Strikes My Fancy

Have you been in a relationship where you love the person but don't feel loved or understood by them? Maybe you both feel as though you are loving each other as hard as you can, but there's a disconnect? You probably aren't speaking each other's love language! Meg and I discuss effective communication, loving your partner the way they receive love, and what it looks like to be running on an empty love tank. Don't become a dry sponge, get that fulfilment you need out of your relationship. QUICK AND EASY LINKS TO EVERYTHING T-shirts and Hoodies Facebook Instagram Twitter TikTok Spotify Apple YouTube Send all inquiries to my email strikesmyfancypodcast@gmail.com

In this new mental health episode, I sit down with Cheryl, O'Connell, LPC and take a deep dive into depression- the types, the causes, how we can fight it, and how to help someone you love that's suffering with it. We talk about suicide and what you can do to prevent it. And we take a look at how Covid-19 has affected us and caused mental health issues in so many people who have never suffered from them before. This honest and open episode could save lives and provide ways to cope with the intense emotions enveloping the world we live in today. Please check it out if you or someone you know has struggled with feeling sad, hopeless, lost, or numb. Ways to Fight Depression Naturally You can find Cheryl at https://www.calmwaters.org/programs/counseling/ or https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/therapists/cheryl-a-oconnell-cumming-ga/229972 If you or someone you know if suffering from suicidal thoughts or behavior, contact the National Suicide Prevention Line by phone 800-273-8255 or online at https://suicidepreventionlifeline.org/ Or in Georgia, http://www.suicidehotlines.com/georgia.html You should reach out for help for yourself or a friend if you/they are experiencing: frequent mood swings or personality changes talking about death or dying purchasing a weapon increased substance use risky or dangerous behavior getting rid of belongings or giving away treasured possessions talking about feeling trapped or wanting a way out pushing people away or saying they want to be left alone saying goodbye with more feeling than usual If you think your friend is considering suicide, urge them to call their therapist while you’re with them or ask your friend if you can call for them. QUICK AND EASY LINKS TO EVERYTHING T-shirts and Hoodies Facebook Instagram Twitter TikTok Spotify Apple YouTube Send all inquiries to my email strikesmyfancypodcast@gmail.com

Are you ready to take that leap and commit? Or do you feel like you need some things clarified first? Meg and I have compiled a list of serious discussions you should have when you decide to settle down with someone. In the first part we discussed fighting styles, finances, and a lot of communication. In this part, we cover the other big six discussions. In this episode we discuss: In laws and setting boundaries to keep your marriage between the two of you Balancing work, hobbies, and your relationship Dividing up housework and responsibilities Whether or not you want kids/Infertility Religious and political differences What your deal breakers/relationship enders are Even if you've been together for a while, you may need to have conversations about some of these topics. Meg and I hep navigate these relationship bumps so that they don't become mountains. Create the strongest possible relationship that will withstand all the curveballs life throws at you. You can find Meg's podcast here. QUICK AND EASY LINKS TO EVERYTHING T-shirts and Hoodies Facebook Instagram Twitter TikTok Spotify Apple YouTube Send all inquiries to my email strikesmyfancypodcast@gmail.com

The Spooky Sisters are back to entertain you with frights and delights! We discuss two haunted locations, Stull Cemetery and The Stanley Hotel, and share real ghost encounters people have experienced in these places. Join the Strikes My Fancy Community for access to the photos mentioned in the episode. Have fun catching up with your favorite ghost girls and let me know if you've ever been to either of these locations! QUICK AND EASY LINKS TO EVERYTHING Merch Facebook Instagram Twitter TikTok Spotify Apple YouTube Send all inquiries to my email strikesmyfancypodcast@gmail.com

Have you ever woken up and couldn't move? Did you see ghostly figures coming toward you or even felt one sitting on your chest? In this episode we take a look at both the scientific and supernatural causes of sleep paralysis. We discuss some of the spooky creatures you might encounter during sleep paralysis, and I share stories of people who've suffered from sleep paralysis, sleep walking, and sleep talking. Ghosts, giggles, and ya girl Kaila- don't miss this episode! Sleep Paralysis Creatures Discussed: Night Hag Shadow Being Succubus/Incubus Sleep Talking Stories Celina - Spooky Boo QUICK AND EASY LINKS TO EVERYTHING Merch Facebook Instagram Twitter TikTok Spotify Apple YouTube Send all inquiries to my email strikesmyfancypodcast@gmail.com

What really happened to Elvis Presley? Did Hitler really commit suicide? Why do people think Avril is a robot? Nina and I wondered all of this and more, so we did all the research to understand how these conspiracies even came about. And you guys better be glad I did the Elvis research for you, because I lost three hours of my life on it.RESOURCES:Hitler Alive Wikipedia entryBest "Proof" Elvis Is AliveElvis Death TheoriesAn Interesting Video on Elvis' Reflection in the WindowArticle with Muhammed Ali photo, Jesse photo, and Preacher BobDr. Hinton Treats Elvis articleDr. Hinton Responding to Elvis Not Coming OutElvis in Home Alone?Paul Is Dead videoPaul Is Dead Wikipedia entrySargeant Pepper's Lonely Hearts Album CoverAbbey Road album cover articleQUICK AND EASY LINKS TO EVERYTHINGMerchFacebookInstagramTwitterTikTokSpotifyAppleYouTubeSend all inquiries to my email strikesmyfancypodcast@gmail.com 

