Podcasts about people pleasers

Remember the good ol' days in elementary school when your teacher introduced you to haiku, a Japanese form of poetry based on syllables, not rhyming?Psychotherapist and author Anne Helfer describes haiku as the rap of expressive writing that unlocks the door to emotions hidden deep inside and leads to even deeper healing.Anne explains how the 5-7-5 formula behind haiku is a simple healing exercise in mindfulness and why more people should follow her Silver Rule this week on Spirit Gym.Learn more about Anne and her work as a psychotherapist, author and healer on Instagram.Timestamps6:22 Anne's maternal abandonment, wounding and emotional neglect.11:57 Teaching people how to externalize their truths by writing simple, condensed haiku is an exercise of mindfulness.24:25 Anne's Silver Rule.36:04 Learning how to be comfortable without certainty.40:44 Writing haiku is a practice.47:37 Why do people live in their left brain?54:40 Numerology and the structure of haiku.1:00:07 “Renaissance woman, professional amateur, master of nothing.”1:14:40 Learn to enjoy the glimmers.1:25:30 Is it possible to breathe deeply through your womb/pelvis and use that experience to create haiku/mantras of focus, relaxation and calm?1:38:16 How the Japanese language affects the benefits of using haiku (or not).1:46:09 The impact high tech has on the world has forced Anne to stop working with kids.1:50:00 Equanimity.1:57:28 Interpersonal peace.ResourcesHealing With Haiku: A Poetic Exploration of Self by Anne HelferThe work of Bashô, Dr. Dan Siegel and Caroline MyssJeffrey Mishlove's conversation with David Whyte on YouTubeAlexithymiaPaul's Spirit Gym conversation with Nancy MellonFind more resources for this episode on our website.Music Credit: Meet Your Heroes (444Hz), Composed, mixed, mastered and produced by Michael RB Schwartz of Brave Bear MusicThanks to our awesome sponsors:PaleovalleyBIOptimizers US and BIOptimizers UK PAUL15Organifi CHEK20Wild PasturesKorrect SPIRITGYMPique LifeCHEK Institute/CHEK AcademyPaul's Dream Interpretation workshop We may earn commissions from qualifying purchases using affiliate links.

Fühlst du dich gerade gestresst von der ein oder anderen Herausforderung in deinem Leben? Bremsen dich noch alte Überzeugungen und Konditionierungen aus - oder fehlt es dir gerade an innerer Klarheit und Orientierung bei einer privaten oder beruflichen Angelegenheit? Was auch immer es sein mag ... Entdecke in dieser Folge ✅ Welche Möglichkeiten es gibt, auch wenn es manchmal nicht so aussieht. ✅ Wie du das Steuer wieder selbst übernehmen kannst - statt nur Beifahrer oder im Autopilotmodus zu sein ✅ Wie du aufhörst ein People Pleaser sein zu müssen Egal wie stressig oder komplex dir dein Leben auch gerade erscheinen mag ... Entspannter und Glücklicher leben ist kein Zufall, sondern möglich - auch für dich! Herzlichst, Alexandra Rosit-Hering Neuaufgestellt-Coaching & Mentoring (telefonisch oder online), vielleicht für dich? Du kannst hier ein unverbindliches Klarheitsgespräch mit mir vereinbaren: www.neuaufgestellt.de/kontakt "Stell dich neu auf - für ein Leben, dass dich wirklich von Herzen inspiriert und erfüllt - mit mehr Leichtigkeit und Genuss." Stehst du gerade an einem dieser Punkte in deinem Leben: ✅ Du fühlst dich gerade oder schon länger sehr gestresst von einer privaten oder beruflichen Herausforderung? ✅ Du stehst du an einem Wendepunkt in deinem Leben und dir fehlt die innere Klarheit, wie es weiter gehen soll oder kann? ✅ Dein Leben kommt dir mühsam und anstrengend vor? ✅ Du bist unzufrieden und fühlst eine innere Leere? ✅ Du wünscht dir einen inneren Kompass, ein starkes Fundament, auf das aufbauen kannst, damit du ein selbstbestimmtes und erfülltes Leben führen kannst. ✅ Du wünscht dir mehr Leichtigkeit, mehr Freude, mehr Genuss, innere Ruhe und Gelassenheit in deinem Leben? ✅ Du wünscht du dir einfach glücklicher zu sein, zufriedener oder entspanntere Beziehungen zu anderen? ✅ Du möchtest auf leichte Art für dich selbst und deine Bedürfnisse besser einstehen können? ✅ Vielleicht hast du aber auch einen ganz anderen Wunsch oder Ziel in deinem Kopf oder Herz? Dann könnte das Neuaufgestellt-Coaching oder Mentoring (online oder Telefonisch) das Richtige für dich sein! Entdecke was hinter den Kulissen vor sich geht. Verstehe Zusammenhänge und Verhaltensweisen. Freue dich auf eine erkenntnisreiche Zusammenarbeit mit Herz und Verstand. Alle Coachingsitzungen sind individuell und maßgeschneidert, die deinem ganz persönlichen Veränderungsprozess dienen. Es erwarten dich exklusive 1:1 Online Sitzungen - inclusive Rückenwind während unserer Zusammenarbeit- speziell angepasst zu dir und deinen Bedürfnissen. Je nachdem welches Anliegen du hast und / oder welchen Wunsch oder welches Ziel du verfolgst.... Zusammen können wir schauen, wie dieses Ziel auch für dich möglich ist. Interessiert? Dann lass uns zusammen sprechen. Ich freue mich auf deine Nachricht unter info@neuaufgestellt.de oder www.neuaufgestellt.de/kontakt Herzlichst Alexandra Rosit-Hering Coach/ Mentor/ Entspannungstherapeutin/Stressless-Trainerin

We were not made to be people pleasers. As Christians we are called to please God and care FOR His people. In this message, Pastor Matt helps us understand how to live out that balance with confidence and boldness. Sermon Notes: http://bible.com/events/49511531 We would love to get to know you: https://arisedenver.com/new Support Arise Church and its mission: https://arisedenver.com/give

= SONIA JHAS is the South Asian award-winning mindset expert, TEDx speaker, certified personal trainer, nutritionist, and author of I'll Start Again Tomorrow: And Other Lies I've Told Myself [Page Two; February 28, 2023], Sonia knows what it means to put off for tomorrow what you could be achieving today. Now she's helping people achieve their goals without burning out or stretching themselves too thin. Sonia gave up her skyrocketing corporate career and began searching for a new path that resonated with her core. Eventually, she transformed her life through deep analysis, education, determination, and willpower. Through her journey, Sonia uncovered a deep passion for wellness, as well as a driving desire to help others bolster their self-confidence and become the boss of their own life.  We discuss: How to Fight Those On-Again, Off-Again Behaviors and Mindset, and Keep from Living in a Rut Fending Off Feelings of Low Self-Worth, Poor Self-Esteem, and Negative Self-Talk What People Who are Susceptible to Trends Can Do to Live More in Alignment with Themselves Paralyzed By Fear? What to Do to Release Those Feelings and Move Forward from Them Drop the Excuses! Five Ways to Motivate Yourself to Get In, and Stay, In Shape Feeling House-Bound? Six Ways to Make Sure You're Moving Your Body Tune into Your Personal Values and Stay True to Yourself Are You a People-Pleaser? How to Turn this Around and Find a Happy Balance How to Practice Happiness and Keep It with You Every Day The “Mind-Work” and “Body-Work” that Goes Hand-in-Hand with True Health Releasing Legacy Values, Limiting Beliefs, and Perfectionist Tendencies in Order to Truly Transform Yourself How to Step Back from the “Am I Skinny Yet?” Narrative, 

