Organized Chaos with Nikki

Today we get to chat with Lilli. She is a Dating Coach that has used her own Journey to create her business helping other women learn how to love dating and transform themself into a magnetic high achieving woman. Take her quiz and listen to this episode to find out what position you are in and what that means for your love life. Take her quiz and follow herwww.datingarchetype.comLilli Bewly@lillibewlywww.linkwithlilli.com

This is for my anxious listeners. Starting off our coaching series with attachment styles. Learn how your attachment style serves you and how to improve your relationships. To interact with me in real time. Try out PODIZ ! & share your thoughts www.podiz.io

Welcome to the dark side. The not so fun side of affection, dating and attention. How those flowers, cards and candy turn into fear, control and chaos 

Catch the latest interview with Gianni- Social Worker and Relationship Coach.  She discusses the importance of self awareness and the power of your healing process. Toxic is not normal. Help us redefine what healthy love looks like. IG/TIKTOK @queenmindsetcoach Twitter @queenmindsetG 

The Big Question is : Do you control your thoughts or do your thoughts control you ?Chronic overthinking ruining your relationships?Maybe it's just causing you uncontrollable stress, anxiety and grief. From People Pleasing to Over thinking and Anxiety, Lets discuss it all and how much we HATE it- and of course we will talk Sh*t while we do it. Who's with me? @organizedchaos_thepodcast 

Take your life back. It's YOUR life, stop living it for other people. When we act based off of what others expect or what we think they may want, we are slowly chipping away at our authentic self. Don't make the mistake of tying your worth to someone else's opinion. When you move from the mindset of needing all the approval to understanding you have the power to create your own, it's going to change you & everything around you for the better. •Perspective of People Pleasing•Negative effects of the behavior •How to correct yourself 

I'm so excited to briefly announce my new goals for the year. Soft Launch ! Aside from the podcast I will now be offering advising services for both personal and relationship development. Ask me about it @organizedchaos_thepodcast

Meet our guest Justen Arnold, who has successfully published his first book, Purpose Through Pain. He takes over the mic in this episode and offers a glimpse into his own trauma and how he chose to overcome it. We can all learn a little bit here today, whether it's small habits, power of mentality, or simply motivation to take a chance on yourself. Find something meaningful to take away from our guest speaker today. And share it with us !@justenarnoldJustenarnold.com FlexxMP.com. https://youtube.com/c/FLEXXMobilityandPerformanceFMP

Today we're breaking the stigma.  Why do we continuously accept the “boys will be boys”  cliche?What does it mean to be a man ? Does it even mean anything at all?  Listen for alternative perspectives on what gender roles and society have done for our emotional capabilities. We'll dissect how it actually influences our day to day relationships and what we can do about it. No shade here folks, this episode is for everyone. Let's just figure out how to be better humans okay. 

Today is just a fun short story time. Y'all wanted to hear some fun travel stories, so here they are. Please enjoy with caution. With more information on how to travel, tips and tricks check out my Instagram. 

Today we get to hear from a fellow houstonian ! She discovered a way to turn her passion into a lifestyle, income and community. It's so amazing what we can do once we take a chance on ourself. Tune in for chit chat and follow Here & Now Travel on Instagram for more information on your next vacation (: ! 

Don't let the holiday hype get you down. There is NOTHING wrong with being single, if anything it gives you an advantage. The only relationship you should constantly be focused on is the one with yourself.  Having a healthy loving relationship with your self will allow you to be a better partner in the future. Take some time alone, treat yourself (half priced chocolates tomorrow! ) & ask yourself who am I ? Who do I want to be ? What do I have to offer, what do I want. Make a YOU list, include your weaknesses and a plan to improve on them PS. Cupid is Stupid 

As requested, here is some more first date debauchery for y'all. Including unnecessary drama, property damage and unflattering texts all wrapped up in a quick episode. Follow my IG and slide in your worst first date stories ! I can't wait to read them. 

Just the facts here today! What it means to be happy and healthy. Why fad diets and challenges don't always work for you. Let's figure out how to keep that “summer bod” all year round.  Trash those trendy diets. Let's figure out what's going to work for you long term, a happy healthier you for 2022! Looking to start the journey to a healthier you but don't know where to start ? Send me a message on Instagram ! I Got You. I'll show you where to start and with who @erialwithane has you covered on all things healthy, beauty, and More 

It's 2022, New Year Resolutions are coming in fast and hot. . .But burning out even faster. Year after Year we hop on the resolution band wagon only to fall off with everyone else in a matter of weeks. Why ? Let's figure out why we are so good at the bad habits and so so bad at the good habits. Four Step guide to start and STICK to a new Habit #1. Pick your purpose. State your goal, a specific goal and find your why. #2. Motivate. Motivate. Motivate. Where is it ? What level are you on? #3.  Accountability. Preventive Planning. Don't pull that trigger homie. #4. Don't f*ck it up. But if you do, do it gracefully. 

Today we're hearing from the other side. We are giving the mic over to all the “ ghosts” out there. Listen in on me reading some responses from the ghosts themselves, explaining why and who they ghosts on.  Todays short episode is brought to you by the listeners of this podcast. Much thanks and appreciation goes out to those that took the time to write in and answer my ghost poll.  

Are you being haunted ? Haunted by the doubts and insecurities your latest ghost has left behind for you It's a little too early for spooky season so let's talk about how to get rid of these unwanted ghosts. Find value in your self, respect your time, space  and create your own closure. 

Have you ever looked back on a relationship and thought to yourself what the hec was I thinking ?! All the signs were there, how did I not see it, I should have saw it coming … Don't worry ! We've all been there, but let's try to never go back there again ok. Learn to spot those bright red flags before you get slapped in the face with em. IG : OrganizedChaos_thepodcast       : Nikkii.RaeeSC : nikkiraee23

Story Time : tragic first dates Grab a seat you're in for a wild ride. Theft, assault, moms, dead ex's, tears, & law enforcement… all the things and more to make a perfect date go south quick 

Scrolling through the tough stuff. How to feel better about yourself in a society of constant comparison and criticism.  Also does anyone else despise the holiday hysteria ? 

Hi, I'm toxic and so are you We are all a little ugly inside sometimes. We all have that capability but when is too much, too much ? What's your toxic trait ? & is it acceptable or a hard pass ? Come listen to me rant. In this episode : find the motivation to get rid of those toxic people in your circle 

What the hec am I doing here ?! & who gave me the right ! Where's your happiness? Lets find it together. Join the first of many happy, healthy and humorous episodes.