So you're thinking about marrying the love of your life or committing to them in a significant way? Are you sure you've taken the time to address all the things that could cause marital bliss to become marital distress? Never fear! We have compiled a list of 12 discussions you need to have before saying I do to ensure that you are prepared to face marital struggles side by side and not butt heads. Joined by my friend Meg, we discuss the first six talking points in this episode in great detail and offer suggestions on how to resolve any issues that have arisen from not having these talks.In this episode we cover:how to communicate your needs in and out of the bedroomdiscussing and setting your boundaries and expectations within marriagediscussing and managing your quality time needs within your relationship, including alone time, together time, and time with friends.discussing your issues due to your childhood, past relationships, and uncontrollable circumstances that may affect how you act within a partnership.fighting styles and what is and isn't allowed within your relationshipfinances, spending habits, and working together to eliminate financial stressThis episode is valuable even if you've been married for a while. It can help you initiate these conversations so you can fix difficult areas in your existing marriage/partnership. We do recognize that everyone's situation and relationships are different, and that may make these discussions look different for you. But we hope that you find this episode helpful in resolving any struggles you may be facing and while our discussions are centered around a marriage, we know that serious relationships do not require a marriage license to be official, and that these discussions can be beneficial regardless. You can find Meg's podcast here.QUICK AND EASY LINKS TO EVERYTHINGFacebookInstagramTwitterTikTokSpotifyAppleYouTubeSend all inquiries to my email strikesmyfancypodcast@gmail.com

Have you heard the Jon Benet Ramsey case in its entirety? I present the case to my true crime novice of a husband who has never even heard of Jon Benet, and we discuss who the killer could be based on all of the evidence and theories. Was it the former beauty queen mother who flew off the handle due to bedwetting? Or maybe the little brother because she ate his pineapple? Or was it former teacher who was sexually obsessed with her and confessed to her murder? Oh yes. It gets WEIRD. Listen now and discuss your theories with us on the social media of your choosing. RESOURCES:Top 8 SuspectsDocumentary Jon Benet Ramsey: What Really Happened follows former Investigator Smit's opinion that the murder was the work of an intruder.Housekeeper TheoryBurke's Proof of InnocenceBurke's Interview with Dr. PhilQUICK AND EASY LINKS TO EVERYTHINGFacebookInstagramTwitterTikTokSpotifyAppleYouTubeSend all inquiries to my email strikesmyfancypodcast@gmail.com   

If you're like me, curious about astrology but never could understand how it all worked, then wonder no more! In this episode, I lay out the basics of your birth chart- what it is, what makes it up, and how to read and understand it- all in plain English. Your birth chart is more than just your sun sign and if you've ever felt like you didn't relate to your zodiac sign, well that's probably because you only looked at one tiny corner of your birth chart. Let me be your guide to understanding astrology and the special part you play in this collective of souls among the stars. Find your birth chart here.Check out this easy to understand astrology book.

Down the rabbit hole we go, launching into our first episode of the conspiracy theory series! I'm joined by Nina, by permanent cohost for this series, as we dive into our research to find out just how Facebook puts all those incredibly specific ads on your newsfeed. Does Amazon's Alexa listen in on your conversations? Is Google tracking your searches and your location? What we found was even more terrifying than the answers to all of that. The real question is: if these sites are free, then what or WHO is the product? Listen to find out!Sources:Watch The Social Dilemma on Netflix for information about how these sites make money.Duckduckgo.com is an unbiased, private search engine.Ted Talk by Eli PariserAdam Ruins FacebookGoogle's Ad TrackingGoogle's History of YOUUSA Today article about how Google uses location data to track usFacebook Knows You Better Than You Know Yourself: Studies Done to Prove It 

Starting off 2021 with a fresh question from my mind- where do we go when we dream? Come explore with me as I dive into what dreaming is, different types of dreams, and whether or not we travel to alternate worlds when dream. Buckle up, babes, it's a wild ride! Read about the alternate universes here

You ever wonder why we decorate a Christmas tree? Or where that romantic (or creepy) tradition of kissing under the mistletoe came from? Well I sure did, so I thought I'd do the research for you. My usually Spooky Sister Rachel joins me for an episode of learning where our Christmas traditions came from and discussing our favorite ones. Merry Christmas and Happy Holidays to each of you!

Two of my favorite things crossover today in this Christmassy paranormal episode about St. Nick's dark counterpart, Krampus. I'm joined by my dark counterpart, paranormal enthusiast Caleb Schadeck, host of The Paranormal Burrito. We talk about the legend of the goat demon himself, the 2015 film, Krampus cards, and even a few Krampus encounters. You better not miss this episode or you might find switches in your stocking on Christmas morning.To buy a Christmas card with Caleb's artwork and subsequently donate to the Brain and Behavior Research Foundation, click here.To donate to the Brain and Behavior Research Foundation directly, click here.