We were not made to be people pleasers. As Christians we are called to please God and care FOR His people. In this message, Pastor Matt helps us understand how to live out that balance with confidence and boldness. Sermon Notes: http://bible.com/events/49511531 We would love to get to know you: https://arisedenver.com/new Support Arise Church and its mission: https://arisedenver.com/give

It's the 3rd epi in my people-pleasing series! I have been DYING to know what human design really is, how it works, and if it can help us with people pleasing. Turns out, not only can it help, it can give you a map that shows exactly where your people pleasing started, how it works, and how you heal it. Human design expert and confidence coach Kelly Hughes joins me to show us the way. Want to work with Kelly? Check out her incredible courses, and use code PATRAUMAPARTY at check-out for 10% off:90-minute Human Design ReadingReading + 6-week or 12-week coaching containerLooking for more episodes on people-pleasing? Try epi 91, epi 92, epi 87, epi 86, or epi 30. For more on boundary setting, try epi 10, epi 46, or epi 61.Want to work with Remy? Go ⁠⁠here.Find us on:Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠⁠⁠⁠Email: patraumaparty@gmail.comThe contents of this podcast are provided for informational purposes only. None of the material presented is intended to be a substitute for psychotherapy, counseling, professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. If you need to speak with a professional, you can find one local to you and reach out directly, or, in the US, you can call 988 to connect with the Suicide & Crisis Hotline.

Are you clenching so hard at work that control is controlling you? What would change if you only invested energy in what you can actually influence—and consciously released the rest?In this episode you'll learn:The “control illusion”: why overworking to feel safe backfires (burnout, fear habits, suboptimal results).The Conscious Release tool: a simple T-chart to sort leaning in (your thoughts, actions, decisions) vs. letting go (others' opinions, timelines, corporate realities).Three grounding questions to let go: How will I benefit? How does this improve outcomes? Why is it safe to release?Enroll in BFG: Want to eliminate stress, self-doubt, and overworking to be more effective, feel better, and create sustainable success in your demanding corporate career? Schedule a free consult here to find out how you can get started in my Breaking Free from the Grind 1:1 coaching program.Take the 3-minute BFG quiz here to find out which mindset - Overachiever, Overthinker, People Pleaser, Impostor, or Perfectionist - is preventing you from creating sustainable success at work. Your results will reveal your biggest trap and how to break free for good. About AmeliaAmelia Noel is a Master Certified Coach, podcast host, corporate workshop facilitator, and creator of the Breaking Free from the Grind coaching program. After spending over a decade of her career working on Wall Street at a top investment bank and as a global strategy consultant to Fortune 100 companies, Amelia now helps professionals working demanding corporate careers eliminate stress, self-doubt, and overworking so they can break free from the grind and create sustainable success in their careers.Connect with Ameliawww.amelianoelcoaching.comIG: @breakingfreefromthegrindLinkedIn: Amelia Noel 

Are you the strong one who's always there for everyone else—but secretly struggling inside? In this episode of Masks Off for People Pleasers and Perfectionists, host Kim Gross gets real about what it costs to hide your own pain behind perfection, control, and endless giving.From her high school years to adulthood, Kim shares powerful personal stories about how suppressing emotions and striving to appear “put together” can lead to burnout, anxiety, and disconnection from your true self. Through raw honesty and compassion, she reveals how vulnerability becomes the bridge to freedom—and how learning to feel your feelings is the first step toward wholeness.You'll learn how to:

Overflowing schedules, extra demands, emotions that feel out of control: sound like your life lately?  When life intensifies, we're tempted to believe the lie that we're the ones “holding it all together”…. which only causes us to work harder to find our own peace and to get answers.  How can we release ourselves from needing to be in control? And how can we respond differently to life's overwhelm and honestly discover God's promised rest for our souls in every season? WHAT YOU'LL LEARN: [00:00] Why Do We Feel Pressure to Hold It All Together? [10:00] Why “A + B = C” Thinking Doesn't Work in God's Economy [14:00] Two Lies That Keep Us Carrying Too Much Pressure [18:00] The Anchor Analogy: Finding Steadiness When Life Shifts [19:00] How to Use the A.D.D. Method (Acknowledge, Discern, Decide) to Release Pressure [23:00] What Letting Go Looks Like in Real Life  CHAT WITH ALICIA: Got a question about how to manage emotions in your specific situation? Apply here. EMOTIONAL CONFIDENCE CLUB: Discover practical ways to manage emotions from a science and scriptural perspective in our live 6-week studies with Alicia. Apply here.  RELATED EPISODES: Ep 313: Is Disappointment the Real Reason Why You're Overwhelmed, Tired + Irritated? Ep 326: A People Pleaser's Guide to Setting Boundaries (When You're Afraid to Offend Others) Ep 330: How to Manage Big Out-of-Control Emotions Send us a text

Yo no soy people please, soy lo que viene después… y de eso se trata el episodio de hoy.Conoce nuestro patrocinantes y sus hermosos productos: Ascension Organites:https://www.instagram.com/ascensionorgonitesHora Track:https://horatrack.com?utm_source=youtube&utm_medium=banner&utm_campaign=nadia-mariaRecuerda que siempre puedes ayudar a este podcast ingresando a: https://patreon.com/lanadiamariaY Siempre puedes ayudar dejando tu comentario y calificando con 5 estrellas todos los episodios que te gusten.@lanadiamaria en: instagram, tiktok, X y facebook.Dirección de Fotografía y video: Daniel “el cumanés” Aldamiz: https://www.instagram.com/aldamizcumanes_dpEdición: Joy Castañeda: https://instagram.com/enjoyvideo_ 

Are you clenching so hard at work that control is controlling you? What would change if you only invested energy in what you can actually influence—and consciously released the rest?In this episode you'll learn:The “control illusion”: why overworking to feel safe backfires (burnout, fear habits, suboptimal results).The Conscious Release tool: a simple T-chart to sort leaning in (your thoughts, actions, decisions) vs. letting go (others' opinions, timelines, corporate realities).Three grounding questions to let go: How will I benefit? How does this improve outcomes? Why is it safe to release? Enroll in BFG: Want to eliminate stress, self-doubt, and overworking to be more effective, feel better, and create sustainable success in your demanding corporate career? Schedule a free consult here to find out how you can get started in my Breaking Free from the Grind 1:1 coaching program.Take the 3-minute BFG quiz here to find out which mindset - Overachiever, Overthinker, People Pleaser, Impostor, or Perfectionist - is preventing you from creating sustainable success at work. Your results will reveal your biggest trap and how to break free for good. About AmeliaAmelia Noel is a Master Certified Coach, podcast host, corporate workshop facilitator, and creator of the Breaking Free from the Grind coaching program. After spending over a decade of her career working on Wall Street at a top investment bank and as a global strategy consultant to Fortune 100 companies, Amelia now helps professionals working demanding corporate careers eliminate stress, self-doubt, and overworking so they can break free from the grind and create sustainable success in their careers.Connect with Ameliawww.amelianoelcoaching.comIG: @breakingfreefromthegrindLinkedIn: Amelia Noel 

Are you tired of feeling burned out, overwhelmed, and never “good enough”? In this episode of Masks Off for People Pleasers and Perfectionists, host Kim Gross dives deep into the mental prison of perfectionism — the exhausting cycle that keeps women, especially those in their 20s, chasing impossible standards.

