbott created the cover art. He. can be found HERE Leave us a voicemail about your thoughts or questions on the show at boldbeautifulborderline.comIf you like the show we would love if you could rate, subscribe and support us on Patreon. Patreon info here: https://www.patreon.com/boldbeautifulborderline?fan_landing=true Purchase Sara's Exploring Your Borderline Strengths Journal at https://www.amazon.com/Exploring-Your-Borderline-Strengths-Amundson/dp/B0C522Y7QT/ref=sr_1_1?crid=IGQBWJRE3CFX&keywords=exploring+your+borderline+strengths&qid=1685383771&sprefix=exploring+your+bor%2Caps%2C164&sr=8-1 For mental health supports: National Suicide Pr...
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Jealousy and envy are not minor flaws but destructive sins that spring from unbelief, discontentment, and idolatry. In this episode, Dr. Richard Caldwell explains how these heart issues reveal a lack of trust in God's sovereignty and corrupt both worship and relationships. Scripture calls believers to walk by the Spirit, putting away envy and cultivating love, gratitude, and contentment in Christ. True freedom is found when the heart rejoices in God's wisdom, rests in His providence, and treasures Christ above all else.
Adam called in to talk all about how he dealt with and conquered his jealousy in his non-monogamous relationship. Tune in to hear all the details including how hardcore his girlfriend was and how and why he was super jealous about the way she wanted things set up, the boundaries he tried to put in place and why they didn't stick, the first sex party they went to and what made him extremely jealous and how he dealt with his feelings, how she liked to tell him about her hookups and how he learned to handle that even though it made him feel terrible, how writing helped him process his emotions, what went down the night she had a foursome and why that was his breaking point, how being uncomfortable and pushed out of his comfort zone actually helped him grow, how reframing and tools from extreme sports helped him calm his mind, why he now believes a little jealousy can be healthy, and how he eventually got to a a place where it even turned him on plus a whole lot more. You can buy his book here: Seek the Risk **To see HOT pics ADAM and his GF JANE plu see pics of my other female guests + hear anonymous confessions + get all the episodes early and AD FREE, join my Patreon! It's only $7 a month and you can cancel at any time. You can sign up here: https://www.patreon.com/StrictlyAnonymousPodcast and when you join, I'll throw in a complimentary link to my private Discord! MY BOOK IS NOW OUT FOR PRE-ORDER!!!! Strictly Anonymous Confessions: Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. A bunch of short, super sexy, TRUE stories. GET YOUR COPY NOW: https://amzn.to/4i7hBCd To join SDC and get a FREE Trial! click here: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=37712 or go to SDC.com and use my code 37712 Want to be on the show? Email me at strictlyanonymouspodcast@gmail.com or go to http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com and click on "Be on the Show" Have something quick you want to confess while remaining anonymous? Call the CONFESSIONS hotline at 347-420-3579. You can call 24/7. All voices are changed. Sponsors: https://uberlube.com/discount/Strictly Use code: STRICTLY for 10% off Uberlube aka the BEST Lube EVER https://bluechew.com Get your first month of the new Blewchew Max FREE! use code: STRICTLYANON https://beducate.me/pd2532-anonymous Use code: ANONYMOUS to get 50% off your yearly pass plus get a 14-day money-back guarantee https://brooklynbedding.com Use my promo code STRICTLY at checkout to get 30% off sitewide https://vb.health To get 10% off Drive Boost by VB Health use code: STRICTLY https://butterwellness.com/ Use the code “STRICTLY” at checkout for 20% off your entire order To get $15 OFF your female oxytocin arousal tablets and more, use code STRICTLY here: https://shamelesscare.sjv.io/xLQ3Jv Follow me! Instagram https://www.instagram.com/strictanonymous/ Twitter https://twitter.com/strictanonymous?lang=en Website: http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
It is a horrifying thing to use your God-given life to commit adultery against the Almighty.
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