2020 has been a year full of unprecedented losses: from social lives, to divorce, and even death; humanity as a whole has lost so many things and we have been tossed headfirst into various stages of grief. When it feels like you are being pummeled by the waves of grief, how do you get up and catch your breath? How do you move forward and not drown? In the third installment of my mental health series, Ashley Nollenberger LPC sits down with me to outline grief: what it looks like, how to push through it, and how to start healing. You are not alone and its okay to not be okay.You can find Ashley at www.amncounseling.comGrief Resources:For a list of books on grief (including children's books to help them understand too) check out:https://nymag.com/strategist/article/best-books-grief.htmlAshley also recommends "It's Not Supposed to be This Way" by Lysa Terkeurst Websites for support groups, forums and chats:griefshare.orggrieving.comgriefincommon.com If you’re thinking about suicide, are worried about a friend or loved one, or would like emotional support, the Lifeline network is available 24/7 across the United States.1-800-273-8255

After a long dry period due to a broken computer, Strikes My Fancy is back with fresh content for your ears! Kaila and her husband Joe team up to bring you tipsy true tales of holiday humor and horror. Some stories were sent in by you, and others were collected from the recesses of the internet. But all are sure to entertain. Happy Holidays, and may your mishaps be minute this holiday season!

You guys voted on what Thought Bubble episode you wanted, and Unsolved Mysteries took the cake. So today I'm launching with an unsolved murder at the Hinterkaifeck Homestead. I'm sorry I was absent the last two weeks, but my computer was out of commission. But now I'm back and better than ever! Stay curious.

Kaila and Meg discuss the common traits and childhoods of serial killers, compare sociopaths versus psychopaths, and discuss five serial killer myths. To finish off this massive serial killer episode, they tell the tales of two lesser known and unique serial killers: Derrick Todd Lee and Nanny Doss the Giggling Granny.

Yes, Good Luck Sleeping fans! The Spooky Sisters are back to tell you ghost stories (and giggle all the way through them). We couldn't resurrect Good Luck Sleeping, and we explain why in this episode, but we CAN launch a paranormal series on Strikes My Fancy. And that's exactly what we've done. So sit back and relax as we tell you all new spooky stories just in time for Halloween.

In the second installment of the mental health series, I talk to Sarah Bennett, LCPC, to discuss the empath phenomenon and how narcissistic people seem drawn to empaths like energy vampires. We discuss what toxic behavior looks like and how to create healthy boundaries so you can stand your ground with the people who deserve it, but relax and trust the people who don't. It's the longest episode yet, but well worth your time.Sarah Bennett, LCPC is a counselor in Illinois and you find her online at https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/therapists/sarah-j-bennett-hanover-park-il/768059 as well as http://www.beautifulmindtherapy.com/

You heard from the ladies as we attempted to answer men's questions honestly. Now it's time to hear from the men...except you ladies had about double the amount of questions for them! So this edition of Chats is from a married man, TJ Withington of Pick Me! Podcast, answering long term relationship related questions to the best of his ability. It is the most honest and open discussion I may have ever had with the opposite gender. So grab a drink, settle in, and uncover all the secrets of the male sex.

It's time for another crazy conversation with your host, Kaila. I discuss the idea of twin flames, soulmates, and reincarnation- what they are, if I believe in them, and how to know if you've met yours. These are fascinating concepts that date back to 370 B.C. and inspire the hopeless romantic inside of us all.

In the follow up episode, I push through the craziest of the crazy Harry Potter fan theories with Jamie by side to enthusiastically poke holes in each one. The final theory that McGonagall is actually a Death Eater ignites her Hufflepuff fury and results in a 20 minute monologue about the virtues of Minerva McGonagall.

Launching the new Fandom series, I dive down the rabbit hole of crazy fan theories with my resident Hufflepuff and Harry Potter expert, Jamie, to pick apart the most ludicrous theories fans have concocted about the wizarding world. 

This year has been a doozy and a lot of people have found themselves struggling with anxiety like never before. In this episode, I interview a licensed professional counselor and ask her every question you could think of related to anxiety. We cover everything from what triggers anxiety to how you can cope. By the end of the episode you will have an entire toolkit to counteract your anxiety and take back control of your life.You can find Kim McMillan, LPC at damascusroadcounseling.com

Guys, we know we confuse the hell out of you. So in this episode I brought in one of my best girlfriends to try and shed some light on our most confusing qualities. We answer a host of questions collected from random men on the internet and attempt to explain our behavior. So buckle up and get ready for a lot of laughter and loads of answers!

In the debut episode of Strikes My Fancy, I discuss what the heck has happened in the year 2020 and whether or not we jumped into an alternate universe. Is it crazy? Absolutely. But hasn't this year been crazier?! Don't worry. I back everything up with science. Fall down the rabbit hole with me and dream of Alternate You living it up in another universe.