Send us a textThe holidays aren't the source of your stress. Scarcity, silence, and self-sacrifice are. In this episode of the Cosmic Valkyrie Podcast, Lynn Louise dives deep into how inherited survival codes—passed down from mothers, grandmothers, and generations of women before us—still run in your subconscious and silently dictate how you move through the holiday season.This episode is about breaking generational curses of scarcity and silence. It's about seeing how misogyny shaped the women before us, and how their strategies for survival (silence, obedience, sacrifice) became patterns we absorbed without realizing it.But the cycle ends here. With you.In this episode, you'll learn:Why scarcity isn't just about money—it's about time, energy, and love.How subconscious identities like the Martyr, Fixer, and People-Pleaser replay themselves every holiday season.Why willpower always fails, and how subconscious reprogramming creates lasting change.How Quantum Physics + Induction Hypnosis help collapse old cycles and open new possibilities.What it means to embody the Shapeshifter identity—choosing depth over distraction, purpose over performance, and presence over panic.Practical rituals to create alignment and rhythm in your daily life.Because freedom isn't about doing less. It's about becoming more of who you truly are.YOUR MOMENT TO SAY YES!  REWIRE FOR RADIANCE! 7 transformational tools (4 hypnosis audios + 3 trainings) to dissolve inherited stress, rewire your subconscious, and reclaim calm this holiday season. Normally $247 → Right now just $111 with code HH111 (48 hours only).

Are you exhausted from constantly trying to make everyone else happy, and losing yourself in the process? Today, we're talking about breaking free from the burnout of people-pleasing, perfectionism, and emotional outsourcing, and how to regulate your nervous system, trust yourself, and stop abandoning your own needs for the comfort of others.We're joined by Beatriz Victoria Albina, NP, MPH, SEP, a Family Nurse Practitioner, Somatic Experiencing and Breathwork Practitioner, and Master Certified Somatic Life Coach. Bea unpacks the hidden cost of emotional outsourcing™, AKA the survival habit of looking to others for validation, self-worth, and emotional regulation, instead of tuning into yourself.We dive into polyvagal theory, recognizing when you're in functional freeze, and using somatic tools and nervous system mapping to heal the patterns of codependency, self-abandonment, and avoidance that keep you stuck.If you've ever Googled “how to stop people-pleasing,” “why do I care so much what people think,” “how to heal my nervous system,” or “how to set boundaries without guilt,” this episode is for you.Tune in to learn about:What Emotional Outsourcing really means — and why it's a nervous system response, not a personality flawHow people-pleasing, perfectionism, and codependence develop from early survival patternsPolyvagal theory 101: how understanding your vagus nerve can help you stop self-abandoningAre you in a state of functional freeze? How to recognize and heal from itUnderstanding social hypervigilence (and the empath paradox)How to set boundaries and make decisions without guilt or second-guessingNervous system mapping and somatic tools to interrupt your automatic responsesHow to find balance between flexibility and authenticityHow to stop “performing” to earn love and acceptancePractical tools for reclaiming your identity, rebuilding self-trust, and honouring your own needs without fear of conflictFollow Bea's Instagram and podcast. Buy Bea's book End Emotional Outsourcing! For advertising and sponsorship inquiries, please contact Frequency Podcast Network. Sign up for our monthly adulting newsletter:teachmehowtoadult.ca/newsletter Follow us on the ‘gram:@teachmehowtoadultmedia@gillian.bernerFollow on TikTok: @teachmehowtoadultSubscribe on YouTube

What if resentment isn't your enemy — but a signpost? Many of us carry resentment quietly — that slow burn that shows up as tension in our bodies and heaviness in our hearts. We tell ourselves it's because of what someone else did or didn't do. But the truth is, resentment doesn't begin with them. It begins with us. In this episode, I explore how resentment is not your enemy, but your teacher — a sacred signal pointing you back to your unmet needs, forgotten boundaries, and the parts of you longing to be honored again. When you learn to listen to resentment instead of judging it, it reveals the exact places where you've been abandoning yourself in the name of peace, approval, or belonging. This isn't about blame. It's about freedom — the kind that comes from reclaiming your voice, your choices, and your truth. What we explore: The real root of resentment and why it's never just about someone else How crossing your own boundaries leads to self-abandonment Why resentment is actually grief — not anger Compassionate practices for transforming resentment into self-honoring How to hold your boundaries even when guilt or fear arises   When resentment rises, it's an invitation to pause, listen, and return to what's true for you. You don't need anyone else to change. You only need to stop betraying yourself. The freedom you've been seeking isn't out there — it's waiting within you.   Connect with me: Newsletternancylevin.comInstagramFacebook  

Sometimes protecting your peace means losing what isn't aligned. In this episode, I share a story about setting simple house rules — and what unfolded when those boundaries were met with resistance.It's not really about a nanny. It's about the quiet strength it takes to lead your home with clarity and confidence — even when it costs you comfort. We'll talk about why boundaries aren't about control, how guilt often disguises itself as kindness, and why standing firm in your values creates safety for your children and freedom for you.Your home is your sanctuary. The people you invite into it should honor the rhythm, respect the rules, and reflect the love you're building inside those walls.If you've ever doubted yourself after setting a boundary, this episode is your reminder: you're not being too much — you're being true.

National #comingout day has come and gone and we are here to re-surface some of what we navigated when coming out. How did we go from husband to wife - who did we tell first? What was our biggest fear in saying it out loud? These are just a few of the things we touch on in this episode. No matter what stage of the process you're in - keep going - and remember, coming out has no timeline.

Are your career goals truly yours—or are you chasing someone else's benchmark? What if hitting big milestones could feel easier and happen faster with a few smart shifts?In this episode you'll learn:How to audit your goal relationship: who it's for, the energy behind it (lack vs. sufficiency), and why “easy/doable” wins.The 3 W's of Accelerated Goal Creation: What (specific & measurable), Why (3+ compelling reasons), When (a soft deadline that guides, not punishes).Practical tweaks that speed results: make “feeling” goals measurable, reframe deadlines as light guideposts, and adjust without self-judgment.***Join the Lead Without the Grind Women's Leadership Accelerator***It's not too late! Snag your spot by applying before our second cohort session on October 15th. Apply here.☎️ Have a question before applying? Let's chat. No pressure, just a quick call to talk about where you're at and if Lead Without the Grind is your next right move. Book time with me here. Enroll in BFG: Want to eliminate stress, self-doubt, and overworking to be more effective, feel better, and create sustainable success in your demanding corporate career? Schedule a free consult here to find out how you can get started in my Breaking Free from the Grind 1:1 coaching program.Take the 3-minute BFG quiz here to find out which mindset - Overachiever, Overthinker, People Pleaser, Impostor, or Perfectionist - is preventing you from creating sustainable success at work. Your results will reveal your biggest trap and how to break free for good. About AmeliaAmelia Noel is a Master Certified Coach, podcast host, corporate workshop facilitator, and creator of the Breaking Free from the Grind coaching program. After spending over a decade of her career working on Wall Street at a top investment bank and as a global strategy consultant to Fortune 100 companies, Amelia now helps professionals working demanding corporate careers eliminate stress, self-doubt, and overworking so they can break free from the grind and create sustainable success in their careers.Connect with Ameliawww.amelianoelcoaching.comIG: @breakingfreefromthegrindLinkedIn: Amelia Noel 

This week on⁠ The Tarot Diagnosis⁠, we're exploring one of the most commonly misunderstood behaviors that exist in many of us: people-pleasing. Inspired by real conversations in the therapy room and the archetypal patterns of tarot, I explore people-pleasing through a trauma-informed, psychological, and tarot-based lens.While people-pleasing is often viewed as a virtue and praised as kindness or empathy, the truth is way more complex. From a clinical perspective, people-pleasing is often rooted in early childhood conditioning, or what therapists might consider as part of the “fawn response,” as well as the development of what psychoanalyst Donald Winnicott refers to as the false self. I shed light on how people-pleasing is actually a survival skill - a way of staying safe by tending to others' needs, moods, and perceptions, often at our own expense.In this episode, I explore how tarot archetypes reflect the nuance and shadow of this survival style. Drawing from both psychological theory and tarot symbolism, I unpack this behavior pattern as a form of emotional manipulation born from a deep need for control, approval, and connection, which might be difficult for many of us to hear.I also guide you through a therapeutic, three-card spread designed to help you explore your own patterns of people-pleasing along with what's underneath it, what it protects, and what it might feel like to step outside of it.For the collective, I pull…Card One: What emotion am I attempting to prevent or manage by people-pleasing? → The TowerCard Two: What would it mean to allow another person to feel disappointed, angry, or uncomfortable without taking responsibility for it? → Two of CupsCard Three: How can I tell the difference between being kind and giving so much that I lose myself? → Nine of CupsDeck Used: Tarot Vintage

This is episode 2 in my people-pleasing deep-dive! One of our biggest fears as people-pleasers is speaking up for ourselves during conflict—it can literally make us feel like we're going to pass out from anxiety! So how do we move from the knee-jerk "Sounds good, no worries!" to a thoughtful, authentic: "Actually, here's what I need..."? In this epi, psychologist, author, relationship expert, and podcast host Dr. Tracy Dalgleish joins me to get into what's underlying our people-pleasing patterns, why people-pleasing actually leads to MORE conflict, and how we heal. Looking for more episodes on people-pleasing? Try epi 91, epi 87, epi 86, or epi 30. For more on boundary setting, try epi 10, epi 46, or epi 61.Want to work with Remy? Go ⁠⁠here.Find us on:Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠⁠⁠⁠Email: patraumaparty@gmail.comThe contents of this podcast are provided for informational purposes only. None of the material presented is intended to be a substitute for psychotherapy, counseling, professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. If you need to speak with a professional, you can find one local to you and reach out directly, or, in the US, you can call 988 to connect with the Suicide & Crisis Hotline.

Are you done living by everyone else's expectations?

My guest is the oldest of two daughters, with seven years between she and her younger sister. Mina was working the night shift at a factory, when she was pregnant with her first daughter.  Parita shares that her mom used to let she and her sister explore as much as they needed when they were young. Both daughters were pushed academically and socially, but the girls found comfort in the fact that there mom would be there if ever they needed her. Mina was the oldest of four daughters. Parita's Maternal Grandfather said, "God didn't give me a son but he gave me the strongest daughters." Parita continues saying "her mother has experienced grief , being misunderstood  because she's a strong, capable, ambitious woman who's not afraid to speak her mind when she sees injustice." "It's taught me me that you have to be who your are. You have to come to the table with who you are, " commented Parita.Enjoy this listen. It's a remarkable story.Tidbits from Parita's Website-WHEN YOU THINK ABOUT IT, LIFE IS KIND OF LIKE A ROLLERCOASTER. THERE ARE UPS, DOWNS AND THE OCCASIONAL UPSIDE-DOWN MOMENTS.-THE UPS REMIND US OF WHAT'S POSSIBLE AND TO STAY GRATEFUL AND PRESENT.THE DOWNS REMIND US THAT CURVEBALLS ARE GOING TO COME AND EVENTUALLY GO.THEY ALL SHAPE US. THEY ALL MATTER. THEY ARE ALL A PART OF LIFE.-AT THE END OF THE DAY, THE GOAL ISN'T TO BE EVERYTHING TO EVERYONE, BUT TO LEADWITH CARE AND KINDNESS NO MATTER WHO YOU ARE FACING.-ON THREADS PARITA POSTED:myinnershakti-It's so easy to find the things that are wrong. To pull out other people's faults. Be the person who sees the good stuff first. No matter how small.Social Media/Website Links:INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/myinnershakti/THREADS: https://www.threads.com/@myinnershakti?xmt=AQF0vTK5E7kUx9a5ESsiczu829wyg9CK7lUyjVLZpscYkjALINKEDIN: https://www.linkedin.com/in/parita-patel-kuttappan-mba-cpc-eli-mp-a6238b5/SUBSTACK: https://substack.com/@myinnershaktiWEBSITE: www.awarifycoaching.comlinktr.ee/myinnershakti Parita Kuttappan, MBA, CPC, ELI-MPCertified Professional CoachAwarify Coaching, LLCwww.awarifycoaching.com "Should Have Listened To My Mother" is an ongoing conversation about mothers/female role models and the roles they play in our lives. Jackie's guests are open and honest and answer the question, are you who you are today because of, or in spite of, your mother and so much more. You'll be amazed at what the responses are.Gina Kunadian wrote this 5 Star review on Apple Podcast:SHLTMM TESTIMONIAL GINA KUNADIAN JUNE 18, 2024“A Heartfelt and Insightful Exploration of Maternal Love”Jackie Tantillo's “Should Have Listened To My Mother” Podcast is a treasure and it's clear why it's a 2023 People's Choice Podcast Award Nominee. This show delves into the profound impact mother and maternal role models have on our lives through personal stories and reflections.Each episode offers a chance to learn how different individuals have been shaped by their mothers' actions and words. Jackie skillfully guides these conversations, revealing why guests with similar backgrounds have forged different paths.This podcast is a collection of timeless stories that highlight the powerful role of maternal figures in our society. Whether your mother influenced you positively or you thrived despite challenges, this show resonates deeply.I highly recommend “Should Have Listened To My Mother” Podcast for its insightful, heartfelt and enriching content.Gina Kunadian"Should Have Listened To My Mother" would not be possible without the generosity, sincerity and insight from my guests. In 2018/2019, in getting ready to launch my podcast, so many were willing to give their time and share their personal stories of their relationship with their mother, for better or worse and what they learned from that maternal relationship. Some of my guests include Nationally and Internationally recognized authors, Journalists, Columbia University Professors, Health Practitioners, Scientists, Artists, Attorneys, Baritone Singer, Pulitzer Prize Winning Journalist, Activists, Freighter Sea Captain, Film Production Manager, Professor of Writing Montclair State University, Attorney and family advocate @CUNY Law; NYC First Responder/NYC Firefighter, Child and Adult Special Needs Activist, Property Manager, Chefs, Self Help Advocates, therapists and so many more talented and insightful women and men.Jackie has worked in the broadcasting industry for over four decades. She has interviewed many fascinating people including musicians, celebrities, authors, activists, entrepreneurs, politicians and more.A big thank you goes to Ricky Soto, NYC based Graphic Designer, who created the logo for "Should Have Listened To My Mother".Check out our website for more background information: https://www.jackietantillo.com/Or more demos of what's to come at https://soundcloud.com/jackie-tantilloLink to website and show notes: https://shltmm.simplecast.com/Or Find SHLTMM Website here: https://shltmm.simplecast.com/Listen wherever you find podcasts: https://www.facebook.com/ShouldHaveListenedToMyMotherhttps://www.facebook.com/jackietantilloInstagram:https://www.instagram.com/shouldhavelistenedtomymother/https://www.instagram.com/jackietantillo7/LinkedIn:https://www.linkedin.com/in/jackie-tantillo/YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@ShouldHaveListenedToMyMother

This week we are joined by Kelly Taylor! Kelly is an NYC based comedian. Check out Kelly on instagram @hellothisiskelly and check out her podcast I Feel Fat Today on instagram @ifeelfattoday & subscribe to the show on Youtube.In this episode, Kelly Taylor shares her experiences growing up in New Jersey, navigating college life, and the impact of family dynamics on her personal growth. The discussion touches on the challenges of adulthood, the influence of social media, and the journey into the workforce, particularly in the fashion industry. Kelly reflects on her friendships, the importance of community, and the lessons learned along the way. Give this episode a listen!Recommendations From This Episode: Alone Writing Jersey-Shore-Set Rom-Coms with Betty Corrello - Season 4, Episode 23Don't Tell Mom The Babysitter's DeadFollow Kelly: @hellothisiskellyFollow Carly: @carlyjmontagFollow Emily: @thefunnywalshFollow the podcast: @aloneatlunchpodEmail us: aloneatlunch@gmail.comPlease rate and review the podcast! Spread the word! Tell your friends!  Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Rachel Hollis discusses the importance of teaching children self-advocacy and balancing kindness with self-respect. Addressing issues like forced physical affection, she emphasizes the need to avoid raising people-pleasers. Rachel answers parenting questions from listeners, providing strategies to break generational patterns and nurture emotionally intelligent kids.Get your copy of Rachel's New Book Here: Audible, Amazon, Barnes & Noble, Books-A-Millon, Bookshop.org, or wherever books are sold!01:00 Welcome and Podcast Subscription Request01:57 Introduction to Ask Rach Series02:39 Balancing Kindness and Self-Advocacy in Parenting03:21 Caller Question: Raising Kind and Strong Children05:44 Rachel's Personal Experience with Compliance14:50 Teaching Kids to Advocate for Themselves20:51 Caller Question: Supporting Children Through Personal Struggles21:34 Modeling Behavior for Your Children26:22 Caller Question: Knowing When You're Ready to Be a Parent32:58 Conclusion and Podcast InformationSign up for Rachel's weekly email: https://msrachelhollis.com/insider/Call the podcast hotline and leave a voicemail! Call (737) 400-4626Watch the podcast on YouTube: http://youtube.com/@MsRachelHollisFollow along on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/MsRachelHollisTo learn more about listener data and our privacy practices visit: https://www.audacyinc.com/privacy-policy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit https://podcastchoices.com/adchoices. Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

✨ Welcome to Squiggly Shortcuts — a brand new series from the Squiggly Careers podcast, bringing you quick career tips in just 5 minutes, every Thursday. In this shortcut, Helen shares a practical idea to help you spot and stop people pleasing at work, so you can set boundaries, protect your time, and focus on what matters most.How To Stop Being A People Pleaser (3 Tips) Episode 499⏱️ Timestamps00:00 Welcome to Squiggly Shortcuts00:35 What is people pleasing? 01:09 Tip 1 - Find your pause statement02:06 Tip 2 - Use "don't" rather than "can't"03:45 Tip 3 - Practice your no-cabulary05:10 A reminder for your week

In her new book, F*** Approval, You Don't Need It!, therapist Lizzie Moult says people who seek the approval of others are doing a great disservice to themselves — and others too. In a conversation with Here & Now host Peter O'Dowd, Moult explains why being a “people pleaser” can be counterproductive. To listen to Book of the Day sponsor-free and support NPR's book coverage, sign up for Book of the Day+ at plus.npr.org/bookofthedayLearn more about sponsor message choices: podcastchoices.com/adchoicesNPR Privacy Policy

In this heartfelt episode of Masks Off for People Pleasers and Perfectionists, Kim Gross, opens up about the realities of aging and how perfectionism can make this transition even harder.

I used to think I wasn't a people pleaser because I said no all the time—but I later realized I was still bending over backwards for certain people. People pleasing isn't always obvious; it can hide under good intentions, over-functioning, and quietly abandoning yourself to keep others comfortable. In this episode, I share how to spot the subtle ways it shows up and the first steps toward getting your life back! Find The People Pleasing Cure and other resources at www.rympocast.com.

Send us a textThe holidays aren't the source of your stress—you are. Triggering? Maybe. Liberating? Absolutely.In this episode of the Cosmic Valkyrie Podcast, we're continuing the No More Holiday Hustle Series with a deep dive into why your calendar, to-do list, and family obligations aren't actually the problem—and how subconscious identities and inherited beliefs are the real culprits.Most women think the stress comes from “doing too much,” but the truth is, the spiral begins in your subconscious programming. If you believe you're always behind, you'll live in urgency and panic. If you believe you're not enough, you'll overdeliver to the point of burnout. If you believe productivity equals worth, you'll never allow yourself to rest.The result? Stress eating, emotional shopping, arguments with family, blown budgets, migraines, and resentment that lasts long after the season ends.But here's the radical shift: stress doesn't come from what you're doing—it comes from who you believe you are while you're doing it.That's where alignment, momentum, and subconscious reprogramming come in. This episode shows you how to stop hustling, stop scrambling, and start creating the holidays you actually want.Why holiday stress starts in your belief system, not your schedule.The subconscious identities (People-Pleaser, Martyr, Overachiever, Fixer) that hijack your peace.Why willpower always fails—and how subconscious reprogramming creates lasting change.The hidden financial, emotional, and energetic costs of “making it magical.”How Quantum Physics and Induction Hypnosis help shift your subconscious lens.What it means to embody the Shapeshifter identity this season.Practical shifts you can start today to create alignment, presence, and flow.This isn't about canceling Christmas or lowering your standards—it's about reclaiming your presence, your joy, and your energy so you don't collapse into January burned out and resentful.Want to go deeper? Join the No More Holiday Hustle Workshop → 3 powerful trainings (under 20 minutes each) designed to rewire your subconscious and reclaim calm this holiday season. Only $27, with an optional VIP upgrade for even more support.Because peace isn't a luxury. It's a decision. And it starts with you.#NoMoreHolidayHustle #HolidayStressRelief #SubconsciousReprogramming #QuantumAwareness #Shapeshifter #InductionHypnosis #AlignmentOverHustle #HolidayBurnout #MomentumAndFlow #CosmicValkyrieMake sure to follow and leave a great review! THE BRILLANCE MEHTOD PODCAST Lynn Louise has been helping women all over the world for over a decade. Her Evolution 10X Method combines Energetic Intelligence, Quantum Science and the Brain, and Fundamentals Strategy to help you quiet your mind, uplevel your consciousness, so you can live a life of deeper fulfillment and purpose. Lynn Louise is a Master Certified Hypnotist, Telepath, Shapeshifter, Multidimensional Traveler, and Coach driven by a powerful mission to help others. Her approach is unlike any other mentor's you have experienced. So, if you are ready to collapse timelines and create the business of your dreams - buckle up! For more information on how to work with her within her E10X Program: CLICK HERE

Do you spend a lot of time worrying about whether someone is mad at you? Do you avoid sharing your opinion because you don't want to be disliked? If so, you might be engaging in fawning—a survival response that drives people-pleasing behavior. I'm joined by Meg Josephson, psychotherapist and bestselling author of Are You Mad at Me?. Together, we explore the roots of fawning, how it impacts our lives, and the steps you can take to stop worrying about what others think and start living for yourself. Some of the things we talk about are: What fawning is and how it differs from people-pleasing. Why fawning is a survival response that has likely protected you in the past. The signs you might be fawning. The dangers of becoming a people-pleaser. Why relationships are the key to healing from fawning. How to learn reconnect with your own needs. Subscribe to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Mentally Stronger Premium⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ for exclusive content like weekly bonus episodes, access to mental strength challenges and office hours with me. Links & Resources MegJosephson.com Are You Mad at Me? Follow Meg on Instagram - @MegJosephson Connect with the Show Buy a copy of ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠13 Things Mentally Strong People Don't Do⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Connect with Amy on Instagram — ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@AmyMorinAuthor⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Visit my website — ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠AmyMorinLCSW.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Sponsors Cowboy Colostrum — Get 25% Off @CowboyColostrum with code STRONGER at ⁠⁠cowboycolostrum.com⁠⁠. #CowboyColostrumPod HoneyLove — Save 20% Off Honeylove by going to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠honeylove.com/STRONGER⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ #honeylovepod CocoaVia — Get 20% off with code Amy2025 at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠cocoavia.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. OneSkin — Get 15% off OneSkin with the code STRONGER at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.oneskin.co/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠  Quince — Go to ⁠⁠⁠⁠Quince.com/stronger⁠⁠⁠⁠ for free shipping on your order and 365 day returns! ZocDoc — Go to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Zocdoc.com/STRONGER⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ to find and instantly book a top-rated doctor today! Shopify — Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Shopify.com/mentallystronger⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Life Kit — Listen to the ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Life Kit podcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ from NPR. Mentally Strong App — Take your mental strength to the next level. Sign up at ⁠⁠⁠⁠AmyMorinLCSW.com⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Have you ever been told you're “too sensitive,” “overreacting,” or “making a big deal out of nothing”? In this episode, Alicia Michelle explains the science behind being a Highly Sensitive Person (HSP) and why this God-given wiring is not a flaw but a unique gift. Discover the traits of HSPs, the brain science that explains their heightened awareness, and how to embrace this sensitivity as a strength while learning practical tools to manage overwhelm and stay anchored in God's truth. WHAT YOU'LL LEARN: [00:00] What Does It Feel Like to Be Told You're “Too Sensitive”? [02:00] Understanding What It Means to Be a Highly Sensitive Person (HSP) [04:00] Why Do HSPs Often Repress Emotions or Struggle With People-Pleasing? [07:00] Four Core Traits of Highly Sensitive People [10:00] How Do Mirror Neurons and Brain Science Explain HSP Empathy? [14:00] Common Kryptonites for HSPs: Overthinking, Perfectionism, and Emotional Overload [20:00] Are HSPs More Likely to Be Introverted? [22:00] Practical Habits to Protect Energy and Calm the Nervous System [25:00] How Can Sensitivity Become a God-Given Strength Instead of a Burden?  RESOURCES: Want practical help learning to manage your emotions better? Join us in Alicia's Emotional Confidence Club!    We're a Christ-centered community of women learning to process everyday emotions—like disappointment, overwhelm, and shame—using science-and-Scripture-based emotional management tools that make emotional healing practical, powerful, and personal.    Every 6 weeks we welcome new members and focus on a new topic.    Apply now to join the waitlist (limited number of spots available!) at AliciaMichelle.com/club.    RELATED EPISODES: Ep 299: Emotions in Marriage: When Should You Share (and When Should You Not)? Ep 312: What to Do When You Can't Stop Crying, Snapping, or Shutting Down Ep 326: A People Pleaser's Guide to Setting Boundaries (When You're Afraid to Offend Others) Send us a textWant support applying what you're learning here each week about managing emotions with science and scripture? Come join us in the Emotional Confidence Club—apply now at AliciaMichelle.com/club.

What was your biggest Takeaway from this Episode! I would Love to hear from you!Unmasking the People Pleaser: How ADHD and AuDHD Shape Relationship Struggles with Eric Tivers, LCSW – Founder of ADHD reWiredWhat if your people-pleasing isn't weakness—what if it's masking?In this deeply honest and eye-opening episode of Empowering Women in Conversations, host Anita Sandoval, LPC-S, is joined by Eric Tivers, LCSW and founder of ADHD reWired, to explore the powerful intersection of neurodivergence and relational patterns—especially in women who are recovering people pleasers.We explore:What is AuDHD and how it shows up differently in womenWhy ADHD and Autism are often missed or misdiagnosedThe emotional and relational toll of masking and people-pleasingReal stories of late diagnosis, sensory overload, and emotional burnoutThe difference between kindness and character, and how masking can impact intimacy, boundaries, and belongingHow ADHD reWired's Adult Study Hall and coaching groups help bridge the gap between intention and actionYou'll hear vulnerable stories, laugh-out-loud moments, and radical truth-telling that will make you feel seen, validated, and empowered.Whether you're neurodivergent, wondering if you might be, or supporting someone who is—this conversation will open your eyes and soften your heart.✨ Want visuals with the audio?

It's my first in a series on people pleasing! We're looking at it from all angles, starting with people-pleasing at work. We do it to stay safe, even to get ahead in our careers—but it's actually sabotaging our success! The problem is, half the time, we don't even know we're doing it, and the other half, we've people pleased before we even have a chance to think about what we're saying (soooo frustrating)! In this episode, executive coach, TED Talk speaker, and founder of Encourage Coaching, Katie O'Malley, joins me to talk about how we overcome the traumatized thinking that keeps us in people-pleaser mode, so we can set boundaries and take our power back. Looking for more episodes on people-pleasing? Try epi 87, epi 86, or epi 30. For more on boundary setting, try epi 10, epi 46, or epi 61.Want to work with Remy? Go ⁠⁠here.Find us on:Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠⁠⁠⁠Email: patraumaparty@gmail.comThe contents of this podcast are provided for informational purposes only. None of the material presented is intended to be a substitute for psychotherapy, counseling, professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. If you need to speak with a professional, you can find one local to you and reach out directly, or, in the US, you can call 988 to connect with the Suicide & Crisis Hotline.

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On this deep-dive episode of Dawnversations, I sit down with Scott Doniger for part two of our Internal Family Systems/Parts Work series. We explore the different 'parts' we all carry—the Inner Critic, the Perfectionist, the Procrastinator, the Righteous One, and the People Pleaser—and uncover how they influence our thoughts, feelings, and actions.Scott brings clarity, insight, and practical guidance for understanding and working with these parts to create more self-compassion and inner harmony. This episode is longer than usual, but we go in-depth because some conversations just can't be rushed. If you've ever wondered why you sabotage yourself, procrastinate endlessly, or feel torn between competing impulses, this episode will give you a fresh perspective—and maybe even a plan for getting along with your inner committee.

Think being "too sensitive" is just a personality quirk? Think again. In this episode of The Wellness Effect, Lacey and Kira dive deep into the hidden cost of being an empath - and why your chronic symptoms might be directly linked to your inability to set boundaries. From depleted minerals showing up in lab work to the "calcium shell" your body creates to protect itself from stress, we're connecting the dots between emotional absorption and physical breakdown in ways that will completely shift how you view your healing journey. Whether you've always known you're an empath or you're just realizing that your people-pleasing tendencies are literally draining your life force, this conversation will give you the tools to turn your sensitivity from a health liability into your greatest superpower.   In this episode, you'll hear: 09:29 - The real definition of being an empath and why most chronic illness sufferers share this trait 12:39 - How people-pleasing behaviors create "leaky boundaries" that lead to physical symptoms 16:53 - Why empaths attract energy vampires and how this keeps you stuck in chronic stress 32:48 - How constant emotion absorption keeps you trapped in fight-or-flight 40:50 - The calcium shell phenomenon: How your body creates armor to protect you from stress 45:57 - The brutal question every people-pleaser needs to ask 51:08 - How high-vibe people naturally repel energy drainers (and how to become one of them)   Key Takeaways: Sodium and potassium deficiencies in HTMA testing directly correlate with boundary issues Your body creates a calcium shell around cells as physical protection when emotional boundaries are weak - this shows up consistently in lab work after trauma or chronic people-pleasing You can't out-supplement shitty boundaries - the root cause of mineral depletion is energetic, not nutritional Leaky boundaries and leaky gut are intimately connected - your emotional permeability directly impacts your physical permeability     Want more from us? Visit our website: https://www.lifestyleucoaching.ca/ Follow us on Instagram: @wellnesseffectpod Lacey Iskra - @laceeiskk Jensen - @wellnesswjensen Kira Iskra - @kiraiskk Lifestyle U have helped over 1,000+ women transform their mind and body and become the best version of themselves. Want to be next? Click Here to Apply! - https://www.lifestyleucoaching.ca/apply If you loved this episode and want to hear more, subscribe and leave a review! Share this episode with a friend who's ready to start their own wellness journey. Follow us on Instagram at @wellnesseffectpod to stay up-to-date with the latest episodes and tips.  

Wondering how to stop being a people pleaser? In the journey of Christian dating, singles often face the challenge of balancing their own desires with the expectations of others. The inclination to please people can be deeply ingrained, especially within the context of relationships. However, for a fulfilling and authentic connection, it’s essential to recognize and overcome this tendency. This article will explore the concept of people pleasing in Christian dating and provide ten practical steps for singles to cultivate […] The post How to Stop Being a People Pleaser as a Christian Single appeared first on Christian Singles Advice | Christian Dating Advice Tips. Related posts: How to Stop Comparing Yourself to Others as a Christian Single How to Stop Jealousy in a Christian Dating Relationship How to Stop Procrastination as a Single Christian@ How to Stop Worrying About Everything: A Christian Single’s Guide When to Stop Waiting for Him to Propose: Insight for the Single Christian Woman

In this episode, I'm joined by Joey Peppas, an occupational therapist running her own private practice. Together, we dig deep into the less-talked-about realities of our profession—being a people pleaser, battling imposter syndrome, and the unique personality traits that often draw us into OT in the first place. Joey shares her experiences of navigating private practice, from the practical challenges of running a business to the personal growth that comes with stepping outside the comfort zone. We also reflect on the ways our personalities shape how we show up as therapists, colleagues, and leaders. If you've ever felt like you're giving too much, doubted whether you're “enough,” or wondered what it really takes to thrive in private practice, this conversation is for you. https://www.instagram.com/p/DOfxLwMAbV1/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link&igsh=MzRlODBiNWFlZA== Instagram: @OccupiedPodcast Facebook: Occupied Podcast Host: Brock Cook Subscribe now and never miss an episode!

Are you tired of feeling stuck in resistance and weighed down by the pressure to be perfect? In this heartfelt episode of Masks Off for People Pleasers and Perfectionists, host Kim Gross gets real about her own struggles with unmet desires, perfectionism, and the frustration that comes when life doesn't go as planned.✨ What you'll learn in this episode:Why resistance shows up and how to move through itThe power of surrender, letting go, and aligning with the universeHow to balance inspired action without burning outInsights from spiritual teachers like Joe Dispenza and David BayerPractical steps to embrace imperfection and find inner freedomKim's raw, unfiltered storytelling will inspire you to release control, embrace your authentic self, and discover more peace, joy, and abundance in everyday life.⏱ Timestamps: 00:00 Introduction: The Struggle for Dreams 01:04 Host Introduction and Personal Struggles 01:22 The Frustration of Resistance 02:28 The Wisdom of Letting Go 04:57 The Pity Party and Real Talk 06:01 The Importance of Inner Peace 08:38 Balancing Life and Energy 10:32 Returning to the Topic of Resistance 13:25 The Practice of Surrendering 24:15 The Miracle of Inner Freedom 27:07 Conclusion and Future Plans

What if the biggest thing holding you back as a leader isn't your skills or knowledge, but your inner operating system? ⚙️ In this episode of the ”Courageous Leadership Series,” Rosie Ward unpacks the “faulty programs” we all unknowingly downloaded in childhood that continue to influence our thoughts, choices, and leadership today. From the Overachiever to the People Pleaser to the Control Freak, these subconscious scripts can quietly fuel burnout, silence our voices, or lead us to chase worth in all the wrong places. Drawing on years of research and coaching hundreds of leaders, Rosie reveals the seven core faulty programs (and their sneaky cousins) — and, more importantly, how to start upgrading them.

Send us a textBy late September, the spiral of holiday stress has already begun. The Halloween candy on store shelves, pumpkin spice lattes in your hand, and even the subtle self-shaming about indulging in them aren't random. They're subconscious cues. Triggers. And once they activate, your brain defaults into survival strategies that feel soothing in the moment but trap you in the same cycle of exhaustion, overgiving, and overwhelm by the time January 1st arrives.In this kickoff episode of the No More Holiday Hustle Series on The Cosmic Valkyrie Podcast. Lynn Louise Larson, guides you into a deeper awareness of what's really happening inside your mind and body during the holidays. This isn't about pumpkin spice or shopping therapy. It's about subconscious programming, inherited survival strategies, and the identities that silently drive you into stress every year.Why self-soothing behaviors like emotional eating, wine-down Wednesdays, or retail therapy never break the stress cycle.How your subconscious is wired for familiarity—not success—and why willpower alone can't change your patterns.The hidden cost of inherited stress identities: the People-Pleaser, the Martyr, the Overachiever, and the Fixer.How stress floods your system with cortisol, disrupts your sleep and digestion, and disconnects you from your joy.Why slowing down internally (not just clearing your schedule) is the radical reset you've been craving.How quantum awareness, alignment, and induction hypnosis help you rewire your subconscious and reclaim momentum.This is not about managing stress with surface-level tips. It's about going deeper—into the subconscious patterns that drive your behaviors—and aligning with your luminous self so the holiday season becomes one of presence, peace, and connection.Ready to Break the Spiral for Good? The stress cycle has already started—but this year, you can interrupt it. That's exactly why I created the No More Holiday Hustle Workshop.For just $27, you'll receive: ✔️ 3 powerful trainings under 20 minutes each ✔️ Delivered straight to your inbox (no Zoom links, no rigid schedule) ✔️ Tools rooted in subconscious reprogramming, quantum alignment, and hypnosisAnd if you're ready to go deeper, you can upgrade to VIP for just $20 more.This isn't fluff. It's a frequency reset. 

Is your teen daughter always saying yes, going along with the crowd, or worrying too much about what others think? She may be slipping into people pleaser mode. In this episode, I'm sharing 4 practical ways you can help her recognize when she's living for approval instead of staying true to herself.   Are you looking for a supportive mom community? The common thing I ask the moms I work with to be most valuable is having a community with other moms who get it.  Who are in the weeds too.  Moms who are also in the season of raising tween & teen girls.  We need each other to vent, laugh, encourage and support on another.  If that's you too, I have a free mom community I invite you to be a part of.  You can join going to www.raisingherconfidently.com   You can find me here: Work with me: www.raisingherconfidently.com Connect: hello@jeanniebaldomero.com Instagram:  https://www.instagram.com/raisingherconfidently Free mom support community: www.raisingherconfidently.com

How do you know when it's time to set a boundary—and how can you express it in a way that's both loving and clear? In this episode, discover the signs that a boundary is needed, why boundaries are part of God's created order, and the three qualities that make a boundary truly healthy. You'll also learn Alicia's favorite tool for expressing boundaries, the “Boundary Sandwich”, a simple framework that helps you set limits with kindness, clarity, and confidence. WHAT YOU'LL LEARN: [00:00] How do you know when it's time to set a boundary? [02:00] What emotional signs point to the need for limits? [04:00] Why are boundaries part of God's design for creation? [05:00] What makes a boundary healthy, clear, and kind? [07:00] How can consistency build confidence in boundary setting? [08:00] What biblical examples show boundaries in action? [11:00] When should you express a boundary out loud vs. keep it between you and God? [12:00] What is the “Boundary Sandwich” and how does it work? [14:00] Real-life examples of the Boundary Sandwich in family, friendship, and church settings  RESOURCES: Want practical help learning to manage your emotions better? Join us in Alicia's Emotional Confidence Club!    We're a Christ-centered community of women learning to process everyday emotions—like disappointment, overwhelm, and shame—using science-and-Scripture-based emotional management tools that make emotional healing practical, powerful, and personal.    Every 6 weeks we welcome new members and focus on a new topic.    Apply now to join the waitlist (limited number of spots available!) at AliciaMichelle.com/club.    RELATED EPISODES: Episode 223: “People Pleasers, You Don't Need to Apologize for Your Decisions” Episode 233: Restore Your Relationships: Create Guilt-Free Boundaries for Less Family + Friendship Drama Episode 326: A People Pleaser's Guide to Setting Boundaries (When You're Afraid to Offend Others) Send us a textWant support applying what you're learning here each week about managing emotions with science and scripture? Come join us in the Emotional Confidence Club—apply now at AliciaMichelle.com/club.

Here's what to expect on the podcast:Drew's powerful story of breaking free from a lifetime of people-pleasingThe path to uncovering your authentic self and true purposeHow Drew supports men and caregivers on their own journeysThe six pillars of family health—and why they matterThe C.O.P.E. paradigm as a framework for lasting personal growthAnd so much more! About Drew:Drew Deraney believes that his success happens when he finds a better way and is willing and able to share it with others. HOW he does that is by challenging the status quo and thinking differently. Ultimately, WHAT Drew brings to the table is a way to contribute and add value by having an impact on the lives of others.It wasn't always this way. For most of his life, he was concerned with what people thought of him and how he was supposed to act. He wore many masks to either fit in or be accepted. He didn't realize he was a people pleaser, hiding his authentic self. Fast forward... In a 9-month span a few years ago, he endured four faith-shaking life events that caused him to question his existence and determine his purpose in life. Why was he here?Drew is the proud father of three children, a daughter and two sons. His oldest son was born with autism spectrum disorder and is, what the experts call, "high functioning," previously called "Asperger's" - cognitively strong and socially and emotionally delayed. Now a Caregiver Coach, Drew supports families caring for those with special needs and fathers caring for children who have autism spectrum disorder to navigate the system for appropriate services for their loved ones and themselves. Connect with Drew Deraney!Website: https://www.profitcompassion.com/LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/drewderaney/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCtwMTiiZvnhTpsaCYMK6oqgEmail: drew@profitcompassion.comFrom Caving In to Crushing It Podcast: Apple - https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/from-caving-in-to-crushing-it/id1658061389Spotify - https://open.spotify.com/show/74b0HbQaDn6xxOzr1C9dmW?si=xsJ2g5rRQ9aaIUZyulH_uA&nd=1&dlsi=f7b868246c8045baCheck out Drew's book, ‘I'll Have What She's Having' - Memoir of A reformed People Pleaser, on Amazon! https://tinyurl.com/349cxmp5----- If you're struggling, consider therapy with our sponsor, BetterHelp.Visit https://betterhelp.com/candicesnyder for a 10% discount on your first month of therapy.*This is a paid promotionIf you are in the United States and in crisis, or any other person may be in danger -Suicide & Crisis Lifeline Dial 988----- Connect with Candice Snyder!Website: https://www.podpage.com/passion-purpose-and-possibilities-1/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/candicebsnyder?_rdrPassion, Purpose, and Possibilities Community Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/passionpurposeandpossibilitiescommunity/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/passionpurposepossibilities/LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/candicesnyder/Shop For A Cause With Gifts That Give Back to Nonprofits: https://thekindnesscause.com/Fall In Love With Artists And Experience Joy And Calm: https://www.youtube.com/@movenartrelaxationClick this link to receive your FREE TRIAL to The Greenhouse Communityhttps://www.thegreenhousecommunity.com/checkout/the-greenhouse-membership?affiliate_code=11e889

What's your #1 Challenge in Living your Truth?

Always saying yes, even when you're burning out? We'll help you discover grace-filled ways to know when to say no. Dr. Greg and Lisa will help you solve your problems with relevant, relatable and achievable tools and solutions straight from the genius of the Theology of the Body.

Do you struggle to say no because you're afraid of disappointing others? In this episode designed for people pleasers, Alicia shares why boundaries aren't selfish but a God-designed way to protect your peace and honor Him. Discover the lies that keep people pleasers stuck, how Jesus modeled healthy boundaries, and how to use the A.D.D. model (Acknowledge, Discern, Decide) to process the fear of upsetting others. Learn why serving others well actually starts with setting limits, and how to find the courage to follow the Holy Spirit instead of the fear of man. WHAT YOU'LL LEARN: [00:00] Why do people pleasers struggle most with setting boundaries? [04:00] Why are boundaries God-designed instead of selfish? [07:00] How did Jesus model healthy boundaries in His own life? [09:00] What hidden pride might be fueling your people pleasing? [12:00] Why you don't need permission from others to set limits [15:00] How can you follow the Spirit instead of fearing rejection? [17:00] What deeper roots might be driving your people pleasing? [21:00] How to use the A.D.D. model (Acknowledge, Discern, Decide) to process emotions around boundaries  RESOURCES: Want practical help learning to manage your emotions better? Join us in Alicia's Emotional Confidence Club!    We're a Christ-centered community of women learning to process everyday emotions—like disappointment, overwhelm, and shame—using science-and-Scripture-based emotional management tools that make emotional healing practical, powerful, and personal.    Every 6 weeks we welcome new members and focus on a new topic.    Apply now to join the waitlist (limited number of spots available!) at AliciaMichelle.com/club.    RELATED EPISODES: Episode 223: “People Pleasers, You Don't Need to Apologize for Your Decisions” Episode 233: Restore Your Relationships: Create Guilt-Free Boundaries for Less Family + Friendship Drama Episode 234: “Rebuild Your Rest: Set Up Soothing Rhythms + Boundaries for Less Overwhelm” Send us a textWant support applying what you're learning here each week about managing emotions with science and scripture? Come join us in the Emotional Confidence Club—apply now at AliciaMichelle.com/club.

Do you say “yes” when you want to say “no?" In this episode, I break down the childhood roots of people-pleasing, the hidden costs it has on your happiness and identity, and practical steps to set boundaries, be assertive, and reclaim your sense of self. The Mindset Mentor™ podcast is designed for anyone desiring motivation, direction, and focus in life.     Past guests of The Mindset Mentor include: - Tony Robbins   - Matthew McConaughey   - Jay Shetty   - Andrew Huberman   - Lewis Howes   - Gregg Braden   - Rich Roll   - Dr. Steven Gundry